If I think I'm an ENTP and never feel envious, is this because: 1- I am not an ENTP ( maybe INTP!! the endless battle ) 2- My Nurturing ( religious ) inhibits such a feeling 3- Nobody is happier than me in the town (an IT man in underdeveloped country !!) 4- Even people around me are happier because of concrete things (money, cars, travel, ....) of wich I do not care 5- I'm stoic, and I take things philosophically, can any one help !!

Now based on my own personal experience, I thought ESFJ’s to be worse than ENTP’s in hating to see people happy

There is no such thing as happiness only the absence of misery great quote.

I'm exposed again. I relate, as per usual, deeply. Feels like I have nothing to show for the last 9 years of hard work and discipline. Put off all the things I wanted to do and did what I "should" do. Broke, in debt, not much talent, not financially independent, not married, no children. If I were a man, I'd leave to join monks living in the mountains spending my time mainly in prayer and in service. The more knowledge and wisdom I gain, the more I realize I know nothing at all!

I really needed to hear this. Literally last night i got all emo envy about my child hood friend out of Yale making 200 a year. This was the camaraderie slap i needed

I have had a simular struggle with the deadly sin of vanity/vainglory. I for a while, got caught up constantly feeling scared with Se inferior of how other people see me, or worrying about what others think of me in terms of what i have achieved. I wanted everyone to see me as hardworking, smart, capable and strong from my achievments. This made me feel ashamed at myself for not being recognised as these things, and out of that se fear of failure, and the vainglory desire to save face, I sorta took a more Yin/feminine role with everyone, trying not to stand out to much, unless i knew i was doing better than other people at something, and focusing more on looking good to others rather than actually being good. I didn't realise that this 'looking good', and comparing myself to others, was actually inhibiting me from being my normal, self-determined, self-reliant, direct, masculine INTJ self. But I am now taking on this new point of view, that it doesn't matter what others think of me as much as what i know about myself. Instead of letting other's views of me determine what i do and how I value myself, I will be masculine and let my own desires and values determine what i do and how I value myself. I WILL be successful. Reality will just have to bend itself to MY will, not the other way around. Others WILL think highly of me, I will MAKE it happen by being someone worth thinking highly of. And I don't need you to think highly of me to do well anyway. I'm doing thinks my way now, irregardless of how you view it or if you reject me. I won't budge even if you have to kill me. I am the determining factor, not you. BTW, chase, this sort of thinking is why I still believe Ni is the masculine cognitive function, not Se. Extroverted functions in general are more yin and feminine, as they are determined by others outside of yourself. Se inferior for example is determined by how others view me, and their confort levels with me. Introverted functions on the other hand, are self determined and self enforcing. They also affect and change others through the extroverted functions. It's just that pessimistic Ni is more masculine than optimistic Ni, and Se inferior is way to feminine for an INTJ to be more masculine than the other 3 most masculine types, since it forces us to worry more about our appearance to others than our own will.

Man you've came a long way to this stage of your life , this is so inspiring and you're so powerful

Thank you for a very interesting video. I am looking forward to descriptions of other types from you. It was really fun to watch and listen to your stories about your father and general. I am also waiting for other channels. Nice to know somehow that not only we-infp are banged on the kettle. Good luck fighting your jealousy. P.S. Happiness doesn't depend on how much you do, but on the "being" state. P.S 2 - Apparently your conclusion is real. We must turn our lethal sin into our lethal plus and live with it constantly. My sin as an infp is laziness for sure, so I will live for the rest of my life with the fact that I do not want to but "have to". I look forward to hearing the rest of the picks from you. Thanks for sharing all of this.

always love listen to you bro, take care! love from argentina

I remember when I had to get out of my personal hell. Now I'm trying hard not to waste my efforts on something useless again. The video helped me get a better look at this kind of situation, so thanks again Joseph :D

Enjoyed the video Chase! Not a entp but I can relate to feeling un motivated for anything. Partner seems unmotivated with personal goals. Currently I pick up , put it down for my own set personal goals. Don't see any progress then I stop. It's neverending and a feeling of emptiness in spiraling void.

Truth leads to sorrow and bitterness only lies are safe and comfortable, but you know it

i relate heavily to your fitness/food journey gripes, grew up with ED, extremely frustrating, to try so many things that are just dead ends.

If you are wondering why Eric thor stopped anticipating in the discord server maybe that video that he recorded about a month ago will clarify your point of view about his previous actions idk 🤔

good call on not drinking in front of your kids. I wish everyone understood that it's really disturbing.

im an ENFJ, used to eat a lot of fried potatoes, was very skinny and food made me sick, i'd get nauseous eating, so weak standing is painful. i was trying to figure out why i got so damn tired every time after i ate. i couldnt exercise bc id be so tired, then id eat, but then id be so tired again, if i forced it id feel sick. i couldnt get wight despite exercising, i wasnt really eating enough, but whenever id force myself to eat more i got this weird feeling of crystals flowing throughout my veins. i also started getting more and more cavitives and this time my tooth cracked on a hard black ball in a potato. that tooth got worked on multiple times but even after root canal the abscess stayed and kept spreading through my brain. all my teeth were hurting constantly and felt like cracking glass shards. i learned sunfwlower oil makes diabetes worse and causes damage in ur body. i did notice change when not eating anything with sunflower oil. i was less tired and my mind was faster without it. the pain was only increasing for a month along with cognitive decline until i stopped eating starches, that means potatoes, bread, rice, legumes, anything with enough starch. carrots were ok. i only ate meat vegetables. this is how i'd stopped my tooth pain before. the pain from my brain and teeth started decreasing day by day. until it was almost gone. only at that point it started decreasing. the problem is i dont get enough calories bc i dont eat enough fat but i dont eat enough fat bc it makes me extremely nauseous, and the viscosity of butter triggers my tongue and jaw muscles into spasming. no butter for me. i also read that raw unsalted cheese (which u can make urself) absorbs toxins from bile juice in the liver which gets released when ur body needs to digest fat, and they make u nauseous, while damaging ur body until they get reabsorbed back into the liver. unsalted raw cheese absorbs those toxins and makes u less nauseous. when i ate it with the fat it did make me less nauseous. i have an obese xNFJ friend who only started losing weight when replacing his carbs with meat and animal fat. i still think ppl should eat some raw fruit and vegs, but whatever works for whoever i guess. also be careful with rapidly changing ur diet, for example eating one week keto one week carbs. and be mindful of how ur body reacts. bc some guy said his brain stopped working when he went keto, but he kept eating that way, until he learned theres some kind of condition some ppl have that theri brain doesnt get calories on a fat diet, and he couldnt fix it even after eating carbs or smth. this sounds so shitty right now lmao its like whatever u do its wrong. but what has worked for me is to eat mostly animal fat for calories, and u need meat proportionally with it (dont count macros i do it by feeling. like if i take a bite of fat my body starts craving meat then i bite meat then it wants fat). i am still underweight since in my coutnry almost no one sells animal fat, except for butter. and the ppl who do sell the fat are not getting in contact with me.

I will preface this by saying I have no ill intent and love and appreciate you as a person. I don't particularly agree with all of the things you said regarding your motivation, but that is your experience and I'm perfectly fine with my INFP perspective being different or even wrong for ENTPs. I think the "no such thing as happiness" line was just an edgy thing to say. Personally, I've known more ISTJs to be edgelords and ENTPs to be cringelords, respectively (I find their cringe pretty endearing, actually). The sadness/bitterness of these two types seems to present differently, and when you said that phrase I cringed rather than rolled my eyes. I've steeped in much bitterness and sadness in my life with a sprinkle of envy here and there. I even had the same belief that happiness wasn't real. I was quite wrong. December to now has been the most challenging time of my life, yet I've been blissful every day of the last 2 months without fail. I apologize if this triggers envy or presents as smugness as that is also not my intent. I mean to say that our experiences intersect in a few areas and that I've managed to find what I had stopped looking for. Finally, I didn't like the mohawk at first, but those saw blades go hard! Agape to you once more, good sir. Peace.

i feel like i struggled with this from the perspective of authenticity i always said to people that happy was fake

in the same way that you are cultivating a psychological knowledge base for individuation so to must we cater to our own specific digestive needs, i had a problem with starch foods, my body identified starch as a toxin which created alot of flu like symptoms as well as excessive weight gain.

Thank you for these insights, Chase. I look forward to learning more on how the primary sins line up for the other types. Envy: ENTP/ISFJ Vanity: ESFP/INTJ Sloth: ESFJ?/INTP? Greed: ENTJ?/ISFP? Gluttony: ENFP?/ISTJ? Wrath: ESTJ?/INFP? Lust: ESTP?/INFJ? Pride: ENFJ?/ISTP?

commenting down just for CSJ to read this, and so he will like and heart it. 1.i wonder if he will, only one way to find out.

I am in a similar boat, also an ENTP and also watched Dr Berg. I went on low carb; high-fat, moderate protein diet, I lost 10kgs in few months with no workouts. However, I am working on getting a proper job so that I can move to my own place and escape my religiously controlling family. background: I am 25; CS Grad; learning blockchain tech; stuck in momma's basement; country: IN.

Dispair rather than depression. That makes sense. I'm going to have to read Dr. Berg's book again. I'm having a lot of trouble losing my last 25lbs. Nothing that I've been doing to lose my previous 100lbs is working now. Do you (or anyone else) have any other reading recommendations to help? I've been trying to lose this last 25lbs for 6 months now, and its getting really frustrating. I count calories, weigh my food, balance my macros, workout 3-5 days a week, plus walk at least 10,000 steps a day. It's all stopped working.

Wow you are working through a lot here. Good example to all of us about taking out our trash. Really liked what the gentleman said About you not giving up through failure. I feel and think that is why I respect your content over others. smashing this and the lying video together after some reflection, a couple things. One is that I think your offense/defense Dichotomy on the thumbnail might be better direction than where the discussion may have landed. I do think truth tellers are not accepted and intuitive truth tellers the most obviously because of the forward gaze into the future. so I think it is wise to have a mechanism to deal with this reality. Combining that with The 4d Look at envy, I see it as it as a utility and a benefit that God gave you. The truth that stands before you is the difference between transmutation which is surface deep and transformation which is complete necessary change. Depth psychology can only go so far Without God. Instead of envy and lying being a friend or an excuse they are good built in tools Which are the kindness of God to find away a path out of the temptation to give into those things. Instead used properly as a tool offensively intentionally with awareness transformation can occur. At this critical juncture don’t cheapen it, don’t counterfeit it. Don’t let the cruelty of your father who is only human blind due to the amazing grace and love of God who has been guiding you all along. If you could grasp this message your entire life can change, And you can find joy, finally, and respectfully use envy and vainglory as a tool and an entertainment style. also why I enjoy watching you over other somewhat similar content. Finally, systemization Is available by finding those pathways. And therein is your strength! Not that things will be perfect on this earth but you could be as optimized as possible following the exact pathways that God intended for you before you were born. you are so stinking close why not go the whole way. instead of trying to make your inferior totally optimized why not realize that the optimization of it is to serve exploration and systemization. When everything is in that order then the flow of your life will all snap into place, again not perfectly but in a holistic functioning way. then you won’t have the cortisol as high then you will not be pushed so hard by evil forces and temptations. then your exploration your systems and your Systems will be the life force inside of you and then your style can still be saucy rogue and jealous but used as a tool to convey the systems and the exploration. any audience you have gain and retain is because of people who see this is who you really are. I dare you to step out of the shadows and into the light. Face your potential. Admit fully the truth to yourself. Enjoy being loved by your community. and wipe all of the traces of New Age counterfeits out of your business and sweep and clean all of that junk away. None of that makes anyone in your life right but God. Nobody else gets credit but you and the almighty for your original design realizing itself through the kindness of his architecture revealing truth to you.

Enneagram 4 has the vice of envy.

can't wait to see deadly sin of infj...whats it gonna be? some SE shit like LUST? I'd love to hear though from joseph how to navigate that and embrace what is when it comes to that, lets goooooo

You’re making me want to go buy a cigar hahahah

what's SE demon even good for? just a genuine question

Wait what’s this Eric Thor drama 😂😂😂@2:00

It sounds to me like being led by envy causes one to not be very greatful for the things one already has.

I YET didn't figured it out what's Discord for and how to use it

Dr Berg is great! He's an INFJ btw ;) He's pretty professional but his INFJ-ness leaks out here & there in playful sarcasm or how he can't stand toxic passive-aggressive ppl lol

You ENTPs are dark, you really don't give two good Fs. To one extent or another this applies to all you SFJs and NTPs, but I love you, still.

Dang I missed it...Ne way...

The minute I get into discord group somebody kicks me out right away. Idk why

He mentioned a discord server but no invite on description, can someone post one

I wanna have gaia cool status 😎

Why does the discord server keep asking me if I am human and not let me in?

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Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding proverbs 3:5 Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” Mathew 19:14 CSJ if you truly believe it is your calling to sit in despair and overcome Envy then I respect that because I respect you. However, in this world of blessings maybe understanding the victory you have in Christ will take away your pain and give you all you ask? Heaven needs Doughboys. I'm a useless Doughboy of a man right now but I know I have victory in Christ. You can't account for all the pieces. Have a little faith. Unless this is what it means to bear your cross? I believe this will be well recieved and pray that even in my jesting The Holy Spirit will speak through it and to you. Let these feelings of despair and envy turn to gratitude and happiness toward others. In Jesus mighty name Amen. Love you man, keep doing what your doing it's awesome.

entp are hard to understand not just cuz they are rare but also they are wearing mask by default , so its really hard to know their real self maybe they dont know themselves too lol that also remind me of my entp friend who was on a trip with her family and they went to a park where her cousin got in a fight with other girls so they started to punch each other and kick all of that and my entp friend just watched them from afar laughing with a handsome guy , he came to stop the fight and she took the chance to flirt with him forgetting about her cousin fighting 😂😂 after that her uncle asked her why she didnt have any marks like the others she said i was focusing on my goals , really entp are the best at making jokes

Get on the TRT man

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