I'm sorry to hear about what happened, Natasha. So how would you like to move forward given the situation between the two of you?

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I have been in a relationship for almost 16 years he has proposed years ago but yet no marriage I'm ready to walk away but I love him so much it hurts so bad and I have no one to talk to

@@krystisherman2425 Honestly, if you're not marriage withing 6 months to a year it was a sham engagement to stop you from leaving. I'm sorry :(

It’s not what people want to hear but it’s what people need to hear.

Actually my ex was crazy 😅😅 Like legit...but my fiance isn't ❤

Ever since I been taken accountability being married to GOD is ten times better. Just don't get married in Satan's system.

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Ultimatums rarely work out unless your ex is at the Crisis Point in the 5 stages of getting back together. I'm sorry that you're hurt. I know that thing like this can really hit hard.

Ultimatums are psychological abuse. They are a lack of a functional relationship. That alone reveals issues with yourself, which you need to fix.

Wow, sounds like he's stringling you along. Waiting for more than five years is too much especially for a women as we age faster than men. There are better guys out there.

Ouch. That's clearly a red flag.. Sadly, men don't do that to someone they truly love

Lucero Villegas worst feeling ever

Stella Mcarty I think he has big cows with heavy boobs let him have milk free that's the ideal life for him than putting someone in shit.rhis is called america.and we Asians have better valuable things.ans also can find decent men.

That's something my grandfather would say.... were you born in 1941? 🤔

@@YaneMontesDeOca91 No but there are living spiritfilfilled souls than dead and empty shells.

Yeah, if you're dating a guy who sees women as commodities that supply sex, then marrying probably wont be too positive anyway.

He is not getting the milk we sleep in different bedrooms

Elizabeth Monica amen

This will be me very soon lol! Wish you the best.

Now you got it, girl.

Same thing with me 6 years in a relationship Money issues but when money comes still no marriage… i ask for civil wedding no large money involved but yes still no marriage. If he wants to he will

What a coincidence, Nana. It's truly amazing how you were able to relate your situation in one of our videos.

nana nanana same thats why I left him 👋 bye felicia 👋because it’s not only my job to talk about marriage and if iam dating you for 3 years and you can’t even come to my parents and ask my hand in marriage then screw you🖕

That’s not how you do it girl. Never pressure a man into marriage. If you want him to marry you, focus on yourself, obtain and achieve goals and move in with your life with him in it. Maybe even schedule a Club Med trip but don’t do that shit

@nana banana It's not about pressuring him, but influencing marriage. See, without influence, he'll just continue to go along for the ride until you've had enough.

Red flag. Stop being loyal to someone who isn't. He's wasting your time.

Hi Seline, I'm sorry to hear about that. We understand how marriage can be important for some and other's might take some time to be in that level of commitment as it would require emotional and financial readiness. we understand the hurt that you might be feeling as you truly love the person. but you have to keep in check as well if both of your values and things that you both want in a relationship is aligned with each other. All the best.

I'll give you the straight dope, unvarnished, no sugar coating to help the pill go down. It's not about "being ready" for the man. We DO NOT want marriage. We might fall in love. Sure, we're human. We might even live with someone. But, we aren't going to marry. We've done the risk/reward analysis. We've paid CLOSE attention to what has happened to the marriages and men around us when the divorce inevitably happens, and we've elected out. It's that simple. Love has nothing to do with it. It's business, not personal. If you really loved him you'd want to be with him no matter what, without the condition of marriage. But, the marriage is more important to you than the man. For us, the man is more important than the marriage, and we will let that woman walk. Statistically, it was gonna end in divorce anyway. We're just saving ourselves a mountain of bullshit. I've let two women go. One gave the ultimatum after 5 years of living together. The other after three. I was honest from the start about marriage. I loved them both. But, when they gave me the ultimatum there was no debate even for a minute. It was just, okay...this is over, now. My immediate response was, "I love you. I want nothing but for you to be happy. If THAT'S what you need to be happy, then I want that for you, too. But, you need to find it somewhere else." Losing them hurt for a time, of course. But, that's nothing compared to divorce. Men can do break-ups standing on our heads. A few weeks, MAYBE a month or so of "meh" and we're good. Piece of cake. Not taking the ultimatum doesn't mean he didn't love you. It just means he's a realist living in a practical world who made the best business decision for himself. You can absolutely put a price on love. It's marriage and divorce. Two things definitely NOT worth the price for men.

@@e.l.norton that may be true for some men but what about men that marry the next woman after stringing one along fir years . That's the predicament many women are in today . I have a freind still hanging on to a guy she met in college 20 years ago . She wants kids and marriage and he still hasn't asked. Another is living with a guy,no kids he's almost 40 and she's almost 30. Been together almost a decade and no ring and worse she lives with him. He's way too old to not know better. We think he stringing her along too

@@jocekhiy626 Maybe it's best for men (especially older men) to be upfront and honest about not wanting marriage or children from the start. But also, if a man does that, then women need to accept that he's allowed to make that decision. And she can't expect to change his mind.

@@e.l.norton Absolute bs! How about if the man really loved her he'd take the risk and marry her instead of potentially degrading her social status to a baby momma. If all he cares about is the potential risk to himself, he's selfish and doesn't love her and is not fully committed. He wants to keep one foot out the door at all times in case something better comes along. Marriage is not just a peice of paper.

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JoJo JoJo you seriously need help

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Yep, if all your ex-girlfriends are crazy, then there's a strong chance the guy made them that way 😒

Thank you, Stephanie. We truly appreciate your kind words and it means a lot to us. :-)

Clay Andrews You Welcome... thank you for taking the time to make these harsh yet needed signs to help us know exactly where we stand as woman... Thanks you

It's better to know sooner rather than drag something out for years only to realize the same thing. I'm sorry if your BF doesn't seem ready to settle down.

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Do you really need your ex back

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Because you do not set your boundaries n expectation from a guy let him clearly know what you wanted.

Jane, don't live with a man. It is like, "Playing House" instead of being a true marriage and you getting to be a true wife. You are worthy to be a wife, but you have to set that in stone that you will not live with another man. That, when it is the right guy, it will have to be marriage or forget it. Please read I Corinthians 13 (the whole chapter), that will tell you what true love is. I pray things get better for you.

Never NEVER ever live with a man before marriage. And never date for more than 2 years if he doesn't want to discuss marriage. Most men know if they want you for a wife within the 2 ND date., Never date for 7 years.... that's a lease.

Not just 1 Corinthians 13, but 1 Corinthians 7 is the KEY message about our rights regarding marriage, sex and single-hood/celibacy. Those who are called to have it will have it. Those who aren't wont. Those who wants it shall achieve in what they desire, and those who don't, won't. It's choice in this life and everybody HAS a choice. Whether its a life or death decision.

Exactly!

If the two of you have nothing in common, then I really doubt that is going to change any time soon. I mean, if it was, you would have seem something happen in the past 5 years you were together. It sounds like you already know that you and him aren't really going anywhere. I don't know what value waiting an additional year will have except to put on the inevitable and allow you to stay in your comfort zone. It's fine if you want to wait a year, but that's one less year you have to find a guy who is the right fit for you.

Move on now...another year won't change things but will change you

I waited 4, almost 5 years longer than I said to myself that I would wait to get a commitment, I wish I had not kept waiting. Wasted 4 years. They either want you or they don't. We know in our heart. Why keep waiting?

Wow thats scary. Start living your life now. Be scarce to him now. I met a guy who was living with his girl for 9 years n he never married her. She left him n now hes broken. He said he would've married her if she wanted him too. Guess he thought she was happy for 9 years. Now shes move on n won't come back.

He hasn't bettered you in any way but you've been with him 5 years? I call bs

Your basically married already

Thanks. I'm half-Asian, half-white, so interracial relationships are something close to home for me.

So that’s why you look so damn weird. Yuck

@@aaronlalembaarook5626 who the fuck are you to say yuck to him. Get loss n be gone ugly ass weirdo. You can't compare to this guy big toe.

But you can get him stay with u love and adore you

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Well said King.

Hi Glen, Thanks for this great insight. We truly appreciate that. That's is what we are trying to advocate in our course. Marriage may be the ultimate end goal of every relationship but having a strong and quality foundation will always make a big difference. :-) All the best.

Hi Tracey, We cannot say not no one in the wide population would not want a divorcee. One may not like us but that doesn't mean everyone won't like us. That is why we encourage our viewers to do the 5 x 5 list and use it as a basis when we are dating someone. Try doing this small exercise. Write down the following - 5 Must-Have Qualities in a Partner / Relationship - 5 Deal-Breaker Qualities You Do NOT Want in Any Partner / Relationship - This list is critical to having a successful and healthy dynamic in a relationship. The person you want to be with MUST meet ALL 5 “Must Haves.” If this person has 1 dealbreaker OR doesn’t meet all of your Must Haves, the relationship will continually be a challenge. All the best.

Absolutely right. So much better to love yourself and never have the desire to love someone else and never eventually marry. You dont Have to marry, but its as God planned for a couple. Good for you. BE STRONG. We all have our own views on life. 🤔

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@@hauserstjepan6766 you’re preaching to the converted ☺️ haha, thank you. God has helped me immensely

MTGOW men don't usually get into long term committed relationships tho

que ti porta señorita i was sad the other day because something similar he said to me like you. I asked him about that our anniversary was coming up in April of being together even though we’re not married yet and he said “people who are married celebrate that” and I told him “So what are we “ he said “ a couple” 😢😓that just turned my whole thought 💭 about us. In he’s perspective we have each other and that’s what counts I’m looking for a god fearing man who will have he’s presence and do the right thing I’m a sinner and don’t want to be in that path anymore because in gods eyes I’m doing wrong I want to fallow righteous ness in Jesus path. It brings me to tears and need to do what is right in my ❤️ heart I love this man but sometimes you have to do what’s right In my heart.

Raquel Drift who ever you are.... We been married for along time and I think I know you by the way you say things but whatever. Shit happens and that's him. He chooses me and forever we will be cuz of this coronavirus he will not touch another women cuz he's feared that this can not be fix. So I know I got him beside me. I'm sorry that he's not loving you.. little by little he's making the marriage life go stronger with me.💍💋💏

You can only control yourself no one else. Tell him that this isn’t working out for you and if he wants another girl the door is open but not necessarily open for him to come back in. Please genuinely ask yourself why do you want a guy that tells you that you aren’t good enough? Do you love yourself enough to be alone and happy single? Men don’t like desperate women women so he will leave anyways if you don’t have enough self respect to walk away. If men respect you then they love you. Please watch Greta Beresaite on KZfaq! She helped me get my ex back and become a high value women but still after everything he put me through and the games I broke up with him.

There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

Any kids involved? If not RUN majority of the time if a man leave you, wants a break, doesn't marry you within 2 years he's not the one and you're not the wife he's looking for. Sad but true. Think of it like this... When you broke up do you really think a man who believes you are his wife is going to entertain a thought and make a reality of you two breaking up with the chances of another man getting with you? No. No chance. And if another man has got with you and he's taken you back then you're definitely not the one lol Run away best thing to do and yes he'll come back a few times but not because he loves you but because he has access to you. Keep your legs closed for the next man and stop believing what men tell you it's all lies they just want what's between your legs. Be that one in a million that makes him work for you

@@yipeedo372 thank you . I left him few weeks ago with no regret and now I’m moving on. I thought it’s gonna be hard but hey I’m so much happier than ever. Cheers

@Purple Violet, thanks for the positive feedback. We truly appreciate that. :-)

@@ClayAndrews You're welcome

wooow u got me something to think about ..Only GOD nows .

He's not going marry you if you let him test drive you. Why should he buy the cow when the milk is free? It's best to move on with your life. You are better off by yourself. The worse thing a woman could ever do is live with a man when she is not married him because all he's going to do is test drive her/you and then use you up and move on and marry someone else.

You're welcome, Starlet. Glad to hear that our videos are helping you a lot. :-)

Sorry your ex wasn't able or willing to give you what you wanted. But it's best to put that behind you and find someone who is willing or able to give you what you want.

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Hi Neethu, I am not quite sure what may be the exact concern that he may have. But it looks like marriage is something that is important to you as well. The question is, how long will you be able to wait until he would make such decision?

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Thank you, Kriti. We are happy to hear that the video had helped and inspired you. :-)

"All the things we accept, be the things we regret." - Ashanti ... So if you're accepting him being with another woman and staying, you will regret it later on.

don't look back and leave. Before you realize, You'll have wasted your most precious years. Wish I had the courage 10 years ago. I know a woman who wasted 20 years and is now to old to have children. Never ever waste time for someone who doesn't deserve you, NEVER !

8 yrs and nothing wait on GOD

are your "children" like 30 year olds or something?

You are joking, right Nancy?

exactly a guy will not wait around on locking down

ELK Ha!Ha! You're funny

ELK Maybe he’s just an alien from another planet too ! 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪

BethyKable, if his name is Christopher Walken that might very well be true!

Is he ready to settle down? Have you talked about each other's priorities? Maybe there's something that you can discover by communicating things effectively.

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2 years is the max time I'd give he should have proposed and be planning the wedding by now. Think of it like this... If a man was offered his dream car no matter the cost you really think he's going to let someone else have that dream car? No. Men are territorial jealous and competitive they want the best of the best and same goes to a woman if a man meets his Porsche of a woman aint no other man going to take her from him. So if he's not marrying you then he don't value you and you're more his Volkswagen than his Porsche

@@yipeedo372 I agree we broke up 8 months ago for that reason ☺️

Hi Keri, Being vulnerable is not a sin. As long as it is displayed in the right time and you know the boundaries between good and bad vulnerability. :-) All the best.

It's good to know who you can count on and who you can't...

Same.

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You're welcome, Claudie :-)

Lily Deb yep

Finally a good comment. Fuck marriage.

I'm sure u must be gay

Be careful of the "Sunk Cost" fallacy. Just because you've spend 15 years with him doesn't mean you need to spend more time with him if you're not getting what you want from him.

Yor bf is smart. He understands that their is no benefit in marrying.

15 years?! Outrageous! He doesn't want to marry you. Your comment is 4 months old now. Are you still with this guy wasting your time? Better get out of there.

Are you still with him?

@@ayeshaperera6543 yes, we have a baby now and we’re obviously still getting married “next year” 😹😹😹

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Hes a wise man 👌 avoiding marriage.

@@szaszrobert9661 I almost left him once. He almost got a heartattack. There is a small issue which hes hesitant about tho.

@@dbedazzling1 Can you respect a man who claims hes gonna have a heart attack if you leave him? ...... Hi seems like a big loser for me who doesn' t know how to handle life with out you.

@@szaszrobert9661 honey hes the CEO n owner of multiple companies. A Leader in every aspect. This is no weak loser😂😂. Furthermore I never said he claimed to have a heartattack. His reaction to me seeing other ppl showed me this. It's my opinion.

it depends on his emotional readiness and to take the responsibility to be married. Being married may take a lot of commitment and readiness as well. So it really depends on the capacity of the person.