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Explore the Stoic perspective on friendship with our latest video. Delve into why a lack of friends might not be a setback, but a step towards self-growth. Understand how to practice Stoicism and everything to know about stoicism in regards to managing emotions and overcoming the feeling of not having friends. We uncover insights from Marcus Aurelius and Stoicism's approach to dealing with rejection and toxic relationships. Discover how negative visualization, a key Stoic technique, can transform your outlook on solitude. Learn to embrace Stoicism's empowering philosophy, especially in your 30s, to control emotions and find inner peace. Reflect on why it's challenging to make and keep friends, and how Stoicism offers a refreshing perspective. This video is a motivational journey into Stoicism, providing practical wisdom for those hard times when you feel alone. Perfect for anyone interested in Marcus Aurelius, Stoic philosophy, and finding strength in solitude. Join us in exploring how daily Stoic practices, like stoic morning routines, can enhance your life, even when friends seem few.
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@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

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@boiketlomandlase1230 5 ай бұрын

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@mikecook_author 4 ай бұрын

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@tonyyayo2660 4 ай бұрын

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@Chris-dw7gq 4 ай бұрын

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@markmoyer5572 4 ай бұрын

I truly believe that there are good people it's hard to find real people personally I don't have true friends but I see some people who have lots of friends always wondered what iam doing wrong it seems like I am in the wrong place

@tigerlee9613 5 ай бұрын

As a lonely man, I rather be lonely than have any friends. Most were trash. Many discouraged me to achieve my goals. Some got jealous and always tried to out do me. Some took advantage of me. No one cared about me and cared more about themselves. I had enough of people. I rather be alone

@rocketman7471 5 ай бұрын

I wish you were my neighbor because it sounds like we went to different schools together.

@jacquelinepenha3135 5 ай бұрын

Please let no one steal your joy. You do not have control over what people do, but you have control over how you react to it.

@user-xd9xy5yl9l 5 ай бұрын

I understand. You had friends since you were 6 years old. Get back to your school friends. They don't give a damn about your success (or failures). Find them and refresh that friendship. BTW You don't have any real friends at the moment. Ask yourself why. (I have no idea why because I don't know your life).

@tigerlee9613 5 ай бұрын

@user-xd9xy5yl9l Those friends I knew at age 6 are the ones who convinced me to steal things with them at age 11 and I got arrested while they ran away leaving me to rot. Doesn't matter anymore. I'm a multi-millionaire. I used to beg people for them to be my friend and even cry. I wanted to pay them $1000 dollars to go to Las Vegas with me in my 30s. They were all trash in the end. None of them were loyal.

@lkofie6670 5 ай бұрын

I can relate on all the levels you've pointed out...didn't matter whether they were childhood friends or people you're related to by marriage thinking I'd have a new experience having "sisters,", or people you thought you were having a connection/vibe with. I always say don't go against your instincts or discernment and definitely know when to let go once the mask comes off no matter how difficult, disappointing, or sad it makes you feel because there's never denying the truth no matter how far back the friendship goes and once you begin to reflect on things over the years, you begin to realize that their jealousy/envy or resentment and insecurities had always been there, it's just they were "given a pass" or it was brushed off and overlooked. But sooner or even many years later, the mask comes off and there's the truth staring you in the face. To make it easier to cope with I just slowly began to distance myself until it was easier to cut ties completely.

@user-rb9gy9xr9g 4 ай бұрын

I rarely meet anyone who can listen to more than one or two words before they interupt you and go off on long winded stories about themselves.

@ZombasticRex 2 ай бұрын

Most people are too busy thinking about what they want to say to listen. You are correct. I'm better off talking to my old Bo dog.

@SkimaskSpeaks 2 ай бұрын

People also ignore you and don't listen because they already have a response ready before you even finish your sentence.

@mariae6942 2 ай бұрын

😂. SO TRUE!

@aarone9000 2 ай бұрын

WOW; a pet peeve of mine!

@LaurenceDay-d2p 2 ай бұрын

Blabbermouths are bores, and a waste of one's time. Better to read a good book than to listen to a stupid blabbermouth.

@2023Red 4 ай бұрын

Your most valuable friend is yourself.

@keithharris1672 2 ай бұрын

True.

@thestoicsaga 5 ай бұрын

People who enjoy being alone are never lonely. Great video! 💪

@Yaz-pn9py 5 ай бұрын

100 percent.

@Rowan-mo4ko 5 ай бұрын

This isn't a lie and for some reason overbearing people just want to try to implant themselves into your life in some aspect. Like your coworkers all of a sudden think you are this big family and half the time you think they are assholes so no why would I buy you a birthday card amd place money in it. I don't even want to see you while I am here much less hang out with you on the other side of those doors. Also my position only required I be friendly towards you not friends with you amd so as long as I am doing my job properly you shouldn't be a le to hold my life hostage to whatever relationship you believe I should have with you thats obviously not work related.

@Jennifer-bs6oy 5 ай бұрын

So true

@lkofie6670 5 ай бұрын

@@Rowan-mo4ko You've spoken my life experiences... indeed. Sometimes, people just need to learn how to read the room or the person. It doesn't mean the person is in a bad mood, or it doesn't mean something has to be "going wrong" because we're not engaging or being talkative as a group. Sometimes or even most times, people/I simply just don't have anything to say or add to the discussion.

@fruitytube1 5 ай бұрын

Hands up those choosing to live alone 🙌🏻 I have done for 4+ years. Takes a bit getting used to and still have ups and downs like living with some one.

@MeaningofStoicism 5 ай бұрын

A person who knows how to live alone is a person with a strong inner spirit......

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your insight. Living alone definitely requires a strong inner spirit. It's a journey of self-discovery and independence.

@nelsonhibbert5267 5 ай бұрын

@@thestoiccommunity Yeah and you can knock one off whenever you feel like it.

@MeaningofStoicism 5 ай бұрын

@@nelsonhibbert5267 That's right

@nelsonhibbert5267 5 ай бұрын

@@MeaningofStoicism I did one yesterday it was a right laugh.

@MeaningofStoicism 5 ай бұрын

@@nelsonhibbert5267 It must be a wonderful thing, I can reveal it?

@willbart1236 4 ай бұрын

At 60 years old, I can count my true friends on one hand. Without using my thumb. And I still have two fingers left over.

@Thesilentwatchers17 2 ай бұрын

At age of 28 i have friend less than 5 and have NONE of any Best Friend

@dennismclaurin1487 2 ай бұрын

I have 1 more finger over you Most form friendships with the world, as relates to Jas.4:4

@manoman0 2 ай бұрын

@@Thesilentwatchers17 Yes.

@manoman0 2 ай бұрын

Thank you. I feel quite lonely from time to time. Seems I am not.

@anthonytokar3961 2 ай бұрын

I have half a pinky of a friend and I'm 34

@StoicAwe 5 ай бұрын

"Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one." - Marcus Aurelius

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Matthew 24:13 (NKJV) But he who endures to the end shall be saved.

@jeffreybaier5312 5 ай бұрын

When the business took a hit only Jesus and the Dog didn't abandoned me.

@nelsonhibbert5267 5 ай бұрын

Well your dog certainly didn't. But considering that Jesus (if there ever was one) died centurys ago then half of what you just said is bollocks. But dogs truly are worth having around.

@jeffreybaier5312 5 ай бұрын

@nelsonhibbert5267 don't worry, you'll find out one day. Until then, I pray you change your mind.

@nelsonhibbert5267 5 ай бұрын

@@jeffreybaier5312 Do you believe virgins get pregnant?

@kelvintillman9185 5 ай бұрын

Ark of the covenant was found with blood of Jesus on it blood tests shows he only had one parent

@boxingreferee 5 ай бұрын

You really don’t need anybody else do you? Although a nice lady would be OK. God help us.

@VETERANS1ST 5 ай бұрын

Im most happy and at peace when im alone..

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

I can totally relate! There's something really special about finding peace and happiness in solitude. It's a great opportunity to recharge and focus on ourselves. Keep enjoying those moments of tranquility!

@gayanngodfrey2824 4 ай бұрын

Facts

@pd4103 4 ай бұрын

I've come to find that any physical pain I experience around people actually goes away when I'm alone. At first I thought maybe I was on my feet too much or I was straining myself doing too much physical work, but then it would go away when I went home. I've really been wondering about that lately.

@sukijay4990 4 ай бұрын

I’m the same, but a part of me feels like Im abnormal and I should be doing more stuff with other people. Then I do, but when I get home again I feel like I wasted my day.

@fairyprincess911 4 ай бұрын

In my silence I talk to god who is my inner voice.

@thetelemarkdaydream8896 5 ай бұрын

When someone I know says the word "networking", I usually stay away from that person.

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

It's totally understandable that the word "networking" might not be everyone's cup of tea. It can feel a bit overwhelming or even insincere at times.

@Carolinapetroska 5 ай бұрын

Same for me when asked to do some volunteer work. I just found myself being used and not building real friendships anyway. It never led to anything serious. I was told, it will facilitate your search for a job and so on... It turned out to be just Bs... especially in a country such as Canada that uses newcomers and then dumps them like a used tissue. I no longer trust Canadians now.

@Mo0shii 5 ай бұрын

aah, blind still, you get better. you need to know that 'network' is a tool, no more no less, start seeing as it, specialy if you own a bussnines.

@nicolemarie9875 4 ай бұрын

Omg such a fact

@bretttobin9632 4 ай бұрын

that's a problematic trope educate yourself to be more equitable when dealing with peoples feelings

@thevagabondsageinthewoods 5 ай бұрын

When I first left the city and moved to these woods, I found I watched less television and began interacting more with nature. Eventually I moved the tv into an attic loft. Then people started to fall away and I became ok with that. Now I photograph nature and use that as references to paint. I never knew I could paint!! Now when people call me, if they do, its almost a bother. I prefer meeting strangers, making a little friendly chit chat and then scurrying back here to my birds and butterflies. I love my alone time. Well, not alone…just absence of humans❤

@stann6868 4 ай бұрын

One might even say closer to God. Imho

@sammas2959 4 ай бұрын

Birds and butterflies do not paint or take photographs, why are you? In getting away from other humans, you are, in fact are a nuisance to all those creatures around you, the environment included.

@thevagabondsageinthewoods 4 ай бұрын

@@sammas2959 im sorry you act like an outsider in your own world. Whatever happened to u in this life, I hope you find peace one day. Blessings on you. 🦋

@KitCat71819 4 ай бұрын

@@sammas2959 troll

@KitCat71819 4 ай бұрын

@@sammas2959 .....or maybe you are the nuisance 🤔

@StelinaJustice 5 ай бұрын

I liked what the narrator said:" talk not to impress , but to express". I really liked that. Please like my comment so that I can get reminded later on. I dont have a secretary, and no friends either. Lol🐈🎶

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It's great to hear that the words resonated with you. Keep engaging with the content and you'll always have a reminder to come back to.

@theinfinity914 5 ай бұрын

@@thestoiccommunity9:33 9:35

@crazviolin5385 4 ай бұрын

I also had to jot that down as a reminder, it hit home.

@stephenybeecherkennison-kb2vv 4 ай бұрын

❤❤

@bejmire3084 3 ай бұрын

You have God!

@MaxineShaw-de7bh 4 ай бұрын

Being alone and enjoying your own company is the best thing you can do for yourself. It works for me and my life is drama free.

@glasgowG53 2 ай бұрын

Me too bud

@MaxineShaw-de7bh 2 ай бұрын

@@glasgowG53 Lol true yet I'm a lady that wrote this comment.

@glasgowG53 2 ай бұрын

@MaxineShaw-de7bh Does it matter? You enjoy your own company. That says a lot about you, your confidence and your ability to just get on with it. Without any drama. I lived with someone for 35 years. The last ten have been the happiest of my life. Drama free. Make my own choices. Do and go where I want. If people are friendly, I'm just as friendly. If people do not fit, I avoid. Find it less stressful. Best of luck to you. Like me, may you be happy in your loneliness. Ohhhhh, sorry for the bud, bad assumption, my apologies.

@MaxineShaw-de7bh 2 ай бұрын

@@glasgowG53 Did anyone ask your opinion. Lmao I think not. Now carry on 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Exit stage right 👉👉👉👉👉

@LaurenceDay-d2p 2 ай бұрын

That makes two of us.

@jackjack-bw8ks 5 ай бұрын

Loss my best friend in car accident in 2008. I grew up with him and the friendship was tested and proven to be genuine. Most will never find a true friend but when you do cherish it. I've tried to find new friends but not everyone understand how to be a friend so I stay to myself just to protect my peace.

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. It's never easy to lose someone close to you. It's true that genuine friendships are hard to come by, but when you find them, they are truly invaluable. It's okay to take your time and protect your peace while navigating new friendships.

@TaylorAntia 5 ай бұрын

The way I relate to this so hard. A real friend is so hard to come by, knowing that you lost your best friend in 2008 and still haven’t found someone else like that makes me sad. I lost my best friend in 2017 and it’s been hard making friends since and I’ve learned to just keep to myself as well. I hope you end up finding a good friend :)

@jackjack-bw8ks 5 ай бұрын

@@TaylorAntia sorry for your loss. It almost feels like yesterday. The way it happened was crazy. I was in military and was about to head back out of state and we end up crossing paths right before I left as if God knew how much he meant to me so he gave that last interaction. Mind you I was a good distance from the neighborhood we lived in visiting my cousin, out of thousands of streets my bestfriend could have turned down it happened to be the street I was on.

@nanabuster7285 5 ай бұрын

I lost my son in a car crash in 2008. At first I thought I might know you but sadly not. I pray you find another true friend.

@alisonleiper9913 5 ай бұрын

It's hard to find a true friend in life. I had friends in primary school and then high school but eventually you lose touch with people. After that I made friends through different jobs but ended up losing touch with them too. I met a like minded brilliant lassie at my work. There's 16/17yrs between us but she has an old head on young shoulders. Our lives were actually quite similar growing up. We get on like a house on fire and I can't imagine not having her as a friend. She just gets me and would never shit on me like so called friends in the past. She's a genuine salt of the earth lassie. Very hard to find in this day and age. Quality over quantity any day.

@StoicEvolution1 5 ай бұрын

"It is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor." - Seneca

@Cuckoo_Lane 5 ай бұрын

Epictetus spoke about this concept well.

@deeznutz294 4 ай бұрын

So it’s better to not have ambition?

@user-ud2vq1nr1e 4 ай бұрын

@@deeznutz294yeah stoicism advocates for passivity

@BernhardSchwarz-xs8kp 4 ай бұрын

A smart ass this Seneca - with the emphasis on the "ass". Some people are driven to come up with "words of wisdom" all the time to deflect attention away from the fact that they are pretty stupid.

@svenkamog2232 4 ай бұрын

After suffering countless deaths of close family members over the past few years. I was truly shocked how very little people gave a shit... A real eye opener for sure 😕

@LarsonFamilyFarm-LLC 2 ай бұрын

The dead are rarely honored or thought of...cementaries are wastelands. Everyone's too busy competing w/ egos in their own lives to care about someone else.

@SJR559 2 ай бұрын

I can empathize with your pain and lose. I too have lost so many loved ones. The majority in a very short period of time. It’s an extremely difficult and sad situation to be in. To say that time heals all is irrelevant to me. I think over time it gets easier to deal with life having a certain person not in it anymore. But the pain and reality of losing someone so close to you never goes away. I have tragically lost friends, parents and other loved ones. Each one hurts a little different. But I am a mom who lost her son as well as so many others and that pain is something that no one ever wants to feel. It’s been nearly 10 years but it’s still just as painful as if it just happened. But I can push through it a little easier than before. I’m sorry for your loss of your loved ones. I understand your pain. ❤❤❤

@miriamyahushua 5 ай бұрын

I have lived the last 10 years mostly alone. I have 2 dog's. There are people in my life now. But it's mostly me. I always like to be alone more than with people. I came here alone, and leave alone. Everything in life will teach me.

@jacquelinepenha3135 5 ай бұрын

I like you.

@davidmcchargue8427 5 ай бұрын

Life proliferates all around us, yet all living things are individual units of that life. Sectionality and compartmental existence is all our experience. Some, group into sets and subsets...or even hurds. Others follow spontaneous mobs. And then there are those that depend on themselves. Perhaps a kindred life may be beneficial at times, however...no truer words have been said than we arrive alone, and leave the same way! Don't fear the quiet time spent with yourself....many spent lifetimes trying to reach inner reflection while being embedded into large social groups....they never knew that quiet, solitary passage of time in our own company is the way to find our true inner selves! I wish you good journey on your unique path. I will walk mine as it may be!

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 18:24 NKJV A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

@stilesjohnson1745 5 ай бұрын

Being kind thinking I had friends got me betrayed. Now I am Ok with being alone and pushing and finding myself.

@tonyadams8812 5 ай бұрын

''Being kind thinking I had friends got me betrayed'' Me too! ''Now I am Ok with being alone and pushing and finding myself.'' Me too!

@stilesjohnson1745 5 ай бұрын

@@tonyadams8812 💯🙏🏽

@dianeamaral8151 5 ай бұрын

Yes you are right

@stilesjohnson1745 5 ай бұрын

@@dianeamaral8151 ❤️💯Yes indeed.

@Mo0shii 5 ай бұрын

im still kind, others can't abuse it anymore, as i refuse to give myself up, what others do to me, i won't, cuz this is me, and we are very very few left.

@primalcauldron 4 ай бұрын

I'm disabled now and apart from work Its hard for me to get out. I lost all my friends as a result of my disability. I wasn't excting, flexible for going out etc, I learned that they weren't diamond friends after all. I was sad at first . Now I realise they were fake friends and they're loss, but I do miss connections. I have only my pets now. They are always there to love me unconditionally. I'm ok with that ❤. I would say to all of you reading if your able to get out in the world and make connections to do it. You never know when your life will do a 360 flip as in my situation and become disabled. I'm young too. Life is always changing so takes opportunity when it knocks. Blessings to all 🙏

@freespirit-111 4 ай бұрын

Yes,i empathize with you. I’ve been ignored because I don’t gossip, or talk about mundane things. I love reading, writing,talking about quantum physics and such, gardening etc. most people find that boring, but then again i find those same folks uninteresting…so it’s a win-win.😂

@user-my8bb6nc1x 4 ай бұрын

everyone ditched me when my health went and i cant forgive so now i just dont even try to make friends

@junevmarshall4156 3 ай бұрын

🤗. 🕊️. 💘. 4; u! ☺️

@spmoran4703 3 ай бұрын

@@freespirit-111me also

@vearkenstone2670 2 ай бұрын

I am also disabled. When I first became disabled, the superficial people fell away. At first I very depressed about tht, I am ok w tht now. I prefer the company of my cats more than most people.

@yolandawestbrook8240 5 ай бұрын

I don't even like my phone to ring just to talk to people that cannot stand being alone...ugh so draining

@syklystevens2581 5 ай бұрын

😢 this hit me different than your name 😅

@BernhardSchwarz-xs8kp 4 ай бұрын

Phones do have an on and off button. ughh - that difficult to get it?

@shep9231 3 ай бұрын

I hear ya!

@adamwilliams5372 3 ай бұрын

Serve others. One day you may be that person phoning. No one knows what the future holds

@Debbie-henri 3 ай бұрын

I know just what you mean. My husband despairs at my consistent reluctance to not use the phones he buys me (I have never yet bought my own). I often let it go so long that I forget how to use it. Don't care either.

@bella4644 5 ай бұрын

I learned to enjoy my own company. ❤

@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht 4 ай бұрын

I love being alone. Everyone pretty much betrayed me due to jealousy. But I have found inner peace being alone.

@lindaatteo409 5 ай бұрын

I’ve always wanted friends but never really had any. I am now okay with being alone because alone has always been there from a child to an adult. Now as an old woman I can understand why people are okay with their loneliness. It’s nothing to be afraid of embrace it and not let it scare you.

@sammas2959 4 ай бұрын

"Want" is a burden. You want friends. I want the moon 🌙. Want/thirst is the source of our sufferings! Most men want beautiful young bubbly women (see all the video clips out there of these women). The men (moon guy included) who want this will never have enough. Want.

@This_tub 4 ай бұрын

If loneliness is all you knew, it's all you will know. If popularity is what you knew, loneliness is a torment you will know. Sadly I'm feeling the latter

@craigbucl7752 4 ай бұрын

@@This_tubliked what you wrote. Guess I’m somewhat in the middle now but have been to both sides. Retired early a few years ago and it was quite the eye opener. Not many stayed in touch and even now I find myself reaching out more than I’m reached for 😢. Makes me believe I don’t and didn’t know how to be a good friend…

@JoyMartin-rk4pm 3 ай бұрын

@@sammas2959 Bad analogy.

@alanchee6863 2 ай бұрын

God is always with us. Take heart ❤

@H4me7215 5 ай бұрын

There are only a few gems in my life..don't need baggage of negativity❤

@felipearbustopotd 4 ай бұрын

There is a big difference between being alone and being lonely.

@renico123 4 ай бұрын

I noticed that the deeper and more conscious the inner life of an individual is, the lower the number of superficial people that surrounds them.

@dawaynedorsey9632 2 ай бұрын

Agreed

@shaheedaessack6142 2 ай бұрын

True.

@LaurenceDay-d2p 2 ай бұрын

They have learned not to waste their time on shallow people.

@chillios2222 5 ай бұрын

sometimes the biggest challenge is being at peace with yourself , once you reach that inner peace you can be helpful to others

@sammas2959 4 ай бұрын

Pra'bhu 🙏 you have almost reached enlightenment, nirvana (the act of breathing). We help others because others are us!!

@user-xg4vy7wc2h 4 ай бұрын

True

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

John 15:14 (NKJV) You are My friends if you do whatever I command you. Proverbs 18:24 NKJV A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

@bettypringle5403 5 ай бұрын

I am never lonely and i thank God fo the grace he give me. I enjoy myself and am giving, cheerful and optimistic. To God be all the GLORY. AMEN 🙏

@cjsjedi73 5 ай бұрын

Being lonely is nothing like being alone. It's ok to be alone, peaceful and make what you do experience valuable.

@TippyPuddles 3 ай бұрын

Bingo, I'm alone, but not lonely.

@chereec7701 5 ай бұрын

I have zero friends, and I am better for it. People are trouble that I won't tolerate.

@stefanpuffer 4 ай бұрын

Can I be your friend?

@craigbucl7752 4 ай бұрын

You must of had some bad experiences

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

John 15:14 (NKJV) You are My friends if you do whatever I command you. Proverbs 18:24 NKJV A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

@N0C0MPLY 3 ай бұрын

@@MI6-W John 15:14 (NKJV) You are My friends if you do whatever I command you. What kind of friendship is that supposed to be? Sounds more like master and slave.

@ChoaticCrater 3 ай бұрын

You must have interests which others have, even just talking here suggests a certain value you look for, being a loner is hard. I hope you can make a friend with a meaningful connection, if not I still hope you live a life of value. You can grow and find tolerable people, I hope this helps in some way.

@luckyneko1 4 ай бұрын

I'm never lonely. I know that's a blessing because so many people are. I wish I could bottle how much I like being alone and give it to those who don't.

@QueenQueenly 3 ай бұрын

Having friends is dangerous as most friends don’t have good intentions

@Cisco-tt6vd 2 ай бұрын

I second that 💯%

@LaurenceDay-d2p 2 ай бұрын

Two-faced friends are worse than none.

@Bedomori 5 ай бұрын

Thank you, As an introvert, I will take those actionable steps to become exceptional at creating meaningful connections meanwhile weaving my life's tapestry a single thread at a time

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

I appreciate your commitment to personal growth and meaningful connections. Keep taking those actionable steps, and you'll surely become exceptional at creating the connections you desire.

@Joel-yi8gb 4 ай бұрын

Not only are you an introvert like me, but also a writer like me 😊

@Bedomori 4 ай бұрын

@@Joel-yi8gb Thanks much appreciated brother

@ytpremium7649 5 ай бұрын

Not even my parents were friends to me. They abandoned me every chance they got so I grew up with zero desire for friendship with anyone. I am alone and absolutely happy with no one in my life to take me for granted, take advantage of me, judge, criticize, slander, backstab, disappoint or betray me My family is around 500 people (16 brothers on my mom's side, 14 on my dad's) and I've saved so much time, energy and money not being involved with anyone

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your perspective. It sounds like you have found contentment in being independent and not relying on others for validation or support. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness.

@Joel-yi8gb 4 ай бұрын

Looks like you a busy family 😊

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Matthew 10:34-39 NKJV “Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’; and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.

@desmondmarshall7384 5 ай бұрын

I literally have one friend that I grew up with who I consider to be my brother. That is it, everyone else I just know.

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It's great to hear that you're open to travel companions. It's always nice to have someone to share new experiences with.

@themacocko6311 5 ай бұрын

Well, you have one more than most.

@desmondmarshall7384 5 ай бұрын

@@Ac_Adapter😂 I thought the same thing, I thought I missed the message.

@desmondmarshall7384 5 ай бұрын

@@themacocko6311and for that reason, I have gratitude for our friendship (brotherhood).

@larrysimms7212 5 ай бұрын

I am an INFJ Personality. I appreciate the Stoic philosophy immensely

@rebeccaholt8965 4 ай бұрын

Me TOO! INFJ ROCKS!

@gailmorgan2556 2 ай бұрын

Me too. But I love and get along well with ENFs and ENTP , as well as xSFJ. Hard to find. @@rebeccaholt8965

@wilshirewarrior2783 4 ай бұрын

I have 5 adult children..all are trustworthy and loving. They are my friends beside my wife of 63 years. No drugs in the bunch and no criminals..I am blessed..thank you Lord.

@LaurenceDay-d2p 2 ай бұрын

You are a good person who raised your children in a loving home, and treated them well. You are reaping what you sowed.

@TippyPuddles 3 ай бұрын

Being alone: no drama when plans are changed, when I decide I don't want to do something, change dinner plans, decide what to watch, no one questions what I buy, bothered by when I go to bed (or not). The pluses are endless.

@Milkman4279 5 ай бұрын

I don't have friends because I'm not interested in people. Who you are, where you're from, what you like, what you want, I couldn't care less.

@gayanngodfrey2824 4 ай бұрын

😅

@sammas2959 4 ай бұрын

You are like a person who meditate by thing to sleep!!

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

John 15:14 (NKJV) You are My friends if you do whatever I command you. Proverbs 18:24 NKJV A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

@stilesjohnson1745 5 ай бұрын

Never abandon who you are.

@venutiabarlow468 5 ай бұрын

About 4 years ago all my friends seemed to just fall away. It seems odd but I am happy to not talk much anymore. That is my 1st thought every morning.....thank goodness I don't have to make conversation. I am very grateful that my spirit brought me to Hawaii 20 years ago so surrounded by beauty that it makes everything just fine.❤

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

I can understand how it must feel odd for your friends to just fall away, but it's great that you've found contentment in not having to make small talk every morning. It's wonderful that Hawaii has brought you so much beauty and peace for the past 20 years. It sounds like you've found a true sense of happiness and tranquility there.

@4everu984 5 ай бұрын

Me too! Maui.....jungle and quiet.....loud singing birds. Im a therapist, I literally despise small talk. I define friends as those that understand this and can tolerate silence.

@saltpeter7429 5 ай бұрын

Interesting. It was 4 years ago, roughly, that my cleansing happened. Everyone was removed from my life. They attacked, betrayed, abandoned. Whatever... It hurt, but I am actually ok with it. They point figures and say I am at fault, but truthfully I feel more insightful and present in myself than I ever have. I was just drowning in unhealthy people most of my life.

@deborahbizzell1989 4 ай бұрын

Right,how much can ppl continue to talk about without being repetitive.

@env0x 4 ай бұрын

@@4everu984 what if it is deep talk but they just talk a lot

@andrealindsey7736 5 ай бұрын

All of my friends went by the wayside. Either due to drug addiction or mental illness. One moved to China and stayed. I tried and could never make connections like the ones I had in my teens and 20s. And I'm OK with that. I know it sounds cliche. But I'm married to my best friend. He's literally my favorite person in this planet and had been since I was 15. I never loved or cared about anyone like I care about him. We both have had friends come and go. And avoid making new connections because people are tied to drama. And we just don't want that. I badly want to make new friends now because I get lonely. But finding and making new friends in this day and age is not easy.

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

I completely understand where you're coming from. It can be tough to find genuine connections as we get older, especially with the prevalence of drama in social circles. It's great to hear that you have such a strong bond with your husband, and I can relate to the desire for new friendships without the drama. It's a delicate balance to strike, but I hope you find the right connections in due time.

@Sano199 5 ай бұрын

I have the same experience.

@susanneashton1340 4 ай бұрын

To make friends takes having a real interest in others and taking time ... to desire friends to serve our need for company ...that is what some may consider frirndship. Ugh. Self-centred thinking poisons potential friendships.

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 31:12 (NKJV) She does him good and not evil All the days of her life.

@mariGentle 5 ай бұрын

I started and run a women’s group. We hold space to witness each other. We listen with attentiveness and compassion. Listening deeply is a gift to be treasured ❤

@syklystevens2581 5 ай бұрын

Sounds interesting

@kingster99me 5 ай бұрын

I wish there was something like that around here. Do you Zoom by any chance?

@sheila_rabant 5 ай бұрын

I have zero friends now. My closest ones stabbed me in the back 💔🗡

@Carolinapetroska 5 ай бұрын

It happens as sad as it is....

@user-jh7cq3ct6u 5 ай бұрын

It happens more than not.

@jacquelinepenha3135 5 ай бұрын

Try Jesus and get a small dog 🐕 and you should be fine

@sheila_rabant 5 ай бұрын

@@jacquelinepenha3135 I have 2 small dogs now 💕

@idreadFell365 5 ай бұрын

Literally?

@prairiegale7409 5 ай бұрын

It has been awhile since I found your channel and want to say how much I have enjoyed your videos. Over my 70+yrs. I have learned and practiced stoicism before I was aware it was a philosophy. Today's videos had phrases I have used over life. I have always believed life is a tapestry and each person we meet is a small thread, sometimes they become long threads and interwoven in different parts. My personality type is an INFJ, so I love spending time alone. As my life is getting shorter, and I am retired, I have found time to reflect and enjoy looking back at my tapestry to see all the colorful threads and patterns that have been created. Thank you for your work.

@tammyg3984 5 ай бұрын

Also an infj. Don't we love our time alone.

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience and insights! I'm glad my videos have resonated with you, and I appreciate your support.

@lindarusch9660 5 ай бұрын

I am also an INFJ and crave solitude.

@maribelrobertson 5 ай бұрын

As I get older,I realized that I’m not happy anymore with the circle of friends I used to have . We all have different interests,while I enjoyed gardening,traveling and outdoor activities they enjoyed partying eating out in the fancy restaurants.I slowly removed myself and now I have peace . Looking forward to find a place where I can volunteer in our local community and hopefully to meet someone with the same interest. Very inspiring to listen to this …Thank you so much!

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience! It's great that you've found peace by surrounding yourself with activities and people who align with your interests.

@freespirit-111 4 ай бұрын

Same.

@organrick 2 ай бұрын

I think that’s how I’ve found it to be, they just have different interests, and even though I’m friends with coworkers, I don’t hang out with them after work, or for that matter before work. There is also quite an age difference. Having different interests isn’t necessarily a bad thing, as it might be something that you might develop an interest in. I’m in a new area for me (I’ve lived where I presently live for about a year and a half), but I’m not too sure about groups or other places I can meet people. I’m probably a lot better in a forum like social media, as I’m an introvert, and a little on the shy side, at least with people I haven’t met before.

@tatert.v.9908 4 ай бұрын

I choose quality friends over quantity.

@ThomasinaAdams27 5 ай бұрын

Speak to express, not impress, wise, know your true self worth. I love stoicism, lost wisdom rediscovered. Thank you for this.💞💞💞

@madiclegg3690 5 ай бұрын

I've been dumped and rejected by so many. Now at 50 I only have two friends, I wish it was easier to make new friends in this day and age. I do have a wonderful boyfriend now, who's definitely my best friend. But I do crave a really good girl friend. It's challenging not knowing many people but it has made me look at myself and change somewhat for the better.

@estielderein2011 4 ай бұрын

I have an annoyance with men and women just suck at socialising. No girl clubs.🎉

@Joel-yi8gb 4 ай бұрын

It does seem to be harder to find friends the older you get

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 12:26 (NKJV) The righteous should choose his friends carefully, For the way of the wicked leads them astray.

@etaokha4164 5 ай бұрын

I enjoy my own company. Thanks to my childhood trauma I find it hard to belong.

@Joel-yi8gb 4 ай бұрын

Never made that connection. I have to think about this. Thanks

@SuperReznative 4 ай бұрын

@@jemezfun9767Repent and know Jesus everyone, God created us in his image,He knew you before you born. He knows your thoughts and intentions of your heart.and wants to have relationship with you through His son ,/ Jesus shed blood atonement for sin.Read the gospel of John, Mathew, .

@SuperReznative 4 ай бұрын

@@Joel-yi8gbJesus" 17:29 ,I am the way,the Truth and the light,no one comes unto the father but by me." Etrnity with the creator of the universe who loves you.or etrnity in hell that was meant for the devi- the demons, not us , Jesus work on the cross, blood atonement, Free from sin and power in the name of Jesus over the devil and sin, and healing. Jesus/ the Holy Spirit want to enter into your heart and life ( abundantly).

@SuperReznative 4 ай бұрын

Stoicism ,,many have suicided, while God/ Jesus wants to have relationship with man ,whom he created in His image.,and Loves you , but the devil is a deciever,( hell is real place meant for him & his demons, not us) We make the choice ,for eternity. Read the gospel of John. Mathew , Jesus is Lord of all, Healer, consoler, lover of our souls

@hornet2442 4 ай бұрын

It’s a struggle to make friends or being alone if u have CPTSD. I hope my therapy will help to let me feel happy again and love myself.

@aishamarquez211 5 ай бұрын

Lack of friends indicates that I don't need you telling me anything

@what3ver912 5 ай бұрын

Lol

@angelitaalvarez3458 4 ай бұрын

My Life is finally on the right track and I refuse to let just anyone take my alone time. I treat everyone with kindness, but only 2 or 3 have access to my personal life.

@noroomforgloom 4 ай бұрын

As a child I was alone and remember fondly playing with my imaginary friend. Then I grew up. Being alone is again something Ive worked toward my whole adult life. Now I’m retired with no debt and can finally enjoy my alone time once again. I don’t have to answer to anyone but myself. It’s such a blessing.

@what3ver912 5 ай бұрын

Finally in my 30s and I am in fact alone. Not sure how to put it but if i had the chance to save any of those "friendships" ... I wouldn't.. 😊 👍🏾

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

thanks for sharing your thoughts. It's totally okay to outgrow friendships and prioritize your own well-being. Quality over quantity, right? Wishing you all the best as you navigate through this new chapter in your 30s.

@matshanssen2070 3 ай бұрын

Good for you!👍😊

@stoicsecret 5 ай бұрын

A lack of friends can indicate various things about a person's life or personality. It might suggest that they're very introverted, preferring solitary activities or deep introspection over socializing. Alternatively, it could imply they're highly selective in their friendships, valuing quality over quantity. It might also hint at social anxiety or difficulty in forming connections due to past experiences or personal challenges. However, it's essential not to jump to conclusions; everyone's social needs and circumstances are different. Thanks for sharing

@elizabethd.2398 5 ай бұрын

As you get older, you will find that even if you do jump to conclusions, you won’t regret it. I would much rather jump to conclusions and make a mistake than not jump to conclusions and regret my mistake.

@Joy25-ce6vz 4 ай бұрын

I'm quiet selective in who I keep close to me, I have 2 friends but I still keep my private life, Private

@MONEYAINTATHANG100 4 ай бұрын

Highly selective in my friendships, valuing quality over quantity 💯

@rhyll8240 4 ай бұрын

didnt this guy just say all that? hmmm....

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 12:26 (NKJV) The righteous should choose his friends carefully, For the way of the wicked leads them astray.

@thestoicmode 5 ай бұрын

“One who seeks friendship for favourable occasions, strips it of all its nobility.” - Seneca

@natalieoj3078 5 ай бұрын

Your voice is mesmerizing

@mcrisantasj8242 4 ай бұрын

What a profound video! Thank you!

@WowDaniX 5 ай бұрын

My best friend died over a month ago 😢! She was a 💎 gem!

@adeteforevermore5900 5 ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss .

@charlesallen897 4 ай бұрын

My thoughts are with you in this difficult time. Lost mine now 20 years ago and still find my mind wondering what they would say, do and be like.

@mph1ish 4 ай бұрын

I'm sorry for your loss. May your friend rest in peace.

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 18:24 NKJV A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

@guypilotte225 4 ай бұрын

Friends are people who haven't used you yet,is my observation

@delawarepro3539 5 ай бұрын

I’m mine own Best Friend 👌🥂

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on my channel. Keep being your own best friend

@mikeperry1620 4 ай бұрын

I am never alone; always have 3 standbys - me, myself & I

@davidsarkisyan3492 5 ай бұрын

Much respect to the creators from a shy introvert

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for the kind words! I appreciate your support.

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 12:26 (NKJV) The righteous should choose his friends carefully, For the way of the wicked leads them astray.

@mountainwolf1 5 ай бұрын

I am a sigma male, so I can adapt to things most can not, and stoicism and Christianity help me to be a better me. Both allow me to see things in another light than my own.

@Mr_Originality 5 ай бұрын

This guy really called himself a sigma male. 🤦🏾‍♂️

@felixmartinez1804 5 ай бұрын

🤣

@DianInHerOrb 5 ай бұрын

@@Mr_Originality why diss this, Mr “Originality”? 🙄 The OP has obviously worked to attain a good measure of personal insight, and recognises sigma male characteristics in himself. The mistake he has made is to share that insight with people like you (As a stoic, @mountainwolf1 should know better: he should keep his self-development to himself.)

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 12:26 (NKJV) The righteous should choose his friends carefully, For the way of the wicked leads them astray.

@mountainwolf1 3 ай бұрын

@MI6-W amen. The righteous is more excellent than his neighbour: but the way of the wicked seduceth them. The slothful man roasteth not that which he took in hunting: but the substance of a diligent man is precious. In the way of righteousness is life; and in the pathway thereof there is no death. Prov 12:26-28. Thank you for sharing the word with others stay strong and keep faith.

@michaelgomez835 5 ай бұрын

Thank you, I find that I’m an introvert. I’ve always felt that true friendship was rare thing built over time. The friends I have I consider them as my brothers or sisters. Thank you for the lesson today.

@justinplasschaert432 4 ай бұрын

It is only when you are alone that you can truly be yourself.

@mr.mojorisen2076 5 ай бұрын

People come and go like the clouds , detach enjoy what you get .

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

Absolutely. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts! Keep enjoying and stay connected for more content.

@eliyahu1896 5 ай бұрын

I do resonate with the principles of stoicism. I have been a hermit since 1995, Just by opening your channel, I know I have a friend like you.

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 18:24 NKJV A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

@JusMo777 4 ай бұрын

I love being alone and enjoy my own company. The peace and calmness is priceless.

@Elizabeth-yc7pz 5 ай бұрын

3 steadfast friends are all I need. The rest are just acquaintances.

@frederickb 4 ай бұрын

I have come to understand that the lack of social interaction, has a far more important effect, so being alone, increased my need for spiritual growth, and changing old addictive behaviours, which trapped me into thinking I needed these people. Becoming my authentic self, took its toll, by way of losing many acquaintances, friends and long term friends as well as close intimate friends. My main reasons for being abandoned, became obvious when I couldn’t participate in usual outings and activities and home visits, through developing a chronic lung disease, after a heart attack. Sickness sorts out the sheep from the lambs when it comes to honesty and intention.

@philipbennett2973 4 ай бұрын

Always remember every storm shall pass just hold on.

@KoffieZOM 4 ай бұрын

Perfect video, I felt like I wanted to abondon my friends but deep down I knew that was not the answer, because its people I trust which is rare these days, I listen to them not with intent to reply, but with intent to get a deeper understanding of what they are going through, life is rough but we should know that these are times where we should stick together as one and not leave one another, I love them and I am very hard on them because of this factor, it hurts me seeing them get hurt because I want to protect them, but I know this is not possible, because that's the world we live in, you have to be strong and the only way to achieve this, is to exsperice it for yourself, and add stoicism to your way of living, to aid in identifying future opportunities and build unbreakable bonds with people you trust

@StoicProwess 5 ай бұрын

"Life is neither good nor evil, but only a place for good and evil." Marcus Aurelius

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

John 8:12 (NKJV) Then Jesus spoke to them again, saying, “I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life.”

@user-tr7yg7zo3j 5 ай бұрын

I used to count up how many close friends I had. Once, it was 25! Was so proud of myself. I grew up, learned to love being by myself, prayed for self love every am and now “only” have three fabulous best friends. I can give and receive more, with less. I realized I didn’t need a “crowd” to love and be loved. I also married my soul mate for 25 years. I’m good now.

@sammas2959 4 ай бұрын

When you said you know, you don't know. When said that you have enough, you don't! 3 friends or indefinite friends is the same when one realizes that we are interconnected.

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 18:1 An unfriendly person pursues selfish ends and against all sound judgment starts quarrels.

@dianeamaral8151 5 ай бұрын

I love being alone theirs nothing wrong with that 😅

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 12:26 (NKJV) The righteous should choose his friends carefully, For the way of the wicked leads them astray.

@dianeamaral8151 3 ай бұрын

@@MI6-W that's true

@LaurenceDay-d2p 2 ай бұрын

Peace and quiet are a blessing. Better than having a lot of noisy, jabbering people around.

@dustbin5044 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for reminding me I shouldn't compromise what I believe in just for the sake of having friends who don't share what I believe, as well as actively chipping away trying to force me to change. So it's better to have zero friends in life than sticking with those who want to force me to change just to be with them.

@teresapate4414 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for your video. I'm an introvert, and find it a challenge to find lasting friendships.

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 18:24 NKJV A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

@janinetheo 5 ай бұрын

This is one of the best videos on Stoicism I've watched. Thank You.

@SleepyNarwhal-mj3fj 5 ай бұрын

You're feeding my brain & + all good stuff + truth ! Knowledge rocks !

@imsj1872 4 ай бұрын

I can't even begin to tell you how grateful I am about all your helpful content. I often throughout my life have felt left out, ignored, skipped by or totally and directly mistreated even by my own closed love ones " like my own mom"! I have always tried to be positive and ignored the negative but now and over my 50's I can't help but notice it. I get ignored even at church! Can't help but wonder " what's wrong with me" ?!

@LaurenceDay-d2p 2 ай бұрын

There is nothing "wrong" with you - you have merely associated with inconsiderate people, and have been too dependent on other people's opinions. Develop a sense of self, and confidence, and realize that your own sense of self-worth is more important than the petty opinions of shallow people.

@user-do7bb6kq8c 5 ай бұрын

I appreciate the nod to the late great philosopher George Carlin.

@mattmgarza 4 ай бұрын

I used to feel like something was wrong with me because I was a loner. Now at almost 40, I'm very comfortable and happy with the fact that I'm a shy loner. I'm happy keeping to myself.

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 18:24 NKJV A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

@Mouse73 4 ай бұрын

I love spending time with myself. I never feel lonely or like I miss people. I find it to be very peaceful. The only people that are my true gems are my man and my daughter; they delight me with their creative thoughts, unique perspectives and sense of humour. They bring enriching layers into my life without drama, stress, and fakeness.

@Betty_pimentel 5 ай бұрын

I always enjoy my own company. I only need my own family.

@AnthonyTucker-sl4zj 2 ай бұрын

I don't even need family!! I am AUTONOMOUS!!

@TLW369 4 ай бұрын

I like being alone - I’m more creative and productive when I’m alone. ♥️

@samgadzooker 5 ай бұрын

When You Have JESUS you are never alone, so you can't feel lonely

@chuckfullerton1667 4 ай бұрын

Amen my exact sentiments.

@loyjsalardajr1869 4 ай бұрын

He’s referring to PHYSICAL social interactions and adaptations!

@dianeamaral8151 5 ай бұрын

I except myself the way I am

@MI6-W 3 ай бұрын

Proverbs 12:26 (NKJV) The righteous should choose his friends carefully, For the way of the wicked leads them astray.

@FredWoodard 4 ай бұрын

I was just thinking about this today. I made a list of friends and wondered why it’s so short. This video answered my question.

@Cosette2022 5 ай бұрын

I was very social when I was younger. As Marcus writes, life narrows. As I have aged my circle of friends has grown smaller but the three I have left, I cherish. Thank you for this video ❤

@franklynpertuz7669 5 ай бұрын

Yes a friendship is a diamond it's very rare but when you're in trouble we'll find out who they really are in real friends visit you when you're in jail or in the hospital

@FarahWayAstrologyandTarot 5 ай бұрын

I lost all my friends in the past 2 years.

@user-xd9xy5yl9l 5 ай бұрын

But you had them for all the years before 👍

@simransidhu617 4 ай бұрын

I am not alone, but on top of a mountain enjoying the view. Strength, love, and happiness i know them well. ❤️

@stefan_glc 4 ай бұрын

During my school years i pretended to be someone i was not. So people would start liking me, not realizing that I felt uncomfortable with myself. I am grateful for changing for the better. It is better to be with the right people, who like for who you truly are 🙏

@Stoicmom777 5 ай бұрын

Thank you.That was a great video! I am an introvert, I have a few close friends but I cherish all the people in my life. I often think of how grateful I am to have met such wonderful people who inspire me and motivate me to be better. The special people in my life are close to my heart.❤

@thestoiccommunity 5 ай бұрын

It's great to hear that you have a close circle of friends who inspire and motivate you. It's always important to have people in our lives who bring out the best in us. Keep cherishing those special connections!

@Stoicmom777 5 ай бұрын

@@thestoiccommunity ❤️

@libbylife7161 5 ай бұрын

I lost my best friend at seven years old. The last time I saw her was in her coffin. I don't have friends, I am happy to be alone. Debt free and happy. ❤ I am working on myself to be healthy physically and mentally.

@baronghede2365 3 ай бұрын

I've never had a lot of friends it allowed my personality to grow and fully develop, Blessed Be.

@user-jg6zh9yy2h 4 ай бұрын

have been watching your videos for a while now.. . can't help but say -COULDN'T BE MORE THANKFUL. THANK YOU FOR ADDING CLARITY AND SO MUCH POTENTIAL VALUE IN OTHER PEOPLE'S LIVES.. . . . "KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK" . . . Take Care❤you guys.

@dukromeo 5 ай бұрын

friendship is magic 🤠

@SleepyNarwhal-mj3fj 5 ай бұрын

I appreciate you guys helping me grow ❤

@barbaralyn7019 3 ай бұрын

I’m an ENFP which on the scale of extroverts is on the low end; but now that I found a place to socialize, I do feel energized from being together with my tribe. I found a place to learn how to play ukulele and after that to go play music and sing together a few times a week. We are like family and most are 60 and older. It’s been so nice to get to know people that love music and it bonds us together.