Why?

@@Ceeradsare you serious 😭

@@Lesbiansawtrap God, are some Cut watchers utterly conventional! The cousin of the father of one’s kid is NOT a blood relative of the woman, so what’s the big deal?

@@Ceeradsfrom the perspective of the daddy, it’s fuckin weird to think your cousin is having sex with your ex-wife with whom you have a child. Sorry if you think that fucked up situation is normal lol. The rest don’t have messy hang ups (except maybe the lesbians).

@@MyDarkrai95 I NEVER said it’s normal. I just said it’s not problematic if both people agree.

That's not what she said. She said their two kids are (amongst the kids) like siblings/cousins. Because before blending the family (making them "siblings") they were already cousins... The adults see the kids as kids.

@@juliayvr2015 You’re right she said “our two girls are like sister cousins” still weird and I may not have been clear- I was talking about two different couples.

Everybody is weird in this vid. Everyone.

i think the 2nd is pretty normal, given the abnormal circumstances. the 1st one is just... beyond weird. i wonder if she even realizes what the implications are

Since you haven’t seemed to notice, they tend to have some of the weirdest people on here sooo it’s pretty expected 😅

I instantly disliked her after that, idk how this isn't the top comment. Power dynamic is clearly her using him

That's so crazy to say that to your partner

The fact that he wasn't surprised either. is crazy.

Was looking for this comment, like wtf

or it could bre that its something they've talked about before, he did say something about wanting her to have all her experiences or something.

Cringe

Super cringe ​@@deadore

…..because they’re also people,too. 🤦🏼‍♀️

same i was like ahh somethings never change lmao

This is exactly me and my best friend.. we both share the same ex (at different times) who just tried to get back with me when my best friend finally spoke up for herself and broke it off.

It’s extra and annoying

​@@9roselove9then ur prob gonna be single for the rest of ya life

​@@lli0V3llDayum 😂😂😂😂

To me it seemed a bit… off? Like she’s very doting and her girlfriend didn’t want it or didn’t care. Maybe I’m overthinking it

@@neuroseptember1020 I think when you’re the older person in an age gap relationship you are very self conscious about public affection. People can be very judgmental.

its funny to me, that these relationships are presumed "normal" when it comes to lesbian relationships, whereas for straight people even if they are 50-30 or 40-30 is that the girl got groomed, i feel we need to reevaluate

@yash7601 I think meeting someone who's 20 years your senior when you are 30 is very different than meeting someone 20 years older when you are 19 or 20. Sexual orientation doesn't matter as much as the balance of power.

@@tfgrrl2042 thats the point,but for straight relationships people still consider it as grooming even when it is 50-30, sexual orientation definately influences how we perceive things and it shows in the comments

@@tfgrrl2042 Nah, if you're a lesbian nobody wll judge. It's a double standard. Look at your comment you're talking about how sweet they are lmao. can't never say that for the opposite gender.

@@yash7601 no one is groomed or considered grooming at their thirties dude. People in their 50s meeting people in their 30s are two full grown adults with careers and independent lives. Much different from a 40 or 30 year old preying on teens.

She said she wouldn't but there was a possibility. And you gotta appreciate the honesty. Most of us wouldn't own up to it and theres always a possibility because the world changes and so do we and we're not perfect even if we think we might be mr morality. We're just not

@@dragamboazulinqiacupuntura122 Its really easy to not cheat on someone

@@natefroggy3626 I hear you, I feel that way so far, it seems that way... But I've many friends who have and nonenof them set out to. I don't know though how I will react if the Rock made an indecent proposal to me. I am only human.

@@dragamboazulinqiacupuntura122honestly that’s not being honest. That’s she saying she considering the fact that she might cheat. There are so many ways to f**k up the relationship. Her mind shouldn’t immediately go to cheating. I find it disrespectful also

@@dragamboazulinqiacupuntura122 youre treating it as if cheating can happen to anyone and its unpredictable, bro cheating is very intentional every step of the way there is no getting around it

Attractive and funny. Ultimate rizz

What was their age difference?

Same 😂

@@mizzy9215they didn’t say but they were together for 12 years

Just to make sure they were on the interracial couples truth or drink? The Filipino and Native American?

Right

he could stay mad tho lol

Ikr

Agree

Agreed. I wonder how old the kid is though??? if the kid is like early-mid 20s ok that's weird since she is 27 but if they are like a teenager then that's not weird to me if she is wanting to look out and care for the kid. shit at least she wants to be in the kids life, props to her for not dipping 😂

Thiss

Teen parents exist bro

On the contrary they were already discussing age terms for how long they should stick around and overly using I love you to not discuss it in a comforting way. The young girl will definitely move on from that relationship

@@minorperez5998 your probably right but, however just by the way they look at each other you can tell they are in love. And the younger girl might die before the older one. Stuff happens you never knwo

you can’t know that by looking at a video be fr 😂

Same

seek help

Yes!

😂😂😂😂

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!

Haha gd one

that’s a good idea 💡

Cause one doesn't have a kid the same age as their spouse. Also because ✨️lesbians✨️

It takes 2 to tango. Matched on Tinder, both wanted to smash, and it led to something else. Happens all the time.

​@@leafqShe isn't the same age as his daughter tho

The lesbian couple had a lot healthier vibes, tbh. The 27 y/o woman just sounded like a major red flag with everything she said, especially when she basically said she might cheat...

No its not, when they were 7 the other was 35. its fluk up

I laughed because I do the same with my sisters every single day 😂😂

I know right? she looks in her early forties

Definitely agree, she's aging well I guess and she has a great sense of humor too.

Isnt that cringe

That genx aging 😂

She could be 30 easy

True!! 😂

I think he only said that because he felt uncomfortable about her talking about cheating.. so he wanted to find a reason in his mind to clear up the awkwardness and find some understanding for it

Can confirm that😂

gave me gross leo dicaprio vibes

Lmaooo

But I do wish the best for all these couples, sometimes it works out, there was a lot besides the age working against us.

What about 19 and 25

@@Sukinero I personally don't think that's crazy there just has to be a lot of chemistry

Oof. Sorry you had to go through that

That applies to all relationships. Not just age gap ones.

Ya…

came here for this comment because they left out them saying their ages.. seems like a sus situation

She said she is 42

for it to be legal he has to be at least 30. And if she is 42, then they started dating when she was 30??? That is so fucking creepy wtf

​@@atishkumarpadhy9669she was 30 and he was 18 damn

Thanks for writing it out, I was really confused by what they were saying in the video but I just knew it was kinda messed up.

huh? did I miss something?

good for them for living life. social standards are almost always bullsh!t and are made by bitter lonly people lol

At least it wasn't his uncle

Not just your ex but your baby's daddy

Why

It seemed like he said he stopped hanging with people his age before he got together with her, not as a result.

Shush.

I was looking for this comment and he doesn't really looks comfortable enough, more like what she wants than what he wants as well but I hope I'm wrong

I totally got the 12 years mixed with the one the wife is 27, and I was flabbergasted

i was shocked because he looks 25! im not gonna speak on their relationship but compared to the other couples, theirs seems very suspicious.

How old are u?

That’s how I feel about my dad’s wife. She tried to call me her bonus daughter for a while and I hated it. I met her when I was 23 😒

@@shana_mcd exactly like girl we’re friends at best 😂

@@ellielowery9654 ok period! Closer to my age than my dads smh

@@shana_mcd wow I felt this but in a different way like it's kinda similar. my dad married his wife whose 50 something back in 2021 & she says i'm like a daughter but i've never looked at her as a parent figure & never will. I'm 18 so yes i was 14-15 when they got married but i have a mom already plus so much has happened between her (dads wife) & i that i just cant figure out what my dad sees in her. at least i'm graduating high school in may so then i'll try spending more time at moms house because i'm just tired of his wife.

The lesbian couple was fun to see how good they were to each other.

@@philipbloomquist1580 they seemed genuinely well matched 😊

The tattoo one seemed nice too

Dating your ex's ex is MESSY! But I agree they're the only ones with any amount of chemistry

@ikindoflikemangoes Thats just lesbian culture. Literally every lesbian I know is spider webbed together by exes, hookups, friendships and activism clubs lmao

? The average life expectancy in the US is 77

​​@@adamx182 Yeah but most people who die young don't die from natural causes. You have to remember that this average also includes babies who die during/after birth, which obviously is horrible, but sadly happens

​@@artemis88899 I don't think the first sentence is true. Cancer and heart disease are both considered natural causes, and those are the two leading causes of death for all ages above 45. That said, people who don't die from natural causes are still people, so I think you do have to consider them when making a statement that "most people" don't die until their 80s and up. You make a good point with the second sentence but I would need to see statistics on what the life expectancy would be if infant mortality was not counted to know whether that really makes a difference

@@adamx182in Cali the average is 84

middle age crisis

Yep you can see it in the way he dresses

He's literally just wearing a jean jacket. Like be serious 🙄

@@brynnwalk4390 Right? Like, Jesus. Let people do what they want without giving them shit for it.

how? just reaching to find something to complain about.

probably, she obviously went for him. she was 30 & he was 18

@@wiltisdabest🤨 too young.

Nah mans still kicking💪🏼

Yup it's outside the range, Half your age plus 7

Especially bc they've been together 3 years, so it started as 52 and 24 😬

@@madmaxsquatsexactly, plus the prefrontal cortex of your brain doesn’t fully develop until you’re 25 years old. she was 24 when he was 52…yikes.

I was 20 when I met my husband, who was 65 back then. We've been together for 14 years, so this is not crazy for me. People bringing up brain development, thinking that because we were young, we couldn't have preferences back then sound stupid.

I spent the entire video waiting to find out their ages so I could do some quick maths. She's 42, but it never said how old he is and I wonder why...

I was thinking the same. When I first saw them all I could think of is Mary Kay Letourneau

@@aleeshamiller3657 i did too! But 100% not to that extent. More just like i feel like he would be nervous to speak his true opinions because of her.

no fr and the fact they didn’t say their ages says a lot

​@@natasham4184 He's about 30 years old now. If she's 42 NOW and they've been together for 12 years (thus far), that means 12 years AGO, she was 30 which would make him 18 years old. 18 + 12 = 30 30 + 12 = 42

kinda does, no? especially emotional intelligence

Be careful here , ignorance isn't an indicator of intelligence or IQ. Ignorance is bliss yes , but it doesn't mean someone is dumb or non-intelligent. Many ''boomer'' thinkin people who are religious made insane science advancement.@@cordeliacuthbert

@@jona9225 the amount of older people i know who deeply lack self awareness or emotional growth would beg to differ. 😂 maybe some people grow with age but i don't think that's a given. most of the time, the people who are really thoughtful when they are older were also thoughtful when they were younger, they just grow in experience. but people who AREN'T thoughtful to begin with... hard to make them learn those behaviors.

You just proved his point by this comment and grammar lil bro.

@@jona9225 you have to be self-aware and conscious and able to analyze your own actions, experiences, and feelings to grow either. Just keeping on going on animal instincts without a single thought occuring before action is not gonna make you smarter

"I believe in miracles" Yes, and Downie kids ❤

@@BillHicks420 that's a cruel and ignorant thing to say.

My grandmother had my mother at 44. No complications except my mom blames her poor eyesight on it lmao.

@@zacharyb2723 Not really. The risk of trying to conceive after 35 is increased chromosomal complications, including Down syndrome. It can actually be a problematic endeavor, often glorified because the stereotype is that kids with Downs are "happy go lucky". How is my comment "cruel and ignorant"?

My mom was 41 when she had me. As far as genetic, psychiatric, and health exams go, i'm perfectly good as well ^^ People exagerate too much about the giving-birth-age stuff. Sure, it increases chances of problems, but like... so does a million other things that people ignore

That’s what I wanna know. Seems kinda gross.

hopefully 20, because that's the youngest he could have been without having "teen" in his age lol

they do not seem to be as far apart in age as the other couples

​@@Zedd... he said he missed out on his 20s though, he could have been 18/19 when they started dating

He could’ve been 18.

My wife had our healthy kids at 40 and almost 43, so there's hope!

I want that, too, but in a less cringey way :/

Exactly! I hated how every couple just assumed it would be the older person & they both just accepted it. You never know who will go & when it will happen so they should of really put thought into that question. I would have been pissed if Someone said I’m going to die first 😂 like “B***h how TF you know” 🧐

predatory freak btw

Exactly

If they Could Be THEIR kid, that's illegal. if they're As Old As their kids is a different story, hahaha!

@@Skeezer66 giving groomer

@@lucmo13 Actually, I was in an age gap relationship, with a woman who was 19 years older than me, and I was 27 when we met, NOT GROOMED.

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@@carlozmrcthey said they have been together for 3 years already…. So she was only 24 when they met and he was 52 🤢

This is an age old phenomenon. Your great grandparents at least or generations before had age gaps like this. Not saying it's right or wrong, but it's common enough and embedded in cultures throughout the world to be considered a feature of human nature.

What about the lesbians? 58 and 30 is legit the same age gap

My dad is 60 im 19 very scary im like atleast go for half but cmon the 40s look nice

I felt that too

All the singles in the comments judging the couples is funny af💀. ig everyone needs somethin to point at

@@A1_Amirbro that shits creepy af.

literally

@@A1_Amircuz it’s a pretty common scenario and it’s usually mostly transactional

I related to that last one so hard. I'll be 30 in June and still be thinking I'm 26 half the time 😂

@@ztarr LOL! Same, especially since the pandemic messed up how I remember time 😂

@@ztarr 10 years ago was 2000 and don't @ me😂😭

@@Lilian040210 😂

she's probably already cheating lol

Well yeah, old dudes who aren't that impressive go after younger women when they are easily impressed. I also found it creepy that he knows women who mature past late 20s don't like him. Very creepy. Like Leo

Probably because - - - this comments section times 100 in judgements.

I'm 24. My boyfriend is 19. It's the healthiest relationship I've ever been in. Our friends tell us that our relationship is their standard when looking for their own. We are both very much in love and wildly happy with what we've created together. He loves to make fun of me for being "old" and doesn't care about other peoples' perceptions. Which is one of the very few ways I see our age difference manifest. He's still a little naive to some things or feels invincible, whereas I, having a few years more experience in life, have had that ignorance wiped away. So while he may not have issues disclosing our age gap, I'm certainly more reserved. Not because I think there's anything wrong with what we're doing. Aside from the (healthy!) teasing, it isn't even something that comes up or plays much of a role between us, but because I'm horrified at the possibility of people (much like those in these comments!) thinking they're the experts in the most important relationship in our lives, one of which others cannot possibly know unless they are in it. And yet, that doesn't stop people from throwing out ridiculous claims such as the older person being a groomer, and thus infantilizing adults who are capable of making their own decisions about what's best for them. While I've been fortunate to not have experienced such judgement thus far, it isn't difficult for me to understand that being unfairly labelled as a predator, creep, and/or groomer would not feel very good. And thus, I am in fact hesitant to share the age gap! Hope this helps

That doesn't have to be something bad tho, I think it's probably fear of getting judged but I can also imagine that it can get frustating over time to always have to explain your relationship, and the ages that come with it, when you meet someone

@@artemis88899 Yes, too many people look at the negative possibilities and never consider it could be something good for the 2 people in the relationship.

@@um_itsavalie so how old were you guys when you met? if it was when both of you were teens, then its good, but if he was younger and you were in your 20s then its definitely odd. but to each their own, i guess

Yeahhh nah. Idk older men creep me out though so I couldn’t get smashed by an older man and feel comfortable about it

seek help

@@pencil6965 for what

@@pencil6965she will once you do.

​@@pencil6965 immediately

I think she was referring to an added power dynamic that some people asume age gap relationship create.

She meant due to the age gap but all age gap relationships have that power dynamic so I don’t agree with what she said anyway

She obviously meant financial and mental(in a bad way) power dynamic. And how does race play role in this relationship power dynamics??

I went to school with that guy 😂

Awe! ❤ Thank you. I’m very happy & in love.

Yes

They’re married

Power imbalance? So a grown ass adult is incapable of making her own decisions? A man can do some kind of mind control to FORCE her to do things against her will? If this is true then women shouldn't be allowed to vote.

I don't see a power imbalance and she seems capable to make her own decisions about who she gets to decide to date. LOL there are plenty of pathetic ass people who stay in unhealthy relationships because they are being controlled by their partner. Now that is a power imbalance.