Exactly

Into the 3rd year with my covert narcissist, I started treating him the way he was treating me. He had no idea what was happening. I threw him out 3 years ago after a domestic. He gave me a fat lip. Cops came, took him away. I pressed charges. He got a little bit of karma, not anywhere near what he deserved. It's coming, tho. Complete asshole !!😂😂

I work with 2 of them, and they are professional manipulators. I had both of them flip out on me different times, and I'm just staring at them like they are crazy. I have to walk away, and while they continue to yell. They never apologize and make them selves victims . It hurts when they believe them 😢

Lol😂😂😂😂😂

They expect 100% respect but they are not 0.001% respectful

Very well put you are 100 percent right.

True … I ignore mine so hard he’s questioning his own existence 😂❤ ✌️

Love this ❤

I forgave all my abusers. They hated being killed with kindness.

That's impossible if you have kids with them, the law is on their side. You have no say in the matter.

ShadowKing, after reading the post I think it's closer to 'justice' that is meant, than any sort of super-intensive personal vendetta. I do think the victim can seek justice through the Court System, and even from God for that matter.

I totally agree to not stoop to their level. My sons dad insults me, degrades me,etc. practically every time we have to communicate about our son or the parenting schedule. I solely communicate with him for coparenting purposes and try my best to keep the peace. But it doesn’t stop him from finding something to be mad about. He doesn’t miss a opportunity to insult me, degrade me or accuse me of being a bad mother (although he’s been in and out of our sons life due to addiction and being in and out of jail). I only respond to the things I have to (to do with coparenting) and I ignore the rest. But I have to read through all of the mess just to decipher what I have to respond to. It gets so exhausting and frustrating being the “bigger person” all the time. But I refuse to give him the supply he’s looking for. But I also know if I was to respond the way I would have to to stoop to his level. It would make me feel bad about myself. To allow him to get me to that point. So I literally have to treat him like he’s a small child having a temper tantrum. I look at him as someone with emotional maturity of a 4 yr old. I believe it’s true too. Which helps me too for some reason to not respond in the ways I want to sometimes.. but it is still tough at times because I’m tired of being his punching bag (in a sense).

Revenge and grudges over anything & everything under the sun

They are not childish.. Being childish is sweet... They are evil

Childish is true. My sister is trying to project an innocent, childlike persona. A person's childlike ways appear when they are unaware.

You’ve got that right!

and SEX and secretly cheating

Oh mine got so high after a 24 hours crack binge he was crawling on all fours hiding from his Mom at 3am while Mom was asleep in her own bed in her own house far away. Paranoia is now my new tool she he acts up. He's a roomie but awful to deal with but now I have a clue. That was the day I realized how pitiful and weak he is.

​@@neglected_vices😢move out of there!! Danger.

Add in the narcissistic family/ friends and boom! Hubs family is 5-6 generations of highly narcissistic people. His daughter has been fighting cancer for most of her 31 years and he barely spent time with her. When she got sick from the chemo and radiation, he screamed at her for needing adult diapers and ruining his life by making herself sick on purpose. When karma catches up to him, he won't have anyone. Even his grandkids don't interact with him.

Exactly! They use your weaknesses against you when they discard you.

Make up a false weakness! Make them think they are "winning" and yes, never tell them what you fear they make sure it happens! So fear something you like!

I have one now, and she so casually asks me questions, disecting even the simpliest things in order to get more info and try to make me feel bad or wrong about anything. I hate that I'll still fall for this at times because she catches me off guard.

@@justjosie8963 be vigilant and feel completely comfortable you know that what you share is freely up to you! Don’t Be manipulated

They only know what you give them & they run with it rather it's true or not 🙃 that's the thing so really who cares. A gullible bird will eat whatever wirm you bait them with

Yes!!!

Yes!!!

Totally 💯 👍

Same tbf I cudent inflict pain on someone regardless of what theve done to you

I'm struggling to attain that peace, but it's worth it!

My revenge is living a good life

The only way to keep yourself safe from a narcissist is cut all ties with them instantly & never know them or even recognise them ever again!!. Insignificant to you & play no part in your life. Coz even arguing with them, feeds them, just never ever recognise that person ever again no matter how many times they may walk past you. They can never hurt you again if you don't know them anymore. Close the door on their existence, it's your door & you control it!!. Now breathe & go live your life never having known these beasts!!.

@@DaniilBalkans-jh2rw absolutely...they are like vampires..the only differents is they suck all the energie out of you,..they need your energie to live

As a spoiled child...

No landfill should have the narcissist's toxic waste!

I started talking to my "bestie" narcissist about aquaintance narcissist and their traits, not to hurt her but to vent, but as the words came out, we both knew these traits and the term narcissist was her too.

Haha did that oh bother he got shittty .going a bit too far with the naraccist stuff he reckons.funny

Yup. I call it "going gen alpha"..IT DOES WORK..headphones as well.❤

I get going tit for tat is a mistake… but for a deliberate hurtful attack on life or career you dont get a pass because “Im better than that”, you get what you deserve and they get a quick awakening that you arent asleep at the wheel… have to agree… ignoring most realistic best option for someone you cant go no contact with.. but an unexpected payback here and there will remind them you are not a punching bag… and how quickly they realize their mental judo is amateurish.. keep it quick but direct dont get dragged into what they want… too much emotional response. I don’t believe ignore and free pass is way to always go.

I didn't even have to play these videos out loud for mine to get extremely defensive. All he had to do was see the video recommendations on my youtube feed. He just got angry and was like, "Oh you think you're smarter than me or that you know everything because you watch some KZfaq videos?" I was like dude, what if I'm watching them for myself?

I'm finally finished my vengeance, I'd agree that it doesn't feel good and its stupid to alot of people! But after years of abuse from the woman, I do feel relieved to finally get the monkey of my back with the emotional abuse I was getting from a troglodyte

well done!

Well what if they are convicted and sent to jail. Sometimes it’s necessary to expose. Let’s see how they do in jail

Good on you 👍

revenge can be sweet in certain circumstances, bit its one of those things that should be more of a last resort though. and not anything that is illegal of course.

Well put!

Good advice. I just got away from an NPD brother and have been considering sending him a letter enumerating all the ways he lied to me and himself. The truth would send him into a rage, and while part of me would enjoy that, I'm thinking it would accomplish nothing other than setting him toward some kind of revenge.

⁠@@mileshall9235do what I did aith my ex wife and write the letter but never send it, keep it somewhere you can read it anytime your in doubt or flying monkeys are harassing. It’s your truth. Why do we need confirmation and their acceptance? If you hand them the letter they have the blue prints to undo your validation of their torturing within your own self doubt. You don’t need anyone else to make this real or not. But want you certainly don’t need is a narcissist thinking your going to expose all the things you just said to them to the outside world. They don’t spend time working on themselves. They dedicate it to working on the threats of their image. So you giving them the checklist will have them sharpening up the acts in those areas and also slipping in passing comments that will completely undermine your credibility in those areas. You’ll talk to people already prepped and the doubt in their faces will have you do what the narc needed you too. Prove them right, you are fucken crazy and unpredictable. As you start force feeding your truths down their throats. The land mines are set for you to finish yourself off. The narcissist knows you seek external validation as a need to feel accepted. It’s the reason you want to send the letter to someone you have been forced to run from that you know doesn’t care about changing and that knows its wrong. Why else are they different out in the public? You have to change behavior you then confirm you know anyone seeing that from the outside would be disgusted and they would be judged as c”&ts. I don’t have a “home” character and a completely opposite “public “ character as soon as the front door opens. We don’t have a need to hide. The self doubt inside you is all that you fight. It steals your truths and resets all your painful lessons. You have to bring closure to this with no one else’s help. Dig deeper into your own traumas. If you had a narcissistic brother you definitely had a narcissistic parent. I swear my life on it. Your wounds he squeezes werent out there by him. He’s just piggybacking on them. He’s not the first narcissist that hurt you. Find them and learn who you aren’t and you’ll be able to become who you are. 👍

Anyone with NPD, should be banned from leadership roles, teaching or mentoring, politics, military, police, commercial passenger driving/flying, and firearms.

Very well said

The smiling NO is sinister to them lol 😂 but it burns them up

Yep. If you must respond make it short and to the point . Yes , no, (or smiling no if you wanna make them super mad lol), ugh huh , ok , another that irritates mine is when I refuse to be drug into their reality and I will say that may be your reality but the one I’m in happened very differently.

Thank you...🤝💯🙏

God sod

There's a saying in Spanish that goes, dios Los averguenza.

This is a cop out. God is Santa Claus for gullible adults. YOU are in control of your life. It's YOUR choices that influence how it goes. YOU choose to move past hurt and abuse. If you are going to attribute it to some god, then you must also attribute the bad, and now you are worshiping a sadist. No thanks, I'll guide my own path through life and not rely on superstitions to make my decisions. This is part of growing up and being a functioning, responsible adult.

Not walk away but RUN! and never look back

I didn't say anything. I blocked them and walked away. No contact ever again, that's the healthiest option for me 😊

@@ben393 Ditto, did the same! I'm the second eldest of 4 daughters, "3 believe the Narcissistic sister" It hurt at first, but I don't feel anything for them except pity now! They are her flying monkeys and she has manipulated and used them for her selfish purposes as I watched. I knew better than to interfere. I wanted to but, knew what the end result would be. Also, some of her shadiness I realized after the fact!

Depending on the narc you’re dealing with, they may become angry & violent if you tell them you don’t like them. I’ve inadvertently found that I’m really good at REPELLING narcs, and aside from the ones I was karmically-assigned to as family, narcs won’t try to keep me around (anymore). The two “strategies” that seem foolproof and SAFE are: 1) Inquisitiveness 2) Aloofness I don’t know a single narc who’s willing to answer questions or elaborate on a response to help someone understand something-that would constitute an act of SERVICE, and narcs serve NO ONE (they might pretend to, in order to obtain something they want), esp. if they think that person is below them. I’m naturally both of the things mentioned above, so I can’t turn it off. 😂 If you really need for the narc to leave YOU first, I encourage you to inhabit the persona of someone who’s curious & clueless-it’s always worked like a charm to make narcs want to avoid me. They’ll come back if you’re a helpful empath, so don’t offer them anything, either. Your kindness & helpfulness come at an exorbitant cost to your well-being, so if you must, make sure you’re being compensated in some way. By requesting reciprocation, they might retract their request (or more likely, demand).

This comment made me think of a movie that I saw recently: "The Banshees of Inisherin." Great movie/story.

Respectfully?I assume, just say it polite, that's it.

Can't do that if you have kids with them!!!!!

I thought I had cut my evil narcissist brother out of my life 36 years ago after he was vicious and vindictive at a particularly tragic crisis in my life but he still keeps popping up. I refused to have anything to do with him. He would phone me regularly to the point where I would not answer the phone unless I knew who it was. He still continued to send me Xmas cards, I ignored them. Then he would 'just happen to be passing' and bang on my front door. We live 60 miles away from each other. I tried to be pleasant but as usual within 5 minutes he would be nasty, sneering, putting me down, critcising everything and everyone conected with me. Our contact got less and less but there was forever that threat that some day he would pop into my life again. I moved house and didn't tell him, changed my phone number and my email address. Within 6 months he had tracked me down and the cards started up again. Implying yet again that he knew where I lived and at any time he could enter my life whenever he wished. Which 5 years later he did. Banged on my front door one Sunday morning. I had had enough. I really let fly at him and told him exactly what I thought of him I was so angry, how dare he invade my life yet again. As usual I was the one who was mentally unstable, that was a favourite put down of his whenever his relationships failed, I was bitter and twisted, I was sad and deranged and needed professional help. He then wrote me a letter saying he could not understand why I was so unnecessarily angry and they he expected to be welcomed the next time he 'was passing by'. I wrote a very long letter back detailing what he had said and done over 80 years with regard to me, my mother, my husband and how utterly nasty and insufferable he had been and that he would never change. Threatening legal action if he ever contacted me again ( he is a very rich and successful solicitor). I have heard nothing since. Maybe now the worm has turned I have finally got him out of my life.

Good advice ✌✌

This is very true.. but ibdi have a toddler with him. And he does not have a safe place to take her and his patience isnt at a level for a toddler. So I do have to have in my home in order too see her. As I'd never get in the way of their relationship unless he became toxic. Dont get me wrong he is no dad if the year.. its more to look good for people around him as he doesnt see his other 2 children now I've been discarded. As I see his 2 children as my own, they still come and sleep at my house. He has the option to come too. I feel so much lighter, happier and at peace and powerful. It's been 13 years if this. And I've never felt like this before this sense of realisation now I know about narcissistis and that is him. Being able to learn and understand that I wasnt crazy and it was all tactics. Has made it alot easier thus time to start my healing process. But I do struggle that because we do have a childs he does still think he has the rights to me.. even when I grey rock, be distant.. but also I take my girls feeling into consideration I want her too see us get along so I think that's very I'm important especially with her being so young.. when she is older she will see it for her self like his other children have. But I'd never be the one to get in the way. I get along with the mums. We actually have a very good situation one I'm very proud of. But he dies "treat" me "better" as I know I'm his grade A supply. Not in bug headed way. But it's like a unconditional love from my end like how woukd be with my children. He dies think he owns me and because I do have to be around him and act ok infront if my girl it gives him his supply from me. And I dont want him to feel bad. But I also dont like being his supply. As right now in his head he has it good. Moved out and left us because im becoming homeless so we wasnt giving him what he needed from me a place to live. He knows he can not ask me for money when he doesnt help with any if his children. He has sorted him self out got a place and left us. I'm happy about that. God has done this to show me the truth. And I do have wobble days as its only been since this January but i do wake up and thank god everyday for my strength and for giving me the answer to my question I had for 13 years does he love me or am I just a bed and fanny as my mum put it 😂 (she said it to make me laugh not malicious) and that saying actually helped me as it was true. I know not to be jealous of anything that's comes his way.. after educating my self with these videos I've realised this isnt me as much as he says it's all my fault but it's his way to cope with life. Not just mental abuse bit physical as well. We had a court case in 2015 as much as i didnt want too but i was scared this man is going to un alive me if i dont do something. That mind of abuse didnt stop but stopped enough that stupidly as it sounds enough to deal with (hiar pulling strangulation, pushing over, very extreme sexual stuff) which now I know was abuse. I just struggle with still being his supply as ibdo have to be around him. I know there are contact centres but he wouldn't show up and my girl adores him. He doednt do anything other sit in the sofa or try it on with me (until I put a boundary in place) he doesnt always show up on his day now or he will ask to show up more I think when he needs to he around me it makes him feel safe. I know hes more around because of me than our child.. or too my nine biological children (which I do not see them as that at all! But for the purpose of this message to not confuse) I'd really love to be able to speak to someone who is experiencing that same situation as me? I'm healing, we are much happier, my toddler is acting out but I totally understand why she has had her dad around every day to sometimes not all. I think she is worried if dad can mum might. I'd never she is my absolute world and her feelings come before my situation with her dad. He does not and if I try and out another boundary in place or try and make him take accountability for him discarding us at a time when we needed him. He will not show up out of shame, which I've realised its shame. He is smearing my name how he has "lost" his family, lost his job, homeless (he homed him self asap) its us who will be in a bedsit and potentially put out of our county and if not homed by the council as I can not afford private alone my landlord has to take me to court to get me out, otherwise the council wont help me as "I've made my self homeless" ridiculous I know but it's real. I feel like my life is a Jeremy kyle show atm. Yet he is saying how he will un alive hims self to doctors and the job centre in order to not have to work, my guess is so he doednt have to contribute towards his children and also make my life harder as I can not afford to be in this house alone. Another way to be able to control me and hope I suffer which I am but when you have been abused for a long period of time you can put on a convincing smile which I do around him. Sometimes it irritates him and sometimes he likes it. I struggle with all the sexual things he made me do. And when I found out I am going to be homeless and was so depleted and feeling scared of being in a hostel and out of my area miles away (worst case) he got highly aroused by my sadness and brokenness. And that made me question all the thing he done to me in the past and how he would try/make me feel while sometimes doing the dead. Not always but on our nights of when he needed that kind of full attention and I coukdnt say no. And he got off on that so woukd push and push too see/try and make me uncomfortable of the type of things he would ask for.. He cheated, lied, beat me, emotional abuse, isolated me.. even now I am isolated. Even now I woukdnt even dare speak to another guy (not that I want too) and worry for the day I do. Yet he is out doing the most yet making out like this whole situation is my doing. I'm being made homeless. I can not help that and he chose to sort him self out and not come back for us nor to help. Which now I know about narcissistis its actually quite normal. I dont have anyone to talk too. I have started therapy my first session is the 8th of April. Which is also my eviction date. But as I said I am not allowed to leave until I am homed or my landlord take me to court and I'll get a court fine. It's really harsh situation by its self let alone trying to heal from a narcissist. My landlord is some what understanding. As he wants to sell his property die to living crisis and not being able to afford this house.. which is fare enough. If it was upto us I'd hand over they keys and wish him good luck.. bit the council will not allow that. They are trying to make it bitter towards us. Yet weve had a good landlord tenant relationship. I can not wait to be out of this house, and a new chapter, new home, fresh start and not have my narc feel like he still owns this house. As my next one with just be mine and our children's. I'm sure then that's when the hoover will happen so I am just trying to make my self string enough to not be fooled by it as I have been discarded stupidly amount of times to the point it scares me how I allowed it. I take my blame in allowing this too happen. But my eyes opened when I saw youngest pick up on walking on egg shells. And him ignoring her when she would be saying good morning after he had got up. True heart brake is watching your child's heart brake and i know it will. And i feel bad but i will not be the reason why and doing it at this time I'm hoping she will not remember it as much whe she is older as once I'm homed and the hoover does not work that's when he will be gone for good. But he will be unhappy trying to find me in everyone he meets. I hated who inwas how loving, loyal (never even spoke or went on a date, messages nothing on my discards. One out of fear and 2 because that is not my morals, when I love I love. But when I'm done I'm done!) So I have faith. Sorry for this s.a just it's easy for people to say just get over it.. but I'm someone who cant not straight away. For me it was real. No matter how un real it was now I've learnt the word narcissist.

Un biological children*** I see my un biological children as mine too. Typing error.

Ill definitely try this i have narcissists at work and in my family and its very draining and i have suicidal tendencies because of dealing with these sick "people"

@@thecringeistoostrong hope you can survive them. I got ulcers from mine.

@@aliaskong1723 I tried it today at work and they made other coworkers and bosses (they even made my "friends" convert to be a narcs and now they try to gaslight me and tell and laugh to the other coworkers and bosses and i have only complained about it a few times to a few coworkers and they instantly told everyone that i dont like it and then the bosses said "who cares" and now everyone just gossips about me infront of my face and eveyone disrespects me and this is killing me i cannot heal from this for a long while or im still surviving with these abuses at work and at home and i hope you will survive yours aswell😇 I think i might got ulcers aswell from starving myself and not drinking because of this

@@thecringeistoostrong Don't punish yourself for those narcissist. They are the one's lacking, not you.

Is Trump a narcissist?

😂😂

Truer words ever said! Ignorance is bliss. I let my narcissistic stepmom talk like a vengeful, crazy person in public. All of that by saying things on how to torture us. The strangers can judge for themselves.

They hate themselves deep down and will NEVER be at peace. Their ego always needs to be stroked because they’re broken, sad, insecure, and miserable.

So nice 👏👍👍👍👏

Kkk

I exposed my narc ex as well. I'm really not a vindictive person, but sometimes, people need to be checked and put in their place and I don't think exposing them (especially since you're the one telling the truth about who they really are) is necessarily a bad thing. I kept all receipts from my narc ex and told them I had the entire text thread from our relationship and could damage them severely with what I had on them, so if they wanted to play with me, bring it on. Some pretty embarrassing material could end up getting "leaked." No contact and no problems since then. If they don't start none, there will be none.

😅😅😅😅😅😅

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Smooth!!!!

Too right I was finally getting better and feeling ready to go back out he turned up - I feel quite setback from that one interaction but it also made me more aware of my own flaws and funnily enough drove me back towards GOD I truly believe he is protecting me and I’m making Great changes in the way I am approaching my life. I’m not all the way back to happy & content but I’m working on it and wishing & praying he also has a great future as I need ti not only forgive myself I need to forgive those that have hurt me

nicely played me too it's kinda nice i ignore him he ignores me but he wants me around so i pretend i'm so sad and miserable and my rent gets paid

They SEEK out empaths- that’s where they get their power from. Literally energy vampires that want to drain your good nature🧛‍♀️

Ex did this all the time.. 🙄

Sounds like it could also be that you have bad behaviors that impact people around you and she was trying to express that. Good thing she's the narcissist though.

Very enlightening

Sometimes I wonder who the original narcissist is in the relationship. My partner was overtly controlling but also extremely love bombed me, I ignored all the red flags until he got me to move in and cook and clean and basically mother him then he started being indifferent to my needs until I started acting like the narcissist.

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Yes, they hate happy people so much. Happiness is powerful.

Yes!

Im the postman and im original verry original, I am I, I have no game, they are playing games, and you cannot beat no game with the game

@@Pingvin666 Yes, never play their game, just let them know you don't like games and let not what they do get to you. Make yourself the end of the line for their games.

It’s hard but you got this. Me too. Second time I’ve been apart from him after I let him Hoover me. During the time we were back together I took the opportunity to get a lot of evidence of his infidelity and also some shady business dealings so he now knows I’m not being the bigger person this time and will expose him to who I need to. Also got a domestic violence order against him and called his bluff when he taunted me that I wouldn’t call the police when he turned up at my place and started being intimidating. I asked the police to just give him a formal warning so as not to make him too angry but he couldn’t control his anger about it at the police station and they made the decision to charge him for the breach of the order. He is now of course blaming me for him being charged. The policeman said to me “ if he can’t keep his cool in front of a police officer then I can only imagine how he is with you at home” It felt so good to be believed after having him convince everyone that I had the problem and not him. I recorded the last intimidation and gave the video to the police which was also why they believed me. I’m taking it one day at a time right now and just wanted to let you know that you are not alone and things will get better for us all. Stay strong. X❤

She had the grandchildren,5 yrs. Old singing a song about how I was a pussy, and has a vagina, I thought that is the lowest I've seen a person go

That remind me kids at school. They can be really cruel if no adult stop them, it could ends with traumas or more suicide! The narc are build the same with no empathy. They're just going to push you and make you suffer for they own pleasure. Now I get it why they call it "disorder"! They are functionning but not properly 🤯 I'm a 6'3 and 229,2 pounds athletic black man. Trust me I'm scared of what the adult society gives credit for to a woman not knowing they are narcissist ones! I really need to protect myself by disappearing !

Mu ex did this and even posted "anonymous " in FB groups targeting me, calling me.a narcissist. She left a fatal clue it was her, lol. She posted this the day I went exclusive with my then new GF. She blocked all my social media but the day I changed my status to in relationship and my profile was me and my GF, the smear campaign was posted. She either has a fake profile or a spy in my social media.

Pray for her.

💯 Given how toxic (and inescapable) the home environment is as we’re growing up, those of us who realize early on that it’s NEVER about us, are the relative lucky few. 🙏 Though I’m a minority in society who’s not understood, I don’t think I could’ve survived my upbringing, had I not been an INTJ-everyone else I knew seemed to be codependent in some capacity, but I’m just not wired that way.

That's amazing. I was very forgiving. I knew they were the sick ones but that doesn't mean the constant barage of insults and cruelty didn't effect me longterm.

Oh now that’s HILARIOUS 😂🤣😭. I wishhh I had that opportunity

I read this and worry I was a narc. I feel this still cos I realise how badly I acted. Determined to keep this level of self awareness now and not let my ego run me and control my emotions better.

Your dealing with one!

I was already saw what she was in the begginning, i am the same but true, im building my life as good as I can when im with them, im destroying them with my energy, this is a trill for me

True

So true!!

I make the mistake and told her I am in love with her.She told me to grow up and discard me.

I told a friend who's a narc that I liked him n he used it against me

Too late for me 😢😢😢😢

Nope. You can withdraw it.

😅😅..I can't wait to expose my ex..he's gonna try and reach out and ask why would I do that but he's already blocked and I live in a different city 😅😅

Faced with a similar situation 😢

Same

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You'll be alright; but dont forget what you learned!❤

I know exactly how you feel because I can see the little girl that was traumatized by her father and it saddens me to think that I abandoned her but I didn't abandon her she forced me to leave. It took me awhile, but I add an epiphany.. God's plan is perfect and everyone's doing the best they can.. Because... Psychologically emotionally healthy people don't wake up one day and say "I want to be a serial killer" it doesn't happen like that. The reason why they behave the way they do is because they honestly cannot see that it is wrong. They are literally doing the best they can.

I had to do the same thing with my brother and sister. I'm their 70:s and I finally got tired of walking on eggs.

U are not stupid for loving someone. Don't beat yourself up. Give yourself the friend called time. He is not capable of love. Just a small angry child that will never mature. No talking, no calls, no contact and no reading their texts. They start loving you, saying sorry and then if u don't response, they attack. Stay away. Stay strong.

I had to put that clause in the divorce decree,,, no bad mouthing the other parent to the child, because I know how he is, so he blamed and badmouthed me t everyone else but my son...dumbass thought I wouldn't hear about it from these same people, he was pissed his free ride was over

This is your who? Fiancé you said? YOU BETTER NOT! 😳

@@franco2b145 He actually texted me on January 2nd...

Like what? I'm onto one right now, so going to try it

So true

No shame no boundaries, will sleep with anyone and anything. Soulless demons.

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You simply saying these words out loud, are SO SO POWERFUL!!! I can honestly say that I have never known a narcissist personally who was able to admit their wrongdoings. I applaud you sir and wish you the best on your journey🩵🙏🏼

F yes!😂

Thank you!

I am so stealing this! Going to use this before I block her- POWERFUL words that will ring true in her head till the end of her time.👏👏👏👏

I can see what you’re saying and it’s always important to be self-aware.🩵although- It’s “overused” because so many people are finally realizing and understanding what this mental disorder is and the harm it causes so many.

AMEN. Take care of your emotions by submitting unto the Holy Spirit on a daily basis,don't judge or accuse them. Just go silent , ignore and don't talk negatively of anyone.Let the Lord cover you, take control of your thoughts and words. You can do all things,live with all kinds of people through Christ who enables you. Be strong in the Lord Jesus Christ.i suffered foe long but now take the full armour of God for protection and has made it simple and possible .Jesus prayed for us to the Heavenly Father that He God protect us from the evil one.

I am so sorry. Prayers for a reconciliation

I'm sorry. Similar situation with my daughter through my brother.

@@di_decaire I'm sorry for you! The pain is unimaginable I know!

@@nancylillycollier9669 Thank you!

If/when your daughter sees your character for what it is, then she’ll return to you. If, however, she happens to be a narc herself and is a poor judge of character (or just isn’t in a healthy place), then she will likely remain estranged, but always remember that no matter the relationship, we’re only on loan to one another. It may even be possible for you to have a non-related daughter figure, where you can play out & fulfill the roles that nurture you reciprocally. Stay open to the possibilities, as you might be the mother another woman has never had, which may help to heal the pain of your estrangement. If your daughter isn’t able to understand that sharing the news w/ your sister wasn’t meant w/ malicious intent, then she hasn’t tried to put herself in your shoes. Who knows what the future will bring, but do stay open to any and all possibilities for filling that need to be a mother to a daughter.

She must reflect something/feelings that you're used to. There's a comfort level somewhere with her.

Yes they have a super talent for reading you, hence the mirroring. However their emotional intelligence is zero so they will consistently underestimate you and be blown away when you go no contact.

Talk to her. Maybe just show her this message. She might not even know she is driving you away. Woman are very emotional while men are more logical. My husband and I fight but we always talk about why and try to fix it. Ten years. I don't give up. I hope you and your wife can get along better.

Take some time away if you can. Clear your head.. If you want to keep in touch do it on YOUR terms.

Ignore the comment saying to talk with her about it, that's for normal people. These ones just use everything you share with them against you and they're not ignorant, they purposely treat you poorly.

Wow

OMG 😲 😡🤬😓😪😢😭

Wow!!!