5 WEIRD Things God Often Uses to Reveal THE ONE He Wants You to Marry

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How will God tell you who to marry? How will you know when God is revealing "the one" to you? What ways will God reveal your future spouse to you? Here are 5 weird things that often happen when God is revealing the one he wants you to marry.
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@luingalls 4 жыл бұрын

My boss, a new Christian, began praying for his wife to come along. I was hired a few weeks later. He and I looked at each other (when he met me in the lobby the first time) and BAM. He thought "yes, she's the one", and my brain said "family". I was born again a few months later, after I started attending his church with him. Everything he is saying here is so true. We'll be celebrating 17 years married this year. I love him more now than I ever did. God has always been our glue.

@jillybeanthegringa4104 4 жыл бұрын

🙏💗🥰

@mukisawinfred8912 4 жыл бұрын

Do it for me jesus as u did it for her

@traumamom4338 4 жыл бұрын

@@mukisawinfred8912 amen

@tiffannyyu 4 жыл бұрын

You're so blessed and lucky girl

@brendafaithful8267 4 жыл бұрын

That's Awesome!! That's exactly how God works! You knew inside yourself that he was "family" ....I love how God confirms that! He's done the same thing with me!

@BluDrop5 4 жыл бұрын

God better be in this relationship. If He isn't, it will be two broken people in a toxic relationship.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

God bless!

@Seraphim7 4 жыл бұрын

BOOM

@AshleyJones-cb3xf 4 жыл бұрын

Correct! I was in a relationship for 2 years with a someone who didn't believe in God and it was one of the most toxic relationships I'd ever been in. Showed me that I have to be with someone I can pray and praise with. My soul felt totally drained by the time I broke it off.

@tingwongyu1430 4 жыл бұрын

So true!

@HaunuChristine 4 жыл бұрын

Hmm there are many many toxic relationships between Christians and some healthy living relationships between non Christians.

@columbia1754 2 жыл бұрын

I pray I can meet my soulmate and that everyone reading this will meet theirs!

@hennisdoffman5412 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You ❤️

@cindyrizkyy1177 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🥰

@Oluwakemisolaokesola 2 жыл бұрын

Amen! Thank you 🤗

@ackeemlyn9628 2 жыл бұрын

amen

@danielmante8075 Жыл бұрын

😍😍😍😍😍 Thanks

@nathenewendzel884 3 жыл бұрын

If you don't love God more than me, you don't have enough love for me.

@jabproductions4056 2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@Steven-jf2xj 3 ай бұрын

Wow word pal, thanks for that word

@danielkazeze737 4 жыл бұрын

For those of us in the "Waiting season". Lets not pray only for ourselves but for every godly bachelorette and bachelor out there desiring marriage ( In Job 42:10 He prayed for his friends then God restored and blessed him twice as much as he had before ). When we do good unto others God honors it and He meets our needs double

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

God bless

@rosariovarela1551 4 жыл бұрын

Yes 🙏

@michanne5571 4 жыл бұрын

I bless forgive love and embrace all my ‘enemies 7 times 77. And I offer blessing love , ask for forgiveness to the creator Jesus, God Lord

@danielkazeze737 4 жыл бұрын

@@michanne5571 Amen

@kemimafolo 4 жыл бұрын

This is so true and good thank you for reminder because I have been caught up in myself lately. Thank you

@nyl257 4 жыл бұрын

It's so hard.. but yes, I think it's true.. but most important is we must cling to God more than the person we are with..

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@brendafaithful8267 4 жыл бұрын

I hear you... WOW!!!! I'm going thru it and hard is an understatement!

@nyl257 4 жыл бұрын

Let's just always go back to the Lord, because after all that we are going through here on earth, the Lord will only remain. Praying for us all who are in this situation. Thank you sir Mark for your videos. Keep going and more like us will be blessed!

@brendafaithful8267 4 жыл бұрын

@@nyl257 for sure! God is good!! Thank you for your words.. There's always different extreme behaviours with people and or abuse and the list can go on which can really make things feel almost impossible. God is my rock ... God bless you!

@Nanzz06 4 жыл бұрын

🥺

@mariadavis5740 4 жыл бұрын

I am believing God for a Christian Husband please agree with me thank you.

@somethingpretty5202 4 жыл бұрын

I agree with you❤️

@Xqqsme7 4 жыл бұрын

Agree❤️

@kiara3299 4 жыл бұрын

Agree!

@mariadavis5740 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Kiara

@mariadavis5740 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Crystal

@Tina4Yhwh 3 жыл бұрын

God should be first before a mate. God should be the only one that we seek to complete us.

@user-cl9le8kw9b 4 жыл бұрын

Ezekiel 36:26 I will give you a new heart and a new spirit and I will take away your heart of stone and replace it with a heart of flesh

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

Amen! One of my favorite verses :)

@acharich 4 жыл бұрын

🌪️🙏🏾🌪️

@mariesowhat3166 4 жыл бұрын

Amen🙏🏼

@dorzellcannady6555 4 жыл бұрын

Wow.. The wounds heal once yall come together.. If im explaining the vision right.. The I AM in you helps them heal.. They see Father God in you..and it help them heal.. Hope i got that right..lol.. The vision Father God showed me..

@Proverbs31woman42 4 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@rockxhero 4 жыл бұрын

I've learned not to say "I'll never" anymore.

@Haydns1stborn 4 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@rockxhero 4 жыл бұрын

On 2nd thought, maybe I should say "I'll never marry model!" ....

@Haydns1stborn 4 жыл бұрын

You never know ☺️

@rockxhero 4 жыл бұрын

@@Haydns1stborn HA!

@primrosebontle6784 4 жыл бұрын

Talk about ripping up the list. 😊👍 I was watching Ps Mike Todd's teaching on Relationship Goals Reloaded and boy didn't he mention in Part 3_that sometimes we have to rip up our lists, because what we want for us may not be what God wants for us

@tj9801 4 жыл бұрын

1. Both of your wounds will often antagonize the other person’s wounds which God uses to cause a deeper pursuit of healing (Proverbs 27:17) 2. God will often bring you and your future spouse together in a way that you would never have expected (Isaiah 55:8-9) 3. You both will have an odd amount of acceptance for each other’s annoying quirks (Psalm 139:14) 4. Your spiritual differences and personality differences will help you live a more well rounded life together 5. When things get hard you will run towards each other other rather than away from Each other (Prov 30:18-19)

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

God bless :)

@acharich 4 жыл бұрын

✨⚡🔑📝🔑⚡✨

@stephaniejsmes8991 4 жыл бұрын

Oh wow thank you so so much for breaking it down and giving us notes to refer to based on the video.

@sophiachin1262 4 жыл бұрын

So where is he Jesus??? Align, mesh and unite us. Here I am Lord.

@lamulata1azuquita128 4 жыл бұрын

T J thank you

@JesusIsKing12334 Жыл бұрын

Singleness is a precious gift from God, when the times right he will make things obvious for you.

@Bwoodfam 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve met my husband. We’ve been together 2 years now. The June before we met. We both prayed for our soul mates. And the following June we met and our first date was 9 hours long 😍.. he is my soul mate. thank God!

@unbelaneablebeautyy Жыл бұрын

This is amazing! I relate to everything in this video and the guy I’ve been seeing is a man of God. Our first date was 8 hours long and the time flew by! I’m hoping I’ve found mine too

@VibeWithVida 4 жыл бұрын

So many of us want to find THE ONE so much that we're not enjoying God's timing for our singleness. That's so important BEFORE God blesses us with our spouse. We should take ourselves out on a date to a nice restaurant or outing. Enjoy our separated time growing into good spouses. We should smile as we walk through the grocery aisle, that spouse could be in the produce section! We have faith, we know our spouse is coming, but first let's be secure and grateful that our singleness is preparation BEFORE marriage. 😎

@acharich 4 жыл бұрын

Mmm, singleness is an important period / season to maximise.. ✨🙏🏾✨

@VibeWithVida 4 жыл бұрын

@@acharich yes. To spend your time with God, get to know and love thyself and celebrate your individuality. It should be a pleasure to spend time with yourself. After all if we don't want to be alone with ourselves, why would anyone else?

@rl.4699 4 жыл бұрын

Amen !

@clairedavison5607 4 жыл бұрын

What if you're in your 50s?

@michaelm9361 4 жыл бұрын

I have faith in God, but I'm terrified that I'll never rind the right woman . I'm fifty -- eight, and I'm also terrified that I'll marry the right women a few months before she gets Alzheimer's Disease and has to go into a nursing home . Being single is the worst thing I can think of !

@virgeleyp.4040 4 жыл бұрын

My parents met at a youth camp and have been married 23 years now. I thought it was sooooo amazing 🥺♥️ and thought it was like that in the old days😭 now my boyfriend who is courting me, we met at a youth camp 😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

@alabasterheartministries_ 4 жыл бұрын

VIRGELEY P. Girl this is beautiful!!! I love ittt❤️❤️

@melissakkeys4953 4 жыл бұрын

Oh wow

@angelapeninah4953 4 жыл бұрын

Am happy for u dia happy together ness

@aimeeb2084 4 жыл бұрын

Woah

@daugtherofzion369 4 жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@kimberlycarter145 4 жыл бұрын

Marriage is hard. It's about dirty dishes in the sink, dirty laundry left undone, frustration over bills, it's a decision every day to be in LOVE just like it's a decision every day to walk with God. No one has a formula or 'the way' to find a mate or successful relationship and marriage. It's about being committed to the relationship above any of your own personal needs. It's not some magical thing that just happens. You have to work at it. Also, no one should ever accept abuse. There's a level of respect that should be established early in the relationship. It can take years to truly know another person's heart. Truly.

@andreabarnes5879 3 жыл бұрын

Amen. I fully understand your comment. 👍👍👍👍

@ongnamo9 3 жыл бұрын

Or u just live off grid....and work on seeing eachother.....drink fresh water from the heavens.....bee thankfull....and seek the k8ngdom/Queendom. Amen. A woman. ACHILD

@edith324 3 жыл бұрын

@@ongnamo9 seek ye first the kingdom of God and everything else will be added to u.

@BeeUluwehi 2 жыл бұрын

Ggvhcvhgyctctchchvhuhnkj iguvg

@GabrielGonzalez-mn9fz 4 жыл бұрын

If you wanna make God laugh just tell him your plans ? Lol very true it’s all about what he wants.

@acharich 4 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

amen!

@divineprovidence803 4 жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with telling God your hearts desires. I know he has a plan but it doesn't mean we shouldn't be bold in prayer asking for certain things. God bless.

@Android-ds9ie 4 жыл бұрын

@@divineprovidence80322 "Have faith in God," Jesus answered. 23 "Truly Some early manuscripts ["If you have faith in God," Jesus answered, "truly] I tell you, if anyone says to this mountain, 'Go, throw yourself into the sea,' and does not doubt in their heart but believes that what they say will happen, it will be done for them. 24 Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.

@Android-ds9ie 4 жыл бұрын

@@divineprovidence803 God has given me everything I asked

@Max-yk5mo 4 жыл бұрын

Aww this is such a wonderful video - i just kept thinking ‘awww, God is actually a sweetheart!’ 😂

@alinediarra5908 4 жыл бұрын

Bidness I’ve been told God is the greatest Match Maker! Haha

@misspiggy3660 4 жыл бұрын

Bidness with a lot of humor

@audrey0707 2 жыл бұрын

God is a true gentleman 😊

@rachel7c 3 жыл бұрын

This is all what happened to me!!! *now I'm engaged*

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 3 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@lesaforbes6241 3 жыл бұрын

Awwww!!!!!!! Congratulations Queen!!!!!!!

@txwarriorbride5112 3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations! That is awesome! I wish you and your intended a beautiful Kingdom marriage! 🙏😍

@mariahceleste93 4 жыл бұрын

I can't wait to meet the one.🥺

@MonicaD444 3 жыл бұрын

Same, Sis!🙏🏼🙌🏼💕

@jimb3093 3 жыл бұрын

Me too. Still searching

@harolddambley7882 3 жыл бұрын

I pray and I hope you meet the right person soon

@shanitah1202 3 жыл бұрын

James Bukovec God will bring the one sooner than u ever imagined

@jimb3093 3 жыл бұрын

@@shanitah1202 thank you. 🙂

@miikamona 4 жыл бұрын

Idk why this popped up on my recommendations but since this pandemic I’ve been doing a lot of inner work and More of the things I haven’t had time to do for myself. I was telling my friend that I felt like God is having me to prepare myself for my soul partner ❤️

@kefiki2049 4 жыл бұрын

Same here !! I wish you the bestes luck on your journey

@ilsem3339 3 жыл бұрын

same omg

@lindamontez630 3 жыл бұрын

Do y'all know the feeling of being single for almost two years not because you don't have people who likes you but because somehow...you feel your soul mate near than ever?...that's what is happening to me

@murungiatusasiire9904 3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@murungiatusasiire9904 3 жыл бұрын

@@lindamontez630 there's a way God uses people to encourage one another, thanks Linda and I've been single 5months now and I feel wiser not to just say yes to any one Interested but only to my special one after the Holy Spirit reveals him to me. It's the fresh hope am grateful to God for

@preachingpoet 4 жыл бұрын

This is beautiful. I’ve been trying to clean myself up for this person, but maybe I’m supposed to relax, exhale, and just spend time playing and enjoying life. Maybe I should let go and let God

@ubaok24 4 жыл бұрын

Same.

@gabrielle6158 4 жыл бұрын

Yes! I did this exactly for a whole year and cleaned myself up and out of nowhere, I don’t know, I think I met someone that’s worth pursuing. ☺️

@misskat7437 4 жыл бұрын

Seek God first, not the man. The more willing we are to learn how to seek God, we do enjoy life with Him. One day you will be married and unavoidable problems come and you will have to fast and trust God can take care of the problems that are not yours to fix.

@DonaldGrahamJr 3 жыл бұрын

Wells said sis. Some people are in love with the idea of being married, without ever realizing that it is a process of two people becoming one. In the following video we discuss the importance of becoming one when you get married. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e-CPecaly7G7gJ8.html

@stevewoodson4635 3 жыл бұрын

Sermón de la montaña

@DiamondStar2012K 3 жыл бұрын

1. Both of your wounds will antagonize the other's wounds which God uses to cause a deeper pursuit of healing 2. God will often bring you and your future spouse together in a way that you never would have expected 3. You will both have an odd amount of acceptance for each other's quirks 4. Your spiritual differences and personality differences will help you live a more well-rounded life together 5. When things get hard, you will run towards each other rather than run away from each other

@kurrentevent Жыл бұрын

The number #5.

@jahblessangelina8707 4 жыл бұрын

God is so wise , it’s just like that

@StevenGregoryJayy 4 жыл бұрын

Facts!

@ZaNC4847 4 жыл бұрын

Very, very, very, very, very, very wise

@juliusmacharria6 3 жыл бұрын

very true, although God is not *man*, God is God

@jahblessangelina8707 3 жыл бұрын

Julius Kibathi Amen and i didn’t mean that God is a man. I just say man like wow

@StevenGregoryJayy 3 жыл бұрын

Jahbless Angelina I’m curious to know, how do you pronounce your name? It’s very unique

@RoxStar09 4 жыл бұрын

“The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way.” Psalms‬ ‭37:23‬ ‭KJV‬‬

@yourworstnightmare4627 4 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what happened to me i prayed for the "one" very strongly that i claimed if someone will come to my life if he is not the one then better not to be in a relationship,then i wrote a journal of the description of my future husband. A week later,one guy is very persistent to talk to me. When I met him personally, I felt that inner peace and love that I have never felt before. I know instantly he is the one. We are happily married now for years. Im glad God is very good to me.

@jollygoodgordon5580 3 жыл бұрын

*to the brothers and sister watching this: don’t think that just because it’s not on this list it may not be from God, because we know God can do anything so he can even reveal thing to us In a way that that isn’t mentioned in the video. But as always, keep your eyes on the lord, because it is written that we should seek the kingdom is the LORD first. And so, finding a mate shouldn’t become a idol in you life.*

@starmiller77 Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@NoName-jf7wb 4 жыл бұрын

I find it extremely weird that I always see this particular person when I’m in the worse moods. They cheer me up.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a nice person :)

@valianttruth3745 4 жыл бұрын

😍😉

@wendipasa7109 4 жыл бұрын

God is awesome he bribgs angels around when u really need it and well he does that with others too

@angeladallimore8079 4 жыл бұрын

Speaks volumes dosent it

@wendipasa7109 4 жыл бұрын

I'm glad for you

@chrishuitink4083 4 жыл бұрын

I had 4/5.. she ran away when things got hard for her, but maybe she really needed to be with herself and to have space to grow. It hurts, but I will trust that the right one will come when I'm ready

@Lovingmyselfthroughmyeyes 4 жыл бұрын

I have been married twice before, both when I was young and I did not have a good relationship with Christ. Not sure if love is in my future or not, I just pray for discernment and continue to love and heal. I can say I am happy as a single woman and if God has other plans for me, I will be ready!

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

God bless!

@brambletbrats3184 4 жыл бұрын

Same. God bless you. Keep Christ first!

@dorzellcannady6555 4 жыл бұрын

Thing i learnt is Father God would give us the desires of our heart.. Usually it is inline with his plans and purpose for us.. if you desire a husband guess what that desire is His will for you.. And yes he has a specific person set aside just for you.. We messup when we exclude Him on the decision of who to marry.. Hookup with a decoy.. and expect Him to bless our mess.. Like Daddy.. He always steps in and work things out for our good.. but we have to recognize our mistakes..and learn from them..or repeat the same pattern.. in the next relationship.. Put Father God first make His Word and His Promise a propriety in your life.. And stand in Faith..

@angelapeninah4953 4 жыл бұрын

@@dorzellcannady6555 Amen too

@dorzellcannady6555 4 жыл бұрын

God wants us to included Him in everything we do and decisions we make..especially when it comes to courtship and marriage..

@darleyrice7866 3 жыл бұрын

Yesss!!!! God put in my heart that I will find my husband online...I finally did it during this Pandemic & It happened I'm now engaged to my fiancee ' God was RIGHT!!!!

@twittles6518 3 жыл бұрын

What’s your story

@madi_ruck 2 жыл бұрын

wow

@user-hg1lm9ef7u 2 жыл бұрын

How you heard God when he said you this is the one?! I always have wrong , I have heard God wrong. This has upset me and discouraging. When I was knowing someone before 2 years, I thought this is the one because we felt very well with each other, we had very common things. We served in our churchs. Both loved God, we passed very time to talked about God, I thought this is the one. But one day he told me that God had guided him to left from me. So we didn't meet more and didn't talk together. Before 2 month I was dating a guy christian, I liked him. We met intensively for 3 weeks, but when we had communication in msg, our conversation was very poor. So I was scared maybe he will leave one day, and I was afraid I would get hurt... I pray God to show me if he was the right person but I couldn't heard any thing. We don't talk with each other because one day I asked him if has something to say because our comunacition is very poor (I would want to know if he is dating someone else,he said me no just I can be concentrated in something else.... So since this day we can't talk together, but I am still hoping that we can have another chance, I don't know this hope don't let me to give a chance another person to know. Because I hope for him..

@beckycortez7102 2 жыл бұрын

i'm online dating now. how do you know how to tell if he's the one?

@caitlinjackson801 4 жыл бұрын

I have been fearing a bit about me and my boyfriend’s differences, but this video is making me realize how much our differences are helping one another to grow and be more selfless, sacrificial and closer to Christ

@1.40am 4 жыл бұрын

This is one of the best relationship video I’ve seen in a long time. God bless you too.

@Trill4life777 4 жыл бұрын

FACTS👊👊👊

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad you found this to be helpful! All glory to God :)

@codey7701 4 жыл бұрын

111 likes💓

@debbieblue5856 4 жыл бұрын

I love your channel it is so very helpful to me. I have been a Christian since a little girl. Been thru a lot of storms but always been strong in God!

@seekingthekingdomfirst8089 4 жыл бұрын

Amen! Looking forward to meet the one😀😁! I Pray That God continue to work On him before we meet.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

Amen! God has a plan :)

@lexie02jones25 3 жыл бұрын

God works in mysterious ways.😌😌

@bettyauma2305 2 жыл бұрын

I will put my faith in GOD always

@PrettyBossOfficial 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly on point... Had to comment. Amen!

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

@MaggieCano-wu1ek 2 жыл бұрын

Wow just amazing because it’s so true, and I thank God for my Godly Man everyday 5/5 and I continue to ask God to help us!! God has the very best for us if we just wait on him 😊

@tayfattz2272 3 жыл бұрын

Great video and the last point is so important . Grace and accepting someone for their sins is part of life . Knowing a good person with flaws and knowing someone not right for you are two different things . Great video wow .

@iamkalivingston 4 жыл бұрын

Wooooooweeeee that first one jooked me in my core! Dang, I ain’t even off the first one and I’m already feeling some sort of way, my God!

@Storyman09 4 жыл бұрын

I laughed through half of this video simply because it’s so accurate with so many apt points. XD It’s so like God to do for our good and His glory that which we’d last expect, plan for ourselves, or sometimes even want.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

True!

@dforreal1960 2 жыл бұрын

This is absolutely true! I have recently experienced this . God brought us together there's no other explanation.

@redessence23 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Mark, this is really what I needed to hear. I always presumed God would put us with someone who suffered similar hurts so that they would understand more and not judge us, but this is a very interesting perspective and it makes a lot of sense for my past relationship experience.

@tinabrown9990 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for these videos. They encourage me to not give up on love when hope seems lost.💓

@juliettepierre8289 4 жыл бұрын

I wish I had found this years ago, so insightful and true to his word and plans for me 🙏🏽🙏🏽

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

So glad you found this useful!

@adamkind8016 4 жыл бұрын

In my humble opinion I think this is your best video. Good work! And thanks! Praise Yah!

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! All glory to God :)

@nathanielriesterer9103 4 жыл бұрын

This is another level. Thank you so much brother Mark. This will bless people for years to come. Praise God!

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad you found this valuable Nathaniel! All glory to God!

@didijy8007 2 жыл бұрын

I felt God's presence when we met for the first time in ways I had never felt before, as if a veil was suddenly taken off me, My soul became activated, it began burning everything that needed to be revealed and healed. In losing myself I have allowed God into my life as a channel, and that is empowering, my love and I are currently separated to heal, gain clarity and begin creating our foundation and burn away the karma and illusions, I dont know if we'll get married, I dont need to know, all I know is that I have never loved like this, and never wanted to give myself to God, my love and myself like this before.

@ramiroperez2461 3 жыл бұрын

I can't wait to meet the one. With God in your life, everything is possible

@nappyfries 3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! I’ve been saying #1 for a while! It’s crazy how God does this with people. I’ve seen it in a few people’s relationships.

@sineadfinlay6510 3 жыл бұрын

I just stumbled upon this never by coincidence with God. Really needed to hear this

@daniellemichielefrancescaa2656 4 жыл бұрын

Thank You God For Making Us All Different! I Am Grateful To Be Unique Yet Still A Child Of God! The Almighty God Is Great!🙌🏽

@susannahschannel6643 4 жыл бұрын

4:10 it's "quirks" not "corks". Lord, have mercy!

@marynhim8168 4 жыл бұрын

Wendy Perry Lol

@dorzellcannady6555 4 жыл бұрын

I know..but the message was still delivered and received.. Laughter is good for the soul.. Correction for the character..

@lollic307 4 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha

@vhayashi7369 3 жыл бұрын

😂

@virrap.2092 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this wisdomful video about relationships, I love how you use the sriptures and the church as His bride to prove your point. It helps a lot.

@annabelle7123 3 жыл бұрын

I didn't 100% agree to some of the signs video but this one runs deep and it's inspirational. I don't think I'll have all these 5 traits when I meet the one... but I hope I do some day and discover these, even finding wounds healing and differences bringing diversity!♡

@rolaine733 4 жыл бұрын

This was very relaxing watching for whatever reason. Very good video.

@FunnyChicken95 3 жыл бұрын

This is absolutely brilliant! I’ve actually just met someone and have been out a few times so it’s way too early to be thinking if they’re the one to marry, but I feel like you’ve just answered basically all of my concerns in this video😅😅 loved the spiritual differences explanation. Thank you!!!

@josephfreeflowingnatural8907 10 ай бұрын

Just dont divorce him after a couple of years and claim God told you to do so. I see all the time with black folks who have the highest divorce rate.

@rasamasala 4 жыл бұрын

Scary how all of these are relatable with the person I'm talking too. I've only known her 3 months and marriage isn't even in the radar yet. However, it's reassuring that this relationship is going in a good direction and it's up to me to trust in God's plans to get me through my anxieties

@amandarhiannonhogan8429 3 жыл бұрын

Heavenly father place your hand over the relationship I am about to begin. I felt led to him by your grace so I believe you brought us together. I am so excited to begin this next chapter 😍 🤗 I love you

@mikedicewrites 4 жыл бұрын

I have so many things I could say but here's the basic idea: Tremendously Spot-On Video Mark! You hit the nail on the head as always man. God bless!

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad this was helpful! God bless Mike :)

@samuelaguilar4519 3 жыл бұрын

Mark !! This is so crazy man me and my fiancé just checked off every point on this video last night, are you some kind of prophet?! Haha amazing man thanks it helped clear many things in our sight 😂☺️

@ladennayoung2939 4 жыл бұрын

Number 4 is interesting as well, and it makes perfect sense to me.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear this!

@holyvibes1396 3 жыл бұрын

Other than we are called not to judge and saying "weird", is stating a judgement; This video is very, very helpful and insightful.

@lizmackey6910 4 жыл бұрын

That is so interesting... have met a man I like, it has highlighted all of my vulnerabilities, and yes, I'm healing for I am going deeper, I am not sure if hes the one yet, however, I am ready to heal deeper... thank you😉 very powerful ... thank you😉

@charitovelasco5422 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this amazing video.. God will give me the right person, i pray for it. ❤️❤️❤️

@EMichaelBall 2 жыл бұрын

The best marriages are built on top of incredibly close friendship and amazingly easy conversations. Start your journey by looking in your friendzone.

@laurasmith9160 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for all that you do for us! You have no ideal how much you help others.

@heatherharris7587 2 жыл бұрын

You described my husband and I in the first thing you mentioned. It was a challenging first 20 years that would have broken most couples apart. (It could have split us). But God did use it to heal us from our deep hurts and continue too.

@goosebumpsk 4 жыл бұрын

What an exciting adventure lies ahead when Father reveals "The one" he has for me...Could be a Genesis 24 experince with God chosing to reveal her to me and i to her via prayer and unusal but needed practical help of love...or maybe one of these ways or something else....who knows...only God dose and whatever way God has chosen for me...im excited and look forward to the blessing of marraige when Father is pleased to give this to me.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

God bless John!

@goosebumpsk 4 жыл бұрын

God bless you as well Mark

@katponce112 4 жыл бұрын

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:33 NIV

@goosebumpsk 4 жыл бұрын

@@katponce112 I agree with you on seeing first Gods kingdom and letting God add/take whatever God sees fit since he knows all and what's best for me as he dose all

@katponce112 4 жыл бұрын

@@goosebumpsk Yes..😊 Do it everyday..You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. Jeremiah 29:13 NIV

@Bennyboy1985 4 жыл бұрын

You know that feeling you get on a warm, summers evening when you look out over the beach or a harbour or a lake and the sun is setting, the sky is all shades of pink, mauve, orange and yellow and it reflects in a million ripples of the water? You feel like everything is alright, like this is enough for you and you're truly content. That's how I hoped I would feel when I was with her. Yet apparently I'm the calm, optimistic one. So knowing God, I'm probably going to get the emotional one who cries all the time...

@EMichaelBall 2 жыл бұрын

Find an amazing friend with amazing conversations. Work from there. Be nice yet honest with her; natural, healthy tension will occasionally generate from this. It’s more than OK. It’s just the result of masculine and feminine energy interacting.

@stAYInHim 3 жыл бұрын

So true, I was having doubts with the brother I’m seeing because we are different, God has taught me so much about submitting and surrendering to the Lord because of this, not be spiritually proud and if i want a leader I will need to learn to listen more and let God work in him, not me trying to have it my way, make him to be what I want him to be.

@andreaexceedsrubies 4 жыл бұрын

The first point that was addressed just made me feel a renewed sense of faith in my Boaz. I have thought all along that the Lord incorrectly that we had to have that comfortable, easy interactions. I decided that my vision and what God has promised didn't seem to be true. We push each other's buttons on purpose subconsciously and consciously over the years. The essence of him feels like home so I had stayed in a state of being perplexed as to why we kept triggering each other when we love each other and this explains it. I will continue to keep adhering to His will and my truth along with having the faith to heal myself then allowing this to be a catalyst to heal our relationship. Thank you for this

@LeauxB 4 жыл бұрын

I already know God had a wonderful plan for my relationship (soon-to-be marriage), but re-watching this video makes my heart warm. Just seeing how EVERYTHING is so spot on makes me feel so much more secure than I already do. Such a blessing to be able to fall in love so unexpectedly with someone who is able to personify the unconditional love and faithfulness God has for us (me). I give God all of the credit and will continue to praise Him more loudly every single day!

@AndreaCastillo-jr2hk 4 жыл бұрын

Wow!. I can really tell in your pfp that you're in love with each other💖🙏☄. Godbless

@LeauxB 4 жыл бұрын

@@AndreaCastillo-jr2hk Thank you so much and may He continue to bless you always!

@EMichaelBall 2 жыл бұрын

Should you two want kids, to manage your fertility, and reduce risk of miscarriage, look to maximize glutathione that your body produces. Undenatured whey protein, alpha lipoic acid, vitamin D + K2 (at least 33 IU per pound per day, if not 50 IU/lb during pregnancy), vitamin C (500 mg every 12 hours), green tea extract (no more than 1,000 mg/day), zinc+copper, and milk thistle (start separately in case of rare gastrointestinal side effects) all help, and have other health benefits, anyway. Magnesium improves Vitamin D+K and calcium absorption. Other lifestyle changes can be made to further increase glutathione, including quitting alcohol and exercising (low impact like fluidity or yoga is best; the former would be easier in pregnancy because you’re always standing up). Start folic acid, now, in case of a surprise pregnancy (spina bifida generates in the first trimester); there’s a Nature’s Bounty “24 hour” vitamin C in orange packaging which has 100% RDA of folic acid per day (each soft gel is 500 mg of Vit C). This would be cheaper than prenatal vitamins.

@sophiekahayira768 2 жыл бұрын

I just mate my fiancé on the 31st December in a spiritual Retreat. We were both servants and God brought our hearts together in prayers before i discovered that that man will be my future husband. He was there when i received my holy spirit Baptism...so this video really remind me my story. GOD BLESS THIS CHANEL

@jahdiels3121 3 жыл бұрын

This is a good video, healing wounds you thought you didn't have, change your mind about things in life, actually you do live those things even if you are not aware of that.

@omegadivinelyprotectedchos3883 4 жыл бұрын

May God cover in sit aside my spouse in mold he into being all the man I know in ever wanted in may I be all he need in ever wanted too🙏🏿💙🌹💫

@ashchan30 Жыл бұрын

I waited to date until I was 23 years old! It was SO hard not to date but I knew what I wanted and I stayed strong! We are now married! 8 years of friendship, 4 years of marriage! 31 years old now. We aren't perfect but I honestly couldn't imagine myself with anyone else.

@mariahreese 4 жыл бұрын

This was beautiful. Thank you!

@TemperMentalMissElayneous 3 жыл бұрын

This is soooooo brilliant !!! Dude - your insights are surely guided by Him! BLESS! Never have I felt so comforted by a YT video !

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad this was helpful! All glory to God!

@ChrisHolman 4 жыл бұрын

I met the one, she felt it too. It didn't work because of her family. I have made the consious decision to live like Paul, single and dedicated to the Ministry. Marriage will happen when God opens the door. My time and energy now is focused on the work of God, it's not split between ministry and family. I don't need someone to make me happy, God is my joy. Where God guides He provides.

@cakeosmakeo8011 4 жыл бұрын

I alway say to myself that your timing in life is sooooo Amazing Mark God bless

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

God is good!

@deimablah7898 4 жыл бұрын

In 2016 it's been 3 years i haven't spoken to my dad nor seen him face to face and I just got out of a toxic relationship at that time but then on May 17th 2016 I met a person i didn't know his name or anything but that moment we saw each other something happen inside my heart and I instantly felt so happy and after a year exactly on May 17th 2017 he proposed to me and when we first started being together everyone is against it we had been screamed and yelled in the street by my mom but yet we stayed together and somehow we grew closer to each other and then he started to take me to my dad's place and i met my dad again after 3 long years through him, he supported my admission fees for college, he motivated me to get closer to God and he has inspired me to be a better person I'm blessed to have him as my husband my love my life ❤ I thank God for giving my the light when I was in darkness 🙏

@soulfulevolution4761 4 жыл бұрын

Randomly came across this video and such a deep message. We often hold this unconscious belief that the One for us will enter our live and will bring along with them only rainbows & sunshine along. Our marriage will be wrapped in a beautiful gift box with a bow. But the reality is our spouse is meant to be in our lives to teach us important life lessons, to further our growth and walk this journey by our sides They will often push us to break away from whatever is holding us back to reach our potential. Through the obstacles, challenges and difficulties we are often forced to reach a higher level of self and consciousness. I love the proverb #1 and deeply resonate with it "Both of your wounds will often antagonize the other person's wounds which God uses to cause a deeper pursuit of healing. Amen to this ! 🙏 Its not easy but as long as we can remember that " Love truly conquers everything and all" we will win and eventually settle in a deep soulful bond. ❤

@OrchestralOrg 4 жыл бұрын

*does not apply to everyone.*

@reynaro2496 4 жыл бұрын

My fear is the age and the uncertainty of not meeting the one God has for me. 🙏🏼thanks

@acharich 4 жыл бұрын

Prov 3:3-6.. ✨🙏🏾✨

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

Amen, it's not easy but when we are close with God he will guide us through

@loriellajames6978 4 жыл бұрын

Me too. I understand exactly how you feel. There are few genuine people out there to date or that meet your standards.

@jimb3093 3 жыл бұрын

Yes same here. Then I tried online dating....I would not recommend it.

@christina4012 3 жыл бұрын

Same I hear about so many 40 year old unmarried people. I pray he doesn't make me wait that long.

@RoxStar09 4 жыл бұрын

“Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness; And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace; Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints;” Ephesians‬ ‭6:11-18‬ ‭KJV‬‬

@christina4012 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 💕

@katbee144 3 жыл бұрын

Geez this spoke EXACTLY to my relationship, especially the first part. And we met in the most RANDOM unbelievable way possible. I was feeling doubtful of if this relationship was really from God, but this answered all of my questions! God is really powerful. I really needed this message

@Shawn6751 3 жыл бұрын

Me as well.

@someoneimportant8439 4 жыл бұрын

Wow. This was so enlightening. I am pretty sure, based on all these points that I already met the one, and we DID sin together. I need improvement in endurance, and he had recently left a hurtful relationship experience, so he was not eager to explore the possibility of marriage. We both mistreated each other, but I was so in love that his corks didn't matter. We had similar even identical emotional wounds. After he hurt my feelings I was afraid and angry and would not let myself be drawn back to him. As you said, Christ is not so. He endures. It's a fruit of the Spirit and it's an aspect of the love of Christ. My improvement areas are forgiveness and endurance, but I am contacting God about these now. It's a work in progress. From this video, I can tell and am very sure I have already met the one, but I made mistakes with him, was weak with him, and I am still learning how to do this... thing called love...😏😍😱

@amyglenn1085 4 жыл бұрын

Love this video. I really needed to watch this today! Thank you so much for making your videos available.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad this was timely for you Amy!

@IAW_OPSEC 4 жыл бұрын

I’m 25 and I do have plans to get married some day. Even in this day and age when majority of people tell us not too. I have been very toxic as In i don’t take things too serious when it comes to certain situations or I ignore my significant other when I don’t want to talk when I’m angry; or when I’m feeling some type of way, and just becoming selfish in the relationship. Im leaving for the military soon so this time away will give me time to think about some things and get rid of my little boy tendencies 💪🏾. I’m going to be the right man for the woman God has chosen for me.

@999babydoll 4 жыл бұрын

Just when I was having doubts this video pops up as a confirmation! I loved it! i also tried online dating a few days ago but I got freaked out and deleted the app because I figured God knows I’m not gonna meet my future husband like that but who knows

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

Amen, only God really knows :)

@GodGirlP 4 жыл бұрын

Just Wait on The LORD and Serve Him and He will bring you and your husband together in the right timing.❤ He did for me.❤

@999babydoll 4 жыл бұрын

CotoureCAKES AMEN SISTER🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 God is good and his timing is perfect♥️♥️♥️

@GodGirlP 4 жыл бұрын

@@999babydoll Yes! And He goes to my church! .... I never knew that God would place me with someone in my church! But in HIS timing HE REVEALED It To Me.❤ God loves us and If we have a desire for marriage , its from God and He will supply our need.❤

@acharich 4 жыл бұрын

Haha, I wanted to marry someone from my church but it seems like God has other plans.. 😏✨

@gabymendez7238 2 жыл бұрын

I have a lot of trauma and I’ve been running away from this guy because he doesn’t have my standard for spiritual beliefs but also, he stimulates my fight or flight touching all the hurt places I don’t want to visit. He refuses to stop loving me. This video has been completely spot on…

@cesarriveraii550 Жыл бұрын

I’ve seen 3 of these in a budding relationship with a young lady. Meeting her has caused me to pursue a very deep level of healing I would have never even touched had I not met her. When either one of us are in trouble or distressed spiritually, we’ve prayed for each other privately and with each other. She’s also into a LOT of the same things as me, yet she’s a very different person to me. I think Satan tried attacking the relationship from forming because we dated consistently for three or so months, then a bunch of terrible things started happening in both of our lives. We still kept in touch throughout, seeing each other whenever possible just to be around each other. She plans on moving away very soon to reconnect with her family across the country, but then that Bible verse stuck out to me: “man makes plans but the Lord directs his steps.” Let it be done according to His will for us!

@SavingSoulsMinistries Жыл бұрын

amen brother! I really needed to read this.

@tracylanemcnally5013 4 жыл бұрын

Well Mark, I had a great relationship with a man but after 8 months he all of a sudden ghosted me. Treated me great. We both cared about each other. I guess we will see if God brings us back together or if He brings another man into my life.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

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@paratrooper73 4 жыл бұрын

Suddenly disappears? That's not love darling. That's a person with a narcissistic personality disorder. If he comes back it's a hoover. Watch these red flags on youtube. For example Sarah speaks, or assc direct, or ross rosenberg. Those people are not capable to love, it's all fake to get supply. Did he say I love you very quick? Making future plans very quick? Talked bad about exes and other exes still in good contact? Played the victim? Please watch those vids!!!!

@ladennayoung2939 4 жыл бұрын

This is a good video as well. God bless. Keep being led by the spirit of God in Jesus name.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Ladenna, so glad you enjoyed it :)

@prayalways 3 жыл бұрын

This was a blessing. Thank you Jesus.

@opingpabatan6879 3 жыл бұрын

Amen!im 40 single woman with Gods perfect timing who knows..Happiness can exist only in acceptance..

@nunya38753 4 жыл бұрын

Rename this video. From "weird" to amazing. This is true for my husband and I!

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

God bless!

@charmainewhilby6924 4 жыл бұрын

Very helpful and great teaching. Thank you Mark.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 жыл бұрын

My pleasure! God bless you too!

@maixeeyaj93 Жыл бұрын

I didn’t look for this at all….but I feel like this is a calling from God that I found my one. I didn’t intend to find it and it happened for a reason…thank you God.