What to Say to Girls when Meeting Them (How to Flirt & Talk to Girls)

What to Say to Girls when Meeting Them (How to Flirt & Talk to Girls) - The Fearless Man

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8 жыл бұрын

WHAT you say to girls will always be secondary to your confidence, but here are some keys for how to flirt and talk to girls you're meeting for the first time. These will help you start conversations and avoid the friend zone with women you like. ... SUBSCRIBE ON KZfaq: bit.ly/SubscribetoFEARLESS
If you haven't watched the previous video, make sure to watch that first: 5 Keys to Start Conversations with Girls That Lead to Dates • 5 Keys to Start Conver...
FEARLESS founder Brian Begin gives tips for what to say and how to talk to girls you like when you're meeting them for the first time (on the street, in clubs or bars, at the grocery store, or anywhere else) - at FEARLESS, we don't like to tell guys what to say or talk about with women because you're confidence and authenticity - who you're being as a man and your vibe - matters so much more than what you're saying or talking about.
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Your vibe is what really gets women to like you or not...and it definitely makes the difference in whether they're actually ATTRACTED to you sexually or as "a friend."
But if you follow the steps in the video, your vibe will start to be more authentic, confident, and sexual, and girls will be much more likely to be attracted to you. See the related videos below to get an even better understanding of these things...then get out there and start talking to those girls you like!
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@TheFearlessMan 4 жыл бұрын

What’s the quickest way to improve your dating? Simple you need to discover a few things (1) what is it that you are doing that’s pushing women away (2) how do you self reject (3) how do women experience you? You’ll be surprised how such simple things make such a difference once you see that it’s not about attraction women, but rather what’s preventing your natural ability to attract the feminine? That’s exactly what we teach at Fearless live events - click below to learn more New York City - www.thefearlessman.com/live-nyc-yt Bucharest Romania - www.thefearlessman.com/live-buch-yt

@flamboyant0 4 жыл бұрын

@The Fearless Man your style is very Lance Mason like from Pickup 101

@RelMexLive 3 жыл бұрын

@@flamboyant0 is it a good thing

@506thparatrooper 3 жыл бұрын

One of my favorite phrases of yours is "beauty needs a witness." When you said to ask her to share something about herself, I realized many women went their inner beauty to be witnessed and appreciated too. Really thought provoking presentation. Thanks!

@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын

Very true. That phrase was actually coined by Zan. - Andrew, TFM

@5392Guitars5706 7 жыл бұрын

You forgot: "Only the confident really live"! ^^

@Joelmaquera 7 жыл бұрын

truer words were never spoken that day

@sunmfune 2 жыл бұрын

I have tried this on three women and it as worked Wonderfully. First thing I said something real about her something that I saw. And then I complimented her she smiled after which I asked her where she was from. She started sharing about her self. For the first time I had a conversation without thinking of what to say and when to say. And wasn't trying to win her or make a laugh. And the next thing I want to learn or master now is feeling her in my on body.

@ChrisRamirezOnlineDOTcom 7 жыл бұрын

Say thanks man. You help me understand better. I am 37 and just got of a bad relationship of 15 years and already been rejected twice bc im new in the game. Your incite i took the notes on the starting lines to use and i understand the genius behind it :) Thanks for the mouth piece lesson boss you rock

@Rendar83 6 жыл бұрын

Great vid, Brian. Always high value info

@danielghazari1096 3 жыл бұрын

Right on brother for real life advice.

@russsouza4336 5 жыл бұрын

Love your vidios Brian I'm. Learning feerless all the time .we actually have to reprogram ourselves

@deshoneverett3373 7 жыл бұрын

Very useful 🤘🏽

@Zacksleeps 7 жыл бұрын

I just wonder whether ''tell me about yourself'' is maybe a bit too formal like a job interview? Especially so early on in an interaction? I'd feel slightly awkward saying that which would , in turn, transfer awkwardness onto her through my sub communications, although I guess it could work for some guys. Also, im in the UK and it feels as though every aspect of pickup in teh early part of the interaction needs to be much more about banter here. (i'm taling about night game btw) Although im 'yet to master this skill! I'm never sure what questions to ask or playful statements to make. Anyway, i'm new to your stuff. I like it. Subscribed

@ferbogadoaSalirAJugar 4 жыл бұрын

I´m not afraid anymore, thank you

@sunmfune 2 жыл бұрын

Where was I all these years. I wish I new you earlier man❤

@lou.104 5 жыл бұрын

This is great man, loving your videos

@harrypottersucks12 4 жыл бұрын

Beedeeos

@pouyapargam5275 4 жыл бұрын

doing best,tnx

@Mokshamusic 6 жыл бұрын

Please go out there and PRACTICEEEEEEE !!!!

@chrisa2752 7 жыл бұрын

excellent

@windysun1015 2 жыл бұрын

Great video. I try to avoid asking super open ended questions. I feel like it throws the ball into her court and forces her to take the lead in the conversation. I like to ask more specific questions. For example if she has an interesting tattoo or piece of jewelry I ask her what the piece means to her. I've heard some interesting stories that way.

@suneilkumar 6 жыл бұрын

Great channel and great videos.

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Glad they resonate

@JeastonJeaston 8 жыл бұрын

this is such a good channel. I am amazed you don't have more subscribers. I would like to take your course some day when I have the money. thanks for what you do.

@TheFearlessMan 8 жыл бұрын

Thanks! We're building. Please share with friends or people you think it could help! And I look forward to meeting you - get The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson. That will help with your money reality.

@TheFearlessMan 8 жыл бұрын

I hope to meet you soon! Read or listen to "The Slight Edge" by Jeff Olson and go through some of my success playlist for help with your money reality: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ZtyedaeT1MjFp4E.html

@TheFearlessMan 8 жыл бұрын

Oops-just saw I already responded to this. Now you have an extra reminder if you haven't gotten the book yet ;)

@JeastonJeaston 8 жыл бұрын

+The Fearless Man thanks for the response! I'll have to check it out

@jeffmclowry 5 жыл бұрын

I’m getting Gainswave treatments, and the nurse doing it is and older woman I am really attracted too. When I met her I knew I wanted to make time with her. I hadn’t come across your videos yet, but I was halfway following what you are teaching. Of course this procedure is quite intimate, but on my second treatment I got her talking and smiling and laughing, with intense eye contact. And all I did was make her feel at ease and get her talking about her accomplishments. I’m 55 and she is 58, both in multi decade marriages, and we are in major flirt mode, and we love it. I want to take her to bed, and I can tell she’s at least imagining something beyond the office visit. I don’t give a shit about anyone’s sense or morality. I’ve been married for 35 long years, I’m ready to break off a piece of her KitKat bar and let it melt in my mouth. She’s a well seasoned MILF. Thanks for the best videos I have come across.

@koketsomokone2975 8 жыл бұрын

Have you made a video on what being grounded entails? Or is it simply just presence + sitting in the tension?

@TheFearlessMan 8 жыл бұрын

Adding to the list

@justlive4themoment 8 жыл бұрын

I fucking love this guy!!

@papetua 5 жыл бұрын

Open= feel emotions > Premise= acknowledgement, context > Evaluate= let her her share > ...

@christianlandmann9759 6 жыл бұрын

4:47 i thougth my brain freezed

@Onlyme2015 7 жыл бұрын

Does anyone whats the name of his shirt????????

@phasemitski3918 3 жыл бұрын

4:18 4:33 5:55 7:19

@addylupe5997 7 жыл бұрын

Okay, fair enough, this is good advice for a lot of cases. But what about in situations where the girl can't accurately be described as "beautiful", "pretty", or even "cute", but rather just "hot"? There's not really one aspect of her that attracted you can pick out and compliment (chest/ass aside lol). And you're not necessarily trying to get into a normal, longer term, or serious relationship, but just want to find a girl at a party or drinking establishment and have some fun/see where things go? I don't really think it will be well received if you say something like "Excuse me I know this is weird, but I just think you're so hot/sexy". Guess it depends what you're looking for.

@ledfootdude 5 жыл бұрын

If there is not anything you find attractive why would you want to go out with her? The point is to give a genuine complement that you FEEL, not what you THINK she wants to hear. Also, since most guys only care about looks, it's best if the complement is about who she is and not about her sexualized body parts (mouth, chest, butt).

@BrianLife 5 жыл бұрын

What would you do....if you were “Fearless”!

@Bugumir 7 жыл бұрын

Alright. So acting classes first, then try and pull off the confident stranger act with strabismus.

@yobaafett 7 жыл бұрын

Jesus Christ how the fuck have I hit this low?

@Blackbeard235 5 жыл бұрын

Hmm you cant really tell someone what to say You have to feel out the situation I feel like somtimes it really doesnt make sense to ask her “so tell me about yourself”

@rippedup4546 3 жыл бұрын

It’s not tell me about yourself. It’s, “tell me something interesting about yourself.” Very different.

@abhashsrivastava7925 6 жыл бұрын

at 05:03 , was the pause a bit exaggerated?

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Not necessarily. If you can handle that tension, it can be a lot of fun to extend it a little

@bornwithoutconsentobviously 8 жыл бұрын

is this all about getting a woman into bed or also for relationships?

@TheFearlessMan 8 жыл бұрын

Both

@azdjedi 8 жыл бұрын

I like the idea of "words don't matter, it's attitude that does." My question is about the acknowledgment. What if it's genuinely about something more sexual than her hair. What if I love her figure or breasts?

@DrinkmoWater. 8 жыл бұрын

"Excuse me, this is really weird but i saw that wonderful titty fro... *Smile from over there by the fountain.."

@reoferha3118 2 жыл бұрын

SO TELL ME SOMETHING ABOUT YOURSELF

@TheTiger881 7 жыл бұрын

It looks like for the most part you subscribe to the London model?

@vasiliskarkalas 6 жыл бұрын

Wow! I'll do that shit

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Hope to meet you at an event! www.thefearlessman.com/events

@rippedup4546 3 жыл бұрын

How did it work for you?

@be.perfect 5 жыл бұрын

"what's something interesting about yourself" ?!! 😝 I wish this was a possible question to ask, but have you ever had an interesting answer after asking that to a woman ? 😂 they always freeze and say I don't know many things yeah many things well I don't know lol haha héhéh well so many things I can't choose lol hehe haha and you ? 😑

@TheFearlessMan 5 жыл бұрын

It's about your energy. If you ask while grounded, turned on, and being penetrating, you'll get a very different response. Poke around the channel and my more recent videos a bit

@be.perfect 5 жыл бұрын

@@TheFearlessMan I poke I poke, very interesting stuff 👌

@be.perfect 5 жыл бұрын

@@TheFearlessMan Thx, yes your content is very interesting, lol Matthew Hussey just gave you money (ad before your video!). Anyway I was wondering, have you ever done a video on how to approach a woman when you're both walking in the street? This seems not easy and yet a very common time to see someone you like 😮 Thx !

@drksimi3 6 жыл бұрын

Im introvert..not work for me 😀

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Introverted means you get your energy - you get recharged - from spending time by yourself. That doesn't mean you can't be outgoing as well. You just need to take care of your alone time

@kuur3137 6 жыл бұрын

The Fearless Man how to take care of your alone time then?

@HonestStricklandFan 3 жыл бұрын

Excuses, excuses, excuses

@captaininsano8736 7 жыл бұрын

Rather mastur bate to hentaai bruh

@harrypottersucks12 4 жыл бұрын

I can smell this comment

@jillybean6604 5 жыл бұрын

spock ears.

@aventadorferrari4652 5 жыл бұрын

Forget girls bro, eat something !! You need it ;)

@chrisbova9686 7 жыл бұрын

Id feel bizarre telling women any of this.

@TheFearlessMan 7 жыл бұрын

It's been the better part of a year since I recorded this - what exactly would you feel bizarre telling women?

@AcidAlexx 6 жыл бұрын

And thats exactly why youre watching this video since what isnt bizarre to you, is not working.

@papito7757 7 жыл бұрын

this is overthinking talking to women. they arent that non receptive. they also love to have sex. all u have to be is tranquilo and have humor. they dont need to be hypnotized or skated around. just be normal.

@kuur3137 6 жыл бұрын

papito7757 what if you not a funny guy?

@blacksamurai6038 5 жыл бұрын

So basically keep it simple