This scene warmed my heart because she was there to help him, and he helped her too, in their different needs at different ages and difficulties that are typical on their vital cycle. I love when movies focus on various generations and allow them to interact on a genuine level like this.
@jenpeterson37122 жыл бұрын
So do I
@marycanary2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I like that too.
@piscesbxtch70166 жыл бұрын
These two are friendship goals
@a.b.56156 жыл бұрын
Not Today .
@marycanary3 жыл бұрын
What do you mean?
@SLOTHSRIDEUNICORNS Жыл бұрын
@@marycanary Warning. Karen alert. The people that have to make everything negative.
@marycanary Жыл бұрын
What are you talking about?!This is not at all a “Karen” type situation! I mean,the guy humiliated her in front of everybody! Imagine how you feel if someone did something like that to you.
@sospokemisery1314 жыл бұрын
It's a great scene....and so bloody true. You should be the leading lady of your own life. So many great lessons in this movie.
@JixieDyeAuthor6 жыл бұрын
absolutely!
@ladytheaemuhinomura5 жыл бұрын
True yes
@reneeg48173 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I was Iris..
@marycanary3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely ! :)
@vikinggoddess21262 жыл бұрын
Hopefully without too much drama.
@crysjumar17 жыл бұрын
"He let you go. this is not a hard one to figure out" Love E.W.
@jenpeterson37124 жыл бұрын
I love the fatherly look Arthur gives her when she says she wanted to get away from certain people. That scene practically makes this movie
@roseandstem80543 жыл бұрын
Their relationship was the best relationship of the movie.
@spomusmo23492 жыл бұрын
Kate Winslet was truly born to act the scene in the beginning when she hears her ex was engaged amazes me every time.
@jenpeterson37122 жыл бұрын
She played her character so well. The way she spoke, her reactions and portraying herself as a woman with self doubts. I love the movie❤❤
@alexrun95482 жыл бұрын
What a simple, but beautiful conversation ❤️ I especially like the "So is a schmuck." 😂
@sarasyed22043 жыл бұрын
Elders are always a blessing when in need of mental support.
@mallenjm2523 жыл бұрын
I love the message in this particular film where age is honored and appreciated with dignity respect beauty grace substance and passion ! The beauty of our elders passing on the awesomeness of who they are sharing the accomplishments of what they have done of Great value and inspiration in their lifetime. This film has so many wonderful messages but this particular scene is extremely one of the most important ones respecting our elders honoring what they bring to society and inspiring the younger generations that share the same values and passions to learn from the generations before them. Absolutely love this film with an incredible cast phenomenal writing an amazing locations!
@Atheneastro8 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday and RIP Eli, who would have been 100 today.
@crysjumar17 жыл бұрын
The Eli Wallach story arc tied it all together. fantastic.
@austinpearce54426 жыл бұрын
crysjumar1 he should’ve been in the final scene at the Xmas party
@makemarker4 жыл бұрын
Of course, this legendary actor is Tuco from The Good, the Bad and the Ugly...
@marycanary3 жыл бұрын
Everyone needs someone like Arthur in there lives once in awhile right?
@jenpeterson37122 жыл бұрын
So true.
@TuomariMuller2 жыл бұрын
And to perhaps be an Arthur for someone else.
@jolijnattema1638 Жыл бұрын
I know someone like him. Only difference is that she is a lady. She is my upstairs neighbour. 88 years old (I'm 25) but still very fit. I see her as my dearest friend
@marycanary Жыл бұрын
I’m glad you do!
@marycanary7 ай бұрын
Absolutely 🙂👍
@fauziajasia2548 Жыл бұрын
I can't emphasize enough how much I am in love with her cottage, the snow outside and the whole atmosphere that they created here
@janbarrett4544 Жыл бұрын
I knew Eli when I dated his son,Peter,in high school.I was invited to a party at his apartment before I knew who his Dad was.I looked around the room and there was Barbara Streisand and Eliot Gould,Maureen Staplelton,Martin Balsam and many others who I recognized from the movies. I said,"Peter, what does your Dad do?"....he said,"He makes pizzas"...I thought,"He must make A GREAT pizza!" He and his wife,Anne Jackson brought me back a pair of sun glasses from a location shoot in Italy....wish I still had them.
@whatbringsmepeace7 ай бұрын
How many of us are *not* acting like the leading lady in our own lives, always deferring to what other people want and need? This scene was a turning point for me. I saw it for the first time and in that moment I remembered how strong and focused I'd been as a single woman, and how all that had changed when I married. I wanted to be that leading lady again so I made changes. Some people in my life didn't like it. They were happier with me being soft and compliant but I wanted to live as my authentic self. I'm happy to report that many years later I'm doing just that. It took time and people fell away but it was worth the disruption because I just knew when I watched that scene for the first time that I'd have deathbed regrets if I didn't step out of the shadows and into my proper place in my life. I hope you can too.
@Sakuno0113 жыл бұрын
Eli Wallach... excelent as always...
@debbiemclaughlin49456 жыл бұрын
I love this movie. And well, Eli Wallace as Arthur, just perfect.
@beingbeckeroni11 жыл бұрын
I adore this movie. So much. I watch it anywhere anytime regardless that it's a "Christmas movie" like Love Actually.
@jenpeterson37125 жыл бұрын
Two of my favourite movies. Every time they're on, I have to watch them. The Holiday is the better one
@Queen_Springsteen3 жыл бұрын
Better then Love Actually
@lauryb3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree!!
@marycanary3 жыл бұрын
Me too! :)
@jenpeterson37122 жыл бұрын
@@Queen_Springsteen I agree
@equinelover57011 жыл бұрын
absolute favorite movie. and one of my favorite scenes. Because i should remember i should be the Leading Lady in my own film and not the best friend. plus love Eli say Schmuck reminds me of my papa.
@MediaLover19410 жыл бұрын
R.I.P Eli Wallach.
@87alsjth2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you just need someone to lovingly read you for filth in order for you to get yourself together.
@tashadent150 Жыл бұрын
I agree, sometimes you need to punched in the face to wake up
@elghaiebsalma69086 ай бұрын
Yessssss indeed i have to be the leading lady of my own life enough with the heartbreak and depression and fear , i'll start healing now ❤❤❤ Omg this movie is amazing 😳😳
@xoxoaminandco Жыл бұрын
When I say this scene resonated with me... I still remember it verbatim ❤
@graciepelsue159110 жыл бұрын
I love Kate in this movie
@jenpeterson37123 жыл бұрын
I love Cameron Diaz, but Kate is more likable in this movie. Cameron Diaz overacted a little
@lisnamoljoseph46813 жыл бұрын
Nope. She does not overact it
@Iris11music Жыл бұрын
I love this movie. ... and this scene spoke to me. So much. ...
@tashadent150 Жыл бұрын
Ditto, he really hit the nail on the head when he told her that she deserves every right to happiness.
@NiVi19210 жыл бұрын
Arww, this scene- so brilliant!!
@thesingerperson7 жыл бұрын
brutal, but brilliant! I love this movie so much.
@LightworkBeacon6 ай бұрын
Such a well acted scene.
@tamsinparker42478 жыл бұрын
Oh, Eli Wallach, why can I never get enough of you?
@haz27215 жыл бұрын
Me either!💖
@jenpeterson37125 жыл бұрын
Me too. He was so cute
@beansprout_apg8864 жыл бұрын
I love it... simple conversation.... love the insight..
@GunnerM603 жыл бұрын
It's the great thing about our elderly. Through experience comes wisdom, & they just know things!
@starlingswallow3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVE this movie!!
@garimabhatt22998 жыл бұрын
one of my fav. movie scenes❤
@ryanawilson85492 жыл бұрын
I regularly use the word schmuck bc of this movie
@czarinagalang937511 ай бұрын
I no longer want to be the "bestfriend" in my story. I want to be the leading lady..
@kkitten81832 жыл бұрын
Excellent point and another reason I like this movie. 😊
@oliverconway69607 ай бұрын
Kate Winslet's response in this scene makes me cry.
@Weebs82589 Жыл бұрын
RIP Eli Wallach!
@dj53843 жыл бұрын
Great lesson❤
@pernillestorbjerg84182 жыл бұрын
Its fantastic!!
@claudiaborges85035 жыл бұрын
Miss my grandfather... My only father ..❤️
@bexyevans7775 жыл бұрын
What about your Heavenly Father?
@SLOTHSRIDEUNICORNS Жыл бұрын
@@bexyevans777 SHUT UP KAREN! STOP EVILIZING EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING YOU SEE!
@SLOTHSRIDEUNICORNS Жыл бұрын
@@bexyevans777 Hag.
@737721113 жыл бұрын
mi escena favorita, fabulosa!
@cotygv4 жыл бұрын
Amo esta escena también.
@wonderlandgirlable2 жыл бұрын
My favorite scene ..😥
@ednajeanamos72242 жыл бұрын
I love this scene
@haz27215 жыл бұрын
I love you, Eli. 💖 forever!
@NK-it4um5 ай бұрын
1:16 the way Iris reacted to Arthur calling her beautiful was honestly pretty sweet she shook her head and was thinking "No i'm... i'm really not." And he is right on all 3 points. 1. Iris (and Kate Winslet herself) is very beautiful. 2. Jasper is a schmuck for not seeing how great Iris is. 3. Iris is the leading lady but she's acting like the best friend. We all could use someone like Arthur.
@moniqueortiz32088 жыл бұрын
Does anyone remember the movie Arthur recommended to Iris? A black-and-white film about, you guessed it, a leading lady with remarkable gumption. >:D
@lisnamoljoseph46813 жыл бұрын
Movie name??
@carolstephanietaypeaspilcu65083 жыл бұрын
I've been looking for it too :c
@kerriethompson20733 жыл бұрын
She mentioned Itene Dunn so I'm thinking the movie is "Thev Awful Truth," which is one of her signature films. I could be wrong though.
@haz27215 жыл бұрын
I love you, Eli! 💖
@tereborgonia67805 жыл бұрын
I love u Kate.
@heathermetz65762 жыл бұрын
1:47 “An ex-boyfriend, who got engaged, and “forgot” to tell me!”
@kiaretta4057 жыл бұрын
RIP
@shellyzepeda3 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@wombizclub2 жыл бұрын
Hey from Women's Business Club - thanks for sharing.
@quickbooks Жыл бұрын
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@geetjay85798 жыл бұрын
😍😍😍😍
@leob2312 жыл бұрын
Tuco forever💗
@snowbird13812 жыл бұрын
I need her social skills.
@taniareginadias66703 жыл бұрын
E a iris do oamor nao tira ferias eas poesias?
@mkitahara3 жыл бұрын
Blooonnnnndeee!!! Eweweuuuuuuu da da da
@SLOTHSRIDEUNICORNS Жыл бұрын
Woke fagot
@cathou911 жыл бұрын
everytime is was a huge smocke
@tereborgonia67805 жыл бұрын
January 2019 anyone ?
@Queen_Springsteen3 жыл бұрын
Tere Borgonia september 2020
@honeyot4252 жыл бұрын
Oct 2021. Story of my life. Time to move on
@allornothing4323 жыл бұрын
Ehh thats your problem right there, too many leading ladies and men and too few best friends!
@asadshaikh84295 жыл бұрын
Who hates kate... Muaaaah luv u
@SLOTHSRIDEUNICORNS Жыл бұрын
BIG DAWG DOES. HE SAID BLONDE EUW!
@JMac73952 жыл бұрын
After researching "old school" Hollywood, I've come to the conclusion that Hollywood is only "golden" for the men who ran it & profited from it. If a man like Arthur survived Hollywood, he most likely kept his head down & ate his food🤨 or he had a very tough exterior in his hey day
@SLOTHSRIDEUNICORNS Жыл бұрын
Or you're just as woke as everyone else.
@SLOTHSRIDEUNICORNS Жыл бұрын
You Hollywoke bitch.
@aatkinson26074 жыл бұрын
I have always been the leading lady of my life
@bijibadness2 жыл бұрын
I bet the screenwriter found it really really really hard to call their lines "brilliant" like that. it's a tough life. nah, I'm messing around. screenwriters have the same amount of pain as all us else of us do.
@amazingyear90423 жыл бұрын
what EXACTLY does that mean “Be the Leading Lady in your life”?
@jx99363 жыл бұрын
It means take charge of your own life. We don't live to please others, and most importantly embracing your inner strengths and weaknesses which separates you from others. Simple!!
@marycanary3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, I couldn't have said it better if I'd tryed.,;)
@Smd35802 жыл бұрын
This is easier to understand if you think of the alternate role - the best friend. The best friend is in the background, a supporting character. The best friend's personal life never gets in the way of the plot. For instance, a protagonist may have to miss a best friend's wedding because of work, but the best friend will never miss the protagonist's wedding. If the best friend misses the wedding, it's a plot point for the protagonist's character growth. The best friend's story is written in such a way that it is just a foil for the protagonist. Iris was living like Jasper was the protagonist and she was the best friend.
@snowbird13812 жыл бұрын
You’re the main character. Play your life like you would a video game. In a game, you explore everything. You talk to the other people, you search and explore for treasures. If you did this in real life, you’d meet people and find new opportunities everywhere.
@MissBooful2 жыл бұрын
@@Smd3580 I don't get the whole context of "He's a schmuck ... he let you go. This is not a hard one to figure out." Does he mean jasper let her go because he's a shmuck and wdnt know someone great (like her) if she was staring him in the face or he let her go because deep down jasper knew she was a leading lady?
@martianwalker313 жыл бұрын
What did he say at 1:53, he's a.....?
@susansmith4933 жыл бұрын
Schmuck, or shmuck, is a pejorative term meaning one who is stupid or foolish, or an obnoxious, contemptible or detestable person. The word came into the English language from Yiddish (Yiddish: שמאָק, shmok), where it has similar pejorative meanings, but where its literal meaning is a vulgar term for a penis.
@martianwalker313 жыл бұрын
@@susansmith493 thank you so much for that explanation :)
@wombizclub2 жыл бұрын
Hey from Women's Business Club - thanks for sharing.
@wombizclub2 жыл бұрын
Hey from Women's Business Club - thanks for sharing.
@wombizclub2 жыл бұрын
Hey from Women's Business Club - thanks for sharing.
@SLOTHSRIDEUNICORNS Жыл бұрын
*OKAY AMBER WE HEARD YOU CUMMING!*
@wombizclub2 жыл бұрын
Hey from Women's Business Club - thanks for sharing.