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1. Assertive = attractive 2. Slow, comfortable movements 3. Speak slowly, with downward inflection 4. Non-reaction seeking body language 5. Hold eye contact 6. Use of high-conviction words (being sure of yourself) 7. Leadership Looking to be the best man I can be. Grow each day, even if it is 1%!

I tried these tactics on a girl at my college. She turned out to be a feminist lesbian. My court date is next Thursday. Thanks, Marni.

1. Slow, comfortable movements 2. Speak slowly, downward inflation, use pauses, 3. non-reaction seeking body language 4. Have Eye contact (2-3sec) 5. Use high convince words. ×-I hope to, I wish to, √- I will ×-would you like to go to my home after party √-Hey, lets go to my home after party 6. Lead the situation, be a leader.

Marni, something occurred to me just now. What you are doing is helping men around the world regain their masculinity. Something that is woefully lacking in the world today. THANK YOU.

Video starts at 2:57 Thank you all for the support!

Marni’s information❤You are using ideas that affect conscious and subconscious awareness. Keep at it. Keep working. You have NOTHING to lose if you’re really interested.She may be dismissive at first ,maybe even for several weeks. Modern cellphones are a godsend. You can compose/ edit so many things in Notes… sending texts….Persistent, playful flirting ,confidence, pulling back are essential things. Thanks Marni.

I'm so terrible with women. I definitely need your help Marni. I have no friends anymore as i've gotten older but am trying to be successful in life, but just missing a woman in my life. Thank you so much sis lol.

Well, that was encouraging! It's nice to have the knowledge about women I've gained during my 60 yrs here affirmed. Thanks Marni, every little bit of knowledge gained on the topic of women is a good thing, especially when put into action in everyday life.

I took off my limitations and went out for the first time... was it luck or did I MAKE it happen? You taught me how to be myself. Comfort is a powerful place to come from. Young and older women actually looked at me. I was my best self and it works. I had more fun today talking to a beautiful younger woman who I would have never approached before. She won't stop texting me... I am falling in like with myself

Hi Marni Wing girl! Just recently found you and I’m blown away for many reasons… number one is how you sell yourself. Sure, your content is amazing but it’s how how you present the content that pulls me in… they basically hang on every word. So I recently got on your drip email list. Not really a drip but more like a flood of way too many emails and I have to watch them all which takes up so much time. For now I unsubscribed from them and just practice applying your suggestions. I’m 62 and been married three times. So I got at least three girls to say yes … man what a trip.. the eye contact is what I’m committed to practicing for sure and asserting myself. Almost likely end up hiring you and going deeper later on but for now I just enjoy watching you’re enthusiastic presentation 😊

I absolutely love your uploads, thank you for this Marni ☺️

I came to Marni's channel for tips , now I'm staying cause she has the cutest voice ever !!

All theses videos help me with my dating I can’t think you enough for all your videos and help ❤️😁

Yay! A new video!!!

Hello Marni, The belts you promoted appeared stylish and convenient. As a result, I'm going to do some research on these belts. Thank you for sharing!

I like your smile marni love you🥰 keep posting more.

Marni you are brilliant, I am already doing some of the things you have talked about, like not using I hope we can, but the more positive, we are going to. The talking down one I will have to practice on continuously though.

Recently, I've been working on my confidence and it seems to be going well. I mean, I do have my flirting moments, but sometimes, I can be a little insecure. Overall, I think I'm doing good.

Oh you rock this is right on everything you're saying is so right on I'm going to send this one out

Hey Marni, I just wanted to say, I love your videos! Thanks for making them :)

Thanks again for your attention to detail.

First of all thank you very much for making your videos and helping everyone out. Second this is why most men give up on women because we have so many hacks, tricks, clues, etc us men have to learn. Women just have to be fit, feminine and friendly along with being cooperative. That's it!!! No hacks no secrets etc. Smh women

Thank you very much marni ;⁠)

True everything is in the delivery, have a good week

Good stuff. Thanks!

When you said the word "masculine", so many things clicked for me. Someone else on youtube finally defined masculine energy in a profound way for me... and you saying, (summarized) 'During the moments of first impressions, if a man does anything that strongly makes a woman **feel like she is more masculine than him...' That's the big moment of subconscious disqualification. Marni, I love you so much. How much you're helping me. I did go and find you on CNN!

Great video, thanks Narnia!

Excellent job in this video 😊

Thank you Marni ! I am very slow at every thing I do and still miss out on life's great experience's!

Some great advice here. I kept hearing “most woman want”. Take assertiveness for example. Yes some women do enjoy their man taking the lead and showing his assertiveness when needed, but I also hear many of the of the so called “modern women or “modern feminists” claiming that to be toxic masculinity, with hints of wanting a man that’s assertive when the situation serves her, but toxic when it’s consistent and something doesn’t work out as they wanted. I admit I’m in California where the worst of these self entitled narcissistic women can be found, and therefore my opinion being biased. Thanks for the great videos!

I clicked the Subscribe button, thank you very much, Mistress Marni.!!!

This is really great info thanks

I always find a tone of value from your videos

Absolutely love the way you say the word dictating.

Very well articulated nice job

Great vid!!

Haha 😊 that’s pretty good Marni. I like how you convey your information. As you were going thru your “list” I’m like, yup that’s me. 2…yup I got that one down. 3. A big smile came upon myself upon realizing, “I do all of these things naturally 😊 however, without any of the hot confirmation encouragements that you so eloquently and excitably provided in this video. Haha. So I want to thank you for that. It’s very reassuring. 🙏🏾🌹. I know you’re a very busy woman but the only problem i seem to be having is finding where the hell they’re hiding? It seems the majority of settings im in, there are almost literally no women around?? I can’t work the magic if there’s no women? “So Marni, please tell me, “vare are all de girls?” (Lol tha was my European accent asking you where all the women hiding? Haha. If you happen to get a couple moments free, could you please offer up some really spicy locations that you would say are the most optimal for “doing the dance”. ? If you will 🙏🏾lol Thanks Marni, I’ll admit your kind of growing on me. For a very long time when you or your ads popped up I was I was absolutely irritated and was not in the least bit interested in your advice. But I had a change of heart when I realized “hey this women is actually on my side, which I find very rare in this new female epoch we re in lol. So I figured it was time to show you some well deserved respect and thanks. So, thanks Marni ;). Ps. I will now subscribe and like. Men are a bit hopeless in a lot of these areas, it takes a lot of balls uh um GUTS I meant 😂 to do what you do. And you do appear to work very hard and show a lot of enthusiasm in this work. So ok then. You’re my wing girl. It’s official.

Thanks marni, i love you.

Your Guy Is Incredibly Blessed.🔥

thanks, good video

Oh great.. I've been looking away, talking fast, and not leading. I'm also 5'4". Now I know exactly what I have been doing wrong - every ...single ...thing. Thanks(?) Marni.

Marni. Your videos have helped me find Me. I dont really know how to explain that but they have. As I have told you in past comments, I have found my soulmate. We are going on almost 2 years being together now. 2 years.

"Train your mind to stay calm in every situation", "Be precise with your words and your actions", "Cool, Calm and Calculated" are all winners.

Thanks sweetheart for amazing information 😘😘😘🌹❤

You make really helpful and meaningful content. Thank you! 🤩

This video deserves well over 10k likes

Holding eye contact! Good one. Just don't look stiff. Lol. I learned something from interviewers and journalist how they kind of nod their heads as they are talking or use some gesticulation. I have partial facial paralysis but I can grin a little, so that I do not look like I am in a trance.

Marni your videos inspire confidence... sending you virtual hugs 🤗

I love your videos.

Thanks! 😎

Thank you Marni for making me feel attractive when I assert my want to take mass transit.

Mami, this was on point 🎯 I was assertive watching it .. 😉👌🏼

Just Lost my wife of 22 years. Watching these videos due to being out of the dating game so long. Knowledge is power! Need a little refresher. Lol

Awesome!

Your videos are very awesome and help so much. Your style is one of a kind🦋

So sweet thank you I almost lost my way

The way Marni laughed when she said, I had omelets for breakfast today, always puts a smile on my face 😊

Thank you

Can this be learned? You just described type a personality I've done everything on that list most of my life people just naturally look to follow never thought about it until someone told me.

HELPFULL

I love it when you do that

I’ve worked with developmentally disabled people my whole adult life and many were unable to communicate verbally at all.. there are many ways one can communicate without words even… also with one client in particular he would have episodes if he thought he was being told what to do.. as the woman in video said there’s a HUGE difference between you have to take your pills and asking will you take your pills for me

At 19 years old is when I realized about the eye contact thing i was at the gym working out and me and this girl used to look at each other a lot and no I wasn't the one being a creep lol I straight up caught her looking at me so I looked at her back and held eye contact and she gave me this look like she was questioning something we eventually started talking and she confessed I was the "strongest" man she has met...I know I wasn't physically the strongest there so I know she wasn't talking about strength 😉

Now I know why, at 51 and divorced for 24 years, I'll probably remain single till my dying day. The last woman I was close to was an Alpha female, which I find really attractive. But, just when I thought things were going superbly, she completely cut me off and distanced herself. It f***ed me up. She completely destroyed my confidence. I spent 10 days in a mental hospital and now am taking multiple prescriptions for depression and anxiety.

I need this

I have a question and basically curious- One of my friends has starred a relationship, well he find himself in a weird situation. It’s starred a helping hand for a friend who is a victim of domestic violence. I did say it was weird. Can you have a video on how do deal with that situation, should he run or continue . What guild lines should he keep in mind, or possibility making it worst . Maybe a special video on that subject , I have being looking for answers and questions on this subject. And your honest opinion may help him see what to expect and deal with her.

I can see there are a lot of people that hate on you, for various reasons. And I hope you don't take the haters to heart. But I for one appreciate your videos. And I'll tell you why. There are a lot of people out there who on the daily think to themselves, "Why can't I ever attract anyone? Why does no one ever seem to even see me?" Your videos help. There are a lot of people like me, I'm sure, with Aspergers' Syndrome or elsewhere on the autistic spectrum, who STRUGGLE with seeing and processing simple, natural body language-the mindless flirts, the simple moves, glances and so on-and other social details that neurotypicals take for granted because to most people it just comes naturally, without thinking. (And don't even get me started on eye contact - UGH!) But we who aren't neurotypical actually need to be literally taken by the hand and taught this stuff and walked through the motions, because it is anything BUT natural to us, so thank you for being a teacher. (And don't worry, we get plenty of being laughed at and hated on, too, so you're in good company.) You call them "hacks", and to people who are neurotypical this sounds like "oh you're trying to game the system, you think women can be "tricked", etc., but to people on the spectrum who are frustrated every day with just "normal" social interactions, some of the things you put in your videos do literally seem like life hacks! Little things that make the light go on and give us "ah ha!" moments. And if just one of them can change someone's life for the better, it's been worth it. (Also, I wish I *actually* had a wing girl, and if one of your suggestions actually ends up changing my life for the better, I'll be sure to let you know, haha!)

Thanks 👍👍😀😀

Nice belts on Anson. They have a crocodile belt for $265 I would say its in USD, I will get my Akubra croc hat before looking at belts and the likes. Best thing about anson at a glance is there way of thinking, belts with holes can be so annoying, once the holes are placed in a belt it weakens the belt and forget about making your own holes as it's likely to destroy the belt (I have tried lol so I know this to be fact). Will save the sight for use later on down the track (maybe).

Love from India ❤️

After watching all your videos, which I thank you so much for I've come to the conclusion that love doesn't exist. Thank you for guiding me Marni.

As a moral and intelligent evolved species, that lives in a civilization, we're supposed to be beyond these petty mind games that make love and life difficult. This just proves we're still animals with a long way to go.

Arr, I kinda suck at eyecontact. Tho I sometimes keep eyecontact but I feel uncomfortable and will not be able to pay too much attention and keep eyecontact at the same time. Things to train 😅

Many people will say this is the mindset of an incel, but my thoughts and mindset, perspective has changed recently towards life and the world or reality,, and as i'm sure you know already, people and society will always say that the world or nature, reality, doesn't owe us anything, owes us nothing, that we are not entitled or owed a date or relationship, sex, i like to believe or think that is far more true for men than for women, or just males of almost every animal species on the planet, i like to feel that women or just female animals, are the only gender that are owed or entitled to a date or sex, relationship, mating, relations, companions, etc., because when you are the gender that gets approached or gets advances made on you, gets asked out, hit on, pursued, its like nature, the world, reality is basically handing you dates or relationships, companionship, sex. Women or female animals of most species are guaranteed attention and options from the other sex for simply just existing, men or male animals are not. Many people will disagree and say this is the wrong mindset to have, but thats sure how the world or nature seems or looks like, its like women or female animals are the only gender that are guaranteed or owed, obligated chances at having dates or relationships, sex, mating, companionship, etc. I copied and pasted that from another user and I completely agree with what he said

video starts at 3:00 ... and the answer is assertiveness (being calm, speaking slowly, moving slowly, not jittery etc.)

Third one I watch for today! d: D

These videos change us men's lives keep up the good work your appreciated always god bless.

Yup That's Right Gorgeous !!!😘💜💯

There's many different kinds of attractions, like money attraction physical attraction personality attraction trait or talent attraction etc.

I always look for life recipes. You give recipes in this branch of life as a master. Thanks!

Good stuff…

HEY MARNI, I was in the United States Marines for 6 yrs. most women tell some of my friends If he would just smile, they say I am just so serious guy just Intimidating I think that scares away so what should I do being in Special Operations has made me it this way suggestions. David

I can easily hold eye contact. It's not that hard, you just keep it. But I usually don't do that because I feel like after a few seconds it makes the other person feel uncomfortable, like I'm looking at their eyes for too long, like it's overdone, and maybe a even little creepy. So what's the correct time span? You quickly mentioned 2-3 secs in this video, but maybe that was just for that specific situation. Is it 2-3 secs? 10 secs? Even 30-60 secs? 30-60 seems creepy, but maybe I'm just evaluating it wrong.

Hello Marni, You teach so beautifully, I wish I could join an affordable starting course worth $30 $35. Or else would love to date You to learn from You directly. I learn many things just by watching You beautiful expressions in sync with Your Tips

#1 Looks, money, Height, social status. Check!

Thank you for these videos. I'm in my late 50s and have been twice married and dated many women over the decades. From my experience everything you say is on the money. A relaxed confident man who offers leadership and fun to a woman is gold. I teach this to my sons. Once again thank you.

You are a lovely lady ❤🌹

In other words, don the IDGAF cologne. 1) Find yourself, be yourself, pursuit your interests, and set the simmering fast paced lady-chasing pot on the back burner. Focus on the main course first: you. 2) Pause, and think, before speaking. Always, always, always, good advise... 3) Look people in the eyes. Holding eye contact -within a reasonable amount of time -sets folks apart. 4) Be passionate about...what you're passionate about. IOW, be genuine. Don't wuss out on disagreeing just trying to be a nice guy. Nice guys do finish last. Have a spine, but always be polite. 5) Take charge. Be decisive, yet sensitive too & not dismissive, or inflexible to better ideas, or debates that youve perhaps not considered. You are not an island. Be a leader, but also a man with reason. Doing my best, and hoping for something similar. You're pretty good at this thing Marni, seems to me. Seriously, respect to you.

Marni, do you have any advice for someone with anxiety disorders or are very mildly on the ASD?

I almost always talk with a downward inflection....Be it a question or not....Never knew what a downward inflection was up untill now haha.

Nice .....:) !!!!

I have a qustion Marni I'm disabled I love your channel what do I say to a girl if can't drive I can only take the bus to work or have someone I know drive me what do I say if she asks can I drive.

I'm a songwriter and I can say - changing just a word or two in the lyric makes a decent song into a hit - the same goes for changing a couple of words in your "pick-up" line -

I said it before and I will say it again. She should be paid for her great advice

I ordered you Flit Method and never received it. Months ago.

Still don't understand why there's such a disconnect. Everywhere else, people are complaining about how "troubled" these times are. The "New Normal" lifestyle prevents the old things we once took for granted. This would include flirting and hooking up, for example...pretty much impossible with a surgical mask covering your face, with everyone freaked out by the idea of coming within a few feet of each other. Yet all the dating channels like this, as well as most people who comment on them, completely ignore reality and pretend it's still 2019. Yeah, that would be lovely...doesn't make it real.

Stoic😉

I myself am a little rusty when it comes to talking to the new modern-day woman. It seems like the age of the gentleman has died any guy that is too nice it's automatically disqualified. I have always tried to be loyal just to one woman but at this point in my life nothing is secret anymore so it feels like it's a war of the roses. I have been working on my confidence along with my charisma skills, I feel like I have a lot of women attention , it's just a lot of the women I am around resign in there twenties in which I am in my 30s .

At the most basic (subconscious) level men are screening for sex while women are screening for relationships. At the most basic level a man wants a woman who he can impregnate and who can take care for the child. A woman, on the other hand, wants a man who will stick around to take care of her and their child. She wants a man who can build a great life for her and the children they have.