Andrew Garfield on losing his mother & the grieving process

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Untangle Grief

Жыл бұрын

Andrew Garfields talks about the death of his mother and the wave of grief that rearranged his world.
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@Zzzsleepzzz
@Zzzsleepzzz Жыл бұрын
Lost my mom last month. Agonizing is the exact word I use to describe it. It’s hard to live this chapter of my life without her…
@ClaytonPZ
@ClaytonPZ Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for loss Alex. I hope and pray that in time, the future gets better for you. Best regards 😔.
@thatpacificboy
@thatpacificboy 11 ай бұрын
I lost my mother last month too and and it was the worst pain ever and I'm still feeling 😭😭. I'm only 15 and idk how I'm gonna go on in this world without her
@ElysiumGresit
@ElysiumGresit 11 ай бұрын
I did as well. It's so extremely painful to do, and this video helps a bit
@andreachung396
@andreachung396 11 ай бұрын
*huggggs***
@Rob.C95
@Rob.C95 11 ай бұрын
I pray that gods gives y’all the strength to get through this pain. I’m terribly sorry for y’all’s losses 😔
@JG-sm2uw
@JG-sm2uw Жыл бұрын
Miss you dad. Grief is the worst pain
@xxwhispersxx2856
@xxwhispersxx2856 9 ай бұрын
Grief is also the height of love.
@ibabymomx3
@ibabymomx3 7 ай бұрын
Same
@beaglesnlove580
@beaglesnlove580 7 ай бұрын
I lost my dad 3 days ago. I miss you as well dad
@JG-sm2uw
@JG-sm2uw 6 ай бұрын
@@beaglesnlove580 allow yourself to grieve as it’s the height of your love and it needs to be expressed. I feel your pain
@beaglesnlove580
@beaglesnlove580 6 ай бұрын
@@JG-sm2uw thanks brother. Losing your dad is extremely painful. What’s more painful is I saw him via FaceTime passed out at home and not awake. It killed me watching him be motionless. First day it was extremely hard as I’ve been crying all day. Now 4 days later I’m crying randomly throughout the day and end up falling asleep after enough grieving. It’s just rough for me right now
@vAwake
@vAwake Ай бұрын
I just want to hug everyone who has lost their mom. I lost mines last Sunday and I feel so much pain and emptiness.
@twigblack22
@twigblack22 4 ай бұрын
“The world gets rearranged” is a great way to describe grief
@tmc8195
@tmc8195 Жыл бұрын
Remember, you’re not the only person that lost their mom but you’re one of the only people that lost YOUR mom. To watch the person who gave life to you be given over to death hurts. It’s not just the event of losing her but having to live your life without her that grows to hurt as well. (Want to say thank you to Andrew for being vulnerable to strangers because it enables people grieving to start dialogue with each other talk about it.)
@gabrielmcollazo6675
@gabrielmcollazo6675 10 ай бұрын
Dialogue is part of healing! The void gets alleviated !
@haskna
@haskna Ай бұрын
exactly this. everyone loses their mother but everyone's relationship with her and the specific memories are singular.
@nel2408
@nel2408 Жыл бұрын
I lost my Mom on November 18 2022 . My happiness died the day she died. And I ve never been the same. I am angry and now I am becoming Numb. I no longer feel happiness nor sadness..
@roguevalley44
@roguevalley44 Жыл бұрын
Nel, keep up the good fight. Sending you a warm hug.
@Taluta394
@Taluta394 Жыл бұрын
I’ve lost both parents & 5 brothers … you’re never the same … you’re different forever, better in ways because you know things others cannot know, but your innocence is gone forever
@johaybersaromandang7579
@johaybersaromandang7579 Жыл бұрын
I lost my father 3 weeks ago. Im just like a living corpse alive but dead. I dont know if this is the real world.
@nel2408
@nel2408 Жыл бұрын
@@roguevalley44 Thank You so much
@chrisholbrook1552
@chrisholbrook1552 Жыл бұрын
@@johaybersaromandang7579 I felt the same after my mom died. Cry when you need to, talk to her, write to her, & just scream when you need to. These things helped me. Let it all out & keep letting it out for as long as you need to. ❤️
@ThatBoyKu
@ThatBoyKu Жыл бұрын
He described how I feel rn so perfectly
@katerinapetrova245
@katerinapetrova245 Жыл бұрын
Ikr
@failureTOwin336
@failureTOwin336 Жыл бұрын
Same😭😭
@forcecalibration924
@forcecalibration924 10 ай бұрын
Yes
@S_J_banana
@S_J_banana 9 ай бұрын
Same here
@beetunee
@beetunee 9 ай бұрын
Love you
@justinfalu8335
@justinfalu8335 Жыл бұрын
As a person that lost my mother, father and grandmother in the same year I definitely felt everything he said…To those experiencing this pain I pray life gives you everything you prayed for stay strong solider 💯
@derrickcarbona9245
@derrickcarbona9245 11 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry. I'll be praying for you. I lost my mom on Saterday. I can't imagine loosing any more family so soon after.
@antoniat.8658
@antoniat.8658 10 ай бұрын
I just came across this short video and that's due to once again in this very same year, right now and at this very moment, I have just received the very shocking, unexpected and so devastating news about sudden loss of my second Beloved Parent. I am now in a huge pain and deepest sorrow, feeling completely adrift, in extreme agony, and that's true to it, that all of a sudden, nothing at all makes sense any more, the words can't justify, nor they can explain how much pain I am going through right now. Nothing is helping, it's like my body and soul have split apart and I am hitting my lowest point. I am in a profound pain and extreme sadness and I don't know what to do any more. I have no idea, how if at all, I will be able to recover from this extreme loss. Therefore, I do feel exactly for everyone who goes through such a deep painful sorrow and I fully resonate with all those, who are actually experiencing in real time the very same. However, I feel like I don't want to exist any longer. I am totally lost at this point now......I am really struggling to find anything that would help me.....
@lukezoeller7517
@lukezoeller7517 4 ай бұрын
Dude, today my grandmother died. It’s leaving me broken, losing two more incredibly important people in your life must feel like hell… 😢
@muhammadmoiz4366
@muhammadmoiz4366 2 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that , brother. May you heal soon !! I lost my sister on 19th January 2024 and nothing feels the same . Nothing makes sense to me !!
@xxalphawolfxx9271
@xxalphawolfxx9271 8 күн бұрын
Dude I lost my father and my mother within six months. I feel you. To be honest I'm not okay, I feel dead from inside like my soul isn't there anymore. The day my mom passed away was the day I died.
@Enolram
@Enolram Жыл бұрын
My soul broke into million pieces when I lost my mother. part of me died when my mum died 😭😭😭
@nicolajane6264
@nicolajane6264 Жыл бұрын
You just describe perfectly how I felt when I lost my mum. I've cried every day since. Part of me died i also got bad autoimmune diseases since she died. I'm so sorry for your loss.
@Kr0szh
@Kr0szh Жыл бұрын
Know there so you mother in better place then now don't cry make things right with you instead of felt like crying but loosing some one it is pain for someone you know who you are and was with those who will be brighter days and know that love comes from you learn to love yourself then you can open up from your loniliness to find something make you happy and grow when tears comes at time feeling lonely comes out the things you can't understand and know how hard is to hold a tears from those who still have one love and was not around times when things felt with no heart and experiences whats it like for a man or guy to walk alone to be open up and. Those who try make you vulnerable will never understand that when life fails you when you did not have a guidance and made you isolation and know your not alone cause we been through it lonely will only lock you in your heart and did not have some one to spark your life
@bristyhoquevlogz295
@bristyhoquevlogz295 Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 4 ай бұрын
sending love ❤
@_simply_sam
@_simply_sam 4 ай бұрын
mine too
@ProfezorSnayp
@ProfezorSnayp Жыл бұрын
The world is never going to be the same. Feels like some part is missing and there is no way to fill it. There is just less world in the world.
@belle8125
@belle8125 2 ай бұрын
Miss u mother. 😢
@smorgan2601
@smorgan2601 Жыл бұрын
My mom died in my arms this evening, and I am sooooo... I don't even know how to explain this feeling. I just miss her, and nothing makes sense right now 😭💔 I will miss her forever. I love you, momma ❤️
@itbewhatitbemyg
@itbewhatitbemyg 11 ай бұрын
my condolences. I lost my cousin yesterday and I know how it feels. he was like a brother to me
@smorgan2601
@smorgan2601 11 ай бұрын
@itbewhatitbemyg I'm soooo sorry. Life is so unfair 😪 I still think about her every day. She was the best part of me!
@itbewhatitbemyg
@itbewhatitbemyg 11 ай бұрын
@@smorgan2601 she’s up there somewhere waiting for you for when your time comes. stay strong ❤️
@smorgan2601
@smorgan2601 11 ай бұрын
@@itbewhatitbemyg thanks. You too!
@nickiemmy9177
@nickiemmy9177 11 ай бұрын
I hope you are coping okay. Much love to you
@WestCoast518
@WestCoast518 Жыл бұрын
My mother passed away two weeks ago. I'm a mess, the world ain't the same without her.
@Taradise34
@Taradise34 Жыл бұрын
Lost my mom a week ago... I'm a mess too
@wildbill1185
@wildbill1185 Жыл бұрын
Sorry.. I just recently lost my mother on the 31st of March 2023. I'm going through a lot but knowing I'm not alone nor the only one going this process right now is keeping my myself together. She was only 56 and I'm 37. I was walking up crying all week last week. But I'm getting a little calmer. I lost my dad before I was born so I was really close with my mom.
@itsdtxjd
@itsdtxjd Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear that. Just thinking about it makes me want to cry when it’s time for my mama to go. I used to tell her when I was younger that if she ever dies I’d go with her. I can’t imagine the emptiness you must feel, but I know that she would want you to remember all the time you had with her and continue living your life and be happy.
@Taradise34
@Taradise34 Жыл бұрын
@Wild Bill I'm so sorry. I lost my mom on March 24. I, too, would wake up crying and feeling empty. I'm an only child, and this feels unreal. Sending you support ❤️. I don't know how, but we'll get through this.
@peaceom2168
@peaceom2168 7 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss. Sending you hugs. I am here for you if you like to vent/talk.❤
@Valarie834
@Valarie834 Жыл бұрын
I miss my mom so much. I have had losses before but this, this one hurts.
@roguevalley44
@roguevalley44 Жыл бұрын
Val, I'm sending you a warm hug. What was she like your mom? Were you two similar?
@Valarie834
@Valarie834 Жыл бұрын
@@roguevalley44 she was the kindest person I ever knew. I wish I was more like her in a lot of ways. But I there was never a day that went by where I didn’t think she did not love me. Even with an entire ocean between us I knew what a mothers love was.
@Nicothechickenfarmer
@Nicothechickenfarmer Жыл бұрын
Me too
@genesis-yp4nc
@genesis-yp4nc Жыл бұрын
True. Worst feeling. 💔💔💔😭😭😭
@robbierob833
@robbierob833 Ай бұрын
yes😢.. this pain i’m feeling.. i can’t even describe.. i am empty..i devastated.. i don’t know what to do.. i really don’t😞💔
@giggityXlegit
@giggityXlegit 4 ай бұрын
I have so much respect for Andrew talking about this. I just lost my mom yesterday to a year long battle with cancer. I’m only 25 and I don’t even know how to feel. This has been the hardest couple days of my life. I love you mom
@Whyyoumad937
@Whyyoumad937 Жыл бұрын
It’s almost been 20 years and it can still very much feel like yesterday around certain times of the year. A forever love with a pain that’s unexplainable
@derrickcarbona9245
@derrickcarbona9245 11 ай бұрын
I think Christmas and Halloween are gonna be hard. We always watched movies all month long.
@derrickcarbona9245
@derrickcarbona9245 11 ай бұрын
Also I'm sorry for your loss.
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 4 ай бұрын
my dad was over 20 years ago for me i was 12 so there’s a lot i don’t remember. sending love your way!
@bmitchell6882
@bmitchell6882 Жыл бұрын
I lost my mom last month. I’m so lost and In complete denial. I’m still in shock. I miss my mother dearly. I lost my father when I was around 11 years old. My mom was all I had. Now, I’m parentless. My parents are watching over me. I love u, Ma and dad. Sleep in Peace. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. And to all those who lost a parent, I pray u continue to push as hard as u can.
@binalparekh2580
@binalparekh2580 4 ай бұрын
Same 😭 each and every word same feeling 😭
@chrisholbrook1552
@chrisholbrook1552 Жыл бұрын
Thirteen years after my mom died, I still feel the void, I still feel wasted, & the world doesn’t make sense. I miss her so badly, but I can still hear her voice. I also kept a bottle of her perfume.
@Southernspeaksfact
@Southernspeaksfact Ай бұрын
I lost my mom almost 4 gears ago when i was 21 years old with a 3 year old daughter an i had a good routine an my life was flowing smoothly then when we got the call my entire life shifted
@Isabelforpeace
@Isabelforpeace 4 ай бұрын
I understand every word you’ve described, it’s an immense loss❤
@bobbyrich4926
@bobbyrich4926 Жыл бұрын
My mom is very sick rn and really needed to hear this I’m going through a very difficult time hell I’m crying right now as I type this but I feel still like I needed to hear this
@zeynepseker6270
@zeynepseker6270 8 ай бұрын
Hope she’s doing better. Big hugs from me❤
@afnankhan7086
@afnankhan7086 4 ай бұрын
My mom is a cancer survivor of 4th stage nhl lymphoma and she sometimes has seizures and I feel like if I see her in that state I would vomit thinking about the time she had chemos 3-4 days of constant fever and cold in 35°C temperature she would shiver like anything she had to be in blankets and this happened at least 4 times, got better each time but I can't imagine that phase of life....
@kumarabhishek1064
@kumarabhishek1064 2 ай бұрын
​@@afnankhan7086 My mother is also having stage 4 cancer , can you please help me to know what your mother did to survive ?
@afnankhan7086
@afnankhan7086 2 ай бұрын
@@kumarabhishek1064 No matter what others say don't go to any private hospital they just scam people....Try for AIIMS Delhi it's the best treatment you can get with very little amount compared to others....AIIMS Rishikesh is also good....
@farraha3200
@farraha3200 11 ай бұрын
My heart died with her 😞 She was everything ..everything literally now I have nothing to live for just counting days to be with her 😭😭
@RESTART19482
@RESTART19482 9 ай бұрын
Same here
@fauzianalwoga1002
@fauzianalwoga1002 7 ай бұрын
Me too.
@RESTART19482
@RESTART19482 7 ай бұрын
😭😭😭
@vindacamp21
@vindacamp21 Жыл бұрын
I just lost my mom. And this pain it hurts greatly. It was a car accident. The worst part was that I saw it. There’s nothing worst than losing the person you love most right in front of you.
@karanbhandari976
@karanbhandari976 Жыл бұрын
I really hope u get through this
@DannyFromLA23
@DannyFromLA23 Жыл бұрын
Cherish all the good memories. You'll be ok.
@boragwaxeu59
@boragwaxeu59 Жыл бұрын
same 😔 On november 4 she’s so kind and it was an unexpected passing
@nel2408
@nel2408 Жыл бұрын
I Lost mine on November 18 2022
@teewhite2867
@teewhite2867 Жыл бұрын
So very deeply sorry for you guys pain
@misterrevealator7729
@misterrevealator7729 Ай бұрын
I lost my mother when I was 13. The guy stabbed her to death and robbed her. Im 40 now and Im still trying to figure out how to grieve it. When you loose your child, you can go to support groups like POMC. When you loose the person who gave you birthed you as a child, theirs almost nothing, or at least, I was never aware of any. The only comforts are remembering who she was and telling my children who she was, how much she would love them and knowing that Ill see her again.
@elysium0093
@elysium0093 Ай бұрын
I'm 17 and lost my mum last October when I was 16, just after I left school aswell so you have absolutely no emotional support, first time I have felt what grief is as for me its so subtle it makes you feel like you don't care but then it will end up coming out in different ways, I hope your doing alright man 🙏
@teesmoovethagenius
@teesmoovethagenius 8 ай бұрын
Miss you dad every day
@AlexaLikes
@AlexaLikes 7 ай бұрын
2 months and I already know I'll miss her everyday of my life.
@Betty-po8yy
@Betty-po8yy 7 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss sweetheart. You're not alone. 🩷🙏It's been a month for me and I've never experienced pain so severe. It feels like a big part of me died that day with her.
@Joey_Jumper
@Joey_Jumper Жыл бұрын
I suffer a lot of psychological problems and now on top comes losing my dad which will soon happen... It is killing me!!! I have nobody to talk to ...completely alone with my problems... I don't how I can go through that ...I feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel...the worst is the loneliness and béing alone with your thoughts 24/7 ..365 days a year...
@fauzianalwoga1002
@fauzianalwoga1002 7 ай бұрын
Just like me. My mom truly loved and understood me but now am alone
@erykmelgaard2226
@erykmelgaard2226 10 ай бұрын
I lost my sweet mom last month. Her battle with cancer was short. She didn't manage to live long. 54 years old she was. I am 20... This feeling of misery, of world ending it just can't go away. I wish it could, sometimes it briefly pauses, but never goes away. I feel exactly what he is feeling. What I want most is a woman to make me smile and hug me like she did, but I fear no one will.
@fauzianalwoga1002
@fauzianalwoga1002 7 ай бұрын
😢
@peaceom2168
@peaceom2168 7 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss. Sending you hugs.
@quinnhynes-marquette5835
@quinnhynes-marquette5835 Ай бұрын
My dad died when he was 54 from cancer, I was 22. Our stories are very similar. As twisted as it is, it's nice to know that I'm not alone.
@user-ms2kj5rd5d
@user-ms2kj5rd5d Ай бұрын
This man took the words out my mouth I woke up this morning crying missing my mom
@GawdGenetics
@GawdGenetics 11 ай бұрын
Lost my mother two days ago… this is exactly how I feel. 😢
@jjjks5
@jjjks5 9 ай бұрын
Wow… he’s describing it perfectly. Lost my mom last month and I don’t know how to live without her… she was my best friend. I am so lonely.
@peaceom2168
@peaceom2168 7 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss. Sending you hugs. I so relate to your post. I lost mine last year. My heart is 💔.
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 4 ай бұрын
sending love your way. there are great resources out there with people grieving - hope you don’t feel so alone anymore ❤
@derekcharlesgrey
@derekcharlesgrey 8 ай бұрын
That last line hit “and I hope it never makes sense cause I always want to miss her”
@jeet98150
@jeet98150 Жыл бұрын
You describe my heart and emotions. Your mother raised a good good child.
@nikhildhiman1183
@nikhildhiman1183 2 ай бұрын
She didn’t die. She lives through you now.
@edm4321
@edm4321 Жыл бұрын
Watching this is like I'm hearing myself because this is exactly how I feel.
@Navdeep31
@Navdeep31 9 ай бұрын
Lost my mom yesterday but i have some really supportive relatives right now i am just 16 years old and she left me at such a young age hope she is much happier where ever she is rest in peace mom
@faded354
@faded354 5 ай бұрын
I lost my mom last week. I am also 16.
@afnankhan7086
@afnankhan7086 4 ай бұрын
I am sorry to hear that,my mum is a cancer survivor and we might argue many times but I think I would not be able to live without her....If there is one thing that I love the most it's her....I hope you are alright....
@xpxsxnx
@xpxsxnx 4 ай бұрын
Bless you
@elastictowels9659
@elastictowels9659 Жыл бұрын
I don't remember much about my mother, her voice, her smile, but ill always remember the love that she had for me and I carry that with me each and every day. and to all of us who have lost our mothers may we not forget her love for us💜
@gabrielmcollazo6675
@gabrielmcollazo6675 10 ай бұрын
To all who hurt! You are not alone!God bless you all! Time won't heal but it does help!We all go through it! No exceptions! Godspeed !
@anpgl
@anpgl 9 ай бұрын
After losing my big brother I really look at life differently now I don’t think I’ll ever be 100% happy again without him I hope this hurt lasts a lifetime like our bond should have.
@Alexa-ji8on
@Alexa-ji8on 6 ай бұрын
I can’t explain the feeling. The days are colder and lonelier
@christopherbeck2069
@christopherbeck2069 Жыл бұрын
I lost my motherv3 days before christmas 2021. Never have I ever felt so empty and so alone.
@coachbighead
@coachbighead Жыл бұрын
I lost my mom '21 in june. 5 days before my bday
@claum674
@claum674 5 ай бұрын
Lost my dad in October and I find it very hard continuing life after that experience. I can’t believe he’s not around anymore
@ruchirchaturvedi7793
@ruchirchaturvedi7793 6 ай бұрын
Lost her on 5 Nov 2023. Feels lonely and lost and profound. May her soul rest in peace.
@dr.williamparker5060
@dr.williamparker5060 11 ай бұрын
Completely agree. it feels painfully unique and lonely. Especially for the mothers that we had, who were so outstanding and sacrificed so much.
@sablesenegal7488
@sablesenegal7488 Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that I lost my mom 6 years ago Andrew is such a compassionate guy
@srichey444
@srichey444 Жыл бұрын
My Mommy died on 5/4/2022. My Daddy died on 2/10/2016. Thank you Yahweh for Blessing me with phenomenal Parents. 🙏🏽💕✝️🛐
@halengarnier1308
@halengarnier1308 7 ай бұрын
Stay blessed
@magnet3213
@magnet3213 3 ай бұрын
“I’ll always want to miss her” 👍
@everettjohnson7142
@everettjohnson7142 5 ай бұрын
Yup I miss my mom every day 😢😞😕😪 She was my hero ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ she watched me grow up and become a better man 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@roa7001
@roa7001 4 ай бұрын
Lost my mum seven years ago still struggling it's like someone has taken the steering wheel out of your car blessings to everyone who's lost a parent ❤
@CuratedVibes
@CuratedVibes Жыл бұрын
My world was rearranged after losing my Nana..she was like my mom. I'm also close to my mom BUT my Nana was so mature, wise and full of knowledge. I really admired and looked up to her. I know I will never meet anyone else like her in this world. She was sick for 2 years and I mourned her the entire time prepping for her end. It's been 3 months since she left and Ive just shrunk into my hermit hole. I barely want to be around anyone or leave my house. Grief is sneaky some days I will be happy and then just cry out of nowhere. I know where not supposed to be sad and the afterlife is a beautiful experience for our souls ...I just miss her guidance and advice.
@roguevalley44
@roguevalley44 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. What was she like, your Nana? I've found talking about my loved one even to myself lights me up.
@nickxcore74
@nickxcore74 Ай бұрын
Lost my Mum in October last year to Pancreatic cancer, it’s the worst pain I’ve ever suffered in my life. I can totally relate to when he says about feeling lonely now his Mums gone, because I feel exactly the same and totally lost.
@cynthiabruce3676
@cynthiabruce3676 8 ай бұрын
My mom passed in my arms too. I told mom go on to heaven don't wait on any family members they know and can't or won't come. She had alzheimers and she starved herself and had a pain through her she got ridged and got where she needed to stay laying down .. I felt guilt and relief for her. For no more suffering.
@VaniaVictoria_
@VaniaVictoria_ Жыл бұрын
I lost my father 10/22 of this year and it was the 22 yesterday. He was incredibly sick and I keep replaying the funeral in my head. It’s still so fresh. But I also try to think of the good memories before he was sick. And I sing his favorite hymns because he was also a man of faith. Sometimes we wonder why our loved ones are taken away from us. God knows all things. And there are better days ahead. We just can’t see it now. I know my dad is in a better place now.
@Valarie834
@Valarie834 Жыл бұрын
I just lost my mother todays marks a month.
@fredrickdavis5489
@fredrickdavis5489 11 ай бұрын
​@@Valarie834I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mother early last year to a subarachnoid hemorrhage/aneurysm.
@AesirUnlimited
@AesirUnlimited 6 ай бұрын
To lose someone you love is to lose the piece of your heart that you gave to them. But to grieve deeply, is to have loved fully.
@starbwoy133
@starbwoy133 4 ай бұрын
Lost my mother to cancer last August and I agree with Andrew 100% Feels like my reality of the world has chaged and doesn't make any sense anymore 💔
@veilofmayaa
@veilofmayaa 5 ай бұрын
Lost my mom 4 days ago. She passed in my arms with me begging god to take me and let her live. With me begging her to fight to stay alive. Telling her I won’t survive this world without her. No matter how old, the child always needs the mother. I know it’s the cycle of life and then passing. I know we can’t all live forever but all I want is to be with my mother forever. I don’t think I have the strength to endure this life without my mom. I just want to be with her, I don’t have what it takes anymore.
@Luke101
@Luke101 10 ай бұрын
Imagining life without my mom is almost impossible. She’s always been my best friend and biggest supporter. Dreading the day that I need to experience the pain that Andrew felt 😢
@roosterq3209
@roosterq3209 11 ай бұрын
In point…. I know I’m not the only one who lost a mom, But it totally feels like it is.. Somewhat surreal amen. 🙏🏼
@cdb5001
@cdb5001 Жыл бұрын
I never liked Garfield as Spiderman, but seeing his career now and who he is as a man, much respect and I was really stupid for making a judgment.
@Bruh-hb9jy
@Bruh-hb9jy 11 ай бұрын
I know this comment is going to fall on deaf ears, but I need to get this out. I lost my mom a few hours ago unexpectedly. I'm 17 and she was 41. Me and my entire family are absolutely devastated. But no one is as broken as my dad. She has had major health issues for more than a decade, and has suffered physically and mentally more than anyone I know. She has had many cancers, many infections, many seizures, a stroke, potassium issues, lung issues including pneumonia, a numothorax, and multiple collapsed lungs, she has had more than 70 procedures/surgeries in the past decade. And that's just to name some of it. Although she was in constant pain, she always had a good attitude and an uplifting spirit that people wanted to be around. She would give the shirt off her back to a complete stranger if they asked for it. I have no idea what my family and I are going to do now, and I am so crushed to see my dad and my 14 year old sister be so sad. I don't know how everything is going to turn out, but I have to deal with it and stay strong for them. This is for my mom... Brianna, may you build a beautiful mansion up in heaven to wait for us to get there. I love you so much.
@cydia1720
@cydia1720 10 ай бұрын
I lost mine 1 month and a half ago she had just turned 47. I am 15 years only my dad has never been there for me I miss my mom so much she was everything once you lose your moms love you realise how dark and careless the world is nobody wants you your unwanted your alone in the world left with a bunch of strangers my family keeps switching up whos gonna host me now. So far ive been at my aunts for a week my other aunt for 3 days and currently my sister and her husband I feel unwanted but idk where to go I just want my dear mom back a fight already broke out btw me and my sister and they will give me away soon and the cycle repeats itself ive given myself 15 more years to live and then I will join some god forsaken war and die earlier so I can meet my mom again I didint have much freinds and my mom really wanted for me to get some friends instead of playing games inside all the time she used to cry much at this topic why nobody wanted to become friends with her son my sister is now blaming me for my mothers death wich is hurting really bad inside of me idk what to do with myself man I have another sister only 16 years of age shes the only person I trust and love with my whole heart
@Bruh-hb9jy
@Bruh-hb9jy 10 ай бұрын
Man. That's really rough. I don't know who you are. But I do know this. You are wanted. You are loved. Just keep pushing through. It will be really really hard, but you can do this.
@cydia1720
@cydia1720 10 ай бұрын
@@Bruh-hb9jy relegations with my sister has gotten better but I know nothing will come as close as mothers love it was so pure and never in a harms way or manipulative way she only wanted me to be happy and the best for me we need to be strong af man these cases are rare but sometimes god tests the strongest
@Bruh-hb9jy
@Bruh-hb9jy 10 ай бұрын
Nothing is as strong as a mothers love, which is unfortunate for most cases. But we have to keep going.
@vashistreddy9321
@vashistreddy9321 7 ай бұрын
I lost my mom to cancer a month ago I'm 17 and my mom was 43
@joanmaritato2003
@joanmaritato2003 Ай бұрын
Well said. It’s a comfort to know someone feels the way I do. If I could just hug her one more time. I would never let her go.
@af1067
@af1067 4 ай бұрын
Just lost my mum..... today. No words.for the pain.
@fauzianalwoga1002
@fauzianalwoga1002 Жыл бұрын
My mom died this week on Wednesday 24th May 2023 and she has been everything to me but it's true when she passed life felt like it was being reaarranged
@JordonOlsen
@JordonOlsen 3 ай бұрын
Rest in peace nan. You died today but your never dead so long as your in my heart.
@patriciamignone860
@patriciamignone860 4 ай бұрын
I miss my mother each and every day. I cry everyday for her.
@fauzianalwoga1002
@fauzianalwoga1002 7 ай бұрын
Am now the true definition of a mess after losing my mom
@anneenaje1222
@anneenaje1222 8 ай бұрын
I miss you so much dad
@jm1657
@jm1657 8 ай бұрын
He articulated so well what profound grief is. Very sincere & honest personality ❤️
@69berthaalicia
@69berthaalicia Ай бұрын
I just lost my mother, and my heart is so broken 💔
@mimomali8266
@mimomali8266 9 ай бұрын
I feel so lonely without her I lost my mother my best friend the only person I could truly trust. She was my biggest fan. It's so difficult to continue I have this agony this Pain. Nothing makes fun anymore. It's the hardest to continue. Idk how I always could come to her I called her every day now I can't talk to no one like to her there is nobody like her. This kind sweet old lady with the biggest heart in the world. 😔😪🤧😓😢😭
@IrwinShockVincent
@IrwinShockVincent 5 ай бұрын
RIP to your mom.❤
@samanthaa9200
@samanthaa9200 10 ай бұрын
I lost my big brother in 2013, my Mom died in my arms just before Christimas in 2019 and lost my Dad June 26, 2023. Loss changes you forever. I love them and miss them every day.
@muhammadmoiz4366
@muhammadmoiz4366 2 ай бұрын
May God give you strength to process the pain !! I can feel your pain as I lost my sister two months ago , Man !! It's pretty devastating !!
@user-ib6ww8zs3o
@user-ib6ww8zs3o Ай бұрын
Miss u mom.
@NewShockerGuy
@NewShockerGuy 6 ай бұрын
My mother passed last month very very suddenly. It's been a complete fog. I lost my dad 5 years ago this month. Having no parents is weird. No longer can you talk to the people that loved you more than anything in the world. If your parents are still alive spend as much time with them as possible... the time will run out eventually and you will never feel the same. The void really can never be filled :-(
@iTydaa
@iTydaa Жыл бұрын
Lost my mom 25-01-2023 im 26 and she is 53. I don't know what to do anymore my mind is gone.
@natewilliams5784
@natewilliams5784 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way ,lost my mom 1/10/23 unexpectedly and she was 63.
@christrotter7583
@christrotter7583 9 ай бұрын
You must listen to the voice in your mind..mama's there...she wants you to create your own positive energy..she will be there everystep of the rest of your time in this phyiscal realm
@vosaemify
@vosaemify Жыл бұрын
Lost my brother to to depression. It's been a tough ride.
@thecomebackking737
@thecomebackking737 8 ай бұрын
25 years and still there. Lost my father first then my mother in less a year
@johnnunley8262
@johnnunley8262 Жыл бұрын
Very true
@TheAmtwhite
@TheAmtwhite 9 күн бұрын
My husband just lost his mother. I think Andrew put into words very well the effect it has. 😢
@skyhigh1803
@skyhigh1803 6 ай бұрын
Yes. Losing a loved one a parent is lost in the ocean of space and time feeling. But it gets better. Like a star is shining 24/7 you shine too. So be a sunlight to a planet or two or millions of planets. Thank You.
@shamrock2682
@shamrock2682 5 ай бұрын
I've lost both of my parents, and it's so hard at times. You are in my prayers.
@rawuneditedvideos
@rawuneditedvideos Жыл бұрын
Oh mate my heart goes out to you I’m going though that agony myself too ❤ our mothers are irreplaceable.
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 4 ай бұрын
❤lost my dad when I was a kid and makes it even more precious to still have my mom
@rawuneditedvideos
@rawuneditedvideos 4 ай бұрын
@@deadtalkspodcast Treasure her mate. I lost my Dad when I was 18 and Mum almost a year ago. Our parents are truly irreplaceable.
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 4 ай бұрын
@@rawuneditedvideos amen!
@MYTHxNOOBDA
@MYTHxNOOBDA Жыл бұрын
l lost my mom on March 13 2023 my mom died in front of my face and she cannot talk and her last word would be that study and take care of family
@user39104
@user39104 9 ай бұрын
My mom passed this morning. I feel so confused and lost without her. I know I’ll never not miss her❤
@HeartisTheTruth
@HeartisTheTruth 9 ай бұрын
Im sorry to hear. STRONG your self girl. I mean it. The first wave was kind of easy. This is almost 1 year since I lost my mom. And God damn Im still struggling to handle the feeling inside. Hurt hurt so much. STRONG STRONG YOUR SELF.
@forcecalibration924
@forcecalibration924 10 ай бұрын
Lost my mom a few days ago and I’m trying to get some explanation or a sense of understanding , this video let me know I’m not alone
@Beauty_of_ISLAM_30
@Beauty_of_ISLAM_30 3 ай бұрын
You r not alone
@user-jl4xy2up7v
@user-jl4xy2up7v 2 ай бұрын
I just lost my mom today and man I can say that precise agony he is talking about really hits hard.. love to all the mothers out there..
@rapxbattle3582
@rapxbattle3582 3 ай бұрын
I just lost her, I'm currently 18 yet I still feel so lost without her guidance.
@user-kf1kq8uf5x
@user-kf1kq8uf5x Ай бұрын
I miss youMom! I think about you first and last thing. I think about night and mornig. Every day. It tears me apart. Why was it me who found you last. We made eye contact for the last time. Mom.. 😢😢😢
@thespoon456
@thespoon456 3 ай бұрын
Yes, that’s pretty much bang on how it feels!
@CheezyShpeezy
@CheezyShpeezy 5 ай бұрын
i misss you so much papa if you were here
@mb8456
@mb8456 7 ай бұрын
I lost my father just one week ago and it was so sudden that it took us a while to realise that he's no more. People are consoling us saying very few lucky people get painless death like my father. However, i feel like I failed him as a daughter. There were so many things I wanted to do for him but we argued even on his last day. Had I known it was his last day in this world, I would have given him a big hug and tell him how much I love him.
@alya8533
@alya8533 6 ай бұрын
I lost my father last week and this is exactly how it goes for me too. It was also so sudden for me and I said mean words to him (which I didnt mean at all) days before his passing.
@robinlippy4799
@robinlippy4799 4 ай бұрын
Never get over the loss of parents. ❤
@infotank5145
@infotank5145 11 ай бұрын
Last week I lost my Goddess MOTHER due sudden cardiac arrest... I don't know what to do and what else left in my life ..I even couldn't articulate my emotions and memories in words ...It's biggest catastrophe ever happened in my life and it won't heal in upcoming time as well...... Rip my dearest mother......
@rachelm1816
@rachelm1816 4 ай бұрын
I greatly admire Andrew's openness and vulnerability in talking about losing his Mum.
@beetunee
@beetunee 9 ай бұрын
Lost my mother in may So much pain so much healing has started I’m trying my best everyday
@EBrown-cr1gr
@EBrown-cr1gr 4 ай бұрын
I lost my mom on Thanksgiving 2023. I still feel "wasted" and not really able to function. I was starting to beat myself up about it. Strangely comforting to hear Andrew put my feelings into words.
@615alexander9
@615alexander9 3 ай бұрын
Rip momma😭💔 I miss you beautiful lady 😞😞😞
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 4 ай бұрын
love this
@thislittlethingcalledlifea8586
@thislittlethingcalledlifea8586 9 ай бұрын
It’s so true. I’m losing my mom now and the emptiness is unbearable at times…..
@rachelm1816
@rachelm1816 6 ай бұрын
Same...
@alexperez85
@alexperez85 9 ай бұрын
Sir.. I miss my mom.. what u said made sense... I still miss her even though its been a year
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