Ask This Before You Breakup

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Are you at a crossroads in your relationship, considering whether to stay or leave?
In this video, I share several key questions to ask yourself to gain clarity during this difficult time.
First, have you done everything in your power to grow through this situation?
Are you being fully honest with yourself and your partner about your feelings, needs and compatibility?
Next, examine where you may be waiting for your partner to change or heal, rather than taking 100% responsibility for showing up as your best self. What would it look like to choose this challenging experience and turn towards the difficult emotions it's bringing up?
Another important question is: Where are you being called to love more, and where are you holding back?
Even if the relationship ends, it's possible to do so from an open heart rather than turning your partner into an enemy.
Finally, many people grieve the loss of the fantasy or ideal they projected onto the relationship. You may realize your partner cannot complete you in the way you hoped. This is an opportunity to find wholeness within yourself.
Whether you stay or leave, viewing this crossroads as a catalyst for your own growth and evolution can empower you to show up more fully - both for yourself and your relationships.
I hope this provides a helpful perspective during this challenging time. If you need support navigating this, I'm here to help - but know that you have the strength within you to get through this.

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@jennifere4641 Ай бұрын

A woman's intuition is accurate. I left my marriage of 28 years. I acknowledge to myself and I forgive myself for ignoring my intuition and the red flags. He must know too, after the silent treatment and abuse towards me, he has his own issues to manage. I have no regrets. The truth will set you free. ✨✨✨🌸🌸🌸🌈🌈🌈

@claytonolsoncoaching Ай бұрын

Thanks for your share, Jennifer. Sounds like you’ve learned a lot about yourself through the process.

@kaybroughton9004 Ай бұрын

Very helpful and extremely informative. I love a very special man, and he has obligations that are not going away. For the past few years I have told myself that things could change...and they haven't, yet I've gotten comfortable with this. Now i am very uncomfortable... thinking a future...we don't share enough to build up the relationship. It's a little hard now to think about it and I keep putting it off. I'm going to use your advice to help clarify my feelings. I thank you so much!

@user-dr6vj8ez9q Ай бұрын

Excellent points & advice! Relationships can be challenging. Honest & realistic advice is always worth listening to! Thank you for sharing!🙏

@claytonolsoncoaching Ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@lovecelest1 Ай бұрын

So, so glad to I have found you! Especially the infinity notion and all! I feel like I’ve finally found a relationship coach aligned with my biological system! Feeling so uplifting! I've been feeling strange and getting more and more anxious while learning about relationship psychology out there. I couldn't quite put my finger on why I don't feel comfortable with the teachings some times. That anxiety was removed today after hearing from you! Thank you!! Do you have a course that we can take? Only have private session?