Especially as a part Asian woman… We are taught to not speak up and not express what it is you want. I am working on busting that energy. Thank you for the video!
@parrotshootist30043 жыл бұрын
It's as if being taught to swim, then cast off to run 1000m race, against others, some not only learnt to walk but run too. Then needing to catch up.
@garouuchiha40413 жыл бұрын
Communist belief system lifestyle shoving ones mouth to digest to live this horrible system.
@user-ey9fm5my3s3 жыл бұрын
Asian women are raised as codependents. Also Asian men. Basically Asians are raised to keep unhappy relationships and wearing masks and doing excessive people-pleasing and self sacrificing. Europeans are raised as total narcissists : sacrificing others for the sake of self , not knowing how to negociate and find agreements , obsession about individuality that ends up in making themselves extra lonely (self-destructing individualism) . There is work to do on both sides.
@MHrealestate3 жыл бұрын
I know what you mean, I also think it’s a female problem; as a part asian and middle eastern woman, I can say we have the same issue on both sides of not speaking up with what we want
@infinitydreamzz3 жыл бұрын
You want to "bust that energy" but not at the expense of the true energy of others. As teal said when and where we can we should work things out together. If that's not possible then terminate the malfunctioning relationship instead of busting your own desires at the expense of someone else's, because you feel you've been oppressed for so long as an Asian, a woman or whatever
@the1betterpodcast843 жыл бұрын
If you do not follow your desires, you will not align with your destiny.
@infinitydreamzz3 жыл бұрын
@@tobia5267 so you have a desire to be free from desire. Hmm 🤔
@TheBestLife21843 жыл бұрын
This channel is a cancer on you. There's an easy way to stop the evil Democrats, billionaires, & RINOs. It's at:::::: Teach Others Daily. Make those 3 words into 1, add the usual dotCom at the end, & go there. Expect your life to likely hugely change in 10 minutes or less.
@fayzabensalem87223 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@shrineofbeats64473 жыл бұрын
@@tobia5267 what if it was a gift in disguise? Who is to say a desire is illusory, while it could be your guide map or a compass?
@leahflower99242 жыл бұрын
I think the problem is sometimes what you desire or want and what is expected of you and responsibilities are opposite things like everything I ever truly wanted to do had nothing to do with responsibility or repitition
@Noblesse1013 жыл бұрын
I desire to have all my desires fulfilled ❤
@Menaceblue33 жыл бұрын
Totally *desirable* statement!
@Noblesse1013 жыл бұрын
@@Menaceblue3 Thanks and may you fulfill your desires beautiful soul ❤🙏
@presentfuture75633 жыл бұрын
A-frickin'-men.
@missstorme27713 жыл бұрын
Ooohhhh that sounds nice!
@moulee74482 жыл бұрын
Love it
@AlexanderDiFiore3 жыл бұрын
Your eloquence is astounding!
@sweetspleen7953 жыл бұрын
Her guild meditation are awsome!
@graveyardghost26033 жыл бұрын
Truly, it is!
@zaazgurts13243 жыл бұрын
Her pronunciation/accent too is wonderful. She articulates perfectly. I have never heard yet such clear English from Americans . ))
@TheBestLife21843 жыл бұрын
Oh for the love of God, please get real There's an easy way to stop these evil Democrats, billionaires, & RINOs. It's at:::::: Teach Others Daily. Make those 3 words into 1, add the usual dotCom at the end, & go there. Expect your life to likely hugely change in 10 minutes or less.
@TealSwanOfficial3 жыл бұрын
Incase You'd Rather Read About It Instead: In order to live a healthy, happy, fulfilling life, you must come to love desire instead of be afraid of desire.
@arbividz3 жыл бұрын
you’re the greatest of all time
@NicholasTranscends3 жыл бұрын
The fear of desire comes from lack mentality in my opinion! Gratitude to you Teal... for you help through the years! Nick....
@sararazeghi3 жыл бұрын
Hi. I cannot find the video titled" I'd you want to be happy don't do this". It seems to not exist or be visible. Can someone please provide a link to it? Thanks
@sweetspleen7953 жыл бұрын
@@NicholasTranscends Yhea true! But you're gaslighting people who suffer of it when you say that in this way.
@amandajean49313 жыл бұрын
Can addiction stem from a suppressed desire ? Also what happens if a person is afraid of fulfilling a desire as past experience has brought about too much negative contrast, they now feel stuck.
@TheEladriel3 жыл бұрын
Desire should be taken for both its positive and negative aspects. It is the flame of life and very necessary but as all fire it can destroy when it gets the best of us. To deny desire will surely lead to misfortune as the unconscious elements will become conscious in the most disagreeable ways. But to give in to desire without reservation is also dangerous as you will be giving yourself away to be burnt by the fires of passion, needless to say this is where recklessness meets the sharp edges that unchecked desire produces. A certain level of composure is always necessary especially when dealing with something as fundamentally volatile as what we most want.
@olumideo53283 жыл бұрын
Wonderfully said
@brittney31563 жыл бұрын
Yes, love!
@master11manifestor3 жыл бұрын
What he said.. true story.
@robr23033 жыл бұрын
Exactly..desire has to be controlled and not worshiped. Self control is key.
@annstewart45423 жыл бұрын
I have learnt from my mother to suppress my own needs and desires. I have always seen her serving others unselfishly. I feel guilty for meeting any of me desires as an adult.
@seeliekeely Жыл бұрын
Just integrated this lesson. For a very long time I created a huge distraction of my inherent desire of being adored and protected, and it turned into a major trigger based around others getting that very need met by being vulnerable in a way I could not access. My trauma came to a head today. A worst nightmare of mine came true. I sat in a somatic felt experience if that pain and from it, came a tiny desire revealed to me, that had long disguised itself as a horrific monster. For anyone reading, your trauma is there to teach you so much. Sit with it, listen to your body's sensations, and you may find that, like me, a desire reveals itself to you like a little gift informing you about your neglected needs. 💕 I hope this speaks to someone.
@katharineanonymous69925 ай бұрын
Thank you I needed this
@EveofPyrite21 күн бұрын
What do we do If we feel we don't deserve what we desire ?
@the1betterpodcast843 жыл бұрын
I am afraid of desire because I don't think I am good enough
@randomuser25793 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't be afraid of desire if I looked like Teal :)
@ashlierbz3 жыл бұрын
Same
@n4rzul3 жыл бұрын
This is probably THE most common reason most people have? It is also not true.
@shumeister10593 жыл бұрын
You can have anything you want as long as you don't tamper with other's desires.
@flyeagl12 күн бұрын
You are absolutely good enough. I know how you feel, as I've felt like that for many years. It's a straight out lie for anyone to tell anyone that they are not good enough, because we are. It's how we are created.
@jyla12663 жыл бұрын
Hi Ms. Teal. My mother died almost 20 years ago, which brought a lot of trauma in my life. Now that I am healing, I always consider you as my mother figure. Thank you!
@shantanupandey51743 жыл бұрын
She died or mixed back to soil?
@flip03453 жыл бұрын
@@shantanupandey5174 cmon now
@KindnessHappinessClub3 жыл бұрын
@@shantanupandey5174 😳🙄
@sinikkanava3 жыл бұрын
Sending loving energy to your way. ✨
@river-jay55363 жыл бұрын
@@shantanupandey5174 really?
@flyeagl12 күн бұрын
Teal, you are the most awesome person I've met online. Your insight is so profound and just nails it for me. I'm actually battling to find the correct words to express what I feel inside. I will rely on telepathic capabilities for you to realize what I'm feeling, if you read this. Thank you so much. You are just incredible. Everything I've pondered about the last 4 years specifically you confirm what life has taught me once I woke up to myself. Astounding.
@user-hf6dc8dk3t2 ай бұрын
Teal I love you and can't wait to meet you someday your teachings have completely changed my life and I want to express deep levels of gratitude for you
@JB-og8gn3 жыл бұрын
So perfect. This is what I needed today. As a kid, my basic needs often weren’t taken care of. When I expressed them, I was treated as though it was selfish to have basic needs. I’ve only ever been able to pursue my desires if I can find a way for them to serve others/the group. This has led me to me playing a hero/savior archetype. The idea that I can do things just for myself, and that self-love and other love are one in the same (if it is true love), has been a profound shift. I’m growing into self-love, self-compassion, self-care, but desire is still hard. I have so much programming around my desires being selfish. Thank you for presenting a vision of spirituality that isn’t constantly trying to kill or transcend the human, but rather to integrate him/her/they.
@celestialcharlotte58883 жыл бұрын
So well put! Unfortunately this parent child dynamic is the norm in society. Our physical needs are taken care of but there is no realisation of our emotional and mental needs like our desires. As soon as we expressed a desire for something we are punished and told that we are selfish. I’m so happy that you have noticed this dynamic and Are putting in the steps towards self love and integration. We need more people like you 💖
@lyrac.llamamama3 жыл бұрын
My parents put their own desires first and left me to be raised by grandparents. I've always been the type of person who believes that you must do what's expected not what you desire. Not anymore tho . I am starting to really understand . Thank you Teal always amazing and beautiful 💙💜💙💜
@MsMergal03 Жыл бұрын
Brave journey 😮 go you!
@frogjackethuman7816 ай бұрын
Relationship quality over longevity!
@The_magic_mountain333 жыл бұрын
This women helps so much.... Look how good teal looks... Wow
@akiinefaexperiencinglife3 жыл бұрын
She's beautiful
@communityorganizer56453 жыл бұрын
She is insanely beautiful and wise beyond her years
@carolinelaronda45233 жыл бұрын
Teal is magical
@louisegarner88883 жыл бұрын
Teal is authentic.
@LauraLoraVlogs3 жыл бұрын
Right 😭✨
@montelo5553 жыл бұрын
People around me have convinced me that my needs are my desires and on top of that teaching things such as "desires are the root of all evil" "desire less, be grateful for what you have" etc. I can understand why I feel the agony, the deep sense of longing for something, the depression. I know now why. I confirm now.
@sarahcouture243 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking about that! How desire happens in response to trauma... Pathological or maladaptive obsessions such as greed, power hunger, sex addiction, compulsive workaholism, etc... it’s all stemming from scarcity and unmet needs from the past. Longing for something is so painful...
@graveyardghost26033 жыл бұрын
Being a writer and an artist, I know what you say is true. Without deep desires, even obsessions, my work would never see the light of day. If you repress desire, you deny life. Wonderful video!
@brightangelz153 жыл бұрын
I know there’s a video on it already but I’d still love to know more in depth about how to realign a faulty compass. It’s such an awful feeling to think u can’t trust your own feelings after being taught that they are your guidance system. And it gets so complicated in my head when there are competing belief systems/parts. I sometimes have to mind map everything on a white board just to keep it straight 🙃
@david.walters3 жыл бұрын
Emotional trauma can win over you...ONLY IF YOU LET IT! The heart is where your truest and eternal self resides. It is the absolute and complete foundation of your core being. Let it guide you. The heart has always been beside you. 🙏🏽🌿💚
@bernardbujard99443 жыл бұрын
Pause and temporarily deny your desires and you will find what your heart longs for. For, in an emotional rush or fit of anger, how do you know if any desire of yours is where your truest and eternal self resides unless you listen to your heart. One work from the heart, however small, done secretly, without desire that it be known, is worth more than a thousand done with the desire that people know of them. We are obliged to be careful and understand what we are doing. Make sense of something before acting and fulfilling your desires since desires lead to intent.
@master11manifestor3 жыл бұрын
Inside you
@reiloveable3 жыл бұрын
Love you forever Teal. I found you at a time in my life when I was absolutely ready to hear my truth 💖
@demonicaxeman72643 жыл бұрын
I have a lot less desires today than I did 4 years ago. Not because I achieved goals i desired, but because the pain of going through with it was no longer worth it to me. I have associated desire with pain so much, I no longer see a difference between the 2. I just have pain now and that has drastically stunted my desires. My expansion has also stunted. I’m okay with all of that.
@joshuaadamstithakayoutubel24903 жыл бұрын
Okay
@demonicaxeman72643 жыл бұрын
@@joshuaadamstithakayoutubel2490, anything to say or add?
@joshuaadamstithakayoutubel24903 жыл бұрын
@@demonicaxeman7264 You want input? What kind? Be more specific, if you want to.
@demonicaxeman72643 жыл бұрын
@@joshuaadamstithakayoutubel2490, You said “okay” as of I was addressing you, but I don’t know who you are. If that is just one word response preferred over adding something, please don’t feel afraid to elaborate.
@joshuaadamstithakayoutubel24903 жыл бұрын
@@demonicaxeman7264 By "okay" I really meant, "tell me more"
@shadowyoptimism9553 жыл бұрын
Desires are contagious, doesn't matter where and it will not be the perfect time,but it will certainly be a perfect moment, just remember self control until you meet the end goal, most get that backwards.
@shadowyoptimism9553 жыл бұрын
Uh huh why cryptocurrency?
@shadowyoptimism9553 жыл бұрын
@@tealswan9288 great will see here soon.
@ConsciousEntrepeneur3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you brought this perspectice Teal Swan, as often in the spiritual and religious communities there's a judgement over desiring material "earthly things" when in fact there is no wrong. Desire IS, working to achieve what your heart yearns is the right path, not the condemnation of others or limiting beliefs placed on you. There's INFINTE ways to reconnect with Source, there's not one path or set of beliefs.
@tmscipione13 ай бұрын
Back when I was 20, I read Hegel's Phenomenology of Spirit. One of the things I remember most from the book was his definition of desire. He is an Idealist, so the definition was essentially the Platonic Form of desire. This means that it is the perfected notion in the transcendent world of Forms that everything else here participates in, to a lesser degree. The definition of Desire is "the annihilation of the object." When we desire food, we attempt to annihilate the "objectness" of the lesser being that becomes elevated through the ideal to the higher organism in the food chain. Annihilation is never perfected, but attempted. Sexual desire in its essence is an attempt at the annihilation of mortality. See Plato Symposium discussion with Diotima about the "erotic ascent." Because Desire is the annihilation of the object, the "object" must be perceived as separable. You don't desire what you already have. Desire requires distance.
@jennyxuchi21472 жыл бұрын
"Joy is really about this never-ending process, of consistently aligning with your ever-amending desires."
@biljanao4483 жыл бұрын
Judging by the comments, so many don't understand desire as life force and are happier by relying on socially determined desires. Excellent video Teal 🙏♥️
@abesapien99303 жыл бұрын
I've followed my desires in life, and I can safely say it has brought both tremendous joy and incredible pain. Benjamin Franklin said, "If Passion drives, let Reason hold the reigns." That, if I could go back in time, would be my adjusted philosophy. Let yourself desire, but also be wise and prudent.
@ellawolf7773 жыл бұрын
By prudent i think you mean "mind your heart and nurture his needs as well by admitting the complexity of reality" There is a difference between following your desires and being impulsive
@henkverhaeren37593 жыл бұрын
I am afraid of desire because it can take control over me. But the desire I really have is to learn and work with Teal.
@henkverhaeren37593 жыл бұрын
It would be a win win for sure.
@BailelaVida3 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a lovely desire you have. Hope you pursue it...
@victorstle20873 жыл бұрын
I'm literally on an island, Galapagos, through my DESIRE to Know and Unite this beautiful Pacha Mama, and the great lighr and void beyond. Blessings.
@RelightwithKat3 жыл бұрын
Desire has got to be channelled in a productive, healthy way - the desire to learn, to create, inspire, and contribute.
@akiinefaexperiencinglife3 жыл бұрын
💯
@thaaking113 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Which she doent mention in this vide smh
@alyaaearth475510 ай бұрын
@@thaaking11bcs she said its ok to desire
@alyaaearth475510 ай бұрын
So you spend u whole life resisting ?
@emdembymy_ngocmy3 жыл бұрын
This was a very insightful video Teal! Thank you! I've answered your questions for myself and the information gained from that is so incredibly impactful! Growing up, I've had this idea that having desire is something shameful... So up until I was 28 years old, I've never even considered what I truly desired. When I did ask myself the question, I got so frustrated with myself because I didn't know the answer... I didn't know how to read my own feelings at that moment. Being more aligned with myself now, I finally am able to see my desires more clearly... All in all, it's such a wonderful journey.
@sqdec3 жыл бұрын
I did all of the written exercises while watching the video - what an intense experience! Thank you so much Teal, this definitely brought me a lot of clarity, comfort and acceptance ❤️
@tristanbhampton4442 жыл бұрын
Where are these written exercises?
@Bjornstativ2 жыл бұрын
The questions she is asking during the video :-)
@tiffany76983 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this... I shut down my sons desire the other day for something that to me seemed unimportant. This was eye opening.
@akiinefaexperiencinglife3 жыл бұрын
All that I desire exists, and my body,mind and soul needs an abundance of it
@sarahcouture243 жыл бұрын
I am afraid of desire because _____: -it makes me vulnerable to rejection or failure, and that would confirm my inadequacy. -I feel shame and guilt because of false beliefs about desire due to selfishness programming. I think I’m a bad person if I go for what I want. -if I can’t achieve or attain what I desire, I fear frustration and self criticism because it will lead to feelings of incompetency.
@lisadavie52823 жыл бұрын
What I desire desires me! 🙏💗🌈🌏
@flyeagl12 күн бұрын
Goodness me, you are precious, Teal. Your profound perception and the words you use are like ointment.
@kdubs9111 Жыл бұрын
Mindfully healing after a lifetime of trauma gave me a kind of wisdom that goes beyond my years. Finding your channel has given me unexpected validation while literally moving to a whole new life. Like the adage goes, when the student is ready… I still have a lot to learn about myself and your content is a welcome perspective. Thank you.
@mariahvankleef94513 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much teal, this exact topic was in my mouth last night, and I can’t wait to share this with my partner 💜 thank you for articulating 🙏🏼 🦋🦋🦋
@justgoogleit22793 жыл бұрын
Thank you Teal we all love you. We desire to express our gratitude and love for you and this lesson.
@pickupwisdom863 жыл бұрын
"It will never come a day where you don't feel desire"...thank you Teal!🙏
@hashtagspandas40703 жыл бұрын
Ever amending??!! We’re doomed 😭 Thanks for your work always forever
@Nancy31ox3 жыл бұрын
As introverted as I behave, if I was alone on a desert island I would try to find more people. Or make friends with animals. If I couldn't find people...I would probably just want to live a simple life moment by moment.
@suicidedegree96173 жыл бұрын
wooow, friends with animals....njaaa
@master11manifestor3 жыл бұрын
Connection and presence.. I get that!!!
@nadsnotredame3 жыл бұрын
Pursuing what you desire is not a sin, it is a birthright!
@lextor47123 жыл бұрын
excactly
@Berrith3 жыл бұрын
I’m afraid of my own desire because people think I’m selfish, when all I want is to have enough peace and joy that I may share it with the world and make everyone’s day, everyday...
@Berrith3 жыл бұрын
I’m afraid of other people’s desires because they might want too much from me, and I can’t satisfy them. If I can’t satisfy them, I feel guilty. And they may feel like I was selfish, because I didn’t give more 😭
@a.g.53963 жыл бұрын
Pretty well constructed trap. 🙄
@razipage113 жыл бұрын
Source information at its best
@patricepeul96043 жыл бұрын
I fined to fulfill my spontaneous desires most difficult. And let stop my self because I have to go alone. Or the desire to get a huge or give a hug to my partner who is scared to be huged Thanks for the video red to listen again to get it in my brain
@Kat917793 жыл бұрын
Dearest Teal. I love this video! And I can't tell you how much I LOVE YOU!! You are a blessing to the planet! Your book Shadows to Dawn has helped me IMMENSELY where almost nothing else before did, in all my years of searching. Now I have made it a habit to read one Tool each day. Tool 1 on the 1st of the month, Tool 2 on the 2nd of the month, and so on. There are 29 Tools so it works perfectly to start that process over every month. I love the book and adore you. Eternally grateful! 🙏💕 ♥ 💜 ❤ 💖 💛 💕 ♥ 💜 ❤ 💖 💛 💕 ♥ 💜
@Droggarth3 жыл бұрын
My greatest desire is space exploration with a starship of my own. Obviously the absence of it has caused me intense pain and anger for over 20 years
@user-ey9fm5my3s3 жыл бұрын
go to physics degree and engineering degree. Go study , do whatever it takes to build spacecraft then. Universities allow people over 30 to study whatever they want there.
@Droggarth3 жыл бұрын
@@user-ey9fm5my3s The tech I need to build my craft requires not only high grade materials and a spatial field propulsion but also a faster and more efficient physical brain which I don't have yet. Also human schools currently have a very inefficient way of learning and I hate it
@user-ey9fm5my3s3 жыл бұрын
@@Droggarth no excuuuuseeeeees . Then change your braaaaain.
@Droggarth3 жыл бұрын
@@user-ey9fm5my3s You have or know someone who has any spare genetical engineering/modification equipment laying around I could use? If not then I'll just kill off this current body within the next 10-15 years as I have planned
@misaberry3 жыл бұрын
Keep trying and keep believing. If you get far enough maybe the military will take you in to work on reverse engineering alien space crafts.
@ShanitaDoosh3 жыл бұрын
Okay I've never met anyone more wise smart and knowing then Teal... Her videos help me thru so much and my own awakening in life which has been scary at times... thank you for putting yourself out there and making this videos...I'm sure others feel the same xx blessings to you
@rozaSkroza3 жыл бұрын
Tealie 💜
@thehighpriestess7710 ай бұрын
I now have a healthy relationship to desire. I accept my desires. They are like directions pointing me forward ❤
@jordanfalkowski69243 жыл бұрын
A man can take a leap of faith and follow his desire, bvt what it can cost is family, home, dignity, essentially shattering a whole way of life. :(
@lextor47123 жыл бұрын
True. But if you don't follow your desires at all - what if at the end of your life you end up with regrets that weigh tons?
@fortune_roses3 жыл бұрын
My Lilith moon is in Taurus... I definitely grapple with this often
@lilleatejaellisian33483 жыл бұрын
Many people here are commenting about not their fear of their desires, but their powerlessness in achieving their very desires. In this case, I would say perhaps consider amending your desires to turn them into things that actually do remain within the frame of your own power, then learn to love and embrace those newly revised desires. This takes a heightened level of acceptance with life’s truths as they present to us only when we truly listen. Through this amendment process, however, we will gain not only more empowerment, but more joy of life, as Teal mentions in her conclusion statement. Blessings to all~
@roaldkamman10912 жыл бұрын
Great video Teal! I happen to be making a series about want vs desire. I will share this video at the end. It's not about competition, it's about quality of service and I think you do a great job at explaining this from a different angle than me and filling in a lot of gaps I didn't quite explain as deeply as you did here.
@0KaitoShion03 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! ❤️ Thank you so much for all your work and the healing you bring to the world. Thanks to you so many inner dynamics can finally be understood on a fundamental level. I appreciate you and your healing. 🙏✨🌸
@gurudra3 жыл бұрын
The very nature of desire is that it remains unfulfilled🙏
@janbalaban52683 жыл бұрын
I exceptionally agree, this time. It seems to me that old eastern gurus were right on this. Teal is not.
@addhoc2563 жыл бұрын
I don’t get that. You could do wat you love doing everyday and desire doing it it every morning still. The desire could grow
@nephthyz29903 жыл бұрын
Not if you fulfill the desire. But a new desire will pop up after that. Which is what gives life momentum and expansion. As Teal says, even the desire to not have desire is still a desire
@addhoc2563 жыл бұрын
@@nephthyz2990 indeed. I mean: . lets say your desire is to play the guitar, then you get the guitar and you play it. Ok the first months suck then youll be able to play and you enjoy it and you forfilled your desire; however, now you enjoy it even more, you learn more about chords etc more than you could have desired at the start because you didnt know that. So you ecpress your feelings and write songs yourself etc etc. So the desire grows. Same with relations. Some desires are: you had your fill been thete done that bought the tshirt on to the next. But some desires grow and become a red thread throughout your life or a larger period in your life. Its not always that if you forfill it it dissapears as seems to be the premis of the statement above. To think that a burning overwhelming desire will dissapear when its forfilled it means to me: those types of desires were a projection: once you got it you dont want it anymore. A real intrinsic desire could grow as the fire flares up when the experience feeds you. Maybe there is an undertone in every desire "need to know what that is like" versus "need to Be that": the need to merge that experience and that vibe into my life; not to do but to be. But we only know the difference once we experienced the forfillment of the desire: only then you know if it start to be part of you, or if its a shadow part projection: exposing the way to find your true desire. So either way to follow desires will expand you. / I totally agree with Teal and Im not with the buddist view of finding expansion via denying desire . I dont like that detachment I hear all the time in the yoga school " its about the road not about the destination" I really dont agree: without destination there is no road: the road is all about the destination. If you dont desire you are detached of everything and that to me feels like the opposite of enlightenment: its indifference. Im so glad Teal acknowledges the need to need and is critical of spiritual groups that deny emotional needs and spiritually bypass (her video titled 'spiritual bypassing' is wat got me hooked to her filosophy: finally a guru that puts into words what i was wondering all along: why are my spiritual friends getting shallower and more aloof more disconnected the more they meditate: they use it to flee their problems). I know in my particular case my job is now to feel feelings and merge desires and emotional needs in my life. Some dreams want to become reality but I hope they will stay and add color to my life . Its a dot on the horizon now never getting closer so I need to realize: I am here standing at the dot on the horizon right here, its everywhere and just need to let it in. Work in progress:)
@krystalizedmagic48943 жыл бұрын
Actually...desires can be fulfilled. I desired to have my own Flower Garden. I started buying seeds and studying different kinds of plants. Later on my grandma and Brother started helping me plant and days after days my flowers were blooming. We watered them, they were expressed to the sunlight and where we live gives off a good balance of temperature. I finally created my garden. I am happy and happy about my garden. Now that I have my garden, I always embrace how beautiful they are and when I sit outside...when the sun sets and its golden hour, I just sit and look at the view. It all gives me a sense of peace and welcoming. I don't get tired of my happiness for my garden. I've had this garden for 3 years now. My desires have been fulfilled so that means I will keep embracing my garden and still be satisfied with it🌺🙏🏽
@Alaabatarseh6 ай бұрын
Wow, what an amazing video! I just had to reach out and let you know how much your content has been resonating with me lately. For the longest time, desire felt like this huge obstacle in my life, something to be wary of. But thanks to you, I'm starting to see things from a different perspective, one that's really helping me grow. The timing of your insights couldn't be more perfect! It's like you're speaking directly to what I'm going through. When I did those exercises you suggested, asking myself what I'm afraid of when it comes to desire, I was floored by what I discovered. Fear of god , fear of not entering heaven, fear of so many things I never even realized were holding me back. So, from the bottom of my heart, thank you! Your videos have become such a valuable part of my journey, and I can't wait to see where this newfound understanding of desire takes me. You're truly making a difference, and I just wanted to express my gratitude. Keep doing what you're doing, because you're touching lives in ways you might not even realize. Sending you all the love and appreciation in the world!
@davidakshay2024 Жыл бұрын
Thank U for Ur Honesty Teal!! I Appreciate Ur Rawness With Expressing these Truths that Must Be Said to Help Humanity Rise Up into a Collective of Love and Kindness and True Peace and Harmony!! Oneness!! I can Feel Ur Pain, Like all Videos U post I can Feel How U Feel So Deeply for Humanity it Shows!! Thank U for Ur Tears!! For Without them I couldn't Tear. Tears R the Highest Love of the Soul to ALL!!
@Hosamo73 жыл бұрын
The content is so deep and complex that I watched it 3 times and the juice not over yet.
@ellawolf7773 жыл бұрын
I feel like it needs to be watched and meditate about every morning
@LTVRadio3 жыл бұрын
ah man how can you not like Teal Swan...seems she is always answering the questions I'm having trouble with
@mushymystic3 ай бұрын
Your ability to discuss concepts like this with such even, unwavering certainty makes the knowledge resonate in a more profound way rather than with a routine or spoonfed sense to it. Why is this? ... I have never watched a video of yours which I have rejected the message of... makes me wonder if I'm really here to learn or just to feel good that you are speaking sense I believe in already
@beryloflove2 жыл бұрын
All desires lead to positive and negative results forever… C’est la vie…wow. Im stunned
@bruceclark65203 жыл бұрын
It really helps if you believe in concepts such as "kismet", or "destiny", or "fate"-- but in a world which is really made up of a Mandelbrot series of possibilities, and a Hénon map of probabilities...
@kamalpreetsingh16862 жыл бұрын
Teal swan is best teacher on KZfaq.....
@viewsonic20403 жыл бұрын
And thats how you become self realizated ✨
@Jaibee273 жыл бұрын
It also depends on the level of consciousness you have awareness of. If u inhabit the 2nd dimension like most people do u will live in contrast seeking pleasure and avoiding pain. In the 7th dimension the definition of desire has a different energy so you could almost say it is not the same desire as what is felt in the first second or third dimensions of limitation. Donnie Darko was right when he completely destroyed his teacher's philosophical narrative of fear vs love. Fear vs love is too simple and binary to define greater forms of being. In the first dimension of consciousness fear is detrimental but on the 5th dimension it creates an awakening of pleasure that can only be understood when you submit your own desires to a higher power. Therefore fear is one of the most essential emotions as awe and heavenly bliss require fear in combination with other positive emotions. Fear is not the opposite of love unless u are a two dimensional being. When you are in harmony with the universe what you desire in the 3rd dimension becomes manifest in the 7th dimension where you lose everything including your desire. In that sense the 7th dimension of consciousness awareness is where you define selflessness.
@angelcandelaria672811 ай бұрын
Teal Swan, I must say this video gives one courage to acknowledge your allure. You are absolutely beautiful inside and out. ❤🎉
@Mellowman4683 ай бұрын
I fear desire because it leads to suffering and dissatisfaction. As a result i found cultivating mindfulness, cultivating loving-kindness, and developing a sense of gratitude is much better than desire.
@mhorworshipper74563 ай бұрын
Oh wow! I think is the other way around, it is not the desire that causes suffering and dissatisfaction, what causes suffering and dissactisfaction is the inability to accept you may not get it and the misconception of thinking desiring something gives you some kind of right over it ….
@amarartemis3 жыл бұрын
And again: right topic. Right on time! Thank you, Teal! 🦢
@musicwithsuzielove3 жыл бұрын
This is so great. Such a dance it is, with desires. I'm in a state of feeling too small for a path... perhaps I've repressed a desire. I thought I wanted financial abundance so I wouldn't have to work and I can play my music, but it is a battle sometimes to get to me to go to work.
@anouknieuwdorp12069 ай бұрын
😮This gives a lot of insight, like a boom in your face. Clarity and Awareness are coming through now.
@brandypaslo52943 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this! Thank you💚🧞♀️
@kierondec3 жыл бұрын
You've come a long way since I started watching you and you've grown so much since then. Congrats.
@okuyanadam.03 жыл бұрын
I would love to talk with you eye to eye. thank you Teal , your speeches are so helpful ❤
@ryalat36823 жыл бұрын
Wow! Mindblown at asking myself that question you posed: "If I were the last person on earth, what would I desire?" and realizing all my desires were pretty much moot lol. All that was left (and therefore I guess personally-determined desires) were: Freedom (to do whatever the hell I want) and Time (whenever the hell I want). So I guess I shall be focusing on these then for my life safisfaction! Thank you for the insight. Your work is always so insightful and mindblowing. Thank you ♥ Recently discovered your work on The Completion Process, and cannot wait to start that. Namaste, Teal. 🙏
@arafatkazi98113 жыл бұрын
9:25 Her winking makes sound, wow!
@annas45773 жыл бұрын
"desire is a gift in life" -iamx
@chrisdantin78513 жыл бұрын
I love what Teal but it is the opposite of what I have been taught, spiritually. I would love to hear thoughts on what Teal shares compared to One of the characteristics of Nirvāṇa, the ultimate goal of Buddhism, is its absence of desire and craving. It is a state of complete and permanent fulfillment. Hearing this, some people ask how it is possible to attain a desireless state by desiring to attain it.
@user-ey9fm5my3s3 жыл бұрын
step by step. By completing all your desires through a multi-life process. Nirvana itself is a state of non-movement and you can not keep that state 24/7 as you are alive.
@riffraffrichard3 жыл бұрын
To know your own true desires youve got to spend time healing yourself and getting to know and love yourself then your truth will shine through and people in allignment with it will join you x
@kennethkielty1367Ай бұрын
I am aware of my desires and i ask Holy Spirit to give me discernment and self control, to know if my actions and behavior is beneficial to others and myself. I pray to the Father, through the Son, who sent me the Spirit. They created the universe. I desire to be one with them.
@johannagustsson1533 Жыл бұрын
Probably the best Teal Swan video
@pameladelgado59383 жыл бұрын
Thank you Teal !! I came as fast as posible 💜🥰
@angelinaalarcon1323 жыл бұрын
Amazing 👏 massage of truth and practicality. May God and the universe continue blessing this massage. Blessings to everyone 🤸♀️
@theauthenticwitch34763 жыл бұрын
Oh my 😭😭😭 crying. Thank you for your work, Teal ❤️
@markflores9055 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. And may you have all you desire!
@geomicer3 жыл бұрын
I desire more videos like this.
@zoex79933 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Teal. I really needed to hear this. Will def need to revisit this one for sure. Learned something important about myself watching this and want to go deeper in exploring it with setting aside some time to complete the journal questions you offered us here.
@LuisRomero-bw1jp2 жыл бұрын
Desire a passive yet intimate word it's a. ACTION WORD I believe
@carolinelaronda45233 жыл бұрын
I desire incarnation in a higher dimension. I desire here and fail to see them come .
@sadiqdewany87753 жыл бұрын
You are gorgeous happy Easter
@carolinelaronda45233 жыл бұрын
@@sadiqdewany8775 thank you . Happy Easter
@sadiqdewany87753 жыл бұрын
@@carolinelaronda4523 i desire an honest friendship with Caroline..
@mulantisreunitingall8883 жыл бұрын
Soul-igniting, deeply heartfelt, encouraging, uplifting, empowering, inspiring, individual and collective Consciousness expanding, and simply AMAZING message---one of the most helpful videos that Teal and her team have co-created, and is definitely worth watching over and over again until we fully integrate this profound wisdom. THANK YOU SO MUCH guys, and continue to BE a precious and invaluable GIFT to your whole selves/SELF/humanity/and interconnected Life within this world and way beyond.
@pracowniaswiadomosci3 жыл бұрын
Well, I made my nervous system calm. It is not necessarily pain-bound. We have a lot of unhealed ungrounded nervous activity. When we develop deep feelings, the desire is an indication of an opportunity of amplification of a inner feeling state in the outside world. The negative effects are a matter of this nervous arousal that does not allow space for mindfullness. The way I disagree with Teal stems from the fact that I tried and experienced the individuation of my emotionality. Emotions are a language to communicate with others. I feel that Teal supports the emotional connectivity with the closest ones because of love. I feel that in order to let love flow through trauma builups, you need to create your own emotional space, with no cords. Then the emotional body heals. And then you feel clearer and are able to build and physically experience the feelings that are a deeper layer. I wish you all the experience of peace and deep feelings, not only responsive emotions. Keep well, beautiful people ❤
@dilaratsch20863 жыл бұрын
This made me excited about life. And 9:25 was so cute!!! Thank you for being, Teal
@aleksandrabg103 жыл бұрын
Desire is the path of life
@peterspadafora67173 жыл бұрын
Yes especially if we are already in 5d
@kristensmagicalcreations3 жыл бұрын
I just bought 3 of your books 📚 today, and a deck of beautiful cards. I can't wait to get reading. (Teal... if you ever actually see this.. Thank you very much. You helped me have the courage to face myself and make huge changes) 😘🥰💜💙💚💛🧡❤ I've devoured hours and hours of free content on KZfaq, And it was all such great advice. I can't wait to start reading 💛🙏💛
@lyndsieannette9573 жыл бұрын
You are intelligent on a very deep, emotional level, Teal. Thank you for sharing your understanding with us