As a wise man once said "women are waiting on the finish line for the winner".

Don't go for unsuccessful girls who never did anything in her life and was not with you in your struggle...and now she is here to enjoy your success with you.

A beautiful girl can't give a beautiful or successful career, but a beautiful and successful career can give you an opportunity to get a beautiful girl.

The kind of partner you want, just become that one.. everything should be based on equality

Moral To Guys - If you want Sita Become Ram first Moral To Girls - If you want Ram Become Sita first Well Said Sir❤️👏🤘

Very true, I agree. Girls need successful and positive guys or a guy who has potential to grow in future, it gives security, stability for a better life, positive environment encourages a girl to grow in her career too.

One thing I always believe "Beauty is temporary, Character is permanent"

Lessons: 1) Dedicate yourself fully towards your goal, stay single untill you become successful. 2) Learn to stay happy with or without anyone in your life. 3) Keep your standards high. You are the "Prize".

100 % true. Neeraj Chopra was tall, broad and handsome and athletic since many years. But he became the "national crush" only after getting the gold medal / becoming successful / achieving his mission. Therefore yes, girls want a successful man. A successful man is one who always puts his vision and mission in life first ! Our Shastras have long said it, no surprise first Dharma, then Artha, only then Kama and then Moksha ! 🙏🏻

Seriously after 23/24 no face or looks matters, the only thing that matters is personality, success, and compatibility with your partner & this is for both girls and guys. Well said sir!

For those who don't have time to watch full video Moral: Just focus on yourself, on your work, on your health, on your happiness, on your strength, on your mission, on your finance and lastly on your mental peace. Just be a genius MAN

I am in my struggling phase and my wife is supporting me in all the way she could. She is doing it from last 5 years. She is earning for the family and always keeps me motivated to achieve my goals

Success is Not Dream or Goal it is Necessity..

Moral of the story = DON'T BE A MINIMUM GUY🤣🤣🤣

I agree, 7 years of relationship & after 2 years of marriage with the same man.It's good & beneficial for the man too, he can be man enough(hero) & women will feel her feminine self & motivate him to do better. In the end both win.

This is so true everybody seeks security and there is nothing wrong in it . Always be the guy to a girl you want for your sister ❤️

I really don't care what girl wants, but I want to be successful for myself and make proud my parents.

Never listen to girls who say, we like this and that type of a guy. Never trust a woman's words, trust her actions. Attraction is not choice. Subconsciously, they always follow an ambitious badass man.

Yes Chetan I 100% agree with you. Thank you for stating it without judgement. Boys please be the kind of man you would want for your sister.

The most honest video i saw ever in my 30 years of life ... 🙏❤️👍

I want become successful for myyy motherrrrrrrrr...she struggle too much for meee 💗💗💗💗💗

Money is honey ...rich man's joke is always funny

Well said sir. I was in relationship for 10 years before marriage and people used to praise about us but I used to say one thing " pyar se pet ni bharta". I used to work hard. And this is the fact that without money the love will jump out of window. So the money, a long good career is very important part of your love life. 🙏

Whatever you are saying is absolutely right. At the time of marriage I had Engineering degree and my husband was 12th passed just earning 600 rs monthly doing some bogus apprenticeship in which he was just passing his time and just to show that he is doing something. I was very career oriented and built my career as software engineer. He was not able to accept my hard work and success despite his resistance. I always say it openly about his unemployment and his whole family was against me even when I was absolutely right. So boys don't put someone's daughter into dilemma just to fulfill your sexual needs. Be a man. Be mature and successful before marriage.

Hardworking person who is serious about himself and always work on improving him.

Man with his goals more attractive

ive dated a guy for 6 years. we met in college. yes i fell for his cuteness and his popularity in college, ambitious and the best part, how gentle and kind he was. we dated for a while...........slowly i saw his ambition diluting. he didnt have high goals after college. he was spending more free time in "exploring" his passion instead of sticking to one skill....(he is very talented.....kaafi log mein talent ki kami bhi hoti hai, but i can see the big light of talent in him).....in the process his health also went down, and mostly his confidence was not as bright as he was in college. but, i felt it was not a dealbreaker........ slowly i saw he really was not pushing himself and was more interested in spending free time in connecting with people and researching and other stuff .... nothing bad but, definately not focussed towards success. And i am an ambitious person. i like to use my max time to achieve my desired and goals. in the process with him, i started to see myself questioning my desire ... like why do i have desires. he would give more spiritual reasons for why he thought ambition and going after money was not as great. Its not like i was wanting him to support me financially. im very much capable of that. but then if i earn aa certain amount, and want to spemd it on certain experiences, it wouldnt match with his ideas of money. so many things started creating the conflict..... his whole fie started looking elsewhere and mine elsewhere. and all this while, his looks also went down, he got asthama and would sometines get attacks..... but still somehow wouldnt stop occasional and social smoking. he lost a lot of his hair too ....... (though that was never the main reason, but somehow if i mentioned his health to him that he should work on it .......he would admit to that and yeah maybe show a lil disappointment in me that im very bothered about it but he would never really express how much it botehred him. he was really insecure. and i felt like i was walking on eggshells, unable to express my concern. I went through a lot of guilt. i started seeing how he had transformed in to a person i didnt love anymore. and i wouldnt acknowleghe the fact that i dont anymore. that made me feel like a villan. when someone said " love is not that changes with sittuations changong" ....... ifelt under deep sadness that im incapable of love, because i didnt love him for who he is totally and absolutely. but, at the same time, the reality is that i am uncomfortabe with who he is now. and the worst part. i got to know today.... he got a hair transplant and planing to get a nose job. i feel terrible and helpless. so, i really dont know whats right and whats wrong anymore. its a mystery....... that i tried to solve for 6 years. and listening to this video, i feel terrible that yes, thats what i wanted. but, my shallow desires beat my deeper desires of love. thats the most perplexing feeling. it doesnt even feel like its a matter of courage........ or is it? mayeb i was afraid to deal with the consiquences of his insecurities. lack of courage to face terrible things in the name of love? ........ what is love

चेतन बाबू जितना आपने वीडियो में नहीं बताया उससे ज्यादा लड़कियां कमेंट में Actual needs ke regarding bta रही है। Thank you so much chetan babu ❤️

Men's entire focus should be on his career.

Even in shaadi me zarror aana , Aarti left satyendra for becoming PCS officer , had he been IAS officer at that time , she would have thought 10,000 times before leaving him . So, guys success is the first priority.

Girls ladder of expectations is: 1.Basic expectation:Don’t ditch me & protect my present lifestyle I am living at my parent’s house. 2. Intermediate expectation: Be the guy out of my imagination, who appreciates me forever and doesn’t restrict my basic freedom. 3. Advanced expectation: Take me for long drive, exotic holidays and to the restaurants which I only imagined when I was single.

Right 👏

“The worst wait in life is waiting for someone to text back"

*Half income: Half Girlfriend*

a sorted person ( mentally, emotionally and spiritually ) first sort yourself and your life only then you can be in harmony with someone else applied to both girls and boys.

This comment section has more emotionally matured people than any other❤️❤️

Value in Society as a man.... This knocks me up everytime I get tired or lazy.

You proved it...... "Behind every successful man there is a woman" is a myth The truth is "A woman is always behind a successful man"

When girls are young they want cool dude type guy, good looking charming, adventurous. When they get old and face value declines they want to secure their future and want to settle with high earning nerd, no matter how he looks.

Only women and children are loved unconditionally, but men are loved only when he provides you something.

Primary GOAL- SUCCESS + HUMANITY Secondary things - Height, color, beauty, biceps etc .

Everything you said is true. Evryone wants maturity and practical approach in relationship.

He should be understanding and successful also..looks doesn't matter

For whatever reasons a guy is putting effort, ultimately the aim is to be successful. Cheers to the effort which you are putting in to discuss about the topics that society ignores.More power to you Man

The person who is not successful won't be able to see her partner's growth especially that hardwork.

Except mother's every relationship comes with terms and conditions..everyone has its own agenda ..be it siblings relatives or your wife..or girlfriend

Pyar mohabbat Dhokhaa hai.. Padh le Betaa Maukaa hai😂🤣

Agree with all the points, That's what the truth is.

I am glad to hear from someone mature and who genuinely cares about the youth. Long way to go !!!

Even my ex said while breaking up and I'm quoting that.." I love you that's okay but i want a powerful guy, i want one with a powerful aura" . I completely relate it sir!

Laughed alot at, "mere dil ka kya hoga, mera dil". Thank You sir!! For your guidance to this generation 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Thanks for saying it with this much clarity and without sugarcoating it ❤️

I agree 100% .There is nothing wrong in it.

All he said is absolutely right,,..a girl may love a funny boy but she wants a successful husband...

Agree but for girls it's equally important to be successful so that she can be independent

True dat. Huge respect. It’s available in plain sight but we all miss to see it, somehow. Big thumbs up.

There's this exact reason that I admire you a lot like always.

Amazingly Said ... So to the point and genuine ❤️👏 ... Muscles and Height can be a FLEXIBLE need but carrier and success has to be a FIXED need.

Let's appreciate his simpleness in video making, no promotion for subscription, no any costly editing.. That's what he is.... quality

I think a girl herself should be financially independent ... also she needs a type of a guy who is successful and matured also 👍

This makes CHETAN sir so special, truth in simple way..

Being a girl I personally feel that a girl would be attracted to a guy who shares the same interests as her so that they can connect well. Also someone who has a strong character and respects her. What you have said sir is also absolutely correct.

Till clg, girls want guys wid gud sense of humor, smart, fitness freak, guitarist, sportsperson, rich & usually dey stay away from studious & shy guy but when it comes to marriage dey only prefer iit/iim/govt. Officer. I'm not complaining bt jst an piece of advice to guys, please remember you have only two true friends one is ur career & other one ur parents. & a/f being successful also look for girl wid same struggle & success as u hv done & achieved.

Fun fact: Intelligent & Sucessfull man dont have time to fall in that trap

Totally agree .every one need physical security first only then you will be able to give company to someone.

Agree: Successful (potential 4 success) Open minded Pleasant personality.

Totally agreed with your thoughts on this. You have changed my perspective to see this situation. Thank you 🙏🏻 😊

Truly true Open minded person as well.

U R DOING A BEST THING ....EVERY SINGLE WORD IS INSPIRING

" Girls want successful guys" - who doesn't...... I can say one previous sentence from your previous videos.... " Being poor isn't fun"😂

Chetan sir - life saver of many boys🙏

You are absolutely right "Chetan Sir". U are amazing ... As for some people truth is always bitter..

Yes Sir, I agree with you. Because it's make our life joyful.

Mostly girls notice their dressing sense so that they can make an assumption about their lifestyle and income. Girls also notice their nature or behaviour and how a guy treats people around him. So it depends from person to person. ❤️

Sir right on point. Chetan Sir rocks.

Yes Chetan sir all of us are agree with you, you says the reality that our parents and grandparents tell us and sir thankyou for giving us direction.

When girls marry mostly in 20s-30s most of the guys had started in their careers. success comes along way as time progresses.Girls look in man if he is open enough to give her- her space, freedom and career to pursue whatever she wants to do.

We agree to you sir.. But further adding a thing tht the being real is too important..

100% agree with everything you said! 🙏🏻

With experience I am saying this, Success alone isn't enough. You have to have a hell lot of patience, empathy, sense of humour, knowledge & "talent" to sustain the relationship well. Because once you both fall in love, your success becomes a normal thing. Being successful will help you get a good girl but not a good relationship. You have to have knowledge about how to deal thing's.

Totally agree with your points sir 👍 ......along with success , a man with empathy would be a cherry on top !😊

A good physique or body gives you the priority over others but for keep going you have to be successful

Thanks Sir to educating us. Finally we have here someone who let understands us the both side pictures.

That's why my proposal is "still pending" And i am " till reading."🤣🤣🤣

Yes this is so true!.. it's just no one can say it directly

This video is so true. I'm just working on my self-improvement, and I know I will get the best girl for myself at the right time.

Yes absolutely ❤!! No sugar-coating.. diplomacy Straight and blunt thought 👍🏽

Success is defer from one person to another it takes time , big goal take long time but if a girl love you at ur struggle period that's the true love But boys should focus on goal

Financial independence is the first step to self love . Love yourself to be loved by anyone else. Spend money on yourself let the ugly duckling become a beautiful swan and then quack for its mate

Listening to you is like therapy. I'm doing good in my life i just listen to you to be wiser, usually before I fall asleep. ♥️

Chetan great ! Someone had to say it candidly.....you did.....with your trademark simplicity and honesty

Girls telling me they like a guy's sense ofhumor, jawline, smile and 147 other stuff. Me being a sigma : works only on the money making stuff.

And I know women who rejected men who had more money Got Married to a person who is comparatively less successful But those men take care of their family and respect their careers

Sir, very true!!! In this video what you have explained is absolute reality.

i got down and busy into work after watching and realizing this. thank you totally agree. yes.

Girls look matter but awareness about society, finance, relationship with family and responsibilities taken by girl is matter a lot

Just commenting before this channel hits 1M subs in just a few months.

Every girl/woman wants to be the reason behind a successful man BUT not a single 1 wants to be with the struggling guys. This is #bitterTruth also.

Welldone sir… kisi ne hme.. 20 saal pahle itnaa khul ke bataa diyaa hota… kher lot of thanks sir… ab sirf okaat banaane par focus karunga

I am watching this video to be successful and then I leave everything on my success ❤️