so basically dating is literal rng now

The gender war is just kindergarten all over again

I think since TikTok came in, it all went downhill.

I've never dated and probably never will. But I definitely have heard a lot of these terms like alpha and girl boss thrown around, and have noticed a disturbing change for the worst when it comes to people treat each other and talk about themselves. It's sad, really.

to quote a wise man "a world without women would be a pain in the ass"

technically astrology was a millennial thing, but the difference between millennials and gen z is that millennials take it more as a joke whilst gen z is actually serious about this bs 😂😂

Gen Z ruined Dating at this point💀 A war has started in the comments

Nothings worse than a girl boss named Jenna. Especially when she is also your boss at work.

"We can get pragnent without men"🤣

Dating went to sh1t when people stopped dating with the intent of creating families and helping each other survive. And now date casually for fun.

I completely agree with the fact that gen z is filled with softies. You could make a slightly offensive joke and instead of ppl ignoring it and moving on they constantly try to start a fight.

Everyone thinks they can find someone better. And no one approaches anyone anymore.

bro dating is even harder for teenagers that dont really have that many friends, and i would know, cause i am that teenager

controversial opinion: people who dont date that much are probably the most qualified people to give advice on it because they dont get biased by what their gf/bf might think 😭

As someone who has never dated before and is 18 knowing how my half of my generation is fucked in terms of even finding a good and normal partner. I might as well throw dating out the window for a long time and just work on myself. Edit: I'm still open to getting to know people though that's for sure

Honestly, I'm glad to have found someone who's normal enough to not talk about star signs, or say stupid shit like "oh, men suck; I'm a girl boss" or all that other shit. I'm actually lucky that she's not one of those types.

Modern dating is simple. If you are a woman. Don’t be hideously ugly. If you are a man just be born rich, handsome, and low standards. Things like personality, beliefs, and life goals really don’t matter that much.

It’s hilarious how well constructed your videos are and how professional you are while being so unprofessional in your talk.

My generation made it normal to cheat and be talking to hella people at once

We need more people like you. We've glamorized idiocy way too much, and look what that's got us into.

Honestly, dating was always a bad experience for me so I’ll just stay single… they’re either abusive, toxic or die, drown in the mental health problems I brought with me or leave. People in general suck.

This video came out at such a good time. I've been feeling horrible about dating this past week, and wondering if i should even be rushing my life forward, or taking it slow. All of my friends constantly crack jokes about me not having a girlfriend, when I'm pretty much happy without one. But it comes to a point where stuff just gets annoying, and then you start pondering about stuff. If you ask me, it's important to work on yourself before actually commiting to a romantic partner

Man I actually appreciate getting told "no" when I was younger

As a straight guy in Gen Z, in my experience with girls, relationships in of itself just don't bc 1) They don't start bc ppl are too immature and corny about dating and being in a romantic relationship w sm1, + that one best friend bs (in other words other people getting involved in YOUR TWO'S relationship [or the now more frequent "situationships" ] 2) When it starts, it'll end bc of emotional immaturity- e.g. not communicating with (and not just to) your partner, no trust, and self-destructive behaviors like not letting yourself get close w somebody and running away when you do. 3) Political BS and a lack of an open-minded perspective. Life is ambiguous and so it is important to listen to and respect the OPINIONS of others. Or just avoid it in general lol.

4:18 I went on a few dates with a girl who unbeknownst to me had an onlyfans. On the last date she embarrassed as fuck tells me she has an OF and she was sorry for not telling me. I told her it's ok but we'll have to stop seeing eachother because having an OF is a deal breaker for me. I, never in my life, seen someone look at me with so much hatred she called me everything from little man to waste of oxygen, it was some real nice girl energy.

Ever since Covid happened people have seemed super unhappy even though people being unhappy was always a thing it seems more severe

I think the problem is that social media has created certain “expectations” in people. From what they look like to their personality. and if you don’t fit the modern “norm” I feel like social media has impacted the way people view each other

As a gen Z, I find all of these accusations to be completely true. If I’m being honest though, I am very disappointed in my generation. Nobody cares about themselves. Nobody cares about each other. Only their social media. Some gen Z are rarely outside. As a nature lover, I find it disappointing. Everywhere I go, I see kids with phones. iPads. Some form of screen. When there is a beautiful scene right in front of them. And it probably won’t last.

Just be upfront about liking someone. You get over rejection, you never stop wondering what could’ve been

unless she's into me and I'm into her, I'm not going out of my way to meet a girl, cuz it's a "high risk, low reward" situation. I'm probably never gonna date.

Even imaginary AI partners are better. .. and that's just sad.

It's really really sad to think that there could be a spoiled brat out there who has a life people could only dream of, while it's possible their grandpa was born into poverty, had his parents divorce and witnessed their fights, experienced extreme bullying, had a dream, and then decided to fight in a war and was killed before they could turn their life around. Ik I'm getting too deep into this, but it makes you think..

So refreshing that you wouldn't date a onlyfans girl. I've had to reject guys based on the fact they would date onlyfans girls fml gets so confusing I'm so happy I've found my boyfriend of nearly 2 years now. Agw 25

My last relationship ended in 2017. There are other things than dealing with the bullshit. Quite literally life is indeed too short to be putting up with this drama. Boyos... work on yourself mentally and physically--health. Earn that money, and survive this madness. Bon chance everyone

Finally, someone approaching this clusterfuck of a topic with a sane, relatable POV

"You don't have to be arrogant or agressive, just be yourself" If those Zoomers could read, they'd be very upset.

Everyone at school (or at least almost all my friends) pull and they keep telling me to "get a girl" even though I could care less about that. (I'm in the 7th grade)

Literally Dating In IRL Is So Hard Now Like A 10 Year Old On Roblox Can Easily Be Dating A 50 Year Old

as a gen z i am afraid of the people around me now

To be honest as a gen z it's really hard to find someone my age who's mature to be in a relationship, most of that kind of reletionships last like 7 days but if a person is lucky maybe a month. (Sorry if i made some mistakes writing this i'm not a native speaker and i'm still learning)

I have never seen anything more relatable, and I think this video makes me understand why love drama makes my brain explode.

For me, dating was ruined by one word. “Rizz”

Burdie your and The Duck are the only people's who story I can relate too because it's so recent and your childhood as well. Your videos talking about topics are also so true for example this one. Much love from South Africa

Hopefully, the dating market updates again and everything goes back to normal

The Alpha men movement is just a response to the feminist and girl boss movement. "Just you" not wanting to date an onlyfans girl is not just you thing. Any self respecting guy (Which are most people) wouldn't put up with it.

Remember when people actually acted their ages?

I wouldn't date someone that complained about what I bought them.

Meanwhile the individuals who actually date each other for the right reasons:

How to get a date as a man in 2023 for beginners. 6'4 is the new 6'0 , They want you to have chest hair but not too little and not too much, you must have a chiseled jawline and ''hunter eyes'', some strong hairy forearms preferably with some vascularity and rough masculine hands that reflect your practical nature (you grab the bull by the horns 🤤). But even more, you also need a few pieces of expensive jewellery to wear like hand rings and definitely a brand-name luxury watch (even though they are completely unnecessary in todays world) all to display your sense of style. Don't forget you must also wear bland but sophisticated clothing...we're talking plain tees, a nice coat etc ...your outfit should be at least a thousand dollars in value at any given time. A 6 figure income at a minimum and you ought to be bringing in twice that just to be safe, and you MUST be working in an authoritative position where you rule over inferior men, trust me it's important to be a leader. You must have a string of ex girlfriends who are all attractive so that women know you're a desirable man who is experienced with women's needs (🤢) and that your next girlfriend will be ''on par'' with all those supermodel ex's. A masters degree is good, a PhD is better and you better own your own home too, but not a regular home, a home that the neighbours envy. You must also have some bold but tasteful tattoo's to reflect how wild and care-free you are...women love to tame a wild man, they love a bloke who is socially dominant and intimidating and the thrill of controversy resonates within the hearts of women dearly. If you have a nice body that's ok, but if you have a dad-bod 🥵even better...the more out of shape you are the better she will look standing next to you and THAT is what TRUE love is all about. Best to be able to speak bilingually and with a foreign accent, in fact if you are foreign you're automatically more interesting! Think about how ''exotic'' and cultured your kids might turn out and how much of a statement it is to cross those boundaries of interracial dating. 🖕 those dinosaur haters and their will to preserve their ethnic identities. You must also be a liberal with liberal values who accepts that the girl you're trying to date is queer...but don't be queer yourself because that's weird (😬) A pet dog will go a long way to showing how caring you are, a solo dad raising his kid is even cooler and you better drive a nice car and come from an upper class family with rich and complex sets of family lore/ drama to gossip about. Now even if you can tick all these boxes you're still walking on thin ice; one wrong move and it's over and there are no second chances if you mess it up. Also don't be younger than her, even if she really adores you the age thing is just an unscalable barrier. Now is the time we should probably talk about _her past_ You're cool with the fact she used to do Only Fans right? and you're cool that her nudes are still floating around on peoples phones in perpetuity? You'd better be cool with that sexist 😠 As a potential dating prospect you're ok with the fact she's got a lot of emotional baggage from her past toxic flings right? You'll not only excuse her misandrist behaviours but you'll affirm her and reinforce her beliefs that all men are garbage? You'll be fine not trying certain things in the bedroom with her right? because she already tried that stuff with Ray ray and wasn't into it and doesn't want to try it again. You're ok skipping out on that italian romantic holiday yeah? because she's already been there before with her ex boyfriend Pablo and doesn't want to re-live those memories again. You're all good kissing places other guys have used for their own sexual gratification right? You're ok with the fact she's got a son to her ex boyfriend Muhammad? You'll make such a good dad raising Muhammads son for him im sure of it! You're cool that she has a giant dragon tattoo and stretch marks and is now overweight and all her ex boyfriends got to enjoy her when she was trimmer and more youthful in her prime? Alrighty, well if you can tick all those boxes then well done, you probably still lose out to some prison nonce she's keen on but you've done everything you can to make yourself a prospect 👍

A lot of things have complicated the dating world. I think teaching young boys and girls different things (such as girls embrace their emotions, while boys are taught to be tough and not cry) is the starting point of it all. You add in modern things like social media, then everybody catching the "men suck, women are nothing" social contagion... You're exactly right - you can't win no matter what you do with this. It's not fun at all.

good talk, my man. Refreshing, and on the point. Good job

just be a good person, create a purpose for yourelf, learn new philosophies, hobbies, and throw yourself into challenging situations, don't prioritise dating, because that's something that comes naturally, it should never come through from a dating app, oh and most of all, no one cares what you do or say

At my college the week before classes started we were put in groups by birth month and then said the people who are in a relationship step forward and all the single people me included looked at each other and started celebrating about being single like it was straight out of the movie type stuff it was so fun

Dating is not pointless bro, Just pls listen to me, ok you just got to find the girl that is loving, respectful, honest, caring, loyal, passionate, and hot. also avoid these girls in the USA: OF girls, gold diggers, cheaters, and emotionally unstable girls. Pls let me know if this is true btw, they call me the rizzler. I'm 17 btw.

Amen love the social commentary

I'm gonna bet right now that by the time I graduate high school, there's gonna be some kind of offensive trend where you're gonna be called a Nazi if you just breathe, or you're gonna be called a bitch if you just drink water or sleep.

TBH, I don't really care if I get 0 girls.

I don't even want to date anyone at this point, I just want to find someone who really does care for me and like me as a person. Like a person who deserves the title "best friend". But no, we just have these pieces of shit people in school. Basically the only good people in schools is just a very small amount. 2023 sucks and its not gonna get any better. I also find it funny how he made this video in the middle of summer lol.

I think the downfall is mainly in number of options for women. Literally ten of tousands guys spamming them if they live in bigger city, let's say with 1,5 mil. citizens. And because you need to date online, you as a guy need to be competitive in gigantic field. It's not enough anymore to be the most charming in the village, you literally need to compete with 1/4 of a city.

Rng blessed me with who i found. 5 years this coming january and i couldnt be happier.

Life would not exist without males or females we can’t live without the other

Alphas and girlbosses belong in those kindergarten gender wars (change my mind)

I feel you on all the good girls are taking bruh

10:46 that’s the answer I found in my dating life, most of my relationships lasted three months or three years + have standards for yourself and meet your set standards.

Bro that’s why I hang on so tight to my man. I refuse to date in todays dating pool

There goes humanity..

Recipe for good relationship: make demands on yourself first and take care of your significant other. (Both of you) Modern relationships: make demands on your significant other and take care of yourself first. (Both of you) The last one sounds like recipe for disaster, right?😁 So, I think no one is surprised that it is exactly what happens.

Gender wars should've been left in elementary school

It may seem hopeless but don't give up! There is someone good for you out there. Nowadays it might just take a bit longer to find them :P

All I really want is someone who’s loving and loyal

yooooo wurdie love ur vids keep the work up

Bruv is spitting facts

Bro's fighting against 2 armies... AND STILL SOLO-ING!

Astrology was absolutely a thing before gen z. Astrology existed way before Christianity. It got super popular in America in the 60s and 70s. Even in 2004 in Eminem's song just lose it he quotes the common pick up line "what's your name girl? What's your sign?"

This is literally what I always wanted to say out loud

Bro, ur memes along with the humor is so fucking funny, i laugh every video lmfao

Anyone else want to hear this man ramble for 2 hours or is it just me

Lemme' say this... I don't get offended easily

thanks wurdie

Dating sucks now

one of my best friends has a girl. i told her that he thought she was mean jokingly and she got pissed at the both of us

some random girl who are friend of a friend of mine she just asked my sign, i... get confused but reply "gemni?" she get shocked and treat me like a criminal because "ugh! gemini? the most bipolar of them all? stay away of me!" then i scolded her for her behavior for believing that i could be some kind of freak or a potential criminal... she kinda apologise, but then she blocked me! i talked about it to my friend and he confronted her, she apologised to me again, said she "didn't knew she blocked me" and tried to add me again. yeah.. not gonna happen, creepy girl!

W on adding 8 bit Ryan. Pretty funny

I had finished my schoolwork for my Japanese class so I went to join the other two smart people who happened to be girls who were doing a word search and these two people started saying w rizz to me. It is just stupid, i was trying to do a word search with some friends not ask either of them out on a date

When I went to Mexico the dating game was so much better

Dating Chain

It’s one of the reasons why I’m focusing on myself at the moment. After graduating high school in 2029, I’ve noticed some of the people I went to school with are either married or have kids at 22-23 which is fine it’s their life but I don’t want that at least not right now. My main focus right now is improving my skills so I can have a stable life and a better future. Dating just isn’t worth it right now and speaking of OF, some of the same girls I had classes with…some of them are doing OF.

burdie but recolored.... i love it

Literally i give up dating because of how the breakup and other made a depressing time so giving up be a good thing because you don't have to deal with breakup drama and many mistake

dont be in astrology but be in astronomy

I feel the exact same way about dating in 2023 because its true

me still rockin the kate spade bag from my old relationship from age 18

I don't wanna date find no point of it. most females these days hate men how there evil or record themselves on tik tok breaking there boyfriend console as a "prank" astrology is corny

I got called a nazi because I’m German and I didn’t even say I was lol

There was this OF model trying to guilt trip me into being into a relationship with her. Like nah, if you love someone then something I do know is the natural feeling people should have instead of leaving things up to be a business proposal

Guys, for all our non sexual emotional needs.... all we need is a dog. Much happiness, much loyalty and affection.

We have our roles in life

That's why I don't want friends 💀💀

Im literally the most undatable person ever, i just like doing my own thing while not being bothered by anyone

Dating is to hard 😢