If shes attracted to you, it doesn't matter what you do. If shes not, it doesn't matter what you do.

If you're attractive, it's not creepy. If you're unattractive, it's creepy.

#1 tip for learning how to develop confidence: Stop giving a f@&k. You're nervous because you're doing something you're not comfortable doing and you are in your head. Start just complimenting strangers and striking up conversations fully intending for it not to go anywhere or mean anything. Remove the stakes. Dare yourself to make a compliment or random remark to a woman every day and just walk away after a short interaction. Do this until you realize those women are just other people going about their shitty days like you are. Then when it could easily just be another random throwaway conversation for you, that's when you're ready to make a move.

1. Make it Make Sense 2. Keep it Clean 3. Be Confident 4. Read the Room

A guy can simply say "hello" and be considered "creepy" if the woman is not attracted to him. I've seen so many women bad mouth guys behind their back for simple things like that.

My motto is rejection from a woman can be a way God saving you from a headache you don't need. The woman that's meant for you won't reject you. Give her a compliment and keep on moving.

What I learned in my 46 years is that you should never justify what you're doing. I still have to work on this because I am used to explaining myself. Just to look good. I need the attitude like take it or leave it

If you’re an attractive lad, what you say and how you say it doesn’t matter all too much. If you are not incredibly attractive, what you say and how you say it matters a lot more

Note - confidence is not being sure of yourself, its being ok with yourself even if something goes wrong

Dating a woman these days is like a job interview to be brutally honest.

Thank you, I’m very social with most people but my brain just shuts off when speaking to someone I’m attracted to. These tips are exactly what I needed.

A quick note on something Courtney mentions about being appropriate is that people with ptsd never feel as safe as they did before an incident so its about accepting that, and that life goes on as almost everything in life is challenging, demanding

Don’t be ugly. That definitely helps

Tip 1: Be hot Tip 2: Don't be ugly Tip 3: Be confident Tip 4: Don't be awkward

I really like how you intersperse your recommendations with revelations about yourself (like "I'm an introvert"). Your being an attractive woman yourself, learning more about you adds motivation to watch your videos. It also conveys credibility to your advice.

Tip 3 it's really easy for a woman to say "just be confident" when they don't have to do any work other than just exist.

For those who are in a hurry👌🏻: Props to Courtney Ryan🤙🏼🤙🏼🤙🏼🔥 1. Make it make sense 2. Keep it Clean 3. Be Confident 4. Read the Room

Step 1: Be rich Step 2: Be attractive Step 3: Don’t be unattractive

Thanks for your help on how to approach women without feeling like a creep. I will keep watching this video a few more times just so I can get it all down. As soon as I do that I’ll be able to approach girls with confidence in no time. I haven’t really tried to approach a girl since before the start of the COVID 19 pandemic unless if I needed directions to a specific area.

I believe there’s a lot of great men out there that want to be a gentleman and thoughtful and caring at the same time we have not been taught by our fathers and so it easily misunderstood. I believe that if you’re trying your very best and you treat her like your best friend she definitely would understand you. And even if she’s just a friend, that’s more important that means she values who you are! definitely be patient and pray for her! I definitely wanted to be treated for gentle care and within intentionality!

One thing that helps me is to have casual conversations with people I interact with from time to time local waitress, hair stylist, or even co-workers. Not necessarily being romantic but just breaking out of my comfort zone and be more conversational in order to connect with others. It really helps boosting confidence

It’s only ‘creepy’ when it’s unwanted and she’s not attracted to him.

'I watch a lot of crime shows, I watch a lot of murder documentary's. All of these things that make me freak out a little bit. Which I probably should stop doing' this part was so hilarious, I laughed out loud! Thank you for that Courtney 😄also, really helpful video!

I always love the 'be confident' comments from women. It's hysterical. You can't just turn on confidence. Either you're comfortable with your ability to be charming and interesting, or you're not.

Attraction is important, but here is a HUGE thing nobody really talks about. We’re all different and are attracted to different things. Just because 1 girl says your not attractive doesn’t mean you’re unattractive. Some women dislike bald guys, some love them. Some men like thick girls others don’t it’s not a personal thing, don’t let your pride get you down.

I can say from experience, that when approaching a random girl and sparking up a conversation, it's important to be preceptive to her demeaner. If you're feeling like she's being aloof, and with short answers, she may very well want to be alone. Doesn't mean you've done anything wrong. She just may not be interested, or she's preoccupied with something in her life. In that case, it's important to pick up on that early. If instead, she is being conversational back, it's a clear signal she's possibly interested, and that would be a good time ask her out. The point being, you can tell pretty quickly if it's the right time to ask for her number. Could be a bad day. Or she may just not like you. But being receptive towards her demeanor is an important skill to learn imo.

As a man who goes to the gym to stay fit I like to stay mentally and emotionally fit as well so when I go out and I see an attractive woman I will approach. To me rejection is like the pain you feel in the gym. It breaks you down at first but it builds you up little by little and they don’t even realize. It’s a good way to build confidence mentally.

I work in a field that is mostly women. I am married and happily so. I don’t want to be “attractive” but there is something to be said about the type of personality that lends women to being comfortable and friendly and well, making work more bearable. I recently switched to a job where I go to many locations so I’m constantly meeting new people, most are women and I just don’t want to feel like I can’t meet people and be friendly naturally in a short time as I may see these people or a minority of them I won’t. I am typically more quiet and head down kind of worker but I’ve already learned that in my current job it is a very important quality to become a team and do it quickly. I would love to see a videos on this, a less “trying to get a number” but just be likable and quickly.

The only difference between creepy and romantic is whether she thinks you're hot. Edit: I'm sure dudes would feel the same being approached by women. Attractive women would bring positive feelings. Unattractive women would leave me wondering if they'd take a subtle hint or if I need to be direct or even harsh, regardless of any supposed "game". I understand the principle here.

At the end of the day, it comes down to practice. I've always been a shy person, and have struggled with communication my entire life. This is why when you decide to put yourself out there, you have to keep in mind that you're going to inevitably make yourself look like a fool at least a few times. But the more you get comfortable with yourself, getting into awkward situations and fumbling over your words, the more situational awareness you'll develop. My dad told me that when he first started trying to ask out girls he would get rejected by at least 99/100 (and yes, he asked out that many women, hundreds actually), for most of his life it was a numbers game, then something clicked and he suddenly began to have more success. I'm still not great at this myself, but I have consciously put an effort to get into situations where my wit and level-head are put to the test. I've learned that my dad has his way of asking people out, and I have my own, the same will be true for you. I believe interacting with women is a skill, and just like any other skill, you need to practice to get better. Watching videos may be good for learning concepts, but you can't learn skills simply by spending time in front of a screen, you have to put in the work. Good luck to anyone and everyone who reads this long-winded comment hahaha, we're all fighting the same battle, just don't give up. Rejection is always an opportunity to learn :)

I don't go looking for it, nor do I care. I workout, live my life and do what I want to do. It's nice to know that I don't need to worry or care on these things.

Thanks to your videos, my own journey of self-discovery and my dearest friends I'm starting to develop the confidence to say hi to women :) A couple nights ago I went to a jazz club with my friends and insignificant as it may seem, I found the courage to ask a girl there if she knew any of the band members (just to say something). I didn't know how to go on from there, but that's ok, as that was more of a test run and to even find the courage to overcome my fears and talk to her was massive for me :D My friends later told me that they were trying to signal to me that she would keep looking at me when I looked away and that she even deliberately came to sit close to me. I wasn't able to take this chance, but that's fine: there will be others and I'll learn how to see them :) So I wanted to thank you, Courtney, for this and many more videos

About the point regarding “approaching with confidence”: When it is said like that, as in, “just be confident!”- I think a lot of men think, “Well, why didn’t I think of that!” As if confidence is a choice. When you’re insecure, and you feel like you have nothing to offer, it’s hard to just will confidence into being: it feels like you are putting in a show for a woman. You end up thinking of what kind of man the woman you want to ask out would like, and change your behavior accordingly. You use ‘game’ to navigate your nervousness. Is “being confident” something women can just do, or is confidence just something women are just better at faking? It’s not about “being confident” for most men. What are we supposed to be confident about?? That she’ll like us? What is it about our confidence, fake or not, that is so attractive to women? That’s my question! Thank you.

1st Step: Be Handsome 2nd Step: Don't be unattractive 3rd Step: Looking Rich also helps. these 3 steps are a good point to start.

This is some real solid advice! I don't really approach girls (or guys, or anyone) like this, I'm just not into relationships like other people are - this information is just as applicable, even if you are looking to make a good working relationship with someone, or trying to get close to them in ways that are not romantic, eg as friends or as a mentor type relationship. You should be chill with how things go, and work with it - if it's going to work, you will eventually be able to pick up on that, and you can practice that with other videos and such resources to help you learn the tips, then practice that out, slowly, one video a day, focusing on things one at a time, and your relationships will all fall into place, and you'll have oppurtunities you can't even imagine. Life, is indeed, much easier than I thought it was, now that I'm learning there's a strategy guide, and a lot of them, and, with consistent, daily effort, they really do end up working if you put the effort, blood, sweat, and tears into them. Best to you all, I know you can do this, you are wonderful.

I stopped bothering with this random approach thing though it was an excellent tool for becoming a better version of myself by pushing my comfort zones. I still talk to women randomly often & it's a great thing to be able to do so without expectations. My opinion it's best to meet women through your social circles. I'm more marriage minded type & not frivolous.

If you are rich and attractive, asking a girl out will be easy. There's no way to screw it up. If you're poor and unattractive, it'll be an episode of Law and Order: SVU

I’m reminded of the SNL skit where the unattractive guy asks the female coworker out and she screams “harassment”…then Tom Brady shows up at her desk in his underwear and she gives him her number without his asking. He puts the number in his underwear..hahahaha

I remember standing next to a friend at a bar having a beer and I was accused by some random woman stranger of being “creepy” for standing nearby and talking loudly to my friend

here's the thing: if she likes you she'll do everything to let you know she does, then proceed. If she doesn't you're just boosting her stats of rejections she makes, so basically proceed with caution and even if she shows signs that she likes you she may be doing it just to reject you too. It's a cruel world out there but keep fighting, guys.

Creepiness levels are dictated by if the woman finds you attractive or not.

First rule: If you are hot, women Will see you as a candidate, if not, you Will be seen as a desesperate dude

Learning to approach women is like a comedian bombing on-stage. You build the confidence from getting out there and trying. Salute yourself for making the effort. Be bold and mighty forces will come your way.

Hey Courtney, You are not just beautiful; you also give beautiful advice. I'm 51, single, and I'm beginning to approach women. I want to do it genuinely, which will work for me and the one I'm speaking to. Thank you so much.

Here's the harsh truth. If a woman does not feel physically attracted to you, no matter what you say or how you say it, no matter how much you try not to be creepy, she will think you are creepy because she is not attracted to you.

I heard this alot: "Its only creepy if your ugly" Means, if you are very attractive there is no way beeing creepy even if you do creepy shit it makes her giggle instead of "eww". Max out your looks.

Started watching this channel to hear women's perspective on us guys (I don't approach girls or try and flirt in person so I'm a newbie 😂). Very refreshing and informative, so might approach women I like respectfully now (improve confidence!)

I’m on this channel because I really like Courtney’s insight. I’ve never really had a problem with approaching women. I respect and love them greatly. And they know that. Just have to realize what I realized years ago, women are a lot like men, in certain ways. Don’t think too much about it.

"#3: Be Confident" A lot of the reason why girls go through a phase or three of choosing jerks, sociopaths, and a-holes in general, is because those guys usually come off as confident. View it as some raw evolutionary survival instinct: Someone who looks like they're surviving and thriving will look confident, won't they. It's kinda like people saying to lift weights or to be tall: It's not so much about being that buff or that tall, it's about looking like you're someone who can survive and thrive. Same with the debate as to whether to "show emotion" to girls you're interested in: Does what you're showing her portray you as someone who can survive and thrive? Does how you handle yourself in arguments and sh!t tests portray you as someone who can survive and thrive? Girls who are snoots about wanting someone taller than you are basically saying that their opening bid is 6'; she's immediately passive-aggressively putting you on the defense, and it's your first sh!t test to provide a counter-offer. She's implying that 6' is what it takes to thrive out here, so if you're not 6', then what else ya got? Girls who bemoan that their men need to show more emotion are likely thinking of the 'jerks, sociopaths, and a-holes' they've shacked up with in the past, who don't or can't show normal emotions anyway; they're not talking about the good and nice guys who are invisible to them or just in orbit while they're going through their current bad boy phase. What's not said is that those bad boys were already passing other tests which just weren't being mentioned, be they indicators of hotness, intrigue, thriving, or whatever else. Regardless: If you show up looking like you can casually confidently take the lead, and lead a girl into your world and frame, where they can freely mirror your confidence and feel like they are surviving and thriving along with you, that's ticking some evolutionary box that we don't really talk about. We just say "Be Confident" and leave it at that.

The only difference between being "creepy" and flirting is if she is attracted to you. Their is no technique that can make you attractive to a woman, and their is pretty much no wrong way to approach a woman if she is attracted to you. You can not negotiate desire ever.

I've always heard the saying: "Don't ask fish for advice on catching fish, ask a fisherman", however, I think you channel might be an exception. I've only watched 2 of your videos so far but they seem to contain useful information that could actually help me, thank you.

If someone asked you in front of their parents, this means they have nothing to hide from each other, which would also translate into your relationship - he'll be honest and upfront about everything with you. Then again, his parents may know things you consider private. But you are right that asking a waitress at work is not appropriate. As a manager, I was asked way too many times by waitresses to handle frisky clients.

Physical Attraction.. That's all there is to it. Women's body language, reciprocation, and interest in conversation are determined by how attracted she is to you. They will sabotage/ cut any conversation short that you try to make when they don't find you attractive. You can say all the corny pickup lines you want, but it will be a 1 sided conversation.

Compliments about hair, eyes, smile are generally accepted positively. Anything below the shoulder is not very safe to comment on at first contact. Confidence is about feeling that you are OK however she responds. And you are

There was a time I walked up to a girl on the dance floor at VFW clubhouse told her I can't dance will you show she said no at first and walked off like it didn't bother me. I got maybe 20 yards from her and she chased me down to ask if that was supposed to be a pickup line and I told her nope I was generally asking. We danced the rest of the evening. If we danced up close to a other guy that asked her to she made damn sure I knew about it. We didn't go on dates but this experience has given me more experience than corny pickup lines ever did. Hope it helps some one.

i love someone and not just talh to her till now . seeing this video to get prepared for that fully. i had my eyes full of tears when a thought came into my mind that man what will you do if u will not meet her ?? 🥺🥺

I think the reason women find being approached in a polite manner, especially within today’s digital age, so refreshing is because everyone is hiding behind phone screens. Simon Sinek does a great job of pointing this out. A lack of genuine human interaction is detrimental to society as a whole. As it pertains to women and dating, humans have developed mate selection techniques over millions of years without the usage of digital media. Therefore, it’s more likely someone will be successful building a genuine connection through a holistic interaction, rather than one based upon superficiality a la Tinder.

A few times I have had positive signs from women to approach them and didn't have the courage to do it. Regreted it and felt horrible for a few days after. It just doesn't come as easy to some of us. Each time I promised myself that I would never allow myself for the same thing to ever happen again, and yet I still do it.

Translation to pickup artists: 1. Make it make sense= Situational Approach. 2. Keep it clean= Obviously 3. Be confident= Obviously. 4. Read the room= Read the signs, look for cues, read her body language. You know, pay attention. Look, much of your success will depend on her current situation (boyfriend, breakup, work, etc). If you're not good looking with charisma, you have to build value and to do that you have to get her to give you the time. If she knows you're hitting on her, she'll cut it short because she's not sold yet so it's best to conceal your intentions. This also adds to your mysteriousness, which is a turn on. Many factors go into success so the best advice is to meet as many women you're attracted to as you can. Eventually you'll get a chance with one and honestly, this is when the real work starts. Good luck!

First time I have EVER commented on one of these videos. First, though not the only angle on things (obviously), Courtney's content is pretty damn good, so kudos to you Courtney. Second, I have met many ladies that check many of the boxes of what I'm looking for, however, it wasn't until I started to look at the boxes I might check FOR HER and work on those things (that were in the realm of possibility) that quality of female human beings around me start to go up. Third, I've heard it said someone before, and I paraphrase terribly: When you find someone you are interested in, don't focus so much on what she brings to the table, but focus on those things about her that you are willing to put up with and hope she is willing to give you the same consideration.

It’s creepy when the girl finds the guy unattractive. And yea don’t ask the fish how to catch a fish ask the fisherman

I met my gf at the mall. She thought I was cute so she was helping me try on various clothes and it worked because it she was simply helping a customer. I didn't know if she actually liked me or was just being friendly cause of her job but I just went for it and got her number and things worked out.

Dear Courtney, I'm so grateful to you for these realistic explanations! I would like to ask you for one more detail: What could be the first words for initiating a conversation with a woman at all (refer to time 1:50)? After these very first words the context of the situation should be involved in order to continue with the conversation and getting to know a bit each other, that is clear. But how to start at all, just from nothing, avoiding template phrases like "Hi, it's a nice day, isn't it."?

What you said is actually common sence, personally I opened the video just for your being pleasant which boosts morale.

Nowadays a woman will think a simple hello is “creepy”. Thank you modern feminism. Jokes on them when they’re 75 and still single 😂😂

Dude just be confident and positive it will make her feel so much more confident Make eye contact take your hands out of your pockets and pay attention to your body language Smile be friendly stand up straight get to know her Dude read the room bro if she says no do not keep pursuing it just be a gentlemen and tak eit has a loss or a win its all practice rejection happens to all of us Be proud of yourself for getting out of your ckmfort zone

But did she call that guy back🤔🧐… probably not it was refreshing because she got validation that guys still find her attractive

I don't even get to say hello without creeping them out. Which is paradoxical because I get called handsome every other day here in the Philippines

Be stereotypically attractive, be at least six ft tall plus, be ripped, and be visibly wealthy and you will never be considered creepy. If you’re an average guy it’s an uphill battle.

I would love to see her transforming herself into a man and try to approach a girl without being creepy. Really these days creepy is whenever the girl has no attraction for you.

I’m 17 and I was sitting by myself and then all of a sudden this girl comes and sits right next to me, it was pretty nervous and I felt pretty uncomfortable but then we started talking, and one of the first things she said was “hey I think you’re really cute” and I just replied with you’re not bad either and then she left. And I felt like I got to know her a little bit, I didn’t ask for her number because I wanted to take it slow. But then after that she didn’t approach me for almost 3 weeks so I didn’t approach her, and then eventually I saw that she was sitting by herself and she looked a little bit upset, and everyone has been on my ass about her ever since she sat next to me, and I really didn’t wanna go over there and talk to her because I know from my own experience when I’m feeling down I want to sit by myself. And that’s what I was going to do and then I thought it over for a little bit I went over there and I asked if she mind if I sit next to her and she felt very uncomfortable, and incredibly turned off, and then I tried to approach her again after that to apologize but I ended up just making a fool out of myself and making her feel even more awkward. And I normally never approach people like that that’s why I didn’t approach her for so many weeks because I’m always afraid that I’m going to act creepy or awkward and I’m going to weird or creepy people out. I feel really terrible and I want to apologize what do you think I should say? And I feel like I really blew my chances. I haven’t met anyone like her like I said I was a bit uncomfortable at first when she sat next to me and I moved over like two spaces, and then she moved closer to me she’s a really beautiful blonde girl she has these beautiful brown eyes as well, i’ve never met anyone quite like that that can level me with her eyes I could barely look. And when she started talking I completely forgot everything I was worried and my social anxiety and anxiousness went away and I was just totally stunned, like God had put an angel on the third just for me, it’s a feeling I had never had up until that point. Also the funny thing is the girl that I’m talking about is actually pretty dirty minded and has a very dark sense of humor and she’s very upfront about it, it’s actually kind of scared me. I also I’m just afraid of ending up like my brother who is incredibly aggressive and treats his girlfriend very poorly he was screaming at her on the phone the other day and it was pretty upsetting.

I have had no luck with your advice so far but I keep on trying. My advice is to hit up men because they accept us all for who we are Ned always bend over willingly and it’s a beautiful thing. We all leave feeling good and a plan to do it again. Still so thrilling for me

I thought it was just a matter of being tall and attractive. If you're ugly, women will think you're creepy. If you're hot, you can get away with almost anything, really.

Life’s tough boys. We got this ! Just keep being yourself!

Thanks for this video Courtney. In the summer of 2022 I went to a bar with a friend and after awhile 2 girls walked in and sit down. I really liked the one girl and I told my friend we gotta talked to them. He said "What? No, wait! they might waiting for someone else" so we waited a little and I went to the bathroom of the bar. I saw the girl that I liked coming at the entrance. I said "Oh I think I saw u at the bar, r u sitting there?' (the WC was on a different floor). After that we went and sat down on our own spots and she pulled out her phone and started taking a picture of a Bob Marley portrait that was behind me. I said "Am i gonna be on instagram?" so basically things floated naturally from there and we ended up talking until 5 AM and we were the last company that left the bar. I bought them 2 rounds of shots and we had fun. I really liked ur video and I love videos like these because i get insights from the girl's perspective. take care

Courtney you are always perfect. Keeping the conversation going. That is so simple.

Here is the problem after dealing with paying for meals and trips it comes down to being rejected. Most guys are used to being rejected. Its not the end of the world. What really happens is you just get tired of all the BS. Women want strong confident men. They want to be complemented. They want to be wooed. In the end you find out living with yourself is not so bad. You have friends and maybe you will find someone you like and get along with. Maybe not. Life moves on and you do you and that is what makes you the happiest.

"omg i went to a bar and noone approached me" this is 2021, women can start experiencing what it's like to initiate a conversation..."Equal Rights" right?!

in grade school we learned FACT vs OPINION and in my COMPLETELY honest and/or accurate OPINION courtney is still knowledgeable and at 4:00 through 6:07 in my COMPLETELY honest and/or accurate OPINION she makes TOTAL sense but things such as NOT being creepy and keeping clean LITERALLY always have and will be matters of OPINION and it's a FACT that worldwide we've got 7 BILLION something people

“I’ve had guys approach me and be INCREDIBLY successful…” Elaborate on the “incredibly”

"Take it as a loss.. or a win! Because you still got practice" Love that 😎

I was married for 24 years and have started going out again. I have had zero interest in going out with anyone etc and have had girls hitting on me. I enjoy my time alone, it’s awesome.

And something to always remember: "Somebody is looking for what you have as well as somebody has what you are looking for."

This channel has a lot of gems. Keep producing more content and keep up the good work. Us guys need stuff like this.

The comment section is legitimately saddening. Guys, I've been rejected quite a few times and I know everything about the manosphere and hypergamy and yade yada. However I always felt like something was off about how dark it was there. It's difficult to get rejected 1000 times and not say "this is pointless", but I think bravery is knowing the world is a dark place and still having hope in your heart. It may be harder, but that's why it's satisfying eventually. Just keep working on what you can do, even if others have it much easier than you

Can we talk about the notion of “nobody approached me when I went out to a bar”. Why do you need to be approached? Why aren’t you approaching people in the bar yourself?

Great video. There’s a girl at work I’m trying to get the nerve up to talk to this helps. Maybe I can at least talk to her even if nothing comes of it. At least 10 years from now I can look back and say I tried. There are so many instances in my life where I’ll never know because I was too scared to try.

I make eyes contact first, maybe 2 or 3 times, then I start to move closer and smile. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't work.

There are so many stages of dating that could go wrong. Approaching a girl and getting rejected, texting them and being ghosted, receiving one word texts, getting flaked on dates, etc. I decided a while back that I’m not going to pursue anyone because it’s not worth the heartache.

They want 3 words: I have money. Otherwise you have to be Channing Tatum to avoid being labelled 'creepy'.

I complimented a woman who works at a coffee shop and obviously seen me before, I told her the color of her clothes looked good on her. I was sincere and I believe she liked the compliment. I figured complimenting on her appearance rather than blurting out you're gorgeous is more sincere.

I absolutely love these tips and how you present them! Thank you 🙂👍

It's so strange we live in a society where equality is preached but women have privilege and are catered to

I usually just let them ask me. I did get a phone number in college once purposely reading a magazine upside down to make her laugh. Made me laugh too.

This was definitely helpful for me as I really struggle with approaching girls. Thanks for making this video

i like to start with are you married, its kills two birds with one stone 1. you find out her relationship status 2. you find out if she wants to get married thus meaning, you can save yourself a shed load of time and money instantly with one question regardless what she looks like

Presenter glosses over the most important point - that being she has to extend you an invitation first. Women initiate and invite contact via clusters of non-verbal cues if they are open to and interested in making your acquaintance at any given moment. Approaching a woman when you haven't received an invite is a fool's errand unless humiliation is one of your turn-ons. For example if she doesn't touch her hair immediately upon becoming aware of your presence and her feet and/or navel aren't pointing at you -the shop is definitely closed as far as you're concerned. Cold calling may work out every blue moon or so - but it's grueling way to go about the thing.

What about women approaching men for once and show us their "confidence" so we can learn how to "just be confident" lol

Nearly 20 months after the upload of this video, did anyone practice these tips in an approach? Did it effectively help? I'm skeptical about that, but I was satisfied to hear Courtney is an introvert person: my time spent, watching this video, was worth in the end

I actually approached a girl this way I started making small talk then asked for her number she said no... she gave me her ig, found out later she had a boyfriend...