Coach Greg Adams SMOKES the Son Husband Epidemic!

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@muhammadismailsheikh3790 Жыл бұрын

God knows why black people were even created.

@Sentry0 Жыл бұрын

I used to be a son/husband. I told my mom no more.

@21s Жыл бұрын

Good stuff man!

@Sentry0 Жыл бұрын

@@21s I stopped caring about her situation. I started to focus on myself.

@driftingswordsmanzer Жыл бұрын

Same, focusing on yourself is the key. Great work!

@Sentry0 Жыл бұрын

@@driftingswordsmanzer amen

@purplepurposee Жыл бұрын

What she say about that !?

@IMO140 8 ай бұрын

Mom makes her son her retirement plan. Moves in with her son's family, won't work to take care of herself. He won't confront her EVER. Wife miserable.

@mariobryant8803 Ай бұрын

Exactly, I’m so glad I didn’t fall into that trap. You gotta get out when you can once you see the signs of the behavior and knowing that you were used.

@heroldjaras9909 Жыл бұрын

I like my mom but i did distance myself emotionally from her. Thats the only way to be a masculine man

@soulsurfer639 10 ай бұрын

Yeah, I love mom but have had to tell her that I'm a man and can make my own decisions. She tried using shaming, guilt trips etc, but to no avail. Fellas you do not need mom's advice on everything. Be there for mom when she needs you but DO NOT allow her to dictate how you live your life

@vegasgone07-dh4lb 9 ай бұрын

Real Men don't take any abuse from anyone. But you can still be Masculine and take care of your mother. Stand Up to your mother, but take of her too.

@miccysenpai9334 28 күн бұрын

@@vegasgone07-dh4lb Our moms can take care of themselves. They're twice our age.

@bigthangz5489 11 күн бұрын

good👌

@Action_Savage_ Жыл бұрын

Highly recommend researching "emotional incest". When the parent attempts to make the child an emotional partner. Very damaging. When a college counselor mentioned this and gave me a book to read on in it, everything in my life clicked.

@imsofocused4678 Жыл бұрын

What's the name of the book?

@Action_Savage_ Жыл бұрын

@@imsofocused4678 I THINK it was Silently Seduced by Kenneth Adams

@ChrsGotFourEyes 4 ай бұрын

@@Action_Savage_ ima check this out as well💪🏾

@REGGIRT-4011 3 күн бұрын

In psychology, professionals also refer to the Oedipus complex.

@Alessandro1983 Жыл бұрын

Im 39 and I am blessed to have been raised by my father. He is still in my life today, and is still married to my mother.

@mariobryant8803 Ай бұрын

That I can respect.

@blitzkrieg6872 10 ай бұрын

Woman, here. These types of men make the worst husbands in the world. They are totally enmeshed with their mothers and when they get married, it becomes a triangle. These guys will never stand up to their mothers in order to defend their wives. The poor wife has to deal with a husband that is still tied to his mothers apron strings. Mother calls all the shots in her son's marriage and HE ALLOWS IT........because "Mama can do NO WRONG"!!!!!

@kristen9827 2 ай бұрын

Yup and the wife absorbs all of his frustration and anger because he cannot stand up to mom. You’re right- it’s the WORST relationship.

@blitzkrieg6872 2 ай бұрын

@@kristen9827 Right! Wife becomes the target of mean MIL. She becomes the "meat shield". Coward husband is just fine with this arrangement, since he is not the one being insulted with passive aggressive remarks or being bossed around. It fazes him not! He is whistling happy tunes whilst tinkering in the garage doing a transmission overhaul on his car.

@nomessnostress Ай бұрын

❤

@vegasgone07-dh4lb 9 ай бұрын

Real Men stand up to their mothers, but take care of them too. Life's not black and white.

@madjoker2599 6 ай бұрын

It’s not wrong for men to take care of their mothers but at the same time if he has a wife or children then they come first. If he doesn’t have either of those then it’s cool but the mother should have been more responsible to set up a retirement fund so she doesn’t hold her son(s) back from whatever career they are pursuing or business they are building.

@ndondiafrika249 5 ай бұрын

taking care of mom is one thing and being her husband is another.

@miccysenpai9334 27 күн бұрын

And real mothers find a real man to take care of them instead of using their sons when they didn't take care of anybody in need in their life.

@lisalisalisalisa7 Жыл бұрын

I told my son at the beginning of his teenage years: you are not a mama's boy. I am raising a man, not a p***y. I taught you how to make decisions, it's up to you to make the right ones. Stand up straight, be proud of who you are and never let anyone- male or female- disrespect you and don't be disrespectful in return. Always make sure that your significant other is bringing the same 100% to the relationship when you do. Do not settle for less than you deserve but many sure you earn it. And remember, there are 2 kinds of women out there; the kind you ***k and the kind you marry, and usually it's not one in the same. Your mother will always be here when you need her, but I will not enable you. Go after what you want and be a man about it whether you get it or not. My son just turned 16 and is smart, driven, and brave and I cannot wait to see who he will become. He will always be my son, but he will be his own man.

@_DonMono_ Жыл бұрын

Is his father in his life?

@lisalisalisalisa7 Жыл бұрын

@_DonMono_ yes. His father has been a decent role model and is there to teach him all of the things boys can only learn from their fathers.

@S2pidMedia 6 ай бұрын

@@lisalisalisalisa7 and yet, you wrote four paragraphs all about you, and only vaguely acknowledged his father after being asked, and damned him with faint praise.

@ian_ford 6 ай бұрын

With all due respect, most single women cannot raise a boy to be a masculine man. I have absolute faith you did (and are doing) your best. But no matter how smart, articulate, brave, driven he is…his masculine male teaching will be “incomplete” without a responsible father in his life *daily.* Not part-time. Many women often mistake because her son develops muscles, manners, and facial hair, that makes him a “man.” *No, it does not.* A boy needs his mom from birth until 10, after that you’re inconsequential. From 10 into adulthood, boys need “Male Finishing School” from their fathers to understand how to be a _productive, industrious and valuable _*_masculine man_*_ in society._ Mama can’t teach that, try as she might. You can’t teach what isn’t biologically in your nature to understand. Just as there are certain things a single father cannot teach his daughter, requiring a mother’s intuition. This isn’t a slight against you, as you might be the 1 out of 1000 outlier. But this culture of boys not needing their fathers but for part-time assistance or no assistance needs to end!

@jbeauty4150 3 ай бұрын

WTF I can't believe you taught your son to use women like that. There are women you f???? Fr. If you were a good woman and good mother you would have taught him not to use any woman for sex, to respect women and to simply avoid the ones not ready for marriage.

@raywilson3362 6 ай бұрын

Ain't no way I'm kissing my mama on the lips, this suppose to stop happening after 5.

@mariobryant8803 Ай бұрын

🤮- the only person I’m kissing on the lips is my fiance (soon to be wife).

@decadeyt5891 21 күн бұрын

@@mariobryant8803 Don’t marry. look at the math

@mariobryant8803 21 күн бұрын

@@decadeyt5891 too late, this is my choice- my mom doesn’t run my life

@mariobryant8803 Ай бұрын

I was very close to becoming that son husband until I saw the signs of the manipulative behavior of who she was and it took me almost 40 years to see it. I’m happy to part ways with her, it’s traumatizing of the nightmares. My life is so much better without her.

@jonnycoathanger8399 Жыл бұрын

You are always on Point Coach. (No, to the audience) I'm not Black, but the epidemic of Single family and no 'Man in the House' Crosses all Race, Financial and Creed Boundaries. Thanks

@elaineflores4465 6 ай бұрын

Help my daughter is dating a husband son. For example, today my daughter had a date with him. He calls her to tell her that he will be having to come home early because his momma wants to rake him to dinner. His mother depends on him as if he was her husband and father to his younger sibling. I told her she should run because she will always come last to his mother and brother.

@iZargon7 Жыл бұрын

This is spot on especially the 9 yr old still sleeping with momma.

@iZargon7 Жыл бұрын

Also kids use to say oh you know my dad. Use to hear that a lot growing up.

@rol407 Жыл бұрын

I'm 28 sleeping with mamma 😂

@Joe-qm4yv 3 ай бұрын

@@rol407umm.. what ?

@mariobryant8803 Жыл бұрын

Yeah I realistically hate my mom, she’s tried everything to destroy me. I can’t forgive her. I had to get away from her, my main folks say she’s a great person when she’s not. I’ve dealt with the manipulation, and being kept from reaching my full potential and my mom doesn’t think I have a clue on how to do anything. She thought I was on drugs when I was currently in the military. I’ve never done drugs and I had to stand up to my mom. She’s insecure and thinks I’m the one to be depended on, never again in my life. I’m happy that I’ve found a woman that’s more to my liking. I’m not afraid to call my mom out on who she is.

@jamescheaye927 2 ай бұрын

Brother I feel you. It’s an unfortunate case with our women. It’s just difficult and exhausting. It’s not that we hate them, we just simply don’t want to be bothered with them because we know what comes with engaging with them. The deflection, the disingenuous comments and questions, and the denial and refusal to accept the role that they played in the breakdown of the family and emasculation of men. Anytime I speak to my mother about the things I saw her do to my father as a child, she just gets defensive and tells me I’m lying. But we’re expected to be cordial and civil with them and stick our necks out for women who’ve abandoned us. However, I’m not afraid to challenge her and call out BS when I see it

@lawreecefluellen4872 Ай бұрын

This is literally my story

@RachelWhite-bz7vz 2 ай бұрын

Wow I was married to a husband/son. And didn't even know it until listening to this.

@benhartart9487 Жыл бұрын

Society is teaching women to disrespect men. Not bringing kids into this hell hole 😂

@MD-DLive 7 ай бұрын

Very true as well as conditioning them to think and believe that they are a separate entity from us( black men), the need to be stronger than us and finally no need for us due to their comfort state! ( for now). All of this will come to a head and will collapse at some point! More than likely, the great grandchildren and children to come WILL PAY DEARLY FOR THIS! CURRENCY/MONEY, IMAGE/ MATERIAL, SEPERATE RELATIONSHIPS WILL NOT SAVE THEM!

@bobjames785 Жыл бұрын

My dad was an alcoholic and now I understand why… my mom dosnt know what a boundary is you can try to explain it to her for hours on end there is just no way she’ll learn

@petermurphy2167 Ай бұрын

Wasted a lot of time blaming my dad till I worked it out

@nastybastardatlive Жыл бұрын

My dad made me the man i am today. I made my son the man he is today. I'm 58, and i still miss my dad. When i see guys obsessed with looking in the mirror, i know they never had a dad in their lives. My dad always wore work clothes and had greasy hands from fixing cars, but the entire neighborhood respected him, and i was proud and wanted to be just like him.

@davidlamb591 Жыл бұрын

Too many kids grow up without a father figure. Dads & mums are essential to kids being balanced. My opinion.

@vman992mah2 Жыл бұрын

My old man like that..miss him a lot world 🌎 not the same without him😢😢

@CoCo-yv3hl Жыл бұрын

I miss my Dad this was him. He literally did everything. Males older than me can’t keep up with me. I get it they don’t have fathers but by 50 with all the resources that are available you’re a loser by choice

@drillingig2368 11 ай бұрын

Just because you look in the mirror don’t mean you not a man. Providing and applying yourself everyday is being a man, bro. No matter how you feel, you still produce, that’s being a man. Put voltz where you mouth is and put work. As long as you get results, people will have no choice but to respect you.

@sonwabomtyekwana1547 5 ай бұрын

@Roosters-rants1977 Жыл бұрын

This is true. Very true in the black community. I see this very thing. I also see these women raise these sons to be the thug they desire. Zero accountability

@mariobryant8803 Ай бұрын

Right on target 🎯. My emotional controlling mom isn’t parenting material from my perspective on how she mistreated me. It’s too much and she didn’t want me to leave her existence. The military taught me a lot, and I know I didn’t have a male figure growing up. I’m learning a lot in terms of adult life, etc. And I’m on the brink of getting married to a woman who understands where I’m coming from and appreciates me. My mom’s manipulated behavior shows that she’s been alone and miserable. There’s no way in hell I’d be associated with her. She tried me with that son husband crap.

@JIMBO8472 Жыл бұрын

the son husband thing is real, my brother and older brother would gang up on my cause I rejected the programming. I also got the pee sitting down\put the seat down argument (its just a shit test)

@desireegambino865 Ай бұрын

I lost my husband to his Mother Wife, his Son Husband, and his Wife in Law, his brothers wife. I’m out!

@jklove7288 11 ай бұрын

Married to mama. Living with mama in their 50s😢😮

@KFontLab Ай бұрын

Whew!

@preyonce 7 ай бұрын

Good topic! I’m honestly praying for the black community. This is a real thing! The mothers made poor decisions as far as in choosing a good father for their kid and now they want their sons to hold the weight of their poor decision.

@mariobryant8803 Ай бұрын

Exactly, my mom tried to pin her misery on me and I was like heck no, I’m out. The manipulative behavior showed, tried to block me from speaking my own mind, tried to use me for money, question me on finances when she doesn’t even know me at all, my social life, etc. And she had the nerves to threaten me about social media and the pics with my soon to be wife (who’s a different race than me), I was like completely done, and she’s a stalker also.

@preyonce Ай бұрын

@@mariobryant8803 Wow!! Sometimes you have to love toxic family members from a distance!

@mariobryant8803 Ай бұрын

@@preyonce realistically I hate her, the word love doesn’t describe her.

@gtr485 Жыл бұрын

Yeah thats bs. She the type of mom that will hate and sabotage any relationship he has with a women.

@mariobryant8803 2 ай бұрын

Oh gosh that’s accurate to the max, that’s exactly who my mom is. Not only any relationship her son having with his lady or any of his guy friends as well, she thinks she knows it all when she’s clueless. My mom wanted to be involved in everything I was doing, she’s a stalker and I had to shut it all down completely. What makes it worse, my older brothers and her ex boyfriend mocked me for speaking the truth, going in silence. The environment I grew up in (southwest Georgia), I had to get out of there- it’s not worth the emotional trauma.

@RoyaltyK Ай бұрын

@@mariobryant8803 literally what I’m seeing right now. This guy I’m dating has his mom calling his phone everyday, asking questions about his money & dealings with me. Personally, I think she tried to manipulate and influence the way he deals with me. She’s controlling and jealous . She even said to him “you spend so much time with her. Why you’re never home with me?” 🤦🏾‍♀️ I’m considering ditching the guy although he claims he’s spoken up about it but it Keeps happening

@yandasiyotula1019 Жыл бұрын

Tf????If a man had this going on with his daughter he would be in prison.

@MD-DLive 7 ай бұрын

Some of this is going on actually! The daughter/wife syndrome. Although the son/ husband problem surpasses it!

@johnholman3200 2 ай бұрын

I Love Greg Adams. And he's right. Nobody is perfect. Including him or me. However, Greg is telling the flat out honest truth right now. This has been going unsaid for decades and decades in the melanated community in America.👍🏽👊🏽🤜🏾👏🏽🖐🏾

@FlutterSwag Жыл бұрын

That car accident annecdote hit too close, I got tboned through a stop sign by 2 20 something females, i mean absolutely blasted me, every airbag in the van deployed my dog in the back seat did a full 360 and luckily was unhurt. Me and my brother were dazed and sore but alive as the car rolled back onto its wheels I get out and start screaming at these 2 women who mind you didnt get out and check on us at all. The 2 girls who almost killed me my brother and my dog and like clockwork 2 lanky ass dudes walk up outta nowhere and start getting on me for yelling at them. Then the cops show up and berate me for screaming at her cause it was "uncalled for" and "it was just an accident" I never even got an apology and was constantly tried to be ushered away from the the wreck because i made the girls feel unsafe

@mosthatechris Жыл бұрын

CoachGang stand UP!

@jesquibel6969 Жыл бұрын

God Bless CGA & ADJ Coach Gang

@keithbarbaro7590 Жыл бұрын

You are right about genetics. Alot of NBA and NFL moms have just that in mind, when getting pregnant in marriage or as single mothers.

@supaipaii Жыл бұрын

I don't do that I tell women off if they are in the wrong.

@omega_supreme Ай бұрын

This is sickening.

@debraannjames-bissoondath6037 Ай бұрын

I'm a mother and watching that photo, hearing these awful things...beyond disgusting!!Fathers,needs to start stepping up and mothers,know your role in your son's lives!Times are too modernized for this to continue. I don't consider myself the queen in my son's life...I'm his mother period and that title reserved for his wife

@janicemurphy4373 Ай бұрын

THANK YOU 🙏

@CONEHEADDK Жыл бұрын

yuk

@REGGIRT-4011 3 күн бұрын

And these women are the main ones who says that men are no good and blah blah blah when the truth is that they cannot keep one. When a man wants to date them and they see this dynamic with their sons, it pushes them away.

@nomessnostress Ай бұрын

I never want to date another son husband... i have 1 son and will never be like that...

@banksboy6806 Ай бұрын

I don’t think i ever did that one

@simmsation21 10 ай бұрын

Greg out there looking like the Vampire in Brooklyn with that shirt.

@michaelcostello3460 6 ай бұрын

Rose Colored Glasses

@ellamcgill2697 3 ай бұрын

I never understood way some men set down tell know

@FreeTurtleboy Жыл бұрын

In ....All..... communities. But some of These relationship's are overtly sick... ...,.. He ain't Won NOTHING by Himself..... nothing team Wise

@kay7216 28 күн бұрын

These relationships are becoming more prevalent, i put it down to current societal trends , in has much ,the last dacade as seen a distinct lack of trust build up between dating couples & ordinary men and women. The close Mother/ Son relationships is very likely the only relationship each of them knows they can trust as one will not be let down by the other . Is any wonder by mutual consent these relationships are on the rise? Personally the healthier option would be for both parties to consider entering into non related 'Age Gap ' relationships, where the bond will be as strong , minus the incest .

@shiloh1994 10 ай бұрын

Its another W word that I can think of. Anyone wanna Hazzard a guess?

@rol407 Жыл бұрын

So even too successful in careers can be son husbands

@Romuluz369 6 сағат бұрын

This is worse than simple Oedipus complex, this is ALSO the archetypal devouring mother. Mothers like this are devouring their sons ability to have functional adult relationships. A good mom is important. A good mom would also encourage masculine behavior and do everything within her power to provide strong male role models even if she isnt romantic with those men. A good mom understands that none of this is about her. Once a good mom has kids its all about them, whether or not her life turned out the way she wanted.

@firstlastname84 4 ай бұрын

I see this a lot with husbands who just sit on the chair when they get home and don't participate in the tough stuff of the family. So mom creates the husband of her dreams to attend to her emotional needs through her son. I'm basically watching my boyfriend and his mom raising his children like they're married. I don't see a future where I fit in.

@rodjones6014544205 Жыл бұрын

Coach dressed like the rock ..when he wore Versace shirts to the ring .

@b9479 Жыл бұрын

Versace shirts were very popular in the late 90s

@mudani2300 18 күн бұрын

😄 A real man knows his place and moms/women should know this🤷🏽‍♂️ This is so wrong in what's happening with young men being brain washed at a young age.

@piyush7700 11 ай бұрын

Pee sitting down men. Damn

@firstlast8258 5 ай бұрын

Takes one to know one

@carmeld45 7 ай бұрын

So he should of called out his sperm donor instead?

@geeskin5750 3 ай бұрын

I have a woman in my life who would love 2 get married. I like being in her life n her in mine. It seems to me she already has a husband. I mean she got her son out of her bed when he turned 11. Not visualize how she can keep 2 men happy

@danmahalo 2 ай бұрын

May as well listen Jesse lee Peterson

@srgbandino Күн бұрын

Love my mom but I would never kiss her cigarette smoking Lips 😂

@blackpotatomaster Ай бұрын

Nope nobody perfect

@creativechristiancontent Ай бұрын

Imagine kissing your mum on the lips then going back to kiss me your girl with the same lips. I’m out can’t do it 🤮

@g.m.5590 Жыл бұрын

Perfect timing on this one, thank you sir, great speech 🤘

@dumkaisachakal6341 5 ай бұрын

I have a neighbor that is a son husband to his mother, they are always going out together walking around town, going shopping buying cat food feeding the stray cats across the town we live in. The most pathetic thing i have seen in my life, dude is not very atractive but he is a good man, he finished college got a useless degree and went back home to become his mother's husband because she is living with her husband but she is not talking or doing nothing with him, she was cheating on him with other men, when we were growing up i have seen her getting dropped off by dudes a block away from the building we were living in. She was a piece of S and in her final act of depravity she turned her son into her husband. Its sick.

@CB-ep9il 29 күн бұрын

Stop kissing your babies on the mouth. That's where it starts

@bonecasrelax2376 Ай бұрын

Cristiano ronaldo, famous soccer player, is one example. His ex wife divorced becose even benn maried, ad milionaire, Cristiano need mamma psicologycal mutual support. Just one example

@bobandcarolehardy10 18 күн бұрын

Awful mummy destroys her son ,

@spyda3629 Жыл бұрын

Lol coach look like a love guro scammer 😂😂😂

@joshuaattractsmoney Ай бұрын

I don't see that much of a big deal of Kevin kissing his mother like that. It's their relationship. Yahll can't judge them if yahll don't know them. And Kevin Durant is rich. Kevin Durant is athletic. Kevin Durant is an NBA Champion. So what can we learn from this? Be like Kevin Durant. SMH. Too easy.