1. He still lives with BM/ ex-wife 2. He's still going through custody battle 3. Men in relationships 4. Men who don't take accountability 5. Men who say they not ready 6. Men who just got outta a relationship 7. Men who are always available 8. Men raised only by their mother- they were too protected You welcome 😂...

A Red Flag that I will make sure I will never do again is letting a man rush me into a relationship before I am ready!!

That one you described about a man who never grows up , always blames others, NEVER takes accountability for HIS actions, never apologizes 🎯💯

Some man definitely bring chaos confusion and delays in life

A man that has so many women friends that been in a relationship with but they still friends

Men who have not recovered from a previous ex. Especially if they abandoned them. You will never stop hearing about it. That was my mistake. I was a therapist and I was just filling one whole of many.

#5 "a male who just got out of a relationship! They wanna play the fields!"

Not all single moms did this kirk wow. My son's dad died when he was 5. I grew up with both parents and i grew up abused emotionally by manipulative dad. So i vowed to never put my kids in a situation that could damage them as adults. Im old school. My son had chores responsibilities and was taught at home as well as at school. When my son was 12y of age he was washing his own clothes was able to cook and not junk food. He didn't have video games or cell phones until he was able to buy and pay the bill. He had to pay rent at a certain age buy his own expensive sneakers. Today my son is a chef of a reputable restaurant that was featured on food Network and is frequented by celebrities and NFL players. I was severely injured and became disabled and during covid my son moved back in at 25 to take care of me and has purchased a duplex so i can be close but have my own space. He doesn't have kids and is currently carefully dating looking for a wife. So not all men who were raised by one parent are bums or unworthy and undatable.

I say men who are too honest. They’re too much of an open book, telling secrets and super deep stuff early on, especially dealing with sex. Don’t mess with him! He is “honest” with you so if you find some mess with him be will say “well I told you the deal, and you still messed with me”. Of course there can be fine lines. We WANT an honest man, but one that seems to tell you everything very easily without you asking, or casually tells you some stuff most people dont, leave him alone. I just ghosted someone like this. I can see who he is clearly, and I don’t want the drama

I'm surprised Kirk you didn't mention addictions. Alcohol, drugs, gambling

You’re absolutely right! My husband is an only child raised by his mother. His father still pays child support because he never paid it while he was growing up. My husband is 38 years old. I was raised in a two parent household. The struggle has been real. Things are getting better, but it took years. We’re still working out the kinks. He’s an awesome man, but I wouldn’t recommend anyone else doing things out of order. The Bible teaching us not to be unequally yoked. Speaks a new meaning. I’ve always assumed it was just speaking in religious beliefs. That is not so.

My problem is the guys who think I'm their mother. That's a huge reason me and my husband didn't make it. We should be a team. I am not your maid or mother.

#4 does Not take accountability., " "He's Not mature." "He's Not a man!" He has no strong backbone!

Men who over share before the first date. For example talking about his late wife and what they used to do together.

Damnn I saw this video too late but thank God I got out these situations 🤣🤣🤣🤣💪🏽💪🏽

BLESSINGS. I agree with # 8. These men are no good. I had experience this twice. Red 🚩. Don't do it Please

#1 is quite the obvious no matter how much empathy they sugarcoat it with! 🙄

I have to agree with all of this even though I don’t want too and wish someone would have told me sooner! Each on teach one

A man that is new in the country who got a job offer. He is not ready for serious and wanna try dating the women in the city .

#5 A man who prefer a lighter skin woman. I had a man to tell I’m not light enough.

MY GOSH!!! You described my older brother to the letter with that last one! Stay blessed, Kirk.❤

Yep going through Divorce his mother always calling him and telling him to block and moved away from me and my kids. The lady would go crazy calling him constantly and he would obey and follow everything she said . He left us fled the country and I found out he was involved through Whatsapp chats with a young girl from his country. So he left like his mother wanted and how I know this text I took photographs from his phone. Why I need this for lawyer.. evidence. We are better off without him don't have time and energy to fight . Love my life without that circus I never invited.. Don't have time for words they don't understand communication either they are the wise and I'm the dumb one as they imagine.. but yes there are crazy mothers like this that destroy more a marriage.. either way he did not know how to grow into a mature man with accoubtability.. I'm just living my life and my kids time for freedom and self love.. Thank you for this video ❤😊

I don’t agree with the last one, I have dated and had conversations with men who was raised with both parents in the house hold and they are the worst ones they don’t treat women right at all

Wow 😌 your words give me so much peace. I’ve been looking for clarity in so many places & never have I got the peace of mind & peace in my heart. Your words are so TRUE. I understand this because I have experienced the worst kind of men. Thank you Kirk, much love to you and your family. God bless & happy Easter 🙏✨🐰🥰

Brother Kirk, Sometime the basics should be addressed because statistics says its over 10 million DV cases in the US and 9.8 million in the UK. Also, in my research top 3 warning signs of _busers 1. Extreme Jealousy 2. Possessiveness 3. Unpredictable... In an Advocacy program I met a client that had to shoot her _buser to save herself and children because the situation was comtinious and it became volatile. She never spoke about it until we saw it aired in rhe local news. Please share to help someone that maybe in a situation now that need to know the basics because it may save them... Thank you for sharing.

I tell my peeps all the time that *these* are the things we should have been taught in school. (Damn the War of 1066!) Thanks again for these gems, Kirk!

Ikr my son is amazing I've raised. Him without his dad yeah it was hard

The heritage accent of your voice and male perspective gives this informational guidance the proper accent to be taken seriously! Got it! Thank You!

Ik this is off subject but U have some very beautiful skin❣️I CAN'T STOP LOOKING AT THE SMOOTHNESS😊

Thank you for speaking from the heart. I wish I had seen this video decades ago but it is never to late to learn. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You are a wonderful man with a big heart.

Thank you, So on point, appreciate you!❤️🙏🏽

❤ thank you,and happy Easter.... good advice ❤

I just played myself with #1 and learned less than a month what was up smh

Thanks kirk this is very good advice. ❤ happy resurrection Sunday and be blessed.

Happy Easter for you and Family 😊...thanks for your Video 😮...Marcelline from Luxembourg Europe ❤...🐰💚🐇🧡🐣💙

As a mother who raised two sons alone that have grown into wonderful, respectful, responsible men, i disagree with the last part... thank you for the message 🦋

Thank you bro !

The man that was raised by their mother 🚩🚩 MOST of the time not All of the time. I was engaged to a young man like that when I was in my Jr year of highschool. He'd just graduated highschool. He got a job ⛽ pumping gas. He was driving his grandmother's car, he was a heavy weed smoker with no ambition. His mom even bought my engagement ring 💍 for him. I had to break off the engagement. Many years later, he still doesn't have his own car or a good job. Whew 😅 dodged a bullet !! He wasn't a bad man just not good relationship or marriage material.

Facts. Thank u❤

1 to 5 wow thank you for sharing this video and educating many of us. This is an eye opener 😳

My feelings are if I'm good enough to live with, then I'm good enough to marry. No shacking up period

Thank you bro ❤❤❤❤

#4 though…. They’re out here!!!!!!

Great advices

Mr. Kirk I love your video show because you tell the truth thank God I stop to listen to what you have to say about a man thank you I appreciate what you had to say on your video show. 😊

Thank you 🙏🙌🫶

So true about the single mothers! Only men can teach men! It is unnatural for a man not to be taught by a man! A woman's softness and a man's masculine are opposite. Of course there are good kids from single mothers however its about the TOOLS THAT MAKE HIM A HUSBAND that a woman cant teach! How can a woman teach him to be something that he is not. Its like if your child wanted to learn Spanish for example, would you send him to a French teacher or a Spanish teacher? Same difference if you want a boy to be a husband, he needs to be trained/ taught by a husband!

Thank u so much

Thank you ❤

As a single mom: My son (adult meanwhile) became an absolute gentleman, he has been cleaning his room and washing his own clothes from the age of 8 on. He would NEVER expect a woman to "take care of him".

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ you be blessed too!

I love when you talk about no 5 . When a man says he’s not ready . Even though How the she position her leg 😂😂😂..

Most men were raised by a single mom nowadays... as was my son. He's standing on his own two feet since he started college at age 20. He has a degree in computer sciences, a full time job as a software developer, he cooks and cleans, has his own place and good friends in his life. He's 24 now. He's amazing and I sure hope he'll find a good woman eventually. He lives in Germany, speaks English and Japanese fluently (and German too obviously). He deserves love as everyone does. He wasn't spoiled with money or vacations growing up, but he did recieve my time, care and attention so he could thrive. And he does.

Men that been in prison too. Too much mental baggage.

I don’t agree with a man raised by his Mom , it depends on how he was raised.

I’m a single mother and I have a son ( he’s young 16) but I’m raising him to be independent and not to attach Lolol he knows how to cook( well may I add we’re Caribbean) he’s applying for jobs ect. I can understand EVERY last thing you said……I think some single moms are doing a little better.

So I'm gonna counter 2 of them...the no life having one 😂 only because I'm at a place in life where I literally have no life rn. Usually I work full time, go to school full time & was raising my son full time. But he graduated, I graduated, got laid off during covid & life never quite picked back up the same. My friends are scattered across the country, broke up with my ex a yr ago, both my lil sisters had a new baby so I'm just here like 🤷 I have to start fresh but I'm enjoying the quiet before things pick up again. So not having a life isn't always a bad thing. And the 2nd is the man from the single mother. I worked my butt off to raise my son to be a good man and husband, that was always my goal. He's 20 now, has been on his own since a few months after graduation. Has his own place, a job. He's a great partner, does his best to choose his partners wisely, girls who are working towards something, have goals, family orientated. Unfortunately he has been ghosted (I'll never understand why ppl do that), or he's had to let go of some because they're drama or immature. He's on a good path though. So don't always knock those ones. See what they're about first. At least have a conversation if they seem nice and stable. Just my 2 cents. The rest I agree with tho!!! Every time I've went down on. Standard, I've kicked myself!

GOOD STUFF!!!!!

Women don't want to hear the truth..even though these may be common sense..like #1! Let him stay where he lay

Thank you

A man who lives with his ex is not trying to move on, he is trying to change her mind and keep her from finding someone else,or run of the new someone else. He only talks to the new woman as a back up. No man loves a woman faster than the one who needs a roof over his head. Never, never, ever let a man move into your home.

😮 Wow! That's a revelation

Love the shirt about Toxic Ppl

When a man speaks ugly about another woman to me, I let him know,"we're not doing that". I don't continue seeing him. Don't have time

Also men who have no relationship with their children…

You left a beggar lol 😆 I know a guy that constantly begs me to be with him and won’t accept “NO” at all!!! He’s super annoying and makes me wonder why is he not taken by someone!?? Damn!!!

Hi Kirk, How much for analysis or advice session ?

Always available might mean they spend all their time with the Lord in prayer and worship. God is my life. He gets all of my time today. I do not watch TV or go to a ballgame. I am not interested in the secular worlds activities everyone seems to think are perfectly fine for us to be partaking in. Supporting Hollywood is to support evil. Same with all those big sports that even many Christian men worship and even gamble on. Let God decide for you who you are meant to be with. Pray about it. Do not take relationship advice from someone who does not even know you or the person you like. They can say well if they grew up like this they will be this way or that way. This is prejudging people and setting them into categories of shame. I am sure you mean well but when we start to stereotype people together we will always make critical errors with some. We become oppressors.

I think #8. should say men with mothers who have an unhealthy attachment to their son's. Not single mothers. Plenty of single mothers have raised well rounded young men and plenty of 2 parent households who have not. While there is truth to what you're saying, it depends on the emotional and mental stability of said parental figure/s.

I rather just stay single its so much easier and peaceful

Meaning will remain single forever

My boyfriend was drunk the other night and called his mom then after they hung up he started crying and said he misses his mom. I was pretty turned off. Am I wrong to think that a 40 year old man crying cause he misses his mommy is weird? He says weird things like "My mom doesn't love me but I still love her". I don't really want a guy who calls his mommy every single day and breaks down crying cause he misses mommy. I didn't make fun of him even though I wanted to. I think he has some attachment issue or something because he is very addicted to me and people and he doesn't like being alone.

Facts 🩷

No 2. Funny you said that " last week I saw a story of a white couple who got shoot by the new wife ...ex- father-in-law,,,, because she was fighting for custody of her 2 small child (his grandkids) from her previous marriage; now mind you she had a new baby with the new husband ; so sad that the new husband was in between that mess,,,he lost his life almost like a innocent by standard.( men and women bring drama)

Are you a Pisces Sun? You have a sweet, genuine energy.

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Many countries in the Caribbean are matrifocal so #8 would bump most of our men off a "potential partner" list.

Like your accent !!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂

And those that are asking for money early on in the Talking phase

Kirk, I have a question. What about men who have been hurt by a woman but for some reason still wants to stay connected to the one ☝️ that hurt them?? Isn’t that awfully strange?? 🤔

Hi Mr.😊

I am spinning from his word salad.. Ooh wee, he thinks he’s cooking..

What about if his wife just passed away in 2021 coving...is he ready?

It’s not bashing either one, it’s calling out the fallacies either one could be trying to put forth. It is what it is, call it out..And there are people that ARE BAD

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I kind of disagree with point #8 because I’ve encountered great guys that were raised by single mothers and are happily married etc. However, some single mothers are overprotective and so forth and so on due to past traumatic experiences or history so I don’t feel their sons should be judged by that because some actually turn out quite well. Nowadays, children are Bledsoe to even have a mother in their lives because so many of them are getting killed by the so called fathers/step etc.

I give up

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Please; what does your shirt say????

I’m big on accountability. If you can’t see your part of the issue you will repeat it

Amen I agree I agree I agree need a guy and he's still at home his mother I don't care if he's 56 dump him now cuz that mother know she going to have something to say you ain't this you ain't that and you're not going to do what she does Audrey stay away from men that days with his mother that's not a mother that's a mommy a mother knows how to let her son go a mommy doesn't

Yeah I found out he’s bedding money for a lawyer!!!😢😢😢😢😢

A Gemini!! STAY AWAY BOO BOO

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Good morning

I disagree. My cousin was raised by his mom and his father was never in his life and he is a GREAT Father and husband to his wife and kids. Every single mom is not by choice. I was thrown into being a single Mother after 12 years or marriage. My sons are responsible adult men that take care of their women.

Number 9 if he's been married more than twice

Omg I've delt with everyone smdh ummmm

2 much drama!!!! New edition shot!

Hmmm how I wish I had seen this channel earlier I wouldn’t have gotten a heart stroke