"Someone cheating on you is also a form of abuse " the most wisest words ever

My Ex hit me ONE TIME. He choked me, wouldn’t let me leave the house, and slapped me a couple of times. That’s all it took. 🚮🚮🚮 NEVER AGAIN. It’s been two years and he is still begging to get back together. He keeps saying it was only once, he would never do it again, etc. I don’t care! I don’t play that!! PERIODT! No matter how good the relationship was I have daughters! I have to lead by example!!

Women’s intuition. Listen to it.

Lost my twin to the hands of her husband at 22yrs young changed my life .. Ive been lost since we're now 40.. I miss her so much we was 18 minutes apart. Can't explain my pain💔

You didn't cry because you're healed internally💫🖤💫

We all need a friend or brother like Calvin 💙

This story was hard to watch and hear. God spared u for a reason, live ur life to the fullest. As a man, believe me, no man who really cares about u will wanna cause u any type of hurt, mental or physical. You are a beautiful young lady, please know your worth...

My purpose of creating this storytime was to share my experience and to hopefully save someone’s life to give them the courage to leave a similar situation. Do you know how hard it was for me to get on here to share this? And to get negative comments goes to show how insensitive some people are. But what’s worse is tht a lot of the negative comments are from WOMEN! Some of y’all was throwing low key shade. I didn’t make this video to get judged and it doesn’t matter how many times I went back just know I left and I didn’t go back!! She if I sense shade or a insensitive rude comment you will IMMEDIATELY get blocked! I could careless about losing followers. This is my story my life and my channel! If you dnt have anything nice to say keep it to yourself and move around!!

I’m proud of you girl. My ex boyfriend actually broke my leg and literally continue to beat me while I laid on the floor. So I understand completely. Us women have to stop going after these want to be bad boy thugs. And as a culture we have to stop glorifying this particular image!

GOD IS REAL, AND REALLY GOOD TO US!

Omgggg! You are so strong! Why can’t men just leave you alone when they know they can’t love you the right way?

The 55 ppl that disliked this video must be friends of David. Big ups to Calvin he sound like a great friend.

Keep the Insensitive comments to yourselves. Unless you've been through a domestic violence relationship/situationship you couldn't possibly understand! Girl I commend you for your strength to leave and your will to keep living your life. ❤❤

I’m scared to even be with another man because I don’t have a strong male protector around. I only have sisters. Men can see when you don’t have strong male figures in your life. Mothers and fathers please hold your sons accountable! Don’t uphold them in disrespectful behavior, bullying, cheating and not having household chores. Some of these women are raising their son as monsters!

People do not understand ... Getting use to someone & going back JUST BECAUSE YOU WERE "COMFORTABLE" , is so real . Knowing good and damn well you needed better , deserved better , and could have received better ... But almost being afraid of what better may be . Smh . God bless , sis ! Glad you are here to tell your story , many don't get that opportunity ! Fr . Sn : you are so pretty ! ❤️ .

I just left my abusive boyfriend and I keep having dreams of him trying 2 kill me.

I had a cousin who was in an abusive relationship and it resulted in him losing his life. I am in tears and so happy to see people who are *alive* and *strong* enough to share their stories. I am so so so proud of you for making it through this situation.

That’s what abusers do ....it’s control and if they can’t have you no one can

Watch out for those "quiet" ones! They are the most dangerous...the anti-social, sociopaths! Glad you're alive and well to tell your story. It's a shame that we women are literally facing life or death just for selecting the wrong guy to date!! Damn shame! #BeBlessed

It's crazy that this pops up because I just attended my cousins funeral & she got shot by her "boyfriend." 😭 I wish people would just speak up!

He sounds like a narcissist and you were struggling with codependency that’s why you kept going back to him.

All the signs were there. Its important to listen to what the universe is trying to tell you

I’m watching this and I’m in tears.. i been trough something similar and no one believes me because he acts like a sweet guy when we was around people, I’m in trauma till this day , it was more than abuse it was mentally, he used to put me down always telling me how ugly and skinny I’m he really damages me as a person.. I’m so mad at myself for not listening to my friends and family and letting him treat me like that.. Now he has another girlfriend and a couple months ago he called my phone and texted me some stuff i talk about it with his girl and he basically said I’m a liar and I want him back and other things.. why people are so mean? Why he destroyed my life?😭 now I know it’s was a lesson, i well never NEVER let another man to do me like that again! I love myself and I know god was saved me from this person.. I’m so grateful that nothing happened to me and today I’m focused on myself!

You are blessed. Don’t ignore red flags and when a person show you who they are.

My ex came to my bestfriends house and started to fight me because I told him I wanted my house key back due to his cheating, so I whipped out my switch blade and he ran up to get done up...he didn't die but he learned an extremely valuable lesson and hopefully he'll think twice before he tries that with the next. Ladies don't wear no ass whoppin's, there's nothing wrong with defending yourself.

I was almost killed by my ex too by him strangling me in the tub. Smfh Never again. 🤦🏾‍♀️

Thank you for sharing your story............

Forget that... damn.. this dude could’ve killed you and for what? Because he was mad that you wanted to live your life. No way. Glad you are ok. Wish he would’ve went to jail

Are you still with Calvin though? He a real one 👏

I too was shot by an ex back in September 2018 I was shot in the back I was hit 2x I tell you this guy harassed me for 6 month I put a vpo on this guy and it only seemed to fuel his harassment he put my tires on flat broke my window on my truck broke my patio door out I was harassed on so many levels I called the police over and over and never seemed to get any help and the night before he called and said he was going to kill me and less than 24hrs he showed up at my house and shot at me thru my patio door I am so grateful to God that He spared my life and I know that He did so for a purpose and I'm still searching for that purpose I now am still waiting on him to be sentenced but my life has changed and very hard for me to trust again I truly believe that I now have to help others to stop allowing yourself to just settle and to wait on God to send that one thank you for sharing Thank God you to are still alive .

Omggg I got shot in my right knee too a few months ago. Scariest thing ever, I got kidnapped after they shot my car up and I crashed 🤦🏾‍♀️ that God we survived

Omg calling your name from bushes is so scary

You don't look like what you've been through! ❤️

I lost someone very special in my life 19 years ago; because of a “Dave”.

I married into that ... but I learned real fast you can’t trust abusers ...I haven’t been with him in 40 years and to this day I would never be alone with him ...I believe he still and just wants to kill mev

The crazy thing is I was that girl that couldn't understand why a girl would ever stay in a relationship with someone who put his hands on her and I'd judge judge JUDGE!! Then I met my abuser and fell in love. Still married to this day but trying to leave him permanently. It is the hardest thing I've ever been through and I've been through a lot!! Reminds me of that verse "For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you" it's so true!! So ya'll watch yourself and stop judging because the same thing can happen to you.

Girl every time you said you went back I was so mad.

you're so strong & brave to be able to tell your story not just online, but to sit in front of a camera and tell it. i'm glad you're out of the situation ❤️

Everytime she said she went back I was like 🤦‍♀️ Girl why!! I'm so sorry this happened to you Love 😔 No woman Should EVER be Punched in her face by a Man Period. I just wish you would've been left his ass but hey at least you're still here ❤

When your apartment get broken into it’s always the person helping you look for the person that did it... Happy you’re ok!!!!♥️

Wow blessings and praises to the most high. So happy you made it out. I was in a abusive relationship for 8 and 1/2 years and I give praises to the most high I survive. I currently have a restraining order in place the dreams have slowed down. I still jump when people surprise me. I jump when I walk to my car because I think I see him. I’m always looking in my rear view mirror thinking he’s following me. It’s hard but it’s getting much better for me. Thank you for your story. Blessings to you my sister

When she telling part where he enters her car and starts hitting her, it reminds me of the story that this girl did the same thing, allowed her boyfriend or her ex into the car so they could talk but instead he pulls out the gun out and killed her. But I'm so grateful you didn't die of the hands of your abuser

Watchin this video just made me realize how confused females can be but don call your self stupid life it’s all about experience hopefully you learn from it I wish yu the best gorgeous

Say that again..."They don't change." Thank you for sharing your story, people need to hear this, not just women but men too.

Are you still with Calvin or in touch with him? He was a great friend to you. You’re so blessed to be here, God is good!

Now don’t ever trust him again stay away from him

I can definitely relate to this story. I was in a DV relationship thru out high school. He would always cry and do everything to get me back. He fought me so much I had a miscarriage my 11th grade year. I went from a size 7 to a 0 within those 4 and a half years. He was in the midst of going to jail and that was my opportunity to be done. I thank god he got out of my life and I didn’t have ties with him. He was very negative and evil and a manipulator and a drunk smh. I’m glad your here to tell your story and you learned how a man should treat you. You’re very 💪🏽

I appreciate your vulnerability. I am in the same situation, minus the PHYSICAL abuse. I know its hard. It an emotion that know one will understand until they've experienced it themselves. It changes you a bit. Sometimes for the worse, sometimes for the better. You are beautiful! I Pray for peace in your life.

I’m not even halfway through, but I’m sorry that happened to you. I applaud you for getting out of the situation

I’m 29 years old now and I was in a domestic violence relationship in my teens. I’ve never been to therapy for this situation and I’ve always ignored this part of my past. But there are certain situations that happens which triggers me and I believe I have PTSD. My ex used to cheat on me constantly, he chocked me, caused bruises on my body from abusing me physically, and he verbally abused me. He would accuse me of cheating after checking my private area and attack me, and I never cheated on him. After these attacks I would have anxiety attacks. He went to jail but he would write my letters and have his Mom call me. When he got out he would stalk me, bribe me, and he constantly called everyday. I will never forget when he told me “if I can’t have you, no one can” but God saw different for me and he eventually left me alone. Thanks for sharing!

This is so sad... If you went up to those bushes you probably would’ve been killed :(

She look like Asian doll

Checked out this movie call Plugged Love...You can watch it on KZfaq you most definitely will relate to it.......I don’t understand how a person can do so much wrong but when you move on they can’t take it....I’m so happy u made it out.

Thank you JESUS for saving u,you could have loss your life.

I’m so sorry you went through something so horrible at such a young age! Thank you for being courageous enough to share your story, I know it had to be hard. Sharing your story/testimony could save someones life. 🙏🏽🙏🏽💜💜💜

I am so glad that you are sharing your story as there are many that will need to hear it. Wishing you strength, healing and every blessing for the future.

So glad youre doing much better, there is so much power in just walking away from a toxic situation the first time!! Thanks for sharing❤️

I'm so glad you found the peace to be able to share this. You are strong and inspiring to many. 💜💫💜💫💜

i’m so happy you’re still here. my mom was abused too. thank god she’s still here. yall are so strong 🙏🏻🙏🏻

You are so dope for this video! I can tell you went back and forth about telling your story bc of what people may think is your reason or motive. ... But know this, God put you thru that, made sure you survived, and wrote your story leading up to that point, and what happened after purposely so you could be relatable for other young woman out here that think the exact way most young woman think. When your young you look at older people and the things they try to warn you about "as not knowing what they are talking about" but when you see someone on your level, that thinks how you do, talks like you, likes what you like, around your age ....it makes a much BIGGER impact. You are more important than you know.... GOD CHOSE YOU!!!

Sorry you had to go through this. Thank God for his angels for protecting you. I know exactly the mindset you had after this. I got shot at also..thankfully I wasn’t hit but it’s so hard to deal with. It was so traumatizing but I looked at it as God opening my eyes and seeing the path that I was taking.

You are absolutely beautiful!! Thank you for having the courage to share your story, i’m so grateful you are alive and out of that situation now. I know your story will help so many. Sending you love and blessings!

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I'm so glad that you're still here & are able to share your story with others who need to hear it! I've been in a similar situation, my ex husband shot at me in 2003 when my daughter was only 3 weeks old. He is currently serving 25 years in prison!

I'm so happy you're still here to tell your story. I been there and our biggest mistake is letting the first one go. Then next thing you know, hes going upside your head whenever he feels like it. Most of the time its him that fucked up,but you take the beating. You feel so small and they have you believing the bullshit they feed you. Nobody else will want you, you ugly,compare you to other females. They just totally destroy the self esteem and respect that you have for yourself. You baby girl, tell your story cuz you never know who might need to hear it right then. God bless you baby girl

I appreciate you having to courage and strength to share ‼️

Thank you for sharing this matter of your heart. You never “get over” trauma. I got stabbed before, but not due to DV. I was abused by my daughter’s father, but I too broke & ended things when he kicked my door in, jumped on me, blacked my eyes, chipped a tooth, & beat me TF up. When our mental health ain’t on point, nothing else is. 💪🏾🧠❣️

Never been in an abusive relationship, but I’m glad you were brave enough to speak your story 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾thank God you got out when you did!! Like you said if you’ve never been in a situation like this don’t judge or talk about what you would’ve done, just listen to her story and take in the many points she’s sharing. Blessings to you young lady!🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

I'm so happy you lived through this horrible experience! I'm glad you finally know your worth! Bless you hun👌🏽👍🏾❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Girrrrl this sounded like an episode of that show Fatal Attraction...WOW...glad you're ok...stay prayed up 🙏🙏🙏

Kudos for telling your story, fam. You have tremendous courage, I am super proud of you. I never knew this! I am so thankful that you came through. Continued blessings, babe.

I am so happy that you were able to get out of this terrible situation, You are a very strong woman and honestly my inspiration, God definitely wrapped his arms around you and made sure you made it out alive, God bless you and I hope life only gets better for you

You’re so strong for sharing your story! May God bless you💖

All it take just one time for me but I'm so glad YOU came to your senses.

I’m so grateful you are well. Blessings to you ❤️

Dam girl that's so sad I'm glad you made it through this situation. You are so beautiful and I'm honestly so happy your here to tell your story. This will help other girls to see the signs. Much love queen ❤👸🏾

Damn baby. I'm so sorry you went thru that. I'm so happy and thankful you are here today to tell this story.

Thank you for telling your story. I appreciate you and your honesty. It’s hard to leave someone you love. I was in a five-year relationship with my first love. In the last two years it started to get abusive and he refused to let me go. Finally he did. & six years later I still have nightmares about Me going back to him. Which will never happen!!! How happy you made it! We made it!!!! Whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger 💯

You are blessed to see today beautiful and you are very strong to withstand all of that. God bless he will get what he deserves

im so sorry you went through this girl, you’re so pretty and didn’t deserve any of that. some men are really sick in the head and its so fucked up

We live & we learn and i admire your strength. I'm a survivor & I had to realize That I can't help everyone nor can I fix ppl 💗

Glad you overcome your pain. But just some thought to the many of ladies out their, give some of these nice and respectable dudes a chance for once. They may change your life into a world of happiness. 🙏

There is no need for you to feel like you being extra it’s your story you were shot there is nothing extra about that god bless you Thankyou for sharing your story ❤️ you could help someone else by simply sharing your story

Thank you so much for sharing your story! You are a very brave person, and very strong as you pulled through it all. You are an inspiration to those around you, and I wish you all the very best in your life. Take care💕

Thank you so much for sharing your story. And for the people saying shit about going back to him? Thankfully they’ve clearly never experienced domestic abuse. It’s confusing enough, WITHOUT the manipulation, let alone the unsolicited violence. Walking on eggshells, watching your back, it’s so so hard to keep a level head on your shoulders. I hope you’ve grown from this and I’m so thankful for your life and light, sugar! Happy new year!

Girl you are a survivor!! The Lord gave you karma against your ex when he went to jail. I have been in a similar situation with verbal & emotional abuse, calling me ugly, fat, cheating, & set ups with ex boyfriends too. We are healed & covered under Christ. God Bless You.

My heart goes out for you praying for God to give you the desires of you heart and more you didn't deserve that ...

Thank God you made it out sis...I've been there and done that as well and the MAIN BIG FACT that you said is THEY NEVER CHANGE! The very 1st time he hits you or even gets aggressive get out and never look back!! much love big hugs 💕💕💕💕

Thanks for sharing your story! Everyone deal with things differently but until your in the same situation you don’t never know what you would do when you love someone so much to go through whatever to be with them.

Wow, I know idk you personally but I just want to say I am so so so proud of you for working through that! And you not crying shows how much you have healed from the situation, you’re a strong women! And also can we get an update on you and Calvin ? He’s like your knight and shining armor like a cute telenovela

The ones that didn’t like this video, you absolutely need help! You have no heart and no compassion. You’re sick

So glad you’re still here girl and also that you got away!!!! Thank God. Stay strong hun 👏🏾

Your son strong, it takes a lot to open up about a situation like this. God is good, stay strong, you have a testimony. Your story will be heard around the world. This touched me. God bless you. You look so good and healthy stay blessed mamas

So grateful that you put this up 😩❤ I've been through it before too. Glad we both got away 💜

So sorry this happened to you thank god you are alive🙌🏾🙌🏾 I was in a abusive marriage years ago and had to get out I am a survivor also 💜💜 god bless you!😊

so glad you made it out sis! and I'm glad you're healing from it physically and mentally !

i pray God continue to give you strength..peace...love..joy..healing...it’s already yours though💙👌🏻! Everything we go thru in life is only testing our strength and you still here! You the chosen 1 fr.. so glad you realized, no matter what it had to take. sending nothing but positivity yo way fr baby!

This broke me your so pretty you was brave to tell this widd out a tear falling I'm glad your doing better again luv stay strong 💙 .

I just left a abusive relationship Saturday to be exact I wish I would have left sooner but now I feel like I have nobody because he was my only friend

Im so glad you made it out of this situation- how scary! You are so brave for sharing, I hope this story reaches whoever needs a sign to LEAVE!!! 😭🙏🏼

Thank God you're alive to tell your story Beautiful💔❤ 🙏🏾 This really going to help you and so many more that's still in a DV situation, stay Blessed and Safe, Manipulation is real and so evil for a person to do, only intentions is to harm😞🙏🏾