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I was beaten badly for YEARS by my daughters father. I was 13 when i met him and he was 18 turning 19!!!!! I was a child!!! I was groomed and manipulated into a cycle of violence. I got pregnant at 17 (my mom refused to give me birth control and knew i was in a relationship with this ADULT and how he treated me... still cant understand it) I was not able to save money and run away with our daughter until I was almost 21 (I'm 25 now). So I endured the most cruel mental physical sexual abuse for my entire teenage years and into my 20s. When I left, it had escalated to the pojnt where he broke my leg in 3 different places, fractured my eye socket, sent me to the ICU for 6 days from a particularly brutal beating, held knives to my throat while our small daughter cried at her baby gate for me and he told me he was going to kill me and say goodbye... and so so much more. The reasoning for some of it? he thought he saw a hair on his dinner plate so in his mind that hair equaled I was cheating and the hair was transferred to the plate... yes im serious. The time that resulted in my broken leg was because I was speaking too much and 'interrupting him' any time i opened my mouth.. so I went dead silent only nodding/nonverbal cues to try to avoid more punches and he got even more enraged because not responding was disrespectful.. so I was talking he got angry and hurt me.. I stopped talking and he got even more angry and escalated to breaking my leg so badly my bone was put back together surgically with plates and pins... and I have crps in my leg from it.. its called the suicide disease bc of the continous pain. My c-ptsd is so bad I have night terrors even several years later. I get panic attacks from smells or sights that trigger memories.. I still havent seen a single man romantically since him either. But listening to this panel of women talk about my situation... being a single mom bc of abuse and etc....and saying it was my own fault is literally making me tear up. Women like myself have to remind ourselves daily it's not our fault that we were abused.. and then to listen to this is so ignorant and sad.

Why doesn’t Pearl just marry a Saudi man and move to Saudia Arabia ?

These women just have a submission kink and are unable to keep it in the bedroom and now it's a problem for the rest of us.

I'm fully confident that Pearl just says whatever will get her attention. Not that I think she's doing it consciously. It's like Trisha Paytas blurting out ridiculous lies and fake stories but in a different font.

I would KILL to see a Papa and Pearl conversation

these podcasts piss me off. bc it’s all about how women need to adjust themselves to men’s standards when men are not willing to do the same lmao

To add to the part towards the end about whether men or women are harder to please, my girlfriend cried with happiness when she found out about a pillow i was going to buy her. she thought it was one of the nicest things ever done for her.

My ex-husband waited 4 years and into our second child for him to start hitting me it got real bad after that he lost his job and I was the only one working and he got mad

I just can’t handle all these damn people talking over one another

Pearl's take that people who get beat are at fault for making a bad decision was what did it for me.

I love how Pearl acts flabbergasted at the thought of breaking up over chores. The entirety of the panel has infinitely more experience than she does with struggling, managing a home, being in relationships, raising kids, etc and ALL agree that an inequity in household responsibility can lead to animosity and a breakup. Pearl is a girl who grew up rich, never knew struggle, is single, never married, no kids, no family or relationship to manage and she thinks that her ridiculous opinion that these things shouldn't lead to divorce is gonna overshadow the mountain of life experience sitting in front of her. She is such an entitled child, holy shit.

Yes love the value break down. It’s weird how women get handed the stick for having kids but men can straight up abandon kids and expect really demand a women who is child free.

THESE CONSTANT "MHM, MHM, MHM"s ARE DRIVING ME INSANE

I think what all this boils down to is that the West has delayed maturation through entertainment and the internet so much that people have unrealistic and underbaked ideas of what relationships should be.

Being a fan of papa gut is like being the pampered daughter of a protective father who constantlies buys her ballon poping apes to protect her castle but never lets her know the cost of her monkey privelges.

Sorry but no man will ever tell me what I can and cannot wear. Married or not. It’s clothing. It’s the intentions of the person you should worry about. And I’m not a “woke teen” I am a 30 year old woman. My man has never and will never tell me how to dress. How I’m dressed has nothing to do with who I am as a person. That screams insecure from the man.

Papa: “This is what happens when you have an all girls podcast 🤷” Two of the biggest blow ups on the podcast being between a guy and two diff girls 😂 👀

Yknow, it's fine if these lady's are strong and trust their judgment in finding a man who truly has their best interest at heart and choose to defer to him with decision making. The problem is that the Andrew Tate types are purposefully targeting people who they can manipulate and take advantage of, and these women are spreading this ideology about deferring to the man in all things, and that will lead more women to hear that message and be vulnerable to that type of guy.

Lol these weirdos “Chores aren’t even that hard, it’s all automated” “Just find a man who makes more so you can do the chores” Cause god forbid a man wash a fucking dish

1:33:47 "...transparency... or cisparency." Buckets papa. Buckets.

51:46 men don’t make the decision to beat the fuck outta women, women decide to be around men who will beat them, right Chris Brown?

That podcast is intended to validate men’s grievances and convince women they deserve less so they’ll settle for poor treatment.

The way she reacted to being called bro was so fuckin dramatic. I’m technically British but I don’t say that I say I’m Scottish. We call everyone bro. Like I’ve called my maw bro 😂😂😂

Watched it on destiny’s Channel. Now I’m watching again 😂

Papa gut thank you, I actually needed to hear your relationship advice. I never had anyone properly explain it and that’s why😔💕 thank you for real❤️

Typical British conversation

1:51:10 bro this is probably the most relatable segment I’ve ever heard lmao. My ex was exactly like this. I worked at the office every day with a 1 and a half hour commute. She worked 60% and was home on Mondays and tuesdays. She did make food but we brought home food like two or three times a week and whenever she cooked she never put the dishes away immediately. It was left to stack til the next day. I legitimately felt a painful flashback listening to this lol

when the hell did your beard grow that much

Just found this channel and I'm already a big fan. You have a very calming disposition that's a nice contrast to the clips you watch

I do a majority of the cleaning, my wife works more than I do so the trade off is I clean. I do the laundry, dishes, take care of our pets, all of it. But again, that’s the trade off. I work less in a week, but I handle all the household stuff. She never has to worry about coming home and needing to cook, clean, do laundry, or deal with household stressors because the house is clean everyday.

“Ahh Pearl tried again!” 😆

1:49:49 that laugh was amazing

The longest way to say have good decision making skills, vet your partners, and it take times to find the right one. And daddy issues

i've had GFs that just refused to do any cooking or cleaning, not because of some feminist thing but just because they were lazy AF and didn't care. they thought it was weird that i knew how to cook and didn't just want fast food every day.

I brainmelted through so much of this

“That don’t matter, bro”

26:40 - 26:50 I never thought that I would be here agreeing to something that JustPearlyThings said. I just ended an almost 2 year long relationship because I felt like a mother instead of a partner. He would constantly joke about how I " was the man " and how I " wore the pants" in our relationship, it got to a point where it just felt embarrassing. This man had no aspiration for his future and has never worked a day in his life but, I was expected to do everything for him. Dude couldn't even make the decision if he wanted to shower without me having to approve it for him. Genuinely it was miserable, and I now am starting to feel like this was the same dynamic in all of my past relationship. Now, I am only 19 so I'm probably not educated what wearing the pants of the relationship really means and I can get the arguement that I'm " the young, dumb and inexperienced " when it comes to dating. BUT I'm sick of feeling like someone's mother instead of being a part of a team. Also, so no one who reads this gets it twisted I am not a fan of JustPearlyThings. I just thought it was bizarre that I agreed and just wanted to share my reasoning since Papa Gut disagreed to her statement.

idk how to categorize them but Brits like the ones in this video are soooo obnoxious. why? idk.

So…respect each other? Good talk.

There’s way too many people in this conversation, it’s an absolute catastrophe to try to understand these English people clucking like chickens back and forth 😂

missed so many good moments in the first part of the second video, also pearl rots my brain

Pearl is either going to be: a virgin for the rest of her life or: a single mother

The downfall of pearl is that she has a lack of statistical data paired with a lack of life experience 😂

Idk why but it looks like you have a dip in lol also I think your beard looks amazing!

18:45 I’ve been wondering the same dang thing the more I watch her.

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1:48:55 My favorite moment :)

Why can’t people control there voice when there on a podcast like damn stop speaking all at once and stop getting louder we can hear you

All this cackling over nothing.

That's funny housephone commented bc destiny got inna huge fight with no jumper crew members not to long ago

1:41:52 Based

I find it absolutely wild that PG thinks it's normal for most couples to control what your partner wears? If my partner told me that I couldn't wear something because it was too revealing I'd think it was a joke. I don't know anyone in real life (and the people I know IRL are EXTREMELY offline, no social media) where this is a normal conversation between the husband and the wife. Even looking at the generation above me... none of their marriages have that. I can't think of any women who would be cool with that. Going to a a club= yeah I trust my wife, wearing a dress= no too revealing? That's very strange to me- esp to consider it online behavior...huh? What if your SO trusts you and it's your body? Am I supposed to check before I buy the dress or bathing suit or whatever? I've worn some... wild. That's fine if it works in their marriage, but it's definitely not "Terminally online behavior" it's very common in American as well. I think asking someone in the first place is very odd- and I didn't grow up in some radical place. (Yeah, long comment I'm a confused fast-typer.)

Pearl is not saying if a man beats a woman, its your fault. Shes saying it says alot about you for choosing an abusive person, which led to you being a single mother. This is why to them being a single mother is a red flag. I dont agree with her, but im just explaining what she said.

I mean if moms are better parents why is it called daddy issues,not the mommy issues raising them wrong? if a dad is missing it’s daddy issues when a mom is in a child’s life and attached it’s mommy issues. I’m pretty sure men’s households are more stable because men are more assertive with punishments or chores.

How do you know that the lack of fighting for their child is because he doesn't care or he realizes that for whatever reason he knows he won't win so fighting is a waste of time and money