True

What sort of questions

True. That goes both ways. Females won't care about asking guys what their hobbies are, family etc

@@faridaaali6170 Any questions really, but especially concerning you. It's always a bad sign if a guy only talks about himself or not at all.

he behaves like someone else’s cat. 😂

Intuition is one of the most skill to hone

Don’t trust shit just think logical

I'm right in that case, thank you a lot for the advice

Sidney Boo Wise words from you!

Exactly, so spot on. And the same goes for guys towards women.. If you are in doubt - you should trust your instinkt and intuition. ;)

“… believe them the first time.” - Maya Angelou

LOL! That says it ALL!

It was also happened to me, the relationship was the worst experienced in my life! I think he is narcissist 🤨😏😠😡

@@errika1485 Take care. Uk what I started hating all men coz of one guy I had seen

I had this for 10 years but would refute being married or having a girlfriend. I found out recent he’s married and a priest!

Amen to that

I'm gonna save this one 😂 when a guy wonders why I stopped communicating with him I'm gonna send him this lmao.

yes but not all women have friends close,or afford to travel or have a family ,yes in a perfect world we all should have that,but we dont..so they show up..

@@ugnulanila Facts 💯

Even being lonely without an asshole is heavenly compared to being hurt and disrespected by selfish assh.

You are right about having an inner, safe circle. Also if I have doubts about a guy I tell him about my friend or brother. Just to let them know I'm connected.

@@ugnulanila that is true x

Really need this, thank you

BRAVO! Yes, the voice is truly important - not just texts. Best wishes to you!

@@blackbeardsdaughter2613 he'll come around one day ... Or he won't . Either why I make my life how I want it and enjoy solitude because solitude is actually a gift :) ty for your reply and 'like'! 🫂🪽

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Exactly 😂

Unless you're old and it's fun k

That can go the other way with narcissism to they can just be so into you and ask you all the questions about you and then what they’re doing is they’re getting ammunition then they’re gonna marry you really fast and then I’ll be fast to get in a relationship with you in some manner will you sweep you off your feet? Listen to everything you say, the Mr. wonderful you need to watch those types too. I was married one he had a completely different life now he’s married again and he was cheating on her, so you know it is what it is run from the men or women.

I usually rent exensive cars and jewellery and clothing a bag full of fake money with a few 100 50 and 20 on top for a weekend and go clubbing clap few cheeks and ghost they think im rich when im a regular guy .my dad told me women love to feel special all u have to do is play the role and clap cheeks until u well establish then chose a wonan in her early 20 s and pamper her but always keep a side chic just incase things go left i wouldnt end up crying over spilt milk and he a right i get the girls every good simp want without being emotinally involve .sex is basic even animals and insects does it.surprise people need to be in a relationship with all the stress iand responsiblities just to bus a nut crazy plus most women already run through so jus hit and run no need to stay and burn .we born single and will die single inbetween life and death it just a field day.

Good job girl!!

Nice!

Yep, buying a cell phone doesn't take a couple of months. Besides, if he says he didn't have your number, then that's bullshit bcoz if you're important to him then he'll contact you asap

@@SCARLETIC. my thoughts exactly. Buying a cell phone doesn't take 2 month's. Get out of here. I don't have time for your games. NEXT

Sounds just like a Pisces I dated a couple years ago I met at the motel we both worked at. He used the I dropped my phone in the pool at work when he disappeared for a week. Then he gave me a line of crap when he ghosted me for a month came back claiming he missed me then one last time I said something in a text and poof he was ghosting me again for good.

Men aren't the problem. Narcissists are.

I have a similar experience with a childhood boyfriend. pursued me for 10 years. Just to cheat,lie and eventually leave me for prostitutes

Getting back to a Nonsense ex is like a Cat eating up what does he vomit!😬

He will reap what he sowed. The Lord does not take kindly to heartbreakers....

i know a lot of women do crap like this too. it's messed up. never dip your toe in a rebound, as a rule!

That's my thought on it too.

Needed this. Thank you.

I am on number 2. I missed it when he said number 1 by saying he's so happy

I’m glad to see this helped! To elaborate on #2, some people try to use the, “you’re the first thing on my mind when I wake up/last thing on my mind before I fall asleep” lines to make you feel special. They’re usually trying to justify giving you as little time as possible.

Number one is a really good flag. Thanks for writing this out.

i met a girl who did that, she would text very late at night, like 2 and 3 in the morning. Why would they do that?

God i cannot get over him 😑 i mean i ignore 3 texts but eventually i text him back.

Feel for you chick. Same happened to me 😖

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@@clairefoxall2313 I know the feeling .

Wawooo very interesting, but me i need help.

Genuinely curious, how did changing your view attract different men?

@@ellengrace4609 I think once I started changing how I view myself, once I started believing that I deserve a man who actually wants to show up and be there for me, when I made a decision that I'll be speaking up when something doesn't feel right, I started attracting quality men. Those time wasters will still be casting their net, but now I know better, so I don't go for it.

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@@ellengrace4609 ..u got to realize yo worthy and knw wat u want ..above al...make sure u choose to respect yoself....that way u won't validate washy washy feelings

I chatted regularly with a fellow on a dating site for two weeks…great conversations, somewhat in depth, excluding very personal info of course. He tossed compliments my way regarding how refreshing it was to converse with an intelligent woman, etc. He was the initiator in our chats. After a lengthy, “live” conversation (we were both online at the same time), I was sure he’d ask to meet for the first time…over coffee, or ask for my phone #. Nope. In fact, he didn’t contact me for three or four days and then started with the usual how are you, etc. I told him adios…I don’t want an anonymous pen pal. I learned a lesson. In the future, I’ll chat for a week, tops. If there is no mention of wanting to meet, I’m gone. Next! 😂

Sounds like he wants to be a friend. Just treat him as such! No sense in throwing away a friendship just bc they're a man!

😂🤣🤣

Exactly

Well said--truth

Seems like a lot of ppl are this pathetic. Just be honest with others.

I want to see the good in people and not think they are evil, that’s why i fall. I don’t want to fall for people that easily….

Yessss

Yes, for Sure, I love his Advice.

Girl move on I have been through the same and I hate his guts now. It's all about him and how you make him feel and the ego boost. What about our ego killing our self worth in the process

Ego boost, absolutely:-(

Girl, I can’t even stand 3 months of flirting that’s going nowhere. 18 months is too long. These idiots come back when we shut off their supply huh? Hope we have the strength to keep that door shut.

Definitely all about him having his ego boosted , I’ve been there the most annoying thing! Be really flirty with him then when he feels like replying leave him on read and completely disappear, that’ll do it for his ego 😂

@@kentyiluminada7676 😂

Amen to all the above.

My x always talking but she love me yet she and her siblings hate each other SMDH.that the problem right there saying love to me but everyone around u see as uncaring and selfish.hyprocrite .

Thank you a lot, I'm right in that case but your words awake me

I LOVE it when Women Give Great Advice to other women!! I wish We Ladies would be genuinely kinder to each other at the Work place; or everywhere we go; because men have much Respect for other men; and they don't Attack each other; nor pull each other down! ! MEN respect their own Gender Very Much!! I hope We Ladies can do the Same with Our own gender.

Spot-on! ;)

Doesn’t sound like you’re being with him anyway if you’re thinking about text messages.

True

Yes this totally works and I always disliked texting as I felt this to be true but got caught up in it like everyone else....it’s not real talk

actually i had an online dating situ, and the texting was GREAT. i met up (with her) for first date, and it was like a nightmare. self-focused, not attentive... like if you pop in an art gallery and it's a DATE, why tf would you go across the damn room without the person?? the point is to talk. anyway everything was just... super weird and off. and yet the texting was fun, engaging and funny. i was gutted. texting after that was good. second date went the same as the first. DEFINITELY agree that texting can be good then in person is horrible. (for reference, am girl, so the guy/girl thing like vid title isn't relevant here._

Me too. Guys really push for that and it is a personal thing to do. It should only after several in person meets. You can feel a connection texting and phoning that when meeting in person the connection all disappears.

Perfectly well said

Truth--well said and thank you

Exactly!

I rarely fall in love too and additionally hardly anyone seems to ever be interested in me.. 😥

@@trixi1608 So true!

@@trixi1608 I get men winking and making jokes to make me laugh, flirting, asking if I have a boyfriend. Then when I think one in particular wants to take it further the reaction is always 🤷 where did you get that idea from??? I think I'm picking up wrong signals everywhere ☹️ From now on unless someone asks me out (they never ever do) then I have to believe they don't want me

Good Lesson to learn for Me!

Why are u laughing. That 🤕 hurts like hell.

@@sealife22Laughing the pain off, it does hurt but sometimes you just gotta laugh even though you want to cry

I hope your husband comes back to haunt this opportunist.

Why would you suggest to meet up with a married man?

Same here 😂

I found a husband by snapping up a man who had been dumped by his fiancee. He was the kind of man who would go out in a blizzard to help a friend whose car died in the middle of the street (true story; I knew the friend). He wasn't afraid of commitment and he was a very good person. We've been married for 26 years.

Because you are intelligent 🤓

Yet, here you are…

@@TeutonicTribe So you’re saying I should limit myself from watching anything that doesn’t got to do with me? What’s your point? You don’t like what I just said? 😁

I'm getting there😮

Everyone is having difficulty, unless you're in high school or college.

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@henryDOG. It sounds like your partner may be a narcissist. There are many good sites on KZfaq that can help you decide. If he fits the description RUN!

@@annnorthover8357 I don’t need to do anymore research… I am Long gone .

@@annnorthover8357 r she is the narc and he run after feeling her darkness.

True love is unconditional

Lesson learned😊.

*Wilde

Friends don’t ghost you. He isn’t a friend.

You got a Laugh from me, while I was reading your comment, but I wanted to say that if that is You in the picture; You are Absolutely Gorgeous and you have to feel and act like a Queen; because You look like One, but with Dignity and Respect for yourself first and then for the other person; if they Criticize You; that means he is Not Worth it!

Ever since I was Young, I met young women who told me; I want a man with Money; but Society always call women who want a Man that could give them a better lifestyle; "Golddiggers" because Society wants women to have Low Self esteem. But when you date losers; then you get Criticized for dating losers and everything bad thing they do to You; Society would say that it's your fault. And the other thing I wanted to say was; Men are Very demanding with the person they Want in their lives; and they want the BEST for them; So Why Not You ??

He already has. Go to his channel

They move you really fast. No respect for your boundaries, like will try too push you somehow to do stuff you don't wan't to or don't have the time to from do early on . They will badmouth their ex , pull the victim card, lovebomb you and find out your insecurites and use them against you to gain control. You will soon feel guilty , frustrated and confused. Take a gooood step back, and observe , run quietly . Don't call them out because they will often double down on their tactics. BLOCK. Been there, done that. You will become a shodow of your self. Take care of your self sweatheart. If you feel something is off, it's because it's off. Trust yourself.

You and l both sis….. you and l both.

R u and interesting person r someone waiting on a man to make u happy

@@marvinpercival4717 The fact that she admits that she keeps attracting these guys - you got your answer already..

Puppy love that adult dont do that u need to find urself a teenager.

I agree. You have to be afraid of ME losing interest, and text to make sure I don't. If you don't text daily then I know you're willing to risk losing me.

How is your relationship?

@@hannashbelledelosreyes4767 Thanks for asking. We are seeing longer periods of peace, however, I am coming to the sad realization that I may be dealing with a narcissistic personality style and so try as I might, this will likely not work. I know this is a buzz word right now, but, there is something to it. I have been watching videos on youtube by Dr. Ramani and have learned a lot about the signs. I do take everything with a grain of salt but the puzzle pieces are going together. I wish this was not the case because I really did develop love for this man. Learning why this is so confusing too. This personality style is not consistent. So, they can be really great, punctuated by episodes that are superbly damaging. The can do nice things and then be really awful. He is great, and then when he gets triggered, usually by something small, he gets shaming and blaming and accusatory in such a way that is totally shattering. Then, if I try to talk about it, more either happens or he gaslights me and denies saying anything....then the next day acts like nothing happened. Anyway, it is not going well, but I have learned a lot and am making my way to the exit. All the amazing advice in the world only works on people who want to apply it. This personality style, does not.

@@averagejane09 Make sure that when you decide to let go, communicate all of this to him. No regrets left behind. It takes strength to love and strength to realize when to exit from a toxic cycle. He may change, but do not wait for that to happen. You cannot compromise yourself and your time for a possibility. I wish for you peace of mind and soul, dear friend.