ADULTING! Things they didn’t tell us.. 😩

ADULTING! Things they didn’t tell us.. 😩 | Episode 69

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Жыл бұрын

We all had a picture of how our adulthood would turn out to be while growing up. We couldn’t wait to embrace the word ‘I am an Adult’ so bad to enjoy the rightful privilege denied to us when we were kids.. Mom/dad would tell us “wait until you become an adult “ and that sentence lived rent free in our heads as we eagerly built fascinating stories about the hood! On the reals, now that we are adults and the reality of it has downed on us, there are so many things we wished we knew/taught before tapping into adulthood.
On this episode, shared a couple of them on money, careers, love, sex, parenting and general responsibility that comes with being an adult. Well, is adulthood a scam?
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@mercyndambuki7595 Жыл бұрын

Adulthood is more maintenance than destination. Facts

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Yeap! 💯

@wambuigorgeous Жыл бұрын

This is the truth!

@graciakinyanjui6937 Жыл бұрын

Adulthood is like looking both ways before you cross the street 😂and then getting hit by an airplane🤣

@manassehantonia5249 Жыл бұрын

The ultimate truth!!😂😂

@shammahnzaana214 Жыл бұрын

Murugi: What's in between healthy and toxic? Lydia: TOXIC😭 And that's the thing I love most about you two😂 You are true to each other and compliment each other soooo well. Glad to have clicked your first episode and besides when I'm at school, I've never missed an episode

@priscillah4831 Жыл бұрын

I love how Murugi accepts that she's flawed and even embraces it, the way she admits she'd hurt someone else if she's also hurt. Not many can say that out loud.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Thank you hun. ❤️ It’s all about living your truth.

@graciakinyanjui6937 Жыл бұрын

The true mark of becoming an adult is having to call and make your own doctor's appointments. Like, how can I get on the phone and say I need an appointment?!? I need my mom.

@queenluigi Жыл бұрын

Murugi, I’m a mum too and I only started fearing dying once I had my 2 sons. Every time I get on a flight I’m just praying the whole time because my greatest fear is leaving my sons and husband alone.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

I feel you on this. Let’s keep the hope alive. ❤️

@themissedinfamoustruths2811 Жыл бұрын

That's very true, the older we get the more friends we are detached from due to circumstances

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Facts! 💯✅

@binaonderi9499 Жыл бұрын

Self awareness journey is humbling. Nothing humbles you like coming face to face with yout weaknesses

@virginiaheart6647 Жыл бұрын

They didn't really tell us that it is so easy to dream but not really get to that dream...like you will honestly want something and even deserve having it but it won't necessarily be yours😩and how being nice doesn't always mean only good things will happen to you😔

@bluetick_officialkenya Жыл бұрын

I have been following you guys since last year December. 1st, I used to feel the girly vibe but I want to categorically state to my fellow gents that this podcast is for everyone. Good vibes all through. I love you guys

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

It’s for everyone! 💯 Just big sisters vibes right here. Thank you ❤️

@kenmakau192 Жыл бұрын

Haha... me tooo

@judynjoguover40 Жыл бұрын

I am so happy my daughter recommended that “I Must watch” this. 👏🏽 👏🏽

@Eddahtattooenthusiast Жыл бұрын

Balancing adulthood and motherhood is hectic , do they ever balance out really? I marvel at how people get time for family work themselves and still friends , I'm totally zoned out not because I want to but even creating time for myself is like once a blue moon , rarely!

@easytastyrecipes3212 Жыл бұрын

i do agree with Murugi when she says that there are people whos intentions are just to hurt people. Its not about corrupted chilhood, but they are real psycopaths. They dont have the empathy but their job is to see someone being hurt.......This episode am gonna re listen it.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Right? How sad though? 😢 Thank you for watching ❤

@Irenewk Жыл бұрын

My favourite phrase from this podcast is when Lydia says “…and here we are!” I have made it my mantra!

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Aww! 🥰 Thank you ❤️

@carolnjo8629 Жыл бұрын

I made a call to my Gp to talk to a Therapist, my assessment is tomorrow. Lydia and Murugi, in this day and age of Mental Health. God knew we needed you, since coming across you guys l have realised how much crap l have had to deal with alone. God is definitely amazing because l have seen him first hand but meeeen do we all need a professional to talk to. Wish me luck guys. As for you two ladies, when l make my first million pounds l will fly both of you to a destination of your choice by private jet. God bless you always, you are doing amazing. Free Therapists

@sheilamarangu Жыл бұрын

Free indeed

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Thank you Carol! This is our reason to keep going. ❤ All the best in your therapy sessions. We can’t wait to board that jet darling! 😅🎉

@Gathonination Жыл бұрын

Adulting gets much easier with competent partners but they are difficult to find because there's alot of pretence in the way people present themselves and alot of people also don't work or Don't know how to work on their issues, which always always present themselves later in relationships.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Sad truth! 😢

@barbarakaranja3787 Жыл бұрын

The Simanis' minding their business "Lydia : You wake up at 5:00 AM and Shiv has already worked out, had his banana and fed mamba🤣🤣🤣 Murugi: And now Shylo is beating the dog🤣🤣" That part took me out 🤣🤣🤣 P for pressure!

@alanpierrers Жыл бұрын

My God me tooooo. I watch it over and over

@shery553 10 ай бұрын

😂😂🤣

@sq6858 Жыл бұрын

Adulting indeed has no manual but we live and learn everyday as we embrace this perfectly imperfect journey. I’ve been listening to you guys almost daily and I appreciate the positive impact your content has on my life. Happy to see your growth, may you elevate even more 👏🏽👏🏽❤

@aphrodite1699 Жыл бұрын

Lydiah, some people are just bad as Murugi says. People have gone through worse and they do not let those experiences turn them into monsters

@_MK23 Жыл бұрын

Love the work you guys are doing. It's true adulthood comes with the privilege of a choice, but making the decision is hectic bcs of the consequences that cones with the decision you make.

@radebethando7799 Жыл бұрын

I’m working on encouraging the expectation that things will last. I had so many disappointments growing up that now that I’m trying to adult I almost always place a “dark cloud” over anything good. So, I’m working on allowing things to naturally play themselves out instead of trying to terminate things before their time just so I can “stay in control “.

@scolamugi2031 Жыл бұрын

This episode was pure gold in so many ways 💖💖

@gracemimi10 Жыл бұрын

Another episode and another lesson learnt 🥳🥳I always look forward to every new episode I love it!!

@faithmbogo8049 Жыл бұрын

I love how you girls like you are almost saying the same words at the same time. Am never on time to watch your show but I never miss to watch. Thank you for making us feel normal especially with this life happenings. Keep going 💕💕

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Love that! Thank you hun ❤❤❤

@katrinamwakamri872 Жыл бұрын

When all is said and done... it's the synergy for me.. I admire this type of friendship..it goes waaay beyond and above so many life aspects.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Awww! Thank you ❤❤

@vanessajorgembanze8089 Жыл бұрын

I love this podcast with my soul 🥹❤️

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Thank you.. we love you too. ❤️

@kawiramuthomi7259 Жыл бұрын

Hello ladies..looking gorgeous as always. I had to comment on this.On Lydia's point on adulthood seemed like a destination.So next year am turning 25 and I am so scared coz I feel like I haven't achieve as much as am expected to.I feel like am getting too old and everytime someone talks about age around me, I just shut.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Ooh hun! Release the pressure of aging. Just look at age as just a number. Be king to self! Embrace the uncertainty of times, show up every time and do your best! Everything else will align! ✨❤️

@bs9286 Жыл бұрын

Lydiaaaa thank you for talking and emphasising more on privilege,alot of peope don't realise that literally jut being able to consume this content is a privilege by itself ❤❤❤

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Exactly!! 💯 you’re welcome 😘

@meggyshikungu8355 10 ай бұрын

Wow! I like the parenting bit so much. I am a 24-year-old and I have always wanted my first baby/ babies in my early 30s specifically 32. I am so serious about this that I want to freeze my eggs as soon as I can afford it. So I shared this with my mom five months ago because I wanted her to be prepared to be my support system as I go through the process(I hate needles) and she wasn't for the idea. So the other day she met up with some ladies her age and they were wishing they knew they had IVF as an option, they really would have taken their time getting kids. Now she understood where I was coming from. Then hearing Murugi encouraging it made me feel like I am really making the right decision. And I also follow parenting pages like Lydia also...Just to be prepared. Glad to see that I am not alone and not weird at all. Keep up, guys!

@cikanyoro Жыл бұрын

Watching you in this video made me realize I am very intentional on social media. I am not in social media well just you tube and am very selective about what I watch. Follow and watch about 4 channels faithfully. Also I never carry my phone over lunch or eat while using my phone.

@gracethuku4555 Жыл бұрын

Wooow i need to follow this

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

If discipline was a person! 🙌🏾

@immaculategem Жыл бұрын

Congratulations on your big news.. it's amazing and inspiring to watch you grow.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!❤

@Carole.W Жыл бұрын

I found your channel 2days ago and I'm bingewatching your videos and I'm likeee WHY DID I FIND OUT ABOUT YOOOU NOOOWWW😭❤️.... I'm your newest biggest 19year old fan😂😂😂😂❤️

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Welcome sis! 🎉

@Carole.W Жыл бұрын

@@tmipodcastke Thankyouu❤️

@naomicampana Жыл бұрын

Me too, today haha

@DignaK Жыл бұрын

The reason I had not subscribed yet is because I’m just always absentminded 😂 I watch and then zone out! So today… I’m hitting the subscribe button and turning on post notifications 🔔. Imagine it’s that simple 😅😅😅

@amandaakatukunda Жыл бұрын

I feel that cooking point deep in my soul!

@graceguya1682 Жыл бұрын

To paraphrase Murugi, "There are people who are just bad people, they hurt others for no reason. No matter how kind one is, some people will do one dirty. Just because one is good it doesnt mean good will be done back to them. Being good could lead to getting used" So relateable. Some people are just shitty human beings. They know what they are doing. They are toxic and manipulative. They are just bad and they get worse with age. They have perfected the art of manipulation. They conciously are shitty every day.

@marrietakisaka Жыл бұрын

And my conclusion is adulting is not a scam but a reality and regardless it has to be lived accordingly...and this is what makes us human...25 year old me is glad Atleast I have you, you're preparing 26 yr old me..I appreciate it.Marrieta Kisaka a brand on KZfaq was here

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

love how you have embraced your journey. Congratulations love! ❤

@Noni_254 11 ай бұрын

@hayaashraf3404 2 ай бұрын

This episode is really good... The friendship part is really good

@LadyPosh_254 Жыл бұрын

Separating kids from their dad that’s the worst feeling ever, it makes women feel like they’re selfish yet it’s the best thing for everyone involved. Then a woman keeps praying that the kids will come to understand the reason as to why Adulting & parenting has no manual, you learn on the job

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@sq6858 Жыл бұрын

💯

@laurahkags7001 Жыл бұрын

The number of times Joan has used "I feel like "🤣🥰

@norahmaina3608 Жыл бұрын

I love this, am just starting listening to it

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Glad you do ❤

@Flourish_today Жыл бұрын

It's like marriage, you can only experience it when you get there. I was told that single people are the busiest people. They always have things to go to, functions, programs, parties etc. Apparently married people always have time.

@nyaradhiambo Жыл бұрын

17:15 😂😂😂😂 Not throwing shade, you're throwing the whole forest.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@cinderellanakyira2178 Жыл бұрын

My brother and I are so toxic lol. Lydia said her parents separated when she was nine and we both looked at each other and lust laughed at the fact that we were much younger when ours separated. And just started throwing around jokes about our parents' separation and then he just says "I was born at a very young age and when I was seven months, my parents separated." 😂😂😂

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Glad you related! 😂

@winniekariuki3099 Жыл бұрын

Ready to listen to amazing insights on adulthood 😍😍

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Awesome! ❤️

@immaculategem Жыл бұрын

Ahh. So i left my first comment be4 listening to the podcast... 🤣🤣 this is def my 11 11 moment of clarity message in a weird way.. thank you so much.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

You're the best! 😅❤

@Spy_X744 Жыл бұрын

Adulting is the absolute gherro😂😂 I have surely learned a thing or two along the way while adulting. I have enjoyed this episode💓

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!❤

@mwanikinyakio Жыл бұрын

Am always waiting for a new episode, always learning

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Thank you❤

@Gathonination Жыл бұрын

The funny thing about adulting is that you eventually get used to it and ultimately appreciate it. Just wait a few more years, you'll see 🙂

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Sure! 💯

@abigailopondo5044 Жыл бұрын

Well done ladies on the Spotify grant. So proud of you guys 🎉

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Thank you hun ❤

@lornatwins9944 Жыл бұрын

How many channels do u have to shoot more than one video in one day, i only know this and i can't get enough of you ladies.

@zwad3423 Жыл бұрын

Murugi looking gorgeous in that outfit🔥🔥

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

@lucianaokwiri Жыл бұрын

i love Lydia's energy

@joemnjuki8396 Жыл бұрын

''when are we going back to daddy '' lydia sign up for comedy 😅😅😅

@kenmakau192 Жыл бұрын

As a gent I'm addicted to this channel 😀😀😀

@savannakimani7614 Жыл бұрын

I love you guysss😭❤️

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

We love you sweetie ❤

@Bakedmugi Жыл бұрын

Definitely watching this again and many times

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Remember to share too 😊

@rosetumuti2442 Жыл бұрын

OMG!! I resonate so much with this episode my guka (mums dad) died last year in the morning of my birthday, and i cant celebrate it any more, because tell me should my mum be happy its her daughters bday or should she be mourning her dad?😪 i questioned God alot. Like why that day? Why not the day after or the day before,do you know what i mean?

@akuabaakuaba385 Жыл бұрын

Ok, i cannot hold it any longer! Thank you Murugi and Lydia! Your honesty and authenticity is refreshing. I always look forward to Wednesdays. I wish u the best in all ur endeavours. ❤️

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you! ❤❤❤

@nancykuria7525 Жыл бұрын

Love U girls... you are such an inspiration

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Aww! Thank you. ❤

@traceytina357 Жыл бұрын

This episode was amazing ladies...we are not helping you commit a murder Jo😂😂

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@nellythuranira6732 Жыл бұрын

It definitely tmi 😘😘I love it ☺️

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Yay! Thank you!❤

@joabijoux3664 Жыл бұрын

@lydia I also don't watch stories. It is so healthy for my mental health. Even on WhatsApp, I choose to mute all of them. I only open a few of them when I want.

@faithwaithera2330 Жыл бұрын

This is epic.....Bills,bills are exhausting I wanna go back home😭😭😭

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Shukishaaaa 😭😭

@adhoisacko354 Жыл бұрын

OMG Murugi talking about doom ! I relate 💯💯💯💯💯💯

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

It’s now a luxury mahn! 😭

@anneadhiambo1255 Жыл бұрын

Murugi I felt you when you said, "people are going through a lot!" Kwanza hapo kwa fee...after a week of closing schools the new term begins. It's been a rough year.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Adulting as a parent is on a different level! 😪

@sheilatuwei6805 Жыл бұрын

I am like Lyd..always good to people,can't hurt or embarass people..too bad it's always taken granted for..or find people who are the total opposite..be it friendships or rlshps

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

People can be ungrateful! 😢

@aseasyas4cfro643 Жыл бұрын

Scheduled cry sessions are a thing! Get into it...🤚 Life is a lot sometimes!

@mercieandiema Жыл бұрын

For sure

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Truth! 💯

@zipwangui Жыл бұрын

😂😂 Lydia on death is so me. You don't know you are dead, so live life and be kind.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

😅❤

@miriammugo853 Жыл бұрын

You guys are amazing ❤

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤

@dianajuma9098 Жыл бұрын

Yaaiy, finally subscribed 👏👏

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Welcome Inbetweener! 🎉❤️

@solitaire6162 Жыл бұрын

Now your child is wearing tissue 😂😂 got me

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@mwamwarepublic7380 Жыл бұрын

Great episode girls! To the point on the responsibility of feeding the family especially when nanny is away, have him/her prep several snacks and meals to store in the fridge/freezer before s/he leaves for the weekend. That way, you don’t slave in the kitchen and instead get to spend time more usefully.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Oh yes! ✔️

@ceciliamunga321 Жыл бұрын

What an Episode!!!!!

@millicentnyaguthii3120 Жыл бұрын

This show is carrying me ooh🤣🤣🤣

@meddykarwitha82 Жыл бұрын

I love love TMI❤️

@yamikanindhlovu4803 Жыл бұрын

Enjoyed this episode ❣️❣️

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching ❤

@mercykiaritha350 Жыл бұрын

Mamba was just chilling 🤣🤣

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Then boom! 😂😂😂

@edithmwangi1824 9 ай бұрын

I hope you see this because its 10 months later, but i would love you to do adulthood series for the guys taken abroad vs kenya.

@agnesmaina2315 Жыл бұрын

🤗🤗❤️ to sit and listen to adulthood mmmmbecause weeuhhh!!!!😩😩

@mercyndirangu8903 Жыл бұрын

It's doing the thing, ey? We keep showing up though.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Masaibu ya roho! 😭😂

@agnesmaina2315 Жыл бұрын

@@tmipodcastke masaibu ya kila internal organ😫😂mara the pancreas sijui nose is facing sideways,,but we move🏃‍♀️💨

@abigailurey4614 Жыл бұрын

Murugi you are so right, just because you usually make decisions all the liability should be permanently placed upon you.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

💯💯

@happinesskipeja1334 Жыл бұрын

Love you guys so much , “ni maakili tu hapa”❤❤

@nyamburakimani3726 Жыл бұрын

Am hooked to this podcast,love it to bits

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Thank you. 🙌🏾❤

@kagureeva6942 Жыл бұрын

I think in regards to the letting your children see you going through life situations,it could be done child appropriate. As a mom I believe we are given the ability to know what's right for your child.so emotions can also be shared.can be scary at first but it helps your child express themselves.i have noticed my child become better in communicating since she knows mama understands since I saw her cry yesterday....more mature than her age emotionally for sure . Usiende kulilia mtoto hapo for an hour pliz ukitukana babake though😅😅😅kindly.

@drnjerikamau Жыл бұрын

😂 Shiv was just chilling.....

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@justinelove7816 Жыл бұрын

Great lessons learned especially the fact that life always moves on. I just need to pace myself.

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@hildaalividza3461 Жыл бұрын

I 1000% agree with not having enough time to do everything

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Wheew! 😢

@mutaicherobon6550 5 ай бұрын

Lydia:my man my man my man..yess❤

@Kimtchie Жыл бұрын

I always leave here better than I came. 🖤

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Our pleasure ❤

@akothobado Жыл бұрын

Amazing episode

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

❤️

@mirie7640 Жыл бұрын

As a child I used to hate waking up at early to go to school, I just wanted to grow up and wake up at 11 or 12. Now I wake up at 5 am to go to the gym and then work and I just can't believe that you actually don't get to just do anything you want as an adult. 🙃🥲

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Most relatable comment! We really wanted to grow up only to realize that the grass ain’t greener on the other side. 😭😪

@DaveNdegwa Жыл бұрын

the scheming at 52:00 😂🤣

@gladysndunge4592 Жыл бұрын

An amazing episode...

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤

@christmaslyzzekagwa9573 Жыл бұрын

I'm New here after Lynn ngugi☺️ & loving it ❤

@tmipodcastke 11 ай бұрын

Welcome to the inbetweener family!

@_PositiveMindset Жыл бұрын

Thanks for that, Nawapenda

@jenniferodera598 Жыл бұрын

Lydia KM's TOXIC was soooo spot on and hilarious. Love her! Love her honesty! 🙌🙌💕

@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын

So glad! ❤

@muthonimaina7998 Жыл бұрын

long endless slog is more like..there is no structure in adulting, kids have more structure and schedule than adults, in adulting we are left to figure things out by ourselves, but for kids, we create schedules and timetables.