Depressed woman hated the husband and son all her life and ended up completely alone in her old age

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Ай бұрын

Olive has chronic depression throughout her life. She doesn't know how to be happy or express her feelings. Olive has a difficult relationship with her son and her husband, who, on the contrary, strives to help everyone around him.
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@dawgboyz24 Ай бұрын

Olive is the worst kind of villain 🦹‍♀️. Always disappointed , upset, and mad. Everything is a negative environment. That’s cancerous

@BeautifulSoul5782 Ай бұрын

Very well said!

@monie948 Ай бұрын

True

@kcbh24 24 күн бұрын

She's not a villain. Some people are born finding life unbearable no matter what they do.

@dawgboyz24 23 күн бұрын

@@kcbh24 a villain 🦹‍♀️

@kcbh24 23 күн бұрын

@@dawgboyz24 you can repeat yourself all you want but it doesn't make it true. She is an antagonist, not a villain, Ignoramus.

@aliway4136 Ай бұрын

I loved my mother with all my heart but I don't think she felt the same. She was a lot like this woman. Completely and totally emotionally unavailable.

@HaveANiceTrip02 Ай бұрын

My mom is the exact same. She does not believe in mental health in regards to herself. As an adult i went no contact for a couple years. Once i was ready we slowly started talking again. I've learned she wont change and if i want a relationship with her, i have to literally ignore the bad/ mean behavior

@nivaparia8837 Ай бұрын

Well my father is like that . But it gets worse he's not just emotionally unavailable he is mentally abusive. He'd come to a calm home & start verbally abusing people close to you & taunting you , if you end up reacting he'd remind you whose house you live in . And all that when my mother has a job & contributes too & she's the one that looked after me all my life in every way . Can't imagine how worse it would be if he was the sole earner . When he's ill or has any problems everyone must tend to him . When someone else is ill it's an inconvenience for him . Would call everyone mad when he's the one acting up most of the times & agitating others . These kind of people will suck your life force till they live . They don't appreciate what they have . You must be perfect & successful at all times . If you are not he's unable to brag about it .I'm convinced the only way to save yourself from such people is to run far far away from them .

@tablescissors Ай бұрын

@@nivaparia8837 sounds very narcissistic, I’m sorry

@nevereverforever0010-uf9su 18 күн бұрын

yup

@kayt7059 Ай бұрын

What a sad and bitter way to live.

@shivalishankersharma1562 Ай бұрын

Some people enter the room and flood it with negative energy. Thats Olive

@anonymoususer9079 Ай бұрын

I dont think you guys understood Olive's character at all. It's chronic depression and it's hidden her case. There's a point during it, that becomes so unbearable that you become bitter, rude to everyone else , even to your family, you can't even stand yourself alone. It's shown in her ways of taking full care of her husband when she can just divorce, appreciating him in his most vulnerable state in his life (remember, a true person's colours are shown when you notice how they treat you when they don't need you for anything at all), also shown in the part where she just exists because her dog was depending on her, otherwise she would've off'd herself long ago. It's a misunderstood character. A pity. Edit: just noticed the description, i wrote all the above without knowing there's an author who already says she has chronic depression. I wanted to add that the author pictured the life of someone living with chronic depression perfectly. I have never seen anything more accurate. Congratulations, its a piece of art.

@arzelzon1137 Ай бұрын

Glad someone get it. 👏

@ellaveldje7125 28 күн бұрын

And is sad !! This is why people with depressions are misunderstood

@illbeyourstumbleine 22 күн бұрын

Very well said. Sadly for people like Olive they think because they’re not a physically abusive drunk like one or both of their parents, that means they’re a good parent to their own kids. We have all heard parents like this go “you think I’m so mean and you have it so hard, my dad only talked to me when he was drunk and yelling while beating us” They’re very hardened people, and in a way it’s not their fault. I am so thankful to my mother. Her parents were awful to her and unlike her sister, she broke that cycle. She was kind, funny, smart, and giving to a fault. Sadly life isn’t fair and we lost her at only 44 while her own mother sat “stoically” in the front row, never cried one tear. She’s gone now too, I would say resting in peace but we all know there’s no rest for the wicked! Again, your explanation was spot on, thank you.

@somethingclever8916 5 күн бұрын

Mental illness is valid. But so is treatment. Imagine saying "but there are drug addict. They aren't responsible. We need to accept and support their addiction" Have patents with MH issues as do I. What's next we excuse psychopathic behavior? DV?

@AndrewBarsky 18 сағат бұрын

I understood the character and I also understand what it’s like to be severely depressed. Her character wasn’t unlikable because she was depressed. She was unlikable because she did absolutely nothing to try and fix the problem. When people around you care about you, they will put up with a lot. It’s your responsibility to attempt to accept the situation and try to better yourself. When I hit rock bottom, I took some time to realize how I was creating hell for myself and everyone around me. It’s easy to hide your suffering when your line of work is teaching, children bring genuine happiness. People will tolerate you if you recognize the problem and try to fix it. As someone who has been through it, I become infuriated if people choose to forever wallow in self pity. She wasn’t an “abusive drunk” but it would almost make it easier to deal with because you could blame the booze and”sickness.” She was an emotional train wreck who emotionally abused others by her presence alone. Assaulting her grown up son and crying at the dinner table in front of guest isn’t “normal.” But everyone around her was too afraid of agitating her. Aka (perhaps unintentional but probably not) emotional abuse. Depression is a reason, not an excuse. Being “stoic” just means you’re an uptight asshole who buries their feelings. She just wasn’t a very good person.

@margaretdownie4407 Ай бұрын

Some people just don't know how to be happy or just being content

@SimonetteNikola Ай бұрын

This is what happen when you dont heal your inner child

@MrsCollins213 Ай бұрын

Why is she getting the sympathy? No one feels sympathy for the husband and son who were hated for years?

@dm-hn2wt Ай бұрын

She was probably a mental patient...

@samrhee3880 27 күн бұрын

I see your point completely, and I’ve certainly distanced myself from people like that, but as I get older, I’m understanding that people who seem to be really comfortable being rude, blunt, or even mean often have extremely miserable lives. And in this case, it’s clearly showing a case of chronic depression, I liked that this movie didn’t solve anything or that it glorified or justified her behavior. She suffered for her actions immediately and completely. But it’s just a portrait of someone with a chemical imbalance leading to severe chronic depression.

@MrsCollins213 26 күн бұрын

@@samrhee3880 then she shouldn’t have gotten married or had children. Save them the misery.

@raeraebadfingers 7 күн бұрын

@@MrsCollins213maybe she wasn't chronically depressed then. The fuck. What a stupid thing to say.

@somethingclever8916 5 күн бұрын

White women have privilege

@jewel65 Ай бұрын

Such a good actress!

@pouketriumph4640 Ай бұрын

this movie shows the reality of life,most people are simply just existing 💯💔

@lsd938 Ай бұрын

Same... my mum just had anger... no other emotions... my parents have cheated on each other... but they are still together...

@ViralCog Ай бұрын

Olive sees people for who they are. But she doesn't have to be so crude to her family. She made her family miserable.

@tesselaynes5428 Ай бұрын

Imagine how her kids in class felt. She shouldnt have been a teacher.

@Wodensdsy Ай бұрын

I suffer from bipolar disorder and I have some hallucinations when I get too manic. My mania causes me to stay awake for 4-7 days and I’ll see what looks like television static all over, or ants marching in line. I remember seeing this movie and thinking about how much worse my condition could be. And I worry that it’s going to get bad like these people.

@1marcelfilms Ай бұрын

schizotube

@raeraebadfingers 7 күн бұрын

Weird question.. is it black and white static or colorful? It's really strange never seen anyone ever say that

@Wodensdsy 6 күн бұрын

@@raeraebadfingers colorful. Almost impossible to explain. It was like the color of whatever I was looking at just with static over it too

@raeraebadfingers 6 күн бұрын

@@Wodensdsy okay I understand that then! Years ago I told my eye doctor I see rainbow static sometimes. And they said that wasn't possible so I never talked to anyone else about it and just assumed i was nuts 🤷🏻‍♀️ But I know EXACTLY what you mean! Edit: when I said rainbow static, I forgot to mention that is only when I am either on my back looking at the clouds or stars, or when I close my eyes 😅

@crempuii Ай бұрын

I know someone who is exactly like olive,they feel powerful and secured in their bitterness and always want to be different thinker in every situation.They are the most toxic people who see themselve as a strong special person and everyone is stupid.

@VanityDivined Ай бұрын

I’d say to tell them anonymously, but you don’t know what they’ll do

@AXELRAPUNZEL Ай бұрын

The wife in this story is insufferable.

@Ad_Astra2023 4 күн бұрын

So this is about a man who doesn’t try to understand his own wife’s depression but goes a long way to care for another young woman’s grief, and in result, his wife gets even more unhappy.

@illbeyourstumbleine 22 күн бұрын

Olive was my grandma Judith. So thankful to my mother for breaking that cycle, her sister wasn’t able to, but I’m happy to say her daughter/my cousin did❤ Very proud of them, it’s a very are cycle to break. To be a loving, respectful, nonjudgmental parent that you never had. So very thankful for my momma, I miss her everyday ❤

@tiffybnTN Ай бұрын

Damn 😢 this was deep I’ll have to watch

@user-wx3ii4gh9v Ай бұрын

The book this is based on is AMAZING, too!!

@mmmuuuuuuuuiiiiiiiiirrrrr 5 сағат бұрын

"Voluntarily pass away" I know brilliance when I hear it.

@tammywheetley2384 Ай бұрын

This looks like a real good movie...

@arimax888 Ай бұрын

Gosh this was so depressing mainly because this is real life not sci fiction. This was set at a time before the term postpartum depression was known & women were left to fend for themselves or called "hysterical"!!! Nowadays we can all relate to her because we all either face or know people struggling with MH issues

@slainemccool2875 Ай бұрын

The worst kind of person has to make everybody else suffer with her

@HaveANiceTrip02 Ай бұрын

Mental health is such a draining thing to deal with. You can very easily be swept away by your brain. Developing proper coping skills is very important. If you suffer from delusions journaling can be helpful. If you suffer from hallucinations investing in a pet can help ease anxiety and determine what is real or not. Local counties should have a government run facility if you are in need of help. I first got help with my local clinic as well. Easier than using a doctor where sometimes you need a referral.

@jesussaves1827 Ай бұрын

Turn to Jesus He loves you, He is the healer of the body And savior of the soul, There is True Hope in Jesus, God protects Psalms 91, He is the God of miracles Acts 2:21 And everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved Jesus alone saves Trust Him with your salvation John 3:16 1 Corinthians 15 1-4 Moreover Brethren, i declare unto you the gospel which i preached unto you, which also ye have received, and with wherein ye stand By which also ye are saved, if you keep in memory what i preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain, For i delivered unto you first of all that which i also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures And that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the scriptures, Take care

@somethingclever8916 5 күн бұрын

I agree mental illness is valid but so is treatment and therapy.

@nikig2891 18 күн бұрын

Of course she was a math teacher.

@halyketarrant 15 күн бұрын

Frances McDormand is incredible. Also, the two books of Olive Kitteridge are sad, but great.

@brandy4250 Ай бұрын

Just, ugh. Pass.

@ashiff7781 Ай бұрын

Olive is difficult but at least she is transparent true to herself

@rosihantu1 Ай бұрын

Being true to yourself is one of the worst advice in life.

@Kevo7979 29 күн бұрын

Okay, this is by far most depressing movie I've ever seen....

@VanityDivined Ай бұрын

Why wasn’t it called Henry Kitteridge? Idgaf about Olive. Fitting since she doesn’t care about anyone either Edit: I get it. It’s about the pov of a narcissist

@linchen008 Ай бұрын

She cared about her husband and her son. But I think she had untreated depression what made her unable to feel positive about life. It's like always having a kind of suffering.

@kellyryan3886 29 күн бұрын

It's really just a story about a normal person's life. Nothing spectacular. Seems like my life (except I'm not a cheater). So, moral of the story, don't cheat?

@jujubees5855 Ай бұрын

Olive Kitteridge

@georgesherrill3371 16 күн бұрын

“…voluntarily pass away”?! She committed suicide, you dork!

@halyketarrant 15 күн бұрын

He can’t use such language in KZfaq you smartass

@somethingclever8916 5 күн бұрын

You tube would demonetize it because adult children will be triggered. Thank the world the celebrates mental illness and doing absolutely nothing about it.

@GiftSparks Күн бұрын

The word “suicide” is forbidden on youtube if you want to be monetized.

@jane-cn6nd Ай бұрын

What is the name of the movie?

@SjofnBM1989 Ай бұрын

It's a tv miniseries called Olive Kitterage.

@jane-cn6nd Ай бұрын

@@SjofnBM1989 Thank you 😊

@JellyBean-oj3vj Ай бұрын

This scene was a ad 12:51

@raeraebadfingers 7 күн бұрын

It was sad or it was an ad?

@AndrewBarsky 18 сағат бұрын

“Voluntarily pass away.” Bro she was about to commit SUICIDE. Just because you change the name of the condition that doesn’t mean you change the condition. Carlin said this long ago. You’re taking the life out of language. Ironically “voluntarily passing away” the English language 🙄

@beasaroseco5840 Ай бұрын

The actor who plays Jerry looks familiar. I can't remember where I have seen him before.🤔

@TYL110 Ай бұрын

Disney channel

@koryngalen6228 Ай бұрын

@@TYL110Todd from breaking bad

@i_bleed_makeup1187 Ай бұрын

Oh my God. This was the most disappointing 26 minutes of my life. What an absolute crock of shit this movie was. The only thing I'm happy about is that I didn't watch the full length feature 😂

@arzelzon1137 Ай бұрын

thats the essence of the movie, you need to feel bad because majority thats how Life works.

@halyketarrant 15 күн бұрын

The book is great though