5 secrets your manager doesn't want you to know!

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@LeadershipwithMike 8 ай бұрын

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@edthelazyboy 10 ай бұрын

About #5: There is no safe place at work at all. Of course not with your manager, but also not with your colleagues either. The only safe place is away from work with your family or your friends OUTSIDE of work.

@LeadershipwithMike 10 ай бұрын

EXACTLY

@davidnelson7719 Ай бұрын

As a pessimist... you are jaded. You are wrong. You are wrong because you have forgotten that... "it depends."

@BillClinton228 Ай бұрын

Even if you think your colleagues are friendly they will throw you under the bus and try to get you fired in a second. Every office is a crabs in a bucket situation.

@Josh-nj1gw 7 күн бұрын

They only worry about safety if they're about to be inspected. Other than that they will absolutely put your safety at risk especially if production means commission

@eowy3489 10 ай бұрын

Do not share too much with people at work ! Because the person could stab you in the back ! Your boss is not your friend

@Hotboxinthemorning 2 ай бұрын

One of my bosses asked me the other day if I thought he was cool after a few shifts working for him I said “ your my boss man i like your way of managing things but your my boss we’ll never be friends “

@Overtonl1234 Жыл бұрын

I just keep my head down and work- I don’t share business or bring my personal business into anything. I find that to be the best way. I think I learned the hard way not to bring personal business to work in my late 20s and have been that way ever since.

@DavidBurkus 2 жыл бұрын

This is so applicable to life itself. So much of growing up is realizing that the adults in your life were making it up as they go along.

@LeadershipwithMike 2 жыл бұрын

Right? I’m baffled every day by the people I used to think had it all together lol.

@Clevelandsteamer324 27 күн бұрын

No one knows what they are doing

@Josh-nj1gw 7 күн бұрын

The most satisfying thing is when you have a boss that dont have a clue how to do what you're doing is to say. "Oh ok,can you show me?" Then watch how many excuses they have,watch them have a meltdown and they'll go tell their higher up they cant work with you even though they haven't done any actual work at all

@BeautifulDreamerK Жыл бұрын

When my boss asks me to do something (after giving his big spiel on why I would be GREAT at it), I do it but nothing comes out of it. I don’t get advocated but someone else mediocre does. I don’t need constant praise but I feel like I’m putting in work but not getting any value from it.

@miestervjyl534 9 ай бұрын

I feel you man

@ClutchSituation 7 ай бұрын

This is why your boss is a manager, not a leader. My regrets to you.

@Misteranderson123 5 ай бұрын

We are literally the same person. My hearts been ripped out of my chest.

@Cat-sx6ep 9 күн бұрын

I understand the sentiment. Trusting no one, not even HR, is a stance some take. If I request a raise and it's denied despite my hard work, I begin searching for new opportunities. I am determined to find a position that will work in my favor.

@vikastiwari6780 7 ай бұрын

Don't share your plans with managers... Because 90 % manager don't like.. Do work and go home.. Don't share your career strategy and future targets company.

@ResilientFighter 10 ай бұрын

2. theres favoritism. U give favoritism to those that help you succed and get job done. You will prioritize people that will not complain and bring up problems. 3. Your boss is not the boss, the person who owns the business is the boss. They are doing whatever their boss says 4. They can lie to your face. They will say i do not know because they have a boss 5. There is no such thing as a safe place. NEVER EVER LET YOUR GUARD DOWN.

@HistoryInvestigators Жыл бұрын

My boss definitely has favorites. You can when someone walks through the door if she gets excited to see them or has a blank face with a monotone. "Hi." I get the blank face and "hi" versus my coworker "Ohhh HI Seth how are you???"

@timbmd 9 ай бұрын

I printed a resume wanting to quit. My supervisor told me to stay stating I do not see a big picture of the company's progress. A week later she was forced to take voluntary resignation! So she lied not only to me but also to herself.

@mariamindful6510 Жыл бұрын

This is super accurate. I recently had a managerial question and on the same day I asked 4 different managers and got four different answers, and ofc, none of them said, I'm really not sure, tho. 🙄

@izabelazajac6182 9 ай бұрын

100% true. I see it every day in my work place. And a lot of times people are promoted just because they now someone higher. Even thou they just started working.

@alexandrasantos4648 Жыл бұрын

That's all True. That's why, especially at work, we should all have emotional intelligence and separate professional from personal matters. Even though, in same cases, it goes hand in hand. In a work place, everybody is looking for their best interesting, so are we. But we have to be smart enough, and be more aware our work environment: "Listen more Speak less" and I guarantee that you'll be surprise to know "who is who". But again don't fall in to the trap of, on the first impression, cause "nothing is what it seems like".

@dieglhix Жыл бұрын

I read art of being prudent (from the 1500s) and now I understand all of this. Also Art of War.

@onlyallegra 11 ай бұрын

If I had a dollar for every time my manager lied to me or about me, I could pay them to stay home.

@chiakeesame972 10 ай бұрын

There are no safe places. 👍👍👍

@rociosanchez2895 10 ай бұрын

The Boss has Favorites! 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀

@saifuddinsaid2510 9 ай бұрын

I am thankful that I am one of my boss favourites.. he promotes me and increases my salary because he knows I have helped her alot

@Meeffoc 4 ай бұрын

Favourites are the boot lickers that would do whatever you ask, right or wrong without questioning you.

@mrmissextraordinairefeb2016 Жыл бұрын

This is very real and truthful!

@sarahaladdin6255 Ай бұрын

Secret #4 applies to each and every manager I have ever worked with

@Clevelandsteamer324 27 күн бұрын

No one at work is your friend. They are co-workers

@Italianized_ 8 ай бұрын

Thumbs up! Well said, Mike!

@LeadershipwithMike 8 ай бұрын

Thank you sir.

@davibaby89 3 ай бұрын

New subscriber. Going through some work stuff and found your video. This videois the TRUTH.

@LeadershipwithMike 3 ай бұрын

Welcome 🤗

@brandoblack3732 Жыл бұрын

A w2 job will never give you the life you dream of

@luigimastrangelo2837 9 ай бұрын

Your a great guy I love your advice and the job I just quit I can see and kept my ideas and opinions to myself because at the end they do lie 100% and they love to judge and act like there so smart

@anonymous2010ism 7 ай бұрын

I just found your channel, Thank You , you have no idea how much you have helped me 👍

@LeadershipwithMike 7 ай бұрын

Welcome 🤗

@thecrazymuzician1 Жыл бұрын

Great video! You are a great speaker thank you

@LeadershipwithMike Жыл бұрын

Thank YOU

@Kreadus005 6 ай бұрын

Well, that's a horrible set of secrets. Thanks for the reality check. Hard to stay positive after hearing that.

@LeadershipwithMike 6 ай бұрын

It’s better to know them and act accordingly 👍🏻

@Kreadus005 6 ай бұрын

True. The response should probably be to have stronger unions and change constructive dismissal laws to heavily favor the employee so that leverage and power isn't abused. And leave environments where they feel they must lie and manipulate, quickly.

@brunswickboy22 Жыл бұрын

Mike - when I started watching your vid I immediately thought "oh boy, another loudmouth on KZfaq...". BUT, you are 100% correct. Absolutely on-point. As a manager of 10 years, I can say that each point is crystal. Kudos.

@LeadershipwithMike Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this. And if I’m honest, I probably am another loud mouth lol

@bronwynhanford9424 2 жыл бұрын

I know that there is no safe place. I also know that my ex boss has lied to me.

@luigimastrangelo2837 9 ай бұрын

Your the best you think like me I also work for the airport UPS loading trucks they respect me there better than other paces inbeem

@Clevelandsteamer324 27 күн бұрын

6:42 never lose your masculine frame

@aggelosn.6846 Жыл бұрын

this is so damn true! great video!

@LeadershipwithMike Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@jarnoahola9543 2 жыл бұрын

All of this is 100% true

@luigimastrangelo2837 9 ай бұрын

What you say is all true I see it it’s too hard for me to trust managers to tell them my life story or ideas and favourites some managers you can see or read through them like a book and know who there favourites are all they want is someone like me that can do a certain things no questions asked and just get it done but once it comes down to learning and doing more they don’t help you back sometimes it’s because they the manager doesn’t want to make a bad impression to the owner that’s what I see and that’s what’s true agree with you and my ideas

@ismaelhall3990 7 ай бұрын

Never trust anybody.

@kdlofty Жыл бұрын

Of course bosses have favourites (same as everybody else) and it's normally pretty damn obvious.

@theresacoleman6366 3 ай бұрын

I was let go because of my disability, I wasn't allowed a dinner breaksnd my co-worker keeps disappearing from the floor leaving me with all of the work on the unit. She would take an hour to 1.5 hour the majority of the time I wasn't allowed one

@MalleusDei275 3 ай бұрын

We refer to our supervisor to as the Head Administrator

@MalleusDei275 3 ай бұрын

...lol, The best administrator we've ever had...

@therealslimshaddy93 8 ай бұрын

They guess how work needs to be done also and not have a clue. Fake it till you make it.

@Josh-nj1gw 7 күн бұрын

They THINK they're ahead cause they read books and passed a couple tests. So they think even if you been doing it 15 years they don't like to hear they're wrong. So I just do it my way

@izabelazajac6182 9 ай бұрын

Also I'm go to girl for manager to get the job done.When I asked her why I am the only employee to be working on all the projects when other supervisors of their departments have the same skills she told me that she knows I am capable of doing this and other people give her an attitude. That is nice to be recognized for your skills but why should I be overburdened with more projects due to manager's lack of skill to manage other employee?Any idea how I should stand up for myself without risking to be undermined at work.

@josiasglenn7 2 жыл бұрын

Where your favorites promoted when the time came?

@juststoppingby1602 3 ай бұрын

I absolutely hated the lying so much. It was like I missed a memo on a day off that managers and supervisors should play games like that. All the "management wants you to do x". We all know who "management" really is. Why hide behind a faceless name? Another one they played was "Bob wants it done by COB". Bob doesn't even know that this task was even being done. I understand that the game had to be played, but I hated every moment of that game. I left to greener pastures.

@corinabryant4764 11 ай бұрын

Mine told me that I don't have all the information in my yearly review. I didn't know how to take that. I hope there was no ill will behind it. Any suggestions?

@steffidas4785 5 ай бұрын

Sometimes no matter what you do it won't matter because the person sitting across or above are never ever objective about what is to be done so you are basically dealing with a high functioning selfish sociopath the only way you can handle them is by minimum response to non sense

@steffidas4785 5 ай бұрын

And mostly it's not even about making people on their side vouch for them it actually shows they truly lack normal people understanding✌️

@benscott6826 Жыл бұрын

My bosses favorites snitch and kiss ass. It’s toxic. I’m sooo happy I’m leaving

@WebSolomon 2 ай бұрын

Come Culver's Prescott valley

@dinapantea6259 Жыл бұрын

Is a momth that im not working at all and i feel like my manager is just lying to me. Not telling me the reason why. Im strugling eoth money.

@SPRest03 Жыл бұрын

Why is my manager saying I’m acting different when I know I’m been acting the same.

@marykitheka8237 Жыл бұрын

😩😂

@loveandparty4118 10 ай бұрын

I remember that the boss would promote all the meanest people as well as the prettiest girls and tell the girls how pretty they were. Then they would disagree with everything the males would say then agree afterwards. I don't really trust anyone in a corporation anymore.

@Hotboxinthemorning 2 ай бұрын

I don’t speak unless spoken to or it’s about a topic I know about

@aishdesai 10 ай бұрын

Insecurities = Management Leader

@LindseyHebert-vw9kb 11 ай бұрын

My manager thinks he is the boss but my supervisor is the store manager and she has a boss

@user-gp6uk9dd8u Ай бұрын

One thing I know about manager, they are not the owner of the company. They are JUST another employee who get paid for somehow for things they don't know about.

@MXxDCxRIDERxMX 29 күн бұрын

I’m glad you don’t get paid for your typing skills

@MXxDCxRIDERxMX 29 күн бұрын

This guy definitely sucks off his boss

@desireebryant9523 8 ай бұрын

I was at a great job nice employees a general manager that came in singing and making jokes every morning and speaking to EVERYONE …until he got fired for sexual misconduct 😢😢😢…. I’m still mad 😡 but now we have a self centered small man that’s loves to get his ass kissed, sorry I wasn’t hired for that so needless to say I’m looking for something else I was hoping I would retire from here but it’s not going to happen. He also bragged to another employee that he has a great track record on letting people go. Isn’t that some nasty 🤬

@ManAmbitious 3 ай бұрын

Manager always tells me “ you need to work on your communication skills’ but I truly belive I have good communication skills. Is this way for managers to kick the can and delay promotion by giving this vague feedback?

@LeadershipwithMike 3 ай бұрын

Thank them for the feedback. Ask for specific examples. Ask them what getting better would look like to them

@courtneicey15 19 күн бұрын

@@LeadershipwithMikewhat if you ask those things but they can’t define their expectations?

@Cdictator 2 жыл бұрын

How to handle a boss who always pushes

@LeadershipwithMike 2 жыл бұрын

You mean physically pushes you are asks you to do more work?

@Cdictator 2 жыл бұрын

@@LeadershipwithMike pushy for more and more work

@pvtruestmusic 4 ай бұрын

cried today at work , what should i do moving forward ? LOL

@Trashy. 10 ай бұрын

Even the CEO, if not the owner. Isn't the real boss.

@LeadershipwithMike 10 ай бұрын

Ya. That’s a funny thing. I always saw our station manager as the big boss… until corporate came to visit. Then I saw he was a peasant like the rest of us lol

@Ddeath.Eaterr 10 ай бұрын

Liars!!! Story time🤣 I’m a social media mgr at my job right? They were short staffed on front desk (we used to have 4 receptionist and we were down to 1). So they offered me more hours and cross trained me. Cool I QUICKLY became overwhelmed & burnt out bc lack of support and more workload bc I was doing 2 jobs. Well I was very vocal about being unhappy, overwhelmed, burnt out. They kept promising me everyday “we’re hiring for another receptionist!!” Month later 2 managers put in they two weeks. One day, One of them pulled up our website on the computer to the CAREERS section and laughed about how soon her position was posted. I looked at the screen and saw both the manager positions but no receptionist postings. I said “where are the receptionist postings???” Everybody was quiet. That’s when I knew. 😂😂😂

@LeadershipwithMike 10 ай бұрын

Wow. They did you dirty!

@TattyDarling Ай бұрын

Holy moly…this happened to me!!! I’m a nurse who is now a fully trained admin as well! Did I get paid for both roles? No.

@marcerebaptiste 2 жыл бұрын

People crying in the manager's office is a real red flag for me. Maybe be I am old school, but crying in front of your manager for work reasons is not admissible for me. And yes, there is no safe place, none. A friend was protesting (against anti-vax) the other day and got 2 weeks suspensions from work.

@jasonreimer9769 Жыл бұрын

not real crying, it's just the new stupid word for complaining

@marcerebaptiste Жыл бұрын

@@jasonreimer9769 oh you were there too?

@solidcatink 7 ай бұрын

What if your boss is so mean in the moment that it makes you cry?

@Kreadus005 6 ай бұрын

Probably a red flag for anyone looking to work there too..

@blameekatoneikosipente482 Ай бұрын

I am not sure if employers bleed red though! Maybe they should give us some proof 😊

@asdf9C 3 ай бұрын

most bosses are total buttholes in my personal experience. Most of them have documented psychopathic traits. There are exceptions though of course.

@WebSolomon 2 ай бұрын

Haw are u from az

@LeadershipwithMike 2 ай бұрын

Nope. Canada 🇨🇦

@Lombarski 2 жыл бұрын

You just gave away all my secrets. Especially the educated guess part. I hope none of my reports watch this video. Can you do a video about performance documentation? What information do you document for each employee during the year for annual performance reviews? Do you write in notebook, electronic notes? What is the best app to use for this, MS Word?

@LeadershipwithMike 2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha…. Shhhh 🤫

@user77654 6 ай бұрын

Wow I want my 8 minutes back

@LeadershipwithMike 6 ай бұрын

Sorry… we have a 0% return policy.

@LuckyOuijaBoy17 Жыл бұрын

Yeah….not doing ANYTHING extra without extra pay or recognition IDGAD about what “friends” do 😂 so weird how these older privileged bosses just expect it lol insane