Last year i have a relationship with a single mom but we broke up because of money thats what I thought, but the reason she broke up with me because of the father her child. They still have communications and see each other for her she do it just for her son but guy take it as advantage to be with them again. Should i still wait for her and keep communicating her even though her ex live-in partner there in her life?

@@hanzandmitz I think it's best to move forward... If you and she talk, be kind but don't get too personal... Go live life--you can do so single--and hang with friends; make new friends... Ezier said than done but definitely doable. 1st, before anything else, though, Take it before God...every time thoughts of her come, go before God... Talk to Him and LISTEN for the Holy Spirit... Then Obey

Hi Mark. I'm curious. Where does all your money go that you earn from classes and merchandise if any? Are you non profit?

Go CHIEFS!!!! lol! Thank you!! I took running in to this video as my first sign😅

@@brettgarandza683 all of the advice he gives for free, I hope he's using some for living!!!

So true

For the other side of this equation, there is a song that comes to mind that goes “who will love me for me, not because what I’ve done or who I will become”

I kind of disagree. I can think of AT LEAST 3 examples of women in my surrounding who committed to a "potential" and helped their partner come closer to God. All three men weren't Christians when their future wives met them for the first time. These men now serve the Lord and the couples' bond is getting stronger. Even God "falls in love" with our potential because He can see us not where we are NOW but where we COULD be. And helps us get there. One of the examples I am referring to is a pastor and his wife who've been married and serving the Lord for probably more than 25 years now. All I'm saying is that I don't think God called us to make our decisions from an intellectual point of view where it's obviously more reasonable to look for a spiritually grown Christian. But sometimes God plants things in our hearts and helps us see things in advance. I'm not talking about wishful thinking ("Oh, how I wish this was the one! I'll wait for him!"). But I really do believe that God can put a conviction in our hearts that this person is going to develop into a really faithful Christian.

@@katemian sure, like he said in the video... it's possible. All is possible with God. But it's not a wise decision and more times than not is just you desiring an outcome, not God. And also, this person who is an unbeliever will more than likely bring you down and drift away from your faith than the opposite scenario. God bless!

Damn it !

Spending time with the Lord will give you the answers you need

True

@@necolewimbley1713 then why am I still in the dark? Ughh, i am certain someone is contacting me on social media.. but not w a phone call or in person. What would you do? I’ve prayed, asked for Wisdom, Discernment and insight still nothing.

@@irarapp3745 first we have to get into position what does your heart posture look like. How's your attitude. I know it's hard and when we have to wait. We cry out we get anxious and it causes us not to hear. We have to really get into our secret place daily until we get that break. God speak through all things just listen. I will keep you lifted in prayer

Facts ❤

God bless!

Paths will cross if it's meant to be.

@@theronholler8176 Yep.

I'm here babe ❤😍😊

@@hoffadash4132 😅😅😅good one

Amen, may his will be done!

@Genebra Lancelote Truth!!!

This is me 100% thks for the inspiration and realization God bless you

This is a hard lesson, but I finally got it too :)

It hurts, but your right, it is sin to always pursue a woman ( or man for the woman) more then God and Jesus. I need to accept.

Why On earth would you even talk to someone in a relationship ? Jeez

Let me also add that I find out that he does lack spiritual maturity. God has shown that to me so I move on but unsure if I should still be friends with him. That’s what I need to God to show me what to do.

If you need to move on I would not be friends anymore :)

@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger I pray God will replace him with a much better friend. 👍🏾

@@char-4737 Thank you for sharing this I needed hear it, i’m in that position now

God bless!

I like your pfp its my background, anyway God bless you have a wonderful day 😭😭

@@aylaa2437 thanks 😊

@@bolt9075 np😚😚

Aw, so sorry. That hurts.

Wow that sucks sorry to hear that :(

Jeremiah 17:9 “The heart is deceitful above all things, And desperately wicked; Who can know it?" I still cannot fully grasp where I went wrong interpreting all the "signs". For some of these signs/coincidences came at an unbelievable timing, where prayers have been answered in ways that go beyond my understanding. And I was trying to be very careful with this. However, looking back, I now do know and acknowledge that I was definitely consumed by tunnel vision, causing me to interpret coincidences into how I wanted to interpret them because I couldn't let go of my ex. I just hope others don't go wasting their time and heart for something that may/or may not be, and really taking the points in this video seriously. I wished this clip had been published sooner so i could learn from it back then, though that probably wouldn't have happened cuz i was blinded. Anyway, some time has past by now, and Im all over it thank God! God bless you all🙏🏼

i know exactly how you feel. could of sworn God was giving me confirmation and signs for 3 years straight to wait for someone who was with someone else all those years, only to find out they were getting married. i rejected so many good potential suitors in hopes of being with that 1 person. turns out it was the devil and my own delusion blinding me to wait for something that was never gonna happen because it was never meant. i will tell you tho, it truly gets better with time. i got over it a lot sooner than i thought i would.

Maybe you didn’t pray for it consistently

That is true. I pray that all is well with you and yours in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen and Amen and Amen.

God bless!

God bless :)

♥♥

I'm so glad it was helpful Brie!

I'm so glad it was helpful!

God is a good time, and He's an on time God. Glory be to God.

Oh my gosh that’s exactly how I felt with a guy who also checks up on me once in a while. I just have this gut feeling that he’s not for me and that I should also move on even when I had those thoughts that I wanted to have a relationship. My mother wants me to get a Christian man hehe and I’m actually gonna look into it when I do settle down

@@lilliacurtis79 I'm not attacking anyone, He's been erasing my comments. I'm trying to help people see the truth! kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtVzfpZ-y9i8Y5s.html

So glad it was helpful!

Amen! Praise God!

Yes ma'am, God even means being friends or developing business relations with someone unequal. I married someone I was unequally yoked with and he really became more ungodly, even while telling me the things I wanted to hear. The spirit and absence of God is unsettling and the absence of that peace is telling. Run away and just trust God to bring your husband to you. The one God created for you is out there and he will pursue you. Before God gave Eve to Adam, God ensures his boy had a home and a job. That's how He will send our husbands. Equipped.

@@kay20gators12 Amen! Thank you!🤗❤

I believe that people put too much emphasis on romantic relationships. I have been single for 15 years and I like it. Jesus said the Apostle Paul were single.

@@melodieperkins7080 people are different, some desire to be with someone and others do not I have been single 4 years but God has given me dreams and visions of my future husband God's continuous Blessings be upon you 🙏

Amen

Absolutely true pliz pray for us right person n true soulmate.ln Jesus name Amen

So glad it was helpful Jacob!

Agreed! We appreciate you, Mark!❤ May the Lord bless you and your family

God bless!

God bless!

So glad this was helpful!

God bless as you follow the Lord :)

Stop wasting this woman’s time. Marry her or move on! The Lord gives you the power of choice. God bless.

@@ladym6005 We aren't dating, just friends. The Lord gives us choice, but has His will be can ignore or follow. Things this important can't be moved on without a clear and confirmed yes from the Lord.

I commend you for yielding to the Holy Spirit, instead of just going with your emotions and that she is godly. As someone that has had several counterfeits (got "confirmations", they were leaders in the church, etc.), I am appreciating and thankful for the wait because God knows the truth and is protecting us. Pray for wisdom and discernment, for anything hidden to be revealed, and for peace in the situation (whether to move forward in courtship or mutual separation). It may just be about timing, or maybe even though it seems like a good thing, its not God's very best for you. Remain faithful and strong in Him.

@@hadassaheritage Thank you for the advice and words of encouragement. Asking for hidden things to be revealed is a good addition to my prayers for her. I love her, but I love and wish to follow the Lord more. I sure hope it's a timing thing, but I suspect it a no. We can hope, prayerful hope is not a sin. However, as we wait, we know that every good and perfect gift comes from our Father, if it's not from Him it's not good and perfect. Blessings for you Kristina.

You are so welcome!

God bless you too!

My pleasure! So glad it was helpful!

You're so welcome! All glory to God!

So glad it was helpful Concetta!

The Lord bless you in all your decisions 😃

Hey baby it's me I am the one for you. Hahaha jk.

Our Heavenly Father still cares for you deeply. He cares about your heart. Who can understand all His ways. It’s gonna be alright.

Our Heavenly Father still cares for you deeply. He cares about your heart. Who can understand all His ways. It’s gonna be alright.

This

Yea.. he still didn't answer :(

Good for you sis! 🙌🏾

Glad you enjoyed it!

So glad it was timely!

@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Always Mark ! :-)

Amen Ladenna, God bless as you keep following Jesus!

You are very welcome, all glory to God!

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Amen, God first always!

Be open to being pursued, but if he don’t, then don’t wait. Or just don’t miss out on someone new because of him. You said you weren’t necessarily waiting, so it sounds like this is what you been doing but you’re just curious about him. Just guard your heart and be open (maybe flirt), but let his actions speak. If he ain’t serious about you, don’t be serious about him, but let him know it’s all based on him. You probably know all this, though. It’s easy to see you’re wise. I wouldn’t worry about fitting into his world so much. I think if a man wants a woman in his life, he’s going to adjust everything else to fit her in it. I understand the dream thing, because I’ve had dreams that were misleading for me, so just be careful with those. Looking back, (in my situation) it was just my flesh and I liked her a lot. They were just projections of my thoughts throughout the day.

I know someone close to me,a family memeber, in a similar situation to yours and they are still waiting after all these years.They were in their early 20s then.They're now in their 50s now.Her child is grown and getting married before her. The father still hasn't truly commited and giving her false hope of a happy ending.When someone loves you nothing will stop them from coming to you. You only get one life. I only say this with love I hope God opens your eyes to see what you deserve and how precious you are💗

@@prettyalina7237 well there is this Hebrew Israelite and he wants me and I don’t want him because I can’t stand obese men am I making wrong judgments on him because of his appearance or should I keep going and be single because I been seeking a man my entire life and I think I need a break🙄😩🤧🙁

@@LifeAboutToya I can tell you from my personal experience. *Please* don't date someone you aren't attracted to. Some people aren't meant for us.Take it as a sign from God that,that person isn't the one for you. 1 experience I've had is a man who I met a few years ago. (The similar situation about not being attracted to that type of person.) He is very kind,loves children,active in the church but as for me. There are quality about him in his character ect that I did not like. Extremely expressive in a more feminine way(it may be his culture) and extremely talkative. He is not gay but as for myself I had to decline spending anymore time getting to know him in a group setting and distance myself. But pretaining to what you were saying. I noticed he was on the heavier side when he first came to our church but getting larger by the year.Some time had passed,I remember we were in the elevator in our church with some others. Someone had said there was extra food & did anyone want more?(we had enough.) He hopped out of that elevator forgot what he was going to do and scurried so quickly to get more at the church bbq. I thought then, for certain,personally,for _myself_ and my life "I can't have a man who won't take care of his health.The man God has for me needs to be there for our future children. Active and being alive." I could almost imagine him being out of breath running after children. This isn't what I desire. He is still a good man and he ended up marrying a woman who completely understands him because she has family that's similar to him in his mannerisms ect even though they are form different cultures He is Brazilian and she is french. In fact, he found out he's called to be a pastor and he works with the children's ministry. It's Gods purpose to make him talkative & expressive to reach the kids. Especially during covid & having church via online. His wife is a daughter of a previous pastor at our church. She is a nicu nurse and loves children too. You see? This couple found each other organically.God brought them together. For certain I know they are right for one another. So take it from me. Where there's smoke there's fire. I know it's the opposite. There's no spark so don't force it. I'd be fooling myself a few years ago trying to "like" indivisuals when I know I am not attracted to them.You ever garden? Some things just take place naturally. You can't force love nor attaction. So free your mind from thinking that you need to settle. Gods word said the eye has not see nor the ear has not heard nor has it entered the heart of man the things God has instore for us. In encourage you to read songs of Solomon. The whole book is talking about love and character and how beautiful and perfect to that person their loved one is and likewise.Love is beautiful. Gods love is a reflection in marriages. You cant force it,its just something that grows and is. Lastly wanted to share a joke but also a statement. "One thing you don't run for is a bus,a train or man because when one leaves another arrives."

God bless as you follow the Lord

I had the same experience. I meet this guy and felt deeply connected to him . We complemented each other so well . He felt like a best friend to me loved spending time with him . But it wasn’t the right time for us to get together. I really pray that if he’s the one that God may unite us back . 🙏🏽

@@tabitha.mwihaki4964 Praying for you!

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The Lord is not one to bring confusion. Please pray and fast to ask God to reveal why you are losing your peace. You never know what you are not seeing or missing but surely Jehovah Jireh lives within us, always providing!

@Dye Dye yeah I feel you on that too, but I've boldly asked for this specific thing and have been praying and waiting and do not want a replacement. I figure nothing is too big or impossible for Him to bring to pass in His time. That being said, I am open to what He brings buutttt I still really want what I asked for lol.

@Dye Dye I have let him go in my heart as far as waaahh i want him back now😭😭😭 knowing that this is just horrible timing even if it were to happen. God has never let me down, or given me anything half baked. Him not being a believer and our current life situations are not conducive to that blessing. All we really can do is put these men in God's hands. No matter what we see or dont see in the natural, God is always working! He changed us and our lives, and He can change them too!

@Dye Dye yesss I pray and talk to Him about everything! really do need to put Him on every day like you get dressed in the morning. Absolutely essential to get through life at all times. He knows we are feeling frustrated and waiting, but he is patient with us and understands our feelings. He will never give us anything outside of His timing.

Sis, this is confirmation, we who are God's children already know.

Yes to what u said. We look at instances you cannot explain, fasting and prayer and verses you read. Sometimes it's audible but you have to let yourself be open to hearing God speak beyond audibly. I suggest watching this it will help you understand how he speaks. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jZxlg8dyqrHKeJ8.html