6 Ways to Communicate with His Heart | How to Own your Feminine Power

No video

6 Ways to Communicate with His Heart | How to Own your Feminine Power

Рет қаралды 49,095

Күн бұрын

Did you know there are 6 magic feminine archetypes that make you irresistible to men? Join me and rockstar love coach and friend Antia Boyd for an exploration of these roles :)
→ Get my FREE magnetic love affirmations training: bit.ly/42As5TF
How do I get noticed by men? How can I attract the guy I want? How do I get my boyfriend to love me more? How can I make him love me? I get asked questions like these ALL THE TIME by clients, students and women in my life... so I interviewed my amazing friend and love coach Antia Boyd on 6 powerful feminine archetypes that will help you call in the man you've been DREAMING OF! :)
If you want more support in creating the life and love of your dreams, this is how I can help you ❤️ 👇
👉 I send 1-2 POWERFUL weekly emails filled with deep insights on men, relationship and stepping into your power - (this will also give you first access to all my new programs and courses! You can sign up here (don't worry I''ll never spam you!) → bit.ly/4btQ8Yh
👉 If you want a DEEP DIVE into your love life and the maximum level of personal support me from in your relationships, I work with a select group of women as a 1-on-1 coach. I am not currently accepting new clients, but you can apply to join my VIP client waitlist and I will email you as soon as new spots open up! Apply here → bit.ly/4byESdm
Let's Stay Connected!
→ SUBSCRIBE HERE - bit.ly/2Y0SpEp - for new videos every week! Hit the little bell to get notified when I post :)
→ INSTAGRAM - / matshaffer
→ FACEBOOK (follow don't friend!) - IamMatShaffer
• 6 Ways to Communicate ...

Пікірлер: 154

@Trisha_B_done 3 жыл бұрын

This lady is speaking my language. I love all men yet have managed to find unhealthy men who are critical of my intensity, sensual, and playfulness. I love being an older woman who can accept myself therefore only wanting & attracting wonderful men.

@Mat_Shaffer 6 ай бұрын

I promise there are good guys out there my dear!

@Veganhoneymelon 4 жыл бұрын

Screenshot reminder 1. Playful. Be urself, play, dont be like on an interview. Have fun! 2. Wildwoman. Gestures, that fire energy, be free express! 3. Sensual.. mm-mm... well do u need to expalin more. That juicy sensuality. Moves etc. 4. Priestess. Inspiring the man. Adding value, helping men to step into his power. After for example uve known him for some time. 5. Queen. What do u want? What does ur kingdom look like? Vision. Lean into that boundry, be straight. Set boundries. Knows what she wants. 6. I missed it lol. But dont be a burden. Journal: 1-10 where is queen

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

I love your cliff notes :) Let me know if you have any follow up questions.

@victoriaphillips9296 3 жыл бұрын

6. Warrioress

@zellalaing5439 2 жыл бұрын

1) Playful 2) Wild 3) Sensual 4) Priestess 5) Queen 6) Warrioress

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

Great point!

@amyyoung8997 4 жыл бұрын

I embody most often, naturally: Being playful, having fun, spontaneity. I have most trouble with #2 shifting energy/interruptions because, although being very passionate, I don’t want to come across as too emotional.

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Glad this video resonated with you Amy Young!

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like you are judging being too emotional. Did I get that right?!

@catherineblanchard6177 4 жыл бұрын

I don’t usually feel like I’m winning when I watch dating/relationship videos, but this one makes me feel like I am! I don’t particularly feel like I struggle with any of these archetypes (after lots and lots of self growth). I’m sure there are always more ways to grow and learn though. Thanks for the affirmation and information!!

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

Yay Catherine! Now the next step is to see what kind of man you are attracting and which archetype are they missing

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Love that! Good luck!

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

Was SO great to be on Mat, powerful secrets for women and these were major keys for me attracting my amazing hubby! 😊💗

@zensvlognotapro 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Antia Boyd, I like you 🙏 I saw myself to you - the energy and playfulness of you 😊🤗. Very well explained ✋

@axx9149 4 жыл бұрын

Wonderful hearing your insights, Anita! Subscribed.

@scarylouish 4 жыл бұрын

Really helpful for those of us trying to develop our feminine energy. Especially when you asked her specific things to say or do to get into that archetype.

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

So glad it was helpful

@vivhiggins5656 Жыл бұрын

Why is only men,what a bout woman,

@narellemontauban1863 4 жыл бұрын

Love all of this and totally feel the reaction from a man with each of this 6 communicative ways !!! Thanks for the confirmation Mat & Antia !!!!! xx

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

My hubby and I are constantly integrating those parts in our life. So much fun and healing

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome

@caryleugene907 4 жыл бұрын

Hello Mat Canadian subscriber here I really enjoyed listening to you guys this morning. Thx matt.👌 loved it.

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome! Thank you!

@mette1983 4 жыл бұрын

This is such a great collab! I have never heard about these "archetypes" so it was really interesting and y´all complimented each other so well. Thanks!

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Mette! Mat is the best conversation partner anyone can ask for :)

@ambrosia081989 4 жыл бұрын

Love this! Mat... Your eyes are 😍

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Oh thank you!

@annieturner9025 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks guys!! Such an awesome tips to be playful with your boyfriend or partner to feel alive & happier life should be about fun & loving! Perfect conversation with you both ❤️❤️

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

Appreciate it hon!

@reemsaif3105 3 жыл бұрын

One word on the warrior lady. As a feminine woman I don't feel the need to do exactly what my man does. It would feel competitive and masculine to him and a lot of pressure on me. I feel that some women do struggle in being in charge of their lives. Unfortunately no one has taught us to be our own warriors. We do need more women to set examples for others sisters 🧛💜

@taniamiller4572 Жыл бұрын

💯

@Mat_Shaffer 10 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@lindazavala5894 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Mat. You are so charming and forthright..your talks are always refreshing and of course informative. Great to hear your interaction with Antia as well coming from the woman's perspective.

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much Linda Zavala! 🙏❤️

@mara11333 3 жыл бұрын

Matt you are helping me with my man in Syria. He comes back from duty at night and I’m waiting. I talk him down and send him comfort and set him free from the danger around him. Many nights we sleep in each other’s arms after I send him to the moon. I’ve never experienced a long distance love affair. So good for us!! Thanks buddy!!🤗

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

This is an inspiring story!

@christeldevrindt3863 4 жыл бұрын

That was a nice content and i think ihave the first 4 qualities but still have to work on feminine nr 5 and nr 6 as well but work in progress👌🤔😃🤗

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

We are all work in progress. Let me know if you have other questions

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

🤗

@blingblingnelida 4 жыл бұрын

Matt in this Interview w Anita Boyd You Literally Had to RE EXPLAIN WHAT SHE WAS TRYING TO EXPLAIN. IS SHE BRAZILIAN ? HER EXPLANATION OF 6 WAYS OF THE FEMALE WASNT THAT QUITE EXPLANATORY CLEAR. YOU WERE THE ONE DOING IT FOR HER. NEEDS GENUINE CLEAR IMPROVEMENT TO UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE IS EMPOWERING US LADIES. YOUR AMAZING EMPOWERING US WITH YOUR CLEAR SIMPLE AWESOMENESS WORDING EXPLAINING SIMPLE WORDS AND BEING GENUINE BEING YOURSELF HELPS ALOT AND IT GOES ALONG Way too.

@raelenerivera8565 4 жыл бұрын

Was I wrong to call his bluff. Been talking this second time and more intense. But it dwindled after about 8 mths of talking serious, than it was no calls. For Jan, Feb & March . Still hadn’t met person to person. He bugged & bugged & bugged for about a year before I gave I’m the time of day. Then I hear oh not tonight hun . I’m crazy busy. Can’t call you . I’m sorry ! Why do guys do this? I was just fine for 8 yrs without a man . And he pursued until I fell hard. What’s wrong with 85% of men . Why pursue if their going to leave anyways.

@raelenerivera8565 4 жыл бұрын

Well I’m still stuck in limbo. IDK if I should leave him alone . I do know that there’s a lot going on. Business wise & virus wise. I hate to put added pressure on anyone , but my pressures aren’t being relieved either. Sitting here and not knowing anything. I just don’t get why we have to be wired so differently .

@erlinecanada8990 4 жыл бұрын

This is really helpful! Most of it is me! Hehehe, Good topic Mat and Antia

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

Glad it supports

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@preranabhagawati8763 4 жыл бұрын

It's really a great content.. Loved it!!! 💞💞💞💞

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

Happy it served

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much Prerana Bhagawati! 🙏❤️

@preranabhagawati8763 4 жыл бұрын

Most welcome 😁😇

@hereonlyculturally6334 4 жыл бұрын

@Matt Shaffer thanks much for all ur wonderful videos!! do u personally believe in manifesting everything u want,for example, the by we love trough meditation and the act of manifestations? If we do them well everyone and everything we wish will manifest in our life for sure!!

@lindat1317 4 жыл бұрын

I definitely need to work on some aspects of #5, especially boundaries! The empath/Cancerian in me is the Queen of forgiving & making those "giving an inch and they'll take a mile" excuses on their behalf--Not Good (and I know it). It's a process but I'm making progress!

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

Yay Linda!!! You can do it :)

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Cheers to your progress!

@bindicat9070 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Matt Loving you work and videos, so valuable and like that you give examples. Could you do a video for mature 55 +....ladies who are looking for relationship, not necessarily marriage, healthy sharing with a man and enjoying each other’s company. Or does it not matter what stage in life you are in?

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

wonderful thank you for that feedback!! ❤️

@pennysmith987 4 жыл бұрын

They chase... we choose..., what are men being told to do to appeal to us? Just because a man pays attention to me doesn’t mean HE’S THE ONE and I need to ‘adapt’ my life to suit him, eh?

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

Penny, my hubby created the 6 masculine archetypes as this is about dynamics

@hoiliswu6070 4 жыл бұрын

Wow Men and women future plan strong amazing how much happy life and my hubby enjoy thank you so much video beautiful couple massage thanks.

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Our pleasure!

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

Awwww Hoili! Happy it served

@cristinelovely1039 4 жыл бұрын

I love the topic ❤️ Mat , is so calm explaining things . It’s stressful if the energy is very high 😌

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Glad you think so!

@loal337 4 жыл бұрын

Great video Mat Thank you for all that you do. One question completely not related :) do you wear lenses?

@ciaociaoerica4554 Жыл бұрын

Fantastic video! Thank you! 🥰

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын

We are connecting.....Ty.😊

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

🤗

@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын

Ty.😊

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome Nimfa Bangay! 🙏

@irenam9817 4 жыл бұрын

Bit too hard to fallow when you speak so energetic. Bit stressful. Apreciate the mesage though. ❤️

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Noted!

@irenam9817 4 жыл бұрын

Not you Mr Mat😉 Your woice calm😏

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the feedback!!!

@deleenalley5792 3 жыл бұрын

With her accent, and talking so fast, very hard to for me to concentrate on what she is saying. Did not enjoy as a guest. Really enjoy Clayton. Very good speaker, enunciates, much more enjoyable and very easy to understand. Thank you Mat.

@sterling1386 3 жыл бұрын

@@deleenalley5792 Yes, very off putting. Couldn't watch the vid. Again, not Mat.

@RAHOZAH 4 жыл бұрын

Amazing content! Thanks mat🙏🏽

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it!

@nicolehines4418 4 жыл бұрын

I’m new and I enjoyed your video

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much nicole hines! 🙏❤️

@dawnburwell4876 4 жыл бұрын

what sucks is when all these things match up with the guy, boundries match, everything, and then he must think were molding to him or giving into him.. when in fact: we simply match. he runs because Im too comfortable and like him. but I am !! why is that bad???

@astariaseraphina7286 2 ай бұрын

Thank You

@Mat_Shaffer 2 ай бұрын

You're welcome

@Mat_Shaffer 12 күн бұрын

Hi there, If you're contemplating re-entering the dating world, our 'Are You Ready to Date Again?' quiz might be just what you need to gain some insight. 🌸 mat-nlcmdzyq.scoreapp.com/

@zensvlognotapro 4 жыл бұрын

🤗✋🙏❣️ Speechless🤗😊. I like Antia Boyd , very energetic, I like her laughter, I like her explanations🙏❣️🤗. Live, laugh, love Still stay safe every❣️ne 🙏 God Bless Us All. Be well Matt. Are you well ? How's the health ?

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

Thank youuuuuu!!! Such a good summary

@rachelmulveen2314 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks you for the your video as a newly engaged girl now in january my boyfriend is giving me a friendship ring 💍

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Wonderful!

@daniellekleinhoffify 4 жыл бұрын

Oh how I wish I had pretty hands! I know that sounds stupid but I have strong, wrinkled rough looking hands so I can't help but appear masculine and wish it wasn't like that - so when I try to touch a man I'm sure it doesn't feel that great😐 I'm sure I have something else to offer that I can accentuate

@dgcoollyoo 3 жыл бұрын

Great content. Learnt a lot

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@joanrichards1201 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Matt just want to let you know that you know stuff thanks for your insight nuff love

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

I appreciate that

@user-fg9ih3cu3l 2 жыл бұрын

I prefer to be direct w/out talking too much about other things

@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your opinion on this!

@rachelmulveen2314 3 жыл бұрын

My first time listening to you thank you girl cool 😎

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

Thanks for listening

@nimfabangay7318 4 жыл бұрын

Ty.hola...😊

@Mushroom321- 4 жыл бұрын

both genders don't want to feel that their partners "happiness " is their responsibility. thats definitely not a "man" thing .

@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын

I appreciate your opinion on this!

@katherineploumidou6387 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent!!!!

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Katherine! Let me know if you have more specific questions about the archetypes :)

@dameshilvari2846 11 ай бұрын

Dear Mat, I'm in a dating site. How to win 'his emotional love' to me, only me, with this 'unfair' dating (actually).. (hahaha).

@Mat_Shaffer 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын

JOIN MY FREE LOVE COURSE HERE (we start 8/9/21) - masteryofconnection.com QUESTION OF THE DAY - Which of the archetypes do you embody most often naturally? And which do you have the most trouble connecting with that you want to focus on moving forward?

@anejorhum1665 4 жыл бұрын

I guess just be authentic and act naturally. Just be you! Now that Im 39, I dont like drama and toxic people. I want to meet people with good understanding and a good listener. Someone who will inspires you about life. Im not impress by status and position, although i dont have them both, (hahaha) Im happy where i am now at the moment but Im seeking and learning for more. Thanks

@angiejavier9915 4 жыл бұрын

I was so happy when I've watched this topic. To my personal experienced and present love affair, the archetypes I have embodied naturally were 1) playful,2)sensual 3) Queen. These 3 are really very very True.By nature I am playful,funny, attitude of a child, it's like am with a man which is a playmates and wants to have fun, laugh with, talk anything without limit even though we have big age difference. Being playful for me will make a man feel relax and comfortable to see you as a good partner and not boring. And mostly guys I've met, in relationships, they like "happy moments" each day. Being playful,funny, gives a man an energy, and wants to be with you all the time., because boys are boys they want to have fun until their oldest day, and me as well because, laughing, having fun creates a good harmony. Second ,to be sensual- This is very very powerful and believe me the man I've been in relationship now, he told me he fall in love more deeply when he saw me in a picture wearing a simple floral dress and looked very sensual. Not a dress,,revealing any part of my body but, it shows my feminity in the dress I've worn. For me sensuality through dress code, gestures and staring to the eyes during videochat is really attractive to a man. and number 3 - Queen. Honestly this is really a great thing a woman should do., because it helps the man feel they are the "KinG" ,powerful, and you are the "Queen" to be treated special, and as a Queen, a woman should tell the "King" what she wants. In my relationship now, this number 3 "archetypes - Queen, makes me being spoiled a lot and feel more than a Queen, I've experienced things never in my dreams I could have it, only Now in my relationships, that I am a "queen" I felt different, like a baby being pampered compared to previous one. , and also the rest "priestless,warriorless I agreed with these, these resonated to me just recently. I am very very thankful to this video, because I didn't realized, I am almost in the perfect archetypes😊. Thank you so much Matt, I owe you my happiness to my relationahips Now because I've learned a lot from you. God bless you..and more power to your program.

@diannaantes5262 4 жыл бұрын

I am predominantly in a Maiden Then Tie for Lover and Mystic

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

@@anejorhum1665 that sounds very self-aware

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

@@angiejavier9915 YAAAYYYYY!!! So happy for you

@felicitygrace5113 3 жыл бұрын

What if you have no idea what your future vision for yourself is???? 🤔😔

@Mat_Shaffer 3 ай бұрын

Not having a clear vision for your future is totally fine. Many folks are in the same boat. Just take your time exploring different options and see what clicks for you

@taniamiller4572 Жыл бұрын

It's too bad women aren't taught this from childhood. We are taught the prince comes and scoops us up and takes us to their kingdom, and we then live for our prince after that. We aren't taught to hold our own and be equals. We need to teach your girls better.

@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын

I appreciate your opinion on this!

@user-dj5om4fy8k 10 ай бұрын

Need long distance relationships converse

@Mat_Shaffer 10 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@jesssailes4517 4 жыл бұрын

Information overload LoL but grate advice.

@Mat_Shaffer 6 ай бұрын

I appreciate your opinion on this!

@judylennon2463 4 жыл бұрын

First you have get the man you want in person not in your mind. To be playful and sweet and a little girl. Not chase his ass around the earth. So if you don't have that what's use if he's interested. Speaking for a friend of mine.

@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing!

@LisaSoulLevelHealing 3 жыл бұрын

I dont relate to any of these archetypes, not have seen them. Hmmmm.

@Mat_Shaffer 6 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for your feedback!

@blingblingnelida 4 жыл бұрын

Anita Boyd her weird Unclear Wording like example is " PRIESTESS " HER WORDS ARE SO WEIRD NOT UNDERSTANDING WHAT SHE WAS TO MEAN WANTS US TO UNDERSTA DING...??? 🤔

@MagnetizeYourMan 4 жыл бұрын

What's unclear Nelida? Happy to clarify any questions.

@svetlanarespaut4145 3 жыл бұрын

Guys So many "LIKE, YOU KNOW, RIGHT" :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for your feedback!

@gloriapreston1770 3 жыл бұрын

You have good ideas, but I think older people would have have different ideas and more maturity. Yes sex is important but you two focus on the sex part, there are more ways to make love and show your love. I think your young ages are affecting your ideas. My opinion only. as ones energy lessens , you change on priorities.

@Mat_Shaffer 6 ай бұрын

I appreciate your opinion on this!