Never make a man tell you more than one time he doesn't want you...

He didn’t take her out one time in public and asked her for $1,000. He wasn’t in a relationship with her. He was using her for money, period. She’s beyond naive.

I’m embarrassed for this lady. She’s in her thirties and got bamboozled by a man who was clearly not into her. All of the signs were there that he wasn’t interested but she ignored them smh

“He was my everything” lmao girl this man never took you out. Theres no conversations that dang deep! She’s goofy lol

She’s beyond help if she’s 34 and acting like this.🙄🤦🏽‍♀️ She’s sitting up here giggling while she’s looking like a whole fool on national tv.

Look at Douglass at the beginning complimenting his work wife on national TV lol

I feel so bad for the Plaintiff, because I don't believe she learned her lesson!!!

Ladies PLEASE stop giving men money. If they have to borrow from you, then you don't need them in your life. If you as a woman can work and support yourself, then WHY can't men do the same? That is what they are out here trolling for: women who are stupid and desperate enough to buy them. No man has EVER asked me for money. That is because they know they are NOT getting a penny from me. If he even fixes his mouth to ask, I would get rid of him in the next breath.

So this dude was concerned about her painting a bad picture of him and Then turns around and says "She fell for it"??? What an absolute loser

The way my draw dropped when she said 34. Poor women.

It was at that moment when the plaintiff gave her closing remarks, I realized the plaintiff is missing a few screws. The fact she was in love with this guy and referred to him as a "spouse" 🤦‍♀️

She doesn’t understand and will do it again for GP…bless her for being simple

Judge your daughters are so blessed to have you as their Mom

I am 35 and appalled at the Plaintiff’s’ behavior!!!!

It’s sad really, that people have so low self-esteem that they feel they need to pay for somebody to like them

I have just one word for this lady: DESPERATION

that slimeball actually thinks hes gods gift, he actually thinks its her fault for falling for his slimeball actions by lending him the money, he actually thought the court would side with him, thats how delusional he is

And why are we still “lending” men money with hopes of actually getting it back?….🙄😒

Pof.....Plenty of fools more like it 🤣🤣🤣

The fact that she finds that funny is the reason it’ll happen again.

The plaintiff did not learn anything. She is going to do it again.

Douglas in this episode is killing me 🤣

She said spouse, which goes to show how far along in the relationship she was in her head.

This man didn't want her, didn't want to be seen with her and clearly used her because he knew he could get it with little effort! 🙄

Damn judge went hard. But she needed to hear it. I will stay alone vs dealing with this foolishness he ain’t even cute.

she has such a low self esteem its mindblowing!!!!

I'm amazed and perplexed at the number of women who give money to alleged boyfriends. If they really want to give/loan money to a freeloader, they should give only a much as they can afford to lose.

OMG her laughing is so annoying.. like how is giving someone $1000.00 you're not even in a relationship funny.. Never been on a date according to her or spent time together but yet this doesn't raise a red flag.

"your spouse" Did anyone catch that? He isn't your spouse.

Yes ma’am, at 32, I can confirm that the pickings are slim…but not this slim🤣 Also, he doesn’t want her “painting a picture”. He’s a trash person who took advantage of her weakness. If he were a standup guy, he would’ve walked even if that initially hurt her feelings.

Plaintiff still married and giving money to someone she claims she’s in love with. She has mad issues.

“You’d do anything for your spouse” But he wasn’t your spouse, he wasn’t even your bf 🤣🤣 I’m amaze how she has the boobs to say that when she was being intimate with this dude while she was still married or so call in the process of leaving her “spouse” 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ what’s more hilarious is how she went back to her spouse or still with him. That’s awkward as heck.

It’s extremely hard for me to feel sorry for her when it’s a big joke. She’s laughing about it & just generally acting foolish/stupid. It really must be something about her, even her ex or current husband doesn’t want her. And she’s already into ‘spouse’ mode in her head about that slime ball sitting on his girl’s couch!

I've done some dumb things in relationships in my life but DAAAAMMNN this case was a jawdropper!

There are so many people that get scammed on dating sites by individuals that are professional scammers that know how to prey on peoples loneliness.

Take a shot every time she says, "whatever whatever"

Did she say you would do anything for your spouse at the end? This dude was not your spouse or even your boyfriend.

Sad, they both have learned NOTHING!

The lost art of storytelling got lost because of....." whatever"

The entire case is a TOTAL CRINGE FEST, SMH 😠💯

Judge you know the score - once he don't want to take you out that means he out with someone else. "he's cute but he ain't all that" spot on Judge🤣🤣

Second hand embarrassment hearing the plaintiff talk.. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

I’m 34 and I can’t even stand to hear her talk 😩😩 this is straight up foolishness smh

This girl is silly.

The Judge almost cornered the defendant when she made that remark about "So you figure out she's not for you but you can't wait to fleece her out of a thousand dollars?" If he objected to the word "fleece," he would almost be admitting it was a loan and he should pay her back.

Why does she keep laughing, this is not funny. Very embarrassing on both ends. I hope she's learned from this.

This girl embarrassed herself, I’d take the thousand dollar L though I’d never give a man money either so…

I keep going back to this episode. JM ate his arse up, lol.

He ask her for the money and she asked him in what denominations would he like it, WOW I AM SIGNING UP FOR THE POF DATING APP THIS AFTERNOON.😂💯

“They are criminally still together” What does that even mean? I have a feeling she’s not the only girl he owes money! The judge nailed it on the head where he just finds vulnerable/ugly girls that he can smooth talk and get money out of!

The name of this episode should be "Clueless"

This poor woman was desperate for love.. he did not want her. She should have seen that and never given him a penny.... The guy was too embarrassed to be seen with her to even take her on a date. And why are her earrings super huge???

SIS STILL WEARING FINGERWAVES AND THAT WAS ALL I NEEDED TO KNOW WHO I WAS DEALING WITH 😂

Can’t be nice to guys like this when you’re not getting anything. Niceness becomes foolishness real fast

Bruh's 'vernacular spectacular' walked his silly ass into admitting it was a loan five seconds into his testimony. Nice work slick!

Did she say you do anything for your spouse? The dude never even took her out!

What did Douglas do that he had to butter up the Judge like that?? 🤣

She called this guy her “spouse”??? 😂😂😂 So was her husband really her “husband” then?😂😂😂 Does she know what those words mean?😂😂😂 Damn… She need to start off in the fishbowl. She ain’t ready for the sea 🌊🌊🌊😂😂😂

His reason for a thousand dollars "just for a extra cushion" in other words a easy hustle LOL

The end of this was so awesome. The judge bantering back-and-forth with her husband about how successful their children are, and how they just want them to become something less successful so they could be useful to them as adults.

@17:25 “you will do anything for your spouse”??? He was not even close to being your spouse. In fact, you are married to someone else. SMH 🤦🏾‍♀️ #harshlessons

Absolutely Absurd. I bow out quickly if a guy doesn't plan outing/ dates in a PUBLIC place. Or text ALL the damn time. Stop dealing with broke/cheap/ low effort men. Seriously.

She is delusional.

I just love Judge Milian and Douglas’ relationship … Judge Judy could take hints on how to treat a bailiff/another human being

why are women always referred to as gold diggers, when so many cases like this are out there?

I’ve been hearing a lot of girls saying men don’t take them on dates. Everything is on social media and just chillin at the house

"I had every intention to pay her back." There it is!!! Right there!!! He just admitted that it was a loan!!!

I left it alone 🤣 we know you did. Should've left her alone. Go to a bank next time.

This judge be letting everybody have it and the lady little turn up dance at the end 😂🤣‼️

Wow. Just, wow. The self inflicted trauma from being naïve is really sad. Super sad…. Deep conversations caused her to do this??? She must be the type to date men in prison. She’s that type. I’m just paralyzed in embarrassment for her and all she’s doing is laughing. She fell in love over deep conversations??? This is crazy!

She doesn't see her level of self esteem is making her love life low as well.

The judge saying were the pickings slim?! I am 😂😂😂

Basically he finessed her to see if she would gullible enough to give him some money. Because there isn't not way you haven't gone on one date I would have given you $1000

Goodness, that too much earing.

They're both messy. She's married and couldn't accept a single man didn't want to be in that drama and he took advantage of her feelings for him

Why don't you have your own $1,000? Bailiff: mmm You didn't need the 1,000 but you mooched it off her anyways Bailiff: mmm YALL THIS TOUCHED HIS SOUL AS A MAN 😂

If someone I date gives me money, I will be sure to pay it back if we break up. Don't people have any pride anymore?

He looks like the melted Milk Dud that I find in the bottom of the box. Just sad and melted.

Judge: How old are you? Plaintiff: I’m 34! Judge: Um 😐

She’s incredibly immature and naive . The little faces she’s making while he speaks shows me she’s still trying to impress him. He used her which POF is known for.

Wowww Douglas went in didn’t he 😂

Omg...if he doesn't take you out no red flags? Is she laughing because she's nervous? Wow, I hope she learns.

Girl… so y’all didn’t ‘date’ you were in the ‘talking stage’ for 9 MONTHS! He was not trying to be with you at ALL. Only people with low self-esteem/ self-worth would go through this. I hope she learns from this and spends her next 1k on therapy 😫 and healing.

She ‘fell for it’. Unbelievable

I'm confused by her actions and her responses 🙄. She hasn't learned her lesson for sure.

Douglas' face during this case was everything!!!

I really likeded him (SMH)

"My vernacular is spectacular..." He really said that at the end. 🤦🏽‍♀️

" A big merry-go-round of agony". Awful but honest!

34 ?? i thought she was like 24 talking like that

im glad shes laughing about it. its pretty sad she got played, but she was desperate.

He's not a gigolo, he's a romance scammer!

Damn, damn, damn!!!! 🤣🤣 "My vernacular is spectacular." Really??!!

Never pop up unannounced at a guy's house. You're gonna get hurt.

He's such a jerk for real that's how they are love to borrow and Don't want to pay back .

JM can be savage 🤪❤️

She might be 30 something but the way she talks and behaves is 15

"Keep my text." Well, she sure did that!!!

She was just so desperate to be in love.

Now she has another $1000 to buy a new man 🤦🏽‍♀️