The marriage failed. You didn’t fail. Be kind to yourself sweetheart 🤗

Anyone else loves the way Mayim talks & carries herself?

Can we talk about how gorgeous she looked at her real wedding.

I believe Mr. Parsons line of " You look like a pile of swans " was an accurate description. You're a brilliant actor love. You are the reason I love the character Amy so much. Keep it up!

You do NOT need to be married again. You are awesome, married or not! And I mean, I hated Amy’s dress.. but the way Sheldon reacted to it totally melted my heart. Like, I literally got tears in my eyes. Team Shamy!!

Why do you feel you have failed? You married the man you loved, and had 2 beautiful boys. Yes it is true that you were not able to continue the relationship as a married couple, but you are doing your best to continue the relationship as friends and parents. Not many people can say that.you are a beautiful, intelligent woman, funny, and obviously with a kind heart. The relationship evolved to something different, and you guys were smart to change the relationship you had to a different one that would work with the emotional transition you were both experiencing.

I think the dress was one of those things that truly shone on the Shamy pairing, because when she was so uncertain and everyone hated the dress came Sheldon with the same taste, mirroring a lot of things that was so uniquely theirs. Love your acting. Didn't know you were a KZfaqr, but I really love the calm, insightful ways you talk in the videos.

It was a totally Amy dress. I'm sure she dreamed of a southern belle dress like Gone with the Wind and that's what she found. She loved it, Sheldon loved it and that's all that mattered. You didn't fail at marriage! You had the courage to fall in love and then you learned that love isn't always enough to keep people together. Lesson learned and if you marry or don't marry, it doesn't change the core of you, an amazing, inspiring person. You just keep being you and you'll be great!

I love the one that Amy chose. It really speaks and represents her personality and upon seeing Sheldon's reaction? Game over!!!! Amy said yes to the right dress! I cannot wait! I've waited 8 years for this. EIGHT LONG YEARS.

I absolutely loved Sheldon's reaction to Amy's dress! Priceless & sweet! 💞👍😉

I wasn't a fan of Amy's dress, BUT it was soooo Amy. And Sheldon's reaction, I actually cried. I'm a huge crier, and it was great to see Amy in the beautiful dresses as opposed to her usual clothes (no judgement) but she chose the perfect dress for her Love your channel and after binge watching, I finally clicked that little bell icon, after being subscribed for a while now 😇🙏💚

The vintage wedding dress is beautiful, great choice.

Could you ask for the dress to be auctioned and the money be used to feed homeless children? Might makes something that feels a bit difficult become a huge asset for society?

I got to say I did not like Amy's final choice of wedding gowns. I actually thought she was kind of excited about how she looked in the first choice so when she came out with that floofy choice {sans shepherd's staff} I was kind of surprised that's the one she loved. But when I saw Sheldon's reaction saying how beautiful she looked how he couldn't wait to marry her I thought it was the perfect dress and I actually started bawling so screw what everyone else thinks Amy loves it, Sheldon loves her in it so that has to be the 👗 dress!

This video is 2 years old, though I want to comment it. When I watched this episode I was just wondering about why Penny and Bernadette disliked Amy's dress. I know it's not that traditional and definetely not everyone's taste but I reaaaally loved the dress. And I daresay I have a good taste because I studied fashion design and am now becoming a costume designer. But I think we all can agree that this dress fits Amy perfectly. The dress seems a little bit like coming from the middle or late 19th century but it's also modern, it's overloaded with lace and embroideries like Amy's character is overloaded with a lot of fun, love and also pity. And there is a word in german but I don't know if there is a similar word in english which is "bieder" and it's often something bad but I think it's absolutely loveable in Amy. Thank you Mayim for giving this character so much life and I am sure you will find accomplished happiness with or without another wedding dress on your body :)

Amy's dress was perfect for Amy. And the fact that Sheldon loved it so much made it even better.

This is so real, I loved that you talked about this. It’s can be hard to articulate a ball of feelings that you experience and your really broke it down in examining it and made me think.

Amy's wedding dress is absolutely DREADFUL in my opinion but Penny said it best when she said it wasn't about what she felt but what AMY felt...Amy loves the dress and feels beautiful/happy in it...and as it turns out Sheldon thinks she looks beautiful in it too. Win-win for THEM and the opinions/feelings of the rest of us don't matter. For me this episode was the sweetest in a long time. Sheldon's expressions of his feelings for Amy were SOOOOO touching. Loved it

Marriage failure is never a personal life failure, you’re a strong woman.

I loved Amy's wedding dress! It was hilarious and showed the bride's personality. Amy felt herself like a princess in the dress and that is the most important. And Mayim's wedding dress was also fit for her perfectly.

I hated Amy's wedding dress, until, Sheldon saw her in it and he loved it, then, it was perfect

Ok can I have an unpopular opinion? I honestly love Penny & Bernadette, they were looking out for her & didn’t want her to be hurt on her wedding day. They didn’t want her to look back regret her choice or be judged by others. And I understand it’s her day but they were just looking out for a friend. Please don’t hate me but if I was her friend I’d do the same thing, but ultimately it’s her choice & she can do what she wants

I really loved your dialogue in TBBT: Bernadette stop!! Penny you say something nice now 😂

I'm binge watching the show in self isolation and I love the character Amy. You're an awesome actress ❤️ Ps. I absolutely adored Amy's dress.

I feel like "I don't know" is a completely acceptable answer to the will you get married again question. While most of my divorced friends say they'll never get married again, some have found a partner who makes them question whether or not they want to get married, and some have remarried. "I don't know" is really the only answer anyone should ever have to this question. Not only does it give people an answer, but it's not lying to people or to ones self. You may live your life as a single person and be completely fine with that, and that's okay. You may find someone you want to spend your life with and you two might get married, but there is nothing that says you have to. Marriage is just a commitment between two people to take care of each other and be there through all the ups and downs; agreeing to do that legally with a contract isn't for everyone. The point is, life is unpredictable and full of chaos. Not knowing the answer to these types of questions shouldn't mean someone is going to die alone and eaten by their 34 cats.

Your wedding dress couldn't be more beautiful! I mean yours, not Amy's!! Let me tell you, no one will pity you! You are perfect just where ever you are at this point! But Amy's dress!! Oh, my goodness!! Perfect! And when Bernadette said "where have you been keeping that waist", I thought I would die! You are absolutely gorgeous and we forget that when you are in Amy's clothes! I can't wait for the wedding. As Amy says, "It's been eight LONG years!!"

Sheldon's reaction when he comes in the door to tell Amy his big idea is one of my favorite Sheldon moments. I love TBBT and I've seen every episode many many times but when he opens that door and his eyes get all wide, he forgets what he was gonna say and is just like "Wow, you look amazing" I love him like that bc he doesn't show how much he loves her very often but when he does it's like an accident

I have to say I LOVED the dress that Amy got married in!! When I was looking for my wedding dress, I had found a vintage style, Spanish inspired gown that was soooooo me, but sooooo outside my budget. 17 yrs later, Amy gets married in a vintage inspired gown that brought back sweet memories!

Wait what??? Where did this channel come from and why didn’t I know it existed

Mayim, I love how you are so self aware of your feelings. Thank you for sharing them, you are helping so many :)

I loved the fact that when Amy found HER DRESS she knew instantly that “that was her dress” and when Sheldon saw it he thought she looked amazing and beautiful!!!! And I believe in my heart of hearts it was because she felt amazing and beautiful.

Girl! No one feels pity for you, you are such a beautiful, strong and smart woman. Divorce happens, stop feeling bad about yourself, you didn’t fail, and you deserve to be happy. I know this video was posted a long time ago, but I still needed to say it. Love you so much💗

The 2nd dress you tried on was stunning and you looked amazing. But only you could pull off the final dress. And you did it so well. But, my favorite moment in the show was Sheldon's reaction when he opened the door. Jim did such an amazing job with that moment. I was truly taken with his reaction. SO GOOD!!

Divorce is not a failure.

thanks for sharing! I can't even imagine how hard this must be, but I loved seeing you/Amy trying on the dresses, I literally loved you in all the dresses. and I loved how Amy got to pick a dress that fit her personality!

Just now coming across your channel and I love your authenticity and sincerity in all your videos and especially this one. Thank you so much for sharing and verbalizing these complicated issues that I believe many of us face!!

Amy had always wanted to be a princess. I think her choice was perfect for her, and obviously for Sheldon. I don't care for the dress, personally, but I think it was the perfect choice for Princess Amy! She feels beautiful in it, therefore she looks beautiful in it! 💖

You're overthinking it, as an audience member your personal marriage or divorce never crossed my mind. What I loved was how they showed Amy's excitement and then when Sheldon told her she was beautiful. That just melted my heart. ❤️

I love that Amy bought the dress that she liked. And Sheldon's reaction to her look was so wonderful.

I love your down to earth open honesty. You express things most are afraid to thus you empower those people (me) by doing it. 💕

I don’t think anyone thought anything about your personal life. What really mattered in that episode was when Sheldon thought Amy looked beautiful! 😍

You looked amazing in all the dresses. I wish the whole world had Amy’s attitude. She is caring, loving, patient and she accepts herself. And exudes love and fun. Amy pulls off “The” dress incredibly, you do too Mayim.

Somehow I only recently discovered your channel. I very much enjoy watching your videos. You are a great person, and I admire the way you show your feelings and your vulnerability. Looking forward to more vids!

Why hasn’t it taken me so long to find your Vlog Mayim. Loving your honesty! Thanks for your posts!

I thought it was one of the most powerful Amy moments in the show. I loved how she found the one dress that she liked and also how much Seldon appreciated her.

we thought Amy's wedding dress was hysterical she looks like she belongs in the movie Gone With the Wind but that being said for Amy's character that fits her loved your video

I love how honest you are. It takes courage to share who you are and how you feel with the world. I respect you so much.

I really love the concept and idea of your videos Mayim..what u try to convey through your vidoes feels so real and honest that it gives me a kind of warm fuzzy feeling..keep up the good job..my best wishes to u!!!

I also cried when Sheldon sees the dress, that was the most heartwarming moment ever💖

Hi Mayim. Pity ?? That's crazy talk right there !! I think you are strong independent woman. I am glad you got to do this and see yourself wearing those dresses ! I also thought your own wedding dress was really beautiful. Thanks I enjoyed your video as always 👍😀

Wow. This is my first time visiting your official page, and it’s the first video I picked (as a single person who has never even wanted to try on a wedding dress…I chose it out of morbid curiosity). The way you describe the anxiety of having to try them on (even separating yourself as an actress doing your part for the show) is so relatable! There’s still a lot of pressure put on women about weddings, dresses, and weighty traditions. You’ve really explained the ambivalence associated with all of this well. I’m really looking forward to watching more of your videos.

I like how honest you are about your feelings. Must be therapeutic to share your feelings like this.

I know Amy's dress is very unpopular and I understand that opinion but I think it's perfect for Amy and she looks pretty in it. If she wants it then she should have it because it's her perfect dress and no one should be prevented from having that if they want it.

First when I saw Amy's dress I was a bit shocked, but now I am ok with it. Amy likes it and Sheldon too and that's what's important. That was such a sweet scene when he reasured her to keep the dress😍 But i have to say I liked the first dress better👰

I relate to this so much. Thank you for being so willing to say what most of us feel. Nothing wrong with being single.

I loved everything about The Big Bang Theory from start to finish, from the awesomeness of nerd culture to Amy and Sheldon’s entire relationship journey to your wedding dress to (most of all) YOU! 🤩

Loved that it was sooo Amy...it was definitely over the top!

I could not close my mouth when I saw Amy's dress, I was so surprised. I loved that she loved it, it would not have been the dress I would have chosen however it had the perfect amount of poof. Also, I wanna say, if my future husband doesn't have Sheldon's reaction when he sees me in my wedding dress I will be super disappointed. I replayed that scene about 15 times, it was the CUTEST THING EVER!!!

I just love and appreciate how down to earth you are! It's like we're sitting right there with you. ❤ Thank you

I COMPLETELY related to so many things you just said! Thank you for making me feel like I'm not alone! And please know just because you are divorced doesn't mean you failed!

Thank you for sharing your feelings so eloquently. I actually see you as a role-model for us women who are also divorced and living an 'unconventional' or 'non-traditional' life. And it's one of the reasons I'm a huge fan! I'm divorced, 40, a bit of a nerd, don't have a conventional career and chose to be child free. We need more role models out there for alternative ways of living, so thank you for putting yourself out there. And meanwhile, we can live vicariously through Amy.

I love your honesty about confronting difficult feelings. Thank you 💗

You are just so perfect in expressing the exact emotion... I love that about you, how you managed these complex feelings and are able to explain them. 😘

I love ur videos. U r so real. Never change. Oh and i loved all the dresses amy tried on. The one she picked was perfect and sheldon just loved it!! ❣️

at first i wasn't really into the dress that she picked, but after looking at it a couple times, i'm starting to like it. i think it was kinda big and puffy for my taste, but the details were very elegant and i love lace dresses so, that's why! i love the first two, especially the second one, maybe it's because it's very new and we haven't really seen you wear things like that and i think the last dress was really the one, it brings out Amy's personality more than the other two that she tried on! Another great video Mayim, it's worth the wait!!! (and the thumbnail tho. ❤)

I always cheer Amy and Sheldon team. Do what ever make you feel happy. Always trying to make everyone else happy is a challenge but it not worth losing who you really are. You can't not please everyone and that's OK. Make you happy and people would love to be around you. Married,not, or happen to get remarried should be on you if it makes you happy. Take it from me. I was that person before and I was stressed, depressed, sad, mad and everything else. Wasn't a happy life. Enjoy the life most people may never get the chance to live.

You looked amazing as Amy trying on wedding dresses!! I loved it! 🥰❤️

I love you! I really look up to you and your honesty and how you put yourself out there!

Your real life Edwardian wedding dress was lovely.

I'm so glad you're on KZfaq!!!!

I love your honesty! ❤️ Love Amy’s dress and Bernie’s and Penny’s reaction 😂

Thank you for being you, sharing your transparency and true emotions - a strong lesson received - great appreciate for this moment of life

I JUST HAD A MOMENT BECAUSE OF THE TITLEEEEE 😍😍😍😍

Didn’t like Amy’s dress, but LOVED Sheldon’s reaction. Amy and Sheldon’s relationship was one of my favorite parts of the show.

I'm so thankful for your channel, for you share your life. Love u.

That dress was so Amy. Like if you go back to Amy’s reaction to the tiara it makes perfect sense that Amy would want to look like a giant cupcake princess on the day she got married.

Wow your wedding dress was beautiful 💓

Don't EVER say you failed at something. Life is not about failure. It's about "Hmmmm....let's see if this works. If not, at least I tried it".

You are such a great role model. Thank you Mayim, much love💓

Omg you're such an honest inspiration, thank you!

Wow, your actual wedding dress looks amazing!

You did look beautiful in those dresses. The one she picked was perfect for Amy. When I was first marriageable age that kind of dress was popular. I've been married 3 times, never had a real traditional dress. The last time, as my father said " it took". I wore a burgundy Irish renaissance dress.

It was listening at your thoughts about using an expensive dress just once and it was an immediate subscription. 💪💜

You are so brave to expose an intimate issue for us! Thank you! 😘❤

This seemed like a Lorelai Gilmore monolog 😂

Forget the dress! I think it’s a pity that you (Mayim) feel that you “fail” because you are now divorce. I am also divorced but feel that far from a failure, it was an experience from which I learned a lot. It help me grow as a person and mature also. Your divorce and your whole married like experience just like mine, has help you become the person you are now and you should be very proud of that. I’m sure he made mistakes too and was not perfect! Wear that badge with pride girl as it has made you a better, stronger person and has left you two beautiful kids. All part of the learning curve babe. 😊

You are so real and I can relate to you, you are amazing!!!!

Thank you for being so honest and open.

Don't worry Mayim, after the video was over I wasn't judging you because you were divorced or anything like that. All I was thinking is that you have great taste in shirts. Absolutely love your Wolverine shirt!! Just be you girl and that's all we'll see. :)

The best part was when Sheldon loved the dress

I love, LOVE, your "real life" wedding gown. So beautiful.

I am so gratiful for this youtube channel. Mayim, thank you !

I totally get the wanting to be normal thing. Being nerdy, weird and an introvert makes you react very differently in most of the social situations and that puts you in the very spotlight you are trying to avoid in the first place

I really wish you read this. ❤️❤️ Hello my lovely TBBT guys, I am a big fan of all of you. I had never watched a single episode of TBBT when it was on air. I had heard a lot about TBBT from my friends though. In the current time of covid19 and lockdown, I have made binge watching my way of killing time. I came across TBBT on Prime videos, I thought of giving it a shot since I have heard so much about the show. Since the very first episode I found the show very attractive. I became so fond of the show that I started watching it for more than 12 hours per day. For the last one month I have spent most of my life with TBBT/ you guys. I got so attached that your life in the show became my life in real. There was your group doing all the stuff in the show and there was me with everyone of you watching all that you did. Leonard, Sheldon, Howard, Raj, Penny, Amy, Bernadette, Stuart and all the other lovely people who became a part of TBBT, I have literally lived each moment with you which you created in the show. Normally a show entertains us, but TBBT was not just a show. It was the lives of real people who weren't simple people but had to face problems which a common person feels in his/her life. From Leonard and Sheldon becoming friends with Penny to Howard finding Bernadette and going to space and Raj having the cutest of the problems ever, I have enjoyed everything about your lives. This beautiful journey finally came to an end after the 24th episode of season 12. When I had started watching the show, I thought it would be a good idea watching a show with so many seasons. You know, more episodes means I could watch it for a longer time and enjoy for a longer time. But TBBT involved me so much that this beautiful journey of 12 years came to end in just a month for me. Honestly speaking I am devastated right now. It feels like I had a really beautiful family of mine which has gone missing suddenly. I can't see Sheldon's innocent annoyance, Leonard's cuteness, Penny's coolness, Howard's funny nature, Raj's innocent lovely boy acting, Bernadette's cute anger and little girl-like behavior, Amy's self consciousness and Stuart's confused nature everytime. I can't see any of these now. My friends aren't there at their usual places now. I am writing this letter to send my love to my gone friends. I really wish you guys read this. You guys mean a lot to me. TBBT has really been a beautiful show and it's end was the most beautiful one. The last scene of Sheldon's speech, then you guys getting back to the apartment 4A, sitting around the coffee table having dinner and then the song starts playing, - rolling in front of my eyes past three days. I saw your rehearsal for that scene backstage on KZfaq and how you all got emotional when the song played. I am unable to stop tears rolling down my eyes since that scene. Each tear of mine has beautiful memories of you guys. The last scene was really beautiful. Literally my world has fallen down by not seeing you guys anymore. I understand you have given 12 beautiful years of your lives to this show. And everything has to come at an end at the correct time. And you guys have a lot more things to do further in your lives. You guys are really the most lovely and beautiful people I have met through a sitcom. I don't know how to control my emotions right now. It will take a couple of weeks of maybe more for me to overcome the sorrow of not seeing my lovely friends together anymore. I love you all, Sheldon, Leonard, Raj, Howard, Penny, Bernadette, Amy, Stuat. I really love you. Thanks for creating such a beautiful show and giving me and millions like me so much happiness. If I ever find a genie and have 1 wish to make. I would wish to see you guys again at the same place, together. And then if I have another wish, that will definitely be meeting you guys in real life. Thank you so much once again for this beautiful journey. I really wish you all get all the happiness and goals in your life that you all are looking for. Always stay safe and prosperous. You mean the whole world to me and many others like me. Please make all my TBBT family read this letter. This is my true love for them straight from my heart. And Please keep posting about yourself so that we stay connected to our lovely friends. Bye guys. Really wish to see you all together again. Love from India -Nikhil

She looks so good in that wolverine t shirt! Also she is so smart, open minded and I love her perspective about things

I recently discovered your channel and I love it!! You're amazing in all ways!!! And you are gorgeous too!! 😘

Omg... dear, we won’t feel pity for you. And you don’t need to feel pity for you too. You hadn’t fail a marriage. You had a relationship for a limited time and that’s all. And feeling beautiful wearing a wedding dress doesn’t mean you want to get married again, it means you can appreciate your beauty, it means you found a silhouette that works for your body and/or style. Thank you for being open and honest about this topic. But remember, you are amazing the way you are and getting married again or not won’t change that ❤️ Don’t be so hard on yourself!

How do you feel about playing a character that isn't Jewish but is on a show that has played into Jewish stereotypes with only two characters (Howard and his mother)? I love Big Bang Theory, but the early seasons played into so many stereotypes and some of them haven't been addressed.

OMG. This is the first time I've seen your videos, and I feel like I'm having a Blossom flashback with you talking to the camera.😁💗

I love your honesty. Thank you for that.