thats what i totally wouldve done

That award should be the chance to deck him in the face

and she also deserve an award if ever she did.

She didn't even need to come on here.

profile pic twins

I KNOW!! DISGUSTING

@semi "but its her fault too because being open is very important. Like me. I never hid anything from her, ever."

Don't understand it either. Almost every dude does what he does. not necessarily to make fun of her, but more to make fun of yourself. He even said he's half a virgin, so how could he be making fun of her She's not in the right at all. Not saying he is either. He seems like a douche, sure.

IKR THE AUDACITY WTF

@@lIlIllIlIllIlllIllIIIIIIIIIlII he wasn’t making self deprecating humor in his stand up, it was all making fun of her and sharing intimate details that would only be okay to share if he asked her first and didn’t go out of his way to hide it from her

And gross that he brought her home after it too. Like I get that it's a silly little dating event but that's still very unprofessional

they’re enabling stalking so easily

how does anyone think this is real...

​@@emilyb.8219I feel like her hooking up is a personal decision. She's an adult. She can say no. ......but the email thing was definitely an inavasion of privacy.

@@krishnaveervohra5641I seriously hope this is fake.

no he had to have known what he was doing

Bad writing on a fake show lol

​@@chrish4439 its sadly real lmao

Just about to comment this, I hope this show is fake because wtf

I think it was trying to play off the success of catfish but it’s different bc there’s super valid reasons why someone might ghost the other person

@@aurorasore it seems super fake but still pretty hard to watch

Nobody is forcing you, and finding someone's Instagram account isn't tracking.

@@LaVaZ000 getting blocked by someone on all their socials and then getting someone else to look for that person is tracking someone?

yeah plus just openly sharing on tv that he took her home that night?? thats pretty scummy too

It’s most likely staged, but yeah it’s pretty fucked up

He also apparently sleeps with people he meets there, which is a big red flag in general.

!!!!!!

Also hooking up with her afterwards like shouldn’t you be more professional than that? Hosting a dating show and hooking up with contestants is inappropriate and a bad look for you

I'm just replying so you can see how much likes you got

Yeah, real casual scumbag shit

bicameral?

@@ratedpending “Bicameral” means “two-chambered” as in an animal’s heart, or the US Congress.

@@andrewollmann304 So it's the correct term? Nice. (Obvious joke)

The two sexualities: bisexual and orphan

"Let's traumatise her some more!"

Yeah, wtf

she sounds pretty traumatized... now lets put her in a room and force her to talk to the thing that traumatized her!

I really hope this is staged

wait, that wasn't Drew's voice-over? 😰

Ikr

Deseves an award

yeah have you watched the danny gonzalez,kurtis conner or cody ko edition? They're all 11/10

Cody, Danny, Drew, and Kurtis are the white guy commentary set

White guy complain*

someone tell half a virgin that 😩

Yeah, it just means you’re willing to do it with both parties. Stop trying to make bisexuality innocent.

@@Ellivation what does bisexuality have to do with innocence

@@funkytime69 because bisexual people maybe will have sex with someone they like and are in a secure relashionship? So like the same as straight people, but now they don’t only want to form relashionships with people from just the opposite sex.

Okay, sure bud. We'll all pretend lifestyles are basically the same between heterosexuals and homosexuals.

Ah yes, romance!

a dream😍

uh idk if u watch the show but she ghosted him because of his stand up routine was about her and their sex life. it was cause he didn't communicate anything

I wouldn't say she was the one who embarrassed herself....

Typical XY chromosome behavior

Everyone on the show had to sign consent forms.

@@spqcevvoid6075 Well it's scripted.

Yeah I feel really bad for this girl. It seems like she has dealt with a lot.

@@joshroehl6098 JOSH YOU NEED TO STOP YOUR SONG (WHICH IS HOPEFULLY IRONIC) FUCKING SUCKS IT MAKES ME WANT TO DIE

@@joshroehl6098 great song! Really inspired me to pop my ear drums! Keep it up man!

I know. I hope she's in a good place after all this. :(

that's what i was shouting for that entire part... it's like they just forgot about that fact?? gee...

I was hoping that they’d show him saying that he now wants to ghost her. TRIPLE GHOST!

FRR

but she said that she still loves him?????? that was the most confusing part for me

They all must have forgotten about the script at that point. Maybe this story is real or completely staged or somewhere in between. This is 'reality' TV after all.

This is probably gonna be the pinned comment

Me🤗

I’m here before that

LMAO

He got nominated but Danny won

Hey... Obsessive and possessive "personality traits" is not the way to put it. There are mental illnesses with that, such as bpd, dpd, and old. We don't need to demonize mental illness, especially those with a stigma around it.

@@NoctisTheBogWitch nobody even brought up mental illnesses though?? i agree mental illnesses and personality disorders shouldn't be stigmatized and demonized, but still those kinds of behaviors aren't okay

yeah don't worry it is

3/07/21: The day @knovis started using 2% of their brain

They dated for 6 months. I do not think time is the perfect indicator on the strength of the relationship. But still, how can you hold a flame for some one you have not seen longer than you were actually together?

Reality shows are notorious for editing footage out of context and coercing people to say/do things they don’t want to

Maybe she meant her dad?

Their.

@@adityabhandari5448 there is no point in my comment where “their” should be used

@@GravityFallsUp Arguably could say he's making jokes about 'their' personal life, as it was also his personal life :)

​@@snailb0y No they meant that the jokes were about both of their personal lives but tbh it was a pretty pointless correction lmao

@@Kn1cknackz0 oh that makes sense. I was like... I'm pretty sure "she/her" were the pronouns that both the show and Drew were using.

ye i hope that was made up just for this show too; can't imagine people paying to see _that_ smh

It’s not my kinda of stand up but it wasn’t terrible like he wasn’t bombing he was clearly just having fun

@Nirio he was making fun of the fact that she doesn’t know her dad and he was broadcasting their personal life to strangers. that’s not him having fun.

@@katam7299 “broadcasting her personal life” look up josh wolf or any comedian with a kid that’s what they do dipshit I mean it’s kinda shitty but it makes for good comedy

@@nirio1874 dude that's not the point. the point is that he crossed boundaries and didn't ask her whether his jokes were ok or not

this!!

yeah that’s lowkey rlly scary

that's exactly what i was thinking!!!!!! this can be so dangerous for people who were in abusive relationships

I heard its staged and they are paid actors

@@yaaassbitch8704 Ah I hope so!

This could be a PSA commercial about stalking, and when people you meet are a red flag.

Right! Every little detail about this is so creepy.

"just cause i'm a stalker"

He also refused to see any fault with himself until she broke down crying. And he kinda looks like Elliot Roger

she wasn't that bothered because she dated him for 6 months

hahahah fuck the problem is I always assume anyone I meet online that acts like that is too immature to NOT be a kid/young adult.... but no you can stay stupid apparently

I just wonder why some people laughed those "jokes" 😒

@@marivirtanen4506 even ignoring the fact that they were very disrespectful, they just weren't good jokes

We have more video proof to define a "neck beard."

This guy is accurate to those morons

@Ika Ayu why do you keep spamming this link into the comments?

@@toniseiler426 they r a bot

@@hebislay yeah a pretty annoying one

@@hebislay I was just playing botw when I saw your name

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"This guy making jokes and revealing my personal info and talking about my sex life really bothered me so I ghosted him!" "Wow, you know what would be great? If all of this was revealed on actual television :D"

@@awfulroffle fr. That’s invasion of her privacy and literally none of their business. It’s creepy and they should just leave her alone lol

I’m like 90% it’s mostly, if not entirely staged. It’d be way less work to stage everything than it would be to get waivers for everything and everyone involved as well as getting everyone on board with it.

when her friend said “who’s ross” lmaodndndbdhshsgd

Bruh this is so clearly staged. Just like the radio show drew references. Dont get angry over fictional chara tera

It's very fake though

@@theleafeon1 shit like this still happens tho :( all the time

@@scout4844 It's a teenybopper show on MTV, chillax

@@NeonCicada Why are you so defensive?

@@adeer87 Why do you perceive me as being defensive?

Also, what does half a virgin mean? He's only slept with a woman and not a man? He lost his straight virginity but not the gay half.

@@NateBeeman that seems to be what it means.

Yes. Yes he does.

I think MTV used to make that impression. I remember a show they had where it was like the bachelor but with bisexuals.

yeah that was really fucking gross

EXACTLY, I’m SO disappointed people are still like, BisExuals are untrustworthy, Thats so gross to say, It literally just means we’re attracted to all genders, IM BI AND 20 YEARS OLD AND IVE NEVER EVEN HAD MY FIRST KISS😭

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@@donthecrab that link is kinda sus, dont think ill click on it

@@cookiehawk You do not see the way.

@@donthecrab lol, someone stole my comment word for word

Holy shit, this has 1k likes! Thanks guys.

She didn't have to agree. It's a stupid fucking tv show made by MTV. She more likely signed a contract and this is scripted.

@@mojavecourier6987 well it sounds like she was ignoring the show people for awhile to the point they started contacting people in her life, so she probably felt the only way to get the show to stop harassing her was to go along with it.

@@indigocarra2762 I think that too. People from these shows can be really manipulative.

Can't believe people nowadays still think shows like this are real. I mean common, the video of the stand up show? That was so obviously fake and she was filming from like the second row, like he wouldn't see her lol

Yeah this was a big fuckin’ yikes

💀💀💀

“Half a virgin” is just a stolen line from Mean Girls.

hah

I could cry when looking at my like dislike ratio. I have so many jealous people that my videos always get way more dislikes than likes. Please don't be jealous, dear jim

They're actors, dude It's a scripted show, my guy

his jokes are based on shocking the audience and sexism. who tf even laughed there.

@@solala1312 probably misogynists

Drew? Yeah

Yeah the snippet of the routine we saw was just "Sex? mildly kinky sex? *waits for laughter and applause* " Painful.

The routine wasn't as offensive as it was straight up unoriginal. If it was me, I'd break up with him because he's a shitty comedian.

@@Alexdawaffwe it doesnt matter if its fake, its endorsing stalking your ex and forcing them to tell you why they ghosted you.

The way they framed it like “she learned not to ghost people anymore ;)” irritates me so much. She had every right to not want to speak to him.

That dude seems like a venerable narcissist. The girl probably didn't know how to socialise with someone that's socially manipulative. I agree that she probably didn't wanna be on the show at first, however I suspect she got paid for it and a chance to be on telly isn't that bad a deal. I thought the crew handled her pretty well actually.....that dude however, he got thrown under the bus like hot garbage. So to be fair, if she had been emotionally mature enough to communicate like an adult with the person she was dating....none of that mishegoss would have occurred. Antisocial behaviours like "ghosting" someone is problematic in relationships and should be a red flag. The dude was (essentially) stalking her. That's why you always give them closure when you break up. 😞 I'm not saying she's entirely at fault, only that she was 50% of the problem there.

Than

@@cookiehawk yeah, at least catfish was much better compared to this..

That’s the joke lol

Who else would the ‘he’ be? It’s the joke

Ikr there's no way 🤣🤣 this show was written my a group of incels that want to live in a world where their creepy and misogynistic antics are accepted and actually work

@@Merpsicles Also don't forget the casual biphobia of saying she's experienced because she's bisexual like the fuck those things are not related.

especially since she’s apparently in a relationship currently??? there’s no way she’d say that

It’s so stupid and fake..

Yeah exactly

'and i went out of my way to hide those jokes from her bc i knew she wouldn't like it so i don't get why she doesn't like me doing it now'

Ikr

It's a total mystery.

she's way too dramatic about it though. Like this must be extremely fake. Ok in the moment you could feel hurt or even break up, but 9+ months later and this girl has moved on and has a relationship but she's still crying? About what? Because a guy exposed her daddy kink????? ????

@@lIlIllIlIllIlllIllIIIIIIIIIlII That itself is a insensitive thing to say. She was already going through quite a bit and she could be a very sensitive person. I myself know what it is like for people to make jokes about you about things you told them personally to others. Even if your name isn't told or anything, it still hurts, especially if you have dealt with things like bullying, loss, etc.

Ghosting is a coward's way out. Person ghosting might have closure but other parties don't, it's easier to process with a reason than a mystery. It happened to me before and took six months to get what I did wrong out of my head daily (was April to September 2020, so during lockdown and couldn't go out for obvious reasons) and another six months without it occasionally popping up or asked about. I'd still like to know what happened since it was so good for two years talking with 16 months dating with no disagreements but ultimately I'm too good for her if that's how she'll handle the end. So just end the relationship with understanding is over for both to move on in a healthy way.

​@@nickmoney Of course ghosting can be really harmful, but sometimes ghosting is needed in really abusive relationships. The abuser can be manipulative and able to keep the other from leaving or realizing how bad the relationship is. Sometimes, they need to be completely cut off to be escaped.

@@taitia8619 If it's an abusive relationship or manipulative one then ghosting won't help. You just piss them off and you'll never escape them, so if that's the case you need to break up via text or something that can have a paper trail. If you don't and they track you down and something happens to you or your family there is no evidence or cause because you just ghosted them. Usually ghosting happens when they cheat and can't face consequences.

@@nickmoney Abusive doesn't always mean murderous, but I see your point. In those cases, the lack of paper trail can be a problem. But in an emotionally manipulative relationship where there are people who love making their friend/partner/etc feel bad about themselves, who feed off of that, the person being abused needs to get away, any way they can. A friend who will talk shit about you behind your back and never admit it to your face, a family member who will gaslight you until you start to doubt your reality, a partner who will tear you down at any opportunity. Sometimes, these people can't be reasoned with, only escaped.

@@taitia8619 If it's emotionally abusive like that who you can't face, text break up then block and still send scariest family member that won't be f'd to get your stuff and put them in their place. Maybe my two decades in sales tells me that closing is the best option whether it be clean or dirty. Also the ex who ghosted me I recently found out has a two and half year old and confirmed have been cheating, used COVID and lockdown as cover to never tell me. I ran into her coworkers who didn't know what happened and they asked about how often see my daughter with her and it'd be impossible as we never did that dance yet. That's one reason why and what happens when you ghost I guess, shame she couldn't tell me or I'd have helped.

Ghosting is nowhere as bad as catfishing. People have reasons ☠️

yeah especially if you blocked someone.

@@jasmineprime7422 the only justifiable reason I can think of is you’re very self conscious and hate your identity so you decide to change it just for a little bit every day. You try to convince someone else that this charade you keep up is real. Then you break their heart because you’ve built a relationship with them through texting and you can’t expose your true personality and appearance.

@@jasmineprime7422 It's betraying someone's trust, lying and manipulation vs dodging potential danger, fear of confrontation and anxiety. You get the point ☠️

@@jasmineprime7422 Oh yeah I do agree. Both of them are terrible nonetheless. Although there's no valid reason for catfishing, ghosting has some. But then again, it's more common to be ghosted than catfished. Some people, if not in a danger situation should def give closure before parting ways cause *That. Shit. Hurts* lol.

I ghosted the person I dated for 2 years because I got sick of the abuse and was genuinely terrified that I'd be killed if I ever went back or talked to her again. If I got tracked down and forced to talk to her, I don't think my mental health would be able to take it.

It's disgusting. And is messing up the minds of girls.

I also had a stalker and he kept bothering me on fb and its one of the reasons why i dont have any social media now other than yt and pinterest. I also ghosted someone ive been talking to for 7months,i just realized i dont like him he was weird af, says rude stuff and insulting without realizing it wtf,he acts like hes so smart

I saw a guy for 5 days & broke things off because he got manipulative and told me "I wasn't ready for a relationship" (??). He proceeded to call my phone numerous times and message me on different apps even after I told him he was scaring me, wait for me outside my uni hall of residence, death stare me & my friends whenever we were in the same eating hall/class, and told all his friends I was a whore. THEN came up to me at the uni ball (I didn't see him coming so that scared the shit out of me) and ask to dance??? I've moved cities and it's been almost 2 years but he's still blocked on everything. I'm scared to think what he would've done if we'd had a thing longer than a week...

There you are!!! Been looking all over for you. Mostly in the bushes outside your house. Ok sorry thats not funny stalkers are f'ed up.

Not to mention how normalising his actions and making him the protagonist will only go on to enable more predatory behaviour like his. I hope to god someone knocked some sense into him after this and he fixed himself and apologised

she was probably in her living room or something having a normal good day then all of a sudden her dms r blowing up and her phone is ringing just because these nosy tv producers want her to sit in a studio and talk about why she ghosted some loser and had sex a couple years ago in front of a camera and to broadcast to a few thousand people (i refuse to believe more than like 20k people actually watch mtv more specifically watch this show)

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@Vilfredo Pareto ok

That girl was soft and has 0 sense of humor. He should be happy they broke up

Y

"are you a creepy incel who got dumped by a girl you liked even though you just talked shit about her? stalk her until she sits in a room with you and tell her she's an idiot for being traumatised by you!"

It's really telling. Whoever produced this is showing the way they think.

People love it tho sadly

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preach

Lol same. This man was so gross

This is so sad 😰😢😢 get well soon 😔😪

Me too

me too pal 💔

especially considering they were only together for six??

he was stalking her for 9 months and she was in a relationship during the same 9 months. not 18 months.

@blau woods either way, the way that this show is clearly trying to normalize this behavior is ridiculous. that's arguably worse than the behavior itself.

I don't really know if it's scary, it's just sad. No wait yeah it is pretty scary,

YESSS FIRST TO VERIFIED DUDE Edit: Though I do agree on the misleading title

Same! Those liars have taken it to far this time.

@@hector07.42 there's also a massive lack of proton packs & containment units.

What if they are people that hated the person they were dating so much that they killed themselves, then turned into ghosts and literally ghosted them? Then they have to do a crossover with a ghost hunting show to sit her down and ask her why she literally ghosted...

@@wolfhawk1999 now thats a show i would DEF watch!

I watched this whole episode, and what he was actually upset about was her not confronting him. EDIT: I highly recommend watching the episode before this one: season 1 episode 1. They help two best friends reunite. It’s what I wish the whole show was like.

@@nickc3657 It’s not her job to tell him to be a better person?

@@nickc3657 he knew already the jokes were inappropriate and wildly hurtful, that's why he wouldn't tell her about the comedy shows. he had every opportunity to bring it up or change his material but he kept doing it for SIX MONTHS! obviously she didn't feel safe or comfortable enough to confront him about it, he probably would've made a "joke" about that too. it's literally entirely his fault

Ok, obviously I touched a nerve lol- I’m not defending Mr. Demi-virgin. Just trying to clear up a plot point based on what I remember from the show.

And he’s literally the ultimate soyboy

I hope you find it :C

Nice pfp :D

Did you check under the bed? Behind the couch? Where did you have it last? Have you tried retracing your steps?

@@Crithosceleg this is like the cutest, funniest and weirdest response I've seen in a while. I love it

i honestly wished in the ad he had said “I’m a world renowned half a chef”

I know. I actually thought it was illegal

not to mention, they were literally guilttripping her over the phone to get her to go talk

Yea but also you would be a grown adult who can say "no" and move on

@@ghostly7139 lots of women have self confidence issues or have trouble saying no. Plus, it's easy to say "she could've just said no" when you're a outsider looking in.

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Agreed

i like your pfp!!

i've seen it first hand! my mom had to get restraining order against her ex.

why the hell did 3 spamers target your comment, lol Edit: 4

It reminds me of that spongebob ep where he made fun of squirrels

If he didn’t hide it from her then it may look more like he’s just dumb. The fact he hid it sows he knew wth he was doing.

Right! Abusive people almost always know what they are doing is reprehensible. That's why they always try so hard to trick their victims into thinking it's no big deal. "It was just a joke!" He said. But...who was the punchline???

Secrecy is a red flag! Abusive folks try to hide the heinous stuff they're doing that affects others. They don't want to face the consequences, secrecy helps them avoid responsibility!

To say the least

@Vilfredo Pareto its creepy and awkward

@Vilfredo Pareto whats the benefit of putting effort on something people will dislike anyway

Yep

@Vilfredo Pareto Can’t argue with that since the economy supports these bad shows

@Ika Ayu what.

ok so i love your profile picture

@@neptoons3223 its spam. Report it

@@Fresh_Biscuits oh

It's MTV. Trash shows are what they do now

Same. I had to "ghost" my ex cause they were an abusive dick, and they still tried stalking me for a year or two after the fact. Had to completely change my online identity just to get them to leave me alone. This shit isn't fun.

Having to block but still watch new accounts trying to contact you is the worst. Like i cannot even have a normal fucking life on social media withouth having a whole lot of anxiety of a creepy jerk trying to spam you with crap. Like i wish i could just act online as I want to, and not as i _have_ to for a creepy guy. Thank god we're on different continents but last year i panicked so hard when i opened my personal email (For bank, school and serious stuff only) and found like 4 mails from different GMails but from the same 'stalker' (I don't know if to call him that because we used to be friends for like 7 or 8 months and ended up cutting ties with him for making me feel like shit) trying to gaslight me to talk to him and then cursing and insulting me to no end. I had no memory of ever giving him that email, and it had my reall full name on it. I'm still so creeped out. Some months ago he found my new discord and messaged me acting like a different person. Like i can't even know if who i'm talking to isn't him disguised. I genuinely can't trust making new friends or doing anything normal. It sickens me so much though i know it's not as bad as it could be.

@@Fumbann i go to the same school as the guy that’s harassing me and i have practically cut all ties with everyone there in fear they are friends with him trying to get to me. he found my phone number and gave it out to his friends and found my neighbors address and thinks it’s mine. it’s sick we can even relate on this, that there are so many people in the world that think and act this way that we have similar experiences.

@@kaatsuki7127 That is so terrible oh god. I'm so sorry that you have to go through that and in real life too. If it's possible it'd help so much if you change your phone number if you think it's getting dangerous, I had to change mine around that time I got the creepy mails but for other coincidental reasons and I'm very glad I did. I hope you stay safe

@@Fumbann i might and i hope you are safe too. i’m so sorry that u go through that too. fuck mtv

that’s exactly what happened, he really is disgusting. 🤢

I don't think that's particularly true, he seems like a somewhat genuine guy that did really like her, but at the same time I get that the jokes weren't taken well... However, when I have friends who make jokes about me I don't leave them forever, I go to them and communicate with them, if they do it again then okay fair, she just straight ghosted him, didn't even give him a chance to apologize cuz her ego was bruised. Have you heard the shit Kevin Hart or Gabriel Iglesias says about their love lives, they said much worst jokes. Especially kevin about how freaky women he's dealt with are. she's just too sensitive, which isn't necessarily bad but she should have been mature enough to atleast communicate with him, rather than secretly go to his show to hear one bad joke, that's like me secretly going to my gf work place and hearing her say something bad about me so I dump her, it's stupid cuz I guarantee every person you been with had had thought atleast one bad thing about you.

@@akkoismydaughter3573 yep, it’s the woman that needed to learn communication and be more mature, and it’s the woman whose ego was bruised and was too sensitive. Not the guy who knowingly made shitty and toxic stand up jokes behind his partner’s back, and then berated her for getting mad at him for it. Not the guy who tracked down his ex months after the relationship had ended, when she was already in another relationship and more time had passed since they’d been together than when they’d actually been together. Not the guy who thinks he can still be the comforting white knight, saying “it’s ok” to his crying ex after he tracked her down, made her confess her personal life in the spotlight, and then rejected her immediately after. It’s probably mostly fake anyway, because I can’t imagine she would actually still love the guy after all of this shit, so this argument is likely pointless. However, if we’re really going to moralize these people and analyze them, one is clearly more flawed than the other.

@@macknight2352 @Mac Knight nah I'm not saying the guy wasn't shitty himself, he def could have been more mature, and not be a stalker. I just feel like it's all being put on the guy becuz he's clearly more flawed and has bad way of doing things, while we are overlooking what the women could have done better. Just put it into perspective, the jokes he made was about her freakiness, nothing was about her having dad issues or her personal baggage, just jokes he most likely thought would be relatable, and to be fair when he said thanks for the pta for the girls I do want, yeah that was honestly a part that bothered me, but it is stand up, you don't watch Kevin Hart and think those stories are the real him, you know they are a bit exaggerating to be more funny, you know he's partly in there but you know you can't base all his intentions off his jokes, so I get why she lost her trust at that part, but if he really wanted other girls he wouldn't have cared when she dumped him, you don't care about closure if you don't like the women. Look I ain't tryna make an argument out of this just giving a different perspective, we don't have to agree with eachother but all I'm saying is that guy is flawed and he needs to work on himself, but she definitely is just as flawed and she expects a guy to accept all her baggage, which is how it should be, but as soon as he makes one fuck up, she doesn't even try to accept his and give a chance, she just goes instantly to blocking which is petty becuz you know she did that to make him feel some type cuz she felt some type herself. And then she's crying cuz a man said she's too freaky, get over it, if your crying cuz someone said that, you most likely are, and even if not, why do you honestly care?

@@akkoismydaughter3573 if somebody talks about you behind your back, you have no obligation to "hear them out". She didn't attack or try to argue with him, she exited a situation and relationship she didn't want to be in. It's not her fault he couldn't let go after ALMOST A YEAR. if you want to forgive someone that's your choice, but don't blame someone for not putting up with toxic behavior.

literally- some people think that just cause they're bi that they sleep around and that they have double the experience , it's honestly gross

Obviously this means that dude wants to get pegged.

Yeah that's a really annoying thing people believe; 'bisexuals are sex fiends.'

She slept with the tinderella host after choosing "Brian" and then the main guy who she dated for six months, also he said she dated girls back to back so this has nothing to do with bisexuals she actually sleeps around a ton

that literally doesn't change that direct comparison he made, he could've said she's more sexually active and that he's half a virgin, her sexuallity is completely irrelevant to the subject + mentioning it at all when talking about how promiscuous someone is spreads false stereotypes that create more biphobia

Yeah, they actually try to shame her for doing the right thing and cutting a toxic little shit out of her life.

Bruh that type of thinking is toxic, that mindset isn't gonna work becuz relationships are all about trust, I get why she feels like that though she didn't want a guy making sex jokes about her but vulnerability is something that hurts us all, it's part of being in a relationship, you know your risking getting hurt Everytime you get in a relationship

nothing wrong with ghosting tbh,it could be healthier to avoid than to confront,who knows what he would have done/said to her.

@@akkoismydaughter3573 those of us who have been hurt repeatedly are aware of that. We also know that trusting has gotten us hurt and that it will keep happening if we continue doing what we're doing. I have the same mindset as this woman. I keep others at a distance until they earn my trust, and that is not easy. If I try to change and be more trusting and get hurt again, I will go into a very dark place mentally. The past few years have been very hard for me and my family and I've had to fight to keep myself together so I can earn a living and support us, rather than have a breakdown. I am not going to change. This is what works for me. If someone doesn't want to put in time and work to get me to trust them, they can look for someone who's had an easier life.

@@janeeyre1990 First of all, I get where your coming from cuz there aren't many you can trust nowadays, and you should never fully trust somebody, atleast not until you seen their best and worst. At the same time, never let horrible men of your past change how you treat the men of your future. There ain't nothing wrong with keeping your distance from people you invest in, but do you want someone to be in a relationship with the fake you or real you. You can't build with someone if you don't know what type of wood they are using. If you want someone to accept you for who you are, how are they gonna do that if they don't know what makes you who you are. At some point your gonna have to tell them who you are... It's fine if it takes a while, infact it should, it shouldn't have to be that you automatically trust your partner in the beginning unless your good friends Had she not told him anything those jokes on sexuality he made probably still would have been said, and she'd still be offended but have no right to feel offended then. But rather he'd say it again or not, shouldn't matter. I highly doubt he made those jokes to take advantage of her vulnerability. She says she learned to put walls up but it's all becuz of jokes he made about her being freaky, not about her being sexually harassed. Her putting walls up was clearly out of emotions. Nothing wrong with emotions but it can't be the driving force out of reaction

Omg I thought I was the only person to catch that and I felt crazy

Right?? I thought that was such a creepy and lowkey misogynistic thing to say. Especially considering the jokes he made about her.

I didn't even notice the biphobia in that statement 🤢

i was shocked bc this sounded like early 2000's branded biphobia like??? this guy is such a jerk.

yeah that’s what i was thinking-

so disgusting...anyways twice world domination 💙

just the response of “it was a joke ohmygod” made me wanna dropkick him.

Oh my God why are you being so mean to me, all I did was make jokes at your expense without consulting you, then intentionally tried to hide it from you, and then finally stalked you for months after you broke up with me.

Classic gaslighting

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exactly!! like yeah being ghosted sucks, especially if you've had time & a bond to get invested in that person. but more time can heal almost anything, and if the alternative to moving on with one's life is essentially getting an entire cast & crew to "pursue" (harass) a past infatuation so you learn why they left you, that's super pathetic. why would anyone even WANT to go through all that for a bond with a person they KNOW doesn't want them? and even worse, who the hell would want to be on a show basically geared towards overly clingy people with no dignity? have some pride, folks. rant over lmao

Why are so many ppl jus replying with a link and no context... im not clicking on them just like that

@@PakuZero its most likely self-promotion or just a bot

@@somethingswrongwithyou9133 Nope, They were some weird damn videos like a cooking video filmed like a powerpoint and some weird alien elf woman.

I was seeing red flags when he said he went behind her back to get her email after he was originally rejected

Exactly, I'm currently being stalked by my abusive ex, and I genuinely got really pissed off when I heard that, really not a good message, it took me way too long to build up the courage to ghost, often people, especially women have no other choice but to ghost / block, for their safety and the fact that they basically put the blame on them is so fucked

If they had the moral be "stalking is bad" then they'd have to admit that their own show is bad since it's built off of stalking someone lmao

the way they told her that she ‘learned her lesson’ when she didn’t do a single thing wrong. she was 100% the victim, not him, this is so disgusting

I hated him the second he opened his mouth and said those words 🙄🙄🙄

Trying to understand the logic in this is stunting my brain growth.

@@Deg40000 my logic or his??

@@evat267 his logic

@@rosieandre6121 (coming from a bisexual) correct me if I’m wrong, but aren’t pan/poly/omnisexuals technically bisexual as well? Like they’re more specific terms the same way that agender/genderfluid/bigender/other are all part of the non-binary and transgender umbrella terms. So then obviously it’s totally fine for you to just say you’re bi as well, even if you know you are more specifically omni. Also, slightly unrelated but can you describe your own definition of omnisexuality? I’ve only heard one other person’s experience before and I’m curious just how universal that was (so I can THEN see how accurate my own definition is! C: )

Right I was waiting to see someone say this. He confidently said those two things as if they're at all related 🙄

Ikr and I'm both.

Fr, a bad boyfriend and biphobic 😔

i know... it’s like implying all bisexuals are promiscuous... ://

When bae has blond hair but I have blue eyes 😢