I'm glad you shared your story. It will give others in similar situations hope to escape, including myself. I believe certain men are able to manipulate people and it feels like you are the one who see's them for who and what they really are. It is such a shame you have had to lose your daughters over this man. I really hope your wrong will be put right.

Strong and great personality!😏😏😏😏😏😏

She is a joy! Bless her and I hope she is happy now.

Right ????? Crazy

God knows everything about us and more. His plans for us are always for peace and out of love - never for our destruction. God has always been concerned about saving His children, and save His children He did. What a loving Father we have found in the Almighty God.

I don't think she will ever be healed BUT SHE IS A SURVIVOR the scars are internal mental. AMAZING THAT SHE WAS ABLE TO KEEP UP WITH THE BUSINESS /BETTER TO BE ALONE (SOMETIMES DIFFICULT)THAN IN AN UNHAPPY OR ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

Naomi Brown - trolling ???????

My husband was tested by a psychiatrist during our separation. He was diagnosed as being a narcissist.

Me too.....

She has Millions, that's got to feel good. She can afford to be soft-spoken with Millions.😂😂😂

True its hard to believe that this beautiful lady was abused......

Crazy right ?!!!!

Mae 0

Thank you for your support...❤️

She learned to smile. It's sad to see her smile.

Great post Haley...I am 62 and I am most grateful for my higher power every day and throughout the day. I have been most blessed in my later years.

Carolus Thank you Carolus...no one has ever said that. ❤️🙏❤️

Carolus what weed does to people...slowing down mentally and physically. Fact. And yes: this lady is full of grace and forgiveness. ❤️

I totally agreed!😏😏😏😏

Miriam.....this woman is loco

I agree. Hindsight 20/20.

Wow! I'm sorry to hear this.

Oh my God!!!

Have you not understood how abuse works? Her mum was probably terrified of him too.

She even said we had beautiful boat..So?

you've got no idea how this abuse works. I am a survivor.

@@snookies1224 so am I.

Julia Grant so, that is what it is called. Thank you...❤️🙏❤️

Did you not listen? She did leave. And the abusive violent narcissist stole her children. This is standard practice for these personality disordered types. Parental alienation. It is so much more than "Just verbal abuse". so if your mom left, it's likely the abuser would have gotten custody. Happened to me. But I wasn't allowed to work or have friends.

Recovering Soul you need to apologize for not reading her comment

belinda hawkins I understand the miscommunication here. Recovering sole is trying to say that maybe if that persons mothers had left the abusive father would have gotten custody. I trying to work up the courage to leave, but I have be brainwashed for years into believing if I did leave I would lose my child. In fact if I had no child I would have left long ago, it is my son that had kept up together. He uses my son as a pawn to keep me. The threats of losing my son are many. Especially if the abuser succeeds in getting you on drugs/weed. He will tell you if you leave they will take your child away because you smoke Mary Jane. If I was not afraid of losing my son I would have left. Please know that if your mother didn’t leave you were probably her main reason for doing so. She didn’t want to lose you so she kept the awful secret to herself & prayed to god each night you would not be affected. I’m so sorry, I hope my son knows how much I love him... I am going to try to get away before he makes us anymore insane, but it’s really really hard. Especially when he starts waiting on us hand & foot as soon as he finds out we are leaving & has an inexplicable way of making me look like the crazy one. When in fact I have never burnt a bridge in my life, whereas he leaves a path of fire behind him everywhere he goes. For me it has been 11 years in this sick relationship that I never wanted to be in. I never wanted to be with my husband, there was no honeymoon phase. He stalked me from the beginning & my father knows it because I was living with him at the time. We did call the police & have him removed once. The next day there was a rose stuck in my front door, I wish my dad had thrown it out... after we had our son he told me any call to the police was an automatic call to CAS/CPS & that they would take my son, he etched this in my brain day after day & I still believe it & it terrifies me. If there was no such thing as CPS I would call the police right now & have him gone. But I will not risk losing my child. I have been brainwashed that all “workers”, doctors, nurses & authorities are against me & WILL take me child. Yet somehow knowing I am brainwashed doesn’t change anything or make me less scared. I think I am brainwashed for life. About a year ago my hair started to far out, I am not even 40 years old. At 34 I had a mini stroke, since being in this relationship I have developed cysts all over my insides & had appendicitis, been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder & suffer constant panic attacks. I have no doubt it’s the stress he causes that did all of this to me. I have been fighting some strange illness since October, in my throat/neck. I’ve now lost the ability to eat solid food. I’m going to the hospital today. I have plans to finally leave him this week. It’s funny that I should have to go to a shelter, meanwhile he gets to stay here in my family’s million dollar home. It’s not fair... but I can’t let it stop me. They can remove him once I’m gone. I am not allowed to use face book instagram or show my face on my KZfaq channel. He has parental restriction locks on my phone so I can’t access certain websites & for awhile I didn’t know & thought my phone was broken & was forced to do my online shopping from the laptop. I am also not allowed to have friends or leave the house without my husband or a family member. Definitely not a sister tho (cuz women are sluts of course.. oh & lesbians never to be left alone) he calls random women ugly & pigs & fat. Some of the women are prettier than me, so what must he think of me? I still remember the sick feeling I got the first time I heard him call a random stranger, a woman a pig. Ok I better stop. If you still don’t see my face on my channel & it’s been over a year it means I did not make it out. I swear this is it tho, I won’t let him kill me. I am so desperate Please do not be mad at your mom, we are all suffering from “captors” syndrome. Good luck to anyone reading this, I hope you can escape & find peace & know real love ❤️

Hey leave an essay why don't you...🤔🙄😬

And I wish my father had left my abusive violent mother!

trucker wrecker Hopefully. But the sad truth is, he may never regret it . She has yet to see what really goes on in that young mans head.

trucker wrecker did you listen to the entire story before you decided to give your opinion. She said that she did speak to him, and if you want to know more than listen to her entire story.

Word for word, the same happened with my son. I felt like he was living a life practically parallel to mine, except I don't make a ton of money. I'm better at spending it, I guess. My son is 27. He started smoking weed at 15 when he went to live with his Dad. His Dad is hard-working and made a very good living. Bad part was that he went to work in the afternoon until wee hours of the morning. My son loved not having an adult around. His reason for smoking weed is that it is his tool for anger management. All the years I spent teaching him there was plenty of other things to do with your life than drugs, went out the window. I keep trying and I will never give up. He used to say: If it's not one thing, it's your mother! And, "Mmmm, pink in the middle! Just the way I like it!!" every time I put chicken in front of him. I miss his humor. I miss him.

Not if hes a NARC like his father who manipulated him from childhood.

@@tonirad9577 He's been brainwashed by the sicko father

Thank you Erin, trust me I am not "always' that way. One day at a time...

I have said many times that this kind of thing has been going on down thru the centuries, we are just now hearing about it. There are many others that are accomplished well known people that have done the same thing. You would be shocked. There are groups of people who take young people to the elite and politicians who use them for sex and then the group, that took them there, will turn around and blackmail them for money not to let the cat out of the bag. I worked with an young women who was very involved in the church with her parents and the youth minister ask her to stay after church that he wanted to pray with her and in doing so he said he had to put his hands on her and when he did he was, feeling her, in a sexual way. When she told her parents they didn't believe her and said to her "he couldn't have done that he is a devout christian and minister" So you can imagine how that made her feel. It's everywhere, especially, in places like church, boy scouts because of their high standing position and access to young people.

@@amberlilly4101 how horrible - how great that it's not in every church

Zora, thank you for your share...

@@rebeccamendez2691 How can u be so certain that its 'not in every church'? I would bet u a dime 2 a dollar it probably IS in more churches than u could conceive.

It’s always the powerful who abuse

That is awesome. Made me cry. I left a difficult home, unnanounced, aged 17. I hitched 400 miles. 80 miles into the journey I saw a poster on a country chapel wall...Thank God for the past and trust him with the future. So, I did. I was in a fish lorry...eek. But, 50 years later, I can testify God is still with me where I go, everywhere I go. Yay!

MsOliveLeaf i loved reading this sister 🌸💕

thank you so much for trusting.

MsOliveLeaf Al-Anon changed my life. No mug ever could do that.

When one goes through something like this one needs to connect spiritually. One has to get the body/mind and spirit in balance, which is basically the Holy Trinity whether one believes in God, Jesus, Buddha etc. because we all have that body/mind and spirit connection. It's the disconnect of those three that causes illness and emotional pain in life. "We're all spirits having a human experience'...Wayne Dyer.

L' Kat Morin Are things going well for you now?

My heart goes out to you

Im glad im able to walk away from a narcissist ex husband...terrible relationship , great manipulator and excellent liar....God bless him 🙏🙏

Ladies you must leave your new normal is the departure of the buses train's and planes. Ten years ago i left so can you too.

Most women do indeed know that their child is being sexually abused. They simply deny it, ignore it and pretend to the world that all is ok because they dont want to reveal themselves to the public as less than perfect. At all costs, they must maintain a facade. Shame isn't it?

I think the power of denial is very strong, especially if you are witnessing something very revolting. (I have often wondered how the adults in my life apparently saw nothing) But after watching a documentary about a man who had molested his sons, their friends, and his students, and hearing his wife relate that when the police showed her his collection of child pornography, she could not see it because her mind had created blindness, I immediately understood that her brain had needed to protect her from the reality of her situation. I know it really sucks for the unprotected children, but I think it may explain why so many adults turn a blind eye, literally, to what is going on in front of them. And maybe sometimes, people who have had experience of molestation don’t trust their instinct if they see what they think is an adult behaving inappropriately with a child, because they think, I’m overreacting because of my history.

Noel Noel the karma will pay for these men

Anne Welch ...incest is horrific but it's just as damaging for mom to realize it's going on and she fails to protect her child. Sadly, her mother likely knew but didn't want to disrupt things in her life.

@Noel Noel To the police. It is all coming out now about religious institutions and famous individuals and their downfall will be great.

Gennie Jefferson I truly believe that. ❤️

I don't know the other side of the story.

I agreed!😏

It’s hard to be a parent and raise successful children when you are raised in a severely abusive childhood Thank God my children all are marvelous and successful happy adults!

She is nutsy cuckoo

Hi Terry, I've studied adult male Asperger's for 30 years and you describe the characteristics and traits of the Jekyll and Hyde Asperger male. To others he wears the facade of a nice man, but to those closest, the chaos is painful. Wish you well and glad you escaped. The promises were so real weren't they? that's why it took 25 years.

It is okay if the son rejected her cos she raised her son so good not her son took good care of this beautiful woman , you see the karmas followed her son and her ex , it is true

Marcia Walden don't hide behind the mask break up through it , stay healthy and happy , move on start from scratch to the bright future

Michelle Baratta you mean go back go with the ex that abuse his wife or girlfriend , yes give him some space one or all , that space he got is left him forever and stat a new life , that should the space giving to him , any woman leaving that space is fantastic , free , happy and healthy minds and have more bright future waiting for them ( women ) , I am going to say to them millions congrats after leaving those abusers , millions thank you for saving their lives freedom

All of humanity is hiding behind a mask.

I don’t believe it easy to hide behind a mask , in fact it extremely difficult to keep up the pretence takes every bit of strength you’ve got to stop any shit seeping through and to appear “ normal”

Marcia Walden, hope you are with a good husband!

Great comment!!

@@michelesmith9880 ❤

EXACTLY!!! It wasn't until I married an abusive man at 31 years old and subsequently got help, that I finally realized my own dad was abusive. I thought I was the problem,...that their behavior was normal. Both my sisters would get mad at me for having nothing more to do with my dad after I realized it. They thought he just hung the moon!

Good for you. This is awesome.@@nichmon3221

Ditto, well I'm 50 and have also never experienced violence like this. I thank God, and feel for the women who have, WOMEN BE STRONG TOGETHER.

So what are the two of you contributing to this story. Who cares if you never experienced all of this, it’s ridiculous. And the 23 that gave a thumbs up are just as stupid as the two of you.

@@thezmanchar Oh. 'Interesting' comment, what by the way are YOU adding to the conversation?

Congrats for you dear

My grandma was always on guard and taught me to protect my kids.

Thank you Winifred...

Made New so true...

Old and new are different whirls and not agree

Cannot agree

Yup

That's truth!😢

So true!They never ever change.Run!As fast as you can!

Definitely not

@@beatricedesire4943 Yes... it doesnt get better

Exactly

Robyn Dismon I'll be sharing what played out up till today...

Because society is so blind by reality!🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨

Different time . Mothers turned a blind eye . I dont think they knew what too do

Why oh why do men think they are so f******superior. Most men are overbearing pains in the arse that need to grow up and learn to live equally with their partners. Enough is enough

Robyn Dismon 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Jeanette Bird 🙏🏾

Mary Motherofgod ❤️❤️❤️ to you Mary...

Sue Nathan I receive your words Sue...thank you.

God is blind deaf and dumb.

@@fionagregory8078 That's SATAN.

I can fully understand Angharad my son lost his best friend in a car crash he turned to drink and drugs lost 12 years of his life and now hes sober goes to drug and alcohol classes on his own back and has moved back with his ex partner with 2 babies I pray everyday thank you God xx true words NEVER GIVE UP

Thank you for sharing your life with me. ❤️

Dena Collins 🙏🏾

Not really. She stayed too long. It would've been more right to leave sooner.

Wordivore Much easier said than done.

aussiegirlintheUSofA, hope you are with a good man!

A very true statement Elizabeth...❤️

I believe positive ppl help by telling their stories, because we all have a story. If you have been taught , then you can teach..there are some places we find ourselves in that we can't find our way out..so we have to be lead out..if you haven't followed you can't lead.

Love to you...thank you so much for your post. It brought tears to my eyes.

Juanita Richards I hope things are better for you...

Dale Howard that is exactly what happened. I think he has finally moved out of his fathers house at 27. I did see him once last year and it was very difficult. I am blessed because we have had several real conversations on the phone.

@@terrymaxwell2920 Good. It will get better between you two💜

Kathy Hoskin that is wonderful news Kathy!!

Absolutely Starling...

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Lisa, that is absolutely correct. Thank you!!

Annabell Mendez yes Annabel...the toxicity manifests in your body. ❤️ I am so happy you are healing...

Me too, my whole head would erupt in painful sores.. I was in counseling and he told me I was married to a covert narcissist. I left after 15 years.. I am so happy now.. I no longer have sores on my head..

I left my ABUSIVE Narcissistic ex husband within 2 years of our marriage. Luckily for me I had my own money to be able to run away from him. I was too scared of him up till now ,if I look at his pic I will be having panic attack and depressed. I haven't talked or look at his pics in 5 years. I escaped from a crazy man. He tried apologizing to me about now he treated me. I told him to never contact me ever again.

Same I can related I moved git a restraining order and chan my phone number!I thank God jope I never see this monster ever

Tamora P poo h

That is due to Trauma Bonding, look it up...

I definitely agree. Women have to escape right away from an abusive husband.

I am sending you a Reiki hug Luxmee...

Thank you Mad Hatter...

Forgive him as the lord forgives us he was so young and ended up hooked . You are teaching him that simple honest living is the best high.

Thank you Mary!! Please pass it on...

Jacey Lataire,You deserve better 🙏

Yes A good father would not be OK with their kid doing drugs and selling drugs.

So true

He is more crazy than crazy person cos crazy person didn't harm others they living in their own world never bothered of worldly belonging

Exactly. It is SO SAD, to have children w/a narcissist 💔😔 My childrens' dad is a covert narcissist. Disheartening. Especially our very flawed legal system missing the signs of their insidious manner 💔🙏🏼✝️🛐 ~💜~ Good luck to us all 🙏🏼

@Mary Little 😔🙏🏼 yes shame on these individuals 😞 They are so driven by ugly mean dark ego, that theyre too caught up on "winning" or striking at their kids mom they hate from their bruised ego, for us having left them. Broken away from their abuse to us, my goodness. Because we finally realized they are too filles with hate, to come through for their Family, as I prayed and prayed he would. He didnt 😔 He just got worse. Abuse got heavier. Too, too much. Too sad. Too painful. Once it escalated to being verbal and physical in front of our sons, my gosh NO MORE. I ended. But his abuse, HAS NOT 😩😞😔 It is a shame that our systems are not educated on the very insidious and masked narcissistic abuse by these dark individuals. N he has no remorse. Instead denies n lies. Driven by revenge and anger, manipulates. Its dark. Its mean. Its sad. I started praying for him again. Bcuz while he thinks he makes me mad or "puts me in my place"... all he is doing is hurting boys and I mentally n emotionally and finished pushing them away. Sad. 🙏🏼✝️🛐🙏🏼

You nailed it. She is still in denial if she thinks it was only Verbal Abuse. Children siding with the abuser is never good for the children. I'm sorry about your children. The pain is unbearable.

@belinda hawkins that is horrible - she finally has someone who is treating her wonderfully

I definitely understand that it was parent alienation. It was in the original video but it was edited. I did not know that there was that type of support group available. Thank you for your share and support...

Im so sorry for you

What is the name of your support group?

did you make it out??

Vidya Dhanraj thank you for your kind words Vidya...❤️

Adom Nti awesome...it has always been about sharing, experience, strength and hope.

And they always turn the kids against you

Nicole...have you spoken with your son?

pauline callahan thank you Pauline...time has treated me well...we are corresponding! I am so blessed.

I was married for 5 years,it was 5 years too many.

Ms B I left my ex husband for the same reason plus was the lazy guy.

Ileana Ari oh yeah. I worked and he refused. Imagine that!

pat gladwell thank you Pat...

I have been told children are many things but they are not stupid. Given time they make their own judgements. If I had choice of good parent child relationship it would be communication, listening, guidance, love, support.

mary nyaga this has become a reality Mary. ❤️🙏❤️

Hazel Evans thank you Hazel...

DORAMARIE I so understand. Have hope, my son is slowly coming back into my life. You have to be careful though, they may end up being like their fathers.

Theresa Murphy I am so sorry Theresa...