When a man earns money he dreams of giving his wife the best life. When a woman earns money she feels like she doesn’t need a man. Crazy

I was married at 22 and was fortunate enough to make $80,000 a year. We got a divorce in our 30s because she said she need to find herself. I'm currently engaged and she has four cats. Kevin is telling no lies about these women

When I was in high school, my father always told me that my husband is not in my school, he's already in University. 🙌🏽

My grandmother was married at 15. She had 9 children. She never graduated high school. At yet she was highly esteemed and loved by her husband and entire family

Women spent the last 2 decades telling men "I don't need a man" and are now surprised that men listened.

I just figured KS out. He's not trying show women how to get HV men. He trying to turn women off of HV men, and give them a dose of reality. You're average, you need an average man. Accept it

His last monologue in this video was poignant and touching. “That dash between when you’re born and when you die is supposed to be filled with people. Not money.” WOW. Ain’t that the truth. I can’t imagine the pain and regret I’d feel if I held out for a rich man instead of marrying a good man like my husband. When I’m sick, he cares for me. When I was out of my mind with depression and anxiety during post partum, he cared for me and our new born daughter even when he was up at 4:00 am to go to work. If I need help, he’ll drop what he’s doing to be there for me. He works his ass off to provide for us. I wouldn’t trade him for a rich man or for anything else. He’s what I want to fill my dash between my birth and death dates with.

Because this young lady was not arrogant and was respectful, EVERYONE had the opportunity to hear and fully understand what Kevin has been communicating. Excellent content.

I’ve been housewife going on 21 years with 3 kids. Kevin is absolutely right! 🎯 From what I see, Modern Women these days aren’t ready to be a housewife. I learned from my Grandmother because my Mother was a Modern PHD Woman, married to my father. I watched my Mother over the years disrespect and neglect my Dad and felt sorry for him until he finally left my mother and married a woman who treated him like a King. I was 14 when my parents divorced and til this day my Mother is still by herself with her PHD and lonely AF even though she won’t admit it. Thank God for my Grandmother who was a housewife. I grew up watching and learning from her. She catered to my Grandfather with so much love affection. I always said that’s what I want my relationship to be like. She taught me how to cook at an early age, how to write and balance a checkbook. Because of her my daughters are able to learn from me and my son is able to learn from his father the way a relationship is suppose to be.

My "PhD" wife said she didn't need me during an argument. Cool. Test time. Our dryer broke. She tells me, and I remind her that I'm not needed. She ordered a dryer but every delivery would be at least two-three weeks. Instead of taking the old one out of the basement and picking up a new one on my way home, I just took me and my kids clothes to the laundromat. After a week or so, my daughter knocks on my bedroom door. *knock knock* "Yes?" "Mommy said please come help her. she she needs you." 😂

This sister was very nice and pleasant and Kevin dropped his guard so she could see the difference. He uses his knowledge to educate and deliberate direction like a father. Daddy don’t care how you feel he cares that you know what’s real. That’s the innergy I’ve always got from the brother. Rest in love brother.

Her femininity brought out a different KS. A fun side, chilled side. Great convo you two!

If a woman has high school diploma, making 40,500 for the rest of her life,....a man would accept her, but women won't accept men that make that.... Great math, Kevin!

Value a man making $40k a year Share a man making $400k a year Choose one, women

One year later and this video STILL packs a punch!

This one is among my favorites Kevin has done and much praise to the lady in this video...I wish more like her grew on trees!!

35 year old single mother with no domestic skills, $20,000 in debt: "I deserve a high value man!" Me: "Should I choose her, or a 20 year old with no kids...such a difficult choice!" 👀

I got married at 23 and my wife was 22. We were young but we wanted to figure it out together! So many people now a days think marriage is 30+ year olds and that is very weird to me. Why not build a life with someone instead of trying to get on board with someone’s program when they are probably stuck in their ways. It’s a beautiful thing to grow old with my wife who I’ve been with since highschool. She has stuck by my side from the time I was broke as shit from Detroit Michigan and now we live in AZ and I’m a realtor making good money now and she will enjoy every bit of it because she was with me “shooting in the gym”! People need to grow up and get it together!

My late wife was 25 when we got married in 1994. We had three children, while both of us were going to college. My kids are now 27, 26, and 24. Marry to the right person early, work together to build a solid family relationship and foundation. Bless her soul. Now, it's difficult dating to find the next right person in my age bracket. Marry early, is a good thing.

My grandparents were married for 63 years .. They stayed in separate bedrooms for the last 30 years of their marriage! .. They never divorced back in those days .. They actually honored their promises to GOD "till death us do part" 🙏🏽

She turned down 3 proposals but if given a chance to speak on black men she would be the first to say that men just wanna play the field and don't wanna get married. You can't make this shit up🤷‍♂️

I wish I had this dude to listen to when I was 15

“I just feel like” said every woman ever!🤦🏾‍♂️ Absolutely ignoring reality.

She was really sweet and willing to learn. I enjoy these peaceful and productive conversations.I am still watching and learning god father. it is only now that you are gone that I miss you the most. Iam on a mission to watch all your videos,hoping that I can carry on doing your work in the community. Thank you Kevin,for everything you have done for us black men in particular.

She has the nerve to ask if money has power, while eliminating all dating options who make less than her. 🤔

Women being more mature than men it’s a myth.

She actually seemed to take the advice well and even seemed to learn something! She seems like a nice woman who needed some guidance. Good job Kevin!

Kevin hit my situation right on the money. I was 34 when I married my age 29 wife. I met her at 21 and we grew together. At 41 I have my safety career and I am on track to hit $80k financial stride at age 44. Both vehicles are paid off and we have a better financial situation as a married couple than we would have had as single adults. Ladies listen and take notes. I luckily did this all on my own without guidance from any male leadership. Now I am ready to reach back and give advice to the young people out there starting their lives.

“So you think money is power??” Then proceeds to not have the same loyalty for a man making less money 😂😳

These women find it so offensive to be married in their 20s but regret it in their 40s since they are alone.

This helps regular men appreciate their value with their regular income. Men are a prize. 🏆

I think this is the best conversation I’ve seen him have and I’ve binged watched like all these videos. I felt like he said things the right way and she really responded positively. Great advice

Why is it that these females are older and will say they were young and dumb when they made certain mistakes, but if you talked to them when they were 20-24 they would say that they are old enough and grown enough to take care of themselves.

When I married my wife she was 21. I was 34 and had my own consulting business. I have not made less than 200K since I was 38 and I am now 60. We had 12 kids and are still together. Kevin does know what he is talking about. By the way, my wife's goal was to get married and have a large family. She did not go to university.....but was very much prepared to pursue her profession....wife and mother.

A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything. A woman is tested when he loses it

Marriage is about commitment. Love is not butterflies, it's comfort, responsibility and being thoughtful of your spouse. And that comes in time together. Working over the rough spots

The most painful thing is, this woman would probably have made an excellent partner for somebody, but women have filled her head with so much crap that she doesn't even realise it until it's too late...

my mom had 5 of us and she started from age 22-29. she married my dad at 21. they been married since 1977.

One of *the* best episodes on practical advice, with insights and explanations, that Kevin has produced. Top shelf info and wisdom.

Kevin your show has taught me so much about life and our society as a whole. i really appreciate you man. you turned on a light bulb in my head that i was never expecting to turn on.

•Most Women don't want to settle for a man that other women don't want. •These Women want men that other women want •Those men want to have more women •Most men don't want to settle for a woman that other men had

Women logic: "It's settling if I, the woman, make more and the man makes less. But a man is not settling for me if he's making more than me." Kings, y'all need to wake up!!

One of the best segments ever!!! "That dash between your birth date and death date is supposed to be filled with life.........people" I love that statement. Love will come later. Marriage is about duty. This segment was solid gold!!!

the tragic thing is that most of these "careers" that these women needed to go into debt for are completely unessential. My career is also unessential. But I'm a guy, so I still need to have that unessential career

Why is it so hard for other women to be like this caller? they had different outlooks and didn't agree with everything but they still let each other talk and had a normal adult conversation.

"I'm old fashioned and very submissive" coming from a modern woman is the equivalent of saying "I am a female chameleon and can change my behavior to whatever results in my own advantage"

The last 5 minutes were really good. The lady was really listening and Kevin opened up.

I’m 21 and I decided at a young age to want to get married and start a family. I finally found a woman who believe the same, and it’s crazy cause she’s 18.

“Just living” = adding up bodies to their graveyard 🪦

Every KS video is the same and I love it!😂 Woman: I want a Ferrari KS: but you only have $20.. Woman: ye but like I feel like I deserve a Ferrari KS: Ma’m let’s be realistic.. you have $20 Woman: ye but like that seems unfair KS: what the French toast is wrong with you? Let’s do the math. A ferrari is 300k, you have $20, how is that fair to the Ferrari dealership? Woman: ye I hear ya.. but like..

I really enjoyed the pleasant conversation between the 2 of them. Kevin chuckling and making jokes is kinda cool.

"10 times the a$$"-you can't make this stuff up. Dude is savage with his rundown

I dont understand how a woman can do all the "I'm independent and got my own" stuff and then be surprised at being alone. Thats literally what independent means. Like they like to say keep that same energy. You made your choices.

She wasn't ready to get married at 22 because she wasn't done riding the CC.

This is one of his most, probably top 2 discussions that is real insightful and well received by the listener, reality Ralph, is real and as soon as we respect that, instead of living a fantasy, we'll be better for it. Good ass conversation KS

possibly one of the most underrated video on KS' channel...this is medicinal

This is probably the most productive conversation you have ever had with a woman. She may not still respect the under $50,000 club but she still gets everything else.

Ladies it isn’t hard I was dating a RICH man and he made it clear by the third date that other women would be included. I chose not to continue dating him bc I’m not into that life. He’s probably married or in an open relationship and I’m with my pragmatic middle class husband. Very happy. You women need to know what you’re signing up for. I don’t blame rich men for making you options if you letthem. In my case he was open about it.

Wow when Kevin said would you be submissive & everything to a non high earner no matter how good a man he is & how quickly she said no...... A Powerful point!

It’s always refreshing to watch a vid where the sister actually listens and try to absorb what Kevin is saying…

This is the video that really sums up what KS mission is all about. He doesn't hate women he trying to help. This was a whole vibe, like an Uncle passing down wisdom to a niece on how to make the right decisions with her life before it's too late.

Gents, if you're married to a good woman, hold onto her tight - for no reason - and thank the heavens you don't have to deal with this madness.

What a fantastic conversation! I hope this young lady kept a download of this for herself. Rest well Godfather!

I hope and pray she received this and apply it to her life. I'm 42 just now getting it.

That's crazy that she admitted to denying all 3 proposals because in her mind, she did not find the men valuable enough. That means for the length of time she was with each man she was draining their resources dry knowing the whole time she would never go further in marriage

It’s sad there’s not much respect for average men when average men make the world infrastructure possible but somebody has to do the dirty work shout out to all my tradesmen with average incomes ladies get a man with some skills construction, plumbing, Electrical, truck driver, hvac, welder, mechanic etc these men become more valuable when times get tough even hvm have to call us when they stuff breaks men who can use their hands to build or fix something never goes out of style.... good show Kevin 👍🏿

I have been married 21 (married at 24) years to a wonderful man...my highschool sweetheart 💕. 3 kids , still happily married. We have been watching your videos, you are doing so much for the black community....keep it up!!! I have to say this is one of your best 👌🏾 I will be sending this video to my nieces, all in their twenties ranging from 23 -29 none married.

this is one his best sessions where he presents his points, she is somewhat realistic, receptive and cooperative engaging in conversation.

My parents got married at a young age. They're Jamaican 🇯🇲. I am the last of 5 children. I found out years after when I got married in my mid 20s that my mom hooked up with my dad because he was the bread winner back then. When they arrived in the US mom thought it would be the same financially with dad. They learned that it wasn't so easy. So my mom disrespected my dad for years until they separated. When I spoke with my dad he told me "its di best decision mi eva mek" and I'm happy for him. My mom is like the modern women.....sad that she's by herself now in a big house but yet trying to give me advice on my marriage. I told her marriage is for better or for worse and she is not allowed to give me advice at all. Sounds harsh but my hubby that molded me into the better woman I am today. He taught me ALOT WHAT MY PARENTS NEVER TAUGHT ME AS A WOMAN...as a fearing man of God, alpha mindset and the best Father to our kids, protector and so much more. Just a few traits that I will never take for granted..men? Know what your worth. Women? I feel sorry for those in their 30s with no decision on ya love life.

The Derrick Jaxn types helped create these types. We all saw how that worked out in real life.

Great interview, she was a really nice lady, I enjoyed her humor and pleasant disposition.

Kevin is doing good for the community. Much Respect, my brother.

-Would you be submissive to him if he was making 43.5 a year ? -no i won't even give him a chance . - then why would he only have one woman when he's high value ? The godfather guys .

not going to lie, one of the best KS conversations I have seen so far! and likely because she engaged him more respectfully than 90% of the rest of the women who come on this show

He is so right. I have daughter & I teach, train, guide her. She used to get mad when I say "I'm never gonna get you married off", lol. The knees & armpits drove me crazy. Now at 23, she's obsessed with keeping her body one tone.

The trigger will bust up the projected image every time. Brilliant my man.

"it should be very simple. You go from your father's house to your husband's house. That's perfect."

My grandparents got married at 18 and 17 and they've been married for 62 years.

This has been the smoothest conversation ever.

What the "French Toast!" Gets me everytime!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

My mom got married at 15 and stayed married to my father until he died. She married again in less than 6 months. She has practically been married all her life. It baffles me that this generation is immature compared to previous generations. They’ll gladly have children but getting married is somehow very horrifying.

You can’t be submissive cooperative and loving bc he makes less than 50k a year. WOW!!! 😯

I wince every time I hear someone say they have been "previously engaged", framing it as some sort of accomplishment instead of a tragedy.

34:54 "you're talking about traveling, you can't even live" lmao!!! 💀💀💀😂😂😂

You can’t negotiate genuine desire. If they don’t want a normal guy, there’s nothing that can be done. We just have to go out separate ways

I been told most women don’t mature until their 45. That’s when theirs bodies don’t look the same and have hit the wall.

Damn, Kevin brings it home. Showing the necessity of duty in marriage is so clear as he breaks it down. I love it. Men know it’s about duty already, though. Or they don’t commit if they don’t have what it takes to do their duty. We stay single

One thing I always told my female friend is to never get advice from other women. To this day, she understands what I meant.

As a single Black-Man, in NYC, with no children. I can also testify that I have never dated a woman who could cook better than me. 2 that knew the basics. Neither of them was Black.

You made great points as per usual. She was really cute, with a radiant smile, and a great attitude. Most importantly, she had manners, she listened, a Man can definitely work with her. I want her to find her Husband. Great conversation. Great show.

She is very attractive. And the fact that she listened without constantly arguing and needing to be right made this a pleasure to watch.

I made so many mistakes devalued myself and woke up when it was too late. Now my duty is to stop chasing unrealistic and to not be a home recker destroying what I used my own hands to create and now believe I deserve more when I deserve What I created. Wish I knew you when I was 15 my story is a long one but I take responsibility for my now and its my duty to make best of what I have created. Thank you Kevin. Wish I could actually talk to you one day

Her femininity added 1.5 to 2 points to her overall beauty

How can the modern woman mentally mature when they're rarely held accountable for their actions? They go through life being "liberated" without the fear of *CONSEQUENCES* for their bad choices 🤷‍♂️

Man, this was fantastic. Honest conversation in good faith.

As a holder of 2 Masters Degrees I was proud to be the wife of my Master Plumber! We had 24 wonderful years years until he passed away 12/22/22 with stage IV Pancreatic Cancer! Miss you Babe.

Kevin LITERALLY laid everything out for her so clearly. When he asked “what experience do you need from the outside world to be a better wife?” .... she said “just living” ..... 😑

" i was too young" translation " I haven't been on the skreets enough "

I already respected KS but this video made me really made that respect go higher. Rest peacefully!

I laugehd out loud when Kevin said "if a high value man gets with you hes settling".