Right!! She wants out.

If that's the case she's gonna go regardless but what she said was great advice for both. At the end of the day, both of them are going to do what they want anyways.

Exactly 💯💯💯

I believe that Judge Toler knows she (the wife) doesn't want to be in the marriage anymore. She may not necessarily want out, but the lack of desire to be in, and that is the reason why she has seemed to allow the door to be entertained to be pryed open. To me, Judge Toler essentially told her that "you are going to have to do better than that" after hearing why she is willing to get a divorce, which may force her to be transparent in why she would want to leave. I do believe that the husband ought to be concerned that she will eventually cheat if she continues along the path she is taking...first emotionally then physically. Even if she gets a car, she is just going to get the guy on the bus' phone number (if she hasn't gotten it already), and she'll come up with an excuse why she's talking to him. All that being written, I know he isn't this calm and nonchalant at home regarding this issue lol. But it was nice to hear a couple maintain composure.

Nope. Stop using the phrase “Let them go.” I hate that Tyler Perry popularized that statement. Just leave. You have the power to leave. You’re grown and you don’t need permission. If you’re just that distraught and unhappy, just GO.

It’s almost like women are not as good communicators as they think

Yeah, she gives that vibe right?

It's sad because it seems like it may be something as small as feeling significant. Feeling significant is not small but the act could be small things like saying she is beautiful. Those guys are giving her compliments and attention and she probably feels like their relationship is mundane and like she is an appliance. They have to feed the relationship and continue to make one another feel seen and appreciated

She’s gone… Not physically, but mentally and emotionally. She’s just not assertive enough to just leave. So she’s acting passive/aggressive to force him to make the decision. I agree with OP.

But she doesn’t want to be with him any longer. Her conscience tells her he’s a good man, but she still want a to leave.

True!

I thought I was the only one who noticed

Facts 💯 she wants the man who gonna treat her bad and disrespect her & cheat on her she will take him back

Not all of us are like her though so don't group us all together like that. Not all modern day women are the same.

@@tansley67 well they're very few modern-day women that are not like this...

Right 😂😂😂

😂Buying her a car aint going to solve the TRUE problem, she's an attention seeker, when she gets a car she'll be flirting at the gas station...lol

She doesn’t have to be a fool. She isn’t attracted to him anymore. Him being good doesn’t mean anything to her.

​@@Idk-hy9zkshe's a fool because she wants out of a r

She would be a fool and she was heading down a wrong road.

Yeah, I think she is trying to drive him away because she can blame him for leaving. Even though she is the one in the wrong (in my opinion)

Butterflies and fantasies never lead to long-term, till-death-do-us-part marriages. Human emotions are so changeable and capricious. It takes a self-sacrificing, conscious decision to stay committed. I was dating a young lady from Ivory Coast but there was another girl from the Congo who gave me fantasies and butterflies. There was also a Japanese girl at my school who did the same thing. I stayed with the girl from Ivory Coast because love requires self-sacrifice. Fantasies and desires are for Disney movies.

Thank you 💕😊

Thank you 💕😊

I think she really cried because judge Lynn told her to stay lol

@@justhereyeah1112 🤣

I blew the screen up that's actually a microphone, but it definitely looks like a tie clip from far away