I started watching after the viral “average at best” and a lot has changed. I forgave my dad, I got therapy, lost weight, and got engaged ☺️ Thank you Godfather!

I'm White male Irish, 63, in 🇮🇪 Ireland. This man speaks the truth. Yer changing the narrative of all mens worlds Kevin. For the better.

As a woman, this pushback against strong and independent feminism made my life so much better. My whole life I felt like a failure because I never had a career and never did too well at any fulltime job I’ve had. I focus more now on being feminine and nurturing my husband and we’re both happier for it. I’m no longer embarrassed for not being a “boss bish.”

KS: "When women have preferences, they are celebrated. When men have preferences, they are demonized." No truer statement has ever been made.

What’s really crazy is even after a year, the detractors try to disprove his points by proving his points. The more they fight back, the more validation, he gets.

I apologize for my mic having issues earlier (never had that problem before). Id love to thank you for helping me become a better wife, mother, woman, and friend. I got a message from a friend this morning who was thanking me and telling me that she had been thinking about the questions I asked her last week. Her and her husband got into a big fight and she began contemplating divorce. They haven’t been married for a full year and they just had their first child, a son, 3 months ago. I asked her if she really wanted to put herself in a situation where she’d be looking for a step father and I brought up the fact that boys shouldn’t be raised by women, that’s a man’s job and why it’s important for boys to have their fathers around. Now they are working on things! God bless you and have a great vacation! I wish you and your family a beautiful and happy day!

At the time of that video a year ago, I had just turned 25. I am 10 years younger than the woman in the original video. At first, I was questioning who this man was versus why he was speaking to her in the tone that he was. I went to Kevin’s channel, scrolled down to the video uploaded before the “Average at Best” video and began to study him. After that video, I scrolled down to a video that was 3 years old at the time. He was speaking to men the same way, if not more harshly. I discovered he had saying for both men and women, “you can’t make this sh*t up” and the forever classic “the nerve of you niggas.” Long story short, I immediately fell in love with his dialogue. We NEED to hear this as black women. I love you like a father, sir. Please keep preaching the good word and holding us accountable.

💐RIP GODFATHER, you were full of class and knowledge..i hope you are satisfied with the work youve done here.. Salute to you Good Sir.. 🍷tip of the glass to you . REST EASY BIG HOMIE👍🏾

I've heard so many women say they were repulsed when they first watched KS videos. I wasn't repulsed, I rejoiced and am still rejoicing. Thank you KS 💕

Love isn’t for the weak. Non committal is easy, not trusting anyone is easy , sleeping around is easy. One relationship with a goal of marriage and legacy is the ultimate step to maturity.

Since Average at best video, I started appreciating my high value man. He would tell you I’m much more pleasant and submissive. I allow him to lead and I check my attitude. We’re much happier together now. Oh and I’ve lost weight. Now he can’t stop buying me dresses and telling me to get dressed. I’m still going to get into some therapy. Thank you Mr. Samuels

“A big part of life is just showing up.” That’s some real wisdom right there!!! 💯

Time stamps 0:00 Pre show songs, 🎵 Current Mood by Gregory David 🎵 2:03 🎵 Homeless Soul by Fleurs Douces 🎵 5:00 🎵 Dusty Conscience by Matt Large 🎵 7:20 🎵 Getting Tipsy by Fox Morrow 🎵 9:33 🎵 Keep on talking by Lionel Quick 🎵 11:39 🎵 Your good lies by Vividry 🎵 14:44 🎬 Show starts, Candle of the evening Santal 26 , Fragrances of the day Tiziana Terenzi Dionisio, Initio Magnetic blend 7, The harmonist Monologue, One year after Average at best video 52:55 📱 1st Caller Angel , 2nd Caller age 25 1:09:58 3rd Caller Ashley age 23, 4th Caller Kiera age 22, 5th Caller Olivia age 28, 6th Caller Sarafia age 38, now engaged 1:22:53 7th Caller Brittney age 24 , 8th Caller Jessica age 41, back to second caller 1:39:27 9th Caller Keisha age 44 engaged, 10th Caller, 11th Caller 1:51:04 12th Caller Brittney age 31, 13th Caller Francis, 14th Caller Jasmine age 28, 15th Caller Sasha age 48 2:10:25 16th Caller Tiffany age 25, 17th Caller age 36 2:14:53 Closing words 2:24:00 Closing song

The 25-yr-old came in to be disruptive and tried moving the goalposts. KS literally saw thru that mess and she got upset about him putting her argument to bed.

Mr. Samuels, bc of you and MTR I learned it’s ok to live in my feminine. My mental health has improved tremendously. I am in my natural state and don’t feel anxiety and stress like I used to bc of it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for saving me from myself. Now I’m being vetted by a man for marriage. You will be the guest of honor at the wedding 😊

You helped me realize it’s ok to be the helpmate! I’ve had women in my life chastise me because of it as if this isn’t something one should aspire to do and I was able to forgive myself for letting any of the opinions have me almost sabotage my chance at being what I wanted and felt most comfortable being NATURALLY! Married going on 15yrs and we’ve grown that much closer over the last year by me continuing to evaluate myself and valuing the role I am in and appreciating my husband for the role he’s in. Thank you Kevin

I used to look up to women like the lady on the average at best video, used to think they’re more of a woman than I am cause they’re so successful and “they know their worth”. Until I realised they’re miserable, and shield that misery with all their accomplishments yet none make them as happy as being in your natural role. The Average at best video solidified this fact to me

Kevin you have had an effect on me. I find myself valuing the male voice more. I appreciate and in some ways emulate your almost surgical approach to emotional rhetoric that deteriorates the black family dynamic. I remember when u rapped UGK word for word in a 3 piece suit and I’ve been in love with you ever since. 😍 Keep having the hard conversations. They are necessary. Thank you.

I tried to get the woman I'm dating to watch the videos and she said I hope you're not getting any ideas 🤦🏾‍♂️ I'm now in the process of moving out and on with my life✌🏾

Kevin I watched that video clip of Averge at Best, but what got me intrested is when you had that convo with the overweight wife who wanted to leave her husband and travel with her kids. That video made me realize so much about myself as a wife. I lost 20lbs after looking at that video and me and my husband are doing the best that weve ever been in the last 12 years. Keep doing you sir, you are saving lifes.

America, especially a dignified black American man is not use to a man speaking this freely and frankly. The thing about it is, you cannot really cancel Kevin because he serves no agency. This isn't like being on some television talk show, infomercial or some Ms. Cleo type situation. The revolution may not be televised, but it probably will be streamed lol. Kevin has been having well established celebrities remark at his material.

Look at the results from just 1 year of your viral moment and HARDWORK Mr. Samuels. Thank you for your tireless efforts to help our community with results

I'm already married, but Kevin definitely changed the way I treat my husband. I was threatening to leave because I felt he wasn't doing enough financially, and emotionally. Kevin opened my eyes, and now I have a deep appreciation for my Hubby. Me wanting to leave was so petty..

Since I've started watching the Godfather I went from being a 21 y/o bum living with his mother to a 22 y/o assistant manager at a hotel in a different city ,first time leaving home, also working on getting better clothes

That lady is the EPITOME of self accountability!!!! My gosh it was so refreshing! She is also a good 5 too not a 4!

A year and a million subscribers later. Couldn’t be more proud to have been here since the 50k days. If we’ve learned nothing from the man, we at least learned that it’s never too late to Get your life on it’s purpose. Thanks for everything. You took on presidential gray for this cause and no dollar amount could ever make putting up with all That disrespect worth it. You are appreciated.

The 2nd caller tried to use a cooperative, agreeable tone in the beginning to get over her initial “nervousness” and an attempt to get Kevin to go a little easy on her when she planned to show her true nature later and that was to be combative, stupid, over talking and argumentative. I’m not African, but even I know that women are not leading those communities, which she was having a hard time answering that simple question. Glad she got the boot.

God bless and protect this man. He is pinpointing the #1 problem in the black community.

i can’t like this content enough. this man is speaking truths everyone needs to hear and practice.

I despise it when people in the West create false narratives about African marital relationships. This woman jumped on here to talk about twinlineal and nonsense like that. I'm West African and I've never heard that word before (meaning it's not that common even if it were true). Besides, by far, marital relations have always been a male-led institution, even in my tribe which is considered 'matrilineal', it is only matrilineal in that children inherit through their mothers' brother (their uncle). Yet, you have people in US who have barely ever been to West Africa manufacturing concepts and claiming things were different before the Europeans came. Always trying to blame them for anything they dislike. It truly gets annoying.

KS has helped me so tremendously in my marriage by understanding my husband's perspective and how to fight everyday to stay in my FBI Mode. My husband and I have been doing so great because me stepping back into my feminine allows him to be masculine and have the control and I love it because I am less stressed not trying to be in both roles. I can just do my wife /mother thing.

I will say this, this stuff has changed my life and my outlook. My marriage is better, my wife has changed and so have I. I’m speaking to my daughter and sons differently, I am no longer ashamed of thinking and behaving like a man. Salute bro

If this isn't a shout out to the manosphere idk what is. This man has changed so much. And he's not done. I look forward to doing my part. Stay tuned

Kevin definitely needs to do a follow up episode with that same woman from the “average at best” and ask her how her life has changed since then as well. & how she applied his advice. That’d be crazy 🤯

KS you are having an impact!!! My wife and I watch your content all the time. Even though we consider ourselves to have a healthy relationship and marriage. your content has helped us to identify areas where we could be more purposeful and intentional. Most importantly we have a heightened appreciation for each other and work we put into each other. From the locker room to the barbershop to the watercooler I see blk men talking and walking with more purpose and resolve. You're the kick in the pants the blk community needs....keep growing and god bless!!!

This man has God tier patience.

That first caller lied about the West African relationship culture. She's 100% American and has not learned the mother continent enough to even have an opinion about this. Here in Traditional West Africa everything starts from the family lead by the father. The father of the suitor comes to consult the father for the potential bride for deliberations. When that stage is arranged, the dowry is negotiated. Then the next stage is the ceremony that represents transferring the custody of daughter from father's protection to husband's protection. In my particular clan, the groom will have go through 7 men (including the bride's brothers) to prove he has what it takes to protect the bride. In ancient times this was real hardcore fight to reach the woman on the other side. But these days they make it easier, less formal and fun. My point is that after all these processes, the man is given full authority of possessing, protecting and providing for the woman and future children. The groom earns the right to the bride is the groom remains the head of the family and that's the traditional structure. It doesn't mean she's a slave but she's not an equal partner for her own good

Kevin’s content definitely changed the trajectory of my life. And all of of the people I know who “hate” him that I know are people who have I lower quality of life

When I first saw the "Average at Best" video, I thought "damn, he's right but damn" then I went down the rabbit hole of videos to the point where I listened to them in my car lol! I had idea just how delusional women were, so I never really disagreed with Kevin. Since then my life hasn't changed much, but my perspective and level of awareness has. I feel more prepared somehow.

Wow he said these woman are mad because there's a spot light on there bad behavior....100% facts.

The twinlinal chick was obviously born in n raised in America, she will be surprised if she ever visits. Her fellow women will show her her place behind her husband

KS should enforce mandatory on screen time. To me, when you’re calling into a live-stream, you’re waving your rights to privacy and it’s not up to you if you don’t want to be shown! If you don’t want to be seen on screen, then book a session and pay this man!!! But let’s not kid ourselves, the vast majority of these women calling in are broke that can’t afford one session. Hell they can’t even afford a gym membership, yet they think they qualify for a “HVM”, LoL! 💯

Kevin is really helping our community. He needs his flowers now.

I started watching after someone put "Average at Best" on Facebook. I was drawn by some of the simple truths that Kevin lays out about how men think and evaluate women. Although I've been married for 20 years, I still consume the content because I have a young daughter who I need to counsel and direct her as she grows. I need to also teach my son what to look for and how to conduct himself. Kevin lays it out well and will help anyone who listens to avoid certain pitfalls. Although I don't agree with everything 100%, I find him to be insightful and someone who cares about improving outcomes for the black community. In end, that is what I really care about and for that I thank him.

This man streaming 4K like a boss! Get it! The woman who said west Africa is not a patriarchy, is lying bad!

Beautiful Kevin! What most don’t get at all is that you’re a sharply dressed, vastly experienced and well-educated revolutionary! Keep up the great work, you most certainly deserve the spotlight and all the amenities that come with it! Salute brotha, thank you!

I went through a “red pill” phase and it lead me to this channel . KS and MTR has help me put red pill content into perspective and not be sucked into the echo chamber. This brotha helped me be able to verbalize what I was already experiencing and gave blueprint to navigating the dating pool. Keep up the good work my G 💯

I started watching The Godfather in August 2020 and I subscribed shortly after so I was here before average at best. Since that show though, I think women wrestle with being humble about where they truly are and what they really bring to the table. KS content has altered my life’s priorities and I am moving differently with men going forward.

Women don't even realize that "Average at Best" woman that he talked to basically offended women all across the world but they couldn't see through their own toxic Feminism.. No matter how soft-spoken she came across whether she was nervous or shy she still had no problem stating that she would not submit to a man making less than her.. So ladies, she basically said she won't submit to your SONS, BROTHERS, UNCLES or COUSINS because of his career and income.. She would be conditionally cooperative submissive and agreeable on her terms. Instead of women internalizing it and seeing themselves through her mindset women see fit to attack the messenger... Unfortunately it went over their heads smh....

Another OUTSTANDING show!!! This man is positively effecting a lot of lives.., you have given us all a great year Kevin!!!

Kevin: Do you want a traditional or modern relationship? Her: Whose traditions? Kevin: Do you have your own? Her: I'm from West Africa.....insert sociological information that is rewording of "No. I don't want to submit or work as a team with a man" Kevin: nope.... How dumb would it sound if I brought up the Viking culture of raiding and taking wives to justify cheating? Bringing up historical relationships references to sound intelligent, but it is all a ruse to being insecure about roles.

As a West African, I can tell you that the 23 year old caller @ 1:09:58 was ALL cap that's why Kevin said "Careful!". Men lead and women support 100% and want/worry for nothing at all because we're raised from young boys to function in that capacity. In this Millennial/Gen-X era, West African women are divided between 2 types of women: The ones who are Americanized, straying away from our cultural practices and the women that are SUPER domesticated, allowing the man to lead in all ways & provide 100% while still being educated. Femininity fully intact, always. Much respect to all my West African people! Liberians, Ghanians & Nigerians. We're a traditional people as a whole, ask them about their upbringings!

I'm in a time in my life where I can appreciate this man's content and not just bash what he's saying because I can't handle the truth from a REAL man's perspective. I'm subscribing.

I love these conversations. They hurt sometimes, I have even cried. But I'm a black man's ally. I'm just not sure how to get to my thick headed sistas. Help! Thank, Kevin.

This show is an example of how many women in our society and culture. Even a year later are coddled, arrogant, entitled, combative and selfish. Kevin has shown us over the last several years that our image, name, mind and presence matter as men.

YES! We just want to see EFFORT and appreciation. A woman rated 4 will look like a 10 in her man's eyes if the effort & appreciation is there.

That one woman that changed her life and got engaged is a beautiful success story 🙏 Have fun and solace in Doing your work people. Get the proper help, it's okay to make mistakes! We all do, it's not okay to stay there. The future you will thank you! Good luck people!

"It shouldn't be a revolutionary act for men saying what men want"💯

Keep up the good work Kevin, all these things you speak about help all races i believe. I'm a 40 year old man and your work has made me a better husband buy knowing my role as a man. And I could actually see the femine change in my wife by doing the things you talk about. Thank you for what you do.

My life has improved for the better. Around the same time my husband and I saw the video we happened to be permanently leaving the US to move to Africa. While here in Tanzania we started to listen to more videos. And it prompted us to have conversations. I started to see the mindset of a lot of women because I was oblivious. My husband suggested that I start a channel sharing the message because women may listen to other women. We'll see....

A college degree is not an education. It’s a certificate. It can serve as proof of education. But it’s a certificate. It certifies that you sat in some classrooms for satisfactory periods of time. It doesn’t certify that you weren’t the dumbest to do so. It certifies that you passed your quizzes, midterms and finals. It doesn’t certify that you didn’t cheat to pass, took multiple attempts to pass, or that the materials in the exams were even worth a crap. That’s why you got so many graduates in the streets demanding their debt cancelled, stripping, driving UBERS, pouring up venti Frappuccinos - they got ripped off. The things they were taught serves nobody. It’s indoctrination, not education. Some fields - biology, geology, law, etc. are clearly material majors for the real world. Afro-Cuban prison HipHop 101 is clearly not. Thus, Ms. Igotaphd is most often the least educated. Degree and education are not the same thing.

Can’t lie I don’t watch much KS, but I’ve learned that the women in our lives deserve our absolute best. Not because we owe that to them, but because we owe it to ourselves as men first!

Can we all agree that KS has continued to prove he is the G.O.A.T!!

He should be awarded the Nobel Prize for his work!

I am an older man learning from a younger man. I have learned to forgive myself. It helped in my forgiving of others. The he who is without sin made me accountable.

Yes! Kevin I had never heard of you and this video landed in my hands via Facebook and the rest is history! WOW! Congratulations to you on your one year anniversary. 😎 💖

I can see so much improvement in Kevin after not watching his videos for however many months. He is way more patient, respectful and fair; yet still getting his point across. Kudos

Kevin, you have improved so many of our lives through not only your conversation but your delivery and your image. You're encouraging women to be comfortable in their feminine energy by being comfortable and confident in your masculine energy. The black community has needed this for some time and it makes me rejoice that you're gaining traction in the mainstream. Keep it up Kevin, we are all watching and rooting for you. Much love from Canada!

@2:22:29 “ *Mhen ain’t asking for much ladies, *mhen will go down in looks to go up in cooperation all day long and twice on Sunday. When I say *mhen are simple, we’re are simple in our actual desires, we only get complex when the basic core desires aren’t met. Oooooh sh*t!” Whip sound. - The Godfather And/ Or Feminist Matchmaker

Why is it hard to understand that you need to do better for your relationship? Which in turn does better for your children. Put your ego aside and look at the bigger picture other than your own French Toast Butterscotch feelings ladies. Act like you want at least a good life.

It’s funny how callers with a disrespectful tone complains about hearing what they consider a disrespectful tone.

I started watching you over two years ago. Some of the hard truths I had to confront. I have told some of my girlfriends to listen in spite of the tone. My self awareness has improved tremendously. Kudos!

Guys, if think your woman won't be able to get past his delivery use the knowledge yourself to speak to her. That's what I'm doing right now without show her any videos and there is massive improvement.

Keep up the good work God father. There are TENS of Millions Boyz all over the earth that need to heed your council so that their lives won't get ruined by dealing with thotiana and dustyna 🔥🔥🔥

KS, We need this for sure! If only someone would’ve guided me and told me the truth when I was young. Thank you for standing 10 toes down! Keep it coming! 🧡

No one really seems to understand the simple meaning of "we all have the same 24" in this day and age, except those who live it. Salute to that and to living the meaning of the Ulysseys quote "Bloodied, but Unbowed and Unbroken" Mr. Samuels, and for showcasing the mark of a man through actions not words. Merry Christmas to you and yours, or Happy Holidays, whichever you celebrate!

I really love this brother he comes with facts against emotions

Hello Mr. Samuel's I'm a 41 year old man and I found you about 3 months ago and listened to just about all the content you have put out and thank you for what you have done when I seen the episode about how men feel and want to feel from a woman it hit the nail on the head with me I just got out of a 7 year relationship and I really cared for the lady but she was and is still so much like a man mentally and at frist I didn't see it right away but as time went on it just become so clear how she was and at the time I didn't know how to tell her how I felt or put it in to words but hearing you explain it all just made everything clear for me and I been kina down and out about everything but since I heard your content I'm starting to focus on myself and get me right I have just contacted and therapist and I see him in about a week from now and im just starting to move forward so just tank you and keep up the good work

You're kicking butt with Progress. Also, I have that demon tongue seeing that I need to lower the fire. Progress both ways. Thanks, helping all improve.

Young men need to listen to him. Wish I had this knowledge when I was 18. I’m 29 focusing on my career and myself. Much happier than my early days

I'm a Hispanic in Texas, Kevin's words resonate in many ways and all walks of life and races, that call out on combative and argumentative not having to be tolerated, is something that I have taken to heart and share with the young men that I mentor, the RP community and manosphere is a blessing to me and the world of men everywhere. Thanks Mr Samuel.

I can't begin to thank Mr. Samuels enough. Watching his videos have helped me to make a change in my life. I've lost weight (20 lbs) and have corrected my attitude. I was one that hit the wall due to age and still felt I had time to marry later when I was ready. I've met an amazing guy with great values, up front with him on what I was wanting and I know now how not to mess it up.

You've made a world of difference in my life. Since I've been watching you I realize that it's real out here and I got a pretty good situation with my lady. I know you're telling the truth because I've lived it

I gotta say you definitely helped better me in so many ways... Since i started watching you i upgraded my attire,my financial status,my vocabulary,my circle of friends and more...The bible even reads "a woman's ways is unknown to a man" but Kevin you have truly broke the code... I'm getting married in a few months,and its not perfect but you have helped me and my fiancé with the direction in which were taking our union (my lead her following)... Thank you Kevin your a God sent...

The second caller said she got a Becky frien.. 🤣 I GOT ME A FEW BECKY FRIENS TOO. THEY HAVE TAUGHT ME A LOT. They don’t play. They invite me to Pilates and gyrotonic and they eat salads as snacks. One of them is so disciplined she always stay at 126 lbs. she says this is her best weight. 😂😂 Becky don’t play and don’t get up to 188 lbs fo damn sho

Congratulations young lady who said ima 4 on a good day. I’ll take that 4 over a wild 8 or 9 any day 💪🏾 . Keep growing and congratulations to u and the hubby.

I inhale KS morning noon and night. Practical information that makes sense. Even a couple issues that I wasn't sure about, he eventually covered. Due to daylight savings, I fall asleep waiting, and wake up at 2am to listen. I drift off and start again at dawn. I'm addicted. And yes, much has changed this last year. I have lost 15 pounds (10 more to go/plant based) and i see men in a different light. I knew they were simple creatures, but i never knew having peace was so high on their list of needs. I also send applicable videos to my 17 year old son. KS has something for everybody. Much appreciated 🤗😍🤩🙏🏾🤴🏾

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 what a show! I’m happy to hear how much these women have grown!! That’s beautiful! 💯💯💯

The average modern woman is very proud, i now understand why apostle Paul said women should be humble and submissive, it makes a lot of sense now. Damn the bible is the most red-pilled book out there. It teaches people about the ways of the world. Thanks Kevin for standing tall in front of the world.

Hey Kevin. Just wanted to give you some respect cause to be honest, several of the things you talk about are right on the money as far as what I have been able to cultivate on my own and you confirm some of the things that I had thoughts about. The modern woman and the modern man; the stuff makes sense. I like to keep things real and ironically, people tend to live in an illusion. Correct me if I am wrong. I acknowledge that you have the experience and I feel as though we tend to be on the same page. I say keep up the good work. In my perspective, I feel as though its better to be honest about it rather than candy coat it. Its not to be mean or to look down on anyone. It goes without saying that you are just trying to help everybody and yet, theres always one that feels the need to contend with you. I say its a take it or leave it situation, but you arent saying what you say for no reason, so people should at least listen to what you have to say. I myself am a Man and intend to carry myself as such. I have my flaws, but im willing to better myself as a person. Work smarter not harder. If there is someone that is willing to help, why go against it just cause someone "feels" some type of way you know? Props from my end Mr. Samuels. We honestly would have a very fruitful intellectual discussion and I am confindent I can learn a lot from you. 👍

KS has changed my life for the better. It helped me get over my ex as I realized I was putting more than she could ever put on the table. We as men who make 6 figures + need to value ourselves and respect ourselves. Can’t let these women run all over us. “We have rules within the rules”

This was such a good show… the foundation of every society is the family unit. Let’s get our communities together, so we can thrive.

One thing is for sure Godfather, you have inspired many men (and some females) to follow in your footsteps. A whole new style & generation has emerged on KZfaq, instagram...etc... "The time is always right to do what is right" Martin Luther King ✌

There is no such thing as a twinlenial family dynamic in West Africa. It's patriarchy all the way.

My life has improved since watching the godfather. How amazing that he's walking in his purpose and helping everyone's life improve!!! Keep going sir! We appreciate you & congratulations on all your success! 🍾

Always keep your true authenticity & that is what is needed. This is not scripted for the fate of heart. Keep moving forward and impacting lives.

Godfather, I have been watching all your contents since that average at best video came out. All the way from FRANCE. Merci Beaucoup !!!

"We don't get to choose what happens to us, we only get to choose what we do about it" 💯

I spent 7 years arguing with my wife. One day I said: Enough - you can leave, I’ll stay to look after our son. A week passed, the efforts to sidestep, minimize, reset, deflect and blame shift ended in one sentence: “we can’t move forward, LIVE IN THE DISCOMFORT”… the penny dropped. 2 weeks later; I told her I needed some pepper.. When she actually remembered to just get the pepper, instead of lecture me on the male entitlement; I saw the container in the cupboard, made the food, and gave the whole thing to her without even thinking. For the first time in 7 years, she got something without asking, by cooperating without criticizing.

Yessss the older woman that called in made my heart melt because we need to know how to do things the right way Mr.Kevin your doing gods work thank you for everything