RIP Coach. The only thing he was guilty of was telling the unfiltered truth.

Single mothers aren't looking for love... they're looking for help!

This video saved thousands of men from this trap. Rip Coach.

Experienced divorce lawyer here. I saw a case where a very successful guy married a beautiful single mother (widow). She convinced him to adopt her kids. He did. Then she divorced him a couple of years later and successfully sued him for child support, spousal support, and alimony.

Sometimes I have to watch this over and over again.

RIP Coach. I'll truly miss your wonderful wisdom, wit, humor, and above all your laughter.

R.I.P. Coach. Here's to not getting ourselves into bad situations.

This as my favorite video CRP did. Rest in peace brother, you helped a lot of people with your information….

Dating a single mother was the worst experience i have ever been through and I have been through literal warfare.

I dated a single mother 1 time and she gave me a mental breakdown, turns out she had multiple personality disorder, take this guys advice they are insane.

This vid needs to be archived for centuries to come.

This video saved me years ago when it first aired I was engaged about to marry a single mother and boy this video slapped the sense back in me. Fast forward I married a traditional , African virgin , have children and I swear best decision ever. I don’t know this man but I owe you a lot for this video . I always go back and look for this video to pay my respect and also to send it to another guy that’s about to be suckered into a raw deal with a single mother

Rest in Peace, Coach!

I lived this. You go from "he's your son too" to " he's not your son" after you've provided for years.

Get involved with a single mother is the worst nightmare scenario any man can experience in life. Don’t do it to yourselves guys you deserve better, a childless woman is hard enough to deal with.

When you date a single mom you are telling the world I’m a loser, I’m okay with being a beta and raising another man’s kid, because I don’t have enough value to get a woman with no kids and have my own kids.

100% dead on. Same issues twice. Did this twice.First one was a total train wreck, I should have known better. Ran past all the red flags because she was hot and the sex was amazing. The second one seemed successful, beautiful, and everything sorted for the first two months. She pressured me within the first two months to lock down the relationship and even move in. Once I wouldn't commit all the nightmares came out. Terrible kids with very little respect or discipline. She was in debt badly making over 120k a year.Found out she was using prescription drugs heavily. Baby daddy drama constantly. They were best friends one min and calling the cops on each other the next. Once she figured out I was getting ready to walk, she was on the hunt for the next sucker while still dating me. There is no exception to this rule. Stay away from single moms !

Coach red pill thankyou for all the advice over the years it was invaluable. Youll will be missed 😢😢

I lived through 100% of what you've said. I've been a step-dad. I loved her daughters and her daughters loved me. We divorced, and she violently ripped all bonds the kids and me had. It's very painful. MEN....Whatever you do, DO NOT DATE A SINGLE MOTHER. Do not play step-dad. You're guaranteed to loose at one point or another.

My 1st wife had 2 kids. Biggest mistake I ever made in my life. Thank GOD I was able to get out of that situation with no strings attached ! Listen to CPR.

So many fresh single mothers on social media platforms playing the "Victim." Makes me nauseous. The validation seeking from zero accountability gets really old after awhile.

rest in peace coach, i cant watch his videos the same way i did before

I’ve had three LTR’s with single moms. I will attest that every aspect of this video is spot on. I will also add many points. 1) these women tend to be the queens of double standards. 2) Drunks/druggies/liars/users/losers. 3) highly manipulative. 4) they always want the baby daddy. 5) emotionally damaged. 6) very promiscuous. 7) debt 8) poor/toxic family and friends. 9) they never ever respect or appreciate you for anything. 10) hypergamy is their main behavior. 11) absolutely zero accountability. 12) trust will never happen on either side. 13) they always want to break you down to be the beta male provider while obsessively seeking the alpha side dude. 14) no matter what you do it will never be good enough or right. Never ever put yourself in a position to be stuck with a single mom…I don’t care how hot or how nice she appears to be. A widowed single mom is the closest option and even then it’s a hard pass!

Single moms are like those types of zombies that pretend to be sleeping.. When you get close enough they're going to attack you

Single mother - "You're not the father" Correct response - "Then go be with the father"

RIP coach. I followed his biggest advice, never date a single mom. Yup im following that to my grave. I rather stay single than deal with that bs. I always have this quote that deals with this "a fool learns from his mistakes, but a wise man learns the mistakes from others". Hearing many men who dated single moms and then hearing what happened after, yeah no thanks.

Raise someone else's kid? No, thanks. Goes for adoption too. And totally agree with CRP on not finding women who have had kids by another man attractive. I think that's instinctive. Men who suppress that instinct do so because of low self-esteem.

The most terrifying words I've heard in a while... "The real woman is going to come out from behind the facade"

Dating a single mom is basically dating a gold digger. But instead of her having the shovel she passes it to her kids to justify being a prospect of searching for gold!!

This is a classic! One of my favorites crp videos, valuable knowledge for men!

RIP Coach. Your legacy won't be forgotten. Thanks for all your wisdom and lessons over the years. You'll live on through the knowledge you imparted to me and thousands of other men.

You are a father to many of us sir

I don't date single moms.... I make them 💪

You are absolutely right. I did this experience 2 times and it was a drama every time. You are always the "friend of the mother" but never really an important part for the family. The woman can replace you at any time - and you lose everything. The child never tired of mentioning that you are not the father...

R.I.P Coach.

Men that date single mothers have or have had some trauma or something wrong with them and I mean that in the most none disrespectful way.

RIP COACH. 😢

You hook up with a single mom you don’t date them. They are practice

Regardless if you agree with the message in this video it's absolutely true. This information is priceless

Wish i saw this 20 years ago i wasted 5 years of my life with a single mum 😢

Dated this teacher quite awhile back. She was with this beautiful little 2 yr old girl and we went to her place. She went out of sight for a moment, bathroom or whatever and this kid was doing something she obviously should not be doing. As the mother returned, I said, "No, no, honey, don't do that." You should have seen the look in Mom's eyes. If she could have spoken, she may have said "Just what the fuck you think you are telling my child?"

The funny thing I've noticed my whole life is the women I have dated in the 90s early 2000s that were single mothers would always be lil hesitant mentioning they had a kid.....like you said most would try to hide it in a way which means they've always known its not a positive for any future relationship.... Nowadays they walk around baby mama this baby daddy that.....its annoying they don't take it more seriously

My guy is 1000% true on point and painful in reality, they will play the victim on how their ex was violent and shitty in order to gain sympathy and play on your protector role as a man. The moment you buy that, it will not bode well for you. Been there done it but thankfully I picked the red flags early and moved on. Not surprised she had another guy lined up a week later.

Rip Gonzalo see you in paradice

So very very true gentleman. Heed his advice or pay the price!

Your channel saved my life!!!! Dated a single mother. Friends with her in my school days.... lost contact. 15yrs later we met up and things were really hot..... BUT the 2ton anchor she has to drag around.... her 5yr old kid has serious behavioral issues..... every time I miss her I remind myself of the kid..... nope! No! I'm out!

I was banging a single mom, yeah she was hot and had a nice body , but, Never again! Tried to force a relationship with me. Tried the sex bombing and then ignoring me only to keep coming back. Such a vicious tactic, this nonsense went on for a year and I’m Pretty sure she was seeing other dudes while she had her fallbacks, so I just started seeing other women. Eventually I told her, look I’m not looking for marriage, like you , never going to happen. She then ignored me for a week only to come back around giving me hugs, I never initiated sex after that. I knew her game. A week goes by and she tells me she’s on a dating site and I’m like that’s cool since I ended it a month ago! She wanted the power of breaking up with me. Twisted mentality! Keep in mind I never took her & her two kids out.. I went out to eat with her a few times, nothing more. Never ever get mixed up with a single mom This one left her husband with two young kids and he’s a good father. Total NARCISSIST!

This channel need more view.

This IS my psychologist. I go to his classes online here. This dude is all I ever needed.

RIP Coach. You helped save me from a lot of pain I otherwise would have endured

Just found out he died, RIP. I learned from him

This video is GOLD!!!

This man speaks the truth - lessons learned the hard way

Truth! RIP coach red pill. Hopefully his pearls of wisdom live on.

RIP Gonzalo I Miss you...

The way the west did this man is just down right despicable. Rest in peace coach you taught me a lot

Rest in Peace, Sir.

This is so true i experienced this first hand. Guys stay away from the single mothers!

I will never have affection towards another man’s child. I won’t even like her child so I should never like a single mother.

This was my life for 13 years. Lost my father to cancer a year before and I never dated a single mother, but I had a huge hole in my life and I foolishly thought I could fill that hole with an instant family. She had a 9 month old baby girl and I had no one like crp to warn me of the dangers of this scenario. While it started out ok it progressively got worse over the years. She was totally damaged from her father, her life was a mess, red flags everywhere that I stupidity ignored, and I thought I could save her from her predicament. As crp says, you get very attached to the kid the longer it goes. As far as discipline, I didn't know what I was doing other than what I saw my father do to my siblings and myself which was old school whoop your ass style. I got a book on disciplining children and it really helped with time outs and stuff. The mother was totally cool with it and discipline was never a problem again. Her biological father wasn't hardly ever in the picture, so that worked out well. While my step daughter has turned into a wonderful little woman that I consider my greatest accomplishment in life, her mother turned out to be unable to get past her demons. While we are no longer together, I am still extremely close to my daughter. I say my daughter because that is exactly what she is and will always be to me and I will always be her real father to her. I put up with waaaaaay to much bullshit from her mother for a very long time, but I knew my daughter needed me in her life to become the person she is today (a straight A student who loves life, has a huge heart, and is never a problem to me or her mother). I went through hell with a fucked up single mom and experienced her turning into someone she wasn't in the beginning of our relationship (or should I say her true personality came out year after year and especially once we got our daughter to 14 years old). I would advise everyone here to listen very carefully to what crp is saying in this video. The mothers do change over to thier real personalities once they have you locked up. I got lucky with my daughter in that I told her mother to respect the fact that either we both co-parent and discipline together or I walk and that she could go find somewhere else to go, especially if she ever told me that I'm not the father. She clearly wanted me for the job, so she had to accept that ultimatum to continue. Thankfully it worked out, but most guys probably won't get that much respect from the majority of single mothers. As for the role of being a father, It is going to be the biggest, most responsibility filled task that you will ever do. And you must realize that the only thing that matters is getting this child to become a good person. And it will take over your life. They will require all of your attention for years and years. And you cannot let that attention go unchecked. Especially for girls. Otherwise they will get it in the worst of ways on down the line and you will look back and wish you would've paid her the attention she needed and not ended up on a pole doing drugs and having daddy issues the rest of her life or God knows what else. I knew how big of a responsibility I had once I took on the job of being her father full time. I wouldn't trade how it all turned out for anything, because I have one good thing to hang my hat on in this world that I did that was excellent. But trust me when I say that this is not a job for pussies. You have to be patient and consistent in a job that is essentially thankless. And thier are all sorts of problems with single mothers that crp has explained perfectly in this clip. But sometimes something that shouldn't ever work actually works out in the end. Mostly crp is dead on with what he is saying about this subject. It's a crapshoot with a high probability of failure. So good luck if you choose to go down the single mother road my friends.

RIP legend 🙏

Thank you for reuploading Gonzalo's classics.

Finally someone who said it the way it is. Great video.

Thank you I always keep watching in order not to forget

Sloppy seconds? No thanks. Any single man who gets in a relationship or even worse, marries a single mom is out of his mind. 😁

Never date a single mother. Stand on this!

Dude is talking about my babymama…. So so so true.

R.I.P.

If I could give one piece of relationship advice it would be this.

"And if you're SOO FUCKING STUPID" to go Date a single mom after watching this video🤣is when my ears perk up and I start listening more intently

I did it,it puts a lot of strain on yourself. U r very correct. I lived it. She is 22 now.

It would be interesting to know the stats on how many single mothers ruined the relationship by cheating on the Father.

Amen. Great preaching. Badass video.

Yes sir , you're right about everything you said. I'll tell you from experience never ever date a single mother. They are traumatized, depressed, toxic. Sex was awesome but other than that she was the worst. Please guys don't do it !!

My two brothers are with single mothers but there are some differences in the dynamic. My brother Tom married a single mother in 2003, they’ve been together since. He has 3 kids with her and is literally having financial difficulties but my sister in law is also helping with the money, she’s working too, especially during when the kids are in school. Most cases when the man is struggling financially, the single mothers leave them for someone better which is true. But my sister has been at his side even at his worst moments. And as far as disciplining the kids, she lets him discipline them. Especially the step kid. My other brother Terence is also with a single mother, but their relationship is really toxic. My brother is literally trying his damnest to provide for her and his child, and the step child. She doesn’t see that he is actually doing his best. She calls him a deadbeat dad, and that he don’t care about her or the kids, she’s so clueless. They’ve been going on and off and is considering getting child support from him and the other father. She also has trust issues too, she thinks that my brother is cheating on her which is not true, because my brother is very loyal and definitely a commitment type. If I would have known now then, I would have told both of them never to date single mothers. I was 9 when tom married my sister in law. And I was in my 20s when Terence got with the single mother. I feel terrible because I wish I was smarter. I feel like it’s too late. Not only that, I have mixed feelings about guys dating single mothers.

When I come across with searching way back 2 years ago, I saw post of CRP and for me, this is the gold mine advise I ever heard from you coach. RIP and you will be missed..

RIP Coach

Stepfather = All risk and responsibilities with zero legal rights

Yes I dated dated a single mom of 4, yes it was stupid on my part but the sex was awesome, you know like a hotdog down a hallway good, anyways the deal breaker was when she said that I was expected to pay for her kids college, no way in hell was i co-signing for student loans.

R.I.P Coach

yep, there's always two sides of the story, just like this one woman I met she said she was a victim of domestic violence, in my thinking there's got to be a reason why her ex lay his hands on her, one of the red flag I notice about her is I always catch her lying making a lot of excuses. I left her right away cause I already knew we're is the relationship is going

CRP is like a god for young men that havent experienced the bad

This is the way I will always remember coach! RIP SIR!

Clever your saving a lot of guys hearts !

I really can't belive your gone.... RIP MY MAN!

Unless the father was killed in the military or in the line of duty as a cop or fireman, the chances of a single mother being of quality is almost zero. Also, the ones that lost a quality husband usually had a substantial life insurance insurance policy to last 10 years or more. My grandmother was a single mother for a time, because like many women of her time, she was a WW2 widow. So, there are a few exceptions.

Thank you and you are 100% right!

The best. Rest in peace coach

one of the best videos of CRP.. don't get trapped by a Single Mother

RIP COACH. you saved my life

So women who are damaged know they are damaged and still want to date and torture the poor guy

100000000 percent right - they will rip u into pieces- dont even loook at them - forget dating

i wish that i could have learned this before i ever considered getting married- unfortunately i have twice married single mothers- the two biggest mistakes of my life , with the exception of my 2sons being born (by1 mother)- your assessment is 100% correct

RIP Coach.

Gonzalo Lira needs a statue in his honor! He shall not be forgotten.

Man...Coach Red Pill you went spectacular on this one broski...with much to adu ' my guy I would have to say the pleasure is all mine...you are appreciated by all masculine mankind broski with what you do your space here on utube I king you eternally 👉🇺🇸👍🙂🧠 Coach Red Pill the most realest person on the planet right now broski keep doing what you doing CRP Happy New Year👑👀🍻🎉

Good video and the same way I have always felt.

Coach...I'm cancelling my face book dating page thank you for showing me the light.god bless you sir

Straight Facts 💯

Don’t ever do it gentleman…EVER! You’re only gonna be seen and treated as backup/extra child support with zero disciplinary authority but (likely) full financial responsibility over that kid(s). Let em’ live with their choices and raise their own brats.