Almost 40 and I'm TERRIFIED of Getting Old..

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9 ай бұрын

Getting old sucks and I wish I could stay young FOREVER!
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@TraversyMedia 9 ай бұрын

I hear you brother. Im 42 this weekend. I feel like Im 25 in my head. I hear “40 year old man” and I still think of an old dude. Now Im that old dude lol. So weird. I miss not having any responsibilities. Im getting healthy now though. Running 5 miles per day, etc. It seems like you are on the same track. Like you said the gains are harder, however I’m willing to work harder 💪

@TraversyMedia 9 ай бұрын

Also, LOVE that Celtics jersey 🔥

@JubberTW 9 ай бұрын

Working through your OAuth today. Thanks for all you do!

@zubastik2992 9 ай бұрын

I’m turning 43 next march. Stopped worrying about getting old years ago

@takoflame4948 9 ай бұрын

I think thats the thing most people dont shed more light on how abusing ur body and not taking care of it from a young age will have big impact later in life.

@OmoruyiOmofonmwan 9 ай бұрын

I heard someone say that getting old is a privilege and it changed my mind set about aging. You have a great family, a good job, made it through the struggle and you have a good KZfaq channel that helps people such as myself. You are aging gracefully man; you have nothing to be worried about.

@takoflame4948 9 ай бұрын

Right? I've met some people at 40 living in their car cause of poor health and working paycheck to paycheck.

@linzhao2235 9 ай бұрын

@takoflame4948 Turning 40 is not a big deal. I’m half his age, but I don’t pay attention to my health that much in my 20s. I want to enjoy my life now, you never know how much time you have until it’s over. He’s blessed to be 40. Life is short guys

@takoflame4948 9 ай бұрын

yup and also that he was able to change his life around. not many get that chance @@linzhao2235

@AntiHeroKaiser 8 ай бұрын

I just turned 30 this year and I'm gonna be 31 soon. What scares me most is that when I was a teen, and early 20s the time just dragged on and on. I had this thought like ''no worries, it will be forever and ever before I'm 30!'' Then I turned 30 and feel like time is flying faster and faster! This entire past year feels like its only been a month.

@JubberTW 9 ай бұрын

Turning 38 in a month and I'm completely rebooting my life. Still studying Javascript and looking to land my first dev job. All this with the same mental struggles you're dealing with. Juggling family, work and sick kids. It's a roller coaster man. I'm here for it!

@yahiaagamy9640 9 ай бұрын

Keep going man

@Rolfikv 6 ай бұрын

Bro, I started to code at 38, got my first and current dev job at 39, in a few months I'll be 40. Keep going!

@kieferclarkf1674 9 ай бұрын

I’m gonna be 39 in December, I feel the same way man. I have spent the last 12 years doing nothing but working. I’m a cop and it requires so much dedication. The amount of overtime and court appearances is mentally and physically exhausting. Lost touch with all my friends and even family. Now I’m starting to question whether or not it’s been worth it. Almost 39, no wife no kids and ptsd and the media always attacking us is not how imagined life would be right now.

@constantine6464 9 ай бұрын

how many bad cops did you stop?

@klirmio21 9 ай бұрын

You will be okay my friend, don't worry.

@takoflame4948 9 ай бұрын

As long as you have good health. You can always have a fresh start. Remember comparing yourself to others is useless cause we are all on different paths.

@manjunathlk7716 9 ай бұрын

@@takoflame4948it's true..

@Peace2dagawdz 6 ай бұрын

Damn!

@marioalbertosanchezhinojos3548 9 ай бұрын

I understand you very well, i'm almost 34 and those kinds of thoughts constantly crosses my mind. You still look young and very hansome though.

@chriskramer9311 9 ай бұрын

I'll be 40 in february, married, 2 kids, etc and I'm still sort of waiting for the crisis part. I think daily exercise helps, and staying distracted too. I will say though, that the main thing shielding me from feeling the same is my refusal to take myself and life in general too seriously. We don't know why humans are here and we never will. We all will die and eventually our accomplisments will be forgotten, as will our childrens, and their children's, etc. Nothing is permanent. This helps me enjoy every moment. To be in awe at my very existence and to relish in the humiliating experience of being human. It's a very freeing mindset as it realseases you from the pressures society places on you. The only rule is to be kind and repsect other's struggle, to connect. You will feel less alone this way. NO ONE IS IMPORTANT.

@encapsule2220 9 ай бұрын

we are simply here to experience. just like how u experience a video game, its not about feeling good all the time. its about the emotional swings, plot twists, amazing moments, hellish moments. we are in a temporary life form in order to experience the world from the perspective of our body. its not that serious, and yes one thing is for sure, we all die. Everyone will die eventually, some people see it as peaceful some people fear it. But just remember, death is not you leaving home, death is you returning home because before life we were emptiness. :)

@DonarsOak 9 ай бұрын

At 39, I hear you. I've accomplished a lot and I'm thankful for what I have while being mindful that many don't and/or struggle with their lives. Yet I have some regrets about not doing more, or doing things right, in my younger years. You make a great point about not getting trapped in nostalgia. I've dealt with that a lot in the past two years seeing 20 year high school reunion stuff showing up on my facebook and digging into my military brat past trying to find long lost classmates and friends. I think it's normal to revisit and enjoy those memories, and stay in touch with old classmates and friends, but in moderation. We must continue to grow in the present and look forward.

@jaypgn6857 9 ай бұрын

I had these same thoughts when I was in my early 40's and I still have them from time to time as I hit 50. For me, I don't want to be too weak or unhealthy to do the things I enjoy. That's why I'm choosing to eat healthier and go to the gym regularly.

@jroseme 9 ай бұрын

I'm turning 39 in a couple of days, I'm back in school with a bunch of kids to finish my CS degree, have no family, kids, career to speak of...absolutely terrifying. Feels like I'm just supposed to fade into the background of society because I'm certainly not on any clear path I've seen a successful person take. I wish I could just be content as a turd with a bum job and just play video games but I feel too guilty for that, so I'm just throwing this hail mary hoping I can dig some success out of this thing. You're looking pretty good from where I'm sitting brother. Hell, I'm healthy and in America so I gotta be thankful.

@DadDude 9 ай бұрын

In my mid 30s and it feels like the last decade has been a neverending mid-life crisis for me.

@BrockMcGoff 9 ай бұрын

Nodding my head through this whole video. So relatable! It sounds like you’re getting better with time, and that’s encouraging to me (we’re almost the exact same age). Keep it up!

@NataleeHEALS 9 ай бұрын

Hey my friend, I feel you. I am 41 and going through it. I am at that age where things hurt, I cant do what I used to do, my best looks and days are gone. What I am trying to do lately is focus on my kids. They are older teens now, and that comes with its own set of sadness (no more babies and little kids) But they have a big life ahead, maybe ill have grandkids one day, I can relax a lot more, and do the things I wasnt able to do when they were young. It kinda helps. Hang in there. Be stong. We all go through this and we need you. You make an impact on people. I watch all your videos and you feel like a friend to me. Dont forget that. That is part of why you are on earth and you have many many years left to be awesome :)

@TheRealDanielHeron 9 ай бұрын

Dorian, I can tell from your videos that you've been on quite a journey, pouring yourself into your work even when it meant sacrificing friendships. I so admire your drive and dedication. As someone who's spent over 10 years in social services, I've been privileged to connect with people from all walks of life. The wisdom I've learned from those older and wiser especially stands out. When asked what they'd change if they could turn back time, far and away the number one response was "I wish I'd cherished my relationships more." Prioritizing family, friends, parents, and spouses brought them the most joy and meaning. As you've gathered the fruits of your labor, I encourage you to also tend your relationships. The grind, while important, is not everything. The love we share, the memories we make, the bonds we nurture - these matter most at the end of the day. You have so much to offer those around you. While still pursuing your passions, take time to appreciate those who matter most. One day you may look back with pride at all you've accomplished, but I suspect you'll cherish the connections you made along the way even more.

@LoftwahTheBeatsmiff 9 ай бұрын

I love that I'm getting older. My life has always been a mess and with over a decade of dealing with what I have been going through has taken a huge chunk of my 20s and 30s away. This is the first time I've ever really been able to start living and it is the best thing that has ever happened.

@brunomanso9428 9 ай бұрын

I'm 42. This is life. Don't look back. Go forward always.

@mrj9881 9 ай бұрын

worrying way too much....live for today and enjoy every moment

@forgottenamericana 7 ай бұрын

I feel for ya bro. I have 10 years on you (I’m 49) and I think about age and mortality a lot. You will notice slight gradual changes in your body. You just have to accept it. We cannot control our aging and what our bodies do naturally. I say focus on the things you CAN control. One of my goals is not to wait to my 60s to retire. I now live full time in an Rv and left corporate life to enjoy things before I get old. You work in software you may be able to work remote in an RV. This lifestyle isn’t for everyone but you will find something you can do in your control. Freedom is valuable. Stay strong bro.

@WinstonCodesOn 9 ай бұрын

Looks like you've accomplished a lot so far Dorian. It sounds like hitting 40 is a good time to be appreciative for what you have in the moment. 20s was all about fun, but late 30s feels more like a fight for survival. The responsibilities of a family are crushing. At least you are still in good health. Some guys at this age get zeroed out in a divorce and have to hard reset.

@thecrow3461 9 ай бұрын

I'm 42 and i absolutely can relate, i struggle with it as well. I notice my body is getting older and i agree with you on feeling like you're still 20 years old but you can't relate to 20 year olds anymore. I do miss dating and generally being more free and exploring the world when i was in my 20's. My 30's where also my boring years, building your life and just working. WHen you enter your 40's you just start to think: is this is? I've decided to work less hours starting next year and hope to meet some new people and start to enjoy life a bit more with more free time, working all the time is just slowly killing you. I'm very happy i didn't postpone everything in my life and already ticked a lot of things off my bucketlist.

@darioscomicschule1111 9 ай бұрын

What a Talk! Brother.... maybe you Can Shine from 40 to 50! You might go trough the Dark NIGHT OF THE SOUL. You are shedding your old self, facing fears.... you CAN RELIVE your 20 and 30 now and in the NEXT 10 to 15 Years. Let the SADNESS Sink in. IT WILL BE YOUR GUIDING LIGHT. You will Die, and be REBORN again. All that Regret and Sadness will make you GLORIOUS AGAIN!

@stefan-kovac 9 ай бұрын

Wow... Everything you just said is basically what I think in my head everyday.. I'm the same age.. I dont feel old, I dont act like I'm old. I dont dress old. But my body feels like its getting old. I have the same thoughts of the fun I had in my early life before marriage. Once I got married I basically changed completely. I moved abroad, Stopped all sorts of partying etc. But one way to look at it is I changed for the better. I was able to cleanse myself from bad habits etc. Now I'm at the point that I want to properly get my life sorted with a career etc. I have the thought and fear that im too old to start now being 40 next year. But watching your video about "being to old to sort out life" (the video that randomly popped up in my feed and how I discovered you) makes me feel a lot more optimistic. Thanks for being another me and helping me realise that there is always hope.

@ketoarchitect900 9 ай бұрын

No time spent having fun is "wasted". Also whats important is hiiighly subjective. Saying life is empty without kids and marriage is a really sad outlook on life. So much more to do.

@shatexposure4467 9 ай бұрын

Dorian, never change. I'm turning 32, I've had the exact same feelings and you're embodying them perfectly.

@levantos 9 ай бұрын

"The moment is all we have" sums up life. What maximises your happiness, serendipity and moments in life? That's the question we're always after. Loved the video. Being 36 myself with a young family, as a senior SWE I'm always looking to do better and this video hit home for me.

@marsgrey8964 9 ай бұрын

Imagine this. 31, no eduction, no family, no home, no money, no friends, introverted, depressed, adhd, ptsd, social anxiety, agoraphobia and suicidal thoughts.

@Wilhelm4131 9 ай бұрын

That's most people under 40 these days but a millionaire will complain he doesn't have a billion and lament

@ACD1994 9 ай бұрын

@@Wilhelm4131 Most people is a stretch, but I feel you

@alperkaya8919 9 ай бұрын

Friends are here though. I see people like this, I try to be a friend then they vanish and ghost.

@Wilhelm4131 9 ай бұрын

Biggest thing is staying in shape and being able to live. Im an electrician and im worried how long i can do my job or try to get into a supervisor manaher role. Be grateful your job lets you stay at home. I still havent bought a house, had a family, or married. Its all so expensive even when making above the average household income and im 37.

@michaelwong2772 9 ай бұрын

I have huge debt and caeer crisis. I believe sooner or later it will be solved.

@santocomet 9 ай бұрын

Just turned 39 a month ago. Feelings mutual. Because of your channel and a few others I started to learn programming as of December of last year. Still have a long way to go since I'm learning by myself but I am enjoying. I didn't think I'll like it. I don't think I'll be smart or good enough to get a job with it but hopefully I can have fun with it still solve problems on leetcode and aoc. Also I worried I'm too late to the game. So it scary to think about a career change at my age. Who knows maybe I'll make a crappy game or two. Either way I'm sure I'll have fun doing it as a hobby. Keep being awesome man. And let's just keep enjoying life and loving it to its fullest.

@bryangarciafilms 9 ай бұрын

im 35 and I see it in the mirror every day. the reality is this is it. find what fuels you, enjoy the moment. age is real but also an illusion. there's no right answer or cure to this thing we endure life/suffering, make it what you want and don't look back

@rafaelbaroncastro4031 9 ай бұрын

Hey Dorian. I turned 31 this year, i've been working on software for 10 years now. I know I'm not old, but I felt everything you said the same way I hear my own inner voice, my thoughts. You are not alone at all!

@nocarbsnation 9 ай бұрын

I'm 51. I would love to be 38, 39, or 40 again. With that said, I 100% get what you are saying!! Have experienced the same sadness with getting "old". Seems the older we get, the faster the years go by. I also have a ton of regrets! A lot of things that I wish I could go back and do over. Kudos to you making this video and being so open! I think there are a lot of people going through the same thing. This is a topic I have been thinking of doing a video on myself.

@joeherrera8826 9 ай бұрын

I can tell you I am going to be 45 and I think exactly the same thing. Its not that I am scare of getting old that worries me its where am to be financially that worries me.

@rakib17874 9 ай бұрын

Hope we all get what we wish , man !

@katherinevalarezo9666 9 ай бұрын

This is great time to think about doing something that will satisfy the spiritual side, we all have one, we just need to tap into it. Good Luck!

@demonbelly 9 ай бұрын

Man, I can relate, just 10 years earlier. I'll be 29 next week, so I'm basically 30. I resonate with a lot of what you're saying, being unable to understand what younger people are saying, slang word that feel weird for me to use. I just haven't gotten my life together yet, I suppose that is what I'll be doing through my 30s. I also had this thought this morning, I don't feel older, I feel like I'm the same as I was when I was in my early 20s but not in the ways I'd hoped. There are things I haven't done in my 20s, and now I'm moving on to 30 and I don't feel ready.

@restrothunderroad 9 ай бұрын

It's crazy how different yet alike we both are.. same age, same problems, jiu jitsu backgrounds, same hairdo, injuries for life, a want to leave the "day job" and go full time youtube. Thanks for sharing your story. Life is a grind, we're in this together my brother. 👊 ⛵🤙

@ando5563 9 ай бұрын

Hey man I just want to say, you're no screw up. The only people who are screw up are the ones who see the issues in their lives and do nothing about them. You have worked so fucking hard to get to where you are it's not only unfair to yourself but to those who support you to say that. You made mistakes and you have done your best to fix them and you should be absolutely proud of yourself. Well done Dorian

@bills1967 9 ай бұрын

I’m turning 27 and I’m not as scared thanks to watching your videos compared to how scared I was at turning 25.

@Kaizen747 8 ай бұрын

Same, oct 18

@DEVAMS01 9 ай бұрын

haha I feel you bro! It's always easy to look back, but like you said focus on the present 🦾. Greetings from a fellow programmer! 👊

@rakkoon-69 9 ай бұрын

Totally relate bro

@Kurt.116 9 ай бұрын

I'm couple years younger, it's all right man. Focus on what you can do. For me it's continually weightlifting. Read a study that a man's peak strength is mid 40s, and I believe it. All my lifts are growing other than my squat, but slowly incorporating various stretches hoping to overcome it. But it's enjoying the journey and all the quarks along the way

@PaKuaKwon 9 ай бұрын

What a clever end to the video sir

@adrimathlener8008 9 ай бұрын

I loved getting 40. It was special. Getting 50 wasn't remarkable, the day just passed by As Tom Petty said: "Most things I worry about never happen anyway' Looking at the journey in life you made, it's all going well now. Enjoy the ride for the next 50 years. Don't get hung up on FOMO. Your mind doesn't grow old. Everyday it captures new information and experiences You're doing great, You matured and that's the real treasure.

@eddyboison6433 9 ай бұрын

Same age bracket just that I don't have most important things figured out and it feels like a nightmare

@Andre87191 9 ай бұрын

Im 36 since a few weeks... I missed life in my youth, 20s and 30s. Im still in my 30s, but still... feels weird since im just now at the point you were years ago when you started your coding journey.

@peppercornfury 9 ай бұрын

My 40s have become years of acceptance. You’ll probably be more settled and happier. Not exciting. Not bad. Buy a recliner and seal the deal.

@EricRoth._ 9 ай бұрын

As a kid I saw my grandpa on a recliner. Didn’t get it. Now it’s my fav chair 😂

@esahoosa 9 ай бұрын

I just turned 25 and I feel so old because I keep moving extremely quickly and focusing super heavy on my career and am never satisfied until I feel more financially free. Thinking now I really gotta start enjoy my 20s and just wind down and have a good time. It’s completely possible to have fun and still be on a good track.

@jonathandavis8599 9 ай бұрын

Keep on developing, keeps the mind sharp. Do deadlifts and squats, pull ups and you won't feel beat up, you will be beat up then.

@djhot80 9 ай бұрын

I am 43. I lie to peple that I am 38. They say: "Oh you look like 30!" I feel like 24. I had a feeling that my life had passed when I was 20, ...I 've been having it all the time since. How stupid I was!

@NavAK_86 9 ай бұрын

Meditation/mindfulness is the best cure for worrying about aging. It really puts the perspective of a lived conscious experience into perspective.

@alisonhj 9 ай бұрын

I’m 31 next week and feel like past mid life too 😅

@Lom7118 9 ай бұрын

Getting old is the only way to live long. Everyone gets older. Everyone is not satisfied with his age. I remember when i had turned 30 i thought it was the end of life)). So don't worry and take the best from life. I have just turned 40 and this mindset helps me.

@andytheindividual3862 9 ай бұрын

I think a good question to ask yourself is, what is my purpose in life? Look inward, and really ask that. Also-- dying is a lie.. your soul will never die!

@XAUCADTrader 9 ай бұрын

You ever consider TRT for the energy and recovery thing? I might try it out. Canada isn't very friendly to it though...

@zan8117 9 ай бұрын

everytime i look back and start regretting things i didn't do in the past, i think about what i'm going to regret not doing now in 10 years.

@Le_Saboteur 9 ай бұрын

Damn man, go all out, guns blazing

@Return2Running 9 ай бұрын

I am 35 and I am watching this. I went ti scalp logic to sort out my hair... made me feel younger I would consider it as a option.

@TheHaamii 9 ай бұрын

I'm 35 and when i think that i may have to live 35 more, it give me chills, it's a long way to go but in my mind something is telling me that i don't want that, I don't want to live that long, what am i going to do with all those years that are still to come? I'm not depressed or unhappy at all, i just don't want to keep going like this for 35 more years, i think I've done enough already.

@zmanx88 9 ай бұрын

Its all about the present! Lets live each day with purpose. Doing things we love, and building our relationships. No use looking back!

@domzbu 9 ай бұрын

There’s logically no difference hitting 37 or 43 or whatever. It’s just another day. It’s in your head.

@mikejh6298 9 ай бұрын

Turned 39 in July mate. I feel you!

@Anthonydp 9 ай бұрын

Getting older is something we all have to go through, you already know what the alternative is..

@emmanoconer1750 9 ай бұрын

just be grateful dud hey being old have advantages too your wiser on your time

@xpallodoc1147 9 ай бұрын

I’m 39 with 3 kids all of them young hoping to have more the good old days are now

@dre8160 9 ай бұрын

5:58 please tell me thats your slack profile pic 😂 2000s was the time to be alive

@e7yu 9 ай бұрын

Only, if you let your self feel old. Stay young at heart and take care of your health and you well still enjoy life. 😇😎

@zivaray 9 ай бұрын

🙏🏾

@user-zd2iq1dy8f 9 ай бұрын

Like Muhammed Ali said " 10Yrs later Im gonna wish i look how i look now.

@theblackswordd3094 9 ай бұрын

bro I suggest you look into religions (Islam in my case) because if you believe in the afterlife you won't care about age and stuff trust me and give it a chance and I hope you have a happy life.

@vismal2007 9 ай бұрын

I think everyone goes through this phase of life, no matter how much money you have, getting older affects everyone, it's part of it. :)

@Sage447 9 ай бұрын

As someone who is 22. I kinda feel the same sometimes regrading my teens lol

@htmoh8115 9 ай бұрын

Im almost 40 too, so you are not alone. Everything you worked for will be gone in a blink of an eye. Thinking about how life was when I left High school. Feels in a distant past . Feels like a dream . But we have a purpose in life. To worship God almighty . May I invite you to Islam?

@iranjackheelson 9 ай бұрын

I'm seriously curious about your diet. I thought aging was irreversible... until my mid 30s, when I found low carb and intermittent fasting. Energy and the youthful looks of early 30s came back.

@vinothrenga1 9 ай бұрын

Read some of the spiritual books, at beginning stage it kinda feels bored, but try continue reading that then you never feel such things.

@Kaizen747 8 ай бұрын

At least u did party and have 1 night stands

@user-ty4he7no7m 9 ай бұрын

hey man may i know what happened to your friend who was lost recently?

@alperkaya8919 9 ай бұрын

It's all about how you look. Doesn't matter if you are 70, if you look 30 then live like that, who would say anything?

@Brandon-tz5pn 9 ай бұрын

Im 27 and I never feared being old. Maybe thatll change when I’m 40.

@ThapeloMachaka256 9 ай бұрын

i see Dorian, i click

@cactus1 9 ай бұрын

4:59 The only person that wants to live to be 100 is a 99 year old.

@Wilhelm4131 9 ай бұрын

Ahhh the classic lament

@discorabbit 9 ай бұрын

Get back into the moment

@JensN113 9 ай бұрын

I'm 28 and I am terrified as well

@danielc.6644 9 ай бұрын

A bit random, but have you considered TRT?

@xpallodoc1147 9 ай бұрын

As some one your age I think you have some poor expectations. When I was a kid I thought I would still enjoy cartoons when I grew up and in some ways I still do but im no longer that kid same as when I turn 60 one day I will look back at 39 being some other person. I just don’t worry about getting old we only have the now

@Andre87191 9 ай бұрын

Bro did you ever consider hopping on trt? Might be suitable for you

@ParaZi2 9 ай бұрын

I have noticed two kind of people: the ones who had fun when they where "kids" and "fuck school" attitude and worked shit jobs (also me) and the one who focused and work hard for their future and accomplished somethings. Now when they got a little bit "older" ( 30-40 years old) the people who "partied" when they where young they say that they wish spend more time working and studying. The people who worked and studied hard wish they had more fun when they were young. I don't know what conclusion to take from this... its just an observation

@dennisbunarta1190 9 ай бұрын

Please talk about coding again?

@bun_bun17 9 ай бұрын

But man be glad that you were able to have kids and wife beside you! There are men who have no family to call their own, all alone. Be good to them

@reganabel7839 9 ай бұрын

I feel that way and I'm almost 32 lol

@nKarje 9 ай бұрын

32 in October. Feel like I've wasted my life since I was about 15. Spent so much time gaming, mindless internet browsing, porn, weed. Haven't done much travel, only have 1 good friend. I'm directionless, with no purpose or goals. I work for a bank and my job is 100% remote, in a week I probably work less than 4 hours. So I have lots of time, but I just feel a bit apathetic/lazy/unmotivated to do much. Trying to create some goals now…such as going to gym, reducing internet/porn usage, reading etc. But I am struggling to do it because it's so easy to just numb yourself looking at bullshit on screens nowadays.

@robynrob918 9 ай бұрын

I'm 43 and in my prime by choice

@salmaanahamed4687 9 ай бұрын

bro age is just is a number leave it you made a change in my life bro you told me through your vedios i can learn to code know i can make website without completly reliing on tutorials

@Peace2dagawdz 6 ай бұрын

Life is a mind fuck

@toyal10 9 ай бұрын

Im 25 and i feel old lol

@Question-yv2ui 9 ай бұрын

I just witnessed a man whi tried to escape the matrix 😊

@xpallodoc1147 9 ай бұрын

By the way thinking some guy who shows up at the club as an old loser is a loser mentality judgment young guy who isn’t doing well mental game wise. If I wanted to go to a club at 79 I would and if every one thought I was a loser so what it’s a bunch of losers calling the one winner there a loser. 39 is awesome

@monogramadikt5971 9 ай бұрын

lol, just wait until you hit your 50s, shit gets really phucken grim then

@puppetmaster1403 9 ай бұрын

Holy cow, I'm my mid 50's and I guess I never had a mid life crisis like you're going through. I'm looking forward to traveling, want to buy a sport plane if my investments workout, ride a dirt bike, exercise. I think you need to get over yourself man up and count your blessings.