A rich man is willing to change a poor woman's life. A rich woman will not even entertain a poor man

Hi Jo, as a man who met a Chinese woman online and she came to America and we have been married for 15 years this segment was very interesting. I did not hear any of the women saying they wanted a man who was romantic and affectionate as well as the normal good job, home etc.. My wife said Chinese men traditionally are not very romantic or affectionate. Married life is more of a, what we call, a roommate type relationship in China without a lot of expressing love and being affectionate. My wife is amazed that she has a husband that is always hugging and kissing, affectionate, complimentary to her and expressing how he feels about her.

So basically we’re saying. Money money money…sheesh! 😱 Sadly there’s going to be millions of beautiful unmarried women in China in decades to come. Btw, I never heard the word love mentioned. I was told by a Chinese woman that love is money. Incredibly sad!

Money lets be honest all the Chinese ive met say they want good man but they actually dont care they just want someone with a lot of money

One thing those ladies didn't mention that is important is physical attraction. That is important to everyone.

Jo is just stating common sense. All marriage partners should be loyal, respectful and loving to their partner.

Could you do the same for girls, which qualities/duties a girl should bring to her man. A couple is a team in which both bring strenght.

Every Chinese woman I have been near does an audit of what I own. Unacceptable, especially when they are usually dirt poor or in debt. No, thankyou.

one thing I noticed in China, is most girls were playgirls

I like when you said men should be ambitious. In the West women want a "final product". For example if you want to be a successful business man, a lawyer, a singer, an actor or if you want to buy your house, have a car etc Western women don't help you throughout the process, don't support you in your struggles, don't see your potential, they will see you only when you already have a nice job, your home and your car. They won't be there when you will have your moments of discouragement. If Chinese women support you throughout the process, see your potential and understand your ambition that means they are precious and unique. 🥰😎☺️

Treat me well = spoil me = you must be rich = must have own house, cars, job and investments

The ideal man for Chinese women is a 185cm, green two-dimensional man named Benjamin Franklin.

Work hard and be amibitous, respect 'filial piety' (i.e., be good with her family), and treat her well. No comments (really) about affection, being a great father, be romantic/affectionate. Basically, a business partner who likes her family.

If you are rich ,you have a chance

Thank you for your channel 🎉

I have a Chinese girlfriend that doesn't speak English just a couple words like thank you and your welcome. We communicate by translator on her iphone. This Chinese woman is here on a 10 visa. We get along pretty well. She is a hard working, very ambitious woman. After the sixth time together she introduced me to her daughter and son in law. I don't have to support her she is very independent and takes care of business...

Thanks Jo! Love the format and information you provided.

You made some really excellent points here, Jo. Thank you for sharing your insight.

Good advice for most women I think. Loved your delivery too. Thank you for posting.

Great information Jo. I really love how you deliver your perspectives and sneak in your smiles n chuckles. Very entertaining and informative. I appreciate the time you share with us. We love you!

Once again, a very useful video. Thank you.

I've had seven years of experience with two Chinese wives and know quite a few others they are not effectionate, have cold hearts and only think about money period, they will disrespect you and degrade you all the time and they are very narcissistic with bad tempers, this is based on my personal experience believe me.

Good video Jo👍

Greetings Miss Jo Moon . I love all of your videos ! You have a wonderful personality , don't change anything ! 🌺

Good video film, useful information, enjoyed watching.

Chinese women are still women. They are attracted to the same kinds of things that women from other cultures are attracted to. I'm not going to run down a laundry list of those things because by now everyone knows what they are. Some are definitely attracted to money. But from my experience that's not usually the case. Being in shape and dressing well helps. Being respectful and calm are absolutely necessary. Patience and understanding are necessary. Just like women from other cultures, they require the same in attitude and character. For me, they are so easy to get along with. They are so feminine and attentive it's crazy good.

Excellent tips and advice. You just described my current situation with a Chinese lady I just met. She’s amazing.

I would say don't change yourself for nobody. You were born Original, don't die a copy.

Jo great presentation as usual. I have just started communicating with a 61yr old chinese lady. Your tips help a lot.

Some good thoughts Miss Moon. I always try to put my Chinese wife’s needs and wants above mine. In return she takes really good care of me. If I need her she is always there for me and I try to be always there for her. Maybe not so different in any successful relationship.

Ambitious = have a lot of money

I don't know how you showed up on my Feed here. Maybe because I am going to be in Taiwan for the first time for two weeks this coming December 2023 and I started getting lots of videos on Taiwan in my feed after watching a few. I don't believe you are Taiwanese though from watching your other videos! The algorithm is REAL...!! I don't know much about you but after watching just one of your videos, I subscribed and have throughly appreciated the Wisdom that you share and it is ALL pretty straight forward...! I subscribed to your IG too..! That's for keeping it real always!!

Plain ones were the most dateable. Simply wanted to be treated well.

Honestly when you date a Chinese woman, don't expect them to come with a user's manual. The fun is figuring things out as we go otherwise life would not be interesting but instead life would be too boring. It's about learning and respect. And respect is very very big. We really hope that we find one who does not have any form of narcissism. Any element of narcissism in the relationship certainly will not make things work. And if they date a Westerner it is important they have a healthy sense of humor and not be easily offended. Intimacy is extremely important.

Some Chinese women appear to be similar to Western women. The grass always appears to be greener on the other side. The lesson here is to stay where you are located 😅. Women are women no matter where you go in the world.😂

😂😂😂 the intro is so true. 😂

Hi Jo, I am one of your subscribers and appreciate the information and opinions you render to those of us who are not Chinese. You have a kind and entertaining way of communicating, and it keeps the subject matter interesting. Thank you.

I've been dating this Chinese girl for 3 years I want to get married but her father hate me for being an American. I don't know what to do

Hi, Jo. In xinyang. Any special advices

Part 2 As for eating weird foods, I have no problem with that because in my culture we eat animal’s tongues, testicles, tripes, and intestines, as well as some of their feet and skin. In our past we also indulged in chicken feet, not really sure when and where or for what reason we dropped eating them, I have no issue with trying them again. I do not like being coerced, pushed, or shamed into trying something that I have no desire to eat, especially foods that have the potential to kill you. I do not believe in beating women or being abusive in any meaningful way, but I don’t mind an occasional spanking if I have been especially good that day. As for hygiene, I believe like my ancient Western forefathers that bathing more than once a week is more than mortal man can bear. I always remember the cautionary tale of the man who hadn’t bathed for over 30 years, and then was given a bath and died two days later. So please give me your honest critique of what you think that my chances are of attracting a Chinese woman. Also, I have a small question, since Chinese women have all these requirements for a man, exactly what do they bring to the table in the relationship.

I am Thai married to a Chinese woman, we are living in China but I have some thought about being a responsible man for managing household things for example, something in the house broken or even waimai some food to cook, I would need my wife helping because she can do better than me especially when she needs to communicate to a maintenance to fix something or she can use delivery app more professionally than me because I can’t read Chinese accurately. I know what you said and how my wife feels but don’t know how to change it. Life in China is quite desperate even I earn good money and have a good Chinese skills but I am still not a native speaker.

I never have any debt. all my life is like this. my parents taught me well. my monthly budget for most of my life is about 1000 usa dollars. and I live well within this. but once somebody I want to start a relationship with hears this, they turn cold on me. it's been like this for decades. so, now, I don't even bother with trying to find a soulmate. better to stay alone with no headaches. all I want to do is be a bum and play computer games and watch tv. nobody wants someone like that. ambition? no, I don't have any ambitions except to be happy. I think work is for suckers.

After taking a hard look and considered self-evaluation, I am confident no one would want to date someone like me.

Hi Jo, my Chinese GF never says she loves me. I asked her about this and she said Chinese don't say this. Do you have any thoughts of this?

Ambition means potential money in the future

From real world experience: in addition to Money, Money, Money, educated (PHD preferred), Taller than 5"8, full hair, Doctor Lawyer, CEO, Engineering VP/Manager (preferably Apple, Google, meta and now Invidia) and Chinese! But will settle for another ethnicity guy after 30. Preferably she can control the dude and treat him poorly. Needs to give her 2 children: 1 boy 1 girl and her parents have to live with them. When he gets home from work, he still has more work to do for her. Must live in a school district with 10/10 rating. He can be already married as long as he doesn't have any kids. She is happy to help end a marriage that is already strained is he will make enough money after the divorce.

Miss Jo, I've seen your vdo today, just watched your content, even I've watched other Vlog content , but some how your research and providing the truth is sound very realisitic..me self from INDIA and doing research on Chinese culture , this contact definitly help to understand more about the Chinese women prospective .. Huge respect from INDIA .

I dated a young lady from guanzho when we were in a college internship. I came from the Caribbean. Our romantic cultures are similar. Respect, family driven n take care if each other. After she had to go back at end of visa. Her family didnt want me to pursue her anymore because at the time i had no big job, home nor the power to move mountains (aka ambition). I stayed in usa n rebuilt myself but it was to late. She had to move on to survive n i still think about her. My family was willing to help us get her here permanently. We all loved her. I respectfully stop pursuing her but never met such a lovely woman again. Its complicated to find someone thats 100% family driven. Everything here so far has been about my money n my things. I rather stay single n only pair up when they agree no marriage no “buyout”. Marriage in the US is risky. Staying single has given me the proper space to continue my pursuit of knowledge n education without having to stop. I’d be ok with another intellectual type but lets be real, it would mean i have to stop my projects lol

I like this girl!!

You are funny, AND very good in most of what you says

The ideal husband for a Chinese woman is a small, meek quiet man who don't go against his wife. If the husband go against the wife, she'll yell and scream at her husband till he just shuts up. The wife is the boss as well as her mom if she lives with her daughter and husband. Not a happy relationship for your life.

I find it interesting to learn Chinese women have just as many unrealistic prerequisites as American women do for men.

No clue why this came into my feed, but I enjoyed it haha. I am loyal always have been I am ambitious motivated and still have some potential I definitely don't smell either so I could be on the right track....potentially.

In my life, I have learned that women do not have the capacity for love. Some women can "love" their children on an instinctual basis. To a woman, a man is there to provide a lifestyle, period. He is not there to be loved, respected, cherished, valued, etc. By mere technicality, he is human, but not regarded as such. When she tires of him, she will move on to a new man. Chinese women are beautiful, but dead inside just like every other race or ethnicity of women.

This is very interesting, because many western women would see these values as being a SIMP or a sucker. Part of the reason I’ve decided to stay single is that I do not want to move to another country since I have to help my parents, sisters and niece. I’d LOVE to meet a woman from china and have a relationship, but in order for me to do that I would want to live in the country she is from. I do not want her to come to the US and become corrupted by all these THOTS and 304’s. Right now I’m helping to support my dad and can’t just leave him hanging dry. My mom is not getting any younger earthier. I know I would not be able to move out of country as it would break my heart. Fellas, if you don’t have anything tying you down and want a relationship, GET OUT OF THE WESTERN WORLD! While you still can!

The motivation thing is kinda tricky, here. If these Chinese women mean "motivation *to earn more money"* then I can easily say: "thanks, but no thanks" to them. And I'm a pretty high-earner myself - I make more than $100,000. But my goal is to make my life easier, with more free time and leisure. This _may_ include earning more money, but also may not. This _may_ include working on a business after work, and it could also mean staying in the same job and just improving my routine.

Since you brought this subject up, I decided to look this video over. I find it rather educational since I have so many ladies in China. Since I already support them by giving them ideas so they can make their own money, I won't have problems with that. However, I admit I may have trouble with their parents since I'm a foreigner. I still have ambitions to make my ladies succeed, I plan to have all of them make a strong business by combining with each other to form a company, but because of the economic situation in China I instructed them to move their wealth out of China before the Zero-Covid Policy by the government. That proved to be a wise move since the Yuan (RMB) has devalued greatly over the past few months. Many of them moved most of their wealth to Singapore, or the Cayman Islands. They did this discreetly without attracting attention., which find rather impressive since the government always track every Yuan that every citizen has in their bank account. Jo-jo, have you made any progress with your own business yet?

"Thinking guys" 😊

Hallo JoJo 🙂 nice to see you again. I think the of us want the same.. Trust, Love and a good life. I really like the mind set from this women 🙂they are loyal i resprect it very much. Thank you for this video, and take care 🙂

Jo Moon...just found your channels and now subscribed! Where the hell did you come from? And don't say China...LoL!!

SHE IS TELLING THE REAL TRUTH MEN, LISTEN!!!! 👍🏼👍🏼

Ok, now can you go out of the major city and interview in the small towns.

she a successful business woman in China. her business values are like my values. I love these qualities of the client comes first and design and quality of the product is number one. I never meet north american women with this quality of values

sounds like sound advice for all women

Sounds like Chinese women are the exact opposite of women here in the USA.

I found it's hard to find a Chinese girl in China who's comfortable to communicate in English in the long term. Even those who can speak English ok don't really fancy speaking it as a default langauge for a long time. Maybe it's just me, but it's a deal breaker for any kind of dating, since I will never be able to learn the Chinese to have any meaningful conversation, not in this life.

🤣, I love your sense of humor! (Would you date yourself, no, that's why you're single lol)

I used to think that way i believe that some pua dating advice are good, especially having an abundancy mindset... even though one needs to be faithful, this is a bad idea because you are giving the woman all the power! By having other women with you, the guy is the chooser!

I would like to date myself. haha. Great video Madam Moon. Thanks for posting.

You need to tell a girl what they need to bring to the table. Not just guys to treat them well and one way.

Their ideal partner has a thick wallet.

More relationship fundamentals. I'll give you credit for developing your "no f*&king around" delivery. Love it. Stay true to it and you might be the next Pewdiepie. You should get a little dog sidekick. Marriage isn't really that hard. You make a mutual decision and stick to it. I've been married a long time. We give each other what we need. Provision. Protection. Affection. Honesty. Loyalty. Willingness. If I get bored, it's my fault and my responsibility to fix it. Same for my bride. Simple to understand, but requires dedicated effort over time. Every night, when I climb into bed, I say the following words: Thank You For The Woman Lying In My Bed. Been saying it since our wedding night. The universe listens. I don't say it for her, I say it for me.

From everything I have seen I am willing to say that most of the Chinese women are driven by money! Call it what you will. If you are good looking Chinese man but you are from a countryside and you are a hardworking farmer you will not get a woman, not a Chinese woman that is. The only shot at a woman that guy has is to get a leftover woman or a foreigner.

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Why does potential and motivation matters if you can provide? Those men who can provides for a girls need will be more selective. A girls worth is dependent partly on her potential as well and her age is a consideration. There are many factors that is not considered in this discussion.

Hi Jo these leaves a lot of western guys out because Chinese custom includes taking care of the mother and father not just the chinese wife. Western men do not understand this or not accustomed to that. This asian custom of strong family is also true in Mexico and other countries in central and south america. The man has to take responsibility of the wife"s parents and may include other members of the family. It"s a rule a tradition period.

Is no money no honey, No honey no cat.

There was only one girl I found attractive in that video, so those girls better be ambitious, spoil me, and treat me well! 😃

My cousin has a chinese husband.. He is a very good person..

This what I was told in Malaysia: A Malay girl is for romance; a Chinese girl for business

Maybe you talked about this before, but I see lots of videos where they interview Chinese ladies and they ask what kind of men, and 90% say they do not like any men that are not white or asian, and especially black men are considered the worst. I am not sure if that means that Chinese women are more racist or is the culture of China that white skin color means more than anything.. Does your outside apperane mean much more than the quality of your character to Chinese women? Also, I do not see the same behavior as much for Westernized Chinese women

I d marry one!

This one is too easy. I didn’t even watch a single second of this video and the answer is money money money and more money.

Watch women's actions not their words, their actions are the truth. Women tend to follow other women and what other women want, it is called preselection and well studied part of female nature. Women naturally want a man other women want and other men what to be (That is a high value man or a man of status - it is an ego thing, it boosts her ego and makes her fell better about her self). Which leads to the next part, women love flirting, there is an acceptable level of flirting. When a woman sees another woman attracted or even more so aroused by her man, that is both a threat and an ego boost she picked well (why, because other women validated her choice). This is a good thing for a healthy woman to be around, it brings out her giving her best to keep her man. And when people do things for others, they naturally tend to have good feelings for that person. The other thing is this is a good filter for men. A well balanced woman sees and realises the dynamic and plays into it, while the more toxic when they see this threat will be more toxic / controlling / manipulative. And above all for a man, only reward good behaviour. Women naturally do this with men (Some would say "operant conditioning"). The overall message I get from this, what Chinese women find attractive (not arousing, just attractive) is basically what he can do for her (who benefits - she does while he is gas lighted that he does by getting with her - meaning she is the prize, meaning the relationship power dynamic is tilted to her benefit). Is that good for a long term loving relationship, I suspect not unless the guy becomes more than a "plough horse" provider. I'm not saying this is good or bad, what I'm pointing out is the dynamic been wanted by women. And that most of them are saying something they will settle for (it's time for me to get married - box ticked / he is good enough). I would say for long term this is not enough and as women control relationships / sexual access, I would advise men to find better (a woman who genuinely desires them, than just attracted). It is easy to spot a woman who genuinely desires you, you will know it once you experience it. Men, don't settle for less. And men, understand women's nature and use that knowledge to get the best out of yourself and her.

you give the impression that ambition to be "more of yourself " its geting to a higher financial level, but what about becoming something more where money are not implied. After all China its ful of monasteries where people from all over the world retreat from all these "success". so what a man like this be in the eye of a chinese woman.

Kind. clever, tall, blonde and handsome with blue eyes is VERY important for Chinese women seeking a wonderful husband.

9:43 lol if she got pregnant accidentally and we're still unmarried that's literally her problem. I told that to every girlfriend I had. If you are not taking our relationship seriously and not willing to get married, there's no reason for me to take _you_ seriously when you get pregnant - even if it's by me. This is a privilege for *married* women, not some replaceable girlfriend. If you don't like it, then you should respect your body more and strive to marry faster instead.

6 foot, 6 pack, 6 figures, 6.5 banana, this will satisfy Chinese women for about 6 years

Part 1 Hello Miss Moon, I am going to give you my attributes and please give me your critique as to whether I will be able to find a Chinese woman that will accept me. First, I would like to say that I am like you a grump soul, but I do not possess the sarcastic wit that you have, I am willing to learn though. Let’s start with filial qualities, I believe that my friend once had a dog of that type, I believe that they are bred out of Germany. However, I am not a big pet person, so let’s move on from that. I find myself in the same boat as you, as I have 15 girlfriends, however, I would be willing to give up five of them for the right woman. I just hope that they don’t do anything rash as women are prone to do when they are dumped for another woman. On ambition, motivation, and planning, I am very ambitious to wake up every morning to be motivated enough to run down a flight of stairs. Go straight to the refrigerator and down a six pack of beer and two shots of Tequila. Then I am motivated enough to run back upstairs to sit through eight grueling hours of watching KZfaq videos, yours included. While at the same time having the plan to make it through another year, and each year I revise my plan to make it through the proceeding year. As far as being honest goes, I will be as honest to my woman as she will be to me, and as you well know that women lie to men as a regular course of action every day right to a man’s face. Let me exemplify this by pointing out that you go out all day with a very beautiful woman, but the second that y’all get home. Off come the false eyelashes, off comes the base makeup, the rouge, the mascara, etc. Then off comes the padded pushup bra, then out comes 40 inches of lower torso that was squeezed into a 30-inch pant capacity. Then the girdle and the padded panties, seems that we spend all day with Lucy Liu, and come home to end up with Rosie Odonnell. Which is fine either way as long as it is consistent, which means that if I spend the day with Lucy Liu, I should also be able to spend the night with Lucy Liu. The reverse is also true, if I am spending my nights with Rosie Odonnell, then my days should also be with Rosie Odonnell. Then a woman will have the nerve to tell you that she doesn’t want you looking at other women, they are the other woman.

So basically still just greed. This so called "potential" and "ambition" is just about never being satisfied with what you have, just be miserable for ever and work until you die. I'd never want that kind of life, more cars or houses or whatever are not needed, and acquiring more than you need is just greed. Makes me really glad I don't live in China. I live in Norway, you don't need ambition to own a house and car here, you can get that with a MacDonald salary. Not that I would work there, I like computers, but I do that because it's fun, not because I want to start a dynasty and take over the world. And since I live in Norway I'll never be broke no matter what I do, the world would have to end to go seriously broke (as in starving), so money just isn't that important at all. That mentality about ambition has to come from the era of poverty and development, but China is rich now, it's often more expensive to live in a Chinese city than a Norwegian one, so why don't you just chill out already?

So much sadness and darkness is coming to them

Chinese woman secretary is the best one s to have

2:15. I see the same issues in America. They are looking for a woman. Not a man. So it makes since money evens everything out. But it's life. Got to love women!

I can't even look another woman? But...but what if me looking at another woman gives me motivation, ambition, and potential? I'm reliable -- I'll keep all my schedules / I fulfill all my schedules. I'm ambition because I write ambitious schedules. I have potential because I love writing goals and fulfilling it.

Treating both equally husband love your wife and wife respect your husband above all love covers all multitude of sins.

Halfway through the video, and seriously wondering what the equivalent for what men want in a Chinese woman is. **If men had a similar list of "have to be this, or have to be that"**.... I'm thinking most Chinese woman would be very sad or upset.

How to meet "non gold diggers". Dating sites are 99.999% disgusting. Probably some catfish hairy biker talking about "shower time"

WTF...ambitious in having a big house a nice car etc etc.Is it impossible to live without being rich ? The same old story: they want men to be this and that and when time slips away they say : i wish i had a normal life so to enjoy more time with my hubby and kids but i couldn´t because we were both running for the money.....

The first tip comes from the bible.God talks alot about a man having a vision then the woman comes along side and supports him in it. Not having a vision will frustrate a woman.

A growing number of Chinese women are using cosmetic surgery to achieve bigger eyes, high cheekbones, narrow noses and skinny legs. Like Wu, many are seeking to emulate a beauty ideal inspired by elements of Japan's manga comics, South Korea's K-Pop and Western