I have spent a lot of time in China and I will say this is spot on. If you meet a Chinese woman that is the opposite of what is said in this video.......run away fast 🤣🤣🤣

As long as the man is rich he will be alright and be accepted 😊😊

My experience is most of this is BS or at the very least naive. Chinese women are mostly interested in three things that being money, money, and money.

"most women marry up especially in Asia". I would say that applies to women in every culture.

Chinese women sounds like an absolute nightmare. I think Ill avoid Chinese women - thanks for the warnings.

I love this woman's honesty. She is sharing nuggets about her culture.

So any guy who is not at least upper middle class should give up on marrying a Chinese woman. Got it

I have been around Chinese women and they have always acted nice,but they also like your money more then they like you.

I've been married to my wife, who is from China, for nine years and I think this woman is right about everything she said.

As a central european, I find it rather odd that these points have to be explained to westerners. It should be just common sense.

I’m glad this video popped up in my feed from the algorithm. I’m always curious to learn how other cultures court/date. You are a straight shooter! Subscribed!

Thank you, I recognize the a few habits you were talking about. I'm glad you explained it to me.

This is really good advice and a great video. Ms. Moon is considerate and giving advice, not manipulation. Thanks.

I am married to a Hong Kong lady that i met when i was a young gwaijai living in Hong Kong. She was quite conservative, and was very beautiful. We are married for 34 years. I am the provider of our family. She moved to my country where we got married. She is quite western thinking now.

Excellent report!! Straightforward, clear and smart!! Thank you so very much. (From usa)

Once again, very useful information, Ms. Moon. Thank you.

1. Chase 2. Let her make the first move for intimacy 3. Pay for everything 4. Don't disrespect the family( even if they disrespect you and talk shit about you) 5. Don't ghost her if you don't like her no more. Just be upfront 6. Run away if she's not traditional, and is a slut 7. Whatever you do will never be good enough. You have to be on point all day everyday. Got it 👍🏽

Thinks for the information. It was very helpful.

Just discovered your channel. Totally spot on!

Impressive in depth, quality, wisdom, and social smarts! Wow.

Very helpful advice, thank you!

Thank you so much. Great video with helpful insights and solid suggestions. Liked & subscribed. I will check out your other videos!

Really good & straight forward advice.thank you.

Thank you Jojo, very informative ❤

Pretty good advice. Recommended following.

Good video, I enjoyed.

Thank you for some really good advice

Your advice is greatly appreciated. And you have beautiful nails, by the way.

Thank you for the sincere and thought prvoking advises.

Due to dating my Chinese girlfriend for 3 years now, everything this woman says is true

Your videos are very entertaining!

Neat to know! thanks. Hey as for the medicine, acupuncture worked great for me. TY

In China…. Love = (always) is about two hearts meeting in a space made of cooperation, mutual-respect, caring & sharing. Sex = is (mostly) about “a loving gift”. There may be some variations about this… to each their own. MOSTLY, when we care about the other person, we’re glad that they’re happy. That makes us happy too. Two can be happy… three can be happy… two billion can be happy.. And the whole Earth can be happy too!!!!!

Helpful thanks. Your advice - don't get into a relationship with a Chinese woman if you don't want to get married, is interesting. I wasn't sure I did at first, but we did go down that path, and living in China with our kid... although rocky, is working out.

Very enlightening.

This is very good advice Miss Jo Moon. I have been married to a Chinese woman for 20 years and I am still learning about her culture from the Chinese medicine that often seems to work for her but not me to the foods she eats and the family ties. She is on the phone with her sisters every day but if they are together they fight like cats and dogs. It took me awhile to get used to no affection in public even after all these years. I laughed at your reference to the little brother. And of course there is never 50/50. I was not raised that way. The man always pays.

Love your content Jo. Really great advice and insight. Keep up the awesome videos.

WOW! YOU HAVE NAILED THIS! GREAT ADVICE! DO NOT DISREPECT HER CULTURE AND FAMILY! IT SPEAKS TO THE TRUE FEELINGS OF HER SUITOR. I ALWAYS MADE MY DECISION OF WHO I DATE LONG TERM BY WATCHING HOW SHE TREATS HER FAMILY ESPECIALLY HER PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS.

Good job mate 😊

Don’t ask the fish how to catch it ask the fisherman

I needed this information back in 2014.

WOW. You are very well spoken and smart. You give really great advice. I just subscribed and hope you keep putting out such great content

Interesting. Lets not change the definition of gold diggers based on the amount of money men have in their bank account. Gold digging can be small money or big money. It all comes down to the “intentions” of any lady from any country. If the intentions are extracting resources as a way to “use” that person she’s simply is a gold digger. As a person who’s well traveled. Women would go on many dates to get their food paid for. Therefore saving her own income without the intentions of forming something serious. Ive also know women that would ask for $50 which isn’t a lot but when she’s doing that with 50 other men, $50 turns out to be a lot especially in a foreign country that’s less expensive. As far as splitting the bill, it depends on her views and values. If she’s a feminist, there’s no way in hell im paying 100% of everything, we splitting the bill regardless if she’s Chinese, White, Latina, Indian, Middle Eastern, Native American etc. Me paying for the bill, she’s gotta be traditional as you mentioned in the video. Which means 1. Cooperative 2. Submissive 3. Feminine 4. Fit 5. Friendly As you mentioned in your other video, not all women are submissive. Well, if im paying for everything while she gets to keep all of her money…she better be all 5 things on that list. No way im taking care of someone who is masculine, loud, bossy, non cooperative, and not submissive My point here is “women can’t have it both ways”. They must pick and choose one or the other. They want traditional men, then we expect them to be traditional too. They want to be feminists, then feminists men expects splitting the bill 50/50 Thanks for the video

Very good advice. I especially like the part about not expecting to go dutch with her. Men seem to forget that part of male attractiveness is our ability to garner resources and show that we are good providers. Especially in a country like China were men and women have very well defined gender roles. When I was dating in Shenzhen I noticed that women will occasionally pay for stuff but the ratio is not fifty fifty. For every 5 dates I paid for they would pay for 1. And I was happy to pay because China has so many smart, beautiful young women that are super eager to date foreign men. C'mon guys, don't be 小气！😅

Thsnk you for the advice ,im off to Japan now 😂

I love your videos Jo.

This applies to all women. A woman is a woman no matter where they come from.

I 100% agree with the ghosting part. Experienced it once and it really sucks. I'm not against a break up, it's good and nobody's time is wasted. But breaking by ghosting or almost ghosting is a waste of time for the other and also such an asshole move. Men, women, don't ever do that pls

Hey thank you so much, I met this wonderful woman from Shanghai ,she is just lovely I wondered about all this. I have a clue now. Good stuff

Thank you for sharing, It is a fascinating insight into culture. Of course warning about Korean soap operas ;-)

I went to China in 2018 after I met a Chinese woman online for the past 3 years. When I went to see her and want to spend 2 weeks, the first 12 hours she didn't want anything to do with me and has no feelings with me. That was like a shock to me. I thought we could try for the next 2 days and see how that goes. But she changed and gets mad at me for unimportant things and shouts at me. She started to keep her distance from me and spends time with her friends. After being in China for first 4 days and no fellowship with me at all, I reluctantly decided to pack up my suitcases, give no gifts I had prepared for her, and leave China the next day. I was fed up with her treating me like an outcast. She's the worst Chinese woman I have ever met in China. So she gets nothing from me, because she DID nothing for me.

To add to the not going 50/50, I also recommend paying the bill with cash.

11:38 Yes I absolutely agree on your statement about ghosting and how it is, in your words, disgusting and brutal. What's even more disturbing is how some people actually champion this type of behavior and offer no sympathy, support, or assuagement--yet they're so quick to tell you things like "nobody owes you anything", "nobody cares about your feelings", "you need to just get over it and move on", etc. To say the least I find it to be very highly disturbing and it royally pisses me off. It seems to be very rare when I find a woman that's actually honest about her intentions instead of being petty and ghosting, which I personally believe is rooted in deception and not to mention, childish as all hell.

if my wife ever dumps me, I'll have to revisit this video...lol. your humor is much appreciated, regardless of the subject. it makes it more interesting. stay well...wife says hi.

Great presentation

Brutly honest, all facts👍👍👍

3:22 I like and love this one most of all. Especially about Chinese medicine. Thank you 🙂👍

Based on my experience, this is all rock-solid advice…sorry though I am to say it. I wish I had seen this years ago, because nearly all of this was learned the hard way. The last chunk of advice in here I would do anyway, but good to know.

All your points are true, i married a HK lady 23 years ago.

I concur with the part about not coming on too strong and being aggressive too fast. My family is from Puerto Rico. In the Caribbean we are very outward and affectionate with one another, even in the beginning of a relationship. I dated a nice woman from china and I think I pushed her away as I was too quick to try to 'seduce' her. She liked me for sure. But I did not understand the differences in our culture. We as Hispanic men are expected to be aggressive from the beginning. I guess this is a difference in culture. Although I find Chinese women to be stunning I may have to just stick to my own kind going forward. Still, a very nice video, thank you very much!

Moon talking sense!

1:34 LOOOOOOL that happened to me almost exactly the same way and she made a voice almost exactly the same as you did 🤣 LMAO

Thank you.

Very well displayed!

All great advice. I am from the states and I've been married to my Chinese wife for almost 28 years now! We met in the States while she was a MBA student and have been living in China for 26 of those years with no intention of changing anything. Enjoy life

I just great at making wonderful friends to Asian people 🙃 around the world. My great information for today. Have a great fabulous wonderful day.

Nice ❤

Interesting, I've noticed that Chinese women are conservative. Especially traditional Chinese women. I've watched plenty of Chinese TV shows and movies. For example, I've watched the excellent TV series Romance Of The Three Kingdoms and the interactions between husband and wife were loving, but conservative. For example,Zhou You and his wife Xaio Qiao didn't kiss each other or were too touchy. I admire Chinese culture, and it's so beautiful. I study a lot of Chinese culture, also am learning Chinese. If I'm taking a woman out on a date, I'm paying.

If she loves you - she will pay for you! My wife does - chongqing wife.

Hi, Ms Moon 👋👋👋😊.

Very true

can you make video on difference with sichuan and chong qing, food, culture, lifestyle, dating, are they different or mostly same

Your advice makes sense. I dated a couple of Chinese Girls..and I thought they were just Unpassionate☺☺

Thank you

I date some Chinese girl in the past. At moment on Wechat I'm chatting with 4 girls from several years (I started in 2015) but I never went in China yet. She is divorced, but I don't trust that much her. What is your advice to do?

Good advice. I live in London (I'm English 47 years old, my girlfriend was 50) and my Hong Kong girlfriend broke up with me after a few months but she didn't even explain why! I felt so hurt!

8:43 😂😂😂😂 what did she mean!? A huge little brother??? 😂😂😂😂

@JoMoon Do you have any insider knowledge a man should know if he's dating a woman from Fujian Province?

Lets drop it here in case some of you can't take it. 😅😅😅😅 But seriously, generally good advice. Thanks

Her Mother is a Supremely Key Figure >>>> if her Mother doesn't like you,[ approve of you ] it's over. "I love you she said, but how can I spend the rest of my life making My Mother Unhappy."

I would add a couple of things here. It is natural for them to want to married up but no one bother to tell them its not an equal relationships but the Jo said roles are well established. Secondly, watch out for them pushing towards wanting to live in your Western country. The motivation may not be pure as it seems.

Indeed, nobody wants to need to call in the Uncanny Counters just because they ghosted someone. Don't do it.

Very well done, I was struck by the many similarities between women’s feelings and beliefs to those in the US. S few unique to China, but people are more alike than different!! Of course there always men that do not understand basic human emotions.

I’m an old fashion American guy I met a girl in hong Kong years ago, thought I was in love unfortunately my ship sailed and never seen her again,wouldn’t mind mtg a Chinese gal now. Just not sure where I’d meet her living in farm town USA. I really appreciate the old fashioned traditional values and culture. China is also very beautiful.

My Chinese wife, if we split the expenses, after a while, in her mind it becomes she is paying for everything (and I am paying “nothing” even if I keep up my half).

everything sounds like good common sense. The same rules of conduct were obviously uinversal back 60 years ago everywhere

Hello 👋 nice to meet 😊 thank you, i like Asian girls, thank you for your advice 4:45 i respect Chinese woman very much e

I want to say something about the so called traditionalism and Chinese girls being conservative. Once a Chinese friend told me that Chinese women often just pretend to be very conservative where in reality they actually aren't. He said that he hates this game and that he is fed up with it. I have experienced a lot of things during these years in China and I really cannot say that Chinese girls are conservative tbh. On the contrary, they are quite open, especially if they like you. My ex gf for example had s.. with me on the second date. And she is not the only one. Maybe I was just lucky, idk. but I think I agree with what my Chinese friend told me. It's a secret that a lot of people don't know. Or maybe it's just that people in my side are more open.

My wife of 22 years is a traditional Filipina. However, she is mixed race, a tiny bit of Filipino blood, 1/4 Spanish and 75% Chinese. A lot of what you said applies to many Filipinas as well. There are some differences, but a lot of what you said fit my better half like a glove.

I also hate ghosting! That's what my girlfriend always does when she is angry.

This video illustrates why I like Asian women. Just watch as many videos as this. And you will become familiar with that culture.

Hi Jo, how do Chinese women feel about pre-nuptial agreements when it comes to marriage ?

the 'most men in their entire life will never ever get a chance to meet a real gold digger...' part - is a harsh truth XD

im french Canadian and i had so many issue with my chinese gf, about talking China government, the soup with head fishes, keep my shoes inside the house, ect. We are in Canada but she wants to live like in China and when im the only one canadian in the group i know they are talking about my way of living 😆

Jo have you ever eaten Cod tongues, cod heads, or britches (Ovarian of the cod) Taste like sausage. ? There are some areas of western culture that have similarities. We didn't waste much because of being poor. My dad grew up on wild animals, like rabbits, moose, caribou, and tur (almost like Peking Duck). So he past it down to us. Our older culture carries the same thing some of China carries with family. In my province, there were no roads until the mid '60s. We lived on an island. Mostly fishing. Communities were all on the coastline. So everyone had to get along. There were no planes, trains, no police (They had rangers who did everything, just one in the community), or hospitals far away. I have already met a beautiful girl from Chongqing. I mentioned this to you already I know. I love listening to your videos. Thank You for the tips.

Watching this video made me realize that i did quite a few things wrong when i was dating a girl from south china. At least i never disrespected her family or culture ;).

thank you Moon ,maybe someday i will have Chinese lady in my life

I like the way you snap your fingers!! :)

Come on, my little brother is HUGE! What else do we need to talk about?!?!?! 😂 🕹

Thank you for this video. I am 58 yrs old, own my own business, but I have nowhere the worth of the 53 yr old Chinese lady I am dating. I can afford luxury restaurants, trips and never go 50/50 and won't. She does bring this up that she has to have a wealthier man, but the friends and lovers relationship is definitely on the table, and its moving in that direction, we really hit it off. Here is the thing, I understand that the likelihood of me finding a model 20 years younger than me are about the same of her finding a wealthy man in a big city at 53 years old who isn't wearing diapers (she's attractive and thin but not multi multi-millionaire attractive) Does reality sink in with Chinese women in these situations? She obviously finds me attractive and fun and we connect. But the likelihood of finding that combined package is like winning lotto. Just curious how you see this?