Exactly! He basically told her how he saw her.

@@taniamejia5359 she never believe that how he see her.

Not everybody needs to get married

@@Aboutoslapahoe thank God for someone agreeing with me.

I don’t think either of them are. Aiden was perfect and everything she thought she wanted from Big, but she grew bored of him and started an affair. Same with Big and Natasha. Carrie likes the chase and Big knows deep down she’s not the marrying kind. In real life they didn’t marry each other but they wanted a Hollywood ending for good ratings or whatever.

Yes but she has this fake confidence, when underneath she's so needy. They're both trying to outsmart each other, both being fake. He is hot though!

Im 27 and all i see is a man who have money...

She even called him “Big” probably short for big bank account 😁

I agree. When he went to paris to " rescue " her I was so happy. Now as a 38 year old after watching carrie tell him off right before she left I thought finally she grew a spine! They are so toxic 4 eachother. The show creator darren starr & the original writer both said it was a mistake to have carrie & big wing up together. Darren said it killed the whole message of rescuing & finding ur own happiness & not necessarily meaning ur happiness depends on a man. I think Charlotte's story when it comes to a man was just much better. Yea her goal was to be a mom & wife. Their is nothing wrong w/ that. She wanted the ideal man & to have the easy road to kids. She met the tall dark & handsome yale bred wealthy neurosurgeon in trey. On paper they were perfect beautiful people who were wasps came from wealthy backgrounds & were educated & successful. As soon as charlotte could not get pregnant easily things fell apart. His mom was way to involved in treys life & he told her very personal things. I also like when they split trey was not portrayed as some monster. He posed for the home & gardens spotlight b/c it was important to her. Even though they had a pre nup he gave her that beautiful Manhattan apt. He finally stood up to his mom in the telegram about giving Charlotte anything she wants ( albeit through telegram not in person so trey still had some growing to do w/ his mom but that was a big step ) a domineering oedipal mother son thing is a horrible thing & really does ruin a marriage or relationship. Then she met harry. He was not conventionally good looking like trey but charlotte was comfortable w/ him he made her laugh he treated her like a queen & I loved that they both compromised to be together. He told her he had to marry a jewish woman. It was something that was important to him. He wanted his kids raised Jewish. So this led to charlotte telling him as he was upfront w/ her that it was not hopeless that she had a bio baby but odds were not good. He did not even blink. He told her of theyd cant have kids theyll adopt. So by not being so glued to her ideals she found her soul mate. When she stopped obsessing over a baby she was able to get pregnant. She miscarried but it was encouraging b/c she at least was able to get pregnant. They adopted their little girl & than she finally got pregnant again & carried to term. I know this happened to my aunt. She adopted a baby & a few years later got pregnant. This is a lot more common than people think. They stop feeling such pressure & it happens. So in the end charlotte achieved her dreams by growing & changing

lol i find carrie low key gold digger Carrie is willing to accept without a second thought.

totally agree

@@theditti1010 You are stupid. You can be in stable relationships and still have chemistry. They are not ''danger'', they are TOXIC. He treats her as crap. You are probably too young and immature plus Daddy and low self-esteem issues if you think this is ''dangerous and exciting''. You probably think you sound cool but you sound dumb and clishe and show all your issues. You have so much to learn in life, sweetie...

@@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 I do not agree. But I do not answer you because I do not speak to people who have such styles as you. You can still answer, I don't care.

Oh yes it is!

Agree. Be careful with chemistry, you must know that chemistry is not what holds a relationship it is not a guarantee, just take a moment and think of the last guy you guys had chemistry with and tell me how far you two got and all what that person did for you....???

these two were just made for each other lol

I think... she hadn't cheated on Aiden by this point.. think that came a little later 🙄

@@Evajeanfreedom She did. She found the ring, which is why she says that. Also, this was after Aiden and Big fought and then were "suddenly friends"--that's when Big starts calling Aiden by his name.

Karen Coaching For positive health! No she already had cheated on him by this episode.

I believe its dior

Carries body is wow tho

All her clothes are amazing

888telle456 it’s insane

SJPs body is insane!

i thinks she was the only one in love in the couple

I couldn't be with mr Big cause I want things to be on my way. I would have ditched him if he had played gamws with.me. Paeson.my bad english!

She married a murderer

How is that a lack of respect? He was right. Some people aren't set up for marriage unless they meet a certain type of person.

why? she said it herself many times that she didn’t want to get married

didn’t the show/the movies show that she’s not the marrying type?

@@ladyGZSeChu until big married natasha

She definitely wanted to get marry with Big since the beginning

He didn't want to change carrie he wanted more for her. He always went at her pace.

Tout a fait!!

Pour moi c'est l'histoire d'une femme un peu enfant qui se perd beaucoup trop dans ses questionnements. Elle a une dépendance affective et s'accroche à un homme qui ne veut pas d'elle. Même après toute ces années elle n'a pas le déclic pour se dire "maintenant c'est fini je mérite mieux que mr big" dommage. Sinon j'adore cette série car l'amitié entre les 4 filles et leurs vies est vraiment cool.

Big orchestrates the chance encounters. In other words, he is pursuing her

Yeah, that's what I was thinking, this show makes it look like Manhattan is a small town ahaha 😂

@@theCatsitter878 Yeah and even if he was looking for her, he would never be able to spot her in the sea of humans walking every second.

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I didn't know that. Hence more toxicity on stage perhaps.

That's why they were made for one another 😂

Well you dont get to be that age and still single because you make good choices. Big divorced twice and Carrie who is over 30 and ruined both her major relationships because she was pretending to be something shes not and both men would have prefered her to be fully herself. Aden wouldn't have been foolish enough to stick around and big would have respected her. Aden wanted a loving wife, a drama free life and a family. Thats not something carrie can offer. She would have been much better suited to stay with Big. Had she been able to listen to him when he told her whatche wanted and needed and had she been honest with him and not tried to be "together carrie" and then lash out when she doesnt get her way. I think if they had better communication their chemistry would have brougjt tjem back together time and time again but with a better outcome.

You can clean a window. It is not expensive, it doesn´t take a lot of time. Calm down, Chantel.

@@leahnyb6878 it's actually a very common pet peeve. If you do it you're probably annoying, Leah.

Calm down, Karen

yeah, poor aidan, she had been such a bitch with him

Because hes loaded. She excuses his behaviors

I think she wanted to though because she deeply wanted to know what he would think.

@@goldcherries or she wanted him to feel bad about not ever thinking of marrying her.

She sleeps with rich men...

It was around 2000. Rent was far far cheaper in Manhattan, even after accounting for inflation. And Carrie’s apartment was rent-controlled, as we learn in a different episode. But of course, this is make believe. Somebody with a career writing a measly sex column probably wouldn’t be able to afford that lifestyle in real life.

@@ytyt3922 No! Rent was still expensive. People back then criticized that about the show. They said it wasn't realistic that Carrie could afford her lifestyle.

Low key I think big was paying her rent.

Tania Mejia she clearly COULDNT afford her lifestyle tho... that's why she had to borrow money from Charlotte to keep her apartment lol

And you walk like a cleaning lady?

@@leahnyb6878 😂😂

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