Sadly so true but watch Dave Erickson on Narc-ology unscripted youtube videos, & pastor RC Blake's jnr youtube videos on narcissists recovery groups and Tony Gaskins because their videos on narcissists and boundaries are amazing and how to recognise them before you get involved. Dave Erickson was married then divorced from a narcissist he's a Christian and he's twice divorced very sad. But if you live in America your truly blessed. I don't I live in Adelaide South Australia because they hold support groups live with other Empaths

You're describing my life

@annamal pete lol. 🤣

@Reach Honduras thank you for defending me. I appreciate that. I'm so far away now, in my healing, from allowing these thoughtless or brainless or maybe it's soulless, individuals ruin my day. He must be carrying around a great deal of unaddressed anger, which is actually fear, to lash out in such away. Maybe one day he will see that anger is toxic. Eating him up from the inside.

good answer ! Your story is mine as well. Still in it though with anxiety disorder and PTSD. Slowly figuring my way out.

@@candacekesting1786 it's only been fairly recently that I've turned a corner on my healing to the much better place I'm in right now. Continued self-care and no contact make the world of difference. Understand that whatever other people's unconscious actions were towards you it was always about how broken they are. You can heal from the dysfunction they showed us. You truly deserve to be at peace, happy and loved. The biggest battle is truly believing that of ourselves. 💗

Yes it is. That quote is from the famous poet and author Maya Angelo🙏🏽😇

I believe it was Maya Angelou RIP

It's a great quote which I've never forgotten and It's helped me to deal with toxic individuals.

Helen you're right that was me wanting for Mr nusty to change, but I was rowng.

Believe it the first time......

Ditto!!

I did too and after a few years even forgave her. - I love strong women but that one almost destroyed me. I hope she heals as I have. Also NEVER LOOKED BACK.

I left my nightmare also never looking back. Didn't miss her for even 30 seconds. It's not necessarily a gender thing crazy is crazy !!

Thank God we got out of a nightmare

Always found ways to embarrass me in public. Telling personal things that were never meant for anyone else to hear. When I finally got tired of this, I decided to show him how it felt, since telling him was not working. I, politely, excused myself from the friends who were with us at the restaurant, and went to the ladies room. When I came out, I had my pantyhose tied around my neck like a scarf. Imagine his embarrassment when his co-workers asked about it. I said just ask Mr. Know it all; he will tell you.

Nancy Clay,You deserve better 🙏

Don't even get married at all. Marriage is a farce.

Yes, she's young to start again but most people without therapy may get back into a similar relationship. Don't do it till you're ready!

Its never too late to start over. As long as youre living and breathing you can start over again,no matter what age you can find PEACE& HAPPINESS. She actually started over the day she started living for herself.

She’s very pretty

Britta Olson -Honey, one can always start over💕

Awww. 😙

Well done you!! I too have had the narcissist father, and I too went into the same sort of relationships. I think women are drawn to men the same as their fathers (early on in their lives), but, they can break the chain, and learn from experience of what they DO NOT WANT!! I now live alone and love it. I was diagnosed as autistic (a late diagnosis) so it was a double whammy for (high functioning) autistic person to be in a home with an narcissist!! Every person deserves to have a good life and be in control of their own destiny. I am glad to hear that you released yourself from this abusive relationships, I just wish some women would have the courage to do the same. There is a book by Joe Navarro (FBI profiler) called "Dangerous Personalities". I would recommend this book to any woman, they need to understand what to look for when dating. It would save a lot of grief and wasted time if they were forewarned and did not marry someone with a dangerous personality!! Well worth the $15 to learn about abusive behaviour - it could save their life!!!

brenda mcdonall I too was raised in a verbally abusive. Home my brothers are horrendous horrors yet they say it’s me. I’ve never married still struggle on my own. Both parents were up supportive of me. But supportive of my siblings behaviour. They’ve ruined my life. I have horrendous anxiety and panic attacks.

@@NoPlus500 I am so sorry that you have gone through all of that, and yet, still not found happiness. You need to seek out some sort of counselling or therapy, to see if this can help you. It can make a huge difference in your life. Make sure you take care of yourself, and concentrate on YOU!! That is the only way a person can heal. You are a special person and do not forget it. You are a survivor, and you are strong, even though you will not accept this initially, you are very strong, to have gone through all of that. Try to stay away from your family as much as possible, as they will keep reminding you of their opinion. Please find someone who can help you. Do not waste the rest of your life stuck in this limbo.

kenn1936 wow that’s the nicest thing anyone has said to me. It’s took me my entire life to work out what’s happening and that’s thanks to the Internet. You can find people talking about stuff here. I just didn’t know what was going on. It’s unbelievable what I’ve missed out on in life I met someone wonderful many years ago a princess in her own way and she was so crazy about me yet I did not see it because I didn’t want to believe in anything good for me.

@@NoPlus500 You are very welcome. Here is where therapy will help.... you will not be missing out on anything more in life, you will see yourself as you are: a wonderful person, who can contribute to society, someone that is happy in your own skin, and not feel worthless. You will wake up every morning and be grateful for another day, rather than feel a twinge of disappointment at waking up AGAIN!! You MUST learn to spoil yourself, be extremely good to yourself, learn (through therapy) to love yourself. You are as good as everyone else, no one is more special, you are a one-off, and that makes you unique. Once you learn to love yourself and have complete respect for yourself, you will be much happier within yourself. Respecting yourself as a human being is very, very important. All damage can be reversed but not forgotten. Take pleasure in the small things in life, the sunshine, walks by a river, just very small things, and it will build into big things. Most of all, look after yourself and stay safe. x

Oh yes!!

@Michael King I had a friend telling me my husband was so nice with her kids & an ex colleague if his told me "he's such a nice person" & another ex colleague of his said she takes her hat off for him supporting a colleague working under him in supporting her going through a physical Abusive marriage. It can be in their favour, but definitely not happening in my marriage. God knows & sees everything and He doesn't want us to stay in abusive relationships. He instituted marriage & He is Love so a marriage should be built on Love & not Abuse/Power Control. We deserve to be happy. We don't get training on abuse so when confronted with it we don't know what to do, but the Spirit convicts us of what is right & wrong. We have to make the CHOICE of what we ALLOW & What NOT to ALLOW. No regrets I'm out. Just waiting patiently to be legally released.

@Thomas Anderson it's NOT ONLY the ladies Who choose them, anyway itmakes us Stronger Women in Society. "If God is for us Who can be against us?" 👌

@Thomas Anderson What is this "whatever" attitude about 🤔

Sounds like my stepfather that POS

Peggy Flowers,you deserve better

Same with my dad... he died last year and yet those memories are deeply etched in my mum's mind... he always pretended to be such a sweet person outside... and create a fake image of my mother that she was the horrible one... worst part is my mum's dad was the same kind of narcissist and so was her husband

Why only we meet these people? Why aren't we as lucky as other people?

Many men, and women are like that ..everyone thinks they are wonderful as they show a very different side to the one they show once that front door shuts behind them, that's when their true colours come out, trust me I've been there and it's like a prison sentence, unfortunately unlike this lovely lady the mental scars of my past do show on my face, the fear, anxiety, worry and pain and the memories of it all hidden deep inside that never go away..

Mine too. Restaurants and public places were awful.

@@sophiet.2332 because pastors, police, lawyers, judges, Drs don't recognize it yet it's everywhere in the bible just not called narcissist and they should call it stalking not hoovering that's why police don't label it a crime. Recently a innocent lady and her 3 beautiful children were murdered by her ex narcissist husband right outside her parents home where they were living. Yet police and services knew he was violent this makes me furious because I am being home invaded and death threats written in my journals but police won't even look at or document the evidence and the pastor never reported it despite telling me she had to by law

Best wishes I divorced my loser wife of 27 years found a wonderful partner to share life with.

Did you make a plan?

Sue Andrews oh no don’t feel ashamed! You’ve come this far you are a strong person! Make a plan and stick to it! I’ve worked so hard many years and I do not regret for one moment of the decision I have made! It was scary at first because of all the uncertainties but it all worked out! Good luck!... Ra

Glad you're free. Took me 4 years. Almost to the day

🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👍♥️

Exactly

Wow why did you stay so long?

Because you have! A house with bars on the windows isn't a jail unless you feel trapped there, and vice versa. Good luck. x

English Irish You need to listen to videos on the abuse from covert, malignant narcissist and the affect this kind of abuse has on their partner. It is not easy to get out.

@Victoria Bergman That is a true statement! Being a holistic nurse. I have seen women who can't leave and they actually get cancer and die as a way to get out of the marriage.

@@SGH1111 true story during the time I was with my ex off and on From 2005 to past June 2019 I went through a bout with cancer twice when I first met him I only had asthma and allergies now I have a list of health problems stress causes you to become ill true story

S Juno I did something like that. So, true.

S Juno ur right that was me EXACTLY i ran from the house with my clothes I was wearing carrying one baby and the other baby running in front of me leading the way out through to the dark garage There was no light don’t know how we did it but we did we been abuse free 3 years now We r all happier now and healthier God is good 💗💗🇦🇺💗

S Juno, scary but you're right.

Your comment on leaving with only the clothes on your back made me think of the scene with Angela Basset playing Tina Turner when she’s running in a city and goes into a hotel explaining she has been abused and wish to stay at the hotel even though she has no money at the moment because she had to run off without her things in order to survive her husband’s physical abuse. I had a teacher in middle school and she sat us students down to watch ”What’s Love Got To Do With it”, which obviously upset many parents and her response to their anger was ”the lesson from this movie about abuse is the most important thing these kids will have to learn in life because they will either be abused, be the abuser or know someone who is either of those two things or maybe both. They need to know what it is before they are in it.” She’s still getting contacted by adults who had her as a teacher as a child, who thanked her for teaching them about self-worth, boundaries and healthy love, and some guys got themselves in therapy to sort their anger issues thanks to remembering her lessons she taught them as small boys. My previous teacher was so right about the idea of children being too small to be aware of grown up things is wrong given they will one day be grown-ups and childhood is very short and they will not stay children. The idea children can have friends but not be taught about other things is so off and coward parenting. Seriously don’t bother having children if you’re not willing to raise them properly. With proper damage control we would potentially not need to hear yet another woman who has been abused by a man or read about yet another woman dying at the hands of a man, instead healthy relationship would be a thing for all. *I’m glad this woman is a survivor!*

Thats exactly right. It's hard to trust people in this world but there is still good out there. People do care and they will help if you let them.

Amen.

So true!! 😊

True but I’ve had that freedom for 45 years and it is also true that it has made my life feel empty and pointless. And you miss out on so much. There are lots of things I cannot do alone, like hire a boat, and many the holiday I have taken alone and spent it in tears with the loneliness. Abuse from a spouse must be worse than being single but they are both unhealthy debilitating experiences that nobody deserves or wants. You might be happy being single now, but that’s only because it is new to you. Incidentally maybe the husband mentioned in the video was suddenly abusive because he was developing an illness like dementia or depression or something else.

Its a choice the abuser makes... To abuse. No spouse deserves it esp me.

Those are all the signs of a person dealing with narcissistic personality disorder...it's sad that we, who have been violated, have to leave our homes.

I wished I'd put a plan together, but I left with the clothes on my back, a computer, and some important papers. I went no contact for about 5 months. We had a business, so, I eventually had to be in contact with him. Later, I wad able to resolve the business, and move on. I've since been divorced, and trying to move forward. Thx for sharing your story... we need other women to come forth and share their story... we're not victims, we're women who have been violated, and perpetrated, by men whom we thought loved us.

Gwen I finally got out in my 40’s. Cheated lied controlling and hit me. When he finally almost killed me the second time I was able to get out . Your story is my story . I am so proud of you.

I have PTSD and at the age of 70. It took me15 yrs to trust the man That I met and finally trusted and Married. I put him though he’ll and back , but he is a wonderful loving man .So if you are ever ready they are out there.

Lori Neilson - me, too- about 21 yrs ago

Van peter if get then why waiting , leave at once

True. I know first hand, as well.

As a man I see this often. It crushes a part of me when they take the abuser back. It's ALWAYS worse.......ALWAYS.

AGREE 100%

Are you talking about abusive women who cry and beg to be taken back? Narcissists and abusive people don't like it when they no longer have control. They will do anything to regain control and if they get it back they are more vicious than ever.

Good for you.

I lived this for 28 years and when the divorce came the female judge believed him and he got everything I got left with 180k debt and he has over a million now I love with son and his narcissistic wife and now she abuses me planing my way out but on very little cash it is hard to do

Trauma Bonding, when you have no safe place to escape to. Nobody wants to get involved, not your friends, nor family. That's when you realize you are stuck & this leads to Trauma Bonding.

I think that he was a psychopath. He was too smooth and slippery to be a narcissist. He completely lacks empathy, he fakes through the good times, then a spoon falls and he turns into a completely different person. I sense that she is still afraid of him, poor girl!! She was his trophy, but a trophy is only an object. I bet as a child he threw his toys and beat up his friends. He is a real piece of work, I hope that he gets the help he needed.

I’m still working on breaking the trauma bond after being free for almost a year and strict no contact for 9 months. Some days are better than others. I’m undoing a lifetime of abuse.

@@klattalexis I'm there now but working on not being so co-dependant...

Best advice ever from a father, so true

I should have never taken her back after she cheated on me.

Get clean and sober. Don't post when under the influence.

It won't be long before it happens to the new one too. Maybe you'll have lost touch and be having a happy life, but she will take on the same yoke you wore eventually.

@@cyndimoring9389 you're right about that!

Oh boy, same thing here... Was married 21 years to an abuser...and his new girlfriend just thinks the sun rises and sets on him...

30 years and finally escaped. I lived much the same way. I got tired of walking on eggshells. I never knew when I was going to say the wrong thing as nd send him into a rage. Never hit me but said a few things that go unforgotten.

@@patriciaking7892 , it took such alot of personal work to get over the fact that he seems to be so very kind to her... And yet I was treated less than a neglected pet in my years with him... I began to realize that I was merely a servant to him... also, I was a housewife while I was married to him, and he seemed to always look up to women that had a "real career"... and he seemed to have it in his head that the only successful women were in the medical industry... Interesting- his girlfriend manages a medical office or something like that... so that deems her worthy of his approval... Apparently having three kids and taking care of the house and putting up with him just wasn't worthwhile in his eyes ... you know what? She can have him because I actually have wanted nothing to do with them since the day I served him with papers almost five years ago :-) :-) :-) ...good luck to her with the bastard, I say !!!

Maureen Rocha you are absolutely right!!! There are no visible wounds!!!!

Had a verbally abusive wife divorced her after 20 years best thing you get used to the insults and excuse them.I finally had enough after listening to her abuse her elderly mother.

Thomas Weeks Good for you Thomas! It takes a lot of strength to get out. I had been raised that God hates divorce. And after years of being told I was horrible and trying to be better, I just felt so awful about myself. I really couldn’t tell what would be worse - staying or leaving - so I stayed stuck. I finally realized God didn’t want that for anyone and my kids needed to see me be strong and not let myself be mistreated. I can tell you have a lot of compassion. A good person like you deserves better. 💜🙏🏻👼🏻✝️😇

@@thomasweeks7992 Funny how watching someone treat another poorly has greater clarity than your own self

Senora Senora so true!

Excuses tend to suffocate our souls.

I was married to a Narcissistic man for 18 years. We met through my brother who highly recommend him, as well as my parents. I thought he was too good to be true. Long story short...... I lost my finances through a no fault and live on SS only, after working 44 years as an RN. If I think about it I get very bitter, so I focus on my life ahead...of peace, and trust in a real man, which I have never had. Women, get out! Before this happens to you! Save yourself and don’t think about what “others will say”🤗

Money is what the ladies love. Really screws up normal guys

@@pauljoey7977 And yet so many men use it as a tool to keep women in an abusive marriage. Cuts both ways.

And dear woman, still watch your back!!! He's not through-'no one will walk away from me!' wicked self centered attitude. Please continue to educate yourself regarding this stage. Thank you for your extraordinary courageous survival and escape story.

@annamal pete Sad, but you've given the exact behavior of a narcissist by your comment.

Miss Camino If only I could have your strength. I used to be strong. I am 61 and a half years old & weak & crushed. Thankyou for your story

annamal pete Surely I am reading this comment incorrectly.. Surely you didn’t mean to write what I have read. Surely you are not saying that she or anyone else deserves abuse.

@annamal pete you're a dick!

Me... Surviving for 27 years! Wanna get out... Someday Dream Dream...

Yeah me also 59 this year surprised I lasted so long

Covert? Namecalling isn't covert really.

@@cynthiaschwab8894 I was 59 (now just short of 63) when my narcissist and I divorced after 40 years. The empath in me just could not understand where things had gone wrong and just couldn't accept that loving him wouldn't make things better somehow. Although I am still struggling severely with my brokenness, especially financially and emotionally, I am so relieved that I no longer have to deal with him.

20 yrs and 9 kids for me. I've been out for 11 yrs.

Fiona Newport There was never a nice guy. It was an act from the start. A ploy to keep you in the loop.

💯 OK!

@@hyg44gu54 This is a sweet then cruel cycle as violence tends to be cyclic in nature. The corporate wife was controlled and kept like a bird in a gilded cage. I am pleased she left and found a safe place alone instead of constantly waiting for the next shoe to drop. Unfortunately aggressive and violent rages makes some people feel powerful and in control by disempowering their victim. This was not an equal or healthy relationship. The solution was to leave or risk escalating violence and abuse. Her husband needed help to find ways to cope with stress without using his wife as a verbal punching bag to absorb his inner pain manifested as blind rage on those closest to him.

YES!!!

That is a very profound statement!

Yes the self absorbed narc will always find a way to be the centre of everything. Good on you for walking away.

Girlfriend, 🙌 I’m praying for your strength. Take time to know yourself and love yourself.🙏💕

Jane James ❤️🌱❤️🌱❤️

Still waiting.

DMedina Hawks love your comment & exactly how I feel 12 years later..... I cherish the peace of mind the most

Debra Medina, you are too precious to be with a narcissist!

True!

This could be true about women. Their father was a bastard to them so they hate men in general

Jim Williams Yes. Women may also have this problem of hating the opposite sex because of what their fathers did to them. However, women are less inclined toward having their anger/hatred manifest in violence toward men.

Redfishswimming Never said they were. I am referring to cases of men beating women, abusing women in a physical and emotional manner. That is really the subject of THIS video. When I find a video concerning women abusing men or anyone else, then I examine the psychological pathology of women. Learn how to stay focused on the topic at hand. I can’t be expected to detail all the social ills of the universe in one KZfaq comment.

@@rozchristopherson648 🖒👏

Oprah's words

@@apacur Maya Angelou

@@apacur Not Oprah, Dr. Maya. Angelou

@@beverlyann111 Ok, does ot matter who said it? No. Just sound advice

​@@jimwilliams4088But it does matter who said it, please don't give Oprah credit for Dr.Maya Angelou words."When someone shows you who they're believe them the first time".

Tracey Palangio,I admire your lovely smile

Sue S,hope you are not with a narcissist!

My husband was 1 of the most horrible human being on this planet. I spent 34 years of my life with that scumbag. He used to spread lies n gossip about me. Not even provide financially. He even raised his hand on my mother. The list is endless. By God's grace I'm alive. After all these years he suddenly died.

Truth I left because I was done and wanted to move on

oli I have finally learned that if I’m concerned for people who are suffering, it’s OK to not help troubled people in my personal life. I used to take people into my home and life. Now I volunteer with people through an organization with boundaries in place, and am studying chemical dependency counseling. That’s working out a lot better for me!

@@brittaolson6550 I'm glad you have found a way to still help people and keep yourself safe.

So true! Get out of there!

@@brittaolson6550Your doing good!!😊😊😊 I also did take people in to my home until this last person to be of help to them. Do not now and am working to save up $5000, abuser don't know about, have quite a lot of it, to become a license therapist. With old classes then only will take about a year and will work with an organization to keep good boundaries in place. And RUN to different physical living place😊💐😊

enjoy your beautiful life...we are a tribe

Donna Woodford I wish u well.

I want to see that movie. Thanks!

It's never to late to leave.

Bravo Donna!

25 years for me too. On my way out. It's still painful to do.

Ruby, good for you! Keep moving forward.

@@flgal7788 your heart has been scarred. It's gonna take a lot of time. Keep moving forward though. Best of luck to you always.

Keep in mind to always try to see patterns of abusiveness. Im fortunate to be alive. As for me i didnt allow that to happen, to be abused. When you have loaded guns to your head,,you do exactly what you're told. Im free now and dont take any shit from anyone. I have a voice and know how to speak my mind. And take action.Bless you Ruby.

@@flgal7788 do it! life is so short!

@@aliaosman655 wow. That's mean.

Alia Osman, Whoa! Someone pays a compliment and that is what you make of it? She does look amazing and probably looks better now after leaving the guy.

That was my first thought also!Fabulous haircut!

4naturalsistas I was thinking the same thing. That she looked great. You other comment was awful.

Alia Osman you need to educate yourself on the subject before you expose others to your outrageous and ignorant viewpoint.

Same with me...3 months after i married my narc the poo poo hit the fan....2 yr separation of which he went wild with his sexual immorality...reconciled after the 2 yrs and within 5 months ....boom! He decided to blame me for his adultery..that was it for me....divorced that narc..free indeed...

@veronica carlson I'm so sorry you went thru that. It is so hard to break the cycle but it can be done. I'm so glad you brought up that you're college educated because many people don't seem to realize that this issue affects everyone. If only we didn't have hearts and emotions life would be so much easier right?

@@polskigirl8547 So glad you got out of that! One does feel free after going thru that crap. Yes, these guys blame everyone but themselves.

@veronica carlson I know exactly what you're going thru. I know what it's like to lose friends and to be lied about. I lost all my friends and my family too due to lies. I've made a few new friends and accepted that my family has problems, it's not me. Just like it's not you! I isolated for awhile too because I hated the world, I was hurting all the time, trusted no one and stopped even making eye contact with people. I was so backwards from who I really am. I've a very open person, make friends easy, I stand up for stuff others won't, and I don't take crap from anyone. This is how I grew up. It's my nature. My ex broke my nature. I retreated into a shell like a snail that sees salt. It was all I could do to get myself to work and do a half decent job. Then I started reading books written by others like you and I. It was a saving grace. I love to read anyway and I write as well. Please contact me at missyorg1@gmail.com You have a friend here.

@veronica carlson I think I misunderstood. Are you still in the abusive situation?

That book helped me, too. Interestingly, my daughter found it for me.

Yes, isolation! It’s horrible. I’m sorry you had it for 30 years, I endured it for 7 and thankfully didn’t Marry the man!

@@matthewholmes7597 I am well and you?

@@matthewholmes7597 aw thank you, flattered but I am a married woman :) Have a wonderful day :)

@@matthewholmes7597 I do look nice in leather trousers...how'd you know? lol

@@matthewholmes7597 older? wtf?

Wow....sounds like they might need to exhumed him for an investigation. 🙁

They might even try to kill you.

yep I gave a 2nd chance and it ended in violence and more verbals. Ive been trying to get a divorce for 2 yrs but he is blocking it as a revenge tactic! It will happen soon!

Thank you for telling me. I needed to know that.

@@Ladyybooop what else do you need to know about leaving?

@@danamay1718 Correct, but they'll do it covertly, the 2nd time around, like adding noxious substances to your food/beverages. Poisoning you slowly until your disabled.

She’sTexan1970 Hope the younger one gives him hell.

The silent treatment is a classic for an abuser. I guarantee you he was cheating and plotting the whole time

I hope you spiked his beers😆

@@pamspencer5733 Wedding Crashers can be educational.

And then seek to destroy them for sport!

Yep! Wise man, speaking truth 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Alexander mayor. when I was young I was beautiful but didn't realise it. I had narc mother then my ex. he didn't treat me as beautiful but put me down. between the both of them I felt worthless. i still do and all this happened with Ex rom age 16 and I'm now 67. I don't know where the time has gone. I never married again but he on his 3td marriage. I need to get everything written down as to what happened me. I have a mental health support worker and I plan to ask her where I can go to write.xx

They like to destroy good souls

@@toolate4536 One thing I have learned is that evil don't like GOOD.

Sooo sad...

@Kitty Bridgeman This can be such a brutal world. Especially for women...😔

Raising child is the hardest of all jobs...

Awww😲.

I've always for most part, took care of house n kids n my Gma n same was put down n felt worthless. Nothing was right.

Every time you take them back they get worse and better at their game. You need boundaries and tough skin and to love yourself. We only go back to a fantasy.

Yes it is I was strangled because I wouldn't give him sixty dollars that was it. I discarded and divorced.

Yep... All Narcassist are truly sadistic, fraudulent, and pitifully individuals. Satan needs to come collect all his narcassistic children and take them back to hell with him.

Story of my life for 11years. It will change you and isolate you from people. It will make you lonely to the core. But there is a hope to grow from the ashes once you leave him to start rebuilding your life and your happinnes. God bless to those that escaped😍

Awl in da family

My Ex he broke my teeth and tried to take out my eye, horrible animal, not a man.

@@sinahjond7402 Was he a Muslim?

@@sinahjond7402 he nit animal,he beast bastard

@@silveradotow957 yes he is horrible.

Nancy Albro, you don't deserve to be with a narcissist!

Melinda Smith You need to get out ASAP because he could easily physically injure you. Be careful.

Yes, she is; especially with little make up...and 62! If you care to, you could easily get another nice man and he would be so lucky! Best of luck!

Have a wonderful life...take care..

I was isolated and controled. Lonely, sad and depressed. They are masters of hiding their true face. It comes and progress gradually, so eventually you are just stuck in this overwhelming swamp that sucks you up deeper and deeper, and you have no idea how to get out and escape👿

She found herself. That's what peace and contentment looks like. She is Happy. I am happy for her as well.

It's called hair dye! Makes all the difference.