can this situationship become a relationship?

can this situationship become a relationship? | tea for two

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Thanks to Unlikely Collaborators, we layered in Perception Box questions to help our daters dig deeper and uncover more meaningful connections. Learn more at www.unlikelycollaborators.com or check them out here / @unlikelycollaborators
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credits
Director: Sari Arambulo, Nicole McCullough
Casting Coordinator: Bridget McGuinness
Casting Associate Producer: Karsyn Hughes
Production Manager: Emma Pek
Equipment Coordinator: Pat Saulo
Assistant Editor: Kirsten Hoang
Editor: Dane Stilwell
Post-Production Coordinator: Claire Chung
0:00 intro
3:40 What about your life do you wish could never change, and why?
5:03 What's the worst thing someone could say about you?
6:15 In what area of your life do you not trust yourself?
9:05 What is your most consistent and greatest fear?
11:15 When was the last time you really cried?
15:31 On a scale of 1-10 how ready do you feel to be in a relationship?
19:55 Say something you're too afraid to say to the other person while they're wearing noise-cancelling headphones
25:33 4 minutes of eye contact
27:42 final decision
29:46 the fast way

Пікірлер: 482

@lovecommanectar 3 ай бұрын

in what area of ur life do u not trust yourself? let’s get deep. DM me on IG --> lovecommanectar.co/hit-me-up

@iiisat 3 ай бұрын

ur mom

@lovecommanectar 3 ай бұрын

@@iiisat ooop!

@cnessence 3 ай бұрын

spending money

@cristineb8702 24 күн бұрын

Any chance we can get an update on this pair? It would be wonderful to hear where they are in 6 months…a year…

@ninatanlaven7154 3 ай бұрын

Not so sure why people fear so much to be in an official relationship these days. If it doesn’t work out, it’s not the end of the world, but if you like someone enough to be exclusive with them and want to be around them all the time, then why not? It seems that people want to have their cake and eat it too, but that’s not how human relationships work.

@parkjibuns638 3 ай бұрын

Tell it to the choir

@elijah2859 3 ай бұрын

What does that mean @@parkjibuns638

@sabinapeknikova7239 3 ай бұрын

fr, i totally agree

@KoralBelson 3 ай бұрын

100%

@invisibleghost7415 3 ай бұрын

Everyone cares now more than ever before how they are viewed by people. People either don’t want to get “played” and not being in a relationship gives them that out where they can pretend they aren’t hurt, even if they are. Or they want to still have the option to be with other people without being viewed as a bad person, due to selfishness/greed. They want the benefits of a relationship with someone, without the responsibility that comes with being in one.

@aaronrowe34 2 ай бұрын

Jordan thinks that protecting her from himself is doing her a favour as he has concerns with his own mental health and confidence. Brother, what she feels for you is some of the most genuine emotion and you won't experience this many times in your life, let it happen and be happy that it did.

@haepoioaejojaef 3 ай бұрын

This is a classic anxious avoidant pairing. They’re both uncomfortable with being vulnerable in their own ways. They seem to be in a similar place in term of emotional maturity. I don’t think they’ll last but hopefully they’ll learn from this relationship

@shelbyblonk3377 3 ай бұрын

My ex was anxious avoidant while I was anxious attachment.. as I said ex- didn’t work out. I can’t see how two anxious avoidants could work out either. Hope they learn a lot from this relationship though!

@psychnote7970 3 ай бұрын

Anxious and avoidant are different types of attachment. There is no such thing "anxious avoidant". But i agree on one thing. He seems the one with avoidant attachment and she seems the one with anxious-preoccupied attachment. From the insecure types of attachments, this combination is the one with the possibility of working out for good.

@sub2pewdslol918 3 ай бұрын

u dont think they will last? Why? Are u still friends with ur first bf 🤣 emotional maturity is realising that a good friendship like this is Just as strong, meaningful and impactful in ur life, as a relationship they are both too kind and nice for this world

@bugforest2636 3 ай бұрын

@@psychnote7970hence "anxious avoidant pairing" meaning one is anxious one is avoidant..

@-rapha 3 ай бұрын

Its scary cause i feel like they have something good.. they're trying not to ruin? But at the same time, yolo. College often makes for a perfect storm to explore relationships & they could both grow if they take advantage of the opportunity to be together for real

@haileyj6902 3 ай бұрын

the tea for two set is pretty omgggg

@lovecommanectar 3 ай бұрын

this is where i live

@haileyj6902 3 ай бұрын

@@lovecommanectar lemme move in fr. i can pay half the rent 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@tiz7244 3 ай бұрын

@@lovecommanectar Legit? I'm a fire roommate no cap

@alialyale 3 ай бұрын

they both just need to watch ONE DAY

@eden1075 3 ай бұрын

cure for commitment issues am i right

@yamir8704 3 ай бұрын

No lieeee 😭

@elitemidrange 2 ай бұрын

The movie or the series? That movie is amazing (I mean it’s Anne Hathaway of course it is). I still haven’t watched the series though. 😂😂

@chrisjohnson3268 14 күн бұрын

@@elitemidrangethe series is next level awesome. Starts off slow but my oh my does it pick up🥲🔥❤️

@lpycb42 7 күн бұрын

@@elitemidrangeWatch the series. It’s so much better. More grounded. The movie is great but Anne’s character is a little overacted, in my opinion.

@gabriellec3909 3 ай бұрын

genuine human connection is so beautiful, I can't.

@user-dj7nu4ik6t 3 ай бұрын

You can feel the chemistry the second they see each other @2:12

@Jewgotclout 3 ай бұрын

hey buddy

@juneee. 3 ай бұрын

@@Jewgotcloutthat made me cringe so bad..

@randymarsh9488 3 ай бұрын

Not really

@taylormullen2815 3 ай бұрын

Aw, you can immediately sense the love between them. "If you had come over and seen that, and I didn't wake up and see you" :,) straight out of a rom com! The ending is unbearably cute.

@ImaginaryNate 3 ай бұрын

These two will work out. Give it time.

@briannamendoza7405 3 ай бұрын

If they’re willing to grow together and address the issues that may come up. I can tell where they may struggle in the relationship, but if they truly want to make it work and willing to compromise, I can see this relationship being successful

@piknick3011 3 ай бұрын

damnnnnnn they are scary close to each other wow, i so hope they can work it out, they seem perfect for each other!

@happywings15 3 ай бұрын

“If you cared about him you’d be his friend” oh the most unfortunate 20 year old advice . I really wish the best for her and him

@legendofsociety796 3 ай бұрын

He’s getting free blowJ’s and he doesn’t have to buy flowers for it. Lucky guy

@jimin8006 2 ай бұрын

She is getting hurt more than him by end of whatever this is definitely

@elitemidrange 2 ай бұрын

@@jimin8006How can you be so sure? 🤔

@Ghosty716 2 ай бұрын

@@jimin8006 terrible assumption

@kaitlyncraun8122 2 ай бұрын

they're actually married now so bold assumption

@nacsar3 3 ай бұрын

You can tell she's afraid of getting hurt. Fear of being vulnerable and telling the truth might mean the end of what's just ok for now.

@becca53444 3 ай бұрын

This reminds me so much of the last guy I liked. We flirted all the time, he seemed to reciprocate, but then backed off at the last minute saying he wasn’t ready for a relationship. Looking back, I think he realized he wasn’t mature and emotionally available enough to be what I wanted. And he was totally correct. At the time I was devastated about it, but now I’m grateful. I hope these two work out, but if they don’t they’ll have learned a lot of important things about themselves and relationships.

@dericmederos1514 3 ай бұрын

what' does emotionally available mean? I'm scared my last relationship didn't work because that was said to me

@anyadarlingg 2 ай бұрын

@dericmederos1514 I would look up psychology videos about the topic. Emotional availability tends to overlap with having high Emotional Intelligence (EQ). Being aware of what you are feeling yourself, and being aware of how others feel, and how you make others feel. This is step one to being emotionally available. Acting on it is when you meet the emotional needs of the other person. It can be with platonic friends and family as well. But it also includes being emotionally vulnerable yourself, not being afraid to express how you feel, or cry, or comfort the other person (instead of caring about your own feelings/ego, or being "right"). Being a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen to- but also if you are having issues with someone, being able to voice it in a healthy manner and work the conflict with someone, rather than letting it build up. You need a good outlet for your emotions so you don't project them on people around you. Been with the same person since middle school and now in our mid twenties. This I think it a key factor to why we have worked out for so long. Hope this helps. Wish you the best ♡

@dericmederos1514 2 ай бұрын

@@anyadarlingg "But it also includes being emotionally vulnerable yourself, not being afraid to express how you feel I normally don't like saying if something is making me sad because i want to deal with it alone. My dog died 3 weeks ago (RIP good boy) and i didn't tell anyone because i like to handle these hard things on my own

@tweakin1531 2 ай бұрын

@@dericmederos1514then that’s what you need to fix, coming from another emotionally unavailable person.

@TheKatarinaGiselle 3 ай бұрын

These two have great chemistry! They could absolutely become end game!

@watermelonlover745 3 ай бұрын

He's leading her on plus she could do better

@vincew4297 3 ай бұрын

@@watermelonlover745 how? He said he wanted to be with her but I can understand his hesitancy considering he’s about to graduate and move and I’m sure that was something he was wrestling with. But it looks like they’re exclusive now. Also the guy is Stanford grad with a promising future and seems like a nice guy, in what way could she “do better.” Also that’s the problem everything thinks they can do better when they have a great thing already in front of them. This is why many people struggle to find meaningful relationships. When you have that person in your life there’s no need to look for anyone else.

@ommanipadmehum4975 3 ай бұрын

@@vincew4297 This is absolutely wisdom Very glad to have be witness of your comment Thank you 🙏 Blessings

@strxwberriella 2 ай бұрын

they are legit soulmates

@fbspin 3 ай бұрын

aww I'm so happy for them. It's never easy at the start so I'm glad they had the chance to really talk things through here

@davidengel8152 3 ай бұрын

when he confessed his feelings while she was wearing the headphones, i couldnt hold back my tears, it was so cute and heartwarming to see and hear

@xodanny2955 3 ай бұрын

She was so strong and looked emotionally mature when it was the solo interview and then she immediately folded when they interacted . She seems like she needs a restart . She’s scared of losing him

@DonOpto327 3 ай бұрын

That's the most 20 year old thing ever. I'm at a 4 for relationships. 5 mins later... I don't think you know how much i want you in my life for now and the future lmao

@elitemidrange 2 ай бұрын

Lmao facts. I was hella angsty at this age though so I get it 😂😂

@wildflowerone 2 ай бұрын

I can't stop thinking about this episode. This one made me emotional for so many different reasons. They seem like they're passionate about each other. I knew as soon as she walked on that she wanted something more, but that she was trying to suppress her feelings. From what I can tell, which is a miniscule amount, they seem to be together. I think they'll always love each other and have a special place in the others' lives and hearts... I don't, however, think they are the others "person" so to say. Soulmates perhaps, but in a way that they'll both move on and move forward in their lives at some point... perhaps even a similar 500 days of summer type scenario. That's what I gather. Not that it matters, I'm just a passersby! I wish them both the best. These are some wonderful individuals.

@beccalove8791 3 ай бұрын

The thoughts in our heads that destroy us

@piknick3011 3 ай бұрын

yayyyyyy tea for two, you don't know how much i've missed these 😍😍😍

@lovecommanectar 3 ай бұрын

me too!!

@RaeLynn62 3 ай бұрын

@@lovecommanectar I LOVE TEA FOR TWO!

@ju999X 3 ай бұрын

Not a fan tbh, the 50 singles and dating by bank account were my favs

@abnormaltexan Ай бұрын

They are already a dating they just don’t realize it. Everything they are going through and the fact they talk out and work through what they’re feeling is far beyond the level of friendship. 6 hours in a car in tears expressing your fear of not being able to get relationship expectations and telling you that her life is better with you in it. Take the leap already! It’s not even a leap of faith at this point you’ve done all the work to shrink that scary leap of faith with all that fear of the unknown down to you two holding hand while you step off a curb! WHENS THE WEDDING! We better all get an invite! ❤

@MMateo_official 3 ай бұрын

Listen guys if you stay in the state that you are right now you're gonna lose it at the end. I was in the same situationship or whatever and the other person is now with someone else and that is killing me inside. I want to keep the friendship that we've build thru the years and I definitely will, but it is really hard. So my advice is to just give it a try, if it work out you both win. If it doesn't at least you've tried. Don't let the "What if" ruin what you've already build.

@elijahpierre1696 3 ай бұрын

Very happy for them. The love there was present. Very evident

@StephanieMoka 3 ай бұрын

i am BAWLING my eyes out this was TOO CUTEEEEE😭

@naisyaantoine2418 3 ай бұрын

Literally same

@spandana5432 2 ай бұрын

Get out before it’s too late, he is not ready and she wants more of him

@emmaforti4672 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful couple, Rana has so much strenght navigating life in foreign countries and STEM, and this guy's personalityyyy he should be an actor! The face he made and then said "that's not tomatoes!" was absolutely cinematic

@charlenecampbell4231 3 ай бұрын

i’m crying you guys absolutely deserve each other ❤

@kentrader2489 3 ай бұрын

Rana stock going to the sky yall

@degrotekoningwouter 3 ай бұрын

$Rana hodl to the moon

@Jennifer.212 3 ай бұрын

Aw she really loves and admires him wow :(.

@manbha6817 3 ай бұрын

why is she offering sex with no strings then

@watermelonlover745 3 ай бұрын

She should drop him IMHO she's lowering herself being with this man

@jwright7713 3 ай бұрын

@@watermelonlover745huh?!?!

@matelinec 3 ай бұрын

@@jwright7713settling for a situationship as a woman is always disrespecting yourself

@Sukinero 3 ай бұрын

@@matelinecwhat about AS A MAN

@ronbeaubien 3 ай бұрын

These are the best videos where two people sit down, ask questions, and reveal their true feelings. I don't like most of Nectar's other videos, but I've watched, and rewatched, these numerous times.

@rebyrina 3 ай бұрын

11:01 To answer his question : the saying "what goes up must go down" is a saying about the ancient belief of the Wheel of Fortuna (Roya Fortunae). The Wheel of Fortuna symbolize the fact that destiny is a tricky thing. When you're up on the wheel, there's always a time where you go back down (just like a real wheel) and then you go up again but you never know when it'll happen. That's why they say it.

@Alina-zx6nn 3 ай бұрын

yeah and usually it is true. there‘s also beauty and another type of growth going down

@angusmcdonaldboydetective 3 ай бұрын

So glad the Tea for Two format is back!!!

@lovecommanectar 3 ай бұрын

me too!!

@edenparmer7432 2 ай бұрын

Wow their relationship is so beautiful and organic it’s magical in a way. Like a movie, I can tell they truly bring color into each others lives and that they will probably always love each other even if they aren’t together. So beautiful

@robinhoodieradio3394 3 ай бұрын

For most of this I was thinking of the quote from It's a Wonderful Life "Youth is wasted on the wrong people," but it seems they ended up together in the end.

@tfkdandsvkc 3 ай бұрын

Nectar bring back the 50 singles or you should have done a follow up date like this for the 50 singles.

@ju999X 3 ай бұрын

Yeah i’d much rather prefer that

@lovecommanectar 3 ай бұрын

i got u

@degrotekoningwouter 3 ай бұрын

@@lovecommanectarPlease also do a 50 exes date each other 😂

@ma.melinegarcia5639 3 ай бұрын

These 2 are so cute together..This is real true love

@ZuerstJesus 3 ай бұрын

I'm so crying - this was a heartwarming episode and I love that they both can be so vulnerable with each other.

@dhairyaagarwal5652 3 ай бұрын

Brb just gonna go hug a tree at 150 mph

@degrotekoningwouter 3 ай бұрын

nooooooo dont leave us life to beautiful

@xd9050 3 ай бұрын

lets go nectar back with another banger video

@Amagaisie 3 ай бұрын

this is my favourite episode. They are both so lovely and you can just feel the love they have for eachother

@flightofmydreams5559 3 ай бұрын

This was so pure, seeing them be so vulnerable to each other

@domenicamrv 3 ай бұрын

This just hit me in my feels, I wish them the best. They're so cute together!!

@KoolAidSquirt 3 ай бұрын

They really just need to get over themselves and become official. The longer you wait the more time you give each other the ability to find excuses not to date. God forbid one of them finds attraction in someone else. It will crush the other person.

@elitemidrange 2 ай бұрын

Facts. They should either make it official or move on. If they stay in limbo like this it’s inevitable that one of them will find someone else. And that could make things even messier.

@user-rl5hh2rh9o 3 ай бұрын

Aww thank you so much for creating a new one of this series. I literally LOVE this!

@rossiecheeksandfreckles1568 3 ай бұрын

I’ve been missing this type of videos soooo much.

@BenjiSelby 3 ай бұрын

Soooo glad y'all made another video for this series! Love these! It's tough letting people in especially if it's something that may come across as a red flag. No one likes to feel judged of rejected, but that's kind of the gamble we take when wanting to pursue a relationship with someone we are close to. Shouldn't be that hard but it's easier said than done hahah

@6ngelic 3 ай бұрын

literally zero reason they can’t be together. they both want a relationship without calling it one. just date already ffs 🙄

@elitemidrange 2 ай бұрын

Facts. Them staying like this is actually worse. Eventually one or both will find someone else, and the other will be crushed.

@hope-ur-ok-13. 3 ай бұрын

This was the best nectar episode I have ever seen. I really it hope it works out between them loved this sm.❤

@onixtheone 28 күн бұрын

Kinda crazy how the most intelligent people in our society have been conditioned to believe that they’re only enough when they’re constantly climbing the societal ladder, or be who you think others expect you to be. The point of life is to play and have fun. Work so you can stop working and enjoy the rides in between work. Play is the goal.

@genesismedina66 2 ай бұрын

Aw I’m rooting for them! I hope they are able to let go of the fear and try to take the next step in their relationship (however that looks like for them)💗

@jonasfurrer8429 3 ай бұрын

I believe in these two, they are gonna make it work

@olac1804 2 ай бұрын

i dont blame her cause he fine. like he got that matt damon smile. also everyones talking about how obvious it is that she really likes him but to me it was also obvious from the beginning that he likes her sooo much (if not even more obvious than her liking him)

@YazBeee Ай бұрын

This was beautiful. As someone who hasn't been lucky in love, it sure gives me hope. Please keep these videos coming!

@trevor4530 3 ай бұрын

you should do tea for two with people that have matched on the vs 1 episodes!

@cj.visions_az 3 ай бұрын

Sad that people are scared to love and be loved these days…they make a great couple and its noticeable how much they care for eachother

@Addypro99 3 ай бұрын

They both seem such nice people wow 😭 I need more maturing to do for sure seeing this

@sergiocouto4742 Ай бұрын

Very well done nectar. I love how you guys guided this couple into the vulnerability point. Very well thought every part of this game.

@nereus246 3 ай бұрын

One of the last sincere thinks the internet has to offer.

@briangarcia8384 19 күн бұрын

They are absolutely glowing and vibrant around each other. It's adorable, honestly.

@user-su8ev3mu3b 3 ай бұрын

tea for two is my favorite!

@ryry3944 3 ай бұрын

This got me. I felt like I was watching a rom-com. Thank you Nectar 😭❤️

@TheOGShelbyLee 2 ай бұрын

Seriously, who furnishes this set? I'm in love. 😍

@saradurao7559 3 ай бұрын

This was do wholesome. I'm happy for them💕

@brieferrara7 3 ай бұрын

I love them together!!!😭

@christine.1668 3 ай бұрын

first comment lol this is the earliest I've been. I'm glad you brought back tea for two!

@GlamourCat1920 3 ай бұрын

This episode was so cute, I’m rooting for them ☺️

@cmooreHD Ай бұрын

This was and is the best Tea for Two episode on any channel period.. I swear I smiled the whole time! I hope they got together and last forever! 🎉

@98Patrobas 3 ай бұрын

Can we have this for those couples who match on the other dating videos as their first date? Like a "Tea for Two" for them?

@rosa_stars349 3 ай бұрын

yess like Yosef and keelyn

@98Patrobas 3 ай бұрын

@@rosa_stars349 Oh, that would be so fire.

@yusonghu-rp3nj 18 күн бұрын

This couple gives me faith in humanity,, again!❤

@mina8495 3 ай бұрын

yayy its back!!

@98Patrobas 3 ай бұрын

I've just been smiling through this episode. Love is beautiful.

@lovecommanectar 3 ай бұрын

@elosmile900 2 ай бұрын

They seemed to have a very nice chemistry, their vibes matched perfectly and it's totally understandable the doubts and fears they have relationship wise. But I'm sure that, like Rana says, with time and being present for each other everything will be just fine. I hope they will sort everything out, they're too cute! Btw, I was half-way through the video when, as soon as he says "rana stock", I suddenly realized her name in Italian means frog 💀 the tattoo and the name, it can't be a coincidence 🥹 Lots of love 🫶🏻

@suhaniisshy 3 ай бұрын

the cute lil kiss in the end omg

@kynnedysimone133 27 күн бұрын

I went through something really similar. Me and this other person really liked each other but they were hesitant at the beginning bc of their mental health issues. He said the same thing “I’m not good enough, I don’t want to hurt you, you’re really important to me, I want you in my life, etc. etc.” We ended up pushing through and dating and I helped him through some of his issues he had. Eventually it got so bad they’d disappear for 3-7 days at a time and I just got my heart crushed so bad because I loved them but they couldn’t love me the way I deserved. The heartbreak was horrible but I don’t regret the time we spent together. I hope their story goes better than mine did ❤️

@MrBard80 2 ай бұрын

You could see their chemistry, instantly. These two are meant to be. And they both know it, but independent of each other, due to lack of truly honest communication with each other, I mean it took noise cancelling headphones for her to be honest with him and herself. I think when they watch this video together, they'll know. I wish them all the best ❤️

@into_a_fantasy_ 3 ай бұрын

Omg it's finally back!!!

@therockbottom5256 3 ай бұрын

Hi Cody!!! Love your reviews, can’t wait to see this one 🫡🎉🙌

@lavamonkeymc 3 ай бұрын

Cody 🤝 nectar

@whaleepubgrl9354 3 ай бұрын

Cody’s old now..

@therockbottom5256 3 ай бұрын

@@whaleepubgrl9354 and a father, his opinions are changing and it’s cool to see

@rainmwhop Ай бұрын

I cannot imagine them not together wow. And she seems so ride or die, goals

@aliahm.6726 3 ай бұрын

they actually look good together

@janet5427 2 ай бұрын

I’m rooting for them. They can do it

@iTz_Pina 2 ай бұрын

This was so beautiful ❤

@polaramondi5305 3 ай бұрын

They both said 'I want you in my life"

@kerenjardini1607 3 ай бұрын

the fast way is so cute

@avakaytay511 2 ай бұрын

this literally made me cry at the end😭😍🥹🥰

@yanapetiet4581 2 ай бұрын

im rooting so hard for these two. hope it works out

@Alinasinging 2 ай бұрын

This guy really loves her, you can see that in his eyes. He also seems like a guy I’d really get along with. She, on the other hand, you can see she’s very stressed and scared to be hurt, which it’s really understandable. She used a lot of “like”, which is annoying 😅 really nice to see them get closer on the video. Also, this title should be “how to say you love someone without saying you love someone”