Soooo, she gets the lights cutoff, lied about going to work, deflects her insecurities on you and talks about your weight AND she's a cheater........but you love her more than anyone you've ever been with???? Love your kids, then self and wait for the next cuz she ain't it.

Vanisha is trifling as hell. Unemployed and yet cheating smdh

what is Jamika talking about? girl who in the h*LL gets surgery at a size 14, just workout, that's not even that big....

She has no job, she lies and accusing you of cheating while she;s cheating with an ex and you still stay with her. Love is really crazy thing.

If you can't be happy with yourself you don't need to be with nobody till you your happy with yourself 🤦🏿‍♀️

They both getting on my nerves, they doing too much and hurting one another a lot, I'm glad they are getting a divorce because they are not good for each other... They are too toxic and detrimental for each other

From the introduction it don’t even sound like they like each other

Y’all it’s tv they cut n edit certain things. I learned a lot and it ended after the show. But I was much bigger than they put on the show. I was a 14 when I met her. But with that said a lot cake to light after this show. I did suffer from insecurities but always hid it till I came on the show. To the hits as moms, I'm an amazing mom. If you’re in my life you’d know. The make up comment lol I agree but they cake it on for TV. I am happily single and have been for 2 years and I’m loving it. All the comments (good bad and ugly) help me to remember to never water myself down again and to never go back to this energy. Thank you all.

How she gone talk about somebody body when she big as a house

This lady has had enough surgery. Listen to the Judge and hit the gym together. The fact that you,ve tried surgery be4 and it didn't work means its not good for you. Go to the gym and eat right.

Their relationship is just to toxic, they should definitely part ways. smh

lmfao.."sleeping with an ex for 3 months.."..Gurl!!!😂😂

Both are to insecure to be in a relationship

They are so childish, this sounds like a high school soap opera. Both of them need to just be by themselves and grow up a little bit more before going into any relationship. This will never work

Howd you pay for expensive surgery and still cant pay your phone bill?

The big one talking about someone’s size when she needs to fix herself since her ass can’t sit in one person seat. I think she is lying and a cheater and she doesn’t like the taste of her own medicine. If your sharing the household with someone you need to communicate.

Hell no you let my lights get cut off with my kids I'm leaving

Hurt people hurt people....

Phew that was intense. I hope they parted ways.

they better stop this petty foolishness. my auntie just lost her GF of four years in a tragic accident. you cannot get this time or person back if something awful is to happen. cherish one another. God bless.

So was she on her way to work at the Kroger after they left?! Ijs that vest says "Do you have any coupons or a reward card?"

Omg, a hot ass mess🤦‍♀️ Can't believe I watched this entire episode, now my head hurts smdh

Judge couldn’t wait to get away from these bitting cats. 😅😂🤣😹😭

She is such a lier... the worst kind of person to be in a relationship with. Smh... then the other responsible partner get blindsided with a problem bigger than it needed to be

That tea @ the end was MESSY! That plus no job...Girl bye! Don’t stick around for a third deal breaker.

Are y’all really surprised at the ending?? Jamicas crying in tears talking about how much she loves the other girl but when the judge asks the other one if she wants to work it out all we get is a meek “yeah.” Smh i don’t think these two need to be together they both seem very toxic to one another

Jamika is beautiful. I hope she learns self love comes before trying to find love within someone else.

"Why don't you both get a pair of gum shoes?! it's cheaper than surgery" Bahahaha 😂 😂 😂 👏 👏 👏

Valisha work as a theater usher? 😂😂

Me Odell is insecure and so is Ms. Carrington. Ms. Carrington tap dances all over the other's insecurity and she is manipulative.

Oh that stay at home chick is working my last nerves.

Lesbian relationships are way too emotional and full of drama.

Messy ass relationship , no words

They need to stop ✋ something about them both irritates my damn soul.

It always confuses me chics in lesbian relations that have multiple kids.

Has either of them heard of SELF ESTEEM?? They are exhausting lol.

Egocentric vs insecure - has never worked, will never work. Especially with the "After The Show" screen, they need to part company and get their heads on straight before they go for their next relationship.

This is painfully intense........ deff not good for each other. They are both trifling. Plastic surgery? Girl go to the gym!

There is almost always a masculine one in these lesbian relationships, in the same way there is usually a feminine one in a gay relationship. There must be a psychological explanation for being homosexual yet having the same polarity as a heterosexual relationship.

I don't understand this, why go through all the danger, pain, $$ etc.. that comes with surgery BEFORE trying diet and exercise!? Makes no sense!

I think she look better before and not after.💁🏿‍♀️

This is too nasty to watch.

What's more annoying than anything is not taking ownership. This woman her every answer is she does it too or I never happened. I'm getting headache just by watching it.

Ms. O’dell is beautiful

Wow, the end tho🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

Oh wow! When the judge said, do y’all wanna stay together? & they said YES. Their both nuts. 😳🤦🏽‍♀️🤯

I wish they would’ve had more time for this one so the judge could’ve given more advice

Good lawdy. Like the first 10 mins about weight & lipo. 🤦🏽‍♀️ All I hear is insecurities and people who probably need to work out vs trying to spend money on an “easy way” to lose weight. They don’t seem like they like each other at all.

NEVER change for someone, love yourself!! I lost weight for health reasons, this is a hot mess!

They both seem like they love each other but they let their insecurities guide them. They are immature and need to learn to communicate better.

Judge Lynn is a gorgeous woman!!!....that being said this case was just plain nonsense... these ladies need to grow up, love themselves, and find a New life and relationship smh just ignorant 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

Is it just me or did anyone else hear the police siren at 3:59?

at the: "After the Show" part I was like WHHHHAAATTT???!!!

How you gonna make her end the affair and still be deciding if you're gonna take em back?? LMAOOOOOO!!!

Anybody else got a headache? Whew Chile lol & valisha getting herself around ain't she 😏

They need to get it together if kids are in the mix

They don't even like each other you can tell they literally can't stand each other. They're just codependent and so used to each other they don't know how to let go. This episode gave me a damn headache!

This is most immature, insecure episode I’ve ever seen. I couldn’t even finish it bc I got so irritated with them and this stupid weight thing. Love yourself before you try to love someone else

They’re both annoying. What exactly is there to salvage? They both need to be single for a few years.

Well valisha you’ll be in court again very soon for writing me $3950 of hot checks. Big mistake.

Wait, Judge said that this couple was {engaged} for the last seven months... This is Divorce Court. They never married, what the Hell?!

This shiiii right here nucca, this shiiii right here nucca!! Just imagine being the fly on the wall in their house 🤔

Get a pet, like a c at, dog, lizzard, rooster, etc and stay single... steups.

Wow she putting them in some crazy situations. That alone is a deal breaker.

Did she really come to court with her housekeeping uniform on? 🤔

Damn that was exhausting 🤦🏽‍♀️

she's talking to an insecure woman about how to be behave with another insecure woman.

They both annoying af.. One got petty insecurities and the other has an ego out of this world! Seriously?

There is something wrong with that girl... Find something else to do.

Unhappy, Unhealty; Unlikely to make it. This is a toxic union and they need to part as friends

Valisha is very insecure and knows she’s not doing right by Jamicka that’s why she tries to turn the table furthermore she does not deserve Jamicka

LIFE IS TO SHORT TO BE MESSING UP ONE ANOTHER'S LOVE. TIME WILL RUN OUT ⏳WHEN YOU'RE TO BLIND TO SEE. BE GOOD TO EACH OTHER.

They come to the court in the beginning and say they're done but then later say (I wanna be with her) Y'all make up your damn mind!!!!!

They both just to damn messy.

The woman behind O'Dell is killing me with her facial expressions. When she said she used to be size 14 :) :)...shade!!!

A HOUSE FULL OF CONFUSION.... I FEEL SORRY FOR THE KIDS THAT HAVE TO BE SURROUNDED BY ALL THIS CHAOS, AND BS...

Mrs carrington is not the smallest in the bunch either .

You get confirmation once the money goes through and either way they wouldn't wait a couple days to see the money didn't go through. =.= what

I’m sorry I can’t stop starring at judge earrings!!!!!!!

That mess is just disrespectful!

They're playing games and one upping each other and it's only going to lead to absolute chaos. At first I was like she could've paid for these tickets and there could've been a mix up with the airlines, but when she said she was giving her fake confirmations about the light bill, that was it. She's a dangerous type of woman to deal with, someone who will be living a lie and when things crash down then they go into panic mode, but lying to your face the whole time. You see a lot of movies about men doing this sort of thing with multiple wives/households and the women not even knowing about each other, until something bad happens or worse they snap and kill the whole family just out of the blue. There's a mindset where they can't be honest with the ones they love and they just have to live that lie at all costs. I hope she gets rid of this woman, because this relationship isn't worth it at all.

Lol this is a hot ass mess 🤦🏾‍♀️ LORDT

When the judge says "oh! we all have on a shape-shifter girdle" HELL NO! Americans may need that but not women in the Caribbean or West Indies, ok people?! Just clarifying that @DivorceCourt Plus, that ain't even easy to come by in the West Indies.

A insecure person & a liar cannot coexist in a flourishing relationship. This relationship is TOXIC. The Judge is right, that #Ego is gonna kill her in any ship.

Separate!!!!!

I have seen so much beautiful photos of Ms. O'dell on Face book, and she's gorgeous. From what i have seen she's no longer about that lesbian thing, and has move on from Valisha Carrington

Wow.

Look at her though!!! I can not .

Y’all both need to grow the hell up! It was she did this but she did that! Y’all too childish for a relationship!

Pot calling the kettle …

I think Jamika can dish it but can't take it. I know plenty of people like her, they are mean but you can't be mean to them. Her insecurities feed her. She needs to get help with that. The girlfriend is a problem too, but Jamika has some issues she needs to deal with.

They need Jesus

How are they that old and still THAT insecure, damn. Grow up and finding who loves you for you, it's that easy.

They both has issues.

I haven’t made it to the end yet but it seems like these two have done so much tit for tat stuff to each other. Miss O’Dell really does seem to love her but the other one just seems like she doesn’t really care. I kno Sometimes people have a weird way of showing exactly how they feel. I just don’t understand what happened during these three years. Now they’re engaged for seven months so one would think that they should be really happy together. Planning their future. So far I think these two should go their separate ways. What is going on between them seems unhealthy and just toxic

Therapy counseling

EGOS! I can't deal!

"liposextion" Freudian slip?

That stud big as a house! This tew much

A mess