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5 ways women make themselves look desperate | 5 major turnoffs | Dating mistakes

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Kev Hick

Kev Hick

Күн бұрын

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@miadaug
@miadaug 6 жыл бұрын
“Add a man to your life but don’t make him your life” Love that!
@spaces3345
@spaces3345 5 жыл бұрын
Yessss.
@Nat0528
@Nat0528 5 жыл бұрын
Great stuff!!!
@228vik
@228vik 5 жыл бұрын
Yep, I agree...that is why I am going to dance lessons and socials and to the gym...and I tell my BF or whatever he is....
@tulsibloom
@tulsibloom 5 жыл бұрын
BOOM!
@clarevela8181
@clarevela8181 5 жыл бұрын
Mia Cross my husband is My life! Bc I love him
@londonwerewolf7542
@londonwerewolf7542 4 жыл бұрын
"Be a great woman to a great man, but be a no one to a nobody." TRUEEEE.
@Mrdavid839
@Mrdavid839 4 жыл бұрын
My female friend is a truly great woman.
@paulinewanjiru2273
@paulinewanjiru2273 3 жыл бұрын
I like this
@ChatiseE
@ChatiseE 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mrdavid839 this makes no sense with the context
@missSmile.
@missSmile. 3 жыл бұрын
YES 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@homedecor-8764
@homedecor-8764 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you, so many woman trying so hard to be someone to everyone. They want to be appreciated by every guys. Hence, they get no time for themselves.
@Muso215
@Muso215 3 жыл бұрын
This video is the father/daughter talk that I needed to hear 20 years ago.
@shopdammysthrift5394
@shopdammysthrift5394 3 жыл бұрын
me too
@lp1043
@lp1043 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@vanessarodriquez1595
@vanessarodriquez1595 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@vendetta8084
@vendetta8084 3 жыл бұрын
Same....... ,😕
@vendetta8084
@vendetta8084 3 жыл бұрын
😕😕😕😕😕😕😕😕😕😕😕😕
@Anna-ek4oi
@Anna-ek4oi 3 жыл бұрын
"Women often forget that they are the prize of the relationship. That they are the most sought-after treasure on this planet. Their feminine energy makes this world spin. Guys spend their whole lives trying to make money to acquire things just to attract the treasure of a woman." This made me hit subscribe 👍 Thank you for reminding me of my worth.
@ashleyharris4944
@ashleyharris4944 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@chaitanyagupta6668
@chaitanyagupta6668 3 жыл бұрын
yup, gold digging behaviour reinforced. Do u know what u women have to go through a few times in a relationship, men have to through all the time. Also equality thrown out of the window, hypergamy reinforced. Basically an idea of a man working his ass to get money and 'buy' the 'best' women available in the 'market'. Doesnt sound inspiring right? Doesn't it sound exactly like medievel times where women were a prize, to be given( princess wedding along with the kingdom transfer) and snatched( you know what they did with the wife after king was killed).
@Valoelify
@Valoelify 3 жыл бұрын
@@chaitanyagupta6668 You're gonna stay single with that bitter mindset you carry around. I am a woman, and I couldn't care less about how little or how much money a man has, all I care about is his heart.
@chaitanyagupta6668
@chaitanyagupta6668 3 жыл бұрын
@@Valoelify i m not saying that all women are like that. My comment was for the main commentator when they said the lines like "women are the prize" "guys spend their life earning things to please a woman" were inspiring. I find it highly hypocritical , wont u agree? And no i dont carry this mindset, i was just giving another perspective to what the above said lines can also be interpreted as.
@icanisa
@icanisa 3 жыл бұрын
@@chaitanyagupta6668 lol shut up
@marikalenton4851
@marikalenton4851 5 жыл бұрын
Your mother has got to be somewhere smiling
@healthychick9450
@healthychick9450 4 жыл бұрын
And hopefully his father
@sister9670
@sister9670 4 жыл бұрын
For real though!
@theedevellavictoria126
@theedevellavictoria126 4 жыл бұрын
Shidd I’m smilin fo em
@zonyaskieya3693
@zonyaskieya3693 4 жыл бұрын
Very proud mother
@nefertitipeace5360
@nefertitipeace5360 3 жыл бұрын
IM PROUD OF HIM & DONT EVEN KNOW HIM AS A MOTHER SO I KNOW FOR A FACT SHE IS BLESSED LADY & BLESSED SON TO HAVE EACH OTHER
@Caysum21345
@Caysum21345 5 жыл бұрын
1. Being overly affectionate too early 2. Calling/texting too much 3. Sexual favors for a man not committed to you 4. Doing favors (ex:financial gifts) 5. Thirst trapping
@rashawnabobo9135
@rashawnabobo9135 4 жыл бұрын
DarcyKnox21 I feel like this is my Situation but the other way around
@nickandchrismom
@nickandchrismom 4 жыл бұрын
I did watch the entire video but I still appreciate the listing.
@deanna6742
@deanna6742 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks cos i read the description box but he wanted to skip some 😭
@EricaNicolee29
@EricaNicolee29 4 жыл бұрын
DarcyKnox21 hell I done did all this 😭😭😭😭😭
@oatlegilemalefane5726
@oatlegilemalefane5726 4 жыл бұрын
Is helping ur bae..desperate or giving him ideas or just being urself desperate
@omeshakarim7251
@omeshakarim7251 4 жыл бұрын
This guy can literally say “fuck you” and still make it sound so gentle
@rubywoo_5.2
@rubywoo_5.2 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@UmmAmani2012
@UmmAmani2012 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Facts! Kev: "I hate you. Leave me alone." Her: "He's so kind!"
@baybeetinax3
@baybeetinax3 3 жыл бұрын
Frrrrrr tho 😂😂😂
@nonyeamataobi2270
@nonyeamataobi2270 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr👍
@johnahfogan4633
@johnahfogan4633 3 жыл бұрын
Facts Lmaoooo
@ibcandy
@ibcandy 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your Insight and male Perspective on women looking desperate: 💯💯💯 1. Being overly affectionate 2. Calling/texting too much 3. Sexual favors 4. Excessive favors 5. Thirst Trapping *women Are the prize in the relationship
@MandyJRoss
@MandyJRoss 4 жыл бұрын
"Don't service anyone who hasn't served your heart." 💣 Your Mama should be proud.🙏🏼
@JS-ns8dr
@JS-ns8dr 4 жыл бұрын
✨✨✨
@saikureti5924
@saikureti5924 3 жыл бұрын
They simply don't deserve u
@anastasiasanchez7852
@anastasiasanchez7852 3 жыл бұрын
What if the man that likes u aswell thinks the same as you
@candacehearn1771
@candacehearn1771 3 жыл бұрын
@@anastasiasanchez7852 if their not going to service you without getting your heart that's the guy you should want.
@candacehearn1771
@candacehearn1771 3 жыл бұрын
@@anastasiasanchez7852 I also should add don't lead a guy on for them to think you want sex when in actuality you don't yet. You need to always feel safe with him. And it could lead to things like is she messing with me I.e. mind games nobody likes them. It's too easy to get intimate at first. You should always take it slow in a new relationship. Let him chase you.
@angelawilliams0428
@angelawilliams0428 5 жыл бұрын
I like the gentle, soft-spoken way he speaks. What he says is hard-hitting without any arrogance. Just helpful, true info.
@Tubie1111
@Tubie1111 5 жыл бұрын
Agree ☺
@mfoster90
@mfoster90 5 жыл бұрын
Very true. He makes It's easier for me to comprehend
@windlillylawson3944
@windlillylawson3944 5 жыл бұрын
Yes. Plus he sexy AF!
@kadzo6614
@kadzo6614 5 жыл бұрын
I second
@kim-qq8oq
@kim-qq8oq 5 жыл бұрын
Hi this is Kim his voice is soft and low don't forget without a doubt once you do something he disagree that voice becomes loud and you're going to be right back on KZfaq saying how you thought he was so sweet don't get me wrong no one is perfect to read between the lines I hope you stop what you're doing and listen to coach
@LetsGetThatKidney
@LetsGetThatKidney 3 жыл бұрын
I needed an older brother like this. I’m 48 and yet learning how to behave.
@annenamwanda8021
@annenamwanda8021 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣I am starting to think we don't really learn that this game is changing every day all day😔
@Valoelify
@Valoelify 3 жыл бұрын
It's never too late to learn.
@chala-nicolerobinson4725
@chala-nicolerobinson4725 3 жыл бұрын
Never to late rite , thanks to TrueGod!
@stefanienowakowski8005
@stefanienowakowski8005 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so embarrassed. 🤦🏼‍♀️
@aslichannel4600
@aslichannel4600 4 жыл бұрын
Me too 😅
@tashaequeen8935
@tashaequeen8935 4 жыл бұрын
Yeap me too it sucks
@deiddlebug8743
@deiddlebug8743 4 жыл бұрын
Haha same. I mean though we don’t know till we know. lol 😂 😭🤦🏼‍♀️
@michelleappiah-danquah2932
@michelleappiah-danquah2932 4 жыл бұрын
Dead lol 😂
@tashaequeen8935
@tashaequeen8935 3 жыл бұрын
@@michelleappiah-danquah2932 😂😂
@esonasipho7637
@esonasipho7637 5 жыл бұрын
Women...stop hating by disliking thinking that he is trying to offend yal, he is helping
@successfulgemstone7995
@successfulgemstone7995 5 жыл бұрын
True
@loveiam4828
@loveiam4828 4 жыл бұрын
Could also be the men disliking😂😂.Some men just like women who do not know their worth so that they can misuse them.
@aadilahluyobya3788
@aadilahluyobya3788 4 жыл бұрын
A lot, I wish I cd give ths video a thousand likes man❤❤
@mstiffthaboss9194
@mstiffthaboss9194 4 жыл бұрын
Right he is only speaking the truth I guess those that fit the shoe are upset lol
@aresabala1
@aresabala1 4 жыл бұрын
Actually, I think those are men hating him right now for telling the truth.
@whitlashay88
@whitlashay88 5 жыл бұрын
You can tell this one was raised right!
@mnewMOMA
@mnewMOMA 5 жыл бұрын
whitlashay88 absolutely. My first thought was the same!! Wish there were more sensible guys like him around !!
@celestejacobs5922
@celestejacobs5922 5 жыл бұрын
And he cute 😝😂
@samar7151
@samar7151 5 жыл бұрын
Wish they were all like Kev
@Yamaguchi2Chris
@Yamaguchi2Chris 4 жыл бұрын
He being a white knight
@KevHick
@KevHick 4 жыл бұрын
If you like this channel you may enjoy my other channel Kev Hick Talks Life kzfaq.info/love/QjRFZEvlsdkxgV_dq_kAqw
@avaragardner1934
@avaragardner1934 4 жыл бұрын
I never thought that being generous n loving made me appear desperate I always thought I was treating a person the way I would want to be treated I hate being around rude and selfish people
@amandarhollynce4286
@amandarhollynce4286 Жыл бұрын
You n i together.... Its true coz i once gifted a guy socks wrapped well in a gift box coz i saw he wore torn ones... My love language is gifting .... Later he took advantage n thought i was desparate n started treating me in a way i didnt like..... I felt bad....
@Cal_me_lady1
@Cal_me_lady1 Жыл бұрын
@@amandarhollynce4286 they are the immatured men but they r making good women like us bad
@octaviawilson9155
@octaviawilson9155 Жыл бұрын
​@@amandarhollynce4286You don't have to feel bad next time just make it clear to him. That the socks are because he has torn one's and you had a few extra pairs. And move on continue treating him the same.
@conjur3cov3n46
@conjur3cov3n46 3 жыл бұрын
I prefer not to date because I just feel like it's pointless. Someone grows feelings that the other can't reciprocate due to lack of interest. I have found that loving myself ,my life, my temple is wayyyy better than benign feelings. I appreciate your jewels King !!! 😇
@conjur3cov3n46
@conjur3cov3n46 5 ай бұрын
Why does my self worth irritate you and amuse you . Either way I'm very much happy dating and being single. Its a thing. 😮😮😂😂
@lulred5867
@lulred5867 6 жыл бұрын
why does this make me wanna throw my phone away and go on a spiritual journey 😂
@KevHick
@KevHick 6 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@esthergitonga6305
@esthergitonga6305 6 жыл бұрын
Me too... 😎😎😎
@LashayneHampton
@LashayneHampton 6 жыл бұрын
Yoooo. Smh. 😭😂😧
@lovelylouro
@lovelylouro 6 жыл бұрын
Lul Red omg. I can relate!😣
@dshae2293
@dshae2293 6 жыл бұрын
Lul Red I have seriously been considering the same. You should do that! See what will happen. 🤔
@wildwillow1945
@wildwillow1945 5 жыл бұрын
I saw the title and was so ready to go on a feminist rant, but I can’t. You’re telling women to respect themselves, and I appreciate that.
@Andrew_Tate_Personal
@Andrew_Tate_Personal 5 жыл бұрын
Mindy Joy do it!, who listens to women anyway lol
@Tmcsinger91
@Tmcsinger91 5 жыл бұрын
Mindy Joy Agreed 😀
@steveboone1498
@steveboone1498 4 жыл бұрын
Women control nearly all of the dating scene anyway. They're the ones who are deciding whether or not any man sleeps with them. Men have to ask while women don't have to do the same thing.
@blomifa
@blomifa 4 жыл бұрын
@@steveboone1498 i feel like that only applies to attractive women lmaoo
@steveboone1498
@steveboone1498 4 жыл бұрын
@@blomifa it's not just the attractive women who control the dating scene it's women in general. Think about this scenario, a man gets in the mood but his date doesn't. He gets left with no hope. A woman gets in the mood she gets what she wants and if the date doesn't go how she wants it she's accusing him of raping her.
@lauvi8862
@lauvi8862 3 жыл бұрын
Kev: Don’t give off desperate vibes. Me: 💍
@AbbyEmbro
@AbbyEmbro 3 жыл бұрын
😅
@rubywoo_5.2
@rubywoo_5.2 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@brieze1233
@brieze1233 3 жыл бұрын
🙃😅🤣
@ashuradailyy
@ashuradailyy 3 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@callmefany4152
@callmefany4152 3 жыл бұрын
Kkkkkk
@denisebarnes5092
@denisebarnes5092 3 жыл бұрын
Young man, who is your mom? I would love to meet her and thank her for raising such a wonderful young man!!! WOW!!! You are a wonderful well spoken young man. God bless you!!!
@KevHick
@KevHick 3 жыл бұрын
Karen Hall is my mother😂 sometimes she’s in the comment section
@icedkaffe
@icedkaffe 3 жыл бұрын
@@KevHick the only Karen that we can accept. 😌💖
@jamaicanjoyh6883
@jamaicanjoyh6883 3 жыл бұрын
@@icedkaffe FACTS! THAT'S QUEEN MOTHA K! WHAT A BLESSING FROM HER WOMB... .."FREEING" WOMEN ALL AROUND THE WORLD..SMH..ARENT WE FORTUNATE..THANK U FOR UR SERVICE YNG MAN
@chaitanyagupta6668
@chaitanyagupta6668 3 жыл бұрын
Lol so all it takes is some flattery. Lol
@suchastrangegirl36
@suchastrangegirl36 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Guys like him are rare and hard to find these days.
@Shae_3
@Shae_3 6 жыл бұрын
"Don't service anyone who haven't offered you their heart." Beautifully stated.
@vieveetheempress
@vieveetheempress 2 жыл бұрын
Great advice!!
@Shae_3
@Shae_3 2 жыл бұрын
ViVie The Empress True but it can be deceptive. People will offer you their heart and then change their mind.
@rmoon11231998
@rmoon11231998 4 жыл бұрын
Ladies, please don't have shame. No room for that. Only listen and think about YOUR decisions personally and give yourself grace. Dont claim yourself desperate if you were simply trusting. You did not know.. OR you knew exactly why you did what you did. You all are beautiful❤
@simplycherry23
@simplycherry23 3 жыл бұрын
Wish I had seen this before I made an absolute fool of myself 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️......guilty of all of them😩😂
@nikkio2347
@nikkio2347 3 жыл бұрын
!!!
@shirah528
@shirah528 3 жыл бұрын
I am too. 😔 lmao this my second time watching this
@suchastrangegirl36
@suchastrangegirl36 3 жыл бұрын
It’s alright sis 😂✌️
@mariam.6694
@mariam.6694 3 жыл бұрын
Same :(
@shirah528
@shirah528 2 жыл бұрын
@Lali V Do u? Lol
@fanchonkelley492
@fanchonkelley492 5 жыл бұрын
Why his voice is so subtle but he dropping bombs lol.
@heinzketchup3742
@heinzketchup3742 5 жыл бұрын
Smartz
@triniqueentx
@triniqueentx 5 жыл бұрын
Subtle
@user-ib6do7hb7d
@user-ib6do7hb7d 5 жыл бұрын
Fanchon Kelley Kind of like the weeknd who raps and sings the nastiest sexual lyrics so beautifully hahahaha
@shakitashontajones
@shakitashontajones 5 жыл бұрын
He being an ass😂
@erindianacathey96
@erindianacathey96 5 жыл бұрын
LMAO ITS HIS STYLE HE GOT IT DOWNNNNNNNNN 🙌🙌🔥
@withlovestephaniedenise7024
@withlovestephaniedenise7024 5 жыл бұрын
Celibacy equals peace of mind. God will send a good man. Just wait.
@puddintame5742
@puddintame5742 5 жыл бұрын
Great Advice!!
@ladyjvlogs7463
@ladyjvlogs7463 5 жыл бұрын
I agree..🙌🙌
@MsSweets0211
@MsSweets0211 5 жыл бұрын
AGREED
@lakeyshabrown8727
@lakeyshabrown8727 5 жыл бұрын
amen!!!
@ladyllf48
@ladyllf48 5 жыл бұрын
Wish I saw this months ago.
@00nisha72
@00nisha72 4 жыл бұрын
I’m guilty of calling and texting a lot after a fight ... I hate myself for doing it but I’m just mad that he doesn’t care enough to reach out so I end up looking desperate 🤦‍♀️
@BlondeVolDoll
@BlondeVolDoll 4 жыл бұрын
Same girl! Ugh!!!
@katrinawilliams437
@katrinawilliams437 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve done this as well
@bitesizebri9983
@bitesizebri9983 3 жыл бұрын
same darn it
@bobsonpamela2390
@bobsonpamela2390 3 жыл бұрын
Been here too. But I had to learn and discipline myself.
@Senzigal
@Senzigal 3 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone I have done it so many times I guess it’s the way we’re 🤦🏽‍♀️
@nduttaw2538
@nduttaw2538 4 жыл бұрын
If a man hasn't told you he loves you, or shows you his intent to be with you, then you shouldn't be putting any party of his in your oral cavity. PREACH! It shouldn't be something that's expected from women. Thanks for being so blunt
@aliceliddell8413
@aliceliddell8413 4 жыл бұрын
or any other cavity lmal
@aliceliddell8413
@aliceliddell8413 4 жыл бұрын
lmao*
@49495lwbrmoxybe
@49495lwbrmoxybe 3 жыл бұрын
never was💀
@vieveetheempress
@vieveetheempress 2 жыл бұрын
In agreement
@inthezonenews
@inthezonenews 6 жыл бұрын
THIS MAN IS TELLING THE TRUTH!!! Listen up ladies!! I am 42 and I know this guy is keeping it real...the best thing you can do is love yourself more and continue to grow and heal your mind, body, soul and heart.
@bellabwz
@bellabwz 6 жыл бұрын
River Moon i just do no.1 but not to much..he say he love me n miss me much.but i feel like me who always try to contact him n ask him to meet.but he pay and we never do sex or anykind of that ..he seem not love but he say he love. Cos i love him hard to drop it n leave him cos there a question to in my mind .
@miawilliams4615
@miawilliams4615 6 жыл бұрын
Some women do all the right things and it still doesn’t matter. It’s often the man that has hang ups and is noncommittal.
@KevHick
@KevHick 6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@deniseharvey5038
@deniseharvey5038 6 жыл бұрын
Mia Williams thanku!!!
@D_J_313
@D_J_313 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly! All this "advice" Is relative & pointless because there's no true blueprint to life. Right & wrong is relative. Sayings like one man's trash is another man's treasure. To each is own. I totally agree with you.
@firstladyqueen5985
@firstladyqueen5985 6 жыл бұрын
Mia Williams and ain't that the truth! But his points are still good for females who do those things.
@nische1175
@nische1175 6 жыл бұрын
Mia Williams So true!
@Ivadivadiva
@Ivadivadiva 3 жыл бұрын
"Women are the price in the relationship, they are the most sought after treasure on this planet. Her feminine energy makes the world spin. Guys spend their whole lives to make money to aquire things to attract the treasure of a woman. Her nurturing, her love, her goddess energy"
@moonlight9883
@moonlight9883 3 жыл бұрын
My mother is the favor desperate kind of woman she started dating a guy my age and she lend him her second car when she never even let me use it or taught me how to drive, this guy ended up just messing up her car, I thought that was so desperate of her, now she drives 5 hours to another state to visit her new "boyfriend" but never has time to come visit me and her only grandson 🤷🏻‍♀️ she's just tragic, it's kind of sad actually.
@natnel617
@natnel617 2 жыл бұрын
That's crazy
@nashababy3787
@nashababy3787 2 жыл бұрын
It's sad, be the one to break generational curses. Stay strong and raise your young king
@moonlight9883
@moonlight9883 2 жыл бұрын
@@nashababy3787 I haven't spoken to her in almost 2 years, I had another baby and she hasn't met him, I just live my life as if I don't have parents is easier that way I'm kind of embarrassed to say she's mom anyways, I don't want people to think I'm a thot.
@MusicLver4eva
@MusicLver4eva 5 жыл бұрын
“Don’t service anyone who hasn’t offered you their heart” 😂😂😂😂😂 I had to subscribe after that
@LATISHAPOL125
@LATISHAPOL125 4 жыл бұрын
me too 😂😂😂😂
@realtalkwithLeila
@realtalkwithLeila 5 жыл бұрын
I treat men the way they treat me. My latest went silent for 4 days, I gave him 90 days off. If he comes back after 90 days, I'll know he was serious but if not, I'm off to the next sail. Men should understand that women multiply what we're given. Give her a house, she makes it a home. Give her silent treatment she mutes you for the longest time.
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
Leila Akinyi whoever you are can you please contact me if I give you my email address. Daphneep100@gmail.com. I want to be strong like you. I met this guy on tinder. He is a personal trainer. We exchanged numbers and we started talking and he offered to train me for free. He said he trains other people for free who doesn’t go to his gym. So we were supposed to met on a Friday. The night before he said he can’t wait for us to train. Then in the morning I went to meet him and 10 minutes before we were supposed to meet he said he is on his way. The. 5 minutes he said his tire blew out. 🙄I gave him the benefit of the doubt that he wasn’t lying but I never texted him after that. Then after 3 days he texted me and said how I’m doing. We started talking back again. Since we were not able to meet and it’s been like 2 weeks and he never mentioned anything about training anymore I just sent him pics of my meals to see if my nutrition is good. He would respond after 24 hours. I would text him paragraphs and he would text me back with 1 word. So i finally blocked him temporarily for 2 weeks. Now I’m not sure if he texted me during those 2 weeks but I would like to know. So I unblocked him. But won’t text him. Do you think I should use your 90 days off rule to see if he’s gonna text me?
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
Btw, are you seeing someone else during those 90 days?
@realtalkwithLeila
@realtalkwithLeila 5 жыл бұрын
No. I'm busy working on myself and my dreams. I have targets I need to meet.
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
Leila Akinyi you didn’t respond to my message about the trainer.
@realtalkwithLeila
@realtalkwithLeila 5 жыл бұрын
@@daphneepaul3737 Hey girl... Just seen this. Sorry for the late response. I also have a couple of blocked numbers so you're not alone. 😊 I have learnt through experience that men know what they want so it's not a woman's job to teach him anything. If he wants to treat you right, he will do so from the beginning. If not, he won't at all despite your efforts. You had a life before him and that life will continue without him. Put yourself first. If it doesn't feel right, then it definitely isn't right. Besides.... There are a million trainers... Just replace him.
@ma_necessity7701
@ma_necessity7701 4 жыл бұрын
Are you an angel..? Seriously, are you human? Never come across such honest and helpful content!!
@victorialevy431
@victorialevy431 3 жыл бұрын
I went the extra mile and never will again. I don't do anything anymore. My time has come and gone. I'm 59 and have had two divorces and I am a recent widow. My memories keep me in line. Young ladies focus on yourself. Don't waste your life chasing men who are not worth it. It's better to be alone with something than be in a relationship with a lying, cheating, abusive, manipulative loser. God bless you always.
@doctorajaguar
@doctorajaguar 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful last words. "Be agreat woman to a great men, but be a no one to a nobody" words to live by ;)
@bellah5578
@bellah5578 4 жыл бұрын
Barrios M I was thinking the same!!! ☺️❤️
@shawnette1
@shawnette1 4 жыл бұрын
Barrios M yaaassss
@tooambitious6774
@tooambitious6774 4 жыл бұрын
Barrios M periodt
@inossa8686
@inossa8686 4 жыл бұрын
Yeaaaaaaah
@NapturallyYodi
@NapturallyYodi 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for reminding us as queens to stop throwing our pearls to swine ✌🏾💛
@moorecandy2790
@moorecandy2790 6 жыл бұрын
Redeemed By His Love swine 🐷🐖🐽
@KevHick
@KevHick 6 жыл бұрын
My pleasure 😇
@SherriDLLove
@SherriDLLove 6 жыл бұрын
Kim Jackson 😰😱😨😰😰😰
@abbymay514
@abbymay514 6 жыл бұрын
Redeemed By His Love FORNICATION OF ANY KIND IS NOT APPROPRIATE FOR PEOPLE WHO LABEL HIM OR HERSELF A CHRISTIAN.
@okaygee4132
@okaygee4132 6 жыл бұрын
True!
@Maegz93
@Maegz93 3 жыл бұрын
Being reminded that femininity is valuable in the world made my night, thanks. ❤️
@latriciabrown4815
@latriciabrown4815 3 жыл бұрын
He is telling it like is. I actually heard my male friends talking about women they are fooling around with...and yes they talk! Ladies he is right...we are treasures and need to make them chase us.
@DOTMH_1
@DOTMH_1 6 жыл бұрын
I don't chase. I barely text or call, because most men I have come across want me to chase them.
@gracielamanjolynn8754
@gracielamanjolynn8754 6 жыл бұрын
Maat11 girl, i really thought it was in my head. I think they consider people like us as anomalies. They really want us to chase them, and still emphasize on males being the pursuers, chile the irony, the confusion
@qccutie06
@qccutie06 6 жыл бұрын
lavidavi86 The game playing is super old! I been over it!!! Ok he chases me and I resist so he’s gonna keep chasing me because he enjoys the chase 🙄 then when I show a little interest back the game is over, I’m over all that bs!
@Erika-yi1fj
@Erika-yi1fj 6 жыл бұрын
bigjayking24 Agree it's a two way fucking street. That's why people get all fucked up and confused cause they think that playing coy shit is normal. In the past it was more culturally acceptable for the guy to approach but now we don't like that. And in other cultures it's still like that.. but I mean, go after what you want. Show that you're interested, just don't give too much away.
@jelicianorwood24
@jelicianorwood24 6 жыл бұрын
Maat11 I know right. I want be chasing.
@davon_DaGod
@davon_DaGod 6 жыл бұрын
qccutie06 It's a bit childish if you ask me.
@N.haya_
@N.haya_ 4 жыл бұрын
8:12 "be a great woman to a great man, but be a nobody to a no one". This applies for friendships too!
@KurosakiLuvar01
@KurosakiLuvar01 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@PhaMa1002
@PhaMa1002 3 жыл бұрын
Learned this the hard way with a best friend of mine that I was in love with for years. We started talking and casually dating for us to go into a romantic relationship and I chased him away. I let my emotions get the best of me and did things Kev mentioned in this video to him that made me come off super desperate. Things I don't even do with ppl I don't know like that, but I was thinking we already best friends for 9yrs so why not, WRONG!!! He is still a man at the end of the day and I feel so stupid watching this video back again. Lesson learned and I will NEVER do that sh*t again. Better late than never! Thanks Kev.
@Keana43
@Keana43 3 жыл бұрын
@@KurosakiLuvar01 if
@Steparo
@Steparo 4 жыл бұрын
Bravo! I've just watched a few of your videos w/my 19-y-o daughter. Thumbs up all the way to your messages about modesty, self-respect, and above all, TIME to to know and be known. To all young women that are afraid they'll end up alone: you're treasures worth discovering! To all self-centered, users out there: your cover's been blown.
@KevHick
@KevHick 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@Mrdavid839
@Mrdavid839 4 жыл бұрын
Men can also appear quite desperate when they say things like what I said to a female friend of mine: "I want you to hold me like you're saying goodbye." Christ.
@emmanolan1832
@emmanolan1832 4 жыл бұрын
dont feel embarrassed you sound like a nice guy weve alldone stuff like that
@beenzumulilo9037
@beenzumulilo9037 3 жыл бұрын
Bruuuh 🙄😂🤣
@elsqueezy5459
@elsqueezy5459 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 tf
@Alladathings
@Alladathings 3 жыл бұрын
Wasn’t that an Adele lyric? Lol
@patriciaholloway
@patriciaholloway 3 жыл бұрын
And how did she reply?! Do you have romantic intentions toward her?
@bre4694
@bre4694 5 жыл бұрын
GOD BLESS YOUR PARENTS FOR RAISING A GENTLEMAN. YOU DEFINITELY NEED A TALK SHOW. FACT NOT FICTION
@MimiMimi-ed4du
@MimiMimi-ed4du 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed ! His mother and or father did an excellent job !! He is an example of a well rounded gentlemen. And he's not a stuffy boring square type either, he just has heart and brains.
@KevHick
@KevHick 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊 If you like this channel you may enjoy my other channel Kev Hick Talks Life kzfaq.info/love/QjRFZEvlsdkxgV_dq_kAqw
@safiyacrawford7401
@safiyacrawford7401 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@Eternanda
@Eternanda 6 жыл бұрын
I love how gently he speaks....and doesn't make me feel bad at the desperate mistak s I've made
@KevHick
@KevHick 6 жыл бұрын
I say everything in love 😉 Thank you for watching 😁
@theSpiritofTamzin
@theSpiritofTamzin 6 жыл бұрын
For real 😊
@CurlyCamille78
@CurlyCamille78 6 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@SonjaElizabethTeal
@SonjaElizabethTeal 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you. So right!! People want to be talke TO not AT!
@lizdawkins9987
@lizdawkins9987 2 жыл бұрын
I love this dude, he keeps it real without being harsh and offensive.
@jasmink3841
@jasmink3841 3 жыл бұрын
ohh i just realized i was being REALLY clingy with my ex. i would literally call him 4 times a day.
@freebird5469
@freebird5469 4 жыл бұрын
I've always told my daughter since the time she started liking boys as a teenager (she is 28 now) - If you want to know what is really going on in a guy, ask another guy, NOT a female! Kev says it straight and real. Every female needs a guy friend like him!
@chaitanyagupta6668
@chaitanyagupta6668 3 жыл бұрын
ofcourse you wouldnt date him. haha. You would date the jerks and keep good people as friends.
@candacehearn1771
@candacehearn1771 3 жыл бұрын
This is true I have found some nice guys to talk to about past relationships. There are some guys that are nice for friends and it just doesn't work as a romantic relationship. You can get some real good insight from another guy.
@saheliweerasinghe
@saheliweerasinghe 3 жыл бұрын
Yup idk why people would have problems with having guyfriends either😂 they be chill!
@candacehearn1771
@candacehearn1771 3 жыл бұрын
@@saheliweerasinghe that's no lie either. Guy friends are the best and as long as they want the best for you they won't stear you wrong.
@mbuotidempius
@mbuotidempius 7 ай бұрын
You got it right there "ask a male and not female"
@gina72916
@gina72916 5 жыл бұрын
"There is no neat way to break glass." I like that.
@mnewMOMA
@mnewMOMA 5 жыл бұрын
Regina Craig oh yeah. He drops so many such savvy lines in there with the calm of a Zen 😁 got to love that
@BrookeElise81
@BrookeElise81 4 жыл бұрын
I know me too. I'm stealing that one.
@BlondeVolDoll
@BlondeVolDoll 4 жыл бұрын
Oh how I wish I could go back in time.. but from here on out I’m 💯 taking all of this to heart!
@Tluv_1955
@Tluv_1955 3 жыл бұрын
Wait on God , when u sleep with a man the tables turn and they start looking elsewhere. Wait on God for ur husband !
@destanijenkins7907
@destanijenkins7907 3 жыл бұрын
amen. i’m 21 and still haven’t had sex yet. at first i felt left out because my friends are sexually active but i don’t anymore. i’ve saw how men have switched up after they’ve got what they wanted and soul ties are definitely real. i’m waiting on Christ Jesus’ timing after marriage.❤️
@suchastrangegirl36
@suchastrangegirl36 3 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏿
@angg4144
@angg4144 3 жыл бұрын
Thank u
@lyndapeoples8127
@lyndapeoples8127 5 жыл бұрын
This dude has wisdom beyond his years!
@mnewMOMA
@mnewMOMA 5 жыл бұрын
Lynda Peoples couldn’t agree more!! Where are the guys like him🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️
@lyndapeoples8127
@lyndapeoples8127 3 жыл бұрын
@@mnewMOMA ...wish I knew
@hurstjames6196
@hurstjames6196 2 жыл бұрын
Hello how're you doing today hope you're safe?
@tmptheville
@tmptheville 5 жыл бұрын
Always, Respect youself...Have your own thing going & stay busy...
@josephinewanjiku384
@josephinewanjiku384 4 жыл бұрын
True
@bernadettejones7597
@bernadettejones7597 2 жыл бұрын
I so appreciate how respectful you are when speaking on the most sensitive subject matters & topics - Thank You for speaking with so much love and warmth and care - I know I am speaking for other women and girls who get tired of hearing gross, crass and the foulest words - We Love ya, brother!!!
@maryleblanc9615
@maryleblanc9615 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a 64 yr old woman single at least 25yrs., i’ve had friendships with benefits , which was by choice. I have not want it to be in a serious relationship, not wanting to give much of myseIf to anyone. I’ve listen to a few of your videos and I’m really impressed with your directness, no bullshit, logical approach, you make a lot of sense, very intuitive. Thank you, Carry on!
@Daraling1
@Daraling1 5 жыл бұрын
Ladies. We have been exposed.
@ThylaReece
@ThylaReece 5 жыл бұрын
Dara Adeleke 😂😂😂
@garciasusie2041
@garciasusie2041 5 жыл бұрын
No. U have been exposed!
@LaMorenadelfuego
@LaMorenadelfuego 5 жыл бұрын
@Dara thats on you sis...I dont do this ish
@kim-qq8oq
@kim-qq8oq 5 жыл бұрын
No you just explode yourself and now you're trying to pull innocent women's in with you not going to happen we are not birds of a feather and we will not flip flop together
@rosag7386
@rosag7386 5 жыл бұрын
True Dara
@toviaclayton
@toviaclayton 5 жыл бұрын
I used to chase after man . Now I stop I let a man chase me
@sophiabrown9423
@sophiabrown9423 5 жыл бұрын
Me too not anymore you don't have to.
@ShareeMonique
@ShareeMonique 5 жыл бұрын
There has to be a balance in order for a relationship to work.
@blackpillsamsam6940
@blackpillsamsam6940 5 жыл бұрын
I used to chase after woman. Now I stop I let a woman chase me I guess we're not gonna chase each other
@zayesha
@zayesha 5 жыл бұрын
@@blackpillsamsam6940 😂😂😂
@martined24
@martined24 5 жыл бұрын
I use to do that the same girl not anymore
@raychillz007
@raychillz007 4 жыл бұрын
You really are next level... I have a hard time listening and believing in counselors. Instead I look up self help videos on KZfaq, and you are hands-down, someone I can rely on for legitimate, real world wisdom, and on the top of my list. Thanks!
@lisaimsoprettylyke7
@lisaimsoprettylyke7 3 жыл бұрын
When u said Topping guys off so nonchalantly 😂
@tdatda410
@tdatda410 3 жыл бұрын
Here and there to and for😆😆😆😩
@Natashea
@Natashea 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I’ve become so indifferent when it comes to dating. It takes a lot to impress me and make me want to be super affectionate and into a guy. My motto now is try harder.
@BeautyliciousTaylor2019
@BeautyliciousTaylor2019 4 жыл бұрын
That's the way to go...play hard to get💯
@bluegem3116
@bluegem3116 4 жыл бұрын
After these “boys” that have been invading my path, I’m now the same way. I wouldn’t even say I’m playing hard to get. I’m just not interested 🤷🏽‍♀️ I hear a lot of the same bs that they try to put into girls’ ears to make them swoon, but that doesn’t work on me. Lol, probably why they get mad. Either put in some real effort, or don’t waste my time 👌🏽
@Brilianjoan
@Brilianjoan 4 жыл бұрын
How do you do that
@ShiaGirl18
@ShiaGirl18 4 жыл бұрын
I like your comment. I'm currently 28 and a half, and I'm working on myself instead of dating. I have left it to God to find a partner for me. The only social media I currently use is KZfaq. If you're interested in me now, I'll turn you down nicely because I am not interested in dating.
@Brilianjoan
@Brilianjoan 4 жыл бұрын
@@ShiaGirl18 am 27, also not interested in dating, I get lonely sometimes and I feel like nobody wants me....but it's better than ending up with the wrong one. Thank you for your advice
@victoriabewry
@victoriabewry 5 жыл бұрын
"The feminine energy, makes the world spine." Finally, a man who brings more to this world than, his' ego or, narcissism. 💕
@rho690
@rho690 5 жыл бұрын
Victoria Bewry feminine energy is life or death depends on the contender
@aap5320
@aap5320 5 жыл бұрын
If more men were like him things would be easier
@victoriabewry
@victoriabewry 5 жыл бұрын
@@aap5320 To be honest, all men can be like him, it just takes self - maturity and self - denial (a lack of self pity, remorse and cockiness). In otherwords, the belief system that your less than your pride and repressed ego. 🙂
@jennymowery79
@jennymowery79 5 жыл бұрын
@@victoriabewry perfectly said thank you👏
@victoriabewry
@victoriabewry 5 жыл бұрын
@@jennymowery79 thank you ❤️
@jetw9522
@jetw9522 2 жыл бұрын
I was just genuinely treating a guy nice, now I understand that it can come off as a desperate vibe. Should have known that earlier. Thank you, Kevin!🙏🙏
@danielagomez7014
@danielagomez7014 2 жыл бұрын
Awe I love this video I feel like so many woman are getting lost in this modern world that they have forgotten how special our femininity is and how we need to act like it 💕
@yasmineee702
@yasmineee702 6 жыл бұрын
"Godly women don't have to advertise. They just be. Their trust is in the Lord. The anointing makes them beautiful. It attracts and demands attention and respect all on it's own. It will catch the eye of any man who can recognize the true spirit of God. It is rare for a man to come at her disrespectfully because the God in her radiates like the bright sun. It says I am a woman of God. A princess. A daughter of the King of kings. Her very presence and spirit demands the best and nothing less. She is not desperate for anything, and her emotions are checked by the Holy Spirit. Her heart is in the hands of God, and God will not give it to a man who is unworthy of his daughters love"
@teresamarks8212
@teresamarks8212 6 жыл бұрын
Mini92 Thank You and Amen!
@bettyboop4611
@bettyboop4611 6 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said 😊
@queenofmodesty3645
@queenofmodesty3645 5 жыл бұрын
FULL STOP.
@sayilubyu7452
@sayilubyu7452 5 жыл бұрын
Got teary.
@donnalee3845
@donnalee3845 5 жыл бұрын
Aman my sister that is so true that minister to me I felt that in my spirit.
@eulawinfrey5948
@eulawinfrey5948 6 жыл бұрын
Women....Stand back ... Let the man... Pursue You . That's God's way . My husband chased me before marriage ... And now , happily married....He's STILL chasing me around the house . Let him do it .
@XPrincess30
@XPrincess30 6 жыл бұрын
Eula Winfrey lmao how does he chase you around the house?
@eulawinfrey5948
@eulawinfrey5948 6 жыл бұрын
@@XPrincess30 Romantically, of course ,with attention and affection throughout the day
@telepathicabilities7748
@telepathicabilities7748 6 жыл бұрын
Not everyone believes in this god 😂😂
@BriannaNecole
@BriannaNecole 6 жыл бұрын
@@telepathicabilities7748 you should he's real
@Amusegirl1980
@Amusegirl1980 6 жыл бұрын
I feel you and hear you. Same here. He hasn't changed how beautifully he tends to and pursues me in 8 years. I follow him round the house too like a puppy. Haha.
@victoryrichman
@victoryrichman 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. I'm actually surprised anyone would click the unlike button for this video. I'm glad I located this channel, it just popped up while I was searching for a relationship guide. Every lady needs to watch this because most of us make these mistakes.
@alaynasharp1637
@alaynasharp1637 4 жыл бұрын
“Again guys know when they should be entitled to such a favor” please don’t take this as a hate comment but I strongly disagree a man is never entitled to anything about a woman’s body such favors are to be given by the woman’s own free will not because the man is entitled to it
@tricialynn8279
@tricialynn8279 4 жыл бұрын
I get it ...true....lots of room for opinions thats for sure.......i think tho ges talking about wanting long term or marriage to take it slow...if just casual....well 2 concenting adults can do as they please of course
@alaynasharp1637
@alaynasharp1637 4 жыл бұрын
Of course I completely respect everyone’s choice with there bodies and I will give the benefit of the doubt and believe that there was no ill will put behind his statement and it was of course simply just for insight into the mind of another I just don’t feel like the wording settled with me well at all
@KevHick
@KevHick 5 жыл бұрын
If you appreciate my content share my videos 😉
@saspirella09
@saspirella09 5 жыл бұрын
Much appreciated and shared
@kycart
@kycart 4 жыл бұрын
I shared with my daughters, good job man!
@crosbythole1448
@crosbythole1448 4 жыл бұрын
We appreciate and love it. Keep them coming Kev. You doing a great job educating us women. Thank you.
@emilybarnett9810
@emilybarnett9810 4 жыл бұрын
“The feminine energy makes this world spin” This guy here is who I want my son to grow up to be like. Thank you for your beautiful, feminist point of view, because this IS feminism
@nefertitipeace5360
@nefertitipeace5360 3 жыл бұрын
NO DAM FEMINISM
@chaitanyagupta6668
@chaitanyagupta6668 3 жыл бұрын
basically you want your son to worship women. Women just want and want but never reciprocate.
@leeslyrose
@leeslyrose 3 жыл бұрын
Feminine Energy is not the same as feminism. A lot of feminists actually have a lot of masculine energy
@BehindTheBush96
@BehindTheBush96 3 жыл бұрын
@@chaitanyagupta6668 it’s men who never reciprocate. Always women doing all your housework for free and men expecting head but never reciprocating - but go off about how it’s women with nothing to offer 🤡
@chaitanyagupta6668
@chaitanyagupta6668 3 жыл бұрын
@@BehindTheBush96 ahh, we men experience the same. Now I wonder, if anyone experiences true love?
@Tamerahoney
@Tamerahoney 4 жыл бұрын
As I get older “24” I started to recognize this behavior in my teens and sometimes even now. But that’s not even how I started to love myself . I got into a relationship with a guy in this “DESPERATE “ way and for 9 years I kid you not I gave & gave & gave and sacrificed everything to keep him and happy . It’s not till I got tired and asked for the same energy that I eventually left. From there I learned to love and appreciate myself to love everything I hated about myself to build myself up in every way and to succeed in everything I wanted . I’m still working on myself everyday it’s a battle like everything else in our lives. Do I know where it started? No , but I have an idea why I would be without emotional stability: self esteem
@mexicanbeautyqueen7988
@mexicanbeautyqueen7988 3 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said. Be a great woman for a great man but we are nobody for a nobody
@Tabaitha_Elle
@Tabaitha_Elle 6 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you mentioned oral sex because that’s something I’ve never been fond of just doing. These days people ( male & female ) will tell me that’s why I’m single but I refuse to put my mouth on just anybody. Even within a relationship it takes me a long time because I want to see how loyal he is first.
@tab2go675
@tab2go675 6 жыл бұрын
It's Tabaitha love your name mine is Tabitha
@Tabaitha_Elle
@Tabaitha_Elle 6 жыл бұрын
tab2go Hi Tabitha. Thank you!
@KevHick
@KevHick 6 жыл бұрын
That mouf is supposed to be sacred🙌🏾🙌🏾 It’s selfless. It’s sexual submission. So many young women hate the idea of submission but pop it in the mouth for any guy that makes them blush😔🤔🤔 I guess🤷🏽‍♂️. Great point 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@mariajones9102
@mariajones9102 6 жыл бұрын
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿Thank you!! Do you know that fellatio basically replaced the first kiss? And as for attention seeking thirst traps- I'm sick of them. There every where and I mean everywhere and their getting younger and younger. There is no way I could have a daughter in this day and age. I'd have to send her to a convent.
@kimsikorski5691
@kimsikorski5691 6 жыл бұрын
I think when it comes to oral sex and just reg sex that neither of them should be happening. I was with a guy and we were just friends and actually I believed him to be my best friend but that all changed after he asked me to come over and clean his house to make extra money to take on vacation. This was 6 months of friendship. Well I went to clean and he raped me. He said he didn't hear me say no once. I guess he must not know what the word no means. And you want to know what he had the nerve to say to me? " He waited 6 months to be with me ". I said you waited for nothing you took..... So yes it broke my heart to know that someone I told 3 weeks prior that for some odd reason I felt safe with him and trusted him could turn around and do that to me. So very sad....
@glendavernier2346
@glendavernier2346 5 жыл бұрын
I don't know how I got here. But I sent this to my 2 daughters 24 & 25 years old. I have been telling them this for years!!😂 Thank you!
@Giggles50
@Giggles50 5 жыл бұрын
Glenda Vernier I hope your daughters listen. Don’t sleep with a man or do anything sexual unless it’s a serious relationship. Marriage is the goal, not one night stands, flings, booty calls etc.. Some women do anything with a dude they just met and sleep with men outside of a relationship or mess with men in relationships. It’s a waste of time to give up your virginity to a loser.
@garenanighoro8704
@garenanighoro8704 2 жыл бұрын
When you are not desperate, you make better choices. Thank you Kev Hick.
@nolwandlemkwanazi6627
@nolwandlemkwanazi6627 3 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna start looking at your video’s because your tone is so calm,unlike men that bash us. I’m ready to attract the right guy and change my ways. Thank you
@MuseSunflower
@MuseSunflower 6 жыл бұрын
I love how you speak about masculine and feminine energies. Polarity is key for a healthy relationship
@KevHick
@KevHick 6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@Inkaa1tarot
@Inkaa1tarot 6 жыл бұрын
Zygo Vang yes that's the word the yin and yang energies 🖤🙏
@niceawaldron6235
@niceawaldron6235 5 жыл бұрын
I been texting way too much... Thanks for this advise.
@lapisstories
@lapisstories 5 жыл бұрын
Nicea Waldron Cellphones one of those factors. What did they do in the old times? 😂😂😂
@steveboone1498
@steveboone1498 4 жыл бұрын
It's best to follow your own heart and see where it leads you. Love might not happen right away but it will lead you to the person who is right for you.
@lolababy4878
@lolababy4878 3 жыл бұрын
My parents didn't have to go n through all of this. Men back in the 70's were affectionate and didn't have a problem expressing their love. Now we can't do shit without being called crazy.
@hungrybabe4732
@hungrybabe4732 3 жыл бұрын
This guy is always on point! I do believe that men think like this. It’s not even intentional, it’s a subconscious thinking. Men were created like this
@DeeSymone_
@DeeSymone_ 6 жыл бұрын
“I get the emails.” I hollered 😂😂😂😂
@ohhtiffanys
@ohhtiffanys 5 жыл бұрын
Dee Symone' 😭😭😭😭
@Tonia682
@Tonia682 5 жыл бұрын
I did too😂🤣🤣
@tipro1333
@tipro1333 5 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@mbg140897
@mbg140897 5 жыл бұрын
SAME!!!!!😂😂👏🏻👏🏻
@kandilocks4078
@kandilocks4078 5 жыл бұрын
LMFAOOO 😂😂😂😂
@an_impasse
@an_impasse 5 жыл бұрын
I really like the way you deliver your thoughts and intents. It’s clear, firm but not conceited whatsoever. You really sound like you do respect and care about both men and women and articulate your ideas very well.
@itwasratedarrgh
@itwasratedarrgh 3 жыл бұрын
I was all of this! Before this video, i calmed down, i just got tired of all the effort and decided to enjoy being by myself. I’m sure whoever saw my social media called me desperate... but whatever, i learn from my mistakes and this is my first complete year of being single since 6 years of 2 horrible non stop relationships.. so needless to say, no excuse but it has definitely been a learning curve. I realized i hate hook up culture lol, just waiting for God to drop that good man in front of me.
@Jan-zk9if
@Jan-zk9if 3 жыл бұрын
Here's a book I recommend: "Why men love bitches". Much of what he talks about in this vid, is repeated in more detail there and then some
@monicawerner5762
@monicawerner5762 3 жыл бұрын
Lol my Med student was wanting to gain brownie points with me by staying late n summarizing research for me - so I tossed him this book n said summarize it n give me ur feedback Monday (he’s a male)..next day he came back n said “ya, 100% true” lol - men love being treated like dirt, go figure
@2jcward
@2jcward 3 жыл бұрын
@@monicawerner5762 Yup!
@angelataylor7799
@angelataylor7799 3 жыл бұрын
@@monicawerner5762 but always? all the time? lol. Imma have to check out that book, lol....funny how when I was younger and would have guys yelling things at me while walking down the street lol, it always stressed me out and pissed me off so I didnt want anything to do w/guys...I thought that was one reason they didnt seem to like me, cuz I was pissed off lol...but now being nice you just get screwed over, so....go figure, lol. can never win it seems.
@diamondwilliams9833
@diamondwilliams9833 4 жыл бұрын
I have a question, why no one speaks on how guys cry over the same girls that they are calling hoes. Lmao
@dianaharris3967
@dianaharris3967 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@jasminewalker3522
@jasminewalker3522 4 жыл бұрын
They love hoes
@diamondwilliams9833
@diamondwilliams9833 4 жыл бұрын
@@jasminewalker3522 😑😂😂
@kebabs5722
@kebabs5722 4 жыл бұрын
Thats a very good question hey... I would also like to know...
@BluDrop5
@BluDrop5 4 жыл бұрын
Because we're supposed to be no one to those nobodies...lol.
@AmethystSnow
@AmethystSnow 6 жыл бұрын
This just made me feel so validated, thank you. I'm a woman who REFUSES to do any of these things and I struggle to find a man who is down with that. They want to have sex without even knowing each other's last names and I feel like we've normalized that so much as a culture that I'm now in an extreme minority.
@ninfacarter9094
@ninfacarter9094 5 жыл бұрын
You and I are on the same page. Men never ask me my last name, but always ask me about oral. I usually delete their numbers immediately. I was married for 6 years and didn't perform oral so I'm definitely not going to without a ring on my finger.
@FA-cx6dt
@FA-cx6dt 5 жыл бұрын
I'm right there with you. Because I am not willing to have sex early on...and I'm talking within a week to two months of knowing someone, he is ready to leave. He gets pushy about sex,and if I continue to say no, he then ghosts me. It's fucking disgusting and yes....society has normalized this behavior. Women are out here readily putting someone else's genitals in their mouth, meanwhile,you have no idea what diseases this person has. I'm not trying to have to get prescriptions for Valtrax for the rest of my life. It's lonely sometimes,but I will not be used in this way for my body or forced to be intimate before I am ready. But I do believe quality men are out there..... Who would be more than willing to wait for me for when the time is right for BOTH of us.
@MsCreativePurpose
@MsCreativePurpose 5 жыл бұрын
It does my heart good to know I'm not the only one standing my ground and it's ok. At one point I was wondering if I was the wrong one. I refuse to be someone's play toy. As fast as they ghost me for not giving into foolishness I allow them to stay dead and never look back..PEACE
@AmethystSnow
@AmethystSnow 5 жыл бұрын
It makes me so happy to read that I'm not alone here. IDK when we normalized sex over knowing someone, but it's no wonder STD rates are off the charts and so are the statistics for single mothers. How can we expect a man to be a father when we literally don't even know who he is? I'd rather be alone than give my body to a complete stranger--if more women had this attitude, men would have no choice but to change. So long as we as society applaud having sex with dozens of different people at once (this isn't an exaggeration, I knew a guy who had 25 girls he'd met on Tinder in his phone that he'd rotate through) then we'll never change. Call me old school, but I date with the thought of marriage at the end, not a fuck-buddy.
@FA-cx6dt
@FA-cx6dt 5 жыл бұрын
@@AmethystSnow I agree. STD rates are entirely off the charts because TINDER and other sites are equivalent to..."sex on demand". Women are the gate keepers. So because some women are out here allowing men to use them,or society alludes that being comfortable with your sexuality is equivalent to promiscuity, the cycle goes on and on. My body is a TEMPLE. I've never had any type of STD,and I want to keep it that way. I have friends no joke who tell me barebacking is their thing!😖 And one friend I know for a fact has genital herpes (because he told me) and he DOESN'T CARE. He has literally said to me, "Oh well. It's just ANOTHER PILL I HAVE TO TAKE."😩 Of course he is not warning his "hookups" that he has been diagnosed with genital herpes. He is just going out and having sex. PERIOD. I have another friend who would boast about his sexual exploits which I technically didn't mind. But I would always ask him is he used protection. He would usually say yes. Then....he mentioned a threesome he had,and I asked again if protection was used. He shrugged off my question. Time passes, and he says...Remember that threesome I had? Yeah well, I tested positive for HIV." He tested positive and one of his hookups KNEW they were positive but simply didn't care. All his hookup said was, "I know. Me too." 😒😒 Part of the problem I think is that people think that these situations will NEVER happen to them because they either have not been exposed to these situations, or they don't have friends or people around them who are open about exposing the downsides of promiscuity and sexual recklessness. We live in a society that praises and celebrates having sex with strangers frequently, which is often the perfect mix for women finding themselves in situations where they are being SEXUALLY ASSAULTED/RAPED. And then they don't report it for a myriad of reasons like shame, guilt, being doubted and then back to SHAME . I will never blame a woman for anyone's horrid actions, HOWEVER, we as women NEED to be AWARE and make decisions that take care of ourselves. Like....*NOT GOING TO RANDOM MENS HOMES FOR SEX OR INVITING THEM TO OURS. *OR CHOOSING TO BE INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE YOU DON'T KNOW. What's the gotdamn rush??? I mean dayummm.😑 Or men find themselves in a situation where they now have to take care of a child they were not prepared for. Some as well know, completely abandon their responsibilities entirely. I thank god I have never been in any of these situations because I was taught to make better decisions than what society is trying to shove down our throats. Humans are stupid and tribal. Just follow what other people are doing or what they tell you too. I've never been a random hookup up person,and I never will be. I allow myself to get to know a guy (his personality,characteristics etc) for a MINIMUM of three months before I even consider having sex. Why? Because within that time, I will be able to see what I do and don't like about him....if you look and listen enough. If I like him enough, then....let's head to the STD clinic on a "day date" and get tested for EVERY STD out there. Then....we can proceed....WHEN IM READY. But guys I have met in the past don't seem to reach the three month personality/character test. Some have tried to manipulate and lie about their intentions....and it always SHOWS. 😒 But good for you May for taking care of you. The universe will provide you with quality if that is what you are seeking.😊
@Triena524
@Triena524 2 жыл бұрын
He express himself well and to the point without sugar coating what he has to say. It is all true points of desperation from women.
@rienavoir8250
@rienavoir8250 3 жыл бұрын
So impressed! We women can be pretty blind sometimes I feel like I should rewatch this every month
@witkneemenyon5612
@witkneemenyon5612 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve noticed this at a young age so as I got older I always acted detached which by nature I kinda am and I always have got their attention! It works.
@isatabaj2430
@isatabaj2430 5 жыл бұрын
Witknee Hix lmao yes sis. This tactic is what I’ve done since getting my heart broken at a young age and I’ve always had men chase me since. They love a detached female smh
@LilithTheAquarian369
@LilithTheAquarian369 5 жыл бұрын
Witknee Hix Are you an Aquarius? 😲 We couldn't care less about about men/ relationships and we move on fast and we love our solitude!
@MsLiana2009
@MsLiana2009 5 жыл бұрын
Same! Lol. I’m an Aquarius though so it comes naturally 🤷🏼‍♀️
@Licia.S
@Licia.S 5 жыл бұрын
Aquarius's in the the building y'all
@Richcocoa_
@Richcocoa_ 5 жыл бұрын
Aquarius 🙌🏾🙌🏾 I see the resemblance
@Lovely_Diva
@Lovely_Diva 5 жыл бұрын
This is very insighful. Most women these days are desperate because theyre afraid of being alone. But if you carry yourself in a respectful no nosense manner you will get the right man!!!!
@MelîaMusicOfficial
@MelîaMusicOfficial 4 жыл бұрын
It is good that you try to show the average mans perspective in an objective way. You seem very kind! Keep up the good work
@HAHA-kk2xy
@HAHA-kk2xy 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is a guided meditation because your voice is so relaxing! 😂💅
@Nadiahope7
@Nadiahope7 6 жыл бұрын
Yes! I've made so many of these mistakes & learned the hard way. Nice to hear honest male perspectives.
@melissarosario6176
@melissarosario6176 6 жыл бұрын
Nile and Moon me to
@wshelby83
@wshelby83 6 жыл бұрын
I made some mistakes as well
@traceylennon1204
@traceylennon1204 5 жыл бұрын
It takes a real man with a good heart to reveal these things to us females.. awesome job Kevin!!!
@monicasanders2355
@monicasanders2355 Жыл бұрын
I'm not a desperate woman. I'm a nice looking woman where plenty of men want to get to know me. I'm a good person with a good personality that also attracts. There has always been a waiting line. I'm 54 years old and look younger than I am. I get that compliment all the time!
@charlesbrownxx1xx773
@charlesbrownxx1xx773 3 жыл бұрын
I couldn't have said it better....your very intelligent, insightful, but relatable. Perfect. X
@4gma59
@4gma59 6 жыл бұрын
The BEST advice for women I've seen on KZfaq. My parents told me all of this 30 years ago and I've tried to impart this wisdom to my own young ladies. Nice to see it coming from a young man in this day and age. Keep up the great work. It's so desperately needed, especially for those without fathers to guide them.
@4gma59
@4gma59 5 жыл бұрын
Even the best of guys will ''test you'' to see how much you'll put up with. Hold your ground -- I'm so glad you're sticking to your standards. God will put the right guys in your path. Sending love and praying for your happiness.
@felicityduran6547
@felicityduran6547 5 жыл бұрын
This hurt, but I NEEDED to hear it. Def subscribing
@farfetched9296
@farfetched9296 4 жыл бұрын
It's a crash course. Learn and implement the lesson
@jackie.s2569
@jackie.s2569 4 жыл бұрын
The thing is..I first messaged him once every two days ( we were in a relationship by then ) and was fine with it, he then asked me to message him every day because he was feeling insecure..I did it to make him feel secure but he didn't do the same thing back and started to be too busy to contact me, I started to feel insecure/desperate because of him making me wait ( he answered fast in the beginning but with the time needed longer and longer to answer to the point he himself felt bad about it) , leaving me on read..He was visibly loosing feelings for me until he broke up with me because I said that I want more, that I was upset about him not showing his love for me anymore, that I find myself waiting non stop that I want and deserve a partner who makes the same effort like I, someone who keeps his word ( he told me he is going to call me but didn't do it twice. The second time I asked him why he didn't call me..He said his phone had no energy 😒)..He asked me to message him everyday, so ????? It's like messaging hi and don't answering..I don't understand..I always tried to not double message and send as few messages as possible but still show my feelings, tried to be as patient as possible..And he was the first one who said "I love you" ( after a month of dating) and who was thinking about marriage (two months)..
@tjaspire
@tjaspire 3 жыл бұрын
You weren't asking for anything unreasonable. Some of these weak men like to be chased. And an "I love you" after a month? He probably sent it via text message and he did it just to get in your pants. Guys will say anything to get in your pants and speed things along. In my experience, a guy rushing these things and talking about marriage so early on is usually a red flag to me. You need to wait it out and their true intentions will usually be revealed. How can you give more than you are getting? He sounds like a clown who did not deserve your affection or time. Never be the aggressor or "masculine energy" as some people call it. I don't believe in energies because I am Christian, but it illustrates my point. I hope you never waste your time with a guy like that again. It really disgusts me how some guys these days want to be pursued. That is not our job!
@angelinasamson6996
@angelinasamson6996 Жыл бұрын
I can honestly say after watching a few dating channels that you give the most effective help that’s easy to fully understand ❤ thank you
@mamajanelle9084
@mamajanelle9084 5 жыл бұрын
I just realized i've been doing most of the wrong things and it's landed me a narcissist husband. But i'm just 24 with a child and seeking for divorce. When it's all over, i'll surely do the right things. Love your video.
@Rhiannoncout
@Rhiannoncout 5 жыл бұрын
Mama, yes you deserve better.
@alluringbliss4165
@alluringbliss4165 5 жыл бұрын
you are 24... You have yet to begin to grow... I am 37 and single, never married nor had a long term relationship with a guy due to my insecurities... Be Optimistic
@kpopangel
@kpopangel 5 жыл бұрын
That's the spirit! You'll do well. ❤
@Driverswithattitudes
@Driverswithattitudes 5 жыл бұрын
Hey better now than later..people get psychologically stuck on these people....and then you want something from someone who doesn't have the capacity for it...once u know what to look for you will never waste more than a few conversations on them. that's the best part😀😀😀
@noirfit9721
@noirfit9721 5 жыл бұрын
Girrrrlllll! I was doing most of the things in this video and I landed me a solid narcissist husband. I’m also 24 but he divorced (more like ghosted) my ass 8 months ago. After sacrificing for almost 5 years, he left me for another. But I can only chalk it up to life experience and a lesson learned. I’ve never been as happy as I am now. I’m so grateful to have learned my worth. Might’ve been hella late but I got the lesson!
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