I’m a potpourri of archetypal messes

My therapist is helping me with this whole self-esteem thing, and she told me that we want to defend the parts of us that we do not want to lose, we don't want to lose power, we don't want to lose the last parts of our self-esteem then we use 3 methods of defending that. 1. Is by attacking, for instance, if my bf tells me the kitchen is a mess I get upset and lash out at him saying, I do so much in the house and blah blah blah. Not even listening to his words of just pointing out something we have to sort out. I immediately take it as an attack on me. 2. Isolation. I would rather be alone than doing something wrong, being bad, or any way my self-esteem can be threatened. And doing so cutting yourself off from any support system or being a support for others. 3. Perfectionism. If everything is perfect and I'm acting perfect, being ''perfect'', everything being just so then there won't be anything wrong with me, or any fault in how I'm doing anything etc etc. The other way perfectionism appears is, I'd rather not finish anything, because I am to afraid it won't be perfect. By doing that you are also not learning how to im[rpve anyways, so it's also a sabotage. Any of these ways are doing the opposite of building self-esteem. At night before going to sleep it's better to think, how did I build up or support someone else and myself and how did I break down someone else or myself. By just starting by noticing these things later or when you act in a certain way, already changes you and your life. It's better to be like water, not forcing anything or anyone, be soft and open-hearted rather than hard and cold towards life, others and yourself. Be kind and understanding.

I love your book "Sacred Contracts" and use it regularly as a resource. I'm a psychologist and work a lot with the archetypes with my clients. How delighted I was to discover that you're starting this condensed series on archetypal energy, and I would encourage everyone to read the book, as well.

"How can I use my gifts to empower someone else?" Grace. Beautiful...I'll carry this with me 😊

My goodness as a trauma survivor I have a sabotage archetype. My disconnection from the self has been my life battle. I have broken people with my shadow and been of service with my light. My ego has many programs in survival but I wish to rise above. Not lose power but unite.

It seems to me that perfectionism and fear of failure empowers the saboteur. I read feminist psychotherapists from Wellesley Univ. who stated that women use power to empower others but rarely use it to empower themselves. Thanks Caroline for all these wonderful presentations of different archetypes that live within us.

You just helped to refuse a job that I was again going to sabotage myself. No more! Thank you!

"To use light, instead of shadow" Love it!!!

This is very helpful. "A little bit of truth goes a long way.' Yes, you have given me some truth to reflect upon.

I allowed a false internal message that wasn't even true to sabotage me. In some ways it was Grace that protected me for years from false paths. I think using salf-sabotage has been a pattern to protect myself. I'd like to grow to the point where I can just be congruent and allow intuition to guide me alright without having to use salf-sabotage to escape a situation that felt horribly intrusive and more threatening than supportive

"The business of empowerment is the business of life." That's a sermon right there. Thank you!

Some people, a lot of people, sabotage themselves by taking on too much responsibility and too much blame. They hold themselves to impossible standards and their perfectionism gets in the way of their achievement. This is the opposite of what Carolyn describes in this video. It's not rooted in excuse making or an unwillingness to work hard. But it is rooted in false beliefs, often (usually) connected to childhood mistreatment. Such people stop sabotaging themselves when their beliefs change.

Just found you!, Yes, this was me believing in everyone!! Heyoka, I did the work over the last several years! Just got my power back over the Devil himself. Victory over a Covert narcissist!!! Guided by my Spiritual faith!!!! Praise God! Healing now and getting my light back!!!

Never am I not learning when I listen to Caroline❤…well over a decade of learning ,she still gives new and useful information for understanding ourselves . Thank you Caroline for all the wisdom and insight.🙏😇🙏

The Saboteur in me has been coming to my awareness over the last couple of months. Now I really see it. I see now my resistance to doing anything administrative has held me back again and again. I don’t take/ haven’t taken opportunities if it requires me to step up and take responsibility for that part of my life e.g going freelance when I was dreadfully unhappy in a job. Last week, considering not pursuing my masters when I heard it required collection of data from primary research… This was when the penny dropped, my vague doubts about the masters actually revealed the saboteur I’m ready to take it on

When I saw the topic, the first thing that popped into my head was the old Mad magazine cartoon, Spy vs. Spy. I think this is a lasting Archetype for me!

This turned out to be a splendid serendipity, or maybe more of a miracle. Just what I so deeply needed when I most needed it. I reclaim my power.

I love Caroline and her work, but I respectfully will say that when you stop eating meat your intuition DOES become even more heightened. The Yoga practice explains this process of transformation in detail as the unfolding of the Siddhis. Just give it a go and change your diet because a lot of people are led to a plant-based diet because their intuition is screaming at them to change for their health, but as Caroline states, the conscious mind doesn't want to change. Thank you still for your beautiful work, Caroline! Powerful stuff empowering us with the Archetypes 🙏

“You will not find the athlete anywhere near me” 😂 love your humour

I love this refletcion so much, We are absolutely incredible in holding the saboateur energy to prevent stepping more fully into the truth, and ourselves, naked, vulnerable, brave and Powerful- leading from the heart. To choose Grace when the saboteur shows up, that to me, is a daily spiritual gym face-off. I love how you speak of standing up to this archetype. To embody the one who chooses another way. And we can stand up to the saboteur still with compassion, and with humility, knowing she lives in the collective and will be back when you get too complacent or arrogant, or weak, or succumb to doubt and darkness. Bless you Caroline, your love is felt. Thank you.

Intriguing possible explanation as to why many healthcare providers have sold out over the years after realizing that many people have no interest in doing what it takes to get well.

This feels very relevant to me right now. I feel like I might finally be getting it at the ripe old age of 51! I so appreciate you Caroline and your wonderful insights and wisdom I’ve learnt from your generous shares over the years. I also like to think of how bad ass you are, as a great example to me for not being a ‘sabateour’ archetype. ❤ you and your work so much. 🙏

Just a thought...20 minutes is better than none. Thank you, for sharing your thoughts and experience with Archetypes & Energy 🙌❣. Blessings ❣

Wow, that wake me up.

So spot on to my situation. I have been aware of the imposteur inside me but it such a struggle. It has become stronger since my mother's death 2 years ago. Today I feel overwhelmed.

So much wisdom in a short video. Thank you so much Caroline! 💖

This lesson is sooooooo valuable! Thank you so much for this series. To become conscious of the processes working behind the scenes is everything!

"Self-esteem is when you take on yourself" and "What we do with the power we have on behalf of the whole to make a difference. To not sabotage the life of others or yourself"

It's the 2nd! Victim first and saboteur next. Thank you Ms.Myss!

Caroline! You never cease to amazing me with your high frequency insights and acute wise knowledge. Blessings 🥰

I was introduced to your work by Amanda Robbins in our Performance Coach University (PCU) office Hour yesterday. Beautiful insights - Thank YOU Caroline on oulining the Saboteur in this clip.

I so appreciate having access to such an amazing teacher.. many thank Carolyn

Thank you from my heart

Caroline, thank you for calling me out so compassionately and lovingly. You nailed it! 🙏🏽♥️

Caroline Myss, how do we treat an abusive narcissist in life? Do we still empower them, avoid them and how do we not sabotage ourselves when dealing with them?

“We don’t get off this planet alive” 😅😅 The final message is extraordinarily on point. Thanks so much for this! Truth goes a long way.

It would be incredible to have a longer teaching on the Saboteur archetype. This is another brilliant lesson. Thankyou so much for your refreshing Truthful teachings.

“Nobody gets off this planet alive” Who knew? I thought I was gonna win😂…. Are you saying that even when I win, I lose? Now, I ll have to reconsider what winning means to me. Thank you for teaching.

O.....M......G!!!! This explains why, when I tell friends how eliminating inflammatory foods completely cured my "arthritis" they respond in the same way...(i.e. "I have to do WHAT?...I can't live without my sugar!...etc) I could never understand it. I felt I was sharing with them potentially life-saving information that their doctor won't tell them (and I was!) and when I have gotten such responses, I was thinking quietly to myself "You don't WANT to feel better! You must be getting something huge out of being in pain!) So, soooooo frustrating...but I have learned I can't save people from themselves...and I don't even try anymore.

Thank you for that I would love to hear about the archetype of the Nun, just a suggestion laugh out loud

Thank you for these series!

my goodness. This is chock-a-block full of so much richness. Every word and your intention of really communicating this wisdom to us. I'm getting so much from these talks. Thank you so much!

Thank you so much for putting so much great content here for all to access. I really appreciate it.

I needed this. Thank you

Beautifully and peacefully described! Grateful thanks!

These videos are amazing. Thank you.

"The business of empowerment is the business of life' ❤

Thank you, needed this message today.

im so loving these wonderful videos! thankyou Caroline 🙏

Thank you for always providing so much clarity with so much wisdom! I am grateful.

I just love learning these things from you Caroline. Thanks for sharing this with us.

SO GRATEFUL for finding you! Your delivery is soothing, your info is easily digestible, and your persona is delightful. Can't wait to listen to all vids & read your writings.

Woundology is powerful visualisation. Ty for giving mindfulness on empowering ppl in our communications.

Always something new to receive from Caroline. Thank you AGAIN. 💖

I’m already blown away by the Siri and you are just getting started. Thank you, I’m hooked!

Thank you so much for doing these series and lectures. God bless.

Thank you, this was excellent.

Thank you over and over again Caroline this was just what I needed& I love you big huge!

Thank you ❤

Thank you so much Caroline. God bless you ❤️.

Thank you for all that you do 🙏🌷

Thank you for generously sharing your understanding and your heart. I love this series, and will tune into it every week. Bless you, Caroline! 🧡

Thank you so much for this and each of your programs and books. Love them all! Looking forwards to the continuation of this Archetypes series. 🙏🏻💐❤️

Thank you Caroline. That felt very encouraging to me and helpful.

Thank you for the meaningful content you put out into the world. We appreciate your wisdom and clarity ❤

Excelent class.Thank You!!!

Thank you very much for this present.

Thank you Caroline. ❤️

This was truly delightful and englightening. Definitely I'm sure something we can all relate to. Thank you for your input, clarity and wisdom you bring into this world.

I LOVE what you say about intuition. Thank you.

Wow, wow, wow. I just love sitting here and listening to you talk about this. I could listen to you all night :) Thank you 😊

Thank you. Your teachings are on point and very practical.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Thank you for your insights and wisdom! It’s greatly appreciated!

This teaching is absolutely beautiful. I greatly appreciate the clarity and power of your language and your ability to make you teachings relatable and easy to metabolize. I have never signed on the dotted line to come spend time with you, but I know I need to do so.

Oh my goodness! I’ve discovered a brilliant treasure to behold! Your wisdom & grace is infectious, in the most divine way. Thank you! 🙏🏼❤️‍🩹

Thank you Caroline. My Life has been blessed singe I got in touch with your teaching and learning about Archetypes. I intend to continue explore this field as it has helped me to make tremendous change in my life. 🙏

Wow! Everything is power and it always felt shameful to admit it but knowing that it's the same for everyone... Thank you Caroline Myss! Such an inspiration!

Caroline Myss you are an amazing speaker, and incredibly insightful. I can relate so much to what you share about sabotaging other people. Thank you for your wisdom!

Thank you for your Gift🙏❤️

Thank you again. So much insight, much of the wisdom I access is channeled by you dear Caroline. Thank you for your rich, invaluable, deeply generous sharing.

You are so gifted at explaining the truth, Caroline. In my family ancestors, secrets and truth was sometimes held back for fear of being ridiculed, I think. Truth teaches us and others while secrets cover up mistakes. We only learn from making mistakes and correcting them, so when we do realize the truth, we just need to deal with it and lighten the heavy burden. Namaste,'

Thank you so much ❤️🍀

Thank you !!!!!

Ding ding ding you just hit on something I needed to grasp so badly. Thank you 💖

This is soo good. Synchronicity bright me here. Thank god!

Thank you

Thank you, Caroline, oh mystic of mind and heart! I am appreciating in new depths a renewed acquaintance with being mindful of this archetype, and appreciate your bringing forth new nuances! ♥

Could listen to you speak all day. All good reminders, thank you. ❤️🌎

Thank you for sharing your wisdom and knowledge and mostly your generous heart!❤

Yes "little bit of Truth goes a long way" indeed. Thank you for Carolyn.

Thank You Sooo Much for This Caroline! JUST what I need right now.... Bless You! 🌟💗🙏💗🌟

Thank you. 💐💐💐

Thankyou Caroline, I really appreciate you🙏..and you sharing your Wisdom 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Thank you this is so helpful.

That was so important for me to hear. Thank you.

thank you

Love this 👏🏼👏🏼 thank you so much 🙏🏼❤️‍🩹

omg, love this!! very helpful, also...the Saboteur has been running rampant in my life!! sacre bleu!! I must keep it in check!!! ty Caroline

Thank you Caroline for these videos. You are a light in my world. I have listened to all of your work for over 15 years... when I turned 44 I realized a dream by coming to workshop with you in Sedona. You have always been a speaker of truth and it has resonated with my soul and helped me continue on this journey of empowerment. Blessings to you and yours.