Imagine giving respect and being humble to your bullies who were your main subject teachers.. imagine giving respect and talking politely to bullies who humiliated you in front of the whole class at every given opportunity and humiliated your parents in front of other parents and students during parent-teacher meetings.

Correct 💯

Not just one way street.

@@user-go7yi8ye7j yeah right, like probably gen y or gen x are very tolerant.

Right

I’m so sorry this happened to you.

The way these teachers use mental torture techniques on children and only get away with it because we don't have strong child abuse laws in India

I'm from a southeast asian country and we had punishments like this when I was in school around 10 years ago. It seemed normal back then but in retrospect I can't believe I went through that.

@@taniamanik2012 20 years have lapsed but it still haunts me.. Humiliation is the worst poison..

School teachers today are really pathetic human beings. 95% dont teach at all, demotivate, insult weak and poor students, praise and help students with good background and rich powerful parents.

Why did the teacher do that he/she is so dumb--

Thx for sharing

Why were u dragged?

The way I've seen boy beaten up even by tuition teachers, it's child abuse plain and simple

Not to forget the infamous duster throws the teachers will do in case they feel we were not listening or dozed off slightly.

what century are you living in ?

Corporal punishments are still rampant in schools despite this practice being banned from 2009. What a colossal failure of our government. When are they going to enforce it?

@@piyushjoshigaming4503 This is the 90's and not very long ago. Be happy that you did not go through all these things kid. In fact your parents will tell the teacher to give you some beatings and set you straight.

Teachers used to tear and throw my books on the ground. They would always complain to my mother on parents teachers meeting about this. Ironically when I went to engineering teachers used to keep my assignments for reference because my handwriting now is very beautiful. As I grew up my handwriting improved immensely.

And it does not matter. In real life if your handwriting is good you are not going to get paid extra. Schools create hype on useless thing.

My English teacher tells me as a last year high school student to write in cursive, like seriously? We have to write alot in short time and I don't have time to think about writing in cursive when I don't even have time to think, her English paper as long as and the time is so little

Yesss handwriting issues was given too much importance that time that only bcoz of hand they would ignore all his other talents .this had been the issue with my bro .due to which he later was not willing to attend school. There must be serious law to deal with such toxic teachers.

You aren't alone in this brdr🥹

So true kv was hell for me too...

Yes, this is true. I studied in KV too and went through a lot of humiliation and psychological abuse from senior teachers. Those memories still gives me anxiety and shiver ness. It destroyed my self esteem forever😥

Crt

Same here most teachers were bullies including kids that I do not remember the good times.

Same, i studied in kV too, nd now I am working. And I am telling u, working is waaay better than going to school in my opinion Edit: ppl might say that school is better, but unfortunately I didn't have the luxury to experience that, all I rem are bad memories. Although there are some good gold nuggets here and there, it was mostly a bad experience for ne

So true

Listening story of the women in video and also all here in the comments felt like I am not going through anything actually i kinda go through bullying in class 12th all the years back then teachers were so nice to me as I was an A grader nd after covid I opted science which I don't have interst in but still don't have enough knowledge nd just opted it nd in 11th I had frnds in my class nd yeah whole 11th we just spent without studying at the end somehow I just managed to pass but my frnds get failed I actually do have my frnds in 12th even now but outside of the class in other sections or streams in my class the frnds I have i don't talk to them much but yeah it's fine it's like bcoz we r not tht close so I get so bored my class which r normal things but the main thing is where I get felt bullied was my maths teacher as also in 12th I wasn't scoring well so she just starting slowly taunting me or saying things what she should not say to me not just me some more kids in class nd i just start hating her there were some things she hv said to me which made me felt so bad nd now after seeing this video i get to know no matter what if teacher is being mean or saying something to you which u felt inappropriate I just need to speak up for myself or otherwise I need to end up restoring this all bad memories with me I wasn't ever that much scared to go school I wasn't ever felt that much bad or underconfident but yeah I know till now it was actually I wasn't putting efforts but now i hv started doing preparation for my September exams may be not much but m sure I will score better nd I must gain my confidence back after getting again good marks in academics well it's actually m sure I will get good marks in my boards but before that I am going to be topper of my class just after this September exams m going to do more gard work and i will smash my grades on the face of that maths teacher nd i just want to gain that much confidence to say nd tell that she is a bad teacher in front of her face

So true..

you should refuse to be a part of this. Resilience is a better deal, and it makes you a superior human.

you are fine you are the best version of you.. Best wishes to you.. :) Cheer up

@@sammevinod 😀 that was an emotional video which just opened flood of bad memories in school . I studied in KV school and I guess it has its methods .

You are very strong, kind sir, to face such painful memories we need to steel our hearts Best wishes to you and a good day !

Ap bhi esa mat kar dena 😊

Imagine what their own children would be going through because they have to face that bullying even at home.

@@user-go7yi8ye7j and you are following him too right?

or teachers who play politics with students, shame.

MOSTLY FAMALE TEACHERS USED TO INSULT IN CLASS.

Same Bhai academic life was hell for me, as a student of class 6 I used to feel like a 9to5 office guy. I used to go for tuition directly from school. I remember each day like I have PTSD. I used to be average but the constant pressure from teachers and parents coz they used to spend a lot of money altogether crushed me. I tell my sister daily about my niece who's in class 3 now not to put any form of mental pressure on her. Her school is a scam, they teach stuff which are not even required for class 3, final and half yearly exams in the midst of festivals or a day prior to festivals clearly being done intentionally and what not, I literally fear for her.. I could've done better academically if I didn't had so much pressure the constant reminder "you are bad" "tumse nehi hoga" it should stop

​@@TheTanmoy16 the amt of pressure pvt schools are putting on kids is unbearable. I would prefer to put my kid to some good govt school rather than these pocket emptiying pvt schools.

@@TheTanmoy16 I totally lost interesting in going to school ,I’ve hurt myself to skip school ,I would rather break my hand or cough vigorously than go to school to listen to the teachers and their daunting words ,in class 7 a teacher called me jungle man for having beard and worst part is I don’t know how these nincompoops are even qualified to teach ,to know shit and to teach shit is two different things ,teaching requires compassion,which most teachers lack these days .

@@TheTanmoy16 The PTSD thing is relatable to me. After my intermediate, I decided to join a job, because I didn't wanted that school thing again, and for two years I used to get nightmares of being back to school. I used to wake up at night due to the pain and fear I felt in sleep. Teachers at that time used to bully and were biased all the time. I had ADHD too, and nobody knew about it. I'm sure teachers even today are not aware of ADHD.

What were your symptoms?

Same thing happened with me in same school in which I was teaching and I was young and today I am a DM of the same district.😊

Without bullying also u can bring achievement in kids.

they pick on the weak, which is a trait I hate the most. They can't do the same with someone who is of their level or superior, it is always the children.

Same case for me as yours ,though i am in class 11th our english teacher who is such an old educated mind !She told me useless who always creates problem everytime and yeah i am her target always!

And most parent continue to enable such horrible behaviour.

True i can totally relate to you ....this year i got some worse teacher aka bullies ...like my physics teacher , my situation is just the same as you he insults me each and every day asks me a difficult question and when i am unable to answer it he insults me He usually says words like " hatt " to me and the audacity is that those students who cant even speak in front of me laughs at me

Same but worser thing was that the teacher was teaching me from class 5 to class 10.

You are so fortunate to get such a great humble & patient teacher....

Teachers like them should be awarded with the best prize in the world.

So good to hear 😢😢😢 I was bullied by my own class teacher ( he was maths teacher)

yes u are fotunate but only few people are like that

Very unreal. From taare zameen par. Aisa kyon kiya aapke saath. Kya motivation tha? Hansi aati hai. Jahan sab ki pitai hoti thee app kaise bach gaye. If I recall there used to be this small group of respected children. Unhain kabhi punish nahin kiya jaata tha. Woh poor nahin thae. Toh ya toh aap us elite group kae honge ya yeh teachers unusual hongi. Aapke marks kaise maths main badha diye how it is possible. Those teachers were not honest. Maths main marks kaise increase kiye. Yeh to corruption aur favouritism hai. Equally bad.

Completely agree ❤

They don't care

Due to the society, you will be tagged shameless by the teachers

​@@p15209 True

I know I didn't have as worse as u, but to tell u da truth, I hate my father too, made me and my mother's life hell since childhood...But I will tell u this: u don't deserve the shame. The people who should be ashamed deserved it... I consider myself an warrior, Who is born to fight both mentally and physically, and make sure I die a martyar's death.. I want u to believe the same. Go apologize to that girl if possible. Live urself again.

I relate with whatever you've said, except some things. I hope you find peace and good people.

@@sohamsteel1345 thanks for your words. Much appreciated but she's married now 😅😅. I can live without expressing a slight distress, but it only lasts for two to three days and finally I sob inside the bathroom and cry myself to sleep. If I don't cry, I keep internalizing the repetitive flashbacks and my chest starts to ache and becomes tight. Now I'm improving little bit, started listening to mild music and writing when I'm emotional and such. It's bearable.

@@sohamsteel1345 still we can't consider ourselves as beings without needs for emotional support, because we are born at the mercy of other adults, and when the adult caretakers are themselves living with unresolved trauma, then crap like this happens, like a broken adult trying hard to feel worthy of themselves. I agree on you with fighting mentally and physically, not just for our survival but to reach out to others who need social support the most. I hope we can change someone's life for the better. Thanks mate.

@@Shambhav-qf7od thank you. It's getting better. I wrote that comment when I was about to break down, and now I feel like a completely different person. The pain is more like a distant memory rather than something that needs to be dealt with to avoid such breakdown in future. I completely dissociate myself from my melancholic state of self. It's not healthy, but I'm managing somehow and wish to make things even more safe and mentally healthy for me. Thanks.

Yes! you have full right to hate them and wish bad upon them they choosed this after all .😊

Same here, I was bullied in class, my father also always used to insult me in front of others

They are burning already if not they will burn. It will happen for sure. Cause there is a thing called KARMA.

I swear to God, I wish the same for my bully teachers and some classmates.

@@--xx--5800 I truly believe in this..

Best of luck!

Please don't lock yourself up, yes school life do has deep impact on our lives... But that's one phase of life, life is bigger than that, you must come out of all those bitter memories and atleast now enjoy life... ❤ don't allow those cruel people who mistreated you, control your life 😊

@swift150_67 Thanks for the concern. Appreciate it. I tried but couldn't. The more I try, the more it gets tangle.

Please go to a therapist or counselor. You'll get the help you deserve, trust me.

@@eternalreality4346 In shaa Allah

Same bro.. same..

Plz tell your parents for take stand for you too❤

@@Xhchhcjcjxjxxui my parents did take stand whenever possible but that just led to more mocking from my teachers when my parents where not there. It also led to teachers declaring in the class to be wary of me repelling many friends away.

Share it. They must know. I'm doing the same

Karma will get her, don’t worry. Hr insan hr subject men expert ho, ye zaruri nhi. Meri maths bohot achi thi, lekin Theorems kabhi smjh nhi aae. And I am totally okay with it. Einstein ko bhi hr subject nhi aata hoga. Or ap neend ki bat krrhe ho, ese log khud ko ‘Teachers’ kese kehte hen, wo hi herat ki bat h.

Then my teachers were kind, the one's who should slap should go bench to bench. 😂

It is really sad😢🥺💔💔💔💔

I can sense how you must have felt. It's shameful on that teacher's part. Ridiculous. Government should be taking action.

We must not wish ill for others but this just makes me want to curse her for the very worst things to happen to her What a bitch May you heal from that, i don't know who and how you are, but you deserved so much better than that as a student and a young child :((

I'm sorry for what you had to go through and also your English is absolutely fine. Sending you love and hugs ❤️

No need to excuse yourself, your english is perfect.

Hello! Whatever you experienced is extremely sad and unfortunate. You did not deserve it. Whatever happens can never be changed. But you have an extremely bright and happy future ahead of you. I truly wish you happiness, success, health and healing.

we all know they are, they call themselves role models who "shape" us, in reality we hate them and never want to be like them. They say "respect teachers", but it's teachers whom we respect not monsters.

Your English is really good my dear❤

Sorry 😢 to hear...i can understand what had you gone through..... 😢😢... teacher should be one who we respect but believe me after my 12th and graduation i remember and respect only 2 teacher.... what an irony right... I was taught by more than 100 but only want to respect 2 .... I understand you feeling 😔

If I was your mother, I would have lost control and hit that teacher because women like her should be in mental asylum not in a classroom.

Sexual assualt that was it call it what it was .I hope you are doing well brother much love and strength.

That touching and unbuttoning collars is sexual assault....that teacher deserves slaps

So sorry that u went through that....

The Teachers Day should be boycotted. I literally cringe when somebody post status of Teachers day in social media.

@@user-lo6du2rs9x No It shouldnt be, otherwise students wont receive holiday. LOL

@@Azmarine13 It is not even a holiday, a week before all the crap starts about "selecting students to become teachers for that day" and yet another useless drama in the name of celebration.

Ikr, in our school they make us work on both teachers and children's day, and act as if they are the one working, my school is intense in bullying when it comes to teachers, while the students are what I hate the most, they are all snakes

​@@anewlife5846Trueee

I can relate 🙁

Such teachers are worse than the old British Raj terrorists.. They are not Bullying they breaking your God given talent ON PURPOSE.. AUR THU KUCH NAHI KAR SAKTE. Unless you can make your own money you are stuck in school and in such toxic environment. NOT EVEN GOD CAN SAVE.

I can relate too. But it wasn’t easy. I was actually brilliant, but not in a standard way. No way those self serving idiots could have ever realized. I too of course had no real realization of that back then… and due to the way I was treated, I hated school and everything it stood for. Who knows I could have studied better and followed my passions with all my heart if this was not done to me. I had a very hard time when I first became a mother. It took me a while to understand and break the cycle and make myself a better person despite the trauma.

@@Shamazcorner More power to you for breaking the cycle and taking the first steps to get over the trauma. Best wishes to you. I hope you revive those passions and may it bring you joy❤️

Discipline is a Hoax

Take care you matter

Yes, our Indian society needs to be more sensitive and sensible! People around are soooo judgemental they will not let people live their life!

This is not happening sadly

I am so sorry that you had to go through that 💔 you are worthy,amazing person and very STRONG anyone who can go through something like that and also get abounded by their parents MUST have to be strong. Always remember you can be anything !❤

Felt so bad reading your comment abeer. I hope you get over that inhuman behavior you received. You have my good wishes coming from heart.

Being motherless or fatherless is completely horrifying.. My uncle was mere 12 yrs old when he killed himself coz his both parents were dead in an accident from teachers to entire society started calling him a rakshash and began cursing him ,even if he broke a single glass he was asked as if he wanna eat them too.

Tum jaise musalmano k saath kiya to phir thik h tum log to chalte phirte terrorists ho nothing new...sahi kiya current Islam is like disease I prefer people who spread true Islam which Prophet Md. Ji taught us...😊

its high probability that you havent read quran with proper translation, read what LONDI/Maal e ganimat in islam means, the disgusting names calling women like LONDIA/ MAAL comes from your so called religion only. Leave the cult.

Same here

A big problem these days.... have seen this behaviour and they are teachers....

The problem is teachers think hey can do whatever they like

You're so right❤

Indians hate introverts. I enjoy my alone time and spend some of it, doing creative things like writing, drawing and cooking. I also started going to gym to take better care of my body. Because I don’t barge into houses and be social, I’m always branded as the “unfriendly” and “quiet” person everywhere I go. My sister has social anxiety and struggles speaking to people. She is also hated for that and severely misunderstood.

@@jaybirdfly149 Well, not just Indians, the world over introverts are often disliked for being unsocial. I see myself as an ambivert, but I feel you. IMO, it's better to be unsocial than anti-social (as many extroverts tend to be, by forcing their views and whims on others). It's okay to stay private and quiet. More power to you and your sister. Good day !

Exactly...The trauma could last forever but at the end of the day you have to play with the cards that you're dealt with. Everytime I hear people often saying I miss my school days and all but for me I wish my school memories are wiped out permanently 🥲

​@@thepessimist1160 same I want to wiped out my school memories , iam good in study praises by teachers and relatives but being shy , introvert and have skinny body . I get bullied by friends, schoolmates even by cousins they used to call me mental, chutiya ratondi😢

@@gautamsharma3185 That's because they are insecure about themselves and jealous of you.

😮😮 shocking....😢

God, I felt useless. It felt as if everyone hated me. I felt like I don't matter to anyone. I felt useless to the world. Incompetent and unable.

we feel the same. It boils my blood now, may those teachers rot in hell. But! Karma will hit them well. Disgusting, lowlife teachers.

so sorry for you...same my case!

:((

WTF- THOSE TEACHERS DESERVES HELL

Thank you..

Thank you😭❤

What a sick teacher!

Oh my ! My son suffered similar experience in grade 8 when he forgot to do his maths hw. My father had recently passed away n my son was very attached to his grandpa. He became forgetful due to the depression. Normally my son is well known for his discipline n was the class monitor but that day he was punished just like the other kids. No issues there, he didnt do hw n was punished but the tchr went ahead n took photographs n said I will send it to your parents. My son was so scared as he never had faced such punishment ever. But he came home n immediately told me about it. I hugged him n told him it's ok to goof up at times n I will handle the situation if the teacher complains. Pl support your child if they genuinely forget sometime to do their hw or submit assignments. They are handling multiple subjects in school, balancing extra curricular activities n projects n assignments...the list is endless. So much pressure for such young shoulders.

​@@prachialdangadi9663 sir/mam can you explain what thing they captured as photo? I mean what is there to be scared of a photograph?

@@magnum9750 magnum, the tchr captured all children exiting the classroom for not doing their homework. The photo was supposed to be sent to the parents.

honestly, dark skin is such a beautiful body feature, I am not saying this because I pity u but because dark skin is indeed beautiful. I hope u realize that, and not feel insecure

@@user-uz1xg1jp1m thanks 😊

Being well dressed is all that matters

Nope. Most incompetent people of the society end up as teachers. Worse if you are looking at smaller grade! These losers want to play god with kids. If a kids score less who should be blamed? The parents, grandparent, the kid,... but not the Teacher herself!!!

Yes some pple are also at this. However I have seen such PPL getting results of what they did in the past. In short whatever you do comes back to you.❤️