Tyrion the only man who slapped the King and survived.

without supper

@@mzovuyonoswili4351 his mum slapped him.

Indeed.

I like how Tywin uses fear to manipulate people and how Tyrion uses desire to manipulate people

+MentalReach Ikr, Now I'm gonna have any of my "problems" executed or assassinated!

+John Roy +YoungLifeThoughts Nice one :D couldn't stop laughing :)

Burve97LP Thanks m8 :D

+YoungLifeThoughts or just feed it to the Hounds!

+MentalReach Everything can be used in such ways. But yes, GoT is one of the best shows for power plays.

And courage comes when you know you are going the right things.

Power is easy... courage is getting up in the morning...

No. 4 is natural for me but at first I don't understand why people are tiptoeing when I'm around and I don't exploit my natural gift because I don't like people feel not comfortable with me but now I realize and know how to use it to get people respect instead of fear or intimidation.

6- Make people dependent on you. If you want more power rules, the book 48 rules of power is a great read.

For instance, it would be hard to get a job with NASA. But if I already lived on the moon, it would be harder for NASA to try and hire me.

Today we believe power lies with the government.

@@evilinside6327 thats not varys meant by power. The government has power. If they want you taken out they will

*where

That is how Donald Trump has made it so far. Marketing!

Can give a example for better understanding?

*slow clap*

+Ben Thorn LOL!!

he will demand a trial by combat

Look at his reaction ! He is too much of a coward for that.

+Ben Thorn Brilliant

Then you found out your Teacher is GTO. :-0

Pravin Bhorge then tommen of house baratheon banned trial by combat and you failed lol...........

Is the teacher Gandalf and me a Balrog?

damn you just gave me 2nd hand cringe god damn it

Right, go to a job interview and say "well why should I work for this company? What makes this a good fit for me?" I'm sure they will admire your importance

That is one of the rules of Stoicism. You cannot control what is outside of your control, you can only control how you react towards it.

Yes - very good advice.

But the things I cannot control keeps ruining the very thing I can control, which means, try to find another strategy to neuter and deal with it instead of avoiding it.

power is not in control, only fear

@@MarchAngeloPAlino That's my problem. I have no complete control over how people keep on trampling over my rights as a person, but I do have a *little* bit of control still. However, that lack of control makes me really stressed out because I'm trying to fix it, but it's so difficult and the things I do to try to fix it keeps on failing. So I'm a bit lost.

He needs milk. Chocolate milk.

SixUK90 hahahahaa

HAHAHAHAHAHA I'm rewatching game of thrones, so I'm also rewatching GoT YT videos.. and your comment STILL has me rolling 7 years later 🤣🤣🤣 I laughed so hard when I read it 😂

+cragethGER °That's awesome to hear! Thank you

+cragethGER i agree!!!

Charisma on Command That's NOT awesome. Bad schools are never a cause for celebration.

Crageth, IKR?! Lol!

Lol I learned about my marriage. Go figure

The Starks won, mate.

That thing next to Bran was not Tyrion. That was a bafoon.

The fans lost

He survived because the writing dies

never thought of it that way🤔 brilliant

They're two of the best actors in it. Maybe THE two best. Best abusive family chemistry since The Lion in Winter.

That moment breaks my heart every time.

@@crhu319 Lena as Cersei is probably my favorite performance of a clear villain with occasional sympathetic moments. She was diabolical, but I could never bring myself to hate her.

This always makes me adk the obvious question that no one ever seems to. Why did Tywin never remarry. As the Lord of Casterly rock and warden of the west he would have had his pick and it would have increased his power and influence, he could have had more sons to sure up his direct lineage. It never made any sense because he would have been in control of the whole situation and ensured the family was stronger than ever.

@@cddeutsch4289 am telling u

Agreed.

phych major? hahaha good luck man

+Nathen Colberg graduated

+Nathen Colberg thank you, you too!

But, the part where he tells less movement means more power, it necessary is not true. When you are challenging someone or being challenged sure less movement means you are reacting less to the other person, but in general more movement means comfort and charisma.

lol, me too

+Duff The Psych Loool yea same for me

yeah,for a moment,I thought there were something wrong with my computer

hahaha me too

that moment..

Nice

Tyrion's power is an entirely different type of power though. He's smart, calculated, and can get on good terms with pretty much anyone. Tywin commands power and makes many enemies in the process, which is why he's dead and Tyrion isn't.

@@sarafritsch123 True he has a whole different kind of power then for instance Daenerys who has the beauty and the weapons, or Jon who can fight.

Nutty dishwasher you... have no idea what you’re talking about

+sigunat It´s what he does

Which one of the seven gods said that? Or were the tree gods? Be more specific please and read between lines. Take care mate.

sigunat what?

He's the god of tits and wine

Tyrion was given power in Mereen and he brookered a fake peace that brought Mareen close to destruction until Dany came back with the Dotraki. Tyrion led to the destruction of Tyrells and the decapitation of the Doonish. Tyrion's advises are bad in most of the cases.

barbariandude he's done with acting, he's going to pursue an education in Psychology.

I know, it’s a shame

@@systemofafox6487 Depending on how much of Joffreys delivery was Jack naturally and how much he was coached; he has the tools to be good at it and I wish him well. We need more better psychologists than more good actors.

If you’ve ever seen him interviewed, it’s quite a thing to look for. He’s charming and confident, yet also modest and really smart.

The guy made enough money on GOT and is probably still collecting because of licensing merch and residuals. And he wants to use the money to educate himself and get a degree? That’s classy. Maybe he’ll return to acting later in life or use his “Joffrey” experience to become the best Psychologist ever. 👍

The PImp of Casterly Rock. There I fixed it for you. 😀

The Starks won, mate.

Yeah sure, the Starks won as the "alpha wolves" of their own packs, but the one most responsible for the new order in Westeros is actually Tyrion. In his first official Small Council, Bran has no interest in actual ruling, being contented with having Tyrion governing from the shadows. Also, if you look at previous seasons, the Hands often wield equal power, if not greater, than the Monarchs they serve. Just ask Jon Arryn, Ned Stark, and of course, Tywin Lannister. Of the Starks, I could say Sansa "won" the most, ruling over a war-torn, economically ruined North... but hey, independence aight. Lastly, "Power resides where men believe it resides. It's a trick, a shadow on the wall, and a very small man can cast a very large shadow."

@@blackpowderuser373 I can counter-argue, but I like your explanation and it would take a lot of time so I won't :).

Yes he one but, it's an never ending game he need to keep playing it or he will die

A point lost on no one. If you can't be bothered to climb some stairs...

Step one: find a brothel.

@@aaronseet2738 Fick dich

Already working on that, comrade.

Ah, I see we've found Stannis Baratheon. The oh-so-mighty outlawer of brothels, the King in the Narrow Sea. Jinbo Himself.

Not become Lannister, but become A Tyrion Lannister type.

😄😄😄😄

😆

No, see, the part you did wrong was you didn't pull your pecker out to let him know there is a new cowboy in town. But be careful if you have tiny balls cos it might work against you. Next time record the interview and if Charlie is too busy to do a breakdown of it, then I will, damn it!

Lol

You a**!😂😂😂

Structure

slave

Big Solid Boss I’m starting to wonder if that’s on purpose..

It started dropping sooner but his low point certainly was the idea of putting women and children in the crypts when the undead attack. EDIT: To clarify, his IQ started dropping the moment they went past Martin's writing.

@@NamelessSekiro It's called sarcasm. Ever heard of it?

Ryan Jones I wouldn’t say it’s on purpose. Just D&D not being able to write a character as smart as seasons 1-4 tyrion

@@NamelessSekiro fangay much?

+TheZooNinjaS °I should be so lucky! Thanks man!

+Charisma on Command Would you mind if I adapted this into a Ted Talk at my school? I have an assignment in which I have to write and present a Ted Talk in front of my school and I feel this would be perfect for that.

Does this fall under Critique, or under what grounds of fair use? Just wondering because someday I'd like to do videos like this.

hahaha

it sort of is, but there's a video more about projecting voice and how to get the attention and persuasion from an audience

+Karan Das I really wish he stayed longer. That season 1 scene where he was skinning a real deer already won my heart.

+Karan Das He was no true lion, he didn't care shit about his cubs.

prox1e Tyrion probably doesn't even have Lannister blood. Joanna might have been raped by the mad king and died during premature childbirth which explains Tyrion's easy interaction with dragons as he is also a Targaryean.

+prox1e male lions usually don't

+Karan Das Ik. Tywin was literally a fucking boss

Haahhhaaa

Simply Brilliant. Thanks for the share.

I experienced this in my internship and learnt every scandal and secret in one month lol

+Simon Murray You shouldnt be competing with your friends lol let them watch these and then you can learn off of each other!

+Simon Murray You should have your friends attain this knowledge and try to outsmart each other in a conversation.

+Richard L but when his friends saw this it forces him to compete even more, doesnt it?

+Revallving He is unsecure.

lol same XD

+william waddell I do cram as much info as I can so feel free to check out my other videos as well.

Charisma on Command thank you for the response

No it's not tyrion but Jon,Dany and Tyrion will because the three of them is a.... Targaryen

Dany can't ride 3 dragons at once couldn't she 😂

+william waddell i think you will use this trick in ze real life :)

Yet she is powerless in a whole lot of scenes

@@LionelBercovich that's how she knows.

°Happy to share :-)

Is that a reference to skyrim/fallout skill? XD

Milky's yes, skyrim

+M O N S T E R K I L L gamers UNITE!!!!! Hahaha

Nice! I’m at 48 myself! I just unlocked 1,000 extra gold from every trade vendor the other day!

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+LonelyBookaneer And hard to pronounce

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nice sums

When you go to jail for SA it won't look good on a background check

I’m guessing you don’t get hired very often.

@@seanstone9556 Nice 😂

I run my own business, I sit where I want with whom I want. Feet up on the desk if it pleases me.

I'm the kind of boss who will show you which chair you should move to. Then conduct the interview trying to see past the skepticism created by a stranger who may have trouble with boundaries.

+RookieN08 Then title it something like "Battle of the Penis Jokes"

Definitely, their scenes would be perfect to break down

I always wondered what the key to littlefinger and varys success was. Is it only because of littlefinger's incredible business acumen, and Varys spying, or is there charisma involved. Tyrion never has a plan and he is ultimately just a pawn in this grand chess game Varys and Little finger have been playing since the beginning of the show. If you want to make a video about other characters on Game of Thrones those two characters are the most interesting to talk about as neither of them were born with any power and are the most clever and strategic players in the entire show.

+RookieN08 Well, well, nice avatar you've got there.

Melly Reed Where is a diaper called a coose? Just out of curiosity

Well, it could be your business, too. Just sayin.

+onelifelefttodie so, what happened?

I walked round the desk and they called security. I am now a poor man

He puckered up.

+Josue Cruz-Reyes Too true, always appreciate the world around you.

Yeaaah

He was not a villain

@@nietactief3182 He was if you root for the starks.

@Daniel H he was just trying to do best for huis family/family honor and he did a great job, from his perspective the Starks are the evil ones.

And i do root for the Starks, but maybe i wouldnt is tywin was still alive

Yup, JOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHN SNOOOOOOOOOOW!!!!

HOLD THE DOOR PLEASE

AND DO RAGNAR LOTHBROK FROM VIKINGS!! ALL HAIL RAGNAR LOTHBROK! (doing his son Bjorn Ironside as well too!)

Yes Please.

Fake

Source: - trust me bro

In many professions this would not fly, because this shows that you only care about yourself not the job/vocation. I would not hire someone who only cares about what they can get out of the job.

Yep, unfortunately interviews can be very dependent on the interviewer. If you get a young inexperienced person saying this, you'd throw them out the interview room. To be honest, it has to be more subtle. For me, I have certain things I want out of a job, and thus more tactful way is to ask whether they can provide what I need.

@@doracrabtree8896 A job interview should not be that one sided imo. It's basically a transaction.

+gxb12369 Valar dohaeris :)

+gxb12369 quote: this served "me" well. I see what you did there.

+Charisma on Command You only say Valar Dohaeris after "Valar Morghulis."

+Charisma on Command these charisma videos on series on game of thrones are really entertaining to watch. Good job on the video!

+gxb12369 What a cringy comment m8

+ShinShoki A charismatic giant, to be sure :-)

+Charisma on Command the best of them all

+ShinShoki Notice the way Hodor Hodors to Bran, showing Bran respect and being attentive as he Hodors. He then turns around and Hodors again before exiting the room. Hodor is one of the most charismatic characters on the show.

hodor is totally winning the game of thrones

+MrGollum1996 Of course he's not, Reek is! Jeeze!

+Batoul S Yeah, that drives me nuts and I was thinking of that. He had great reason for his choices, but didn't make them clear

+Charisma on Command would love to see that

+Batoul S Great episode idea, do it! Conclude the episode with a happy dance! Ned had the same problem, by the way. Maybe title the episode "How to definitely nót win the Game of Thrones'.

+Bird Brain Mafia Thks for the spoiler guys! Haha.

+Charisma on Command A breakdown on game of throne deaths on why it happened and how it could be prevented would be really intressting.

Pimp not simp

Eye contact is more important than accent

@@julijakeit you also need a wheelchair. Nobody messes with a handicapped who gives you the stink eye.

and "Have a good story!" .... apparently.

And say 'I don't want it' even if you do, so that nobody perceives you as a threat.

same this guy is a absolute genius to be able to explain these things in such a easy to understand way without being condensing :)

+Joshua Williams My guess is it's a mix of learning evolutionary psychology, NLP, probably pick-up and social dynamics as a whole. Also things like triune brain theory, frame control and other stuff like influence etc.

+Caius Filimon I know, I found him not too long ago, and he's almost tripled.

It's because of the game of thrones videos during the new season :)

Both

+LambentTyto the channel is "charisma on command". its both. he occasionally uses game of thrones to show communication techniques. typically tyrion scenes since he is the most charming silver-tongued character who gets out of any bad situation.

+LambentTyto both

+LambentTyto The host guy asked if we wanted more videos about Tyrion, and obviously the people have spoken...

Indeed.

İ second that

She had dragons 🐉 but without them all she was was a piece of 🐴

@@tomdanks3427 dragon is what Targaryens had or else there were more powerful people other than Targaryens, so, without dragons Targaryens themselves were a piece of 🐴,lmao

@@ibnebatuta4868 yeah with that pretty hair lol

@@tomdanks3427 exactly, with white hairs,lol

Nah he's his favorite character

Tyrion is not a leader and can't bring peace to the 7 kingdoms. He has no army to restore order, he has no honor, killed his father. He has always been a loner. His councel will lead to the destruction of Dany unless she listens to him and does the oposite.

Goddy Win do have anything against Tyrion brother? Haha

Goddy Win nah, he legitimately wants Dany on the throne. You see, he does not actually want the throne himself. He sees all the death of those on the throne, and so he believes that his best chance at a peace in Westeros is as advisor, not as King.

you have tapped into the real power player of Game of Thrones. George RR Martin. This man cannot be beaten, he knows not only what is going to happen, but every possible thing that could happen. He doesn't just know what people will say and do, but everything they could and would say and do. True power isn't being the hero of the story, or the strongest character, its not being the villein or mastermind of the plot. True power is being the Author of the story. No matter how strong any character might be, they cant beat the one writing the script.

You're also dead

ya you got killed by a hobbit

+Griefhacker Im fucking back

+Marcus Tierney i was taking a shit it. Tyrion was a pussy

You're still dead....

Paulie Gee hahahaha

true...true

+Erik Magyarsthetic She refuses to compromise in her beliefs which is exactly why she's win. She polarizes people, either you're on her side and you respect human decency, basic rights, and the power that she commands (with dragons) or you're not. Tyrion navigates a world of backstabbing and temporary allies and compromises all of which sets the stage to have the ground fall out from under you before you can think twice about it. Don't get me wrong Tyrion's damn good at working people, but that's the thing, he needs to leverage people to get loyalty, Dany doesn't.

I respectfully disagree. Firstly dont project your modern set of moral values on a medieval fantasy world. In mereen she is imposing her own culture on others and the army she "freed" follows her every command. Some of which were Kill every man in a city where not all were guilty and crucify a set number of men in another picked at random whether proven guilty or innocent. Secondly Every character thus far that has not compromised and stuck halfheartedly to their values has wound up dead. Ned and Rob with their codes of Honor, Stannis with his uncompromising world view on justice (in the books they expand on his wish to impose his moral code and views on justice on to the realm). Much like Dany. The list goes on and on. Dany is not a good example of any real life situation. She survived the pyre and birthed dragons out of luck and superpowers. Even with her 3 dragons she almost found herself starving and locked out of Quarth due to her entitled attitude. Then almost assassinated by Dario if he hadn't have chosen to be friendly instead. Its at the whims of others that she has risen. Without her superhuman gifts, magical dragons, and companions that dius ex machina her plot along, she'd be dead. With all her power birth rites and whatnot. Only through the help of others like Jorah Xaro then Dario her Dragons etc does she even make it through the story. She is a terrible example. Born into a prestigious name. Gifted an army, dragons and magical abilities? who can relate to this? Tyrion on the other hand has been down trodden, his family name now means nothing, he has no wealth anymore, he no physical prowess but instead he works the world he has been given, playing the game better than anyone else. Youre wrong politics never collapses it is the code the world has always worked on. Rulers, Monarchs Systems of government now that collapses like so many stones into so much rubble. Baelish, Varys, Tyrion, Tywin These are the prime examples of what charisma speaks of they work the minds of people not fires and dragons. God that was long. here TL;DR: Dany power is not of this world and only works in GoT. Tyrion's Works anywhere.

Erik Magyarsthetic Well no fucking shit. It's a STORY, and in the real world i'd root for Tyrion because he's the smart player and that's the smart thing to do but it is a story with magically gifted princesses who ride dragons and shit and in that setting my money's on the magic dragon lady, not the dwarf. Also, in terms of those who stuck to their beliefs dying, first off the stark family never had dragons, if they did things may have gone differently, secondly Stannis was a pawn of the red woman which is a sort of compromise, allowing yourself to be swayed by someone elses vision, not to mention that he burned his daughter and for what? Ned Starks morals got in the way of him winning (he tried to conduct politics with honnor) and Stannis went to far. That's the thing about Danny, she might have been a hard ass sometimes but she's never made a compromise and she's never had to lose. Sure maybe it's all magic and luck but that kinda shit tends to attract a following all the same which might turn her base into more than just that (as it now already seems to be) Oh and don't you dare start that cultural relativism bullshit. I can agree that they've got a right to be pissed because she screwed with their way of life, but if you legitimately want to try and tell me that slavery is okay under any circumstances you need to seriously re-evaluate your moral code. (because morals aren't just some shit somebody made up, they are, should be, and in fact need to be something personal to yourself) TL;DR (cause my thing was probably just as long) It's fiction, and she hasn't made the same mistakes as either Stannis or the Starks. Also don't argue the morality of slavery.

Way to completely ignore the Topic of the conversation.... If your read my comments properly you'd realize I was never talking about who is most likely to win. My comments is ENTIRELY about who is the most capable in ruling and controlling other (aka manipulating people and situation to their advantage). Using a dragon to win a war. Much like using a gun to win an argument does not make you the better strategist -__- Also did you just entirely ignore every other point I raised with the Hypocrisy of Dany's character only to talk about slavery and your morality again...wow typical Show watching Dany fan. Skipped bast the Crucifixion of citizens selected at random. Her US style policy of overthrowing governments without creating a system of governance that, so to leave a void of power for those far worse to take over the cities she had "freed" a couple months ago to be enslaved once again under crueler masters (read) the books or watch the show where Dario says "Some thug Butcher has taken the city". She is a horrible leader. You also missed my mention of her entitled self righteous attitude. So far 9/10 of her "accomplishments" have been gifted to her. Her stubborn inability to adapt to her environments and influence people with anything other than fear (or perhaps awe and titties). Has left her near death multiple times. E.g: The gates of Quarth, Negotiations in Quarth, The fighting pits of Mereen (dragon had to save them all), dealing with the Khals. Being fire proof is not a mode of manipulating situations and people. Using her mind she could have avoided these. So yes she's well positioned to win (although if the books progress down their normal thematic trajectory. She won't) But do you honestly think she displays the abilities of persuasion, manipulation, control, expression and awareness that this channel is about more so than Tyrion, Tywin, Baelish, Varyst etc? One last thing: "because morals aren't just some shit somebody made up, they are, should be, and in fact need to be something personal to yourself" Yes morals are "made up" seeing as the average Humans view of Morality in the 1100s was much different to the 2000s. It develops changes progresses and evolves. I personally despise the thought of slavery but you're once again projecting modern morals and values into a fantasy medieval based world. Remember how Drogo Raped Dany in the first season, or Ramsey raped sansa in S5. Well hate to break it to you, but according to the morality and laws of the time and world they live that wasn't rape to them. Although it was to me and you. P.S. If you havnt noticed one of the greatest themes of the entire show and books is Adaptation and progression, this is why characters that move with the times and accept the world for what it is becoming survive like Tyrion and those that rigidly adhere to the old status quo such as stanis, Rob, Ned and eventually Dany die. The show among other things is about a changing and progressing world, where legitimacy means less and less and and our modern concepts and political ideas emerge. Bravos and Baelish being prime examples of this. Anyways This was long as fuck but I just finished My major Presentation so I finally got around to replying :P. Not here to fight but I can't resist a good debate ;)

Highly ineffective, but I don't seem to be to earnest.

Your method doesn't work at all. I've tried two ways and this way works. Not being nice to people

+CoveringFish that's why I said "highly ineffective". In any case my interactions with people aren't high stakes so I don't treat them as such.

Bet you get walked all over by people in your life

+Chains Rad If you can be friendly and know when to say 'no' then you can do pretty well

+Patrick Canchaya Kralewski Valar Dohaeris

"He wants to be Moriarty but is not" there, I have done it for you after two years. No but seriously, that's how it was put to me once. It's like a Holmes story only Moriarty is just not that smart. And he commits the villain cardinal sin of relying on and failing because of that subordinate.

I think that's something the consumer audience has lost. Not everyone mind you, but a decent portion of audiences don't watch/listen to media to learn from the story. What makes me sad about that, is we will lose good stories to learn from because the production of them won't be called for if we don't stay vocal about wanting them.

+Feakos Exactly. The game of thrones is simply a distraction, meanwhile the world is ending.

@@Adino1 Are you guys as pissed as I am?

@@firetopman Can't say I'm surprised. I am just glad the outrage is as big as it is.

Feakos congrats on the prophecy

This did not age well...

+BASTO ADRIAN COSME JOSE -- Glad you're digging it :-)

+FitzPlaysPS4 _ Learn from everything, bro.

+Matt Baldwin "I'm not tIRED!!!!!!!!"

+Matt Baldwin Tywin and joffrey were the most interesting characters. The show is not the same without them.

Denis Lipatnikov Most interesting? I wouldn't go that far. But they were very intense characters to watch. But I think most of the characters could be considering interesting in their own right. But that's just my opinion

+Jayy well, i would love to see some more off young Tywin. rasing house lannister from a poor to the richest house in westeros

Jayy Yes I'm sure many characters had more interesting backstories and motivations and in the books they were better characters, but what I meant is on screen they drew you in to the story, the acting of Charles Dance and Jack Gleeson helped of course.

+SuperiorSeven Grazie! Excited to make more!