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When He Ignores You Do This || Coach Ken Canion
This channel is designed to help women navigate the complexities of modern-day relationships. It provides a place for women to get honest and transparent information about dating and relationships from a man's perspective. The group was created by Ken Canion. He is personal development and relationship coach who has decades of experience in helping women transform their lives. He is real, raw, and relatable. The group is a safe place that women can learn and speak their truth without judgment.
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@BlackCulturalPreservation2023 Жыл бұрын

Mirror their silence/ match their energy… never nag or chase a man bcs they run and take you for granted….. keep moving and if they don’t reach out to you…… he’s immature or toxic

@LeLe-pp7lf Жыл бұрын

My grandmother always told her granddaughters to never chase a man

@ramonaherring4271 Жыл бұрын

AMEN

@forchabibiana Жыл бұрын

best African movies

@naomirivera4837 Жыл бұрын

No contact no level

@naomirivera4837 Жыл бұрын

@@ramonaherring4271 African movie is offensive I'm Puerto Rican 100%. I know for a fact I Got Roots African and Ghana in my blood so all races are the bomb

@destiny2572 8 ай бұрын

A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, period. So if he ignores me I will step back & he will lose me. I don’t play these controlling mind games. I will only be with a man who values & appreciates me because I am a good woman who knows my worth.

@Antoinette617 6 ай бұрын

Not necessarily men are completely irrational when it comes to Love. They can be in Love yet withdraw due to their own insecurities. This is why we are all listening to dating coaches on KZfaq.

@madamolapo9377 4 ай бұрын

❤

@barbarahuggins1964 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for justifying my actions and adding to them. I'm definitely going to implement your suggestions.

@sunnym9796 3 ай бұрын

I wish I was there

@StrengthNLove 3 ай бұрын

My Husband was coming home every night after work ,calling also during work

@ericawhite9430 Жыл бұрын

Dude wanted to play ghosting me,so I deleted him on fb , his contact, and never contacted him again, I'm respecting the dead,

@zsmith7590 Жыл бұрын

Period 💯

@olgaleo2 Жыл бұрын

This is the comment!!! 😂😂😂

@FNAFEDITS17 9 ай бұрын

This is the answer I was looking for...kept him as a friend on Facebook in hopes of him reaching out to me.

@carolkamunya2577 9 ай бұрын

R.i.p😅😅

@user-dc1le2hq5f 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂girl I’m on the floor right now 😂😂 I feel the same way . Blocked / deleted don’t have time either you want me or not . 💪

@lizzie2301 4 ай бұрын

When he ignores you, ignore him forever ladies 🙄

@IAMClaraLombe 2 ай бұрын

This!

@evadelacruz317 Ай бұрын

right

@Vivilaks075 Ай бұрын

You are right. I am also not into that game

@katherinewagner987 Ай бұрын

True that 😅😅😅😅

@gracekamau1639 Ай бұрын

Very true..😅

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

Never be an enabler. If he pull back or acts cold. Let him be. Focus on ur friends and make time for friends.

@martinaukoh2318 Жыл бұрын

Never be an enabler ....this is it

@zaragray6199 11 ай бұрын

Make time for urself...that is lost

@madelinelewis2836 5 ай бұрын

This some real shit

@rediettadesse2828 2 ай бұрын

What if you dont have friend 😢

@rediettadesse2828 2 ай бұрын

Or family

@donnaritch6200 7 ай бұрын

My boyfriend ghosted me a year ago after being with him for 15 years. I did exactly that I stopped communicating and pulled my energy back. He still hasn’t reached out, but at least I still have my dignity.

@Mscoffiedash Жыл бұрын

- A man trades his time for the things he values! - A man doesn’t change his behavior unless something has changed in his life! - Do Not REWARD “Bad” behavior!

@TYP1970 8 ай бұрын

Not if he's a narcissist.

@zek280 7 ай бұрын

@@TYP1970 preach I am married to one

@user-cf5uw7ln1t 3 ай бұрын

🎉 FACTS!🤸🏽‍♀️@@TYP1970

@nma_25 Жыл бұрын

I remember when my ex ghosted me for no reason at all. I didn't say anything cos at that point, I had had my full of his inconsistencies and nonchalant behaviour. I deleted his contact and erased his existence from my life. About a month later, he started to call me to get closure on why I stopped talking to him. Almost 5 years later now and he still keeps calling and messaging me talking about how he misses me of which I don't even give a single fuck cos he barely even exists to me. People wanna play games with genuine people till their game backfires on them and they become the ones on their knees.

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

lol he wanted u to chase

@feliciaallen6228 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you were able to get over him and move on. His behavior was immature and insensitive.

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

😂 he had someone in the picture

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

@@feliciaallen6228 he was not ready to cut it off. Had someone in the picture and wanted to keep her around

@user-dv9oo7sw8o Жыл бұрын

Omggg facts the game backfires!! Boo they taught us to play the game we played them at their own game

@kay-tee335 Жыл бұрын

This is too much. When they ignore, I just cut them off completely. Silly rabbit tricks are for kids.

@lionhearttt3540 Жыл бұрын

I agree with you... send them a goodbye message... then cut them off

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

Thank. Play dumb and ignore. I have try this method before

@kimberlygordon7150 11 ай бұрын

I agree.

@AstarteRap 6 ай бұрын

@kimberlygordon7150 x2😂

@soulsistah5738 3 ай бұрын

Lmao😊 yup

@babou5694 Жыл бұрын

Matching energy is the way to go. That goes for family, friendship and relationship.

@emiliarichard235 Жыл бұрын

Amen coz family and friends do that too all the time and we need to watch out for that.

@zsmith7590 Жыл бұрын

Period 💯

@MJ-vt4nb 11 ай бұрын

💯

@ellaleggett9628 10 ай бұрын

Facts 💯I’m leaving to apply that to everyone 💯

@Lovely_1One 9 ай бұрын

Hell yes! I do it all the time! Only THEN they all have a problem with that mirrored energy and want to address it! SMDH

@KeepingUpwithKeya303 Жыл бұрын

Save yourself time and leave that player alone cause If he directly wanted you he wouldn’t place you in a predicament to lose you

@saintcecelia3945 5 ай бұрын

Well said👌

@beachlover9705 Жыл бұрын

Usually when they do this they are cheating or dealing with another woman. It's pretty simple. They all suck . Just disappear like a ghost when they do this and never respond again.

@traceythompson640 Жыл бұрын

U are exactly right.

@christianhenry4173 Жыл бұрын

Not always. Maybe for a player, but I usually ignore women I like because maybe I'm just not in a talkative move. So I would rather keep my distance plus most women chase men now.

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

Yep. Dealing with another woman 😂 cause don’t have enough time to entertain or manage the relationship. Few percentage of men do that

@beachlover9705 Жыл бұрын

@@christianhenry4173 What are you talking about ?

@christianhenry4173 Жыл бұрын

@@beachlover9705 look at today's attraction methods bro. It's usually 85% of the time the woman initating phone numbers, dates, or talking to the man first. 40 years ago it was opposite the man was the one who showed interest in pursuit. Now to clear up my opinion on why a Guys is silent, sometimes as a man it helps me eliminate foolishness. Now the difference between a player and a real man is that a player will lead a woman on with lies, a real man is going to tell the truth and lead by example and there's no gimmicks behind his action. Real men want Real women too, so if this lady or women are use to playing games it may not go past friendship

@ZANAHEALING Ай бұрын

When he ignores you, walk away!

@saintcecelia3945 Жыл бұрын

Handle him lord because I can't, leave it all in your hands!!

@Miz_Meg 4 ай бұрын

I literally just told God this 😢

@reneecampbell3556 4 ай бұрын

Yes and amen! In the meantime, the joy of the Lord is my strength so I am going to get lost in Him. If he looks for me, that is where he'll find me!

@Maggiesworld24 3 ай бұрын

Am hurting guys I can't lose him

@rediettadesse2828 2 ай бұрын

Haha same 😂😂😂😂😂 girl same , like god handle this man

@rediettadesse2828 2 ай бұрын

@@Maggiesworld24 me too girl like 😢

@nikkitalove9436 Жыл бұрын

I've asked, "If you were me" and he responded, "I'm not you, though ". I had to walk away. He showed no empathy or validated my concerns.

@martapiano428 10 ай бұрын

He is right though 😅

@missbimbeaux 9 ай бұрын

@@martapiano428 the point is empathy and he failed

@deborahday1786 5 ай бұрын

He sucks. Glad you left.

@maryjflanagan1922 4 ай бұрын

But, he was right. You’re yourself. My beloved husband taught me that.

@MyLifeSunshine2008 2 ай бұрын

The question to ask is, " How would you feel...?"

@moonshine7429 Жыл бұрын

Biggest takeaway - Don't reward bad behaviour!!!

@jessica-lz1dh Жыл бұрын

No you don't ladies. Never tell a man to call u in a timeframe. Let him show u. Who he is. How he feels. If u here, watching this. U already know your outcome.

@libragirl5533 Жыл бұрын

Yeah 😂

@cutiepiea3687 Жыл бұрын

Fr😂

@Xol259 11 ай бұрын

I give attention to who gives it back in tired of begging

@rousseautr 6 ай бұрын

😢

@IAMClaraLombe 2 ай бұрын

Right!

@natlucci449 Жыл бұрын

I experienced this recently… I dated this guy for almost a year and this past Monday I listed all the things he wasn’t doing anymore. He ignored all my messages and I have not heard from him again. We are broken up because he has a toxic way of dealing with conflict in a relationship. I deserve so much more!

@ChildrenOfLightMinistries Жыл бұрын

I agree I am that man 😢 we need therapy

@tarshagreene4661 Жыл бұрын

You deserve better🙏

@candiedsugarxo4462 11 ай бұрын

@@ChildrenOfLightMinistriesquestion…why do you think you’re like that? Scared of accepting your flaws? Wanting to win?

@shirleyreid8795 8 ай бұрын

@@ChildrenOfLightMinistries😮

@CoachChrissyD 7 ай бұрын

@ChildrenOfLightMinistries Your honesty is courageous. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 The blessing is you know and are aware of where you are. Hopefully and prayerfully, you have begun taking steps to truly heal and be set free.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@PiscesSun_Capricornrising Жыл бұрын

1. Dont beg your lover nor ask them why theyre silent. - mirror his silence 🔕 until hes ready to communicate like an adult. If he doesnt take action, hes not right for you. 2. Address his behavior (not your feelings/emotions...ie 🚫"you made me feel") Discuss it from an intellectual direct point. 3. Use 'I' statements rather than 'you' statements. " I saw you did this and it made me feel this way.......I want this..." 4. "If you were me, what would you do if this happened" If the lover is not interested in resolve, hes not ready for a healthy relationship.

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

I believe in this

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

Mirror till he is ready to talk

@emiliarichard235 Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@memorymukisi9583 9 ай бұрын

I noticed that you are not responding to my text ,I don't have a problem with you responding to my text , this explains should I continue calling or texting ? - I have noticed that you are pulling away ? That's fine - If you were me, what would you do if this happened? - if you were me what would you do to lie to me ?

@tranquilgiftsonline 2 ай бұрын

I cab tell they would not answer number 4

@mamanemcakesandtreats3974 10 ай бұрын

Sadly, most females are emotional creatures. When a woman learns how to get her emotions under control and match the energy that is being given. Then, that’s when she gains power. Never chase, never ask why, but always keep your head to the sky. Don’t allow yourself to fall in a hole, because of a man. Always love yourself enough, to know when it’s time to fall back. Never allow a man to drag you through the mud, because you are just as important as he is. Don’t question anything or anyone, move on to the next.

@user-zj6ge2rv3j 7 ай бұрын

Solid ❤

@chonkybenetgods 6 ай бұрын

Needed this. Thank you

@deborahday1786 5 ай бұрын

This is exactly what I do. ❤ Ain’t got time.

@marciamorris2930 2 ай бұрын

That’s right

@danilaroche1156 Ай бұрын

That's definitely been my problem. Way too emotional and volatile. I'm much better now as God has taught me self control.

@jessicajackson1200 6 ай бұрын

If a man ignores me, gives silent treatments, or is just breadcrumbing i will warn him 1 time i wont tolerate that behavior and if he doesnt heed that warning i walk away i will breakup and never look back. Even if it hurts like hell. Ive learned the hard way not to tolerate this.

@jessicajackson1200 5 ай бұрын

@@marrie_may talk through your feelinfs with good friends or a therapist, and process them. Sometimes it takes a while but that over the moon butterflies feeling that you miss is not love its infatuation and anxiety. That feeling in the extreme is a red flag that this person is not good for you longterm and that feeling is actually addictive. A real, healthy relationship that feeling is still there, there is still chemistry but not as strong as a toxic connection and you feel safe and at peace. Just keep reminding yourself of all the bad times, all the time he didnt text you back for hours or days, all the dates he canceled and how that felt, and how it felt when you needed him and he disnt show up. In a good relationship your partner will not make you feel that rollercoaster of highs and lows. But longterm you will be happier and more emotionally healthy. It helps if you can learn to spot the warning signs like inconsistency early on before you are super invested and walk away then, even if there is alot of chemistry.

@jessicajackson1200 3 ай бұрын

@@marrie_may oh the memories and flashbacks suck, when you start reminiscing about the good times you had with them also remind yourself of the bad... The times they didnt text or call for days, the canceled dates, whatever they did to hurt you. Keep reminding yourself of that. Those behaviors are not treating you like a queen. Also build your own self esteem, thinking that youll never find someone who will treat you well comes from a sense of low self worth. You can find better. Stop chasing chemistry, super strong chemistry in the beginning is a big red flag that you are being love bombed or that there is a push pull dynamic. Both of which are toxic.

@ifeomaodezugo4383 14 күн бұрын

@@jessicajackson1200thank you. Makes a lot of sense to me - the love bombing at the beginning. 😮

@user-zx5xw4yw2e Жыл бұрын

1-Do not beg or ask why 2-always address the behavior but never the emotions 3- Identify what u saw and how you felt about what u saw. 4- Use the: "If u were me' technique.

@elizabethwilliams8664 Жыл бұрын

I JUST LEARNED SOMETHING address the PROBLEM not my feelings/emotions 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽

@niksmith1039 Жыл бұрын

I agree with this.

@carolmerrow6467 11 ай бұрын

You make so much sense thank you 😊

@ebonyladawn 8 ай бұрын

He not lying

@monicastewart442 7 ай бұрын

I'm not addressing sh** I'm just leaving once he starts acting different 🎯

@tiffanyjohnson1890 5 ай бұрын

Leave him alone for good, every time he meet or see someone new he’s interested in he will ghost you over and over again because he is confused, if it dont work out with the new person he will try to come back, every man got and is dealing with someone he didn’t meet you and was interested in you and you only

@Jennyfavor 23 күн бұрын

On point

@isay207 9 ай бұрын

If he ignores you move on he's just not into you!!!

@zelmahenry7300 Жыл бұрын

I'm 60 years old I don't play mind games just delete and block

@libragirl5533 Жыл бұрын

It's that Simple lol

@melodyhall6886 Жыл бұрын

Let the church say Amen ❤

@RealityRecovery 11 ай бұрын

Some do tho. They just watch you deteriorate for fun

@leonablack3516 Жыл бұрын

Walk away ! Having Self respect its called.

@yokimawhittaker5193 Жыл бұрын

The tables have turned. I now ignore him. I don't have time for that!

@GG-cl9ww 4 ай бұрын

My mistake was that I showed my feelings. Like begging for time. And he showed me a pattern same bs..Now I don't feel anything anymore. I guess my tears and feelings dried out. I'm ok. God got me. They're a man meant for me.less drama.

@denisecatlett7203 Ай бұрын

My husband has ghosted me and we live in the same house. Normally I would pursue him because the silence is killing me. This has been the pattern for 20 years. We usually come back together, but never really talk about what tore us apart. I can’t do that anymore. I’m not going back to the way things were. Our marriage counselor recommended we each get individual counseling. Our last counseling session we got “into it” and my husband walked out, came back 5 minutes later and said he would be willing to work it out if I get individual counseling and in a moment of self awareness he said he would seek counseling as well. I started laughing because I was sitting in a counseling session, while he was walking out throwing a fit. This really upset him. He left ,and I had to call an UBER to get home. I agree I need counseling and have since signed up and attended my first session. He has not signed up for counseling. I have to be ok with this. I’m not going back to the way things were. Only forward. This might be the end, so be it.

@cynthialewis630 22 күн бұрын

Wow sounds very familiar to me .

@legalmemories 21 күн бұрын

Silent treatment and leaving you stranded are abusive behaviors. I’m sorry you are going through this. Good luck

@branditillery8931 17 күн бұрын

Your husband is a narcissist love

@vuyokazinkosi3817 9 күн бұрын

So be it honey. Focus on yourself . He is abusive. Imagine calling an Uber home. He is immature. How are you feeling now?

@solrex2504 Жыл бұрын

Why to be behind a man is ignoring u.. When a guy is ghosting ir because obviously he is seeing someone else. When the guy do this I just delete and block him. Move on.. Life is too short to wait for a ghost when u can lose many other opportunities... Is what I do.

@Silence129 9 ай бұрын

Y'all I did it all wrong. I chased ,I begged, crying. I did it all. I feel like a fool. This was behind my ex husband who left me with our 2 small kids. I wish I had these videos

@keiwill2911 8 ай бұрын

I’m sorry you went through that love💜all will be well!

@blancaflores2276 7 ай бұрын

You were not a fool.. you were just inloved and was not appreciated. You were taken for granted. At least he left. There is some that never leave and make the wife's life miserable.

@dirtySal777 7 ай бұрын

Don’t feel bad. You’re not the only one.

@rediettadesse2828 2 ай бұрын

Is it better than i atleast am not married and dont have kids with him , or does it make it worse 😮

@andreaj5067 2 ай бұрын

You stronger now and he will reap what you sow. You sowed tears he will reap them in a few years. Don’t worry hun you did all in according to your love. Never feel bad for loving just switch who you love. Your babies need that love. He will miss your love. Mark my words. He will reap pain. Don’t worry. Thank God you are free!

@VirtuousWoman1143 6 ай бұрын

YEAH IT WORKS UNTIL THEY GET BACK IN YOUR PRESCENCE. THEN THEY ACT A FOOL AGAIN.

@saintcecelia3945 5 ай бұрын

Creating boundaries and make it become a way of life, that's the solution, it's a form of defense mechanism, don't let your guard down and just know it's god alone you can trust!!🙏

@rediettadesse2828 2 ай бұрын

😂

@laquamartin4602 9 ай бұрын

If They Don't Reciprocate Take The Break. if they show no interest just leave it be no matter how much you align with each other and you love and care for them.

@MJ-vt4nb 11 ай бұрын

If they want to play these games , its wise to let it go early before your feelings get involved.

@jennyben8262 5 ай бұрын

Exactly 👍👍👍

@melissawitherspoon9518 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely right!!! Feed them The same Energy and ghost their azz….

@yvettebernard4112 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this information, it hurts different when you are ignored,yet you do treat them right but you don't get the same treatment.

@mindyours2023 Жыл бұрын

That one-sided love. That's what I'm dealing with right now. I'm sad and tired.

@user-cg9ye7bh4u 9 ай бұрын

Me too, I rather stay in a relationship with myself, than one with a grown child

@lateeshadooley7695 Жыл бұрын

If you can go a day without speaking to me checking on me to see if I’m alive keep going not chasing nothing but my bread and butter ! Just dum my boyfriend keep the childish games over there I’m not a checker broad ! I’m a queen I will not tolerate that madness! 🙌🏾

@haniya_5600 3 күн бұрын

Yes🎉

@thequeendiva72 Жыл бұрын

The guy i was recently talking to well wasted my time on was all the wrong things for me. I wasted a year and a half of my Life on this immature guy. He recently told me let's have some space and see what happens so i said fine and i hung up and i haven't spoke to him since that day. We haven't reached out to one another and i'm okay with that. I was drained of him emotionally and mentally trying to Communicate with a guy who wasn't capable of being able to Communicate like an Adult. STAY SAFE EVERYONE. GOD BLESS US ALL 🙏🏽 🙏🏽.

@nurseward Жыл бұрын

Just went thru the same thing these are man boys

@michaellelaka9659 6 ай бұрын

True

@marissaali2233 Жыл бұрын

What annoys me is when I haven't heard from him all day I just feel like turning my phone off and thinking ok we can all play that game

@thinakhanyi1461 Жыл бұрын

I don't put his number in my personally phone i have another number so if he ignores me I just throws that number away imediately! If he come back one day oops that number is not exist !!! Then if he saw me at the malls or somewhere the truth is I don't know him and I will scream for Help!!!!

@weruleyoudrool Жыл бұрын

He responds but he doesn’t initiate sometimes, so I stopped initiating.

@sagantoussaint4592 4 ай бұрын

Baby , block him and turn your location off... Let them know that whatever they give you will multiply😂

@sherrysherry1083 2 ай бұрын

I do that too shutting off my phone when I’m mad

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

Some men don’t have emotional intelligence 😊

@foreignlovedreams Жыл бұрын

Very emotional and expressive! From my experience, when your partner ignores you, it means he doesn't respect you. And if there is no respect and communication - then why continue the relationship? This is not resuscitation! It's a one-sided game. Is it interesting for confident and fulfilled women? I think, no. Therefore, we close one page of the book and move on.

@jenniferklinko5596 Жыл бұрын

I HATE WHEN I FOUND MYSELF WANTING MORE FROM RELATIONSHIP THAN PARTNERS.

@stellafraser8351 Жыл бұрын

For sure!

@tobh007 9 ай бұрын

The best advice EVER

@TruePathLiving 9 ай бұрын

I don't know if addressing the behaviour is even worth it. Asking them if you should continue texting or not ... I don't know, still gives him power.

@richrich2862 8 ай бұрын

Yeah I think his advice is dumb makes us still look like groveling dogs at a man’s feet

@franwilds145 6 ай бұрын

Who has times to play these games? If I reach out to a man several times & he doesn't respond, f$ck him! Why would I ask him if I should keep texting/calling? He obviously doesn't care and neither should I.

@MsYingyang2 5 ай бұрын

How do you deal with this situation when it is my Husband of 50 yrs.

@TruePathLiving 5 ай бұрын

@@MsYingyang2Your husband of 50yrs is ignoring you, in your own home ?

@MsYingyang2 5 ай бұрын

@@TruePathLiving Yes, it is so unsettling.

@ronnietoni819 Жыл бұрын

I’m confused if he got silent he need time, if he abandons you he got another women. Like which one is it? Everybody giving different advice like this is why we as people so emotional and confused we don’t know what to do

@tinisharealtalktime6626 Жыл бұрын

whatever the situation is reciprocate the same energy it's not hard to do

@FuchsiaSquare 6 ай бұрын

Don’t you just LOVE when they start to notice the SAME energy you give them?🤡😂

@lhazel2 Жыл бұрын

Oh I'm gonna identify the behaviour express my feelings about it and move on.. I'm not going to deny how your actions has affected me.. If you don't adjust I'm out .. Simple as that . I can show you better than I can tell you

@jasminecampbell9105 9 ай бұрын

His behavior changed because he was cheating with his ex. I stopped calling him for a week. When he called, I told him i would call him back, when he called again i told him I would call him back, then i blocked him. Good bye 👋 like you NEVA seen it before.

@TheTiscali1 6 ай бұрын

Why didn't you block him the first time 😂😂

@jasminecampbell9105 5 ай бұрын

Because i wanted him to see how it felt to be ignored. He needed to have his Ego checked.. 😊 @@TheTiscali1

@MsYingyang2 5 ай бұрын

@@TheTiscali1at least she realized now and didn’t waste her time anymore.

@ifeomaodezugo4383 14 күн бұрын

@@TheTiscali1so that he’ll anticipate the call back that’ll never come.

@user-by4sd2jy2c 3 ай бұрын

He’s still waiting on me to call him back!! 😂😊❤🎉

@krystalwillis7211 5 ай бұрын

Do not reward bad behavior! Golden nugget!

@rileysmiley9585 Жыл бұрын

Whatever…invest in yourself and always ignore them.

@murielgonzalez7154 Жыл бұрын

My ex ignored my text and calls for 10 days. However, he has been inconsistent throughout our relationship. I did reach out in the 10 days he only responded once via text. I did screw up and text him that ignoring me was hurtful. I did call him because I wanted answers and he blocked me.. that was a cowardly action of him.. I feel so stupid for begging him.

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes , u don’t need answers. He was entertaining other folks or have his mind not there mentally. Learn to create ur own closure and never be scare to walk way.

@murielgonzalez7154 Жыл бұрын

@@eveheart2876 ❤️❤️❤️

@mercymuli8058 Жыл бұрын

I've decided to love myself

@murielgonzalez7154 Жыл бұрын

@@mercymuli8058 that’s what I have decided as well. That is not love and it’s better to give that love to myself. I’m doing things that I enjoy doing and being kind to me💜

@feliciaallen6228 Жыл бұрын

You did nothing wrong!! Don't listen to these people. You had a right to ask him what was going on. Nobody has time yo play games and wait for a man to contact them. This guy was an immature coward, that had no respect for you or himself.

@brendalapp6272 3 ай бұрын

I went no contact and when he tried to send me an email...I sent him a picture of a handsome guy I met on a dating site and said." He has a bigger boat than yours and I am going to see how it goes !!!! " Not putting up with this crap any more !!! :)

@chrisbalog 10 ай бұрын

You are helping a 52 y/o learn to date again. Thank you. (I am amazed at the behavior of these folks)

@CoachKenCanion 10 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you!

@chrisbalog 9 ай бұрын

@@CoachKenCanion** recap let's just say you help me pick up on stuff really quick... on to the next that was fast wasn't it? Your methods help a lot and I see things very clearly now! Those patterns I've created... Mercy... 😆

@nicoler.4356 9 ай бұрын

OMG!!! THANK YOU SOOO MUCH!! I'VE BEEN DOING EVERYTHING COMPLETELY WRONG!! DATING IS SOOO DAMN HARD NOWADAYS! IT'S ALMOST WORTH MORE JUST TO STAT SINGLE.

@Cal-ElandTheShef Жыл бұрын

DR KEN!!! I haven't heard from this dude in 3-4wks and just ignored him. I sent the exact words on this video!! IT WORKED!! HE CALLED ME and I am so not interested. I AM GOING TO WATCH EVERY VIDEO. I'm getting ke a husband next year. This year imma spend spoiling me lol. Thanks Doc!!

@lisadee. 9 ай бұрын

This is so true; he tried to manipulate to control my emotions, even arrogantly admitted to the game. Address the behavior not the emotions is key 🔑

@lilianonyango1134 Жыл бұрын

They do ignore and you feel so down

@lovelyblac5481 8 күн бұрын

Wtfys

@nafisakhan1608 Жыл бұрын

This doesn’t really apply to marriage only for courting situations….thank goodness I hated these kind games….for me marriage is free from these actions….just open communication and mutual respect….but those who are not there yet, I pray your journey as easy and that u find someone who is crazy about u and doesn’t avoid u.

@annetteholzman6701 2 ай бұрын

The only thing I’ll take from this video is “if you were me” part, everything else is too much energy to give to someone move on. Life is too short to try and convince someone to stay in your life who doesn’t want to there.

@hotchocolategirl1der 7 ай бұрын

What you do is... move on. Period. Don't give it anymore of your energy. Don't try to manipulate, play games, get some get back. I know it's easier said than done, but give it up, turn it loose. Deal with your emotions, but disengage with them.

@KimberlyGray-cd3lt Ай бұрын

Yep I did that, kept txting why or lets talk about it,I finally gave up and feel so much better,2 months relationship was 2 long, Single life is Beautiful ❤

@jerusalem7050 5 ай бұрын

"You are in a game the other party is worthy of your affection” Best quote ever!

@laurendelane6361 Жыл бұрын

I don't agree I don't agree with addressing them and asking them should I continue texting you or not that sounds pathetic lol

@AstarteRap 6 ай бұрын

😂yes

@societiesscapegoat8715 3 ай бұрын

I agree with you…fk that.

@haniya_5600 3 күн бұрын

Right like sir I’m not begging you like who are you?😂

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

I have mirrored behaviour in the past. 😂 and the guy did a settled let me text less. So I started texting less back. 🤣 He said I’m also downplaying my emotions. I stop overly expecting and enjoy my time ❤ the moment.

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!!

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

Ladies. We need to value our time also

@elaine4937 Жыл бұрын

I needed this video two days ago. I did the very thing you said not to do regarding emotions. I divulged too much about my feelings. I didn't ask, "If you were me" but I did say, "if the tables were turned".

@Queen-Abio 11 ай бұрын

Same here.. Was in this table for a week

@funnygirlever 10 ай бұрын

Even better! I just blocked, delete, and move the fk on. Treat him like he dead. Move the fk on and never look back and give any more energy and attention 💯. Peace the fk out! I'm so sick of how he has been treated me. I'm so fn done. ✌

@kimberleyjones704 2 ай бұрын

I’ve been doing this naturally with no advice for years and yet still by myself, I guess I just haven’t found someone with my same moral values 🤷‍♀️

@AuntSpice Ай бұрын

Mercy, a man doesn't change his behavior unless something has changed in his life! My beloved, you spoke a word. Talk about make it plain!

@tierrahenderson857 Жыл бұрын

This entire message has been all facts 💯

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

Yes, Thanks Tierra

@tierrahenderson857 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your wisdom Coach Ken

@tamiamatthews4410 Жыл бұрын

No lies detected always use logic when you are speaking to your man or men in general. when you do that they got to come correct they can't come no other way or they won't come at all but you will get your answers without having to hurt yourself through the process!!

@nakishamahone5408 Жыл бұрын

Facts❤ I just just did this. And now he stalking 😂

@allisonpaige4786 Жыл бұрын

How long before the tables turned in your favor

@lovelock1994 Жыл бұрын

@@allisonpaige4786 oh they're coming lol. Trust. I'm dealing with a situation now.

@NMTDelightfulMusic 9 ай бұрын

If he doesn't comunicate authentically, he ain't worth it - SUM UP 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

@joannculligan3612 11 ай бұрын

I hadn’t heard from him for 7 days. I sent a very similar message addressing the behavior. He called that evening right after work. We actually had a great conversation.

@PortlandKennedy 8 ай бұрын

And then what happened?

@zek280 7 ай бұрын

Kudos 👏

@PrincessYiskahYisrael 10 ай бұрын

I definitely could've used this advice not even a month ago. I didn't grow up with any male figure around to teach me such things and at 37, I am still learning. Thank you for this advice. It's greatly appreciated. Shalom. ♥

@CoachKenCanion 10 ай бұрын

You're so welcome!

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

I wished I watched this earlier hehehehe 😜 😂. Another dating coach said the same thing. Control ur impulse. Pull back. Slow down on communication and enjoy ur life

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

Yes!!

@barbarakings4571 Жыл бұрын

I just used this your formula and I just realized that my boyfriend has been going through a lot, and the sister died, I had no idea 🥺 Thank you so much for teaching me not to use my emotions to address the issue 🙇‍♀️🙏

@alexusrichardson318 9 ай бұрын

He is your boyfriend, he should have communicated to you that his sister had died. He doesn't think to much of you not to tell you something that sentimental and you "finally found out"...hmmmm

@blesseddiva6297 8 ай бұрын

@alexusrichardson318 that's so true. But what I've found out, some men have a hard time expressing their feelings. Not sure why this guy withheld that type information, but some men just don't know how to communicate. I think at some point when he's ready, that needs to be discussed. Because this could happen again...that's not healthy.

@Frugal637 7 ай бұрын

It’s ver odd that he wouldn’t share with his girlfriend. I would question this relationship.

@user-qn7yw7xi1r 2 ай бұрын

Soooo true😢

@starrtruegemini9472 Жыл бұрын

Its obvious you're no longer interested. While I would have liked to have been told this directly, I still wish you the best in your future dating pursuits/Life period!!Happy new year's……. I sent him this was this too much

@mercymuli8058 Жыл бұрын

One thing am sure of is that this video came to me at the right moment .... thank you

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

❤❤

@mercymuli8058 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the care

@mercymuli8058 Жыл бұрын

This is the time to love myself

@jackiewalton6287 Жыл бұрын

Me too!!

@andisaheshu3982 11 ай бұрын

This video looked for me not the other way around 😅😅 exactly what I needed to hear !

@germaineverderosa Ай бұрын

This video is by far the best advice I have listened to and I have used it and tried it out 🎉as much as hard as it was to confront this way versus the old ways ..my conclusion is this one actually works and gives you strength while your dignity stays in tact moving forward❤ thank you so much

@leannajones9241 23 күн бұрын

I would not even ask if he still wants to communicate if I address his behavior. I’d just walk away after. ❤

@lindapanaro3379 5 ай бұрын

I'm getting manipulated and I did it to myself ! 🙄

@divinetruthmessages Жыл бұрын

MESSAGE HIM! DON'T MIRROR HIS BEHAVIOR! CAUSE THEN YOU WILL BE TRAPPED IN A CYCLE OF MIND GAMES. WHEN YOU MESSAGE HIM IT WILL HELP YOU TO DECODE IF HE IS A JERK OR A GENUINE MAN. IF HE DOESN'T RESPOND DELETE HIS MESSAGE AND CONTINUE WEIGHING YOUR OTHER OPTIONS.

@wendyledwaba5018 8 ай бұрын

I actually feel like if mirror their behaviour, you are letting them control you. He keeps quiet, you keep quiet. When hes good and ready then communicates, you also communicate back or you dont communicate. If he is dealing with someone else on the side, he actually wont care or even notice that you are palying these games

@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын

If I have to call a men out 3 times. I don’t want him. 1 time calling out is enough 😊. Then I treat him like a friend. Ain’t no man gonna dominate my feelings always with games. Now I understand why some women delete and blocked. Some women prefer to date casually instead of games. I will always be positive but next relationship or talking stage 😂 I date wisely.

@zaragray6199 11 ай бұрын

Never let him know ur hurting....address the issue oh yes...im always putting my feelings in first..omg...

@smileyaqua1501 Жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right about everything you say… thank you 🙏🏽

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome

@amandaalvarez5291 Жыл бұрын

Idk how but this man is actually helping me to change my thoughts about sum big things

@melany.muraour 18 күн бұрын

3:49 what to text him ❤ and how to call him out on his behaviour not your emotions attached to being ignored. Use this format: I see... based on what i see, i feel... i want... and then ask "if you were me, how would feel?"

@Acquasimone123 5 ай бұрын

I just did this before i watched this video i addressed his behaviour he tried to use the card " i didn't mean to hurt ya feeling's "😂😂 ( i never mentioned anything about my emotions) he assumed he did . he was reaching for a response i said nothing. He then tried the self pitty card by saying " i should just be by myself i always seem to hurt ppl" i said well i can't speak for your past but thats a question you need to ask yourself clearly cuz i don't av time for the BS😂😂 he said he will call me back 😂😂😂 wether he dose or not i think he realised im not one to play with.

@lwendobanda2986 Жыл бұрын

I can't even explain how well this has worked for me.. I would say it saved and helped my relationship for the best.. thanks 🤗

@annabarone8727 Жыл бұрын

Can u give me a pointer please my guy has gone quiet for 8 days

@kelebogilekwababana1844 Жыл бұрын

Don't chase Match energy Don't show emotion

@monigiselle2140 Жыл бұрын

If you were me: if I put them on that position they will feel guilt and shame for the other person, and shame is the opposite of attraction. 🤷‍♀️🤗

@margold1638 Жыл бұрын

They don't know the difference between real love and their love, they don't know the difference between being truly loved and buy supply even for money. They don't know the difference between real feelings and what they are feeling. They don't value real love and care as long as they can buy it for money or lies from other people. My ex narc always been miserable but pretended to be happy, I am sure he's miserable now but pretending to be happy. How do they know the difference if they never felt happiness , or love or compassion or empathy? Never have and never will! So there is no karma for them. We know the difference that's why we think that this is their karma, they don't care! We should not care either! Unless they get really sick and have nobody to care for them, they won't know the difference.

@dii-N-sd Күн бұрын

If someone ignores/ghosts me, I literally treat them like they're DEAD.

@claireinperth 11 ай бұрын

First video of yours I’ve watched Coach Ken and you’ve blown me out of the water. I clearly was meant to listen to every word, now I just need to put it into action. Thank you once again.

@CoachKenCanion 11 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you!

@derickase Жыл бұрын

Yeah I do the “if you were me “and they are so honest it’s crazy. I also do the if I was your sister and I told you this about a guy what would you tell me .

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

❤❤

@patriachampion6554 Жыл бұрын

I told him he hurt my feelings. But I’m out his way. he lost access to me forever. Tryna leave us open ended so he can come back when his situation changes smh

@Kans-wy1vc 10 ай бұрын

Men💔🙌

@ro.8518 Жыл бұрын

I always express how I felt then he switch it around like I’m doing wrong 😩 we come to a agreement then back to square 1 being spotty with communication

@kizitoharriet8716 Жыл бұрын

That's what is happening to me exactly

@annabarone8727 Жыл бұрын

Yes it's always me it's never him. Or you could of texted me too..wtf

@MistresstheMediator Жыл бұрын

Damn same omg 😳

@jjcarr6606 Жыл бұрын

That's exactly what my man does.

@takeysha4 Жыл бұрын

Some don't want to take full responsibility for their actions it's terrible

@TheManuella3 Жыл бұрын

From being an awesome person to being cold and withdrew only to find out he was giving most of his time to someone at work... Reason she has no expectations she knows me longer😮 It ended up where i did address the behaviour and suddenly this champ decided to change the context (of how i speak) how i address issues... And he continues "but i did not say that" Man i really started questioning my sanity?

@oldangels444 Жыл бұрын

I LOVE your videos !!!! I learn so many things from them !!!! Thank you with all my heart !!! ❤️

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

@stellaaniedobe7010 Жыл бұрын

@@CoachKenCanion hello Ken, you are doing great here. please your email🙏

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

@@stellaaniedobe7010 kencanion@gmail.com

@GreenYoshi3881 10 ай бұрын

Damn so I shouldn’t slash his tires? Ok I’ll behave 😂

@TNT31414 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@kimberlyboakye342 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 omg I'm so dead lmao

@GreenYoshi3881 2 ай бұрын

@@kimberlyboakye342 He will always remember me 😆

@marilynmiller9730 2 ай бұрын

😅😅😅😅No don't do anything criminal 😅😅😅

@latashahumphrey769 Жыл бұрын

I came to the conclusion that communication is the key 🗝️. I think I'm not really good with relationships I went through a lot of ups and downs. I think I'm a better friend instead of being in a relationship I always end up fighting for the relationship by myself. And I have a problem with being pushed to the back and put on a shelf. I don't want to keep living my life like that. So I just scaled out the way. I noticed my sister soon to b husband called her just to tell her he loves her. I smiled and I said to her that man loves her

@latashahumphrey769 Жыл бұрын

I really can't do things right in a relationship I do to much I try to prove that I'm loyal and I always thought helping was what I suppose to do in all actuality I guess I went wrong on that part so being singal I'm teaching myself not to do to much still getting to know who I am.

@latashahumphrey769 Жыл бұрын

I thought I was suppose to b that person that's there to catch a person before they fall. I guess I over did something's. Im working on that part of myself. Being by ur self is not bad not bad at all. It's just not my time to b in a relationship God will make that move with me if he see fit and it's just not time yet

@SBThreats Жыл бұрын

Wow everything you typed is exactly how I feel. I’m experiencing this now and have been for so long. I’m very tired of it. But taking accountability is the first step.

@latashahumphrey769 Жыл бұрын

@@SBThreats u know when I started working on myself was the moment I started accepting accountability for something's I had to start putting my big girl panties on. SB I got total different mind space now. Speaking on accountability my long term relationship they put me through a lot but I share fault in it trying to b good, tried to b faithful, stuck by them , yes they didn't do things right but I also allowed things to go on when I should have spoke up for myself. I always thought they would have known the real me and I thought they would be able c all the things I have sacrificed for my kids and my relationship but I had to learn when u to good u leave room to b taken for granted.

@latashahumphrey769 Жыл бұрын

@@SBThreats I also had to learn to love myself. I accepted a lot of things that I shouldn't have. And u know what got for being a down chick they ran out picking other women just act like I didn't matter. And when these women show them a different side they want me to save them. And this time I can't fight anymore for a person who doesn't want me. I have saw the signs for many years I was just trying not to c things but nowi ask God not to leave me in the blind