Its based on the person itself, not everyone is the same.

I didn’t want to say to not tip certain races restaurant button to tip their own race is restaurant it’s just a fucking racist sorry not sorry your tip for a restaurant should go fully based off of food, appearance, The way you were treated, and price. I worked in two restaurants as a waiter and I’ll tell you there was tables you would lean over backwards for work and they would still tip you horribly and there was people you barely did anything for it and they would tip you amazingly but it’s was always the same Service. Having that experience when I go to the restaurant I tip 15% if they were good to my guessed if they check in on us and don’t touch plates without asking if they mess up on theses flags I give them only 10% to 8% and if your waiter or waitress comes across as a bitch or asshole pls remember we’re are all people and sometimes are stressed I had a really mouthy and rude waitress and I gave her 5% tip and then before leaving I pulled her to the side a said idk who yours day is going but you were not a great server today I hope you feel better and are better for the next guess. She told me she was sorry and that she had a lot of stuff on her mind with her kids and sick father and that’s why I say just remember we all have bad days and don’t be a ass hole to your waitresses or waiters and then be surprised when they are rude or not as attentive to you. Only thing you should never tolerate is racism, sexism, or any form of judgment your a customer as long as you are nice and not causing a scene or being extremely loud/ bothering other customers. I’ve served all kinds of people straight, Gay, trans the hole 9 yards so

I think or I believe tipping culture there is different then in the us so it’s considered rude to tip in china but am not Chinese and I don’t live there so I wouldn’t know what its like to tip there

The guy that wrote the article probably tipped 25 cents and expected exiciting emotions

I’m a humble Chinese when I saw the tips I’m happy to return because is awkward

Usa you mean?

You're right, cause tips come from pure satisfaction

@@malifiman256 A tip is a gratitude grant, not a service tax.

​​@@ralphanthonyespos9417 this

Murica

Exactly! Their culture doesn’t allow them to take tips from others!

@@PhobicMeowz uhhhhh no? Worked at 2 Chinese places before, and trust me, the Chinese servers get just as mad as the white servers when they don’t get tipped, especially if their customer was a ass

Bro wut??? Have y’all been to China, I’m Chinese and they’ll gladly take tips tf u mean???

Same, tips are amazing???

Bro.. y'all are thinking of Japan not china..

Yep that’s what i was going to say

Bro spyed on me 💀

Same bro

Why?

Chinese culture corrupts people the most, people are just not being honest of what they want, I'm Chinese too.

thanks... i'll remember that and really good advice... i do enjoy chinese food...

Every atom of the food is good

It’s because you are Chinese is why they treat you well. Every Chinese restaurant I’ve had dinner at since i was 6, and I’m 72, have been rude as hell

@@RjBenjamin353 To be fair I go with my British friends and I don’t see any problems happening, but I get your point. Typically, they hate anyone who doesn’t look Chinese because they feel their restaurant is a “Chinese only”, it depends on which restaurant you go to and where your location is. No way to explain their actions, they are 100% in the wrong here and they can’t deny it.

@@hoho-sp4cw don’t get me wrong. I love Chinese people and As long as the food is great, i have no problem with them

but they were very appreciative of all of the money too

Correct! While people expect a tip. Minorities appreciate a tip. Therefore, the kind person deserves more as that’s better service and just a better person

That's also not mutually exclusive, it's possible to have what's not expected and to appreciate it nonetheless.

True but you should never tip at a Chinese restaurant I give 20% tip everywhere besides Chinese restaurants where I give 0% tip cause their food is expensive and quality is so bad. It’s basically McDonald’s quality they are all basically the same as a Panda Express. If you want Chinese food google recipes and make them at home cause that’s the only real Chinese food don’t tip these pretenders who got no skills.

@@saadinhalf maybe we expect tips because that’s how we get paid😑

SAMEEE! Its really Hard on christmas because my facial reaction is Hard to fake even tho i love all The gifts People give and The company. Many People say that im angry even if im happy on The inside but that litle comment makes me angry because i have heard it so many Times so People dont believe me If i say "im not angry!" sorry i got a bit off topic

I get this, but it’s also really hard as someone giving gifts to not get a reaction for something you spent that much time on…

same..

@@johnnykiehn1872 no I totally get that! Even as someone who has trouble reacting, I like seeing people smile when I give them a gift too! That's why I feel so bad that i don't give many reactions 😭

Felt

I’ve heard many people say a rule they go by when tipping is that they give less or none to an asian person because they know the asian person won’t do any crazy shit to them.

​@@episode6691I live in Asia most restaurant crew here are getting a living wage salary, a tip is welcome but not necessary.

It’s not racial, it’s cultural. There is a difference.

I tip the same everywhere. I only tip less for rude wait staff. If you tip expecting people to gush and thank you profusely, you're in the wrong not the people who don't jump up and down about how great you are. Most of the time, I leave before they get the tip and they clear the table. Who just sits there and makes a big deal about how much they tipped?

What did you eat with 40$ ?

​@@EdwinIsanRivaldiEIRivaldi49 which part of asia? asia is big :)

Omw to do this in japan

​@@roysmith146u in Japan? :0 Im there rn

​@@EdwinIsanRivaldiEIRivaldi49 Which part of Asia? Because in my country we don't have that weird overthinking about tips 💀

YESSS but my family have a restaurant. Tho

Definitely.

Just because a restaurant isn’t always demanding tips doesn’t mean they don’t appreciate it.

I am not Chinese but you could give me a dollar and I would bow down to you.

Wait ...uh... I'm not really trying to offend u I'm just genuinely curious okay!!!! Do you live in china rn? If yes then how are you on yt?

not the hardest working people Im black and Mexicans are the hardest workers

@@sscoby12will47its not a competition goof head

Yeah the video creator is racist

Exactly!

Yes so many people assume that

Omg your name is shua

I’m white and a dog groomer and share that same mentality. I never expect it, I never ask for it, I never demand it or bring it up. but they are so appreciated and even the ones that tip me every time, “thank you so much I really appreciate it” it always my response, always. I was taught growing up that tips are gifts, like a thank you card for good professional service.

They only think that way because they have been devalued as citizens their entire lives and for generations

Most asian countries don't do tips. So that's why they are like "are you sure?" Or "i think someone left their money on the table"

hi lucas im lucas

​@@Dr_Baizhu or white people are just racist

Well yeah, imagine making a $5 meal and see they tip you $500. Those two are uncompararable

Japanese Americans don't see it that way. They adopt the culture just like we're expected to do in Japan.

Good thing they are Chinese not Japanese bro

​@@negativeionzWell tbf Japanese Americans grow up and live in the US, ofc they followed the US Culture

​@@wibs0n68 No idea where I was going with that when I sent it. Maybe I sent it prematurely? Maybe my concussions have finally caught up with me? I'm even more confused than you are.

@@negativeionz happens to the best of us. And I dont know why KZfaq deletes my comment

You really wonder why? Whole white world is pretty much anti Asian/Sinophobic. I bet some of the "reviews" were brigaded by incel pinks to spill their prejudice that didn't even go to any Chinese restaurant

You gotta be american.

thats so nice of you great job 😭

@@davedave6010 pls tell me this is a joke qwq

@@bitterpuppystew Whats joke? Tips are not common anywhere else than USA.

@@Zoos520he means that normally when people tip they expect for the waiters to act like their homeless and just got like $3

Which kind of indicates that those people tip to self validate, rather than showing their appreciation for a good service.

exactly, i was like why do you say don't tip them? like don't you generally tip as a thanks to their service, or do they tip to see someone's reaction

@@Ooogwaaayyy some of the comments in the video said, "don't tip them-they don't appreciate it."

In Western culture, it is considered rude to pay people a liveable fucking wage which we find insane

This is incredibly true. I'm Taiwanese and grew up in an environment where outward expression of "large" emotion was shameful. Being humble is the most important trait a person could have, as the "Boastful sour like citrus." It's awful that people are aware no one is raised the same, yet can't fathom that means everyone expresses differently.

@Doxie Kitten I totally agree, I grew up in America, but my family came from Thailand and Laos. I was taught a lot about our traditions and culture. However, it's not very sustainable in America, so I use a more loud and brave American approach when I deal with Westerners, but when I'm dealing with other Asian people I quite down and talk softly with respect.

I am a Chinese and we don’t really accept tips because we feel that if you can have the chance to eat then is fortunate as ancient Chinese people don’t have food to eat and we feel that we must be grateful for being able to eat . We will alway ask someone have u eaten ?

Sounds a lot like a Finnish person

@@doxiekitten6526 Taiwanese people drive me crazy because I need to talk to them and they WILL NOT show any reaction to ANYTHING............. it's my job to make them happy but they're anti-happy. If I can get people one on one we're usually okay but in groups... oh geez... I've gotten in trouble for asking "are you alive?" when groups just don't reply to me at all... sometimes not even to "hello". I'm supposed to talk to them for 90-120 minutes and they won't even say hi. How do you think I'm supposed to do this when they're THAT afraid of what everyone around them thinks?!?!?!?!!?!??!?!? I'm friendly, and you paid money to come talk to me... DOOO ITTTTTT....

Something that most American women don't have now a days

@@MartyGT2825 bro met the wrong types of women in America and decides it’s all of them

@@noitsfaye nah it’s most of them tbh

@@noitsfaye bro got rejected by two girls in high school and decided all girls are the same

@@jayo1493 no it’s really not.. but ok 💀

Hear hear!

As an Asian, I don't know why we give the tip. I really don't know why (maybe because I never give tip at restaurants.

@@quewrtyz4412 probably because there are no tipping culture in most of Asia, and we (except some) actually pay our employees livable wages

@@toeseater2855 Yeah I think that what cause us (Asians or some Asians) not pay the tip. Not rude but don't know why we need to tip it.

We all know that 😂✌️🙂

damn, lucky you

Same, but I’m Chinese- American so I was born in America but my ethnicity is that I’m Chinese. And, when I was younger my mom and I always went to this certain Chinese restaurant and my mom became friends with the owner so I hung out with the kid a lot. And another time we went to another Chinese restaurant and came there really often so the owner kind of treated my like her granddaughter.

same but i was the Chinese kid-

Did I just witness an online reunion

My mom is a really god friend of a restaurant owner a he treats me soup once in a while when I'm feeling down.

Ong

You nailed it ...unfortunately.

Now that's what we need more of.

Where?

@@_Wai_Wai_ I’m in New Jersey

That's so wholesome and adorable

​@@MelancholyMel1 same here! Where is the restaurant located? Im a big foodie and love trying new places

No it's something in their cultures to not accept it

@@heyitseyevan i dont think dats true, i just think tipping isn't particularly a thing in their culture. Like with America some people live off of these tips pretty much which still shocking to me like you really have to rely on a customer friendly enough and capable to tip

@@FemboyKaiSaku yeah that's my point it's not in their culture to tip I heard it's also offensive because it's like saying they aren't being payed or something to them

It's definitely a culture thing.

​@@heyitseyevan or it's like you see them as poor that you're giving them money (tip).

Dang

aw thats so wholesome

@@sophiawitte6819 fantastic is was orange creamsicle lolli

@@DarkDomain0001 ok 👍

​@@DarkDomain0001 ok

I related to this. My father is very similar except for the starting from being a teen part.

@@DarkDomain0001 not you again bro

My dad was exactly like this! He's Chinese too, anger issues, was absent for 5 years (charity abroad). He died when I was about 12, so I'm glad you appreciate your father :)

Do you know an easy way to learn Chinese? Atm I’m learning Korean and I also wanna learn Japanese because I love all these cultures so much

​@@giraffewhiskers2045 u can familiarise youself with the language with chinese songs or dramas and find yourself a reliable teacher online/irl. u need to practise writing in mandarin too as u need to know around 2000 chinese characters to be fluent and these characters can be quite complicated!!

@@giraffewhiskers2045 it might be different but for a way I’m learning German is that there are these songs with poor animation but they repeat the words a lot which makes it easy to learn so try finding something like that

@Bluffing Door yeah that’s why I’m trying to write the words in a way I would remember like most people say Mia and not Maya ( my- yuh kinn-knee)

@@probablyhuman9947 I also wanna learn German! For me it’s not as hard with other languages like English can be hard.. and it’s my native language well sort of, I was deaf so when I got my medal rods and could hear more I began to speak Spanish

86 likes but no replys? lets fix that

@@sultanarazia800 only u

On stories that never happened

@@Shahin2003 Someone at our church that we used to go to anonymously gave us $100. We decided to pay it forward because we knew other people could use it more than us. Our waitress did come out and try to give it back to us, and we told her, no, keep it and split it with everyone that was working. Then she started crying and gave us all hugs.

@@sultanarazia800 Thank you!

Idk, maybe just me but I'm seeing a pattern and hope it blossoms from there ahaha.

@@Kawaiikahili a friendship? Possibly ^_^

yesh, I’ll always reject if my friend wanna pay for my food, drink is okay, but I make sure to buy the one next time

@@p.4lvv Honestly I do the same, think it’s a mix of stubbornness and appreciation when it comes to accepting a kind gesture from a friend

true

Fr

Thats all they know so its too bad

well what are you implying here?

@@slavicmapping5262 they are uncultured swines?

He was

tipped 25 and the lady chased me down 😂

The next beautiful Asian chick I see, imma tip her an extreme amount so we may begin our long love journey thx!

SAMEEE

I thought yt was banned in China?

@@valarie.5 Some people use VPNs and they didn't say they were in China.

Kind people love them🥰🥰

kind??? i only had one good experience at a chinese restaurant, the rest where all the same my plate is finished for one second and you at my table, my drink is not finished and ur at my table askin rude are you done.

@@jirenoboyi guess it varies depending on where you go and who you get. At my local Chinese restaurant, all of the waiters/waitresses are very, very nice to my family and I.

@@jirenoboy it was probably thai or vietnamese😂 jk but i usually dont have bad experiences with waitresses at Chinese restaurants

Not having to rely on tips is just how it should be. America is hell...

Tipping culture in the west is super dumb

Damn they are ugly

@@noobinator3699 then how is the system supposed to make their big money?

It’s just the USA that has this fucked up system

Yes, that is true! Work and don't expect anything in return! A lot of people should grab onto that concept! Maybe the world just might be a better place! Just maybe!!!!!! 🤷

@@cuprunnethover2509 then what would be the point of working if you expect nothing in return

@@Messup7654 your right that’s in our human nature to benefit ourselfs

No they expect owner to pay them in return which did not happen in other cases obviously.

@@yowasgood6428 What if we don't want to? What are you gonna do about it?

That might be fair, but sometimes they just want to be sure that it was not unintentionally left because some people simply forget things, including money. And they will feel guilty if those who receive a generous tip was not able to express their gratitude.

Same. But oh do they remember the next time I go to their restaurant.

@@zibn5459 I agree, but that's actually common sense. You didn't need to point it out.

@@zibn5459 idiot. Your assuming someone’s race doesn’t appreciate tips just because of the race, that’s 1 extremely racist and people like you are the problem with the world and 2 why would someone not appreciate a tip? That’s the most idiotic thing I’ve ever heard anyone say

​@@zibn5459 how do u know u know every chineese?

​@@zibn5459 i know all Chinese people and i can confirm they do appreciate it

@@zibn5459 facts. That's a one sided narrative. Not only did I stop tipping, I just avoid Asian restaurants in general because you can observer how they treat some races completely different than others, stingier and grumpier towards them as well. And it's not just once or twice, at least in California, you see it all the time and everywhere. Why would I reward you with more of my money for that?

Some info for you btw: don’t tip if you go to a true Japanese restaurant, they take offense for that. Here in the US you can since their likely staffed with Americans but if you ever go to Japan, dont

I tipped 99% at a white restaurant (machine wouldn't let me tip 100%) and the next time I went, they wouldn't serve me my drink cause (a different) waitress said it took long to make and "would make the bartender mad"...

@Mao LeBron im going actually to japan so i’ll se with my aunt if it is true or not (my aunt has a japanese friend)

@@pshycore9384 pls remember to respond bc I’ve heard it both ways😅

​​@Mao LeBron people get their information online, you can't blame him in this case. Personally, i believe they're not used to tips so they feel weird about it because i would feel the same. I have a job that pays me, why would a client give me money? Imagine doing any other job where you get paid by your employer but clients pay, wouldn't it feel weird?

i gotta be honest that’s a pretty universal things in families that love each other and have a lighthearted relationship with one another!! merry christmas!!

Remember this when black people raise their voices😊

​@@bunnydimples1283❤️

As a German i understand that very well. Because you know we sound often angry or unfriendly in our language but we just speak our words a little more pronounced😂

@@bunnydimples1283 Fr I tried speaking to a lady and she thought I was threatening 💀. People on KZfaq despise when black people talk about our issues on here, it’s fine when everyone else does it though.

Rude / aggressive is more than just 'raised voice'. You can tell by the body language.

Ayo tell moms I need some orange chicken ❤

Bullshit. Every Chinese restaurant makes a shitload of money. Id doubt shes "scraping" by. Why would the family that owns it pay her minimum wage? Thats absurd. 😆 Her issue is with her shitty family not the customers.

@@RalphieMaysGhostChinese restaurants these days are making money in the millions. Especially in big cities. They don’t have good service and make so much money from Togo orders as well. I know multiple restaurant owners who say the business is the best it’s ever been

Look you guys, I didn't comment this to argue, just wanted to say some stuff that I have trouble saying in person. Yes it is a small restraunt and in a very small city, I don't know what city you have in mind but it's not LA or San Fran, I don't know about booming because covid really hit us hard since it's a small family business, anyways happy new years everyone!

@@rickyyang8963 I’m talking about a big city, but I guess your experience might be different then. Happy New Years to you as well! May 2023 bring us good fortune

Asian solidarity ❤

Or they could just be honest people that aren’t scumbags?

Because they think you forgot you change.

thers ntg called tips in asia so no wonder she was suprised..it kinda surprised me that we hav to pay tips in america..

​@@Adgnor1949 that's the joke lol 🤣

@@mohdasif391 it is the stupid culture because they pay too little in salary so the clients have to pay a tip, if you do not they will sometimes curse you out. why should a customer tip??? BS if the service is good sure I can tip , in some countries you are not even allowed to tip and still provide good service

That's not it, people who work hard know they dont deserve much more than what they're owed. 10% tip is more than enough for some ppl and for other ppl like yourself, think they're entitled to more than they're worth.

@@Jamsessionroom1337 why so hostile to someone who sees joy in this cute video bro? Sydney's comment wasn't an attack on you or anyone. "People such as yourself" as if a 1 sentence comment gives you perspective on someones life. You, however, seem like just the type to think you "deserve more". Go be bitter somewhere else.

@@SPVC3D0UTcuz his pride is hurt when people not of his race is being praised

@@Jamsessionroom1337or crazy idea people make $2/hour for serving and people like you assume 10% is enough you pay your bills with that oh wait you live at home with your parents 😅

I think it's a culture thing. Chinese people show emotions very differently and more subtely than American people.

Yeah, Americans are used to effusive and over the top emotions. They don’t understand that people can feel things deeply on the inside without showing it.

​@@aarettikoski1172 because t*ips culture isn't Azn lifestyle.. We're not used wes*tern life, Dool dool

And it's cause white people scream with anger if they don't get a 200% tip for mixing up some milk and sugar

@@aarettikoski1172 it's definitely a culture thing. My family is like that too. I'm kinda the odd one out in that regard.

He was talking about China

@@Redstoner34526 the culture is very similar lol?

@@hggvhh3074 not really, Taiwan has had a few differences in the culture since they broke off from the mainland

Taiwan is part of China.

Same here. Most similar to tips is when we say "keep the change" 😅

​​@@aiko9393 yeah much more normal way of tipping it made the other think rh hr just dont want to carry the small money or it doesn't even change anything. Atleast that's the way i view it

In my country we tip for good service and as a generel "hey look im so generous" thinf

​@@aiko9393 Yes, even when we are not get paid a decent amount 😂😂😂

@@Psychopomp77 idk what happens in your country, but waiters get paid decently in mine 😅

Exactly

​@J Raff because, That's the defenition of a tip 😐

@J Raff This sounds rude but it's their job. With tip or not you should treat your customer with care and respect (except when their rude or a Karen, they don't deserve it). Pardon my rudeness but I really hate it when Western people demand a tip (It's not the tip I'm mad about), why does the restaurants doesn't pay them enough and they give customers little food when it's so expensive. Now the waiters depend on tips

The Subway near me inside a Walmart, but it is still a fast food restaurant, even if you are eating inside. The East Asian mgr. came to us with a machine and asked for a tip. I told him that BK and McDonald's do not ask for tips nor does the KFC (drive-thru or eat-in) and said "no" He charged us a tip anyway. Earlier, he said he won't let people sit in his restaurant while waiting for someone. Due to Covid having no benches inside, there was no place to wait for me to finish my shopping. I had this asnine behaviour at Gorin's, and Quizno's and you know where most of those restaurants are now. I will pay a tip at my favourite Asian and Indian eat-in restaurant because I get excellent service.

We give them our business pay a premium for the food why is it on the customer to top up the the staff..

if they are honest enough to serve you real food 😂. tbh you should avoid chinese food cause most of them are fake or using fake ingridients

@@duyquang3589no

​@@duyquang3589no

​@@duyquang3589blud think real food is hamburger

@@patan2002 hamburger are not even make it to the list xD