5 Sexy Things Men LOVE to Hear in Bed!

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Want to make a man melt during sex? Here are some super-hot things men are dying to hear from you in bed... but are afraid to ask for!
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What do I say to a guy in bed? What to men like to hear during sex? What turns a man on when you're in bed with him? I have gotten a lot of questions about this from my clients and students over the years... so I created a video sharing 5 hot phrases that will make any man go WILD during physical intimacy! Try them out and let us know how it goes in the comments ;)
TIMELINE
01:47 - Rules for Communicating: Specifics are hot for men
02:06 - Rules for Communicating: We are invested on how you feel
02:25 - Rules for Communicating: You are leading by example
03:18 - 1. How turned on you are
04:37 - 2. How good what they're doing feels
05:52 - 3. Specific instructions
07:43 - 4. Asking for his body
10:11 - 5. Authentic moaning and nonverbal expression
12:19 - Bonus Tip
13:40 - Recap
16:44 - Outro
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@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

❤️ JOIN MY FREE LOVE COURSE STARTING SOON! - masteryofconnection.com ❤️ QUESTION OF THE DAY - What are your favorite man melting dirty phrases you like to hear in bed? 🔥

@ginaonyemaechi4830 2 жыл бұрын

Why don't you pin this comment, Mr S? 😀

@sonjacampbell1969 2 жыл бұрын

Looking to see you

@TerresaOxentenko 2 жыл бұрын

🙉

@suezaccone5841 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your input. Since ive been raped in my past and childhood i had issues with sex and doing things to a man and visa versa. Now finally im with a man who WON'T hurt me or rape me and i do so want to please him and also get pleasure from him. How tho can i stop having flashbacks when he does certain things to me like pat or touch my butt which is a hugh trigger for me.

@rosichard 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for such an open topic. Every woman should listen

@authenticlife2223 Жыл бұрын

A woman will only respond like this when a man is a giver! A selfish partner is a huge turn off!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Great point!

@dorisimisa5620 Жыл бұрын

Hehehe why are you shouting 😂😹

@ariesfire2690 Жыл бұрын

💯💯

@Janet1975 Жыл бұрын

100%!

@josielopez7242 Жыл бұрын

True

@footyfan101ful Жыл бұрын

Using these tips when my dream man comes into my life. A man moaning during sex is such a turn on.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Amazing! love hearing that!

@artemis2520 Жыл бұрын

Agreed. Period.

@ramonaneyrinck2292 Жыл бұрын

I love their primal sounds too!!

@laurajohnson9753 Жыл бұрын

Knowing that he is also into the moment is great! Silence is a killer.

@missmoon6204 Жыл бұрын

@@laurajohnson9753 Oh God yes, silence is a MAJOR turn off, especially during climaxing.

@MD-is3go Жыл бұрын

1. Specifics are hot for men! ( what turns you on and How turned on you feel, it raises the polarity) 2. Men are invested in how women feel ( share with him how you are feeling - men crave acknowledgement for their actions from women) 3. You lead by example, the way you communicate in vulnerability when in bed - give him instructions and requests, share your roadmap to pleasure, own your value) 4. Ask, beg for his body. eg ask for his lips, or lingam or beg for his come. Ask him for permission to do something, eg can I kiss you there? 5. Authentic moaning or other non verbal expressions (give yourself permission to express the pleasure you are feeling) Great tips ! Thank you very much! 🎉❤

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Many Thanks

@user-sk9is3rh3b Ай бұрын

True tht

@krystalsoto2365 Жыл бұрын

This is the best dating coach. Not lame ass advice or PG stuff. Real advice and seems genuine. I love how he discusses sexual and emotional intimacy.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.

@MsRamona7 Жыл бұрын

Sorry, what does PG stand for, please? Google was not helpful...

@alishaibrahim4902 11 ай бұрын

I assume it's parental guidance

@DJones476 9 ай бұрын

@@MsRamona7 It's a meme. It originates with movie ratings in the United States and Canada as follows: G general audiences PG parental guidance suggested PG-13 parents strongly cautioned R RESTRICTED - no unaccompanied minors NC-17 (formerly X) NO CHILDREN (17 and under) - no minors, period. In Canada: G same as U.S. PG same as U.S. 14A no one under fourteen unless accompanied by a responsible adult 18A same as U.S. 'R'. R same as U.S. 'NC-17', and occasionally features a small black or red crouched cougar silhouette logo with the word 'RESTRICTED'.

@cearrahill1742 Жыл бұрын

These are extremely accurate. Though, men also get conditioned to not make any sounds, since it’s seen as weak, or not masculine. Personally, I love hearing what I’m doing is affecting my man. I love it when he requests/demands me for things, and moans when he goes down on me, it has similar effects of women as well, plus it does show enthusiasm which makes me feel more connected to him, and more appreciated as well. I also love hearing how turned on I make him. So while these tips work for women, to do on men, it works for men to do on women as well.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing!

@seniorita3287 Жыл бұрын

I agree .a man needs to participate fully. If I can't see you, I want to atleast hear you

@ireneandrews6486 Жыл бұрын

Get to the point, too many dtaged out explinations🤔🤔🤩

@Deedee-oq8bn Жыл бұрын

I love when a man shows he likes it

@ichinihq 11 ай бұрын

@@seniorita3287YESS you said it!

@sandramadaris7814 Жыл бұрын

Yep, did all these with my late husband! 30 years together, 28 married. Sigh. Missing him every day!!!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

He is in a better place now, Be strong Sandra🤗

@mysunshine0063 Жыл бұрын

Same here Sandra. My late husband and I were married for 36 years. I did everything that was mentioned in this video and it did drive him wild.

@theresamorgan1033 Жыл бұрын

Married over 32+ yrs.. The big C took him. Now it's been 8 yrs!!! I'm getting back in the pool. Scared to death!!!!!! He says the phone sex is great! But I have one more area?lol. The place between the balls and back door entrance. That would make late hubby, explode!!!!! My tongue all over it. Just saying.

@sherrih6375 Жыл бұрын

I'm a widow too, and am praying for you.

@marialue9998 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! Thank you Mat for being so open and real about sexual intimacy. We, as humans, need more of this for happier healthier relationships with our partners. The happier we are in our intimate relationship the happier we are overall - the ripple affect…

@brEEnda72 Жыл бұрын

I had to read that again I could have swore it said, "nipple effect".

@monicasuyo1330 Жыл бұрын

OMG -dude, this was an extremely enjoyable video, I got so turn e d on, learned a few things and received validation for a few things so thank you very much - highly appreciated!

@monicasuyo1330 Жыл бұрын

I think I’ll be watching this video a f ew times!

@viola6928 Жыл бұрын

Wow! That’s what I say to him all the time even over the phone. This is not anything new to me.

@matildahnkulanga560 Жыл бұрын

Yeah that's true

@Spookylittleb2 Жыл бұрын

I already do all of these and was told by my dude mid act “the way you talk to me drives me wild” so these tips are true 😏

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Wow! I’m so happy for you my dear!

@jenniferdiaz4831 2 жыл бұрын

This is such a great episode. So true! Thanks for talking about what we need to hear.

@-cMc- Жыл бұрын

"Any man that is secure in himself " that's what's key

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

yessss❤️

@24carrots33 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. My man loves it when I "talk to him" in bed and I literally go silent in fear of saying something that will kill the mood. This is the video I needed!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

So glad my content supports you :)

@weekendnomad5038 Жыл бұрын

Lol I’m married and we started off as f buddies.. so after 2 years it all seems repetitive 😂 and I think the same that he will think I’m boring or I’ll kill the mood… but I also know his trigger words so idk..

@blueeyedfemale2176 Жыл бұрын

@24carrots33 Exactly the same for me!!

@timeswithamber5236 Жыл бұрын

I’ve been married 22 years and I’m here still wanting to please my husband 🥰

@ramonaneyrinck2292 Жыл бұрын

I love that he calls it “talk to him” so sweet and connected!!

@clarasimonis2994 Жыл бұрын

Yes, let your sound out, sometimes it’s emotional release and healing and you will feel better forever, I remember a partner who reopened my hips after shutting down after a heartbreak and I cried a lot and it was a huge physical and emotional breakthrough. I got him whimpering shaking and crying once as well years later and he was so happy with whatever it released

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

It’s 100% possible to heal and create something new❤️

@SeekingGod77 Жыл бұрын

Reopen the hips 😂

@user-cv3eb4jh7k 4 ай бұрын

reopened the hips? what?

@jenifernadeau 2 ай бұрын

since we are energetic beings we typically have blocked chakra centers. Especially the sacral & the heart chakra.. any repressed or unaddressed emotions can do that, and any not loving of our own bodies and not honoring and respecting it first and foremost... treating it well and spoiling it... can only bring in someone who does the same. Like attracts like.

@vloggerGirl250 Жыл бұрын

You're single and You're watching this video like me!!? Like, single matters

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Welcome!

@tarilauer1818 3 ай бұрын

Well I have to definitely 100% agree with the girl who just commented on why does being single matter it doesn't it's so much better by yourself at least that's my perception of what her comment meant and I could be wrong but you know what majority of men out there they're not givers but they're definitely takers the main focus is getting off even if it's neglecting their partner the select handful of men I found in my lifetime that acted as if that's what they loved ultimately loved and that was their first priority before themselves that my dear is true they were exactly like that but you know what the hardest most excruciating pain in a relationship is from intimacy and lack of when touch human

@tarilauer1818 3 ай бұрын

I was not done yet I'll make this quick when you get in a relationship with someone who has met you in a state of constant trauma and sexual abuse and physical abuse and knows everything you've been through and they use à tool àl or a weapon of mass destruction that's exactly what it is you have not done to me what everyone else has done to me in my lifetime and the things you said you never do you did you took away my feeling of safety which I value so much security love and belonging which is all a lie I valued all of that and you used it to break me down to nothing but guess what I forgave you for that in case one of your ex's send this to you I forgive you I'm actually able to move forward right now on that part because I'm so tired of looking at KZfaq and saying nothing but stuff a narcissist and it's deceiving and it's sitting and it has everyone who looks at it wondering if she one is he one am I one I do that she does that who's who can à I actually started looking at what they were saying and said my God that's me in many ways but not because I'm a narcissist mind you it's because of childhood tramaanyways the whole point I was trying to make I've had the most mind-blowing or shaking orgasms I've ever had in my entire life by myself 1 because I didn't have to feel insecure or be someone I wasn't for someone else to love me or look different for someone because they're in the p*** and you have to look like that God forbid for them to want you know doing it by yourself is probably the most amazing sex you could ever have know if I could find a guy who actually cared about my feelings and didn't know a damn thing about me he's the one he will be the one the one who knows nothing about me but who cares about me first before p himself and he is definitely a keeper and what's funny is I am one of the most open-minded women a man could find and I believe they find it intimidating as hell hey I'm willing to have a threesome here and there I'm willing to get wild and crazy and do things that you would never think I'm capable of I like to watch p*** too I'd rather watch it with my man than by myself though locked in a room

@MsDivineSassy 2 жыл бұрын

I luv how you keep it real in the bedroom - straight from the man’s point of view- you are so awesome Mat ♥️

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

yasss you gotta keep it real in the bedroom!

@ImranKhan-tj3dr Жыл бұрын

I m New in here looking 👧👧💗💗😍😍❤🌷🌷

@PhilipJames-hx3gp 11 ай бұрын

hi 👋 pretty lady how are you doing

@Dana-oo9kp Жыл бұрын

Was looking for the comments summary so here it is… 5 sexy things he wants to hear during intimacy: 1. How turned on you are - how you feel it and where you feel (he’s not a mind reader so let him know) 2. How good what he’s doing feels to you (give him acknowledgement for his actions and you’ll get more of what you like) 3. Give him specific instructions and requests (because men like structure but also aim to please) 4. Ask/“beg” him for his body - make him feel desired by letting him know which part of his body would feel great 5. Authentic sound or non verbal expression of your pleasure Bonus: Make noise or moan when you’re giving him oral sex To be effective when communicating this: 1. Be specific- the more specific, the better 2. Share your feelings so he can make you happy 3. Lead by example with your vulnerability - opens the door for him to share also -- ** But definitely watch this video for specific examples of what to say for each thing and why it is effective. **

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@seniorita3287 Жыл бұрын

Ain't the guy suppose to moan getting head? Women moan when getting oral, you should to.

@ethelsibanda Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@crystalthow5533 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for editing

@laurahero8778 Жыл бұрын

FINALLY! Real, knowledgeable and useful information that are almost like instructions towards a reasonably PG couple who are still in the innocent stage of their sexual journey. Regards!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

YESSS you got it my dear!! so glad this supported you🙂

@tommac21 Жыл бұрын

No its not hes soeaking for himself. We dont love these things. I dont know where he made this stuff up. Never give instructions

@krumpnplies5686 10 ай бұрын

Thanks for being straightforward and real. Great tips and advice! I’m glad I’m doing this! More on this subject would be even better!😊

@Mat_Shaffer 10 ай бұрын

Great suggestion!

@bernardette486 2 жыл бұрын

Great content Mat 👌 keep them coming for valentines day 👍 👏 😀

@zahararay5611 2 жыл бұрын

This entire video made me ‘blush’ 😂, I clearly have a lot of work to do.

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

You can do it! Haha you got this :)

@zahararay5611 2 жыл бұрын

@@Mat_Shaffer Mat!! It feels Great getting a response from you. Thank you! Well I look forward to practicing when I find that awesome, committed, relationship!

@kumral76 Жыл бұрын

Yah same here, 🤭 talking so specific like this doesn't sound sexy to me but I guess they do!🤣

@crystalthow5533 Жыл бұрын

Its never too late to start my luv! Start now ;)

@DEsha29 4 ай бұрын

😂Omg me too

@ericaromero4202 Жыл бұрын

This was so helpful! I have wondered what things I might do better with my partner and this was nicely explained without being coarse or crude. I’m going to start implementing these tips. Thanks Mat!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! You're welcome! ❤❤❤

@user-of6dv6lh3l 6 ай бұрын

@lauriesimonds9229 2 жыл бұрын

Great video Mat (as always) - kudos for the video clips of Aladdin & When Harry Met Sally 😄

@theresamorgan1033 Жыл бұрын

These videos are great to know about. My late hubby showed me show much.But I wanted to please him. Boy did he return the favor.😊 Women were told sex was evil and just for baby making. Now we can enjoy it as much as they do!! It draws you closer as a couple especially verb communication.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Awww! So happy for you, beautiful!

@maryannkeenan851 9 ай бұрын

Those stuff were given naturally when we're with the person we love 😊 Thank you for the pointers, appreciated it 😊

@Mat_Shaffer 9 ай бұрын

You’re welcome 😊

@rockinrver7414 2 жыл бұрын

Damnit! I was watching this at work on my lunch break and Meg Ryan's movie groaning came on! I about threw my phone!!! 😂 I'm so embarrassed.

@ernikaflower7654 2 жыл бұрын

Haha and i watching it now in office lucky me..i am using head set if not...haha will be same with you 😀😀

@rockinrver7414 2 жыл бұрын

@@ernikaflower7654 least you're smart enough to use a headset. Good work. Lol

@aidaforalan1744 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@chelseajackman7730 2 жыл бұрын

Oh rip 😂

@mara11333 2 жыл бұрын

😅😅😂😂🤣

@Rottimail Жыл бұрын

Matt is absolutely correct! I did all the items on the list and when I saw the guy four days later he still had a gigantic smile on his face when he came and talked to me! Why wouldn't a female want to do all the items on the list when she's into a guy?

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! 💓

@kpdivination7098 10 ай бұрын

Because we're taught to suppress our feelings.

@sandrab1189 4 ай бұрын

Shyness/anxiety.

@rhondamayfield6314 2 жыл бұрын

I have never blushed so much watching your videos Mat! It was fantastic

@PhilipJames-hx3gp 11 ай бұрын

I'm New here I'm looking for a beautiful wife 😍

@dyannayancey1177 10 ай бұрын

Love this. These are some things that I realized I was doing when I was in a relationship. I've been single for awhile and finally getting back in the game. This refresher is needed and appreciated. Thanks Matt

@Mat_Shaffer 10 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@bonniespuehler3713 10 ай бұрын

Me too. Thanks for sharing.😊

@marilynsmart4095 8 ай бұрын

So glad this was trending on my feed. Thanks

@amylewis7479 8 ай бұрын

Same for me! I been single for awhile and I needed to hear this for this weekend with the guy I’m dating. Definitely excited!!!

@cynthiaholmes4400 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for being so real and genuine.

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

You're very welcome.

@jennylynne4414 Жыл бұрын

This is good stuff. It's too bad we as a society don't talk about these things as openly. I have a question about eye contact though. I know as a woman, it's deeply satisfying to have a man giving me good eye contact when he's inside me. It's like the ultimate level of intimacy for me. I would like to know how men feel about it.

@Doomkauf 11 ай бұрын

Yes this would be nice to know!

@Mat_Shaffer 10 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@DEsha29 4 ай бұрын

Well we have KZfaq now and we are having these conversations now and I love it because I can’t really express myself with people i know personally ❤any how maybe u should take some tips from the video and ask him specifically or jus tell him or you lead by example and look into his eyes first and see what happens

@Utoobdammitjanet Жыл бұрын

I wasn’t looking for advice when I came across your videos. Glad I found this. I’m a recent widow. I know that I will have to date sometime but after 20 years with the same man, I’m afraid to have sex with someone new. It’s good to know that men want pretty much the same things. Your openness about sexual language makes us older women more willing to open up, where in the past we were pretty unsure of ourselves and we’re afraid to open up to a man in the ways you suggest we should. Thank you for your honest approach.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

So glad my content supports you :)

@thestoryofarra5344 Жыл бұрын

I'm a widow too and I'm in this channel. I wonder How many widows are here?

@AmyMichelleMosier Жыл бұрын

Me!

@neiselanderson3932 Жыл бұрын

Me to after 32 yrs! However I'm ready now almost 5 yrs after. Met a Wonderful Man

@christinamac4828 Жыл бұрын

I am also a widow. While I like to listen to these types of videos (and thank you Matt, for your openness), I also know that as an older woman (early 50s) who is in an undefined relationship with a much younger man (late 30s), I have no trouble expressing what I want, or being open to what he wants. At the end of the day, I think men AND women need validation and respect in the bedroom.

@CraftyLori 2 жыл бұрын

I’m laughing so hard cuz of that “rooster” clip

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

So glad you enjoyed it! :) Many more to come!

@tommac21 Жыл бұрын

I'll bet I laughed harder Because the whole video was hilarious 😂😂

@preppy_katherine Жыл бұрын

Same 😂😂😂

@DEsha29 4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@oseyj_official 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@Lisamichelejones 2 жыл бұрын

Love this!!! A lot of stuff I already do, but I feel like you put little extra! Thank you for being so candid! Would love to hear more of this…

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

So glad you enjoyed it!

@Lisamichelejones 2 жыл бұрын

@@Mat_Shaffer 🙃

@ArtLoverScotland 2 жыл бұрын

Love that youare SOOOO damn honest. It has opened my ears and eyes!

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.

@gypsymumma9015 2 жыл бұрын

Very helpful thanks

@daphnen5296 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for being so raw. Also I like that you review your content and with simple vocabulary.

@devonniacampbell7374 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

Appreciate it hon!

@PhilipJames-hx3gp 11 ай бұрын

hi 👋 pretty how are you doing

@UncleRico54 Жыл бұрын

One of best informative videos ever. Well done!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Yesss love getting that feedback from the fellas! Haha

@mara11333 2 жыл бұрын

I like your hair😍 Nice!

@tella3553 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this Mat , give us more! Besides love the hair, background and the salt lamps are my thing. Thank you!

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, that's very sweet. Many more to come!

@meganhenry5795 Жыл бұрын

My question is how the hell do you not moan!? Holding back is 10x harder than letting loose.

@moniqrupley6019 Жыл бұрын

Yes! Holding back is so impossible.

@eo9806 Жыл бұрын

No it’s not. Some people like it soft and quiet. A quiet orgasm can be amazing too. Doesn’t have to be animalistic always. Melting quietly is really nice.

@LV-bk4it Жыл бұрын

When you're not into your partner - nothing feels good.

@seniorita3287 Жыл бұрын

Ask a man

@crystalthow5533 Жыл бұрын

@@eo9806u r totally right. I am exactly like that. I moan then suddenly black out no more sound when i am about 5sec into coming, my guy looks into my eyes everytime because he knows he is doing the right thing . This feeling is so strong and intimate

@juliemosher6404 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent video❗❗❗

@BrightEyes62111 Жыл бұрын

I am happy to know that I do all those things and then some, grateful to be validated in how to love and be sexually happy with a man. You are so right, many women have been either told/taught/said something to about not expressing yourself in a most sexy, hot, intimate way with your partner many reasons why, but glad to see someone touching on these topics in a very pleasant and real way of communication. Thank you so much!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Happy to hear that, you are so welcome. ❤️

@tommac21 Жыл бұрын

Oh God dont we really dont love these things.

@PhilipJames-hx3gp 11 ай бұрын

hi 👋 pretty lady how are you doing

@maryjean-vb8bm 10 ай бұрын

" do all those things" with one person...

@psat21 6 ай бұрын

Yup same, I do all of these things however if the man is a natural giver he definitely will get more than this, naturally 😊

@jenleyva2462 2 жыл бұрын

This is the first time I've really paid attention I love you & appreciate what your doing

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

I so appreciate you saying that - that was so sweet of you!

@sherrywoodard7194 2 жыл бұрын

Mat you’re always on point , thank you for the points 😛

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

so glad you enjoyed it! :)

@PhilipJames-hx3gp 11 ай бұрын

I'm here looking for a beautiful wife 😍

@Fritz13th Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being Bold and Brave sharing that seems to be one factor of building relationships.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Our pleasure! 😊

@daisysig 8 ай бұрын

You're so fabulous, Mat! So straight forward and fun and honest. These are the conversations we need to be having about sex.

@Mat_Shaffer 8 ай бұрын

Many Thanks!:)

@crystalthow5533 Жыл бұрын

Wow Mat! I am a newbie here..... I am in a very happy relationship... And i randomly saw this, and thought why not improving that good thing? :) Thank you so much! I love your vibes!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Welcome aboard!

@ElielArrey 10 ай бұрын

Great feedback Matt. Thank you. Very helpful and true.

@Mat_Shaffer 10 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@nekesababra2312 Жыл бұрын

I think this video was meant for me thanks for sharing mat just subscribed today but really enjoying listening to your teachings

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Awesome, thank you! Nekesa Babra🙌❤️

@QueenNYC113 2 жыл бұрын

This is very informative. I'm glad my boyfriend is open minded. It's amazing how mind blowing coitus can be when there's a mental, emotional connection.

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, So glad you enjoyed it! :)

@cathrynwhiting9626 2 жыл бұрын

I love the way you explain this i have done all of this already it is fantastic

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure! Glad to help.

@valindaganous6742 6 ай бұрын

Thank you Matt! Your openness, practical advice and specificity are refreshing and appreciated!😊

@Mat_Shaffer 6 ай бұрын

I appreciate that! ❤️

@c.b.2321 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, I loved it. A lot of your 'tips' are part of my practice, some don't until now. Greetings from Germany, C.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

@lynneetetz Жыл бұрын

I was looking for these kind of instructions; also to, as you said, "filter out" or weed out ones who are not healthy minded individuals. Thank you!!!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Happy to help!

@judeirwin2222 Жыл бұрын

This kind or these kinds, not these kind.

@lynneetetz Жыл бұрын

@@judeirwin2222 LOL!!! "This kind" of attitude is what I was referring to in my comment.

@reshmisharikh6663 Жыл бұрын

Before jumping into relationship it's really important to have this kind of knowledge for healthy relationship thank you mat Good job

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad this helped you!

@vanessamuckett278 5 ай бұрын

You’re more than welcome Matt. Thank you for your content and your reply.

@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын

Happy to hear that!

@cryscris Жыл бұрын

I LOVE these tips!!! I always aim to please :')Thank you!!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

So glad! You're welcome

@daughterofelohim7 2 жыл бұрын

Vlogs like this gets me excited 😁

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

So glad you enjoyed it! Many more to come

@RachelSawyer78 2 жыл бұрын

Great advice! Thanks. I'm diggin the long hair too 😀

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

Yay! Thank you! So glad you like the hair haha.. its been a labor of love :)

@esmegreeff6194 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Mat for keeping it real and raw.. Loved watching ✌💥💜, greetings from Cape Town South Africa 🇿🇦

@Mat_Shaffer 9 ай бұрын

Happy to hear that my dear Thanks for watching😍

@MsLisa551 Жыл бұрын

I'm new to this channel,, so happy I found it! Thanks Matt!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Welcome!

@kiradali8992 2 жыл бұрын

Great advice! Thank you! ✨💕

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

@georgettedrafts9164 Жыл бұрын

Okay, so I can definitely award you with your teaching certificate today...Thanks for this video! 🔥💯

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

I appreciate that! Thank you!

@charleneperry8478 4 ай бұрын

Hthat was so informative. WOW!! CANT WAIT!!😊

@Mat_Shaffer 4 ай бұрын

I’m so glad this helped you!

@christymanning1186 Жыл бұрын

Finally the teacher I been looking for brings the knowledge! Can’t wait to start practicing ❤

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

You got this!

@LateenaQT Жыл бұрын

Wow! I want to thank you so much for all the specifics & the explainations...it was REALLY what I wanted to know & it made so much sense!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@lilibethnieto55 Жыл бұрын

Let it rip 😂so intimately helpful ❤Thank you 🙏for all these beautiful points to remember.Thank you.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome Lilibeth🙏❤️

@bookano859 Жыл бұрын

Yummy advise. Thx for the great and positive info.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much my dear! 🤗❤️

@kennyroseko7159 Жыл бұрын

Hi Mat😊 Saying hi all the way from Philippines 🇵🇭 thank You for being so open More videos like this advice tips💋

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much my dear!

@marshahargrave9932 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Mat! This is very specific

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@kezann 11 ай бұрын

I've just celebrated 12 years single and I've just met a guy who it's going incredibly well with, but I'm a bit out of practice loll. These tips are now in my arsenal. Can't wait to meet him now. It's gonna be awesoooooome! Thank you so much!! xXx

@Mat_Shaffer 11 ай бұрын

Glad you like it my dear thanks!

@jazzthompson5977 9 ай бұрын

12 years 🎉🎉

@beckyjulyna7494 Жыл бұрын

Perfect Matt, big thanks, love your tips

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

@kamannion Жыл бұрын

This was the most helpful video I’ve heard on this subject. Thank you.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@user-mb8xn8iv8r Жыл бұрын

Thank you Mat, I haven't been intimate with a man in very very long time, have a new opportunity to explore again but lost confidence so this has been so helpful thank you

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Many thanks!

@consummatel 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Matt! This is all such amazing advice! I feel more confident and empowered with all these! I can’t wait to try them out with my beloved❤️ also you are looking super sexy, confident, and more relaxed with this look!

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much my dear! I’m happy this resonated with you!

@louiseclark7967 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all of the great tips! This was awesome and real.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@Patriotgirl1130 9 ай бұрын

Great video! I’m glad I came upon u. I do these things and trust me, it doesn’t seem like it happens often for men. It’s just truly being passionately into the present experience and voicing it. We all desire that. - I do appreciate the part when u explained HOW TO ask or instruct on something we like. That has always been hard for me but complimenting then adding something that I prefer to it-- PERFECT ADVICE ♥️♥️

@Mat_Shaffer 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing! 😍

@rebeccahowie7234 Жыл бұрын

I watched the spiritual class for Vic and Aaron and you Mat 😉 and sure enough, I was already subscribed to your channel. Well I’ve been binge watching your videos, I’m single right now. It’s been almost 2 yrs since I’ve had any man 😞 my ex was a narcissist and co-parenting is a nightmare. He tried getting back together with me, but he’s still living at his moms, no job, same old shit just a different day!!! BUT I may have a date coming up and I’ve known him since we were teenagers, we’re now in our 40’s. I’m so nervous 😬 we hooked up a bit back in the day, but it’s different this time; we’ve got kids and crazy ex baggage. So I’m not looking for anything serious but I am super excited to hopefully hang out with him ❤️ we’ve been talking on the phone for the last 2 yrs, dealing with life issues.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

So glad my content supports you :) and just keep the positive vibes always! :)

@justbreathe1709 Жыл бұрын

That was brilliant I been doing this with my other half cos we are so crazy about each other. It just comes naturally

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Wow! I’m so happy for you my dear!

@Luna-hy5lj 3 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for the advice! The tips sound really good, can't wait to practice it ☺️

@Mat_Shaffer 3 ай бұрын

I’m so glad this helped you!

@poonamg491 Жыл бұрын

Thank you ; blessed &gifted with all these skills &I am blessed the guys that I met were equally giving &the chemistry on bed was just on auto mode;not much efforts or struggles at all .May my love Angels continue this amazing chemistry in my love relation ahead too.The more natural it goes that much it brings complete joy to both &more deeper craving to get close more often .

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Wonderful! You got it Dear😊

@redhead8777 Жыл бұрын

I know there are men here checking to make sure the info is legit! SO FYI Gentlemen: Its hot when a man genuinely thanks you for your feminine efforts afterwards! When its completed! I think expressing specific appreciation enduces women into creating a next big adventure mindset! Hope that helps you! Appreciation is golden!

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Wonderful! Thank you for sharing!

@LV-bk4it Жыл бұрын

Yes! Especially when my husband doesn't finish me off! I really feel cheated and he just walks away satisfied. I've had MANY discussions with him about this. All he says is, "I can't help myself because you're so hot. You should be flattered." Flattered? How about frustrated and resentful?

@redhead8777 Жыл бұрын

@@LV-bk4it there is medical help for his thing. Tell him to seek a urologist. You can try and get products to delay! Do not accept that as normal male function. Its called Premature Ejaculation (PE)! Good sex to you too! That's cute he thinks you are hot!

@teenafrench7236 2 жыл бұрын

Matt the Civil Servant of Female society sharing the laws of Love😉🙌🥇

@lynnrobinette9167 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for getting real and sharing this info!

@Mat_Shaffer 9 ай бұрын

Its my pleasure!🤗

@isabelolsson1890 2 ай бұрын

Fantastic and very helpful video, thanks so much ❤

@Mat_Shaffer 2 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@gaynorberry5759 Жыл бұрын

It’s good to know what guys really want. I find it hard to say what I want and get embarrassed by that. Now it’s been a while so this is research for the next guy 😊🙏🏻❤️ hopefully sooner rather than later 🙏🏻🙏🏻

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, Gaynor Berry🙌 Don’t give up on love sister! ❤️❤️

@devonniacampbell7374 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Mat... I felt this video to the core... and that voice sounds so familiar it's hypnotizing me had me laughing in bed a whole new world 🌎 ha 😄 🤣 and that rooster 🐓. Trust me you are the best trending on KZfaq good job and keep growing ur hair- its looking thick and healthy 👏 more wisdom knowledge and understanding - Enlightment. Excellent 100%

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

Aww, you're the sweetest! Thank you so much dear!

@sharonmcgillivray2119 Жыл бұрын

Love this video,always more to learn

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Thanks Sharon, More to come❤️❤️

@carecafetips Жыл бұрын

Thank you, it’s great to finally know the reasons behind the compliments.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@yvonneedwina8792 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the great Tips😊

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

so so welcome!

@chantelbaartman8102 Жыл бұрын

Should I be concerned if I'm already doing all of these things? lol .. feels good to know that I am not weird after all. Love your videos

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

So glad my content supports you :)

@jessicabond7097 Жыл бұрын

Finally in informational video thank you so much for your straight forward advice

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! Happy to help 🙌❤️

@matildahnkulanga560 Жыл бұрын

Wow! Nice stuff. Thanks for sharing.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@florakassabaum4235 Жыл бұрын

Love your video thanks you’re helping a lot of women realize that they need to be more open with their men in bed❤️❤️

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

@hildahwambia4491 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the knowledge Mat

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome, Hildah❤️

@eiriniantoniadi1446 Жыл бұрын

Perfect advices! The best ever. Thank you very much.....

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@marjoriegopee595 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. I had a good laugh at the "rooster."

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

You're welcome. Glad you enjoy it!

@totallycosmictracy 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome video thank you! 😍🌷✌

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

@kimnichols129 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for telling like it is. I love that you don't dance around with your words. I have to say you know what you're talking about. I agree with everything you said.

@Mat_Shaffer 7 ай бұрын

I appreciate that 🥰