thanks rakesh 👍👍💯

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Thank You!

Good summary thanks 🤜🏻👏🏻👍🏻

Also, don’t spend time trying to fit in or be popular none of that matters (aside from some weird cliquey people that stay in their groups forever) most people move on.

The majority of people will drop dead by the time they hit 50.

@@pithikoulis Dorian deserves to see his 90's ;)

@@pithikoulis Unless you're a politician.

@@pithikoulis That's not what he said though. Also, that's not necessarily true anyways, people can grow drastically in their 50's and beyond.

Assuming a full life expectancy, good health and suitable circumstances, none of which are guaranteed.

bro i died HAHAHAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHh

@@StephDespiteMS I assure you, he appreciates hearing people say it.

Richie! So nice to see a young person who is open to hearing from us "old" folks. I feel like I was 20 yesterday, but I'm 35. My first piece of advice is to live your life to the fullest while you're young. Age is going to be here before you know it, so don't waste your youth. Use your body. Get outside. Be naïve and explore. At the same time though, start saving as much as you can. Put money into a Vanguard Index fund, or whatever flavor of investment works for you, and leave it there. Start with $20 if that's all you have, Fidelity and other firms allow for fractional shares. Trust me, if you start early you will thank me in your 30s and 40s. Have fun, live your life, and understand this - The worst feeling in the word is regret.

One more piece of advice which billionaire Charlie Munger echoed, be very careful who you choose to be your spouse. If you pick the wrong person, someone who is quarrelsome, moody, wasteful with money, always careless, selfish, vindictive...etc they will lead to your downfall and destroy your child's life which means you caused that suffering to your would be innocent baby as they grow up, you are the one enabling EVIL. There are always signs if you live with a fiance for at least minimum 3-5 years but ideally no less than 7 years where you make sure the girl uses DAILY BIRTH CONTROL PILLS, the man uses a condom and use 1 Plan B pill after each time having sex. Nothing is more crucial in life than not missing the birth control pill daily.

lol , hope he blesses u in return

Nothing wrong with a 9-5 that you like, pays well, and provides for your family. I hate people who keep saying this bs

@@chitownkidd33 no no you are wrong. Making money while sleeping is always better than work 9 to 5. Work 9 to 5 that mean you are selling your time. Time worth more than money.

@@epicstrengthinsanity1235 you’re a moron. I know people with unfathomable amounts of wealth, some of them work every day even though they don’t have too, some don’t work at all, it’s not that black and white. In order to “make money in your sleep “ you have to WORK TO GET TO THAT POINT.

Don’t ignore your problems is a massive one

Great advice....for people without a family. Can't really do that with a wife and kids lol

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I loved the "cool guy" reference. It's tiring and a waste of time trying to fit in.

best advice comment I've ever read thank you. I had a horrid depression after a breakup.

Troof

100% agree

underrated comment

He was also a deep sea diver as well as an oil rig worker.

He wasn't and astronaut, but a psyconaut

Say what now

@@NK-iw6rq and a personal trainer

I'm an apprentice carpenter and I love it. As long as I love it I'll do it. It may not be worth it for you but I find working with my hands and building things very fulfilling. I'm a year younger than you and I feel fine, perhaps there are other factors taking your energy away or maybe the work isn't for you. For me, having a sore body won't take away my youth, and yeah, I'm sore too lol

Interesting I’m in my late twenties and I work as en engineer at a desk and I have to train so that I don’t develop forward head posture and ATP. My body also gets stiff from all that sitting.

@@Dmxravin each side has it's pros and cons, but for me I want to use my energy to go hiking, run marathons, and shit maybe even bike in the tour de France one day. If I could conserve my energy at work, that would be amazing.

Juan, Chico its a privilege but the curveballs come from all directions. Look at for those. Top priority is your own health and that of your own parents because if either is sick and you happen to be the only child. its a wrap.

@@PHlophe Don't worry, I'm focusing in my own health and my family, I work and earn which is for my family a lot of money and in a few months I will pay their trip to come to Spain (Most of my family lives in Argentina and my father lives in another region of Spain) then I will focus on investing which is easy because I spend less than €500 a month (room, food, etc) so I have a lot to invest

Man if only I knew this at 20

I just turned 20 and I’m about to get my class A CDL. Struggling with my living situation and I’m trying to find a part time or temporary job to hold me down until I graduate/test next month. I’m trying to get my own car and place and just be out of the way. It’s hard but I’m glad I’m doing this early and have some kind of outlet out!!!

Pass it along to your young friends.

nice!

You can do it, just stick it out , it'll be worth it

I’m the same age as you and I’m m in the exact same situation. I feel like a failure but I’m slowly becoming more independent and even helping my parents more. Cutting off videogames from my life has helped me a lot to do other stuff, not necessarily productive, but stuff that doesn’t add up to my depression.

dude don't feel too bad about it, everyone has their own journey, just stick to your plan and stay consistent, you got this bro

I'm 26 as well. I'm about to be 27 in 2 months.

we on the same boat brother... you are 1 year older than me but we probably have the same issues. For me personally there's nothing shitty-er than to see people with my same age and very similar life situation and yet living life and killing it, buying a house, a high paying job, Europe vacations.. and then there's me. I refuse to accept that fate, and that's why Im learning how to code

I concur.

NAH, I find this advice outside of similar contexts absolutely useless. You have to have similar world views, values, beliefs etc otherwise this is ABSOLUTELY useless. Its like some billionaire/actor/musician telling you how THEY made it. 99.999999% useless

@@xaxfixho What's not on point here?

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39 and he's preaching to the choir here

the 2000s were the best though. we r lucky to have been in our 20s then!

34 year old here and I’m the same way. My 20s seem like yesterday.

34 years old here and still not stable in life. But still very positive that I could pull this through..

@@cobaltbluemaru yeah I’m 34 as well. Time for a change in life.

I hope life is going well for you as you approach 40. All the best in life 🤗

Honestly if you have good relationships with your family members just put your energy towards nurturing those. Family, for the most part will be around forever. On the flip side if your family sucks you can cut them off and focus on the friends that matter. At the end of the day as long as your relationship with yourself is healthy that's all that matters!

@@DorianDevelops I hope you remember me, I have never said it but did send you a Instagram message, I have seen you grow like I was among first subscriber and listening to your stories helped me.....in June this year I was k*ll*ng myself you saved me Dorian..... twice and no not just giving hope/motivation via videos, you had an impact on me the first person that came in my mind was you only then my mom, and you made me not do it in that room, you sir saved my life

@@Fuzzycap I'm sorry but I don't think I ever saw your IG message but I do know that you're one of my early followers on YT. I'm sorry to hear that you were in such a dark place. I'm glad that I was able to help and I want you to know that you're not alone in this stuff. Please go and talk to a professional. I've gone through a lot of therapy and it's really helped me. You're not weak for seeking help. Reaching out and talking to someone shows strength and from what I can tell you seem like a very strong individual. I wish you nothing but the best my friend. I wish there was more that I could do for you please take care!

on the same boat buddy.

That almost happened to me but when I turned 25 I had an Epiphany to “just do it”. I made sure to reach and to my friends and I actively plan things. When I was 22-24 I isolated myself mainly due to work and depression. We now have movie nights, hike and code together from time to time. When ever I have questions they are always willing to help. You got this.

problem lots of people still don't know what they want in they 20s

This is true. I’m 22 and the years are flying by. I know what I want to do, but it’s too expensive to pursue now that I realize what I don’t want. 120k debt for pt school is not worth it. Thinking abt accounting now but don’t really want to do it. We need some source of stability in the end.

im 23 right now doing self taught. Do you have any advice on how to network in order to get opportunites for interviews or internships?

@@JJFlores25 That is great to hear, I wish I started learning it at 23 but I had a self-defeating attitude and did not know the first place to start. I initially started to learn how to code at 21 but I just had analysis paralysis and did not know where to start and would change so often that It stoped me from moving forward this time around I found the direction I wanted to take and stuck to the road map. It is important to lean on your support system because from time to time you might feel like you’re not good but even that we like we will persevere. The one thing that my bootcamp taught us was the importance of linkedin. It has a great community of developers with individuals who all are learning to code. It is important because linkedin is the first place recruiters go to for talent. Second would be go to meet ups because that is how you can connect with people face-to-face/zoom-to-zoom. I have learned a lot from meetups and that is the best way to show your presence in your community. Also apply to internships/jobs even if you do not feel ready because often times you wont but oppotunities fly fast and you will miss it. You want to create a landing page so that you have a easy way for people to see you best projects and often times from what I heard the technical interviews they might ask you about it. Learn data structures and algorithms. Let me know if you have any questions.

I'm Turing 27 in two months and all i can say is time is ticking, all you can do is to live and learn with your life. That's why I started coding like around July.

@@deathcoredarkness66 I agree Nazbol! I wish you luck in your coding journey!

Hi there I'm wondering what bootcamp you joined? I've seen a ton and I'm unsure if I should try that or to finish school and get a computer engineering degree? How necessary is a degree in your opinion and does it give an advantage that would make it worth it?

The worst thing that can happen is a valuable lesson? What about getting a debt that you’ll never be able to pay off, resulting in never getting you finanses in check? Living a life where you struggle to even pay your rent while working a dead end job ? “Just quit”… well yeah, then after a month or two you can go live in your car if you even have one. Finding another dead end job. The risk can be massive. Of course I get that you sometimes have to do something that gets you out of your comfort zone, but if I for example wanted to start my own company, there are more things to worry about than just a “valuable lesson”

You never learned that there is no such thing as wasting time and that regretting things is a waste of mental energy.

Yes you fucking will!

Keep it up pal. I'm in a similar boat... done sales as a career for the most part and suffered mental health issues that essentially ended my baseball career. Getting into learning coding/programming/etc to become a full-stack engineer in a year is the goal. Keep your head down, love the people who love you and enjoy the process.

@@Fohnzii Thank you my friend! Good luck to you and your learning journey!

You can reach your goals. I believe in you

Proud of you Jonathan keep going! Keep going! You got this !

We are the same age bro, same process just different goals 🤟

The guys who are in their 20s are so damn lucky in the times of KZfaq. Cherish it guys.

@@sejwalvishu Can't say about the other guys, but I will cherish it for sure

@@sejwalvishu Not necessarily. I became addicted to youtube and have spent more hours watching stuff here than I want to admit.

You should get a job helping others. Those jobs will never fulfill you

have a good run tomorrow!

@@baebaevip8320 Thanks!

Never too late! I picked up running at 40 after a long time off. At 41 I am running 10ks. Love the feeling. Everything in between runs is easier when your muscles are strong, metabolism stimulated, and heart rate is low.

@@dontdoit6986 nice!

Life is about the journey not the destination

I can relate to you. I don't feel like I've wasted my twenties. I've been continuously on the self-improvement path trying to establish a career. However, I didn't go to college so trying to establish a career for almost a decade now is really hard. Only reason I'm looking into web development is cuz u don't need a degree to get started. I can't say im passionate about it tho.

@@BigBoss-kq8mb True but the journey sucks if you don't have much money

30 is still young. Some of your peers will make complete career switches later down the road. The grass is always greener.

adhd. that thing will be the death of us sullivan

Life comes at us in every way possible. Just try to make the best out of the day starting with small steps for solving your problems. Wishing you all the best!

I'm almost your age and in the same situation. Best thing I can say is to try to learn more about and get closer to God. Read the Bible. It gives meaning to life. God bless.

Oscar, Chico, wait a little while until you show up to school reunion. and more importantly cut down the social media use to 90% . go "undercover" for a while , a long while. You'll have time to focus or shift gears depending on where you are at mentally.

I had worst life and grades in my whole life 0 friend,. In my whole life no one believe I will have better life. In the end I help my family build their business also finish university degree.Speak 3 languages maybe more in future

@@marcuschen786 Good job! Put God first ☝️🙏

Hi there. In case you might be interested, my YT channel has personal development content for 20-somethings who want to learn how to LOVE THEIR LIVES.. no matter what kind of ups & downs they’re experiencing. 😄 My videos cover topics like self-love, negative thoughts, happiness, self-esteem and many others.

bruh every man in their 30's always learn web development bruh

start looking for a husband and start a family you won’t regret it and also your biological clock is ticking

@@rapture_soon you don’t need to tell me what i need. good day.

@@Momoa786 TOTALLY AGREE!! & i appreciate your comment, thank you for sharing

I truly resonate with this. I also turned 25 and still have made zero improvements in my career life. Life does seem to be getting away fast. If I continue to not change and stay doing the same things based on “comfort” and playing it safe, I too will still be in the same spot 5 years from now smh

@@jadesimone_ lmaoo I'm telling you what will bring you the most fulfillment and joy but go ahead keep living how you're living and be miserable and become a wine lady who binges netflix every night

Angelito, you are El bebe. You'll be just fine if you are reflecting right in the middle of your 20s. Feliz Noche !

"Only 19" shut your young a** up. Work and live!

"do this before you reach a certain age" is such an unhealthy statement. I'm sorry you've been convinced that spending your time doing what makes you feel better is a bad thing

You have another good 30+ years ahead of u keep charging forward with gratitude.

you got this dan. likewise im in a similar situation that is an interesting foil to yours. also just hit 30 , and have racked up a disgusting amount of student debt (50k) but ive been in school most my adult life. 9-10years. was raised to be a doctor but couldnt do it. floundered around in school kuz there was pressure to get degrees. compensated hard by studying arts instead. finally got a design degree at an art school. bad market. bad wages. which leads to bad mental health. smokrd weed as things got dark near the end of art school. weed has probably saved my life. recently moved out, as i realized after a year of therapy that living with my parents was affecting everyones mental health and that i was equally part of the problem. unlike you, i seemingly did everything "youre supposed to do" . yet we all find ourselves in the same place. life is wierd and funny . kinda felt like i left a cult called academia. still struggle to accept the real world sometimes. learning code has been difficult. but as im writing this high, i understand that 80% of its difficulty is the mental anguish from our limiting beliefs. we can all push ourselves gently every day. and as i pushed myself to study a few more minutes each day, i now find myself being able doing 4-5hour days easily. still allowed to have bad days tho. hope you can see that ur actually doing great. and had you taken the other path at that fork in the road, life still owes you no better payout. as least you got to spend it doing cool shit like games and skating! both of which i try to get into in my adult life now, but have to keep a calculated safe boundary with. would i do it differently? im not sure , kuz everyone i love is alive and healthy rn. any do-over would be just as volatile. staying here, accepance. is to choose the enemy that you know, yknow lol?

@@damancandance1 It's reassuring to know we both got simular things on our minds. I wish you the best in your programming journey dude! Thanks for the kind words and opening up, I felt better once I posted my initial comment, hopefully it's as therapeutic for you as it was for me.

didnt realize how much i wrote lol. it wss very theraputic to try and articulate, thank you very much for reading!

DUDE, you were doing things that you enjoy, those are hobbies. Theres no such thing as wasting time. Stop regretting shit

Honestly bro you're in a much better position that me, I wish I could time travel 4 years into the past (I'm 30) and I've spent 15,000 hours playing just Dota2. It's all relative but I can agree with you that gaming is much more of an escape and issue than we care to admit. Such a time sink, so much time wasted. Keep at it man, you're on the right path. Hopefully you're using the free resources such as odin project and freecodecamp You're not alone bro, good luck

I’m near you losing a pet is tremendous they are much better than friends. Pets and dogs forever are family members

Im almost 19 and ive got like 8000 hours in total to the video games so, you’re good

lol

I feel ya mate. I'm 34 myself and almost 35, ready to move on.

You are not alone. I am living very similiar feelings like you. When I am starting to learn new language, I feel myself so happy and confident

You should get a light therapy lamp too. That has really helped my sad.

Have you ever thought about using python to write security scripts? I'm an English teacher and a hacker on the side and you'd be shocked how much people are willing to pay for decent python.

I was 35 when I went for ms in analytics. I sold some land in India and moved to US on a student visa. I was in sales for about 10 years. But I knew I would be able to find a niche in data analysis. I got my H1 work visa and finally learning new things. The hardest part is the first job.

@@camelotenglishtuition6394 Hi, could you perhaps elaborate a bit more on writing security scripts with python? I learned the basics of python but am having trouble figuring out where to go from here. All I see are things on django, data analysis, or machine learning. How does one get into security scripting and turn it into something they can make an income from?

@@e555t66 hi sir can we connect I need some guidance and suggestions regarding ms in data science and I am 32 years old same situation like you.

I don't mean to preach, but I would recommend the Bible as a cure for the fear of death. God bless you.

@@caymanwarrior6359 Yeah tried that, I need proof to believe something.

@@ChaosTherum Well, if you're looking for proof of God's existence, I would say to look at the universe. Consider this: How do you know that a painting had a painter? The painting itself is proof. How do you know that a building had a builder? The building itself is proof. In the same way, Creation is proof of it's Creator. I would also consider the complexity of the solar system or simply of the human eyeball. The human body is extremely complex on a biological level alone. I think that these are overwhelming evidences for the existence of God.