I hate how people pick out their favorite parts of the bible and ignore the rest.

Men like him don't change because they don't listen. She doesn't need a ring she needs some running shoes

"I CAN'T COOK. BUT YOU SHOULD SEE MY BANK ACCOUNT." Judge Lynn got the BAG SECURE.

“You can’t be the master of the house, you gotta be the MAN of the house! Masters has slaves and we don’t do that anymore” that statement was said by the judge and I applaud 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

She shouldn’t marry him at all

Maybe he should read the bible and not just skip to the parts that he likes!

The way she said you should see my bank account made shiver. Cause sis knows she's a gem and ain't NOBODY gone play in her face🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

Since they BOTH have full time jobs outside the home, I'm just wondering how many days a week was he preparing for HER a Home-cooked meal from the heart?

Who wants to be constantly critizied in their own home ? YOU'RE HER MAN NOT HER FATHER!!!!

Her duties BEFORE MARRIAGE?! WTF?!!!!! Skip him sis

Leaders don't force people to follow. They invite them on a journey.

His salary is not large enough for what he's asking for. They are in a 50/50 relationship and he wants a woman to fulfill stay at home wife duties.

If he was such a perfectionist, he'd do the work himself. He's just miserable 😑

He's not ready to be married to a human being.

This episode alone is a perfect example of why it's going to be so hard to let judge Lynn go😭😭😭

This man said he expects her to attempt perfection! Run, sis! Run! 😩

Tolerism 101 for today " A True Leader doesn't need to ask anyone to follow him they are going places others would like to be"!!!! Judge Lynn Toler

Never marry this joker! He’s a control freak who is not fun and you will always feel unworthy and unhappy. She deserves way better!!

“To me marriage started in the heart”.. Maybe you should have married her before expecting all that “extra” in the bedroom.. Which BTW is NOT Biblical to sleep with her before marriage.. since we are talking Bible..

Whew, she broke it down! She is absolutely amazing. He’s a horrible listener and imperfect perfectionist. He has a warped sense of what a man is, what husband is, and what a leader is. Judge keeps showing him and his girl keep pleading to him, and he just don’t get it. Makes sense that he’s still not married. Hopefully he changes.

He’s the kind of man who a parent hopes and prays that their daughter will never fall for.

He's insecure & intimidated by her. He does tht because it makes him feel better about his inconsistencies & flaws. Leave his silly ass alone.🚶🏽‍♀️

He goes to church? LMAO Doesn't the bible say not to live together before marriage? These bible thumpers kill me lol

She's way too smart for him. He feels she is too good for him and all that inferiority complex translates in him trying to control and belittle her. He needs to compensate for that complex and, not being able to find that 'leader' position out there in the world, he tries to find someone to give orders to in his home.

This woman needs to run and run fast. I'm annoyed with him and I don't have to live with him. It kills me when someone expect perfection and they aren't anything to write home about themselves.

Sis run... He is a control freak!! He seems so rigid, uptight and boring

This guy is a scammer with his church proposal. Perform wife duties before being a wife? And she got to work too and help him do his husband duty to PROVIDE? Run hun....

Her mistake was moving that craziness in her home! Y’all be trying to put a crown on a man that won’t even give you his name-dumb.

Ooooo...she schhhhhooooled him on Ephesians. Love when people try to act like the authority knowing they only read two verses and then someone like judge Lynn comes along and fully calls your bluff...bye!

She works full time and is a nursing student plus have 3 kids, he excepting too damn much. Because once she gets that rn license that lil personal trainer money aint gonna cut it.

“I can’t cook but you should see my bank account” - Judge Lynn Toler aka Living Legend

Boy bye!!! I don’t know who he thinks he is!!! I’d run so fast outta that situation!!! Because it’s not a relationship!! Cook from the heart !!! What does that even mean??? You love from the heart sir !!! Not cook ... not clean.... not parent a grown woman!!! And not follow your lead ... because you don’t have a clue how to lead ... your selfish and ignorant grow up ... Whew I’m frustrated with him

Cant believe she wants to marry him. Putting a ring on it doesn't make it better

My dear, RUN! This young lady is working very hard to level up herself. The young man is not. He would rather focus his shortcomings on his lady rather than work hard on himself.

I can't cook but you should see my bank account.- Judge Lynn Toler

she was dropping jewels for real in this episode! i just read the whole chapter myself. judge toler is super dope and super wise.

THE ONLY THING THIS FOOL SEES IS ERRORS. NO POSITIVES EXIST IN HIS WORLD. RUN

This Ninja wants to command and control. Ain’t nobody got time for that! He wants to elevate himself by denigrating her. This woman ain’t having it. Get ghost girl! And leave him in the dust!

Judge got me with “ I can’t cook; but you should see my Bank Account!”

"MASTERS HAVE SLAVES.... WE DON'T DO THAT ANYMORE"

I think she shouldn't marry him at all.

I dated a guy like this. It was super off putting. All the head leader talk just screamed insecurity to me. Judge is right; you dont need to tell me to follow you if you’re a leader.

He was so embarrassed when judge try him to explain what submission was

He sure did forget the most important part of studying which is "lean not unto YOUR OWN understanding"

She may not cook you the best meal, but at least she can cook you a decent meal.

I can't cook. But you should see my bank account. Judge toler, I want to be like you when I grow up!!!!!

Does he cook dinner for her? Does he help clean the house? She works and goes to school and has children . She's lucky he didn't marry her.

I'd be so gone!! I have no idea why she's putting up with that mess.

It hurts the most, when the person who made you feel So Special yesterday, makes you feel so unwanted today..😪

"HATE" has 4 letters, so does "LOVE" "ENEMIES" has 7, so does "FRIENDS" "LYING" has 5, so does "TRUTH" "WRONG has 5, so does "RIGHT" "HURT" has 4, so does "HEAL" life is a double edged sword, you can choose the "POSITIVE" over "NEGATIVE"

This man is out of his mind lol.. He said he's the head of the house and follows God's order but won't even marry this girl ! 🤔. God didn't call a boyfriend or fiance to be the head of a woman. LOL.. And being the head does not mean be domineering and controlling. You're supposed to be a SERVANT-LEADER. Watching this makes me thank God for having a spouse who isn't critical and leads with love. Nobody wants to be in a house with a critical person. Men or women. Judge gave them good advice!

He is a control freak, he micro-manages everything which will make living with him in a state of constantly being judged, criticized and unhappiness!!

Absolutely LOVED Judge Toler's advice! She's right--a lot of these dudes use the "submit to your husband" scripture as an excuse to control their wives, ignore their needs AND opinions, and take away their freedom/autonomy. It's crazy to me. Being critical of her weight isn't being a leader, it's been a bully and making her feel low. Hopefully she DOESN'T marry him because there are plenty of guys out there that will respect her as an individual and a partner, but if she does... LAWD I hope the Judge's words sunk in.

I miss these types of couples. "Everyday" people trying to learn how to make a marriage work. No cheating, no social media issues, no ratchetness.

THE 5 PRINCIPLES OF MARRIAGE: LOVE HER! LOVE HER! LOVE HER! NURTURE HER! CHERISH HER!

i absolutely cannot believe judge lynn let him get off so lightly when he was the Literal definition of holier-than-thou

Unsuccessful people just hate, blame and complain you'll never succeed.

I’d be running away from this one!! He’s too controlling.

No matter what she does it will never be good enough for him. He’s insecure and his emotions are regulated by putting her down and controlling her. She needs to “Run-for-the-hills, it’s only going to get worse!

He's a complainer!!! Run Honey, and let him find that perfect female. And good luck with that because once you get her she will no longer be perfect because she will be with you.

Everything in his letter of expectation is expectations of a wife - why is she trying to do that before the ring? 😕

HE NEVER ONCE SAID HE LOVED HER OR EVEN MENTIONED ANYTHING HE LIKED ABOUT HER

Girl keep it moving. His constant criticism will break down your self-esteem. He will never change.

I’ve watched a lot of Judge Lynn’s videos but this one... she went all in and I loved every word that she said!

I don't understand why she's here. You need to run the man want a slave not a partner. He reckons he's perfect and she need to chnage everything. I can't blv she said I've had worse. Never tell him that.

when Judge LT started quoting the bible.. I felt that

His attitude to “me follow her?” Oh that was super rude and I’ll run like the wind!! But I don’t agree with these “traditional” roles in the first place. If my husband tried that crap with me, I’d tell him to leave.

Judge Toler told this Woman the TRUTH and she did it in Such A Beautiful Way Much Respect to her!!!!!

Don't blame your woman from disappointing you, blame yourself for expecting too much from her.

Wow she spoke truth about being a leader,, I'm definitely making mental notes

Dang that judge is on another level of intelligence.

A beautiful Judge full of compassion an WISDOM💙

A single mother knows how to be strong, even when she feels weak, there were those days she feels like giving up, but won't, she keeps going for the love for her kids is strong.

Seriously I'm a bible teacher and I kept questioning where he got that information. The judge said it perfectly: A master has slaves, a MAN has a relationship. He's dead wrong and I feel bad for her, that's no way to live.

Lmao my husband thinks if I cook food and I mess it up that wasn't from the heart but he still eat 😂

It’s so sad that so many of these men out here want a mother instead of a wife, instead of a warrior, instead of someone that’s a partner, the mother of your children, a queen. We are not your mothers ! All these men out here are getting it twisted and have no example to Levi to know how to protect his woman know how to lead as a man and protect his household.

I LOVE JUDGE LYNN TOLER!!❤ She's not only a Judge, she's also a Marriage Counselor, Friend, Therapist, All Wrapped Up into One!!!🙌🏾 😊 ❤

This guy has one verse in the Bible engrained lol nothing else 😭 he won’t listen or learn anything else that doesn’t suit his need

Judge Lynn can read situations so well I love this show

I wish Judge Toler was my auntee. I love her in everyway, escpecially the God in her! 💖💖

He has lost his mind!!!

Ughhhhhh. 3 min in this fool expect perfection ain’t even earned it

How is he expecting perfection and the size of his head and hairline are off 🤔 Theeeeeee Audacity 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Forgive me Father 🤦🏿

"Like I tell you to do it??" Did he really say that???? I'm mama, grandma and greatGrand ma. This man would be running out of my house screaming for help. Get out of here with that arrogant, caveman, ignorant, abusive B.S.

Her face at the end told it all.She wanted out and Judge Lynn didn't save her.😥

On my one part I wouldn't marry him. He's more of a master than a man. Too damn demanding!!!! 🤨

He had me at “common law marriage” baby bye... no such thing you shacking in SIN!

Amazing a letter of expectations but yet he hasn't shown her anything then him being like her father.

I love love love Judge Toler!!! Her wisdom is sooooo good!!!!!!

Child!!!!! Id get rid of him quick! There is no way my ideal man is someone who criticizes my every effort. Who thinks being the head of a home is “ women should be seen, not heard” boy bye! Good luck with that! She is sadly mistaken if she thinks her patience will manifest the man she seeks. This dude is one word away from being emotionally abusive! RUN RUN RUN RUN!

You what's funny? These guys are so conceited that they really have no idea how to make a woman feel good in or out of the bedroom. It's all about her doing 'her' job for him. Who can be spontaneous in bed with such a bore? Please!!

The engagement video made me cringe

Damn he couldn't even interpret what the lady said correctly so you know he's miss interpreting the bible and not only that, he doesn't even know it well enough to lead. I really dislike men who uses the bible as a method to control women. Honey you're better off by yourself. He's not gonna improve. I've seen his type several times over

I don’t watch for the divorces , I just love the judge words of wisdom if she is wise one more time

This sounds just like my moms boyfriend My mom boyfreind has so many cockroaches in his house you can't even shit without 5 of them looking at you, he has snakes,frogs, his house is dusty, I dont even eat unless its takeout because he has so many dead roaches all over his was clean dishes. So my mom deep cleans his house bottom to top. She use bleach alot and other clean products to get the roaches to stop, Which they have stop, there wasnt alot of roaches out as before. But her boyfriend hates the smell of bleach so he tells her, NO YOU'RE DOING IT ALL WRONG, I GOT SOME ROACH TRAPS TO STOP THEM. And im just like the traps are for if you seen 4 roaches in your house th pastt week not if you seen 45 roaches the past week you need to get the house sprayed. My mom also does the cooking. Ever since we moved in about 7 months he always ask her whats for dinner and when she starts to cook he like, NO YOU'RE DOING IT ALL WRONG YOU HAVE TO DO THIS AND THAT FIRST, THIS LOOKS BRUNT. And he gets off way earlier than my mom. And he only cooked 4 times since we've been there we usually have take out 5 times a week cause he is to lazy to cook and my mom works 2 jobs so shes tired but she tries to cook and figure out whats for dinner. She also packs his lunch for him to take for work, cause he to lazy to get up on time to pack his own and doesnt know how to go to the store to get something to eat. She also has 2 sons at our old house that just grads. And she has to pay the bill, get the mail, make sure there is food in the house, and she also has some business up there. So when she is doing those thing he thinks she cheating because he wants her to be home at a certain time. He just using her as a house wife And im pretty sure he has Peter pan disorder and he bipolar ALOT

There are so many men with narcassistic traits out here.

I don’t think this relationship is one that she be married into.

Judge Toler shared some great advice. She is exactly right! Be a WHOLE woman.

U can’t be the master u gotta be the man 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

HE'S BREAKING YOUR SELF-ESTEEM!!!