"Don't give a mile if she wont give an inch" That really hit hard. I need to work on that more
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
⚡🔑⚡
@CaptGage3 жыл бұрын
I'm certainly working on that!
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
So do i
@jm65604 жыл бұрын
Every time I hear you, I wish I had known these things 40 or 50 years ago. You make me laugh at myself, what a gift you are. Thanks.
@kannanvramesh19854 жыл бұрын
Mother nature is a mystery it can give second chances
@whatsappme24434 жыл бұрын
Hello hope you are OK
@lestatvamp88654 жыл бұрын
Dang pops better holla at Miss Gladys
@kubajjaszi3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry you will be back here and next time with a better akashic accuity, so learn this stuff and you will know intuitively how to go about dating next time you're here. You will have a new body and fresh start, unless you change your gender.
@oscaralejandrez47423 жыл бұрын
@@kannanvramesh1985 p
@thefnaffan24 жыл бұрын
Apolliana is like the sister we never had, giving us advice on life and relationships...
@ApolloniaPonti4 жыл бұрын
xoxoxo
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
💣
@aliciadominguez71564 жыл бұрын
Tbh 😭😭
@dado44523 жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti he just put you in sisterzone
@safiesekgwa19333 жыл бұрын
That's very true. Listening to her feels like I have a sister to talk to every day. Feels good. Cheers @Apollonia Ponti.
@optimumJC4 жыл бұрын
Not only do I feel more confident and better about myself, her attraction towards me has been growing exponentially. Your videos have made my relationship manageable for me. I’m divorced 3 years and was struggling with dating. I was likely gonna screw up my current relationship with my neediness and insecurities. You made me realize how much I have to offer someone and that they should offer me something as well. The relationship is approaching 6 months now and I see a future with this women. I’ve learned not to ramble on to fill in gaps and I’ve noticed she will pick up the conversation if I stop talking and take a breath. She has no idea I watch these videos, but I can tell by the way she behaves around me now that she’s excited to be with me. Thank you for these videos
@mumoalex4 жыл бұрын
Kudos mate for your happy relationship, I used to think we (men) don't need these kind of videos but I am also learning lots of things
@mchammer20794 жыл бұрын
Don't tell women your life story on a first date, be a bit of a mystery and let them do more of the talking.
@IronChloride3 жыл бұрын
Challenge herself, self integrity, banter, pacing yourself, confident mindset, you dont have to prove yourself
@alphadogmindset59584 жыл бұрын
Tell her whats up and put it down with confidence, i love being straight up with women!!! Take control like a man and have fun!!!🤘❤🔥🤘
@abdouyousif41 Жыл бұрын
I can tell this is gonna work because when you became silent and was just looking at the views I uncontrollably smiled and felt comfortable
@saiprasaddalai65614 жыл бұрын
You never stop to teach us in regards to raise our values.way to go missi.keep sharing Apollonia.
@TannerWilliam074 жыл бұрын
I appreciate these concise videos more than the hour long live videos. It's like going shopping and men have a list because it's concise
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Mean listening all the time
@rachelvillanueva62903 жыл бұрын
I’m actually a gay woman and I still don’t understand women sometimes Apolliana helps me too. Thank you
@denizcankal1773 жыл бұрын
Oh thats cool, I love it that she does this for us its life changing
@CarolinHauser3 жыл бұрын
Have of the time I don't understand myself (:
@andrewilliams6866 Жыл бұрын
More facts to y'all being crazy
@hannuohrling35184 жыл бұрын
Apollonia, you are simpy super expert in explaining the mindset, behaviour and differences between the sexes. I wish that I'd have learned these advices already some decades ago from you. But, it's never too late for me. Thank you!
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Defiantly bro
@DRGUANE4 жыл бұрын
Listen and question everything!
@alexik73564 жыл бұрын
It's cute how you say "we" like you're one of the guys and also when you look away from the camera for a glance. Also this is a great video! We need more KZfaqrs like you
@SeanBMakin3 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe this is a free video! Thank you so much!
@positive_vibes_24274 жыл бұрын
I struggle with the second point - working with silence
@tricialn93174 жыл бұрын
As a woman, I find it incredibly sexy when there is silence after having bonded with a joke or saying something not too serious that is bonding. A sexy glance at their eyes and mouth and sparks can definitely fly!
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
@@tricialn9317 😎
@lifeofdice89293 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I’m learning all of this at 18, thank you
@ApolloniaPonti3 жыл бұрын
Rock on!
@DRTY3RD4 жыл бұрын
Excellent tips to know, Coach. I ain't finna front, sometimes I do come off too nervous, so thanks for talking through these points. As they say, knowledge is power--and wisdom is the application of knowledge. Now that I know what's up...I know what to do (and NOT do) in times future.
@jaymedalbeth69624 жыл бұрын
She needs to show she's worth my time. Had too much false hope after all these years 🥱
@anupamjoshi95744 жыл бұрын
Challenging her is the best method I think because you don't came off as needy and you show that you are above or at same level at her and it also makes her to do work
@tradz41993 жыл бұрын
Apollonia - There is something about your delivery I enjoy...this is the second video I've watched of yours.
@kc2703524 жыл бұрын
yeah your right, too many guys are scared to challenge a woman, really can't understand why
@MichaelSmith-bs1hd2 жыл бұрын
I am not nervous I have one brother and one sister one brother has passed away I have a mother and a father my father has passed away my mother will be here at the end of this month she is my lifeline I love her with all my heart and no one will stand in the way and no one will put her down just as I would think of the one who is my lover no one and I mean no one would put her down no one I love you Apollonia this is my story and it needs to facts
@fredhill874 жыл бұрын
Apollonia you yourself have great body language. Your non-verbal queues are always on point. The way you speak with your hands and convey your message by motioning even with you facial expressions is very convincing, and persuasive.
@da_q_man01314 жыл бұрын
Wow. Very informative. I'm currently in a situation where I'm chatting to a girl from a dating site and we've been chatting for a lil over a week and she's talking bout wanting us to get our own place, which at 1st I thought, wow, I'm doing something right here because she seems like she got it all together but thinking bout it and listening to you it shows that she could be running from something. Red flag definitely picked up. Thanks for the tips as always Appolonia 👌💯
@christ71073 жыл бұрын
I’m a submissive man and appreciate specific unique things from a woman. Yet I realize Apollonias methods help me accomplish capturing a woman’s love ... and then I let my fantasy’s and stuff ruin it. But actually getting the girl, this works
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
From Dating Coach to Dating Coach, much respect you !!! -Black Book Basics-
@felipeperez60114 жыл бұрын
Awesome video! Proud of your growth, authority and authenticity. You are an inspiration form many, love to interview you on a podcast. Greetings!
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
She does have a awesome video
@louismarriott86984 жыл бұрын
You've helped me an incredible amount. Thank you so much. I'll be feeling a certain way and you've got a video for it. It's like you know. Amazing lady.
@ApolloniaPonti4 жыл бұрын
xoxoxo
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Im using this tips that she gave me
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti xoxoxo Apollonia point
@conniepetroziello67924 жыл бұрын
Love your advice! Your a TRUE gem ❤
@ReWriteYourMind4 жыл бұрын
I really love your channel. Much of what you tell here I had been forgotten, and I have been falling back in old behavior. Now I have found your channel I feel myself crawling back out of the cage I have put myself in. Thank you for this.
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
I love her channel too
@_M_D_M_4 жыл бұрын
1.5x saves you time and gets you wise faster.
@thulasmash21953 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@steveharris88524 жыл бұрын
That awkward pause happened to me recently... I sly smiled, turned around, as I was walking away, I stopped, turned around facing her, and looked into her eyes and said: "say hello sometime... Don't be a stranger..." , and continued walking... When I turned around, she was still smiling... The problem was, this quarantine started shortly after and I didn't even have the chance to see her again...
@joemancini29884 жыл бұрын
As creatures dominated by their anterior cingulate gyruses, women are always on the lookout for signs of emotion from men. When delivered, they are usually grateful and respond positively.
@edmyoga4 жыл бұрын
You are incredible love! These 9 ways to spark romantic tension are SPOT ON :)
@alfieg.hernandez57254 жыл бұрын
Apollonia, Thx for what you do! You are so calming... I am here to listen to you, I recently broke up with the woman of my life,, I am a divorced father of 2 young girls. I walked away, we were living together, after almost 4 yrs., but the short is that I will do anything to get her back, she “friend zoned” me....
@elguerrotx_35584 жыл бұрын
Great insight Appollonia, I'll be putting this knowledge to use here very soon.
@futurejeffjosephzibona53443 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the video I lost many good women now I will be ready on the right time
@adelajaogunnaike93474 жыл бұрын
Wow! This topic is so wonderful,thanks ponti.
@mustaphadoaa10244 жыл бұрын
Great advice Apollonia especially your last tip. Allah bless you Apollonia.
@kevinjackson73234 жыл бұрын
You really hit the nail on the head. I have learned a lot from you. You are a God send
@santoshkumar17953 жыл бұрын
The first point you say. Fake yourself. Show yourself as more than what you're. Is this what a man should do from start to get her? Fake it? What do you as a women find out when the man you met does not have the quality that he did when you first met? ATTRACTION DIES. doesn't it? BE REAL IF YOU WANT TO LAST is what I think is the best.
@alistrepairs19694 жыл бұрын
I must say that you have been a great addition to my life, have learnt and grown from watching your videos. Love your content 👏🏽👏🏽
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
So am i
@xklusivemal89433 жыл бұрын
Waiting for someone to list the 9 things 😂
@gervas49354 жыл бұрын
Thanks Apolonia for your wonderful good advice.
@georgemarsilio51223 жыл бұрын
your are very knowledgeable and I have experienced these faults..you explain how it exactly happens...you are amaizing!! hope you get rich from you tube
@bobmorgan56364 жыл бұрын
You are fantastic...I watch many of your presentations multiple times...I always learn something or reinforce an idea...thank you 😊
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Im watching this you tube video twice.!
@Gabrol773 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed the video!!! Thank you Apollonia...
@bnwo4 жыл бұрын
Excellent tips, Apollonia.
@kevinedwards20674 жыл бұрын
Nice video, some psychology stuff being used, light negs. & even some PUA stuff. Nice video, keeping it simple, real, so easy to do! Its all about the energy you bring and reacting to her and pacing her with your energy also! Nice I just subscribed!
@harryevans17863 жыл бұрын
There is something really cool about you Apolliana! I think you have a very cool grasp on psychology and how people work but the bottom line is you are teaching people how to become grounded, with that comes confidence and really owning yourself and being responsible to go with it. That is spiritual in my opinion.
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Fact
@Friday21394 жыл бұрын
Appollonia been going hard in the paint!!! with these uploads 💯
@ApolloniaPonti4 жыл бұрын
LOL! Thank you.
@gavinpintro58664 жыл бұрын
Love your content Apollonia!
@fredhill874 жыл бұрын
Happy Sunday HomeGirl !!
@latinattitudesurfusa18903 жыл бұрын
If I’m not there, I am close. Fun to watch. Thanks!
@ApolloniaPonti3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@dethan2214 жыл бұрын
this channel is great! Awesome advice for self improvement
@ApolloniaPonti4 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@rogerrobertsjr.55744 жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti Good morning sweetheart .I hope your day is good .You look real nice today ..
@christ71073 жыл бұрын
I’d be married by now if I knew about queen appolonia 15 years ago
@Geforcepat4 жыл бұрын
Good stuff apollonia.
@crash70983 жыл бұрын
I have a problem with having nothing to say.
@Phoenix_Flame_1174 жыл бұрын
Huge thanks for you for making this video , I was wondering if you could talk in the future about the "sigma male" if that is possible, then again thank you for your work and time and best wishes.
@sundayaito43664 жыл бұрын
Awesome as usual...👍thanks ms, ponti.
@totallychillduck81272 жыл бұрын
Say things like wow that wasn't a narcissistic comment and then laugh and I guarantee she will too
@enanlouise85284 жыл бұрын
Hi Apollonia, I just don't like to talk to beautiful women, having self doubt and lacking confidence.😔 I realized I assume beautiful women won't be interested in me, as I may not be as good looking as a man to compare to her. Some good looking women usually go for good looking men, as they want their kids to be good looking too! Not all couples have great looking kids, if one parent is not that great looking themselves. 😭
@t-win64884 жыл бұрын
I trust no ones opinion. If anyone thinks im weak. They just looking at their self and not me. Besides i dont care what they perceive. Ive still yet seen any woman that fits 100 percent of what i want.#Dont need your sympathy#
@tobyjoey14 жыл бұрын
great content and the deepest insight I've heard from anyone on this subject..... sub'd. Many thanks Apollonia
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
That is a good point
@angelramos-ortiz96962 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it is not that we talk a lot , problem is that if she's not talking You have to talk a little bit more or she will just feel bored and leave , We can't seem to win on this One , especially if You're one of the Good/Nice Men because if You don't talk You're boring and if You talk You talk too much and will use that as an excuse not to like You , Then she goes to the Bad Boy .
@Creator_Veeto_PAEACP2 жыл бұрын
Nah boi, you just got no game. Focus on creating a connection and being your genuine self. Try going on a date doing things you like; E.G. I like video games and she does too so we hit the arcade and had a blast; first date we smoked a blunt talked about bud then talked about music on our way to dinner. Easy. Ask questions when she gives you cues like, She likes goth music, ask her about concerts she’s been too, etc. Be a nice guy, but be assertive.
@enfynet4 жыл бұрын
6... I’ve always been generous and try to be complimentary and kind.
@tugssanaa39964 жыл бұрын
I never done this but.....here we go Firssttt
@fredhill874 жыл бұрын
Tugssanaa I’m jealous because you beat me to it. Apollonia is gonna make me an administrator once I prove how committed I am to helping her create all that great content she produces!
@berrybtalksministries4 жыл бұрын
I swear im in love 😍.
@CarolinHauser3 жыл бұрын
Such good advise!
@robin94184 жыл бұрын
I always go with one rule for sure , be real attract ur tribe !!
@aquaman71474 жыл бұрын
Confidence is the key
@tayebzied98682 жыл бұрын
great .thanks apollonia
@alexanderhanooman4 жыл бұрын
Straight and on point!
@DannyBoy4434 жыл бұрын
She went to 2039 to get that sweater.
@dougarnold79554 жыл бұрын
11:27...😀... yeah, I've done that one before...so you've talked about yourself all this time...whoa, yeah, that gets a response.
@mannygonzales68784 жыл бұрын
You have to always remember that coaching advice may work, but there's always things that they won't tell you and will leave out. You have to dig into female nature and learn from it, then you can tweak certain advice/methods that coaches are putting out. One thing that will not change, is a woman's nature. She will always use hypergamy to her advantage! Not to discredit her advice, or say it won't be effective, just pointing out there's another side to the token.
@WinWin-gl4ns4 жыл бұрын
Apollonia you are a very sweet woman in mind body and soul, you so sweet with virtue.
@mattyice75464 жыл бұрын
lmao imagine going out on a date with Apollonia, NONE OF THESE TRICKS AND TIPS WOULD WORK LOL. She would catch on SOOOO FAST.
@shivangmishra65394 жыл бұрын
You are extreme with politeness 👌
@s.beccari46782 жыл бұрын
Share first , ask questions later...
@CHill-tj4gw4 жыл бұрын
Wow I do everything you spoke on in this video
@medicinekeysformrcps50253 жыл бұрын
I was searching for this video 😂
@Mike-xv8hi Жыл бұрын
I want to say may God bless you and your family your husband hallelujah hallelujah a man
@thebigwaveriderTV4 жыл бұрын
If Apollonia is with us, who can be against us!, lol.
@felixdevigny65564 жыл бұрын
You are always loved ❤️👋🏾😘
@Suseelkumar54 жыл бұрын
You're doing well. Please don't fall for the comments done by mgtow and anti women guys who comment here asking you to address this or that. Majority of the men love women and don't want to one up with them.
@khriseagle4 жыл бұрын
Give me advice on how to find an older rich sugar momma
@joemancini29884 жыл бұрын
khriseagle Be careful what you wish for.
@isaacaragon59004 жыл бұрын
khriseagle Go where they are and be friendly. Don’t push it with them slow and steady
@itsthatonekid61884 жыл бұрын
Nursing homes
@SirJames1004 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
@fredhill874 жыл бұрын
khriseagle Why would she do that bro? We are not here to be manipulative. We are here to have compassion for each other. Men should trust women and women should trust men.
@sandracuenca97434 жыл бұрын
I love your smile :)
@RunsHorses4 жыл бұрын
Good advice.
@michaelhaney33884 жыл бұрын
I don't even have a girlfriend, this does not apply to me.
@nickefgen92194 жыл бұрын
Great video thank you
@beno_47852 жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful soul.
@ApolloniaPonti2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! So are you!
@SmileyJonez3 жыл бұрын
I love how ya videos jump right in. No dumb ass advertising videos. By the way i think ur dope.
@vernondelancy62813 жыл бұрын
Good info
@dejayz01663 жыл бұрын
Thank you coach
@vaibhavsrivastava19533 жыл бұрын
So deep ❤️
@briar359814 жыл бұрын
I agree totally with the letting the woman work for you. But sadly in these days of women having so many choices. It will again fall back on the man. If you don't pursue and prove your worth her time. She will just swipe again or hit up Chad. Men display, Women choose. Only the Alpha High Value men have the ability to pick and choose. Great idea here, but doesn't work in the average man's real world dating experience.
@robin94184 жыл бұрын
I thought stupid questions break the ice sometimes! Why not 🤷♂️